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Saw that post. Was wondering wtf happened.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/23 04:40 PM
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I don’t know but I thought about you guys when I saw this comment 🤔 “The child support thing is called title IV-D incentives. Basically the state receives dolle for dollar matching funds from the feds for child support collected. This is why 50/50 is basically non existent and why so many “mother states” exists. One parent will ALWAYS have at least 51% custody. There are cases where there are true legit 50/50 but if that is done in court, one parent must still pay child support. The only way out…
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/23 02:35 PM
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How is she dragging it out without a lawyer? Have your lawyer draw up the agreement you want and present it to her. If no response or she doesn’t agree, schedule mediation. Proceed from there. Getting a lawyer never speeds up the process.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 12:43 PM
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You should let your closets family and friends know that you have been targeted/scammed in this way and had to get the fbi involved because it’s absolute horseshit. Preempting the release would solve everything.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/23 08:16 PM
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There are far less good women/men than bad. Choose wisely.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 08:05 AM
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Have you gotten a lawyer yet? Are you going home and then filing the order? Because she needs to be the one that gets kicked out. And I’m guessing (ianal) that if you file this when you are the one who temporarily moved out, that will be status quo. Really hope you have a lawyer. That’s should be priority number 1.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 08:51 PM
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If you keep sympathizing with her mental illness, you will get fucked in the end. Can confirm.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 08:40 PM
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This is insane. With that kind of history and now she has pointed a gun in your face, the cops are absolutely negligent here. Since when is pointing a gun in someone’s face not assault? https://www.dictionary.com/browse/assault She should have been forced to leave. Did she admit to the cops she pointed the gun at you? Edit- nevermind. See your other replies. Hope you get away from this batshit crazy woman.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 08:27 PM
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Did you have a talk about not wanting to move the first time? Not a judgement. Just asking as I also moved due to spouse and that ended up being the end of the marriage. Did you talk to her now about everything you told us?
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/23 02:15 PM
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She slept in the same bed and then threatened to have the police escort her move? What a crazy bitch.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/23 11:41 AM
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I’d start off respectfully and see how it goes instead of anticipating what it’s going to be. He could be a complete dick or he could have exactly the same mindset as you. I’ll never be a stepparent again. It’s pure hell and I’ve been on both sides. Being a stepparent and my daughter having a stepparent. Id make a great aunt. I’ll be there for them and treat them respectfully and probably even bond. But I’m not parenting someone else’s kid. Way too dramatic. But would like to point out you don’t…
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/23 08:37 PM
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You can redact itemized statements? My stbx intentionally excluded a few months of credit card history and I’m about to ask for it. Is there any recourse if they have redacted the itemization?
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 12:10 AM
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There are far fewer good women than bad. Same with men. Choose wisely. On government- they did that shit on purpose. Same with feminism. Now transgenderism. And whatever other ism to intentionally indoctrinate and divide. It’s a silent war on the people.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/23 09:02 PM
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Yes. Because right now, people are simply outsourcing their parenting to the state. Which is perpetuating this cycle of the degeneracy in both sexes.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 01:33 AM
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My statements show cash back at the store. It will say the amount spent and then under it $100 cash back.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/22 09:38 PM
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Because she’s mentally ill and you are trying to use logic with an illogical person is the answer to wtf.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/22 10:30 PM
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Cant he file a motion to compel discovery? (IANAL) Deposition are expensive but nice to have. Especially verbal ones. She will be under oath so anything she lies about can be used at trial. Yes you can tell your attorney to ask questions. In my opinion, it’s really important to have well thought out questions that you know there is potential for lying at trial.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/22 06:21 AM
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Panicking never works so that’s out. If you talked about hurting her or the kids, it will definitely play a role. Especially if there are any current claims of abuse. I can’t figure out why YOUR attorney recommended you get a psych evaluation. Do you trust him? If not, get a new one. That’s all I got 🤷‍♀️
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/22 01:11 PM
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Nailed it. The day we figure it out is when you finally free yourself. Then realize you should have walked multiple times. Some of us (myself included) have to learn the hard way. Multiple times. It sucks.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 11:03 AM
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She was never real to begin with. These people are spawns of Satan.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 12:55 PM
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My ex husband was the exact same way. He’s a covert narcissist. In his case, and likely hers as well, they are absolutely disgusting human beings so they put on a false mask to hide what they truly are. Sometimes I don’t even think they know that’s what they are doing. But everytime you get close to exposing the truth (like when you found out she was cheating) they freak the fuck out and start laying the blame on you. They lack any ability to be held accountable for their actions because if they…
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 02:42 PM
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Once you realize everything she said was a lie you’ll be truly disgusted with her. I’m sure this is not the first time she lied. These types of “people” lie about everything. But I would say at its surface, yeah she probably wants to keep you around if she needs something.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 01:23 PM
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What state do you live in? In my state, if you aren’t fully divorced, it’s adultery and can play against you in the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 01:10 PM
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Deliveries with Walmart spark app. Or any other delivery app. That’s what everyone does between jobs.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 03:20 AM
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My ex husband was a complete pos. I still advocate for men because I see how badly they get screwed 🤷‍♀️ Have a wall but don’t fall into the trap that it’s every single one. Be selective if you do date. I know a guy who would just randomly go up to women and ask to fuck. Many times it was a yes. But then when he gets involved with a relationship with one, he’s shocked she’s crazy. That’s an extreme example but still feel something similar happens with most guys.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/22 12:37 PM
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💯
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 06:14 AM
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I know you didn’t mean me. But let’s use me anyway as I’m getting divorced from an abusive pos. Lets assume I’m telling the truth, unless we are under the belief that abusive pos’s dont exist. Things like this would skew the stats. Still doesn’t make you wrong. But I think over the last 2 years, we’ve learned stats are basically worthless.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 03:30 AM
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lol we don’t even disagree that much. Absolutely “feminism” did those things. Where do you think those views came from? Where do they ALWAYS come from? As a woman I was absolutely groomed in the government indoctrination centers to believe that men didn’t want us women having abortions because they wanted to control us. Among many other completely asinine beliefs. Certainly didn’t come from my blue collar family. Or friends.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 03:08 AM
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Yes. After being told they were less than men if they weren’t out there working like them. Absolutely no difference than the bs we see the youth indoctrinated with today. They certainly believe these are the things they want because they have been groomed to believe them.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 01:59 AM
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No fault divorce- part of the government indoctrination, yes.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 01:25 AM
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Yes. Your experience makes sense. I’m 40 and get where you are coming from. But the younger generation will in fact be having children. And though government indoctrination has convinced society that both parents working and outsourcing their parenting is ideal, many still don’t buy into this. This means that in a normal, average marriage (she’s not a whore and he’s not a wife beater), she’s likely to stay home. In this situation, she’s likely to be fucked IF there weren’t laws on the books unde…
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 12:56 AM
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Of course it’s a numbers game. But still let’s be real that the male side isn’t full of “80% decent men”. Also, there is no hope of turning back decades worth of government indoctrination to sort it all out. So men and women will just continue to divide.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 12:38 AM
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Isn’t that the same as saying when a woman slips, a man will start the process to find a new woman? Because I don’t think the men of this kind of sub are the ones to take a “slip” nicely. And if they are, well you know. Kinda deserved it?
