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| 6 | An Illustration of Critical ThinkingBetter I go read Dune dude. Tldr | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/22 11:26 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]It's more like tongue-to-tongue touching than tongue sucking, anyway, but like the Emma Stone /Andrew Garfield sketch on SNL, couples do stuff ther own way as they both try to find pleasure and adapt to their partner. There is no wrong answer, except what you or he dislike. Besides, there won't be a perfect anything. Bodies are flesh and bone, there will be funny smells, funny tastes, parts bigger or smaller than the clothes suggest, etc. Just enjoy the ride. Best of wishes. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 06:56 AM |
| 8 | Is it even possible to get out of the friendzoneTo have any chance, assume all is lost. You have to cut all contact for at least a few months. Don't check her social media, never text her. And keep it cool when you reconect, which must be initiated by her. If this doesn't happen, it wasn't meant to be, but at least you're out of the FZ. It would be great to invest those months on yourself (go to the gym, take dancing classes, idk). Try to date other people, do stuff. This approach worked for me. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Is there a way to know you created a alpha widow after you break up with her?It's not about the length (pun intended), rather the intensity of the feelings, and how others made her feel later. They use you as a ruler to compare men against. It can be one night.The feeling of being swept her off her feet is a hell of a drug. I talked to her like really short, and I felt like girls must feel when interacting with white knighting betas. I told her I was not interested, I had the best of memories and I wished her the best. You deserve the best and such. Then blocked her. She… | /r/RedPillBooks | 04/12/21 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Is there a way to know you created a alpha widow after you break up with her?Too soon to know. I had a summer grilfriend at 17 who contacted me at 35, then said she wanted to rekindle things, then became stalkerish. It was a short but intense relationship, I acted uncharacteristically brazen that time. So give it a few years, but I'd rather not to know. | /r/RedPillBooks | 03/12/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Facial shape provides a valid cue to sociosexuality [willingness to engage in sexual activity without emotional ties] in men but not women.That's right. I'm gonna steal this | /r/BlackPillScience | 14/08/21 02:58 AM |
| 1 | The Story of My Unaware Red Pill Acquaintance and Why They Really Aren’t any “Good Girls.”Yeap. You see a guy and think "that guy fucks anything with a pulse" or "that guy would never cheat on his wife" and it's more than random chances you're right. With women, you're just guessing. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/21 08:37 AM |
| 7 | The Story of My Unaware Red Pill Acquaintance and Why They Really Aren’t any “Good Girls.”"Facial shape provides a valid cue to sociosexuality in men but not women." Evolution and Human Behavior Volume 42, Issue 4 July 2021, Pages 361-370 https://doi.org/10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2021.02.001 Sociosexuality = willingness to engage in sexual activity outside of a committed relationship. i.e. looks mean nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/21 07:20 AM |
| 7 | Facial shape provides a valid cue to sociosexuality [willingness to engage in sexual activity without emotional ties] in men but not women.I wasn't trying to be unhelpful. This stuff has given me lots of sleepless nights thinking. In general, I thank the studies, one less thing to wonder about. | /r/BlackPillScience | 29/06/21 07:27 AM |
| 14 | Facial shape provides a valid cue to sociosexuality [willingness to engage in sexual activity without emotional ties] in men but not women.I grew up in a Catholic household, so evolution was never questioned. I'm myself agnostic-ish, as I do believe in some transcendental aspect of the universe, though it can just be my parietal lobe playing tricks on me. I feel that the universe/nature doesn't follow a strict deterministic causality rule, which allows for free will and other forces (call it luck, karma, willpower, idk) to act. I don't follow any religion. I have in high esteem the four noble truths, but, again, I don't practice th… | /r/BlackPillScience | 29/06/21 06:39 AM |
| 10 | Facial shape provides a valid cue to sociosexuality [willingness to engage in sexual activity without emotional ties] in men but not women.Evolution and Human Behavior Vol42, Issue 4, July 2021, Pages 361-370. Abstract: Existing work suggests that observers' perceptions of sociosexuality from strangers' faces are positively associated with individuals' self-reported sociosexuality. However it is not clear what cues observers use to form these judgements. Over two studies we examined whether sociosexuality is reflected in faces, which cues contain information about sociosexuality, and whether observers' perceptions of sociosexuality… | /r/BlackPillScience | 29/06/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Power is goodI've seen people "corrupted" with the smallest amount of power. But I think it's true, they weren't good people to begin with, just didn't have a way to show how petty they really were. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | This is why even after so much work on yourself you still feel terrible inside. Be wary of practicing no fap/ Semen retention and TRP at the same time. (Also I’ll tell you the real reason why most become addicted to porn and masturbation plus my life story) I’ll share my experienceI bet your tldr rambles on. SR is compatible with TRP, as TRP isn't about hooking up, it's about becoming a man in charge of his life and passions. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/21 10:11 AM |
