comosellamadrama Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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54	Being sexually desired ≠ Being respected So being educated, independent woman is a great thing, whereas being a sex doll is a bad thing I absolutely HATE how saying this in social justice spheres is a bad thing. All I ever want to point out is that it's gross to treat female sexuality as a commodity or currency -- because male sexuality is not treated the same way outside of generally homosexual niches. I'm not saying that SWs are bad people or "kink shaming." My personal MO is do what makes you happy without hurting others. But I woul…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/21 06:16 AM
38	Deb Cooper spitting facts. "LEFTOVER MEN: Uneducated, Unemployed, Undesirable" Someone said: "What about tradesmen?" but I can't see their comment. Anyway, I liked what Deb said about that: You still have to be able to pass the certification and go through the whole journeyman process where you work under a master craftsman. There is still some education required. And if you’re too stupid to understand electrical currents, different voltages… There’s math involved, there’s some algebra and geometry involved… If you’re stupid, you can’t be a good mechanic nor can you be a g…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/21 06:50 AM
88	Deb Cooper spitting facts. "LEFTOVER MEN: Uneducated, Unemployed, Undesirable" "Education is overrated, a degree is only a piece of paper, STREET SMARTS ARE WHAT REALLY MATTER." Funny how I only ever hear uneducated men say that. Higher education is a massive endurance test. Like Deb says, it's all about "the ability to learn and stay focused." Perhaps women are more successful in higher education because society has trained them to grin and bear a lot of thankless labor. Finishing a BA or BS means that you have managed lower-level busy work, upper-level capstone projects,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/21 06:11 AM
4	Solicited Most When Feeling Less Than Best It’s very attractive when a woman is vulnerable and needs help. And that’s historically always been that way. I didn’t make that up. That’s why the term is… “damsel in distress”. Not “overly opinionated d*ke who needs a fucking hand, man!” That’s why. If a woman can do it herself, it’s not as attractive. Put it this way. If we’re all animals, okay? And men are… lions. And women are, like, gazelles. What’s a lion, if he’s hungry, more likely to go after? The gazelle, running at 90, unencumbered b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/21 01:10 AM
5	"Male feminsts" tend to focus on the "sex work is work", "sex work is empowering" and are heavy porn addicts. I watched it on Netflix, but I'm pretty sure it's on other streaming platforms like Hulu too!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/21 05:15 PM
23	"Male feminsts" tend to focus on the "sex work is work", "sex work is empowering" and are heavy porn addicts. Oh gosh, related to your first point -- have you seen The Florida Project? It came out in 2017, and it's about this little girl who lives in a motel near Disney World with her stoner-girl mom. (And spoiler: Toward the end of the movie, the mom has run out of money and isn't able to strip anymore, so she starts having sex with men for money and locks the little girl in the bathroom while she's with her Johns. The little girl is removed from the mom's care by CPS because there's footage of eight m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/07/21 05:01 PM
110	This is how you savagely troll an insecure ego Dudes that rock abs are on the brink Bc they know without said abs they are nothing! Holy fuck, this reminds me of a terrible thing that happened to a girl who was a friend of a friend. Her ex-boyfriend so obviously was on steroids. Like, a lot of steroids. He looked like he was trying to be a body builder or something. It was his defining feature. He broke into her dorm, wrecked everything she owned, shattered the door to her balcony, smashed her computer... Real 'roid rage stuff... and the sch…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/21 06:33 AM
67	"If England gets beaten, so will she" when england loses a football match, the figure for domestic violence surges by 38%. Even if they win, it goes up by 26%. Have you read The Power by Naomi Alderman? The premise is that women become the dominant gender in societies across the world almost overnight. The moral of the story is supposed to be that power corrupts regardless of who wields the power... But toward the end, I was low-key like, I think I prefer the matriarchal fantasy more.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/07/21 05:06 AM
3	I just did it. Very insightful analysis! I would add that I've noticed a lot of men include pictures of them with their exes on OLD as if to say, "You must be at least as hot as this woman that I used to sleep with." It's like the triangulation begins before you even meet. OLD is such a hellscape.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/21 01:10 AM
24	I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymore Tonight I binged the whole first season based on your recommendation, and WOW. In the first three minutes, the asshole guy was mad that his wife focused on planning his birthday WEEKEND instead of his whole birthday WEEK, and he took off to Italy alone when he was pissy. Just... yikes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/21 06:52 AM
5	Men meet tons of high value relationship worthy women every day and they just aren’t interested. High value women are a dime a dozen. Meanwhile we are thirsty for every single drop of attention a mediocre male gives us. Ugh, I'm "dating" someone exactly like this guy. I'm using "dating" in scare quotes because he doesn't want to call what we're doing -- hanging out for 8+ hours once/twice a week, texting every day, being intimate -- dating. Being in love with a limp dick man is hell.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 05:29 AM