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Just lie bruh. I lost my virginity at 20 and lied to the girl pretending I had 3 gf's in highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:48 AM
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marriage rate be down is good,fuck marriage. Do cohabitation or civil union instead Stats show married people are happier. https://ifstudies.org/blog/does-getting-married-really-make-you-happier ​ birthrates aren't almost non existent lmao, chill down,no one says that and no data indicates that. European countries haven't had above replacement birth rates since the 1980's. ​ Litterallly the highest divorce in Europe is Russia with 60%. Where tf you pulled the 90% lmao. Most European countries ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:04 AM
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Your pushing 40 brother, your going to die alone and childless. You'll end up like those middle age women drinking wine every night and downing SSRI's to stave away the emptiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:33 AM
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Marriage rates are way down, birth rates are almost nonexistent in most western countries, divorce rates are higher than ever (60-90% in Europe). Also depression rates among middle age women are at the highest ever. Actions have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:30 AM
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It has always been human nature to be wild and carefree in one's youth, only to become more stable as we age. Completley false. Only in recent times have people had the luxury to be immature for such long periods of adulthood. For 99% of human history people were grown capable adults by age 16. Ask your great grandmother when she had kids and how many she had.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:25 AM
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Only when the fear of loneliness and failure knocks on the door will these people look for a serious relationship and someone to help carry the damage caused by the "hoe phase" This. It also contributes to high divorce rates because after a woman has had tons of casual sex with Chads she struggles to be satisfied with her average looking beta provider husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:20 AM
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Casual sex culture leads to high divorce rates and low birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:19 AM
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but go onto a lonely woman's sub and there's a different perspective. A lifetime being sexually invisible isn't so great either (and that is the experience of vast numbers of men btw). r/ForeverAloneWomen literally had to ban men because they were getting too many offers for boyfriends. Could you imagine a male incel forum banning women because they kept getting flooded by girls trying to date them? Also if you lurk in these places you'll quickly notice that a majority of female "incels" on thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:27 PM
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The average non-fat woman has the SMV equivalent to an NBA player or B-list celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:22 PM
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There's no use discussing this type of stuff here because women who use reddit fall into a certain niche (very low SMV, usually extremely overweight, blue hair, etc) that the average girl doesn't, and is usually dating a low SMV looksmatched overweight soyboy looking guy with a beard and glasses who takes photos with his mouth agape. If you ever wonder why dating advice from reddit strays so far from the reality you observe in everyday life this is the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:04 PM
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the fact that you don't know the "30 year old boomer" internet meme means you are probably a boomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:23 PM
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It's not only tradcons who care, ask any regular guy irl if he wants a woman with a "high bodycount" and he'll say no. Also I know many posters here are 30+ boomers but I'm in college and see daily tiktoks going viral of guys my age caring about "body count" of women, saying they want to break up wit their girl cause they found out she has high body count etc. From my experience talking to guys my age on the topic it seems like men put women into one of two categories: 1) Recreational use only (…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:12 AM
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Can you point out where I said Oprah and Amy Schumer are forever alone? I said their status doesn't make them attractive to massive swaths of men, while unattractive rappers and celebs with status are seen as attractive by massive swaths of women. Adam Driver is one example off the top of my head. If he wasn't famous actor he would have very little appeal, yet he became a sex symbol while being conventionally unattractive. Imagine his female counterpart with the exact same job, no men would make…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:54 AM
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Yeah men are kinda hypergamous in youth and beauty, but it's just that women and men value different things. For example studies show women value: height, higher income, status, etc. While men do not value these things. If a guy is 5'6 he is automatically very low value but if a girl is short no man cares. If a guy makes 30k a year he is seen as very low value but if a girl makes 30k a year no man cares, etc. And in regards to status Oprah Winfrey or Amy Schumer is not seen as sexy by men due to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:39 AM
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Depends on what the guy can pull based on his looks, income, etc. There was one OKCupid study that found that men of all age (even 50 year olds) preferred 22 year old women, the most popular pornstars are all 18-25, the most popular high charging escorts are all <25, etc. There is a clear preference men have biologically for younger women, this is observable trend in all of human history. If the 35 year old guy you talked about is decently high value and can pull a younger woman then yeah he'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:31 AM
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The high-value men (80th+ percentile) that most women want can pull them though. I don't think most women are dreaming of the average height guy, making the average wage (35k a year in the U.S). Those marriages end in deadbedrooms, cheating, divorce etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:14 AM
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Difference is most men in their 30's are willing to date down in age, income, status, etc. I've never met a 30 year old man who would reject a 25 year old woman. I've met many women who refuse to date even one year younger than themselves. As a man your dating pool increases as you age, while as a woman your dating pool drastically decreases as you age because of these factors. F or some reason feminist types refuse to accept this and insist men and women are identical in preferences and biologi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:04 AM