| 0 | Male reproductive skew is higher in bonobos than chimpanzeesI can't be more leftist and I don't have this worldview. There is this kind of talk across the political spectrum. And much of what people call left wing are center right to completely right, as they oppose a transfer of ownership of the means of production from corporations to the workers. My family has been communist/socialist for 80 years, and the gender role view has never been that of what you call "the Left". | /r/BlackPillScience | 20/09/20 12:06 AM |
| 2 | How do I make friends?Thanks for the link. Watching it right now. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I make friends?Joining stuff does work. Just do it for the stuff, be interested in improving/ learning, whatever you're doing. As social animals, this shit just happens, bit you need the peopke and the time. Of course, being a borderline autistic guy that gets into people's way won't help you at all. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 2 | How do I make friends?Can't find anything. Have a link? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 07:53 PM |
| 10 | This belongs herePeople who don't watch Rick and Morty, what do you think this scene is about? | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth going to a psychiatrist just to talk? No depression, etc?Yeah. It's hard right now. There aren't easy one-size-fits-all solutions. I've seen my best friend just 3 of times since March (his folks are super old, so he takes no risks), and we used to go to the gym together 3 times per week just before that. Like, I know that guy since we were 10. Whatsapp isn't the same. My old lady neighbor had a mental breakdown and cried for 2 straight days, 'cause her son went to to a 2 month shift up a mine. My sister talked with her through the backyard wall for 1-… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 02:29 AM |
| 0 | Got turned down the sex on first date because of her "period", next day - how should I proceed? (long post).As long as you talk with confidence, like Chris Rock says, you can ask for anything https://youtu.be/YIv4phFcAAs | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Is it worth going to a psychiatrist just to talk? No depression, etc?For mental health, there's roughly 3 levels Psychologist, therapist, analyst: helps through talking therapy, can't give you drugs. "Teaches you to drive" Psychiatrist, medical doctor, prescribes medication as antidepressants, anxiolytics, "Fixes your car" Neurologist, medical doctor, helps when the problem is deeper, with degeneration/damage of the nervous system. "Fixes the road". What you describe is what people used to do with priests and astrologers, they find a person with whom they can tal… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Am I the only one who doesn't like fucking sluts?I'm in that same boat. I'm also hypochondriac, specially when comes to bodily fluids. I think it's my Catholic upbringing. Deep down there's a sign that says that sex is dirty. Yet, we're no less animals than dogs, that lick and sniff everything. Human physical contact is basic for your mental wellbeing. The good news is that now there are condoms, antibiotics, aciclovir for herpes, efective antiretroviral drugs, etc. It's the safest time to get an STI. All of them suck balls, but most of them a… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 08:16 AM |
| 19 | Am I the only one who doesn't like fucking sluts?Assume all girls are sluts, simplifies your life. In progressive language: strong women take care of fulfilling their own sexual desires, and aren't tied down by no patriarchal institutions such as your standards of sexual adventurousness. See? The blue pill modern world doesn't expect women to have restrictions when finding new sexual partners. The red pill in you should help you realize that's ok and it has been always the truth. That Madonna/whore complex isn't healthy, nor realizable. Intern… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 06:14 AM |
| 8 | Broke up with a LTR girl and she hopped on tinder and seeking arrangement right awayForget about her. Focus on yourself. If she texts, "new phone who dis?" | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 10:05 PM |
| 6 | Girl “warns me” shes 19Sace those screenshots just in case. She may forget she warned you and frame you into "sexual misconduct" allegations. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Can hiring an escort help with anxiety around girls?I'd say go for it. Just don't get roofied with burundanga and lose all your money. I don't know how it works with sex workers, but try to get your money's worth, i.e. if you nut in the first 5 minutes that the girl just won't go (like pay for the evening?) They discuss that here in this podcast https://youtu.be/eLi7O-kn7Dc | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 12:50 AM |
| 4 | Is there a new wave of RP guys on here who are taking things a bit differently?I see a bp guy on r /advice with bp problems, I tell them to check here. If they do, great, if they don't, great. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 02:26 AM |
