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I (and I'm guessing many others) have felt the same way. No matter how early in your own 'journey' it feels fucking amazing just to be getting your shit together and actually improving, doesn't it? You start to see friends and relatives through the red lens and realise that they're decent guys, but weaksauce faggots (like us) who could really use a dose of red pill. To extend the 'pill' analogy as medication, its an anti-venom rather than an inoculation. Blanket dispensation doesn't apply - you …
/r/askMRP10/03/17 01:24 PM
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As STSK mentioned, you NEED a rack for heavy compounds. I use one for OHP, Squat and (if the fixed bench is taken) BP at my gym. You won't be able to clean and press your squatting weight for long! With a rack and a bench to go in it though, since you have the iron, there isn't much that you won't be able to do - only thing I can think of is leg curls, but there are benches with the extension thingymajig for that. If I took nothing more from MRP, lifting alone has changed my life for the better.
/r/askMRP09/03/17 05:00 PM
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I'm curious why they're so keen to have you visit since there is apparently no love lost between you'. Is it just fot the MIL to score bitch points by manipulating her will, or possibly another reason they want to see you in person? No chance that they need a transplant and want to hit you up for a favor (/s). I would wait until it (inevitably) arises again, and during the next phone call just level with them - along the lines of: You know that due to my work, free time is very scarce and precio…
/r/askMRP01/03/17 06:05 PM
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Wish into one hand and shit in the other. See which one fills up first.
/r/askMRP28/02/17 06:05 PM
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Fuck. Thats the mother of all turnarounds. Kudos to you. It gives me huge hope though, since my own marriage was never really bad per se, and I only need to stop and reverse the slow decline.
/r/askMRP15/02/17 10:51 PM
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It does sound very much like comfort tests. Mine still shit-tests a lot more than comfort, but what I realised lately is that all of her tests can be useful for identifying shit I need to own / own better. That sounds very supplicating and DEERish, but my point is to treat the test the same, but judge the contents on worthiness. For example: "You're going to your poker night AGAIN, while I get to stay home with the kids" = Conscious decision of mine, so tough shit for her. Deal with test and for…
/r/askMRP15/02/17 10:23 PM
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Exactly this. I read it as "Blah blah - look mommy, Im trying so hard - blah blah blah" "Blah blah - jeez ok ok, have a cookie and go play - blah blah blah" Too may words and not enough action.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 06:48 PM
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Also agree with the sentiment. Mine knows I hold no truck with valentines and have an active dislike of greetings cards. We didn't spend that evening together due to schedules anyway. All leading to zero expectation from either side. When she finished late shift and got home 1am on 14th, it was therefore a pleasant surprise for her to find a simple card (with cheeky personal message) and some inexpensive fun candy, laid out for her. I was in bed but by chance still awake. She stated no sex was h…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 06:14 PM
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Oh but I think you did have a totally textbook covert contract, because: "We eat and chatted - nothing sexual" Yet you still expected to fuck when you got home. Admit it to yourself, you were expecting transactional sex so failed to escalate during your date. Now imagine this thing went perfectly: Your end result is some of that good dirty sex where she participates in that weird fetish of yours. Maybe she even sucked your weiner in a layby on the way home, because neither of you could wait the …
/r/askMRP13/02/17 06:53 AM
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I certainly wouldn't term myself as a "successful man of MRP" but its probably worth sticking in my 0.02. I've been with my wife since we were both very young, relevance being that neither of us really know adult life outside of our marriage (we're both in the wrong end of our 30s now). In one sense we missed out on a lot, yet in another, we have gained tremendously from the stability of a good all-round partnership. I've always had a sense that what I get out of marriage is in direct proportion…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/17 11:33 PM
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OYS #5 Yet another uneventful week. I've been introspecting on what it is thats holding me back, but not really coming up with much more than hamster food. I want to see bigger changes than the long term development I'm chipping away at. I need to set out a plan to clearly define my goals and measure progress against. A map, if you will, to chart my direction against a chosen heading. (I'm sure there's a book for that......) Lifting / Body Lifting feels great. Adopting my Switcheroo (tm!) progra…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 06:57 PM
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More like calling her on HER pissy snark and the ILY drawing a line under the matter (and with hindsight now clarifying that it did exactly that).
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 05:40 PM
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More like calling her on HER pissy snark and the ILY drawing a line under the matter (and with hindsight now clarifying that it did exactly that).