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They do though. It's very common to see 5-10 year age gaps in wives and husbands, that's what I saw in all my friends parents and my own. No matter how much r/FemaleDatingStrategy bitter types lie to themselves, the reality is that men and women are different, and women simply do not care about dating their age match. In fact in highschool it was common for the most attractive freshmen girls to all want "older boys" who are either seniors in HS or in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:58 PM
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In the past the only way to meet people was those at your school or work so of course socioeconomic status mattered. With the rise on online dating none of that matters and you can meet people from all walks of life. And inb4 you say OLD isn't real life, in 2023 the majority of relationships start online according to studies. It is the most popular way to meet. https://news.stanford.edu/2019/08/21/online-dating-popular-way-u-s-couples-meet/#:\~:text=Meeting%20online%20has%20become%20the,heterose…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:24 PM
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Equating race requirements with sexual orientation is dishonest. Do you think men with attraction to more than one race of women should be classified as a new type of sexuality? Like Multi-RaceSexual or something? Obvious not, hence it's inherently different.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:22 PM
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This, look at Leonardo DiCaprio being mass shamed (mostly by left wing women) for dating 25 year olds. Male preferences for younger women are shamed by society, but women's preferences for taller/richer men is not shamed. I think it's because the modern day west is very gynocentric and matriarchal. We are seeing pushback however with the rise of people like Joe Rogan, Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson, who've gained fame from mostly young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:16 PM
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She'll face hardships getting a goodlooking guy to commit, she however can get a goodlooking guy on tinder to accept a no-strings-attached casual sexual relationship though. Also if she could easily get an LTR from an average guy. Now imagine her male counterpart he could not get casual sex from a hot girl, could not get a LTR with an average girl, dude would be incel because he's a 5'5 ugly looking south east asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:07 PM
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It's funny how the only standard to be attractive to 99% of men as a woman is: Don't be fat, and yet we are gaslit into believing average women has high/unrealistic beauty standards placed on her by society No matter how big her nose is, no matter how recessed her chin/jaw, no matter her ethnicity, no matter her height, no matter her crooked teeth, she is still seen as attractive by 99% of men purely due to not being fat, yet the inverse will never be true with her male counterpart. He will like…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:44 AM
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It makes sense from an evolutionary perspective. A man has near infinite sperm in his lifetime, a woman has limited eggs, like 1000 in her life. A man face no consequences for having sex with a woman of poor genetic stock, he can simply abandon the woman after pumping and dumping. A woman faces high consequences in that they must birth, raise, and invest in a child into adulthood even if he has poor genetic stock.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:37 AM
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It's just because men just evolved to have lower standards since sperm is cheap and plentiful. Your ancestor Oonga Boonga the tall chad caveman could fuck 1000 girls and have 1000 children in a year and not invest in any of them at no cost to himself since his sperm is so plentiful. His female counterpart can only fuck 1 guy and have 1 child per year at great physical cost to herself so she needs to select for the most attractive, tall, robust male possible to breed her. If she fucks a manlet no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:28 AM
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Most people end up in nursing homes anyways. We don't really live in a culture in the west where the entire extended family lives under one roof like they do in certain cultures like China or India.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:34 PM
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Men don’t complain about it because women don’t have to lie about their intentions to find those kinds of relationships. Women will even agree to FWB only relationships, and most times catch feelings. I don't see the same behavior from guys. If a guy gets no-strings-attached sex without having to do relationship stuff (hearing her feelings, taking her out on dates, pretending to care about her day, buying her gifts) he will be ecstatic. Remember escorts charge like $300 an hour, the value of fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:28 PM
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Exactly. People who downplay teen love are insane. Without it you can't develop as a man. Especially since your meant to be the one that leads everything as the dominant one in the relationship. A virgin girl past 20 is seen as positive and high-value, a virgin guy past 20 is seen as disgusting. Saying missing teen love doesn't matter is like saying skipping algebra, trig, precalc, calc, and then going straight to Differential Equations is a good idea. I'm glad my father encouraged me to get it …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:57 PM
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I don't know how this debunks anything, a 6'4 poor Chad is high value based on his physical traits. If a 5'9 guy got a good career he could be equal SMV as the hobo Chad. SMV is holistic. Looks, Money, Status, Height, Race, etc. all play a part. There are 5'6 manlet rappers who have more sex than your friend because of their status, There are billionaires who have more sex because of their money, there are male models who have more sex because of their face, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:43 PM
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They day we start seeing men complain about "fuck girls" who only use them for sex, while pretending they want a relationship is the day I believe men and women are the same in their behavior. Until then men have a "recreational use only" box AND an LTR box they place women in, while women only have an LTR box.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:38 PM
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This just isn't true. Every single woman I've ever talked to who has gotten into a FWB relationship ends up catching feelings for the guy. ​ Women's two boxes are: 1) Men they'd be friendzone and 2) men they'd date. Men's two boxes are: 1) Women they'd fuck and 2) Women they'd LTR You never hear men complaining en masse about "fuck girls" who pretend to want a relationship but only use them for sex and won't commit. You can hop on any social media RIGHT NOW and see hundreds of thousands of posts…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:32 PM