| 7 | If you are great at sex, are plates less likely to break?I got just contacted by a woman I had a relationship with 20 years ago when I was 17. I knew nothing back then. It was a summer thing, so I acted uncharacteristically fast and assertive, unknowingly alpha. So it wasn't the lousy sex. It was the other feelings, beign swepf off her feet. (No, it's not to present me my 19 years and 3 months old son) My grandpa was diabetic and old and had mistresses half his age. He was charming as fuck, so I guess it was that what kept them coming back. (Though he… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Best diet to lose belly fat?low carb Intermittent fasting. You only eat in a window less than 8 hours long every day (like noon to 8pm), and with very few carbs in it. Oversimplified, your body either burns sugar (and stores fat), or burns fat. It highly prefers to burn sugar. It takes about 12 hours to burn all sugar and start burning fat. This is from prehistoric times, sugars were available only during the summer, and you needed to store that energy for the literally fruitless months. Look at people in the background of… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Women keeping their maiden name upon marriage (hyphenated surnames)My parternal grandpa was, say, Juan Pérez López and my paternal grandma was Ana González Leal. My dad would be Luis Pérez González. And if my mom were Sofía Chávez Morales I and all my siblings would be Pérez Chávez. Paternal last names carry on like in the Anglo Saxon way, maternal last names last the lifetime of the person, but they get lost. It's super common that the first son is named like the father, but there is little use for "junior" epithets, as they would be differentiated by their ma… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Women keeping their maiden name upon marriage (hyphenated surnames)We have 2 surnames, the first of father and the first of the mother, and women keep their surnames. I find really weird people changing their names after a signing a contract. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 05:16 PM |
| 5 | Soft nexting crazy girlYou're very busy right now, no time for anything. You're going through some stuff. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 06:47 AM |
| 2 | First day of approaching girls - FailedIt was a success 'cause you did it. | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Why are girls so bad at replying? Is it me?They are talking to 10 other guys, if they're a 4. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | AgeBoy maybe, porn fucks you up. But girls hit the CC sooner. That's what I've heard from my cousin, that's red pill also. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 5 | AgeMy cousin is in high school, and it's a free for all now, it has changed a lot in a few years of high speed internet and free porn sites and tinder. Young people are much more open toward sex than people their age 10 years before. If it doesn't matter to her or you, everybody else can go fuck themselves. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Just saw this comment on a post, is this the norm?Change the pic, you didn't erased the user name. We're in bad terms with reddit already, no neet to be accused of harrassment ore some shit. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it true every 5kg/11lb of fat you lose that double the amount of women find you attractive?Human behavior is highly non linear. I think it's marginal increases for very high weights (like going from 150kg to 145kg, the number of interested females is just the same, zero for guys with low SMV). The moment you attract the first female, the increase is ∞%. But even after that, for most guys, being over a BMI of 30, you're not going to attract many women, a very flat curve. Going from 5 kg over 7% body fat to 7% body fat may more than double the number, but at that range, other things may… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 03:47 AM |
| 2 | [Masculinity Amidst Madness] Belle Delphine and the Madness of the Modern WorldThe "a little gay" link describes the Kinsey scale of human sexuality (that goes from 0 (100% heterosexual) to 6 (100% homosexual), plus X for asexuals) as being too "black and white". What? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How would communism affect the sexual marketplace?My granddad was an old communist. He was alpha as fuck, had hundreds of women. Be a leader, keep a good shape, STFU, etc. Biology takes the wheel, no matter the economic system. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 07:43 AM |
| 3 | I get a lot of satisfaction out of making my LTR happy. Is this beta?You're the captain. What shitty kind of captain doesn't want his crew to be happy? Of course, that is not a priority. The priority is to keep the ship (your lives, relationship, careers) from sinking. Just keep a firm hand on the rudder wheel. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 07:05 AM |
| 3 | Girls with tattoo sleeves: yay or nay?Red flag, nay | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Have I Become a Classic Beta Orbiter Here?Doesn't matter. But better for you if she didn't. That stuff has an expiration date. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me over text, started hoeing around immediatelyI would get tested for HIV at least. She didn't change all of a sudden, it's just that now you know how she really is. Who knows when she started her round on the carousel. From the mainstream point view about women's sexuality, it's surprising how much more opportunities and experiences a regular looking woman has, compared to a similar-looking man. After taking the red pill, you'll know you've got to be in the 1% of guys that get 90% of women. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 05:33 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone else noticed porn subreddits are full of pathetic incels?Who the fuck gets naked to have a wank? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | you can't win on tinder.Thanks for the advice, I almost got my hands wet by putting them in water. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 05:10 AM |
