computerbone Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	I don't think that the behavior okletterhead is engaged in is productive or should be tolerated		computerbone	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/10/20 12:00 AM
1	A grave injustice has been done to this man. Let's help make it right and establish a good legal precedent along the way.		computerbone	/r/MensRights	19/08/16 02:03 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Please help, I think my fiancée is beginning to resent her own existence because of RP content Honestly in the immediate term I would give her a specific amount of discretionary income every paycheck that is hers, and is predictable and in that conversation tell her that you expect her to stop using those reddits.	/r/ExRedPill	22/05/21 03:42 PM
13	Bi phobia specifically from women. Angry feminists should be told to seek understanding more often.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/04/21 10:52 PM
1	Bi phobia specifically from women. What are the ideological characteristics of Middle class white feminism and what communities practice other forms of feminism?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/04/21 10:45 PM
1	If you would not stop a women being assaulted you don’t deserve to call yourself a man So men are only required to lay down their lives for women when women need protection and as long as that isn't happening right now then there is no double standard?	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/21 11:20 PM
-1	If you would not stop a women being assaulted you don’t deserve to call yourself a man I think you assume far too much from my response. I'm not opposed to heroism I'm just not going to be quiet when someone says there is no evidence of a double standard in terms of expectations about it. I also think that the title of this post tends towards a trad-con notion of gender roles that I'm pretty uncomfortable with. Also heroism must be voluntary, when acting for the good of others against your own will isn't voluntary it isn't heroism it is oppression. My feelings about the post are a…	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/21 11:15 PM
0	If you would not stop a women being assaulted you don’t deserve to call yourself a man I suppose both?	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/21 05:23 PM
-2	If you would not stop a women being assaulted you don’t deserve to call yourself a man The all male draft?	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/21 03:58 PM
5	If you would not stop a women being assaulted you don’t deserve to call yourself a man Women are statistically underrepresented in professions where saving someone comes at the expense of physical risk to the hero and this absolutely has to do with traditional gender roles which can be seen reflected in the title of this post.	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/21 02:06 PM
2	I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to it So I would say that while some people definitely fit into these categories it isn't clear that people tend in general to fit into one or the other. My grandfather was a fighter pilot. He was dangerous muscular and exciting but not rebellious or tattooed. He was stable but not very loving. Being rebellious, being adventurous, being physically fit and being loving are not correlated from what I have seen. Mark Twain was rebellious adventurous and deeply in love with his wife although I have never …	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/21 03:00 AM
2	I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to it how would you define a badboy? how would you define a niceguy?	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/21 01:21 AM
5	I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to it They date up or they desire to date up?	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/21 01:03 AM
1	I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to it Is superman a nice guy or a bad boy?	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/21 01:01 AM
4	I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to it What would you say is the core of Hypergamy?	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/21 12:56 AM
7	Why I am not a Feminist. Yes but we can still challenge the legitimacy of those core beliefs when we decide to subscribe to an ideology or not.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/01/21 05:25 PM
5	'Boys underperform in schools because we look after their wellbeing less' Delinquency is a form of self defense.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/12/20 01:12 AM
9	'Boys underperform in schools because we look after their wellbeing less' Do you have a link to the study?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/12/20 01:06 AM
3	When redpillers say they have evolutionary biology on their side? Is there anything that debunks their theory? Alpha males are a myth and yet Sapolsky exists. Paradox ;)	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/20 02:23 PM