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Women don't have sex with guys they view as below them and unworthy of relationships. I've known goodlooking guys that fuck way below their league just to get a quick nut, get "post-nut clarity" then never call her again. These are girls they'd never date, introduce to their parents, or even want to be seen in public with. Women don't do this. They only have casual sex with guys at or above their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:28 PM
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The were all average, and some even below average due to being chubby. I didn't see any square jaw Chads or even any guys above average, it was just average/below-average looking guys dressed well with good jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:23 PM
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Legacy stuff has always been a cope. Your not that important, your not Albert Einstein or Alexander the Great or Socrates, your just a regular person who works a regular job and just like all the regular nobodies in the past you will be forgotten and no one will care about whatever legacy you think you had.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:01 PM
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Literally the same thing. Women don't pump and dump certain men while dating others, if a woman has a FWB relationship with a man she views him as worthy of a long term relationship. In those cases the ball is in the mans court on whether to commit or use her just for sex, which is why the saying goes women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:50 PM
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Build whatever "legacy" you want and you will be maggot food in 60 years and forgotten in 100 years. No one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:33 PM
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This. Status and income is huge when it comes to male SMV while almost irrelevant when it comes to females SMV, and your status/job title and income only raise with age and experience. I got into one of those "Are We Dating The Same Guy" facebook groups in my city and it was all pics of average (but professionally dressed) guys with good careers (finance, business, law, medicine, etc). These guys were playing very attractive women and dating several girls at once. When I got in the group I was e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:28 PM
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most peak closer to 25. This is way too early. Assuming you are not fat a mans SMV peaks at 30-35. The biggest factor being is that in this age range you are several years deep into your professional career, likely have a high income, and have a high status position than you did in your early 20s. These factors actually matter to women since men are meant to have the provider role and women weigh status and income heavily when looking for mates. With women their opportunities goes down as they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:24 PM
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Also insulting their genitals size. "Small dick energy" is a term popularized by liberal/progressive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:15 PM
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Probably because all your friends were male. Random women you have zero association with won't know or care about your sexual status, you are invisible to them. When it comes to dating you will be more harshly judged by women than men when it comes to sexual inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:13 PM
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Women will rarely openly admit it, however I have talked to a few females who've said they are dealing with "fuckboys" and guys who won't commit. Then when you see the instagram profiles of these guys they are pretty out of the girls league, it's obvious she's trying to leverage a casual sexual relationship into a more long term relationship and failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:18 AM
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I don't care about your feelings, MATE VALUE (aka leagues) is an objective reality studied by people infinitely more educated than yourself. I will take the word of thousands of PhD researchers in the field of psychology and biology over some random with a high school education. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mate_value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:11 AM
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This is bad advice from someone who has never been in a relationship. Relationships are about compromise, negotiating, and meeting halfway. If your playing 6 hours a day of video games when single and your gf asks you to do less to spend time with her you should be willing to compromise to 3 hours while in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:57 AM
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IDK what's the point of this comment, do you think only influencers use Instagram? 99.99% of women on Instagram are not influencers and are not making money off their posts. Every girl on Tinder and Bumble has an Instagram and they are not celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:51 AM
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Breaking up instead of communicating an issue you have with your partners behavior sounds like dating advice from someone who's never been in a relationship in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:48 AM
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Google the term "mate-value" it's a real scientific term and leagues are a real thing. In the OP study they found that women of lower mate value will try to acquire men of higher mate value (aka "out of their league") using casual sex. If you've ever touched grass and have literally any friends you can confirm this study with your own two eyes. Anyone who's had a female friend can tell you that they constantly complain about "fuckboys" not committing, and talk about their FWB drama all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:45 AM
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It doesn't mention leagues anywhere. It doesn't mention use, exploit, or manipulate Your illiterate then. It uses the term "mate value" and states that women of lesser "mate value" (league) will try and use casual sex to manipulate a pair-bond from men of higher mate value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:39 AM
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Your not understanding. The whole point of bartering sex for females is trying to get a guy out of their league. They don't try to barter sex for an LTR from their looksmatch as he would gladly LTR and worship them in a heartbeat. If a 5/10 girl demanded an LTR from a Chad guy he would just ignore her. If she offers sex and a casual relationship she can hope after a few months he catches feelings and bonds with her. It's essentially the female version of the male "friendzone orbiter" strat that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:30 AM
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I suspect what happens often is that women try to use sex as a bargaining tool to get into a relationship (very manipulative if you ask me) and then get mad when it doesn't work. This is a female mating strategy to try and acquire a man of higher value. These guys would never have given her a chance if she demanded a relationship, but they do get an "in" if they offer casual sex and hope he changes his mind and pair bonds to them. This is why almost all women I've met have been okay with being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:20 AM
