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Your question shouldn't be how do I make a lot of money. It should be how do I get rich. If you are under 40, you can get rich without making a high income. Here's how. Make your living situation an investment - Buy a house/condo/duplex. Since it's a primary residence, most people can put as little as 3.5-5% down. Rent out rooms/the other half of the duplex. You will own property and your monthly payment will be heavily subsidized by the rent you collect. Instead of paying $2,000 a month to pay …
/r/askTRP03/06/20 08:40 PM
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Getting mad at her for shit testing you IS failing the shit test. You showed her that her words have an emotional effect on you which reveals you have a weak frame. Don't rationalize with women/point out their hypocrisies. This likely isn't salvageable. Move on. We all have fucked up before so don't be too hard on yourself. Learn from your mistakes and apply to the next one.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 06:18 PM
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Don't say that! Have you even read the sidebar? Show value with your actions. You can't bargain attraction. I'm assuming you haven't lifted a weight your entire life. Start with working out. It's the most straight forward part of TRP. Don't fucking run on the treadmill for 30 minutes and call it a day. Wake up a 6 AM six days a week and lift heavy weights. There are plenty of threads on this website about different routines you could do. Eat a shit ton of protein. If the gym is closed due to Cov…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/20 04:56 AM
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First of all, don't call people you don't like your enemies. It makes you sound like a 6-year-old. Second, why do you care? You broke up with her. She is free to do whatever the fuck she wants, as are you. Stop focusing on her and start asking yourself why your frame is so weak that this affects you. You know you have oneitis. If you didn't, you wouldn't give a shit. Move on. Talk to other girls. Forget she exists and don't even slightly entertain the idea of taking her back.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 10:52 PM
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Your writing style is identical to that of a pre-teen girl.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:32 PM
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I disagree. Real estate is never a bad investment if you do it right. I'm not convinced the market will go down, but even if it does, it doesn't matter. The sooner you buy, the better. Hear me out... You already said your living situation is a shit show right now. Why prolong that for any longer than you have to? If you're able to save 20% on a house in a year, you either make a ton of money or, more likely, you live in a city with inexpensive real estate. Places with inexpensive real estate gen…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:35 PM
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Stocks are extremely passive and are probably a good buy right now since the market is down. Real estate is a little less passive but in my opinion a better route to take. If you're currently renting, I'd save up money to buy a house and house hack (look it up on Google to learn about it). Where do you live? Buy a duplex and rent out the other side. In some parts of the country, you can literally have 90% of your rent paid for by someone else. Then when you want a bigger space, rent out both sid…
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:48 PM
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I know you're asking about dating life past 30, but the best advice I can give you is to start investing now. Passive income will give you a lot of leverage in life, and the earlier you start, the easier and more enjoyable your life will be.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 03:55 AM
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If she really likes you and views you as a solid 2 points SMV higher than herself. These are the women that will tell you to cum on their faces and will take it in the ass while calling you sir. They are generally pleasers by nature and a little rough around the edges, and do this to feel feminine. It kind of depends on what you're into though.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:53 PM
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My mind started decaying when I read your stupid post.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 04:24 PM
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You are full of excuses. Every sentence you say "but" or "because". Stop blaming your problem on external sources. You are the problem. You're insecure and lack confidence because you don't force yourself out of your comfort zone, as evident by the fact that you don't talk to women and are afraid to go to school. You kind of have interests? That's a weak ass statement. Not unexpected for a dough boy like yourself. Get passionate about things in your life. Stop being a little bitch. You have trou…
/r/askTRP08/02/20 02:29 AM
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Maybe it's not "hate", but by your own admission, you judge and feel disdain towards stupid people. I actually used to be that way too. It's an unattractive quality, and people can pick up on that. It also shows weakness, because you're letting other people's words and actions affect you emotionally. A man with a rock solid frame doesn't give a fuck, because they know that it doesn't matter. They are only focused on their own mission and goals.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:14 AM
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Too many red flags. Next her and move on.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:04 AM
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You need to change your attitude. From what you've written, it sounds like you still hate women. They can sense that. The guys that fuck the most are the ones that can laugh at the stupid things women say and do, and also laugh at themselves sometimes. Be fun. Radiate positive energy. Make them feel like children (in a feeling protected way and feeling like you're far superior to them). You don't tell them that with words. You show them with actions. I'm a believer in letting an HB 3-4-5 (whatev…
