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Nah cuz you could marry someone sub 27 that isn't settling. There's even people above 27 who aren't settling either but ofc there's more risk but still a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:12 PM
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With the exception of 2 (timing depends on the type of person) and 5 (just a normal level of compliments is fine) What you listed is what'd id expect from a girl. If I don't get that why on earth would I take them seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:48 PM
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Ones liked for being smart or funny or good looking, one is liked as a utility provider
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:29 PM
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You are surely being intentionally daft. They're saying one is to be liked for your qualities, whilst the other is being liked for your ability to pay for their expenses
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 07:11 PM
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I don't know if it's just red pill tbh. Like my friends who are 27+ and single (female) are panicking because they're seeing less and less guys who they are interested in year on year. Like their options are getting worse, so that's more reality than red pill imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:50 AM
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What makes you say that though? In my life it feels like it's more women that do that. For a guy it's hard to overvalue yourself because women too good for you won't give you the time of day. A lot of girls I know will get attention from guys out of their league, but they just don't realise they're being used for sex so they think that's their level. Plus girls hype each other more than guys do, so that adds to it imo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:20 PM
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Back this, and I'm a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:52 PM
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This is pathetic. That's all I can say By your logic you called a child a dirty old man
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:41 AM
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Let her answer please
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:38 PM
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At what age does a woman stop being a child in your estimation?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:34 PM
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100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:54 PM
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I never said looks and character correlate. I said we're talking about choosing from men who either have good looks or good character. Those leftover. The men who have both are off the board. They're with other women already.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:46 PM
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That's great, but I hope you're able to comprehend what was actually said. If you are truly unable, then I can simplify it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:41 PM
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I don't, I say they imply bad character men who are desirable physically are chosen over good character men who aren't as physically desirable. Because we're talking about women choosing from their leftover options. The good character good looking men are off the board in this discussion. So they're saying in the good looks vs good character trade off. They're saying women choose looks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:31 PM
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They're settling for a man who they think is their best option to have kids and companionship with from what's left of their dating pool. I never said that they pick bad men. The people saying that probably mean they pick bad character men who are attractive physically over say men of good character but are less physically desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:08 PM
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I'd say depends on the profession, but yeah you need to hit your stride by mid to late 20s if not earlier or you're not suddenly getting good younger women (22-28) in your 30s generally. Women in their 30s aren't necessarily more demanding. A lot settle because they have no options and they know it, some don't because they are deluded and overvalue themselves. But yes some are top shelf and won't settle for anything less than what they're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:45 PM
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Oh look I could probably do that at 35? But I hope I'm not single by that point and on the path to having a family 🙏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:09 AM
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I'd honestly pick neither. The only reason I'd pick b is because I want to be a father. But if she looks 40 at 23 I'd probs rather be single
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:03 AM
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It's not that guys can't handle older women. It's that they don't want to have to handle anyone. I've seen my mum handle my dads bullshit for decades. You shouldn't pick men regardless of age that you need to handle. I love that you probably use the word mansplaining a lot, yet here you are telling men why they like younger women and discarding what they say are their reasons. Think about that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:29 AM
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Literally a 23 year old version of the same woman is going to be likely fitter, less traumatised for bad life experiences/dating experience and less impacted by the pressure to settle down immediately. Imo the vulnerability narrative is feminist nonsense to try to shame men into going for older women. 23 year olds in 2023 are working women with their own lives. They are not vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:22 AM
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It's a bit ridiculous imo Like I have a decent size social circle to refer to + their opinion is consistent with what most people think. Yet she dismisses me as the minority based on her view. Why bother making a thread at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:41 PM
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How are you coming up with this that I'm the outlier and you're not? Feels like a projection
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:34 PM
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My 27 yo friends say their age target is 24-38 I Waa shocked too. I'm 27 and I have a lot easier time with girls younger than me (22+) than I did at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:22 PM
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Idk about that, in my experience younger girls are keener on older guys. Based on my experience and my female friends experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:36 PM
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I think most men would agree in many ways they are being marginalised by feminism (it's current iteration rather than the concept). Do you not agree the feminism at all does this?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:12 AM
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In my dating experience it has gotten easier and better as I've grown older as women rate being put together and earning better. Women get more desperate as they age due to the body clock, age worse (metabolism and body parts) and guys prefer younger women. That's been the case for all my single highly successful female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:57 PM
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Ngl I'm laughing so hard at this content. If you said everyone hits a wall I'd say ok bit Rose tinted but fine. To say women don't hit the wall as much as men. I'm dead. Honestly deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:40 AM