12	When redpillers say they have evolutionary biology on their side? Is there anything that debunks their theory? If you are interested in evolutionary biology I would recommend Robert Sapolsky this one is on the effect of culture in apes. The issue isn't really that evolutionary biology doesn't have examples of dominant male apes and competition and rape but rather that it also has parents that eat their children and animals that change gender and all sorts of other things that can't readily be applied to humans. You don't have to look at evolutionary biology to see that red pill strategies are not particu…	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/20 11:40 AM
5	Are men jealous or angry at OnlyFans? Honestly I'm thrilled that there is an endless sea of pretty young things posting nudes all over reddit. It has had absolutely zero negative impact on me. Would I like to have my looks more appreciated sure but onlyfans has had no effect on that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/11/20 11:05 PM
1	Our woke feminist opponents like to smear EVERYBODY with the white supremacy attack. Example: author Saira Rao By far left I mean in the US so the SJW and antifa crowds.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/11/20 12:49 AM
5	Our woke feminist opponents like to smear EVERYBODY with the white supremacy attack. Example: author Saira Rao I think that has more to do with the far left in general than feminists specifically.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/11/20 02:13 PM
2	Regarding Men # 10 Why VAWA Should Not Be Reauthorized Do you think that spurious claims of child molestation should be used as political attacks?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/11/20 11:19 PM
3	Regarding Men # 10 Why VAWA Should Not Be Reauthorized "creepy joe biden to some of you." So he's not above spreading hate for men through accusing them of being predatory as long as it's for his political ends. I don't know how I feel about vawa but I can say I'm definitely not going to listen to this guy talk for 40 mins	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/11/20 09:39 PM
6	I left r/mgtow recently Try mindfullness meditation for anxiety, a good book for it is full catastrophe living by Jon Kabat-Zinn. It is long and I think he might have a shorter introduction if you just want to get started. For depression I would recommend "feeling good" by David D. Burns. He is the inventor of CBT and I have found the book pretty beneficial. Regarding my mental health, is there anything I can do about it by myself? Yes and no. Yes you can read and learn and change and grow and these are all thing you w…	/r/ExRedPill	21/11/20 01:51 PM
3	After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept this Also Sir Isaac Newton who's brilliance simply eats me up inside died a virgin. I'm not saying you will or should but if you wanted to that would be perfectly acceptable way to be from my perspective. I dunno. Hoping perspective can take some of the pressure off you.	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/20 06:57 PM
1	After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept this Yeah, I think it is ok to perform a little as long as it doesn't compromise your core values. It's definitely an uneasy compromise trying to respect and love yourself for who you are and at the same time be willing to change parts of yourself to please someone else or society.	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/20 06:52 PM
2	After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept this I wonder what her motivation was. She sounds really insecure but I don't know for sure because I don't know the situation all that well. It sounds like you were raised pretty conservatively from the "respect women" comment and I think that kind of upbringing can make it feel like women are aliens and you can't look inside yourself to guess how they would react to things. There are a lot of conflicting demands in order to be a "good man" these days and it's hard to figure out. I'm sorry someone d…	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/20 03:30 PM
-1	After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept this Yeah for sure. I think a lot of people are quick to tell you do this or that and I think a lot of that is because you're a man they assume you have to make the world and if you were a woman they'd be a lot more sympathetic. I want you to know I hear you. It I'm a little confused about what you want because you say you don't want what to be promiscuous but you seem to be a little envious of her ability to be promiscuous.	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/20 02:06 PM
4	opinions on Patrice ONeal? Sometimes I feel some of the things he says about relationships but I don't feel that way all the time and I don't feel like I'd take any advice from him because he doesn't really seem all that satisfied.	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/20 02:00 PM
2	After we broke up my ex was able to go on and have multiple flings while I have been struggling and I don't think I can accept this That sounds really hard. Do you have people offline you can talk honestly to about these things?	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/20 01:40 PM
3	Most feminists are fake A big cat called=of being cat called	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/11/20 12:16 PM
