columbo_mayne Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Something's missing from my manhood - I feel unfuckable. Not a successful redpill guy and also a virgin. I'm a deeply fucked up loser beta. BUT that being said one thing that helped me back in the day with overthinking was journaling, like journaling an inventory of shit I did that day, EVERYTHING I was thinking about, worrying about, etc... if you do it for a few weeks and keep consistent with it I find your brain quiets down. You gotta start pulling on threads and untangle that mess.	/r/TheRedPill	05/01/26 05:17 AM
16	If you want to sleep with a woman you are attracted to you might have to do things to woo her I think a lot of blackpill / incel spaces are big on "if she's really attracted to you, she'll pursue you" "chad doesn't have to take her on dates" etc. Again, like a lot of incel stuff, can be disappointingly true in some cases. But vast majority of men, especially those with happy and fulfilled sex lives, will have to woo a woman to win her. It is a "protracted process"	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/26 06:28 PM
6	LVM saying they prefer non-virgins but yet claiming to be “secure” is counterintuitive. There's a lot of interesting debate that's being covered by other users in this thread, but I will say on the flipside, as a low-value virgin male, it is a nice fantasy that a slutty, slutty woman would fall for me due to me charming and effervescent personality. But it is a fantasy...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 03:03 AM
0	Redpill teaches men things to avoid but is extremely damaging to having real relationships Pre-emptively avoiding suffering is inevitably going to result in pre-emptively avoiding rewarding life experiences like (and you can call me a cornball!) falling in love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 06:41 PM
2	Redpill teaches men things to avoid but is extremely damaging to having real relationships Yes that's true I think feminism has a hand in this also	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 04:09 PM
2	Redpill teaches men things to avoid but is extremely damaging to having real relationships I mean like, you break up with a girl, but it's because of some difference in values, or life paths, or something that means something to you other than - "damn I guess that bitch divorced me so she could take half my shit." Stuff like that obviously happens and I think it's what makes people bitter about relationships in general, when you stop being able to look at relationships as something other than transactional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 03:24 PM
18	Redpill teaches men things to avoid but is extremely damaging to having real relationships I think one of the heartbreaking things about RP stuff is that it's fed to young men - by which I mean like, guys 12-22 internalize this stuff and have all the bitterness and weight of a 50 year old guy with two divorces under his belt. When you're young it is okay to a) trust women naïvely and b) get your heart broken in the right way, and instead you've got 15 year olds looking out for gold diggers - like bro just buy her the slurpee at 7/11, give her a little kiss and be happy for as long as …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 03:08 PM
6	Q4W: How do you reconcile the average man's experiences with your observations? Damn, where are you from? I'm tired of living in a cold polite culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 07:34 PM
12	The DL trend exists, because there is connection between homophobia and benevolent sexism. IMO, competitiveness among men exists as a proxy for getting women. Men who fail in this competition are "not men" => "effeminate" => "gay." Hence, nothing is women's fault, and there are only failure men, not women who make bad dating decisions, have too high standards, etc. - I don't know if I agree with either of the attitudes I'm presenting here, but I think that's what you're getting at?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 04:10 AM
18	Are men and women even compatible in relationships? I don't have a real response to every one of your points, but it was pointed out to me that once the tech for artificial wombs or artificial insemination becomes more accessible you're going to see more and more male-female social contracts breakdown - maybe even society as a whole starting to break down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 01:18 AM
–	Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex. I think there's an odd duality where whenever a man gets rejected by one woman, he feels like he's being rejected by all of womankind forever, and when a man wants to have sex, a woman feels like he very specifically wants to have sex with them right now. Like: rejection by one woman : rejection generally woman kind forever :: men generally want sex : the one man saying this to you wants sex with you right now in this instant It's just a fundamental grossout for women the same way rejection is a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 04:33 AM
17	[Q4W] Have you noticed different dating results across your average guy friends? Convinced this is a solid... idk 70% of the escalation of gender conflicts today. Even normal well-adjusted people might have lost out on their "late college bloom"	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/25 08:33 PM
1	I think the red pill enables women to take less accountability This is a great point. I think you're getting at the central problem of the current model of gender relations: on an individual level, the "optimal" choice when dealing with the opposite sex is to be maximally sociopathic. I think religious arrangements - as oppressive as they might have been for women - probably led to the prosperous society we have today. They placed sanctions against individualistic behaviour and permitted men and women to enter into relationships with some level of guarantee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 01:59 AM