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I'm not blaming just women. The people coming up with this content, their views are deplorable. I'm just explaining to you the mechanism through which I feel this movement has gained rise. Feel free to advise me if you think what I've said is wrong and why
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:36 AM
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This post is accurate but I feel that this is the product of the feminist ideology. All the discussion platforms of reasonable men than aren't hyper pro feminist are attacked. What you're left with is extremists who don't care about the feminists backlash being the only ones willing to still talk about men's perspectives. They then lure men in with reasonable male injustices that most men would agree with before then indoctrinating their horrible women hating beliefs. Creating the horrible movem…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:28 AM
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Not good to condone violence on anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:56 AM
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I think it's probably the case of your family valuing their daughters and devaluing other people's sons. It's called the endowment effect
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:39 PM
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Sorry idk how to do the fancy reply quote thing Yep usually bad previous partners are the primary source of trauma and baggage. You can conflate experience and baggage all you want but they're not the same. Experience can be good, baggage is more so the consequence of bad experiences. I go for mature people 22/23-28. Idk if they'd stick around a bad guy for longer or not. But truthfully I don't care? I value their positive qualities and I am objectively a good person. I pick the people with the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:04 AM
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I'm going for women my age to about 22-23. I'm not going for undergraduate uni students. And the 22-23 is the lowest I'd go + if they were mature enough. Not going after naivety or ignorance to any tricks you think I may have. I am a good man and I treat people with respect. How am I in any way unethical? I believe in consent, I pursue women who have a lot of options. If they view my many strengths and life experience over any baggage I may have. I don't see the problem, do you? If they thought …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:42 AM
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Oh fair, I appear defensive because I feel like going for women younger than me (as well as my own age) is attacked in this sub, always curious to understand why. But ok her hostility makes sense now, uncalled for imo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:06 AM
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What does hit dogs holler mean? Also I'm asking you about what you meant, I can't answer on your behalf? I don't get the down votes or the hostility, I'm not trying to be malicious. Do you feel my friends behaviour is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:19 AM
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What do you define as younger? I think a lot of my friends (early thirties to late twenties) go for early to mid twenties women because they have less baggage / more of them are still in shape. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:16 PM
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Petite or fit Under 6ft Self sufficient/has a real career, education doesn't matter but would need to be somewhat intelligent Any except African American or very Anglo saxon 22-28, depends on the person, Max 20 No kids No addictions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:41 AM
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No, not modelling or basketball. Don't change your height for any reason. I'm a pretty vain guy and I think this thread is insanity. Tall women be yourselves, height is not masculine. Any guy that needs you to be shorter to not be insecure is not worth your time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:25 PM
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I wouldn't call it ego. Why would I spend my time and money raising some random kid instead of my own. Would me mowing my own lawn as opposed to the neighbours be ego or just plain self interest fulfilment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:33 PM
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I'm not RP, but curious are you in a relationship? Do you feel your partner feels this way about you? I obviously disagree with you, but I'm interested in understanding your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:03 PM
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Few years away from my 30s, I would say the deal breaker isn't their age necessarily (partially is). It's that very few wouldn't still be fit and in shape (western country). Then what % of them don't have a timeline or expectation to get married sooner than my personal preference (3 years+) and then even if they were compatible and met conditions 1 and 2, can we safely have children when the time comes (this is the age part). That's why I could see myself hesitant to date women in their 30s even…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:59 AM
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Nah he's literally fat and not very bright, great guy though. Idk sounds like you have a defeatist attitude. Nothing is guaranteed in life. Just focus on living a good life and self improvement and your life will be better, and as a bonus you might attract someone special along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:32 AM
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Ah ok, that's honestly not that bad (wanting someone over 5'7) That's probably at least 70% of men I think, depending on the country. Thanks for answering!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:11 AM
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My mates like 5 4 and married, heaps of people I know are under 5 8 and in relos. Just be better man. You're right your height is sub optimal but it doesn't preclude you from all women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:10 AM
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One question if I may, below what height is below average to you? No judgement, as I said to others attacking you, you are completely valid in your preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:46 PM
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Bruh what's wrong with you, seek a therapist and get help lol. Ftr I'm near enough to 6ft I'm just curious about her perspective, which I think is valid and fair
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:45 PM
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She put it as a deal breaker next to some really negative characteristics, so I'm keen to hear her perspective. I'm not short and I know women care about height. I'm just keen to hear her perspective, nothing more to it than that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:43 PM
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Below average height is that bad? No attack intended, you're allowed to want what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 09:36 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:11 AM
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I think it's probably more so, as men get older many get a better grip of who they are, what their place is and more confidence. Helps them become a better potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:08 AM
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Women have casual sex all the time, maybe you don't but others do. Idk if you have many real world friends if none of your female friends has ever gotten with a guy because he's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:27 AM