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What are you on about? I'm responding to your statement and saying your wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:24 PM
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My and my friends experience dating in the 30s has been that women immediately get attached and want to rocket through the dating process Because the biological clock is ticking and they are running out of time to have children at that age so the tables flip and now Men in that age range have the upper hand over women in that age range. This is why women lower their looks standards alot in their late 20's and early 30's. In their prime they may have had demands like: 6'0+, square jaw, 90th perce…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:03 PM
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>But your biggest mistake is assuming that just because someone has easy access to sex, that means they are also loved and that this will solve all of their mental health problems. Ability to acquire sex is pre-requisite to getting relationships. Also it's not "just sex". Sex is the first pillar of Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and is on the same level as food, water, and sleep. It's only a few levels up that "love" comes into play. Women objectively have it easier in that they can fufill their b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:44 PM
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No need to insult him. He's from a developing 3rd world country, standards are different there as Tinder and other apps are less prevalent, and money or status is much more important in those scarcity environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:19 PM
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But a man being willing to dump a quick nut somewhere is not the same as him being really attracted to someone. It by definition does. If someone can get an erection and want to fuck a woman he is attracted to her by definition. If he wasn't attracted to her (say if she's fat) he wouldn't be able to maintain an erection. ​ But a man being willing to dump a quick nut somewhere is not the same as him being really attracted to someone. Most women don’t want to be the one he’s willing to pump a medi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 08:15 PM
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Disagree. I feel like good-looking tall Chad guys are less likely to be misogynistic since every interaction they've had with women is positive and they get constant sex and validation from all the women around them. Imagine a world where you can order girls to your house like pizza off Tinder, every workplace you go into girls fawn over you and are nice, every house party you go to women approach you and makeout with you then beg you to go to a private room with them. That's the life of a tall …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:40 AM
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Trifecta is: Be tall (6'2+), be white, be muscular or at least fit. Most Chad slayers I knew had these traits. Also HAVE GOOD HAIR, if your balding it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:35 AM
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Disagree. Women are monogamist they don't like hookups. What they'll do in their prime (18-25) is get into 6 month-1 year situationships with an attractive guy hoping he'll date them, meanwhile these top fuckboy guys will be in situationships or FWB with several other girls simultaneously. Once they realize their biological clock is ticking down to have babies (usually starts around 27) they'll panic and try to find some sub-Chad average guy with a good career to settle down with so they don't d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:22 AM
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I don't believe it's that hard for most guys to get to the point where they can date and hookup casually since superficial things are easier to improve. No they aren't. The key superficial physical traits required as a man to date/hookup casually in the United states are genetic (height, facial bone structure, race, hair recession level). It's easy for a woman to get casual sex and hookups, it is not for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:09 AM
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if he spent his younger hornier years chasing after women he was actually sexually attracted to I think your projecting the female mindset onto males. Guys find all types of women attractive, provided that they are normal BMI. Look at the body, ethnic, age diversity of famous pornstars it's insane to see the range. Very few guys have "types" like women do, or only chase top-tier women. For example I'm white and I've never met a white guy reject a normal bmi asian, latina, middle eastern, or sout…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:52 AM
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4/10 white guys can still get asian or black girls with ease. You have no idea how much they fetish our white genetics and have deep self hatred of their own race of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:24 PM
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Yeah, 6'0+ facially handsome white Chads have life on god mode in the west. In the past they would have had to settle down with a girl at age 18, now Chad has infinite options with dating apps, casual sex culture, etc and can have literal FWB harems starting in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:16 AM
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I agree with women have it easier, but this obsession with false accusations people have here is autistic. It's so rare, womens main advantage is affirmitive action giving them easeier times in careers, easier dating, easier life, not the ability to falsey accuse people of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:13 AM
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No one expects women to be tall Agree with the height part, it's actually so brutal how being a certain height (5'7 or under) almost disqualifies you from the dating pool unless your like a millionaire. For a woman the only physical requirement is: don't be fat and you can get almost any guy in an LTR if you have a decent feminine personality. No one expects introverted women to go against their nature and continually ask men out — only to meet rejection 99.99% of the time — and shame them as fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:11 AM
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If by race you mean "White men" age poorly It doesn't particularly matter since they are fetishized by all races of women. A 8/10 White guy will do better than a 10/10 non-white guy all other factors remaining equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:52 AM
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That could explain why most women hate age-gap relationships; young women who date older men are directly competing for a limited pool of desirable older men, and have obvious advantages over their aged female competition. Yup. This is the reason you see incessant seething about Leonardo DiCaprio by middle aged and 30+ year old women. If an older woman dated young guys no one cares The French president was literally groomed when he was underage by his old lady wife and you will never hear a peep…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:49 AM
