comerbynight Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Both Takes Are Awful John Green did not write the Notebook, his other works include Looking for Alaska, Turtles All the Way Down, and Paper Towns. Afaik none of his other works have cancer in them as prominently as that one.	/r/EverydayMisandry	07/08/26 09:07 PM
16	Both Takes Are Awful The book was also written by a man, and the male love-interest is the one who dies at the end while the main character survives	/r/EverydayMisandry	07/08/26 01:30 PM
22	My thoughts on how feminism is especially damaging to leftist men Ironically, by accepting misandry into their ranks, the more covert forms of misogyny tend to persist in feminist spaces too (one form of which is benevolent misogyny or the "women are wonderful" effect). Not just sexism either; ableism, racism, transphobia, classism, and any other form of hatred can fester and grow when you begin to tolerate any kind of hatred based on immutable characteristics. If your goal is a better world then all of it has to go, not just the kinds that affect you personal…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/05/26 07:43 PM
22	Autistic men are not "coddled" I will not pretend to be an expert on the subject, but the primary explanation I have come across for why black boys and men are coddled is due to an attempts to overcorrect for their mistreatment in the racist system we all live in. And to be fair, there are plenty of examples where the bad actions of black men are more readily explained away or ignored in high-profile cases even on the political left such as MLK's infidelity and many men in the Black Panther Party displaying overtly misogynist…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/05/26 04:14 PM
43	Autistic men are not "coddled" I am inclined to agree with you, and would like to add some nuance to this conversation.There is a similar prevailing belief in black feminist/womanist spaces that black men and boys in general are similarly coddled, but as someone who is both black and autistic (likely undiagnosed 2e, with all three therapists I have seen pointing out that I display many of the signs and just need a formal assessment to confirm) that has not at all been my experience, though part of that may also be because I a…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/05/26 03:29 PM
6	Can we stop pretending men aren't indoctrinated by the exact same system as everyone else? You're probably thinking of the concept of hypo- vs. hyper-agency, traits which are ascribed to women and men respectively, or something to that effect. In short, the idea is that women are perceived to be objects that are acted upon while men are subjects who act. It pops up all the time in feminist discourse, it's difficult to ignore once you become aware of it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/05/26 03:05 AM
2	Feminist try not to be misandry's challenge very hard I'm so tired of people like this acting as if this is a male-only phenomenon like some women don't talk about how they shaved everything when going to see their favorite male artist (often "joking" about how they're happily married but did it anyway) or comment "raw, next question" under any conventionally attractive man with a crumb of charisma. I would even go so far as to say that I see this way more than I see what OOP is describing, though that might just be my algorithm. The pseudo-psychol…	/r/EverydayMisandry	03/05/26 10:35 PM
33	Hate how easy it is to encounter the idea that men are potential rapists. The first slide is objectively incorrect. It's quite literally a lie that people started on the Internet and people ran with. There is no evidence to suggest that male necrophilia affects hiring practices at morgues. Such statements are only able to gain traction and be accepted as truth because it confirms people's biases and prejudices. Source: https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/do-morgues-prefer-hiring-women-because-of-necrophilia/ Edit: Removed my rant about maternal mortality as it wasn't re…	/r/EverydayMisandry	07/04/26 06:22 PM
52	Post in r/science claims women are better off after their husbands die, comments are as you’d expect. Yeah, there was a post there the other day about genetic factors that might influence suicide (including sex) and the comments trotted out the same tired cliches about men having more access to firearms and men choosing more violent/effective methods compared to women, who are oh so concerned about the mess they'll leave. Nearly all of them, of course, completely ignoring that the study in question was done in a place with very few guns, the most popular methods were pretty consistent across gen…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/03/26 12:36 AM