13	BRUTAL! My red pilled normie friend was bragging about his Tinder game then this happened! This woman was not turned on, she was actually disgusted and played along to bait him lol. No, most objections are not tests that can be passed through being manly. Most sane people aren't setting traps for people when it is easier and more reliable to just observe their responses to life which provides ample tests of their character. Masculinity is attractive to some people but it is only one element of someones character which might be found valuable.	/r/ExRedPill	03/11/20 04:31 PM
3	Debunking the myth of biological male disposability Biological drives are mediated by societal incentives, it is never the one without the other.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/10/20 01:27 PM
3	Debunking the myth of biological male disposability In apes there are two breeding strategies, one in which men and women are the same size and one male breeds with one female, the other the male is much larger and one male breeds with many females (but the majority of males never mate). It has been shown that females tend to be sized efficiently for their environment as are males in monogamous species but males in tournament species (species where one male dominates breeding) are significantly larger than would be beneficial in the environment i…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/10/20 01:21 PM
1	Debunking the myth of biological male disposability That's not particularly true. War is often caused by an inability to convince each other that you aren't going to war.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/10/20 12:57 PM
3	Domestic Violence, The Big Secret. Really my point was that it needs to be added. His article is short	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/10/20 11:22 AM
5	Domestic Violence, The Big Secret. This article isn't mentioned on his wikipedia page which is a shame.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/10/20 02:24 AM
5	Women have no right talking about how men express their masculinity. It's a bad rule, don't apply it to either gender.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/10/20 01:09 PM
8	Women have no right talking about how men express their masculinity. No, it is true that they are being hypocrites by criticizing while demanding to not be criticized but the appropriate response is to acknowledge everyone is entitled to their opinion and everyone can be the subject of criticism.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/10/20 12:43 PM
1	Corporations support feminism and racial separatism because it destroys working-class solidarity It just seems to me that the same radicalism that made them discontent with the Democrat coalition ultimately made them incapable of maintaining their own coalition. I don't think the rich have had a real strategy to undermine class solidarity since the new deal.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/10/20 11:00 PM
5	Corporations support feminism and racial separatism because it destroys working-class solidarity I think at the same time occupy was happening the zeitgeist was that compromise is for pussies and that led to the polarization of the parties and the fracturing of the parties into more radical sects. Trump won the republican primary because there were too many moderate Republicans in the race. Bernie would have won the democratic primary except that the moderates got smart and dropped out to consolidate the vote. The idea of a race based speaking order would have gained no ground at occupy if …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/10/20 07:19 PM
4	Why women get equal pay if they don't generate equal revenue ? In 2020 "gender equality" is more like female privilege and supremacy. I think that beyond having a social safety net people should get paid more if they generate more revenue (within a legal framework that protects people and the environment) because it incentives them doing work that people really want done but which is often not very pleasant or can't be done by many people.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/09/20 02:36 AM
1	How Higher Education “Studies” Men https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL77A337915A76F660 If you are interested in the end of the western roman empire you should watch this lecture series!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/09/20 01:13 AM
0	How Higher Education “Studies” Men From a historical perspective Odoacer overthrew Romulus Augustus to become the first king of italy around (476-493) and the catholic church proper didn't exist until the great schism in 1054. You might argue that the catholic church started with the alliance between Pope Leo III and Charlemange in 754 but either way it just isn't that simple. I mean definitely fuck that author but it isn't clear christianity had a deleterious effect on Rome. For instance the Byzantine Empire was just the eastern…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/20 03:12 PM
1	How Higher Education “Studies” Men Knowing that he is right-wing makes me more skeptical of his characterization of his opponents arguments. Because I don't trust his analysis elsewhere I can't trust his analysis here even if in the end he is correct.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/20 02:52 PM