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A better analogy women might understand is if they found out their current boyfriend would do romantic things for all his ex gf's, bought them flowers, took them out on dates every week, gave them extravagant valentines day celebrations, etc. THEN with her he does none of that stuff. Logically they would ask, why was he willing to do these things for other girls but not for me. Same applies to sex for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:43 AM
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"Don't approach women IRL." is a short but nuanced sentence. No, it's actually really simple: If your goodlooking ---> APPROACH ANYWHERE ANYTIME If your average or below ---> DO NOT APPROACH IDK why women feel the need to gaslight online but this is the reality. There are tons of these handsome TikTok guys who will approach women and get positive results, I literally saw one of this 6'4 square jaw white guy where he made an overtly sexual joke to a girl, while he was dressed in a Pikachu backpac…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:08 AM
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I feel like most guys are doing this. Idk if It's just where I live but most guys I know have a decent instagram, they are massively simping dozens of girls simultaneously, reacting to every story, are in the friendzone with like 15 chicks, and they still get nothing because they are average looking. Women in the age ranges of like 14-22 only chase very hot guys, and these hot guys put them in the situationship zone and only use them for sex, while also hooking up with several FWB at the same ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:55 AM
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5'7 is definitely brutal, but I feel like anything 5'9+ is good enough. You can also fraud 2-3 inches with elevator shoes, I do it and I'm 182cm (6'0) barefoot. Also if you max out gym, career (high paying major), and social skills, etc. you can get in the top 10% pretty easily. Of course it sucks that you need to do all this work just to get the dating abundance of an average 5/10 woman but that's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:47 AM
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However, I'm not surprised about the idea that you shouldn't approach women because women on the internet complain all the time about men who approach them Not even approaching JUST LOOKING sometimes. I saw a viral tiktok yesertday of some chick shaming a ugly dude in a packed train sitting across from her for looking in her direction. Literally there was no where else to look since his seat was directly across from her, and she video taped his face calling him a creep and shit, then uploaded it…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:11 AM
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Sounds like LARP. Cold Approach isn't a thing, If you mean in bars and clubs that's completely different than what OP's talking about, but the PUA cold approach in a grocery store shit is not socially acceptable behavior unless you look like Brad Pitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:00 AM
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What changed? Tinder. The average 5/10 girl has infinite SMV in 2023 thanks to online dating. I'd probably be mad if an average looking guy approached me too if I was a female with tons of Chads matches and a Chad fuckbuddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:55 AM
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If that's you in the profile pic your ethnicity is capping you hard. Most women in Canada are white only (this includes ethnic women). Your best bet is to just visit escorts. Even if you get jacked your results on online dating and dating in general will still be awful due to your phenotype, sorry bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:37 PM
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Have I been overwhelmed with having to sift through men using the apps as access to an easy fuck? Yes, but those aren’t my option, they are non starters If the guys your matching only want sex it's because they are likely top 10% in looks and therefore have as many options as the average woman and don't put effort into getting anything but casual sex since they have such abundance. If you match with your looksmatch average guy he will put more effort in precisely because he has less options. He …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:20 PM
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This. Also men just fall in love quicker, usually to the first girl to give them positive attention since average looking men are so starved of it. I remember I fell in love with my first highschool gf within like 2 days after she reciprocated my attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:53 PM
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men could use escorts as a means of satisfying their need for sexual intimacy is foolish. You could though, there's a reason it's one of the oldest professions. People who say otherwise don't actually like sex and only want their ego stroked. The difference between Chad fucking his tinder FWB and some average bloke fucking an escort is nil. Both achieve their base evolutionary need to fuck a woman, both their brains see it as a breeding opportunity, and both get serotonin and dopamine in respons…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:04 AM
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Yeah, I've read studies that women are more likely to have large friend groups than men which is why they aren't as desperate for relationships. Combine this with their low sex drives and they are fully satisfied with their once a month bootycall from their Chad FWB (who's also got this arrangement with 8 other girls) and so they don't need a relationship with their looksmatch. Incels would be better off if they tried to make some male friends to fill the void of companionship, and supplement se…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:20 AM
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No they don't, their watching Euphoria and fantasizing about the asshole Chad 6'5 quarterback. No female under 30 knows what pride and prejudice is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:47 PM
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I made 220k this year, own my house and have had a stable job, but luckily I'm under 6 foot tall and I play video games as a hobby, so instead of dating, I'm posting on reddit at 2am on a friday night Bro, you need to go to the Thailand, Philippines, or Vietnam. You could get a 10/10 high-tier educated wife with these stats, especially if your white you would have hot girl tier SMV there. And the average heights of men are like 5'4 there so you'd be the equivalent of a 6'2 guy. I'd recommend try…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:28 PM
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Yup, it's the guys who were Chads in their 20s slaying pussy on Tinder that grow up to be those 30 year old guys dating the fertile 20 year olds. The moron MGTOW copers are lying when they saying that all men get more attractive as they age, no only goodlooking tall men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:13 PM
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The oldest and most popular story directed at women is Pride and Prejudice Maybe it's popular if your a 40 year old boomer. No woman under 25 knows wtf that movie is bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:34 PM