20	Sexist homophobic rant and everyone calls it feminism Do they keep this same energy for the women who support those same policies that infringe on their basic human rights? Assuming this person is from the US, or any western democracy really, then I can bet a pretty large contingent of their fellow women are voting right along with those men they claim to hate. But I'm guessing those women are just poor victims of the patriarchy who had their agency stripped from them, right?	/r/EverydayMisandry	03/03/26 11:30 AM
9	People Will Say a Man Hates His Wife Over Literally Anything The body text of his post indicates he said "goodbye" to her that morning before leaving the note. I'm sure he had an actual conversation with her then.	/r/EverydayMisandry	25/01/26 12:12 PM
2	The lack of self awareness is astounding I am struggling to understand why she was offended by this professor's actions or how this being his takeaway from the MeToo movement is a bad thing. Surely making it clear to everyone else in the department that nothing he is doing or saying to students in his office will warrant accusations of any type of misconduct would be a good thing that puts people at ease, no? It could be argued that "accusations from female students" is less than stellar phrasing of his justifications, but I fail to se…	/r/EverydayMisandry	17/01/26 01:07 AM
17	Imagine If This Was a Gay Man Body Shaming Women Body shaming and dehumanization very often go hand in hand, and I think that's the case here too. She doesn't see men as humans because she does not find their bodies attractive, the same way men are often accused of not seeing "unattractive" women as people. Of course, the main point here is that this is just a gross double standard.	/r/EverydayMisandry	24/09/25 11:33 PM
7	When will the ridiculous generalizations end? But all of those methods of "eliminating male births" still require the assistance of and/or interaction with men (since at least for now and probably for the foreseeable future, though I have heard of attempts to synthesize sperm from the cells of women, men are still one half of the process of fertilizing an egg). I don't doubt that there are misandrist men who would participate in these practices, but if the goal is to completely avoid all contact with men forever (even the ones the misandris…	/r/EverydayMisandry	03/09/25 11:54 AM
15	When will the ridiculous generalizations end? Does this person believe that only men are born or something? How exactly will not reproducing get rid of men without also getting rid of women? I don't even want to get into how the "feminine energy" bs is just straight up repackaged right wing, bioessentialist schlock that reinforces the scummy men OOP claims to hate.	/r/EverydayMisandry	02/09/25 10:32 PM
1	Not all men, defending it, is defending misandry For sure, it's just mind boggling to me that they would even lie about that statistic. Lying about this stuff just keeps the problem of SA from being adequately addressed. I'm well aware that it's primarily a small amount of repeat offenders, but plenty of feminists hear this statistic and just default to 99% of men are rapists because no one understands statistics.	/r/EverydayMisandry	29/08/25 03:32 AM
46	Not all men, defending it, is defending misandry I'm not going to take anyone seriously who genuinely believes that 99% of all rapes are committed by men. There's literally no need to lie about the actual numbers (unless of course you have an agenda, which this woman clearly does).	/r/EverydayMisandry	26/08/25 06:49 PM
26	Woman got cosmetic surgery and regrets it ? Men's fault No, see, women don't actually like that look on men. They prefer a myriad of other unrealistic looks that are just as unattainable, so that one unrealistic, unattainable look that men are pressured to have is also the fault of other men (/s just in case)	/r/EverydayMisandry	22/08/25 03:50 PM
19	Mamdani the "Incel" Black men deal with very similar issues, though it could be argued that our fetishization has a much longer and more pervasive history. I have lost count of the amount of times people (including my friends) have talked about my body in ways that felt flattering at the time but which I've grown to feel dehumanized by, especially when it is clear that I am not actually seen as desirable outside of that aspect or worthy of romance at all.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/07/25 05:08 PM
18	I Doubt That Any Man Is Actually Having Sex with Her Eh, I wouldn't say the straight feminist woman is super rare, at least if we use the colloquial definition of "feminism" (which is itself quite divorced from the original meaning and intention of the movement, which was equality between the sexes and not just female empowerment or retaliatory misandry). I do think "radfems" like Monique Wittig here are a different story, though even then I doubt most of them even know who she is or that she even said this anti-materialist drivel. Feminism, even …	/r/EverydayMisandry	04/07/25 05:08 PM
54	I Doubt That Any Man Is Actually Having Sex with Her Do straight feminist women even like men?	/r/EverydayMisandry	04/07/25 04:13 PM