5	How Higher Education “Studies” Men Author of "While Europe Slept: How Radical Islam is Destroying the West from Within" :(	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/20 03:20 AM
3	I’m so tired of being a male advocate My belief is you shouldn't push more on the world than you can afford to have it push back on you but the effort you can spare is completely valid.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/08/20 11:17 PM
10	I’m so tired of being a male advocate The imbalance was only historically prominent for the upper 10% of society.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/08/20 11:17 PM
29	Is there any truth to red pill theories such as the 80/20 rule and alpha fuxx beta buxx principle? I'm pretty confident that I'm in the top 20% of guys. I haven't noticed 80% of women chasing after me. The vast majority have their own shit going on.	/r/ExRedPill	17/06/20 01:43 PM
5	Is this Red Pill or Not? How can you square the theory that all women are hypergamous with the fact that the majority don't cheat and the majority of marriages don't end in divorce? Also you listed a quite a few things as over everything but that simply can't be.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/20 02:52 PM
6	This might be the hardest thing I'll ever have to write You could tell them you are scared of that. That would be more honest and less manipulative than concealing it. If you just can't I understand. Baby steps if need be. Good luck	/r/ExRedPill	10/11/19 02:07 PM
1	The Prevalence of Red Pill/Incel Subs Shows That Danger is Lurking My model is one in which each trait has its market value and each partner is likely to find a partner similar (but ideally higher) than themselves in each trait. You can only minimally exchange one trait for another but when it does occur it tends to be heavily based on gender norms (ie rich guy pretty girl) also I find that those that ideologically embrace gender norms are more comfortable making those exchanges.	/r/ExRedPill	10/11/19 03:13 AM
1	Shedding Incel/Redpill worldview seems impossible because it is so true Thanks. I wish you the best and hope you find worthy people to fill your life with. Also have you read the metamorphosis? You might connect with it. It might just be painful to read. I don't know.	/r/ExRedPill	09/11/19 04:46 PM
2	The Prevalence of Red Pill/Incel Subs Shows That Danger is Lurking I largely agree with the things you said but I disagree on your take on pornography. I have been interested in cruelty in sex for as long as I remember having sexual thoughts, long before I found an outlet for those interests in pornography. I am not a misogynist. I can engage in that behavior within role play situations of consensual non-consent. Many of my fantasies will also have to stay in the realm of fantasy. Research has shown that the use of violent pornography increases instances of vio…	/r/ExRedPill	09/11/19 01:55 PM
4	The Prevalence of Red Pill/Incel Subs Shows That Danger is Lurking Not that guy but my concern is much less about whether you want to be with a woman and much more about if you build communities in which you can share your insecurities with people who will tell you that it is fundamentally ok to be human and that you are worthwhile as an individual. If MGTOW does that I think its fine. But I suspect that instead in encourages hiding flaws and a mentality of "Either be the victimizer or expect to be the victim". To be fair that is one reality. But I think it is …	/r/ExRedPill	09/11/19 01:34 PM
3	Shedding Incel/Redpill worldview seems impossible because it is so true I'm sorry that you were betrayed at your weakest. To know I could one day be treated that way is sobering to say the least. That being said the most fulfilling relationships I have had are built on a foundation of vulnerability and mutual trust. My father died young, The cancer made him physically weak and the knowledge of his impending death made him emotionally quite vulnerable. I never saw any evidence that my mother became disgusted by him. I do know however that many people in that situatio…	/r/ExRedPill	09/11/19 01:14 PM
9	The Prevalence of Red Pill/Incel Subs Shows That Danger is Lurking The intersection of feminist and trad-con values has been particularly hard on low status males. I don't think it is a problem with intersectional feminist theory but rather arises when you convert that into policy. I don't know why you have so little concern for the plight of impoverished men and women abroad who want to come here for a shot at a decent living	/r/ExRedPill	08/11/19 05:56 PM
3	Shedding Incel/Redpill worldview seems impossible because it is so true Are you referring specifically to physical weakness or emotional vulnerability as well? Cruel people of both genders are quick to shake off people that they suspect will be a burden.	/r/ExRedPill	08/11/19 05:46 PM
3	Shedding Incel/Redpill worldview seems impossible because it is so true It seems strange to say that is the case for women specifically. The ability to read people has meant the difference between life and death for everyone	/r/ExRedPill	08/11/19 05:38 PM
