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| 10 | Just smile.I'm weird and spend time in /r/amiugly. 90% of the time, a person seems "ugly" because they don't smile. 90% of the time, the person isn't really "ugly" underneath some superficial changes. Another thing, I agree it's very strange many people do not smile without a clear reason. I rarely see people smiling at music concerts and festivals, it's so unusual considering it should be a place people are happy to be. Finding the people who ARE smiling is a good way to find people you want to be around.… | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Please help. Driving myself crazy.First, alcohol is a depressant and it can detriment your game. Second, failure is a part of the process and life; sometimes no matter what you do you're going to fail. Practice some serenity and equanimity. You say "I just don't know what I'm doing wrong." Have you considered you might not be doing anything wrong? Third, do you really want to spend your last semester in anguish? Maybe consider some other priorities, like spending time with friends you might not see again for a long time, making … | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 06:59 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate properly?Was it more than that you wanted to kiss her? Did she actually seem ready for a kiss on the lips? Escalation really takes escalation. Start with light touching, light eye contact, heavier touching, sustained touching, hugging, heavy eye contact, lip glances, kisses on the head, kisses on the hands, kisses on the neck, kisses on the cheek, THEN on the lips. Warm her up, different positions, different postures, different moves. It kind of parallels the mini-date concept, get her comfortable sequen… | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 06:49 AM |
| 1 | One word responsesIt's good that you noticed the disparity in effort of communicating. I take note whenever it seems like I'm the one texting more frequently or with more words. If it carries on for too long or it becomes frustrating, you can either walk away or call her out on it. Personally, I figure there's nothing to lose in bringing up the issue before walking away. Maybe she's too nervous to say more. Maybe she's too busy. Maybe she's not interested. In any case, don't take it personally. | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 06:36 AM |
| 8 | Should I take a break from this?I quit drinking, barring, and clubbing five years ago. Socializing became more challenging, but I don't regret it. There was a time I was really into seddit, going out, and I learned a lot of great stuff that helped me become more of who I wanted to be. I learned I didn't have to be afraid of or passive towards others, that I can actively engage life and pursue my own happiness. Most of life isn't as shitty and petty as the bar and club scene. I think that scene draws really shallow people. In a… | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 06:17 AM |
| 7 | Friendzoned with Best Friend, Cut Contact, Now She's Begging for Friendship Back, What Now?Did she really do anything wrong? OP mentioned he was a pussy the whole time. Not sure how she lead OP on, either. He mentions in comments that she did, but not how. I agree in that a boundary needed to be drawn, but is it really the girl's fault because OP wasn't clear about what he wanted in the relationship? Seems like the pretense was always friendship and she's genuinely lost a friend. | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 06:02 AM |
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