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:00 AM
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I find it a bit strange to be thinking about having mixed race kids when we're talking about 'passing on your genes' or your 'genetic legacy'. Why do you equate passing down your "genetic legacy" with having two same race parents? There is literally no correlation. Except you only contribute to 50% of your kid's genes, not 100%. The other 50% comes from the mother. This is true regardless of whether the mother is your race or not. Here's an example: if you are Japenese (ethnically speaking) and …
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:28 AM
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This is retarded logic. Your genes are passed down just as much in an interracial baby as it is in a single race baby. There are also advantages to biological diversity. There is a reason why you can't legally marry your sister or cousin.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:08 AM
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A lot can change in 3 years. A lot can change in 5 years. At 25, I was making $22,000 a year. I was living at home with my parents. I had just gotten dumped and cheated on, or at the very least branch swung, by a woman who I was extremely attached to. I hit rock bottom, and it wasn't the first time I had been down that low. I was so depressed I could barely work or leave the house. At age 25-27, I started playing sports. Mostly pickup games. That turned into leagues. I made a lot of friends and …
/r/askTRP26/12/19 03:29 PM
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You're a little beta bitch. You have no abundance mentality, you have massive onesitis, and you are a spiteful and pathetic person. Grow up. I sincerely hope you're young, because if you're over 22 and exhibiting this type of behavior, you need more help than anyone here can provide. We teach men how to be successful, functional adults. Not thugs. We teach men how to come from a position of power, not easily get destroyed by some pathetic woman. We teach you how to focus on what is important in …
/r/askTRP21/12/19 02:26 AM
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I'd worry about her feeling guilty later and blaming you for rape. No sex is worth a rape accusation. She would have the ammo of saying "I was scared, and I told him that I will never forgive him for doing this." Makes you look pretty guilty. Make her consent if you are going to fuck this girl.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 02:36 AM
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My advice to you is that you don't have to be good at everything. Find one thing that you do well and that has good profit margins and perfect that. It doesn't have to be an original idea. Once you have that perfected and have maxed out how much you can make doing that one thing should you consider adding new elements to your business. Summed up, being the best at one thing is better than being average at a lot of things. I would not consider myself rich yet, but I started a real estate investme…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 06:51 AM
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Acting confident and being confident are two different things. If you only feel confident in your bubble or in front of certain people, that's not true confidence.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 11:05 PM
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You're correct that you can't be direct with him. It will make him mad. You have good instincts for someone your age. This is a problem a lot of RP men struggle with. Sometimes it's with friends. Sometimes it's family. It comes up on this thread often. It's hard when you care about the person. You have to understand that you can't change people. They have to be motivated to change themselves. And while that's a sad reality, you have to be okay with that. Lead by example. And feel free to invite …
/r/askMRP29/11/19 06:57 PM
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Often times men that try to become the best version of themselves have too mature of a demeanor. That focus can help with advancing your career or being diligent about going to the gym, but when it comes to women, you have to remember they are like children. It's okay to let your immature side out in moderation. Perfect is boring. Just don't be a clown.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:48 AM
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Staying in your safe place isn't going to break you out of your depression. Push yourself. Have fun. Don't worry about the outcome.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 01:53 AM
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Agree with all that was said above. One other thing to add. If your gut is telling you she's faking it for attention, I'd avoid any situation where you are alone with her. She could make up a lie about you, and then best case scenario, it's he said she said and your LTR doesn't trust you. Worst case scenario she says you molested her and the police get involved.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:57 AM
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Dude. You're 18. You still have plenty of time to figure your shit out. Regarding your relationship, there is too much to write in one post. Read all the articles on the sidebar 5 times over, then read it again in a month. Most importantly, start applying what you learn immediately. You'll be fine.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:36 AM
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I just haven't ever had a girl that hot before that actually validated me, and it leads me to being incredibly depressed. Theres your problem. Alpha men does need women to validate them. When you rely on other people for validation, you're putting yourself in your frame. These women should be seeking validation from you. You'll have more control over your life and your surroundings. Reframe your point of view and life will be significantly better.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:16 PM