4	Shedding Incel/Redpill worldview seems impossible because it is so true Since I don't have any of these characteristics and will never obtain them, I am forever unattractive and will never get any woman. The conclusion doesn't follow from the premises even if they are true. Never show any weakness or else you will eliminate all your chances immediately. This is untrue. Most of my experience with women indicates that they prefer a man who can be honest about their insecurities. That doesn't mean however that you should look to use pity as leverage to get a relationsh…	/r/ExRedPill	06/11/19 08:54 PM
10	Thoughts on the “number count” for women? I'm married now but before that I just wanted girls that had slept with at least one guy. When I was younger I would have been with a virgin but as I got older it became less desirable. If someone really wants to know your count it's probably a bad sign about them. It's not a credit score and you haven't lost any value	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/19 04:41 PM
6	As a woman, I paid money for a red pill coach for at least 6 months Sole providers should have life insurance. Work is crap. Every one who is able should find something more rewarding than work	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/19 03:39 AM
1	Imprinting women is legit? But our arguments should be factually correct if they are to have staying power. It didn't help though that the original post was pretty incoherent so it was hard to respond to intelligently anyway.	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/19 03:21 AM
-1	Imprinting women is legit? I didn't realize it was such a hot issue I those circles. I studied biology and humans are in many ways like animals. It is not proven whether imprinting exists in humans or not. I was responding to the argument that it definitely doesn't exist. Imprinting is theorized to be the source of object based fetishes. I don't advocate for hurting children. I have no desire to be mistaken for someone who does. I think that there are better arguments against sexually abusing children than saying that imp…	/r/ExRedPill	04/10/19 01:14 AM
-4	Imprinting women is legit? Comments that assume humans don't experience imprinting are misguided. However I will say that the things you are mentioning are not examples of imprinting. Sexual imprinting occurs before sexual maturity	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/19 05:52 PM
2	sexual market value is a narcissistic concept Another way to say this is that men value beauty and youth more than women do. Because overall attractiveness should balance in a non polygamous society anything one sex values more will be compensated elsewhere. Another way to put it is men are more willing to sacrifice status for beauty in a partner.	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/19 06:30 PM
3	TRP advice is sociopathic, but something vaguely similar is needed There's absolutely zero evidence of some patriarchy that is trying to keep women out of STEM fields, so that's not the reason if that's what you're implying. Male and Female professors alike tend to rate identical applications with male names as being more competent. Also the best attempts at generating an adjusted income gap still show it persisting after all known factors are accounted for so while the adjusted wage gap is smaller its persistence is still a problem.	/r/ExRedPill	31/12/18 12:13 PM
0	TRP advice is sociopathic, but something vaguely similar is needed Feminism fails to be a good advocate for men. I know that theoretically it wants to be but the majority of it is by women for women or by women for men but on the subject of women. I do think that the ideologies that have grown to fill this need are really bad but the male suicide rate is through the roof, there is clearly an unmet need.	/r/ExRedPill	31/12/18 10:44 AM
2	Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm exredpill? I'd say don't wait until he knows she will understand but rather until he suspects she will understand. You have to take on some degree of risk in order to build trust.	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/18 06:23 PM
4	Should I tell my girlfriend that I'm exredpill? I think honest is the best thing you can be in a relationship. Being dishonest about your feelings begins an emotional separation that tends to grow into resentment. It's not an STD and you aren't obliged to tell her but don't hesitate to if it will help her understand your behavior or your feelings or even if not telling her starts to feel like a lie. I'm a little appalled that this sub of all places is encouraging you to hide what you are/have been in order to be more attractive to a mate.	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/18 06:19 PM
1	I'm in the process of going full red pill, why shouldn't I? I don't think you should be down-voted for this comment. I think that some of the things you have learned may be valuable. It is important to realize that you are valuable and can walk away from a bad situation and also that that willingness itself may help rectify the situation. unfortunately issue is that the red pill is not just a series of techniques you can try and see if they work rather it is a whole explanatory philosophy that is inaccurate and harmful. I would think it would be better t…	/r/ExRedPill	12/12/18 07:52 PM
1	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. Some rituals are social and others are private. I was referring to a private ritual.	/r/ExRedPill	11/12/18 12:27 AM
