It does allow for more money in welfare, food stamps, and wic. It isn't living a privileged life by any stretch, but it does buy votes. I believe that if you're on benefits birth control should be mandatory until such a time when you can support your children.
The shortage of men is directly correlated with the over abundance of women's studies and the like college graduates. No one wants to marry a third wave feminist academic.
Honestly I would feel like a failure to him by doing this and where I live terrible women get custody and alimony in cases where they deserve to be charged with abuse. Family court is a perversion of justice.
I am in the same boat partner my wife is an ungrateful mean spirited selfish bitch. The thing is while I want to divorce her I don't want my 1 year old son to be raised by her with visits with me on the weekends. Someone has to protect him from her awfulness.
Whatever country you live on where being a man in a custody battle is favorable it is not that way here. I watched several close friends lose custody or be given split but not equal custody to women I would not trust with caring for a gold fish.
Studies have shown that the numbers of abusers are far closer together than charges would show. I would bet that female abusers are far less likely to be charged because of the bias. Many LEOs are macho type guys and this is encouraged and even almost needed for the job. Due to this if a guy calls the police on an abusive wife he could end up arrested not just disbelieved.