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| 1 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."Sounds like you're putting more into this than she is and to her you're becoming a friend who happens to have a crush on her. The universal truth of a male who says he's in the "friend zone" is that the male is accepting a relationship that he doesn't want in order to accommodate a woman. If you want to be her friend that's great. If not, stop being her friend. My advice is to date someone else. And I don't mean that as "give up on this girl entirely and move on". I mean, when she calls and asks… | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 02:34 AM |
| 6 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."Maybe the pedestal isn't the best metaphor here... It's more like a see-saw, with you and her seated at each end. Some guys put the girl down, so she thinks she isn't worthy of anyone better than him. Others (such as yourself) lift her up so far that she wonders why she's with you at all. The ideal is to be at the same height and see each other as equals in the relationship see-saw. So start treating her like your equal, and call her out if she doesn't do the same. | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 11:37 AM |
| 2 | "If you put a girl up on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you."It's also one of the primary tenants of Zen Buddhism. You can feel worry about the future, or regret about the past, but you can only feel joy in the present. | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 11:28 AM |
| 1 | AA whenever there's an audience, any tips for NGAF?Confidence is not being emotionally effected by the thoughts/judgements of others (or fear thereof). That doesn't mean you should discard other people's opinions entirely. If they think you're "putting on an act" to pick up women, then you probably haven't internalized some things that need to be internalized. If they're being douchebags just to be douchebags, then you might consider not hanging out with these not-really-friends. | /r/seduction | 10/05/14 11:23 AM |
| 1 | AA whenever there's an audience, any tips for NGAF?Your friends should not be impeding you here. In fact, they should be helping you overcome your current limitations. You should probably sort this out with them first. I try not to drill things into my brain as 'canned strategies', but no phrase has been more valuable in a group situation than "So how do you guys know each other?". People love talking about themselves, and girls especially love talking about their relationships so you'll have plenty of info to work with. Plus it can turn a poten… | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 08:16 AM |
| 2 | How to approach a blind date?You've both been set up on an awkward blind date. Oh look at that, you already have something in common! Now relax and make fun of the situation. If it does get stale/awkward, start walking. You can invite her to join you if you like. The point is, you're out doing X and plan to enjoy it. She just happens to be present and enjoying it with you. If it goes well, do I try a kiss goodnight? Did you hear that? No? I groaned loudly enough for most of the continent to hear, so I'm not sure how you mis… | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Second Try, Second Date, I Need Some Help.You see, this is really only the second girl I've actually wanted to have a lasting relationship with It's not helpful to have this mindset on a second date. You know her favorite color and shit, but you don't know her (unless there's an immense backstory you left out). She should still be proving herself to you at this point and you should be showing more and more interest as you find out the quirks and personality traits that make her unique. Plus, the less pressure there is, the more enjoyabl… | /r/seduction | 09/05/14 06:57 AM |
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