1	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. I hope you are able to find some close friends that you consider to be moral people. Their approval can function to insulate you from the garbage values of consumer culture.	/r/ExRedPill	11/12/18 12:25 AM
1	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. True, people don't get paid to do what they want to do for free.	/r/ExRedPill	11/12/18 12:24 AM
1	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. That's fair and a good deal of media does reflect very poorly on us and probably drive us to continue in the same path. That being said I promise that love mercy kindness and selflessness exist I have seen them in art and in life and to ignore their existence is to take part in the cognitive distortion I talked about in the other post.	/r/ExRedPill	11/12/18 12:01 AM
2	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. No my metaphor breaks down because there is no other shore to reach and we all drown in the end. But on the other hand that should be liberating! My point is that you don't need to react so strongly to the actions and beliefs of others. You don't need to fight them and you don't need to embrace them.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 11:56 PM
2	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. a ritual only exists in its performance	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 11:53 PM
2	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. ultimately you are morally accountable to yourself I don't believe in god either. The story of Job is most interesting when you consider it was written before the concept of heaven was introduced. The theme is that you will not be rewarded or punished for your goodness but none the less you should be good.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 11:50 PM
2	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. The specific technique I recommended is from "Feeling good" which was written by the guy that developed CBT but again it's not about what you have to read or know or understand rituals must be performed if they are going to work because it is the performance of them that alters the patterns of thinking.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 11:45 PM
3	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. No one is ever going to reward you for imposing your morality on them. You will always be punished for following you own morality instead of the morality of those in power but you should stay strong through that struggle because ultimately you are morally accountable to yourself -Job 20:18	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 11:33 PM
2	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. My understanding was not that McLuhan rejected contents existence but rather considered content to be rather static with changes associated with new media actually driving societal change. I.E. fake news has always existed but in the click-bait format it drives us to consume so much that we might decide to drive a car into a crowd.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 11:27 PM
4	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. I'm not talking about cognitive biases which are a normal part of all normal cognition. I'm talking about a cognitive distortion A cognitive distortion is an exaggerated or irrational thought pattern involved in the onset and perpetuation of psychopathological states, especially those more influenced by psychosocial factors, such as depression and anxiety You sound depressed to me and I recommended that you utilize a CBT technique. The important thing is to recognize that it isn't a concept that…	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 11:22 PM
2	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. His comments were addressing content rather than form so the quote doesn't seem very applicable. If I misunderstand please explain.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 11:13 PM
2	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. When you are trying to cross a river you don't swim against it or with it but rather perpendicular to it. If you don't like being a commodified consumer stop buying things and start being things.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 11:10 PM
4	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. It does need to be studied specifically to free yourself from the harmful messages it sends. Don't form your worldview asa kneejerk reaction to other poor worldviews.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 09:07 PM
2	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. Pop media is trash. redpill media is just as shit. Click bait is designed to elicit strong emotional reactions to increase engagement. If you let it into your life expect to be emotionally exhausted and uninformed.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 09:01 PM
6	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. You are falling victim to a classic cognitive distortion called discounting the good. Yes there are highly Machiavellian people and all people have some self serving nature but there is also love, kindness, heroism and self sacrifice. If you sit down and write a list of good human behaviors you have seen in the past day/week and then repeat the exercise regularly you will begin to notice them more and it will help you escape the feel.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 08:57 PM