| 5 | Why do hot chicks tease you by suggesting to pair you up with a fat/ugly girl?It's like a jacked up guy saying to a girl that she should bang the skinny frail guy. It puts her in a better light (or a higher ground, if you like revenge of the Sith). That may indicate attraction to you, or it's just a call to get validation. Either way, it's not about you. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Does RP only apply to pop-culture women?My city is 80.000 people. RP applies here. It should be something about your social circle. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/20 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else not fucking love this lockdown?It's been a self brainwash of many beta insctinct/behaviours. Like, not wanting to infect my elder relatives has put a tint on shit women do. Is it worth it putting up with their shit? Now it's an easy "hell no". Working out and studying online has been hard, though. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Plate/fwb and I got diagnosed with covid19 and are stuck in quarantine togetherWhat Contraception are you using? Will it last 4 weeks? | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 05:08 AM |
| 4 | Is porn okay every once in a while?Can you? Some people can drink in moderation, others are alcoholics. It's up to you to decide. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 05:04 AM |
| 0 | Is it okay to break no contact for Coronavirus?It's a shit reason. We're entering a period where resources will be low (see the stock market, shortages in manufacturing supplies, depletion of hospital resources, etc.) You need people you can trust in. You can't trust a person who excluded you from their life. At best she'll shut you down and you'll suffer a bit. Neutral, you stay just friends and help each other (won't happen). At worst, she gets you sick and you fucking die. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 01:18 PM |
| 3 | My mom: "As you grow older, you'll eventually fall head over heels for a girl and try to bring her home". Is there truth to this statement?Not true for me. True for my brother. Just 2 data points, but it shows it's not absolute. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Talking to girls all around you at college and work. Does it make you get more girls Or less?Just be careful at work. Don't shit where you eat. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 01:20 AM |
| 4 | Better to say hi, or ignore oneitis?What do you mean by 'she "broke up" with me'? | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | To have kids or notI don't want kids, much less during these ominous times | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 01:48 PM |
| 4 | Will NC be enough to reverse the damage or am I fucked?You dump a girl, she tattooes your name and lips on her. You would never ever respect her again, though you may throw some boning at her sometimes if you're bored. You done fucked up. Burn the bridges, salt the ground, poison the wells and leave. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Ltr mad about a political party I supported in the past. Where do I go from here?For me, political views are important in a relationship, and but I'm a grumpy bastard No matter what party she supports, pretty much each of them has committed atrocities. It's the nature of parties, to attract people who want to use legitimate issues to advance personal interests. Not saying every politician is corrupt, but rather that a corrupt person maximizes their reach by joining a political party in leading positions. I'm left wing ("seize the means of production" left wing) so I'm very c… | /r/askMRP | 06/01/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | 10 Signs You're Dating a Red Piller - (Check the author bio)Da fuck is a terper? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/20 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Women always dump me. The first few dates/weeks go great, then it’s like my “game” vanishes. Tips?TLDR: OP wants tips, 'cause women only give him the shaft. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 02:14 AM |
| 2 | A plate on the verge of LTR discarded me for imitating Christopher Soprano and jokingly using “broads” once. There’s gotta be resentment compounding from other variables right? It doesn’t make any sense.Don't matter, don't feed the hamster. Next. Rinse and repeat. Good luck bro. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Got an offer... idk if I should take it.First of all, be sire you don't get an STD, don't impregnate anyone. I don't believe the amount offered, unless you have a 30 cm dick and do men also. My dad had 2 friends in the 80's with sugar mommies, and their group of friends told stories (decades later) how ugly and old were the women, and the embarasing shit they had to do. It was more about the boosting their egos than the sex, feeling seduced. They had to pretend to be big shots with deep pockets and take them to upscale places (that's … | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Tried to push a bit of red pill on my best friend a few months back we still talk but I feel like it’s kinda ruined our friendship a bitThe red pill is named like that not by chance, it's hard to swallow. Have you had an encounter with someone from your past that became a religious person, or vegan, or far right/left, etc. any belief that encompasses an explanation of how a big chunk of the world works? It's really hard to get their realizations about life, because you lack the life experiences that made them take that road. Not that they are necessarily mistaken, but the "jewels" of thought they readily share with you are worth… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 09:47 PM |