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Yeah, check out the website Bigger Pockets. They have some great resources to learn about real estate investing. I am currently focused on the BRRRR Method. Look up BRRRR Method Bigger Pockets on Google. Essentially, it's like flipping houses, but instead of selling, you rent them out and refinance. If you add enough value with the renovation, you can pull out all of your initial investment to use on future investments. Sometimes you can pull out more than you initially invested. You now have a …
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:48 AM
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I didn't take fully advantage of my 20s. Had some RP attributes, but was mostly BP. I was able to pull some HB6s and 7s, but had poor frame and fake confidence that only fooled the occasional woman. They dated me based on potential. I did not do well financially. I was unfocused and afraid of success. I lived at home until 27. Finally, I started figuring out my career and have done pretty well financially the last 4 years. This last year, after finding TRP, I decided to take some risks and start…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 06:25 PM
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The Red Pill position is AWALT. Fuck whoever you want. Have kids with whoever you want, or don't. If you're in another country, be aware of other cultures and factor that into how you pursue women, but the underlying principals of AWALT remain the same.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 08:53 PM
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It's a competitive field, but success doesn't require a high IQ. Often times the most intelligent and knowledgeable agents are unsuccessful. I work in real estate. There is not a strong correlation between success and high IQ. OP is talking about becoming a bartender, which isn't a super lucrative aspiration. If I were him, I'd rather learn a business where you can make tens of thousand of dollars from selling a single house, and take my chances with the competition. High level investing in real…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 08:43 PM
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If you're functioning as a waiter, you're probably an above average communicator. I'd suggest you get your real estate license. There is some math and logic involved, but there are also a lot of successful real estate agents that suck at this side of the business. It also makes it easier to invest in real estate, which is a great way to get rich over time.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:20 PM
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Unfortunately you can't change people. You either accept them for who they are and continue hanging out with them, or you don't involve them in your life. If I were you I'd distance myself from this friend. If he ever breaks up with his girlfriend, there is a high likelihood he will reach out to you to rekindle the relationship, and will apologize for being a bitch. You can decide if you want to take him back as a friend or not.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 06:18 PM
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Not sure where the statistic came from, but it's not that hard to believe. If the average man is sexually active from 18-32 before getting married, that's sleeping with 1 woman a year. Not too difficult. You're 20 years old. That number won't seem that high in a few years.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:54 PM
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Stop worrying. It's a waste of time and energy. You're probably fine. If you see signs of an STD, see a doctor and get it treated.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:16 AM
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The problem is you have interest in this girl that extends beyond friendship. You find her attractive and want to fuck her. She knows that and she's still not interested in you. You've become her beta orbiter. If you really want female friends, fine, but it can't derive from a place of sexual attraction. That's rare.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:27 AM
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I agree with the other poster that it's better to show with actions than tell, but if it's someone you don't interact with in person that could be difficult. Either way, you have bad oneitis for this girl. You need to find yourself abundance, and stop being so stuck on this one girl. ​ Being in the friend zone is pathetic. It's admitting to her that you agree that you're not viable for mating. Your self esteem is so low that you're willing to give her attention anyways (essentially a dog begging…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:44 PM
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I wouldn't worry about penis length. Focus on things you have control over, like how you use it.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:34 PM
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Sounds like she just wants attention. If she wanted to hang out with you she would offer an alternative date/time. Find other women. Casually mention to her that you're hangin out with another girl. Maybe she will come around, but I wouldn't bank on it.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:07 PM
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You obviously lack self awareness if you didn't pick up on why they were laughing at you. Stop living in your own head and focus on your surroundings. Picking up on social cues is key to success in life, both with women and work. Even if you have Aspergers you can still improve. Also, cut out the racist bullshit. It makes you look like an idiot.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 07:10 PM
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You're a delusional fool. I'd say start with a job at McDonalds and see if you can work your way up to manager.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:46 AM
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You sound really young. I'd guess still in high school. While TRP principals hold true at all ages, it's especially prominent the older you get. You will differentiate yourself by being more successful (in high school, everyone is more or less at the same level of success), in better shape (while other people your age are getting fat or sloppy), and holding a strong frame. At your age, the main differentiator is "game". Work on your game. That's likely where you're lacking.