7	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. I think you misunderstand that quote.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 08:53 PM
3	i thought i had exed the redpill but.. There are better "tools" available if you care to look for them. Read yourself some Chekhov my man.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/18 08:52 PM
1	What do you guys have to say about the infamous (now taken down) OkCupid study on correlation between looks and personality? Couples tend to be closely matched in terms of physical attractiveness which I find as inoffensive as it is unsurprising. Attraction is of course massively complex.	/r/ExRedPill	17/10/18 11:34 PM
1	What do you guys have to say about the infamous (now taken down) OkCupid study on correlation between looks and personality? Personality can matter a lot to the success of a relationship and not be something that will make someone willing to sleep with you. There is no exchange rate between personality and looks. If you have good looks and a nasty personality you can expect to have to settle for a partner who is the same if you are an ugly saint then you should look for another ugly saint. One possible reason that personality is so undervalued in online dating may be because it is easy to counterfeit upfront (If I say…	/r/ExRedPill	17/10/18 08:05 PM
1	What do you guys have to say about the infamous (now taken down) OkCupid study on correlation between looks and personality? Attractive people are perceived more positively and get better treatment in every area of their life the science is pretty clear on that. Attractive people are also more likely to score highly on all sorts of metrics of well-being and happiness. I think these are well established truths. What I don't understand is what about them specifically would be solved by a red pill ideology. Maybe if you could explain why you perceive this as being evidence in favor of the red pill I could answer those co…	/r/ExRedPill	17/10/18 07:36 PM
1	I've been trying to leave for over a year now. I don't even know how to ask for help anymore. It was an integrated moral and physical system but their work on chemicals was what led to chemistry	/r/ExRedPill	26/09/18 04:25 PM
3	The scientific proof behind redpill theories? Googling her name didn't really bring up any information about educational background which is troubling because it seems to suggest she is not an academic. additionally if such a cycle exists it's effect size is low because the sources I can find suggest less than 15% of women cheat.	/r/ExRedPill	04/09/18 03:31 AM
1	How to Re Join Society After Going Down The "Redpill" Rabbit Hole In addition to the other advice given in this thread I would also say decide on a hobby. get a good book from the library on how to do it or use a subreddit's sticky and learn how to do it. Gardening is cheap running and hiking as well. cooking is fun especially if you can feed people you love. Don't fall for the idea that you need a lot of money to do try the hobby you are interested in. You can try a hobby on used gear that is cheap or free. If a 1970's tennis racket was good enough for the 19…	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/18 07:28 PM
1	Can Someone Please Explain Why People Sometimes "Stand Someone Up" On A Date? I have never been stood up. If it is happening consistently to someone that is abnormal. The things that jump to mind are that they managed to get a date through some manipulation (either threatening or a false persona) and the date realized it at some point and ran for the hills. It is also possible that that person is behaving in a way attracts girls that would do that shit.	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/18 07:16 PM
2	How much of TRP is actually true? I think people downvoting you are letting the perfect be the enemy of the good. Maybe promiscuous sex isn't clinically perfect behavior but also nothing else is either.	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/18 07:07 PM
1	I've been trying to leave for over a year now. I don't even know how to ask for help anymore. I don't know exactly what you are experiencing and I think a lot of what you need isn't really to do with the red pill per se but rather a need to find a healthy way to live. What I can say is that as long as you are focused on what you are moving from you will keep circling it so you need to decide on something to move towards. I suspect that some of the appeal of the red pill was that it claimed to help you predict human behavior. If that was the appeal at all I would start studying legitimate…	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/18 06:59 PM
13	Am I getting this right? I think red pill teaches you to prey on girls with cluster b personality disorders, generalizes the traits of cluster b disorders to all women (which is easy to fall for if all the women that fall for you have personality disorders) and then attributes these behaviors to biology in a way that no one who studies human evolutionary behavioral biology (much less psychology) would ever view as reasonable. I remember a time when I wanted to run my numbers up. I don't know how valuable it was but I do…	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/18 06:39 PM
