commanderquill Archive

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2	He’s not awful, but I will not be responding. A little weird that he asked you to start the chat, not dismissing that, but I don't think the long time gap between your message and his reply is all that odd. His reply states that he was busy, and it seemed actually interesting---the man has hobbies for once. He also, right off the bat, talked about his day instead of giving you a one-word or phrase response, showing decent conversational skills. To prove that point true, you would have to see how he responded to something about your day and …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/20 08:22 PM
2	What is your advice on dealing with insecurity about your looks? What is your opinion on the concept of "looksmaxxing"? I am relatively attractive, but not being "good enough" for a partner is a big fear of mine. I feel it's my responsibility to be perfect looking or else it's my fault if he strays. 1) Do away with the make-up for a bit. If you wear make-up often and are used to seeing how YOU look in it, you'll become used to that image and get increasingly appalled by how you look without it. Make-up is to enhance your natural beauty, not fool yourself into thinking you're ugly. 2) Keep a journal, and every morning after you're done waking up but before you head out, sit down and write your 3 favorite things about yourself. Don't do all personality every time--because if you're insecure a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 12:16 PM
2	Probably my favorite tinder bio from my brief stint on the app.... He's humble too! Also, "multitalented in all areas" implies being both highly talented and untalented in all areas. So, if anything, at least he's honest about being perfectly average 😝	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 10:56 AM
1	All I see is red flags. 🚩 "I'm not married, my wife is." There's just... There's so much wrong with that. So much that I don't even know where the joke is. Like, what possible time could you ever even attempt this joke, disregarding how shitty and sexist it is, that ISN'T trying to... Uhhh, take home a girl from the bar who is secretly a hooker and doesn't actually care, and you think you succeeded until she asks to be paid up front? I just genuinely have no idea.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 10:48 AM
9	Hes doing fine Nah man, I wanna see how much their lives suck. It's cathartic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 10:20 AM
83	The only kind of men that deserve to have children. I love my dad but someone please tell him to stop. I ask him if he has any headphones I can have and he orders me three sets of expensive Bluetooth headphones. I buy a microphone so he buys me a better one and now I have two microphones. I ask for a pizza slice from Costco so he buys me three pizza slices and a hotdog. This is the most first world problem to have but for god's sake man, he's just a car mechanic, not Bill Gates, and I don't know what to do with my extra microphone!!! 😭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/20 04:09 AM
2	A degree is never going to get up and leave you one day, queens. The truth is, anyone who is worth staying with will respect, admire, encourage, and be excited for you to pursue opportunities towards furthering your future and your passions. If they don't, ever, for any reason whatsoever, at any point in time, and especially if the reaction resembles envy, then they aren't worth staying with. Get out of there. If you're going to go by one sign and one sign only of when to drop a partner, that's your sign.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 11:04 PM
1	I genuinely think I’m too afraid to keep dating men ADHD stands for Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder, so when I say the H in ADHD I just mean I can be really hyperactive, haha! It could be an NF thing! I keep forgetting what my letters on that were. I remember being perfectly in the middle between one of the letters... It might have been F and it's counterpart. Actually, I find her reaction a bit strange. Although if it's just to see what you look like, I suppose it would be weird to send more than one, so maybe not. I'm trying to put mysel…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/07/20 01:27 AM
3	How to let a man know if they date he suggests is not appropriate I'm a little confused. This might be different because I'm interested in women. I've found that this handbook is useful to me anyway, and this might be one of the more male-specific ones I should overlook but it doesn't hurt to double check. Is this because men who suggest more casual dates are looking more for something low-effort that ends in a hook-up and parting ways? When I ask women out, I tend to ask for something casual or plan to go to an actual event with things to see, like a museum o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 10:57 PM
4	I genuinely think I’m too afraid to keep dating men I know exactly what you mean! I don't have the experience of dating a guy, but I do still feel this very distinct pressure when interacting with a guy. It's one reason why I can't read straight romances either. There's always this... dynamic there that stresses me the out. The sexist undertones that I feel no matter what. The actions that I hyperanalyze there which I don't when I'm reading about gay men or gay women. Women treat you like people right off the bat. I'm a very passionate person wit…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 10:41 PM
6	I genuinely think I’m too afraid to keep dating men I don't think I date often enough, tbh. A lot of FDS strategies and things to watch out for are pretty unique to men, too. The most relevant to me is the keeping of my standards, and that's absolutely useful. I was in the position as a teenager to constantly be set up or hit on by very LVW just because they were the only other WLW around, and then socially pressured to go for it because hey, we're both gay! I imagine it falls along the lines of when straight women have lowered self-esteem and go…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 08:57 PM
19	I genuinely think I’m too afraid to keep dating men I meet a lot of HVM because I'm lesbian. It's pretty funny. But LVM want nothing to do with me because I will never bang them, unless they're trying to convince me to be straight, in which case I have no reason to talk to them. I stay mainly in women-only circles, but when I do meet men and they find out I'm lesbian and stay my friend, they're always the best. One guy at my first college actually apologized to me when I told him I was lesbian because he had a crush on me and felt bad that he had…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 05:32 AM