comparingmyself Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
71	Women aren't looking for wealthy guys, they are looking for guys that splurge	CMV	comparingmyself	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/22 01:54 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's fine, we are on the Internet. It didn't trigger or offend me in any way, but it's always good to be aware, so I wanted to point it out. No harm done. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 02:48 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I agree. Thanks for reassuring me, that actually helps me quite a bit :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 02:18 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread If you sleep with them though, they can potentially become toxic after rejection. ummm... Yeah... I'd say it sounds like an issue with your behavior. You probably shouldn't tell them you aren't attracted to them and describing yourself as having "super high expectations" makes me think you're mean to them in other ways. You might be onto something. My expectations are not about them doing a ton for me, but more about them being a very specific way that meshes with my personality, so it really is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 02:14 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes, that is part of it for me as well. Also just general vibes, which are hard to gauge early on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 02:13 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Very good looking, not clingy, self-confident, able to give space and take space herself and fill it meaningfully, very intelligent, driven, and interesting personality. But most of all: Meshes well with my personality, which has been a rare thing for me. You know, that "this person GETS ME" feeling? It's also about being a meaningful improvement over just being alone. And no, I have not had that experience. But I think that the experience of others does not invalidate my experience, right? I am…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 02:12 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yup, exactly. It's somewhat easier when they are disconnected to you but I often meet these girls in my circle of acquaintances and therefore just ignoring does not work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 02:10 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Very good looking, not clingy, self-confident, able to give space and take space herself and fill it meaningfully, very intelligent, driven, and interesting personality. But most of all: Meshes well with my personality, which has been a rare thing for me. You know, that "this person GETS ME" feeling?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 02:09 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Dating is fucking hard when you are a man with expectations because attractive women are not used to being rejected after a few dates. I have super high expectations which means if someone passes the attractiveness filter it doesn't mean I wanna get into an LTR. Hot women are incredulous when you tell them you are not attracted to them after all, and they can become very toxic. Any advice for dealing with that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 03:10 AM