5	The scientific proof behind redpill theories? "Because these results are based on cross-sectional data, a longitudinal explanation is precarious." If your concern is about biology this study isn't capable of confirming or denying that concern. Red pill hinges on the idea that biology is inflexible to social or ideological norms but that is an assumption that physiologists know to be untrue. Just because something is scientific doesn't mean that it is biological hence the existence of the social sciences. Many red pillers will doubt the vali…	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/18 05:46 PM
1	If my GF found someone better, why WOULDN'T she leave me One reason might be because a man trying to get with her while she is in a relationship is indicating that he holds very little regard for monogamy. If she wants loyalty she knows he is not a very good candidate. Now a more relevant question is if as you say she is better than you in every way will she leave you? Maybe. But maybe she doesn't think she is better than you in every way. She started a relationship for some reason. There are no guarantees that your partner will always love and be loy…	/r/ExRedPill	13/06/18 08:25 PM
2	Redpill vs BLACKPILL The course is human behavioral biology. sometimes science is wrong but what alternative source is better?	/r/ExRedPill	12/06/18 08:46 PM
4	Redpill vs BLACKPILL attractiveness matters but so does intelligence, kindness, wealth, confidence, shared interests, common beliefs. from an evolutionary psych perspective humans are about halfway between a tournament species in which males compete for harems and a pair bonded species in which monogamy prevails. Historically most societies have accepted polygamy however the vast majority of people in those societies have been pair bonded. But really that is of secondary importance to the fact that as humans our bel…	/r/ExRedPill	12/06/18 08:28 PM
1	I just finished my Women in the U.S. Economy class. It was an experience to say the last. and right there you have the benefits of discussing the wage gap, a theroy about it's mechanism that could lead to its closure. which would be a good thing, and something that in no way detracts from mens issues and the need for them to be recognised by society.	/r/MensRights	18/12/13 03:44 AM
1	I just finished my Women in the U.S. Economy class. It was an experience to say the last. That is accounted for in the adjusted wage and yet a gap persists. only 5-7% but If it was my $0.50 an hour I would still want it.	/r/MensRights	17/12/13 09:06 PM
1	I just finished my Women in the U.S. Economy class. It was an experience to say the last. An unexplained wage gap between genders is a legitimate issue even if the cause is unknown. equality Is not a zero sum game if we can work together it will create a better would for all.	/r/MensRights	17/12/13 09:04 PM
1	I just finished my Women in the U.S. Economy class. It was an experience to say the last. The adjusted wage gap is between 5-7% is not explainable in terms of labour or risk or jobchoice, and has persisted while the unadjusted wage gap has declined. It isn. 76 cents on the dollar, but it would piss me off.	/r/MensRights	17/12/13 03:52 PM
-1	I just finished my Women in the U.S. Economy class. It was an experience to say the last. Don't apologize for taking a women's studys class the need for equality is an inclusive topic. Building common ground and empathy is good. Don't begrudge feminist complaints out of hand the adjusted wage gap is a legitimate concern.	/r/MensRights	17/12/13 05:16 AM
0	Is feminism really that bad? I think that just because the feminist movement has failed to adequately define the difference between a feminist and a misandrist does not mean that we should. It is bad pr for us to be railing against feminism, and failing to make this distinction helps those who are sexist to be defended by feminist who would be less likely to do so if they understood our criticisms are not of gender equality but of bigotry. Please help me share this message.	/r/MensRights	13/12/13 11:49 PM
1	Lulu app for men? Thats ridiculous	/r/MensRights	13/12/13 05:01 AM
1	If only Feminists used these 10 rules Commandment 3! And besides anti feminism is not a mens rights issue its just bigotry	/r/MensRights	13/12/13 04:46 AM
8	Lulu app for men? Sexists are not an excuse for sexism. Not for women, not for men. Stop generalizing. That being said lulu is some bullshit which should not exist.	/r/MensRights	12/12/13 06:43 PM
1	Ran Into Ex Last Night, Thank God For Seddit Yes but only after a long day and only because they are convenient.	/r/seduction	14/01/12 09:34 AM
0	Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection. Yup. I like to cuddle because it is great but actions speak louder than words so no conversation will explain it is just a fling.	/r/seduction	14/01/12 08:39 AM
1	Woman spared jail after groping airline steward's genitals. Part of the defence: "a very attractive young lady acted out of character and committed a very minor offence." I should be more worried about my rights but it must be love.	/r/MensRights	28/11/11 08:48 PM