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I never said anything about love. Men are territorial by nature. Never in human history have men been placated by prostitution lol. ​ No they aren't. Look at hunter gather tribes, they are all open/liberal sexually and share resources, share child caretaking responsibilities, share women, etc. 99% of human history took place during the Paleolithic era where we lived in these hunter-gatherer tribes. Our closest relatives the bonobo chimps are also sexually liberal in this regard. Men are not terr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 07:23 PM
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I think it can. On the base level of Maslow's hierarchy of needs you have food, water, breathing, and sex. It's only a few levels above that on the pyramid that "love" comes into play. Lack of sex literally drives you insane. The ability to purchase sex and have your base needs met would make men less desperate and less willing to settle for single mothers, women over 30 who spent their prime getting pumped and dumped by Chads, mentally ill women, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:29 PM
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It’s pointless. Women tell men the truth and they curl up in a fetal position or hurl sexist insults and threats. Only bluepilled men, which is most men since society lied to them their whole lives and told them stuff like "men care about looks more than women" or lies like "personality>looks". There are many blackpill looksmaxxing communities (and even incel communities) which are well aware that stuff like height, face, race, physique, are extremely important and that women are more looks focu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:20 AM
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Why would match group want u to find a good relationship and stop paying monthly? Any girl who uses Tinder in the first place is going to be ran through and not relationship material anyways. You would never find a good relationship on Tinder it's mostly for sex. ​ Your a literal NPC companies love to sell dumb shit to. Tinder has to make money. You do understand they are a company and can't afford to make no money right? They have investors and people they need to pay back. They provide a servi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:10 AM
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then they turn around and get all pissed off that women don’t have such trash standards and complain about how unfair it is. Yeah women will have several more standards i.e) height requirements, looks requirements, age requirements, race requirements, income requirements, bachelors degree requirements, sexual skill requirements, etc. If you fail to pass any one of the 20 hoops your fucked. That was my point when you falsely stated earlier that men have unrealistic requirements, it's much easier …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:00 AM
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I used to get like 200 matches in a month 16-17. Now i get like 50 No shit, they are a company with thousands of employees and the app needs to make money somehow. Also how poor are you that you can't afford to pay $10 per month for Tinder Gold and are unironically complaining about such a miniscule amount of money? Have you considered getting a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:50 AM
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Nah, it was cope and unsustainable. Women naturally gravitate to top males, in studies done of societies in the past (before enforced monogamy) 18 women bred for every 1 man. The top males had harems while the vast majority of men died incel. We are simply returning to our base nature thanks to feminism, birth control, Tinder, and the sexual revolution. This is the natural state of humans that was repressed by religion and societal pressure, we are animals and are returning to our roots.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:42 AM
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I never thought of it like this, but you're right. I think legalized prostitution (like they have in Australia) could fix the problem and reduce inequality by flooding the market with supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:37 AM
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Your too online. As a woman you simply have one requirement 1) don't be fat, (not even fit) just don't be over 25 bmi and you will find astronomical success in the dating world, and be drowning in men matching you on dating apps. The same cannot be said for men. Even if your in-shape and not fat you'll still need to jump through 20 more hoops to get a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:29 AM
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The mid level women honestly thinks too much of their selves. It's the fault of dating apps, not really them. Dating apps allow guys to "approach" women that they would be ashamed to be seen with IRL. Most guys would never approach a fat girl in a bar because it would legit be humiliating, but on Tinder even above-average guys will be swiping on that fat single-mom and trying to fuck because they are horny and face no social stigma.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:20 AM
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He said he "felt like she didn't like him". This is after he admitted that she verbally told him she liked him. And her going out on 7 dates with him proves she does. So I called him out because he was really mad that he couldn't use paying for dates to escalate to the expectation of sex. 7 Dates without sex is absolute batshit insanity unless you are two Christian/Muslim virgins waiting till marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:52 AM
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But honestly, as a guy you should just expect that most women are going to want a kiss by the end of the 2nd date. When women say they don't want men "moving too fast physically," they're usually referring to sex. Idk which country your in and if it's really conservative but the thought of going on a date in 2023, the girl liking me during the date, and it not ending in sex is insane to me. Nevermind waiting till the 2nd date FOR A KISS. Is this a platonic friend meetup or a date between two gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:44 AM
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Why is it my job as the man to always have to read a woman’s mind and assess the situation about when to physically escalate? Because women want men to be the leaders and dominant ones in the relationship while they can be submissive and the followers. You have to pick the time of the date, you have to pick the restaurant, you have to pay, you have to invite her inside your apartment, you have to escalate from kissing then to sex, etc. while she just follows along for the ride. PUA is usually cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:36 AM
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The "No hookups" rule get's broken if a hot enough guy matches them. A more extreme example is those "Chad" dating app catfish experiments that people do and you'll see women break their rules all the time. Here's one with a Nazi Chad that has a swastika tattoo and you see liberal women initially act disgusted, then break their rules and offer him sex just because he has an attractive face.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:23 AM