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 05:40 PM
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OYS #4 Overview Not much to report this week. Identified that a couple of poor habits are holding me back in other areas more than previously thought. Namely shitty sleep (staying up late for no good reason then passing out upright on the sofa for 3-4 hours) and habitual fap - we all know that doesn't usually help. Concentrating this week on stamping out the latter and improving the former. Lifting / Body 2017 is the year I make my body hawwttt. I shed 40lbs last year before I got completely sic…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 08:26 PM
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The guys have already diagnosed it and I agree, your game was clumsy, clunky and blunt. I post because I've had very similar situations: I think I'm pushing through some LMR and she goes ultra-starfish, like 'yeah go ahead if you must, but its basically rape'. I've also had her react to my copping a feel by doing the same thing back but blatantly being painfully rough (obviously I wasn't). The point is that I (and you) fucked up by not playing the game or 'reading' her right. I'd bet she was up …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/17 09:14 PM
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I'll second that, its a very nice set an an awesome gift for a young man. I have a plan in the back of my mind for something similar, but with a kamisori style razor (made myself) handled in antler. I'll get around to it one day. 'til then I'm quite happy to use my shavette...
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/17 08:44 PM
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Much appreciated, thanks. I'll definitely do the pressouts with my BBB sets Thursday, and work some dips and steep incline press etc into my mixed assistance days. I'll get there in the end. I'll look into false grip too.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 09:45 PM
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OYS #3 Overview Didn't post in OYS for a month, mostly it was a shitshow. Actually nothing terrible happened, but I wasn't driving for improvement, so I count that as a fail. Back on the wagon as of last week, so onward and upward. Reading A few more pages of nmmng re-read, but mostly reading posts here. Fucking pathetic. Need to cut off the games on tablet etc (time vacuum / laziness) and get stuck into the sidebar. Lifting / Body Had a shitshow of sheer laziness over xmas holidays. Hardly any …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 06:19 PM
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Back on the wagon. I was tempted to forget this account and maintain my lurking status, but resolved to post as a bitch-slap to myself for falling back into bad habits. Over xmas etc I skipped gym for 3 weeks and ate like a fucking pig. On reflection, all I can confirm is that I reap what I sow. Things haven't been so bad, but indulging my omega habits of staying up late with video games etc, eating shit, and falling asleep on the sofa WILL NOT GET ME TO WHERE I WANT TO BE. Okay is not good enou…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/17 02:25 PM
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OYS:2 Overview A decent week on the whole, good in some respects and hoped to do better in others. I'm mostly satisfied that I put my best into everything but see a few areas where I slipped into bad habits. Reading Lined up the other prerequisites on kindle, but working through NMMNG again deliberately slowly and trying to identify behaviours and habits etc in myself. Have to say, its dull so far this time around without that new realisation of "holy shit - that's me!" Persevering. Lifting / Bo…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/16 09:51 PM
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Good post, and I completely agree with regards to lifting. An occasional deload is essential for me. I love chasing the numbers, and while it has helped me to progress fast in the last year, the thoughts of "this is too heavy - form isn't tight - I'm going to snap some shit up" must take priority over my usual internal motivator of "beast this bar up, you fucking fat faggot". Wendler puts across in 5/3/1 to apply the concept of 'a few steps backward to keep moving forward. I'll pay some thought …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/16 08:59 AM
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Now this is dead on. I knew it but DEER'd anyway. Point taken. Thanks.
/r/askMRP16/12/16 06:26 AM
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The first couple of paragraphs in my OYS says it all really. I spent my whole adult life under total oneitis. I stumbled here butthurt as fuck after an argument, googling for validation and it blew my mind. That was around this time (within a couple weeks) last year so I'd been reading a little while and the pill was on the back of my tongue. The gift was an inexpensive trinket, but actually suits her tastes so we were both happy. It marks my realisation/swallowing and reminds me of probably my …
/r/askMRP15/12/16 10:12 PM
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Your first 2 sentences were fair enough, the third was dead wrong though. Not all context and meaning was relevant to or included in the post. Anger comes & goes like the weather, we just learn to wear appropriate clothes.
/r/askMRP15/12/16 09:45 PM
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I was stuck for gift ideas for wife last year, and was inspired here. I got her a snowflake pendant, because she's so special and absolutlely unique (just like 4 billion others). Every time she wears it I can't stop smiling to myself. I've set myself the challenge of trying to feed her skittles while she wears it, just for chuckles. This year I'm looking for something with a unicorn. What can I say? I like irony!
/r/askMRP15/12/16 08:40 AM
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I realised recently that I've been lurking here for just about a year. There have been some improvements, but in hindsight I've been mostly sprinkling alpha on it and not fully implementing the tools. I decided to post here on the regular to keep track and be accountable to myself. Any feedback/discussion resulting will be a bonus and if it provides any value to others thats great too. * * May become lengthy due to history for context. Oh, and typing on phone so spells and format may get an edit…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 01:42 AM
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