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/22 10:48 PM
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She’s right of course. The struggle is the few women that think the way she does now can’t find a man because men believe all women are that way. 🤷‍♀️
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/22 04:27 PM
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I wouldn’t tell her you are going to an attorney. But you are definitely going to need one with kids and her potentially going after your retirement. The whole DIY divorce is for people who agree on everything and usually don’t have kids. There is going to be fights over custody/visitation schedules, child support, marital home (?), retirement, the business. This is far to complicated to do it without a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 08:30 PM
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Sounds like you have a chance but it would have to be fought for. Getting them to negotiate is, in my opinion, usually best after time and money to the attorney. You should definitely have an attorney but the costs keep rising the more you have to fight. Does she know you are willing to forgo entitlement to the land if she doesn’t touch your retirement? Have you negotiated everything else?
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/22 02:05 PM
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Makes sense. That’s exactly what happened to me by my ex.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 03:09 AM
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No. But yes, some people just suck. Usually they have a reason. Even if it’s an illogical one.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/22 03:06 AM
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At the risk of being banned from this sub, I have to ask what the hell happened to make her just suddenly corner you in a bathroom with this “We talked about counseling and she gas lite me into believing we may attempt a change. Then end of July she gets drunk and corners me in our bathroom. Informs me of how much of a shity father and husband I am tells me she is going to hire a lawyer and have me painted as a pos drug addict and take our son away from me. An hour later she passed out in the be…
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/22 02:41 AM
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I thought there was a federal law or us code that stated you can’t garnish more than 50% of someone’s wages. But I’m not a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/22 11:33 PM
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When op said “my ex makes more than me”would be my guess.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/22 10:33 AM
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Not a lawyer. But there are only a few specific ways to buy a house during a marriage in a common law state that makes it separate. One of them is inheritance or gift. Just buying a property and keeping everything separate doesnt make it your property because you are using marital funds to do everything. Unless the funds were inheritance/gift.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/22 01:07 PM
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Didn’t say that. Both sexes are important at different times.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/22 01:25 PM
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I don’t know about until 3. But a 5 month old needs frequent breastfeeding. So it’s difficult to have 50/50 split. Some women can and do pump. Some can’t. And others won’t. I’m in the “I’d really prefer straight breastfeeding” for the first year minimum. As many parents learn, once you introduce a bottle and the child realizes how much easier it is to get milk that way, they tend to not want to breastfeed as much. But I’d be willing to adjust the schedule after that stage because I realize the m…
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/22 07:49 PM
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I meant a prenup. Neither of you are wrong to want what you want. She wants to be married. You don’t. It’s time to have that convo where you amicably split ways. Nothing wrong with that. Edit: sorry just reread your question about being in a jurisdiction that didn’t allow prenups. Not something I’ve ever heard of before. But I think the end result is the same. Both of you make it known what is the bare minimum and then most likely split.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/22 06:45 PM
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But you can and should make your own contract. One that doesn’t leave her destitute (if you’re going traditional)and one that doesn’t leave you divorce raped. I prefer a traditional marriage. I enjoy keeping a home for our family. Cooking. Taking care of and serving a (loving!) husband. Homesteading. In exchange, I want a strong man to protect me and provide for me. It’s not for everyone. I was in a marriage where he said that’s what he wanted, but he’s literally mentally ill and abusive. Now I’…
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/22 06:36 PM
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How else do you have a conversation about it? I’m not saying to pressure anyone. But if someone is on a completely different path, how else do you talk about it? I guess she could just lovingly pack her shit, give him a kiss and say peace out. I’d rather find out if there is any desire to move forward.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/22 10:33 AM
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If it’s that, yes. If it’s “hey I’m wanting to start moving towards marriage. If that’s not what you are feeling, we might need to end it.” We don’t know because he just said ultimatum. What I just said above can be viewed as an ultimatum and that doesn’t make it pressuring.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/22 02:15 AM
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There’s also no advantage for a woman of child bearing age to not get married. Women do age. Yes. Its not for everyone.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/22 08:12 PM
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If she pressuring though? That’s a valid question. Because there is a difference from people who want two separate things in life and splitting amicably because of it.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/22 08:10 PM
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