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Yeah typical delusional redditors, the OP of that thread was right. The woman is a single mother asking for a 90th percentile guy (if we include income + height + attractiveness). Guys like that aren't dating 30 year old single moms. Even 50th percentile men wouldn't want a single mom tbh, it's probably one of the biggest turn offs for money other than being obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:56 AM
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Majority of people meet through dating sites in 2022. We aren't in the 1980s anymore gramps keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:45 AM
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Your saying your feelings, I'm telling you the results of the OKCupid study. This tracks not only today but for all of history, men of status for all of recorded human civilization have preferred women in that age range since they are the most fertile and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:08 PM
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analogy, sex would have high value if the woman has had few lovers or is known to be reluctant to grant sexual favors, whereas the same activity might have less value if the woman is reputed to be loose or to have had many lovers. The amount a man would be willing to give to have sex with the woman would therefore differ as a function of her (perceived) sexual history. This is wrong IMO. What a man would be willing to give to have sex with a particular woman has more to do with her attractivenes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:36 AM
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My male, early 50s boyfriend says the same. He can appreciate someone who looks good but says the idea of sexualizing them makes him uncomfortable. This maybe true in this case but there have been studies on this and male's preference is generally around 20-22 across all ages (meaning even 50 year old men prefer 22 year olds), while women only date up in money and age (hypergamy) and therefore wanted a man a few years older than them. This tracked across all age groups in the OKCupid study. Of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:12 AM
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Which btw guys, yes women don't age as well as a general rule but otherwise this whole concept is a transparent and ridiculous cope. There’s just a ton of variability at how well people age after 30. The wall isn't really about just aging, it's SMV. A woman who's 25 has infinitely more SMV than a woman who's 35 because she has more healthy reproductive years available (according to American Medical Association a womans peak fertility is late teens to early/mid 20's, after that risk of disorders …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:45 PM
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This. Also the evolutionary cost for impregnating a woman with sub-par genes isn't high for a man so we have lower standards for casual sex. You just ejaculate and then you can leave never seeing her again, since sperm is so cheap and plentiful you lose nothing. however the evolutionary cost for a woman GETTING impregnated by a man with sub-par genes is that she has to invest 9 months of pregnancy, risk her life during childbirth (child mortality was high in caveman days), and then raise the off…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:30 PM
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Men find 99% of normal BMI women attractive and fuckable, this is a fact use Tinder and leave your basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:35 PM
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You will objectively look worse in your 30's than your 20's because of collagen loss, this isn't even debated aging breaks down collagen and makes skin worse there's no cure. This isn't even to mention the massive SMV loss women get as they age as they become less able to have healthy children. A women's peak reproductive years are late teens to early 20's. Since most men want kids they will prefer younger women Also women tend to NEVER date down (including in age and income) so their dating poo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:37 PM
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Not really, Chad ages like fine wine. Of course the average reddit soyboy guy will look bad (he already looks bad in his youth) but Brad Pitt could still slay college girls. My uncle is pushing 40 and he's a 6'2 fit firefighter and still dates 22-25 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:32 PM
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It's easy to understand this confusion because men find 99% of normal bmi women attractive, while women find only the top 10-20% of men fuckable and attractive. Men assume women are just like them but don't consider that the vast majority of men are unfuckable by women. This is further muddied by the fact that women will lie constantly online and say they don't care about looks to the degree men do, which is just false. There have been Tinder experiments using morbidly obese chicks and tons of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 08:21 PM
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WHAT EFFORT AND LABOR IS HE DOING? You clearly have no friends. Maintaining social groups takes effort in adulthood. This isn't middle school where you see each other everyday in class for 8 hours and live on the same street. You need to organize events, make effort to keep in touch, make effort to show up to events, make effort to interact on social media posts like IG, make effort to snap them and text regularly, take time out of your busy life to set up dinner dates, etc. It's emotional labor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 07:14 PM
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Did you watch the video I linked? If your a biological female, and not in bumfuck nowhere Nebraska you will get thousands of matches within hours. You aren't ugly you probably just live in the middle of nowhere, move to a major city.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:11 AM
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I know no guy wants to be hit on by me, Make a Tinder account and you will have 500 6'0+ Chads begging you to come over within a day. There's even been Tinder experiments done using obese women pics and the fake accounts still get hundreds of average and above-average looking dudes simping and begging her for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:11 PM
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You need to find a new social group man, you seem to be providing all the value, while they provide no value back. I’ve introduced my girl friends to many of my dude friends that they ended sleeping with even days later, all the while I knew that girl as a friend for years. Has she ever in those 6 years introduced me to a girl that I got to sleep with? NOPE . This is brutal. Why would you put yourself through all this effort and free labor, only to help OTHER guys get laid who put in zero labor?…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:02 PM