/r/askTRP02/03/19 01:14 AM
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You can't compare apples to oranges. The comparison is will a 4'11" buff balding Indian get more women than a 4'11" fat balding Indian. The answer is yes. Let's take it one step further. Will a 4'11" buff balding Indian billionaire get more women than a 4'11" fat balding homeless Indian. Fuck yes. This sub is for people that actually want to take responsibility for their lives and make the most of the hand they're dealt. It's not for incels to feel sorry about themselves.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:18 AM
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I don't know you, but if your introversion is causing you to be cold, you may be coming off as arrogant and people might think you feel superior to them. You view it as a problem or you wouldn't be posting here. Why don't you ask a friend or someone who actually knows you to get a better answer?
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:23 AM
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2nd step - Read the sidebar. You seem like a major fixer upper. You should probably read it multiple times. ​
/r/askTRP20/02/19 07:01 PM
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I had pretty bad acne growing up. It ruined my self esteem. Only later did I realize that nobody focused on it 1/10th as much as I did. I wish I would have realized that sooner. Assuming you mature into a man, you'll realize that nobody gives a shit about you besides your mom. It's a good thing. Most women don't realize this until they're old because they crave and get attention from men and other women a good portion of their lives. You won't be happy as long as you're worried about what other …
/r/askTRP14/02/19 04:56 AM
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You don't tell her. You show her by showing attention to other women. She will step up her game and hit the gym/diet if she wants to keep you around.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:19 AM
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Lift/work out. Find something you enjoy doing career-wise that is also practical. Will the income give you the lifestyle you desire? Practice talking to women. Practice talking to men. You'll make mistakes. Learn how to fail without having your fragile little ego shattered. The best way to stop idealizing women is to have confidence. Confidence comes from doing what I wrote about above and it also comes from experience. Just remember that it doesn't happen overnight. Enjoy the process and don't …
/r/askTRP05/02/19 10:52 PM
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Your story telling is terrible. You're not giving enough information to give you advice. Why was your ego destroyed? Why did he go from telling a story to offering you a business opportunity? Are you saying that he told you not to pursue the career path you were originally thinking of going down? What was the career path and why did he advise against you going down that path? Answer these questions and I'll give you advice.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 01:28 AM
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From my experience, educated women have a higher sex drive and are more fun in bed. Most of them grew into their looks later in life, so they didn't getting the same attention as the popular girls and don't think of themselves as princesses. Therefore they are more eager to put in effort. If you're hot and intelligent, you come along and shows interest in them and it fulfills their lifelong fantasy of being with a Chad. They will still think of themselves as a 5 because they haven't figured out …
/r/askTRP15/01/19 05:01 PM
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Get out of the house or get her out of the house. You should not be living with her. Your sanity should be worth more than $1,000. I don't know how to game other chicks (wtf make a tinder while she's still living with me or some shit?)Why are you even focused on that right now? You're not ready to "game chicks". You'll get right back into a relationship and be a beta and get fucked over again. It's so evident that you're dependent on women for happiness. I can see it in your writing style. Lift,…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:21 AM
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When I was a BP marrying my 3kids-singlemom-secretary there were 100s of people congratulating me and making me feel great for love and sacrifice. There were 100s for telling me how awesome of a man I was though I had a beer belly that looked like an obese old woman's nippleless tits. You used to derive pleasure from receiving validation from others. Deep down, you still do. Once you let it go, you won't feel as lonely. An alpha man get satisfaction from completing the task. A beta man and most …
/r/askTRP02/01/19 08:27 PM
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