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No idea how old you are. But you either lack life experience or are mentally ill. My relatives and parents are in their 60s and all independent. They're all university educated too. I don't know how much sex 60 year olds are having either tbh. I think you would do we to accept you don't know it all and that men and women can co exist in mutually beneficial loving relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:25 AM
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Who hurt you? My grandparents, parents and all my uncles and aunties are still married. They're all old and they're still happy together. Stop villanising men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:16 AM
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You reek of toxic twoX culture rn. This Mass shooter nonsense can stay in your sub. Outside of America none of us have guns, and I'm sure every second celibate US male isn't shooting people, so enough of that. None of your statement contradicts anything I said. But I think youre out of touch with reality, most women are more selective than men, but are definitely attracted by just the apperance of very good looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:14 AM
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Agreed, and tbh most people that move out understand how to do basic housework in order to survive prior to finding a relationship. Men not doing housework was the norm for the older generations and certainly not what is acceptable now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:20 PM
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Stop trying to overrepresent your asexual nature. The average person is a sexual being. If you've given up, that's perfectly OK. But we're not gonna pretend that most people share your narrative of women not enjoying sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:18 PM
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Are you speaking for yourself? Most women (read as: people) i know, want a long term partner for love and affection and often to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 11:01 AM
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I feel like this applies equally to TRP and the female equivalent. It's just the nature of low performers who don't want to improve, just blame things supposedly out of your control
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:16 PM
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High paying career isn't a masculine trait! Re-read this post in 20 years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:45 PM
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I meant the latter, earning money doesn't impress men as much. It is relevant, idk where pokemon cards came from. Men can impress if they earn more. My point was women have less avenues to improve their attractiveness to men than men have to impress women. Hope that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:38 PM
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There's some pretty lost people on reddit. Escorts are good for sexual experience if you feel you need to build confidence and don't have better options. Or pure sexual relief. They aren't a substitute for loving affection. Anyone saying otherwise is seriously misguided or are disingenuous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:37 AM
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Maybe it will give you sexual experience so you're calmer around women going forward. Who is giving you this advice though? You cannot replicate a loving relationship with a paid service
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:54 AM
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How many incel mass shooters are there? Like if you're honest with yourself how many are there really? In my country there are none. I think "bottom tier" women (for lack of a better term) can still get attention/sex easily. Whereas "bottom tier" men cannot. That's probably a big contributor to the behavioural differences in my opinion. Another factor is likely the fact that men's mental health across the board is less adequately addressed and cared for in modern society than women's. Something …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:08 AM
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Ngl I'm a guy and even I think this comment is bizarre lol In your theory how does the everyone get a hot girl? Are all the girls alive in this theory hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:48 AM
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You are free to believe women are better than men. I know better than to try reason with someone of your mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:39 AM
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I'm saying making more money has an impact (impact varies on the factors you've touched on). But it's still an opportunity, where as women don't really have that avenue at all. I don't know your circumstances but in my country there is a lot of opportunity for men to earn well if they put their mind to it imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:37 AM
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Not sure, maybe? I didn't comment on who makes more. To clarify I'm saying impact wise, how much a guy makes definitely impacts my female friends impression of a guy. For guys they generally care a lot less about partner earnings. A girl can't increase her attractiveness as much through a high paying job
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:32 AM
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Guys biggest advantage is time. Girls who want families are under immense time pressure to get settled with the right guy so they can have kids at a young enough age. Guys can take their time a lot more. Another advantage is that through the gym, career choices and excelling in other facets of life you can greatly enhance your dating prospects a lot more than women can doing the same things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:23 AM
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If I'm honest I don't think men or women handle it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:54 AM
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What's a Bridget Jones diary type? Also I think all this applies to the complaining minority. As people have said plenty of quote un quote 4s and 5s in happy loving relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:12 AM
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Imo reasonable. But you need to work out in the dating stage whether they're into fitness or not. You will struggle to keep people who aren't into fitness on track, and you can't force people to share your values. You also have to bring to the table what you expect potentially. Otherwise it's to justify your expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:38 AM
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I'm really not sure, might be by virtue of my environment but more people I know (18-70) are in relationships than single. And the majority of my friends / colleagues aren't single. But only my experience, i dont have statistics here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:25 PM
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Kinda harsh to call someone an ugly gremlin, i hope you don't live in a glass house. I think OPs point is not that less attractive men are better (they're literally not). It's that some women constantly mistake the pool of guys who will date them with the pool that will hook up. They might be passing up on 8s looking for a LTR because they got 10s in their dm. But they don't realise the 10 only wants to sleep with them and is out of their league in a relationship context.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:36 PM
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Wow this has actually added to my perspective. The majority of women aren't single. I always think similarly to OP but this makes me realise that it's the vocal minority not the majority of women who are guilty of this. (Not being sarcastic)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:30 PM
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