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Bro men swipe right on every single woman they see No they don't, if you mass swipe your elo get's destroyed. Men swipe on most women because they would fuck most women. Guys don't have strict requirements on height, facial bone structure, ethnicity, weight (within reason), etc. There have been tinder experiments using obese chicks and hundreds of normal bmi (and some even fit) guys matched begging to fuck. You will never see the same behavior from women with an obese guy, or even an average bmi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 09:49 PM
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Its sad the lengths I’ve seen some go through on this sub to deny that women are incredibly picky Yup, men find 99% of normal bmi women fuckable and attractive. Barring literal craniofacial deformity or the girl being a literal midget he will be attracted to her, even then most dudes would at least fuck once. Women on the other hand don't find 99% of normal bmi men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:27 AM
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one dude dating four women is what causes this. Not dating but FWB and the girl thinks she's dating him. Talk to any (normal BMI not redditor) girl or go on any social media, you will see them constantly complaining about "fuckboys who won't commit", how modern men don't want relationships, and complaining about being in "situationships" meaning they are monogamously fucking one guy but he won't make them his gf and fucks around. Remember most people meet ONLINE, and anyone who's used Tinder kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 02:47 AM
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I don't know if your 40 or grew up in a sexually repressed time or what, but I'm 22 in college and most girls I spoke to in HS and college wanted to go on vacation to have fun, party, and meet hot local guys at clubs or meet guys in the hostels. There's a reason most "girls trips" are to places like Spain, Greece, Caribbean, and places with traditionally sexy men and not places like Thailand or Philippines (mostly European male tourists go there instead because the SMV boost from being white). W…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:53 AM
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Alot of men are. My college roomate was a goodlooking guy and 6'2 and he would fuck all kinds of girls he met off tinder form skinny to curvy (as long as they were not obese). Even top tier men will have casual sex with women that are below their league, they may not date these women but they will hook up with them or make them a FWB because like I said earlier, the evolutionary strategy for men is to spread seed indiscriminately. Sperm is cheap and low value, eggs are finite and high value. A m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:48 AM
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Most women with big boobs are overweight, so yeah there are probably many guys who would prefer small boobs. I promise you bro, there are 0 petite girls with small boobs struggling to get men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:05 PM
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actually it makes sense due to the way men have been brainwashed, No, it makes sense due to evolutionary biology. Men are willing to fuck down and "pump and dump" unattractive women because the evolutionary reproductive strategy for males is to indiscriminately spread seed to as many females as possible hoping some of the offspring survive, because sperm is cheap and plentiful and you don't even have to birth or invest in the child so there's no risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:48 PM
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I don't think it makes her any less likely to cheat thoigh! I disagree. If she has a big friend group they are likely going on girls-night to the club and bar, or going on "girls-trips" alone to foreign countries. The reason people go to the club is they are hoping to be approached, the reason they go on girls trips is to have fun and party/have no strings attached sex to hot foreign guys who they'll never see again. Usually girls who are homebodies and don't go clubbing or go to girls-trips don…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:43 PM
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His question was obviously what general trait makes women unattractive to most men, get some reading comprehension bro. Saying "small boobs" is a worthless comment because 99% of guys don't care about that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:31 PM
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That's you personally but I'd go as far as to say 95% of guys don't care about boobs. In fact there are porn subs specifically for petite girls w/ small boobs. There are no subs where women masturbate to guys with small dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:56 PM
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Pretty sure most men would find it unattractive if a woman had no friends or had a mental illness. I've never met a guy who cared if a woman had friends, social proof isn't really a thing with men like it is with women. In fact I bet most guys are insecure of getting cheated on so they'd prefer a girl without a friendgroup, and that can't go clubbing with the girls every weekend. And in regards to the mental illnesses most women under 30 have mental illness and it's not seen as an issue by most …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:51 PM
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You said there's 300 men for every 100 women on dating apps. Where are the other 200 going?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:51 AM
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Interesting. If women don't use dating apps where do they meet people? Or are 60% of them just incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:40 AM
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If women were as interested in casual sex, like men are, they would have way more partners just look at gay men. I think women are interested in casual sex, just with top tier men. Men don't have such high standards due to testosterone making us more horny, which is why even "Chads" will go on sex rampages and hook up with every girl who right swipes them on Tinder I don't think most women understand this but men legit find 99% of normal BMI women fuckable and attractive. Your right you could ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:39 AM
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Exactly, most women love the feeling of being filled up. I think the "size doesn't matter" is kinda cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:20 AM
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Most women need something other than penetration to orgasm, so dicks aren't as important as you might think they are. I think this is cope propagated online (mostly just reddit tbh) since most guys don't have big dicks. Every ex-gf I've had used to say "I can't get penetration orgasms" until I gave them their first. I'm 90th percentile girth and 70th percentile length for reference. Once you've had larger than average being satisfied by average is very difficult if not impossible. This is why wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 03:29 AM
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Why wouldn't she just call the police and get him locked up for beating her? Sorry but this sounds like a sus story tbh (unless you are from some 3rd world country with excessive corruption).
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