| 3 | She didn’t explicitly reject me, is there still a chance here?You're not going to get an explicit rejection from 80% or more of women. Being that direct is a male thing to do. Never pre-reject yourself (don't ask yourself if she has a boyfriend). Act as she didn't mention him if she does at first, because a lot of the times he's imaginary, just a hurdle to weave out the weak and the beta. Like, don't be a dick, just keep a light banter. Try to write less than her, in amount of characters and in message number. That way you don't come off as needy. Good luc… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 11:51 AM |
| 27 | Peacocking still worksI lost ~50lb this year, let my beard grow, have a male bun now, lift a lot (until recent back injury), so I have cool calves and arms to show off. My social circle at my univercity grew 10x since March (start of academic year South of the Ecuator). Just trying to look nice makes a huge difference. I think it's also the effect people get from masks. All you do in that state is a performance, and gain confidence from the otherness of the situation. The "old" you would't approach that 9/10 cutie, b… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/19 02:33 AM |
| 15 | How to respond if a girl disrespects your dick?That's porn at work for you. People have a way distorted view of human body true measurements. It's all camera angles and shaved pubes. Besides, women average waist and breasts aren't porn's averages. Neither are penis averages. It's all edited to make the body part in question look longer, shorter, or whatever is needed for the niche the movie it's made for. Laugh it off, tell her she watches too much porn. Go down on her, tease her for a while. she'll be begging for whatever dick you're dealin… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 06:35 AM |
| 4 | Do women get turned off if a guy goes soft during sex?I thought going soft wasn't literal. It seemed that you cried overwhelmed by her beauty or some shit. Really don't know whay's worse. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 02:57 PM |
| 2 | What would happen if the majority of guys became redpilled?I think historically it should have happened after invasions/wars. I don't think it's a good thing. The world sucks for betas, but their strategy minimizes stress, for them and the alphas in their group. The world in Thunderdome mode would be like a pack of lions. The alpha male lion lives shorter, though it fathers all the cubs. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 02:52 AM |
| 7 | How to deal with a much bigger bully?Put a sock on it so he can't grab it | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | My struggles of being in the bottom tier of menLearn to play an instrument and dance latin style. Pour yourself into that (or the making money thing), and girls will follow. DOn't make them the goal. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | What to respond when girl asks how many girlfriends I've had before?"What, like this year?" | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Think You're Alpha? Look at your dogMakes sense. Surviving in the Kenyan savanna needed people that lead and took action to solve their problems. Women evolved to like that in their mates. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/19 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Think You're Alpha? Look at your dogDaaamn. I started walking my dogs when I discovered trp, because I needed the exercise to lose weight. Their behavior has changed a lot these past 7 months. Now they respect the shit out of me. They can walk beside me without a leash, bring back sticks, come back when called, and they were never trained. They stopped entering the house when I'm out. It's my space, they know. Never put the two things together. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/19 06:56 PM |
| 2 | You have zero excuses to not get jackedYeah, my sister-in-law does this to my brother. But I'm talking about girls' instincts. I really think they prefer guys with body mass index 25-26 better than bmi 17-18 (both extremes of normal), better if it's muscle, but fat won't hurt you in that range. It's Kenyan sabannah's laws, 500,000 years ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/19 03:48 AM |
| 2 | You have zero excuses to not get jackedCurrent heavy weight boxing world champion Andy Ponce Ruiz is a more than hefty guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | You have zero excuses to not get jackedWell bro, where it says "lift", you read "improve" whatever the fuck you can improve, given your circumstances. Mind or spirit. Stay strong. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/19 04:35 AM |
| 18 | You have zero excuses to not get jackedWell, fat is better than skinny. A fat guy can fuck you up if he knows how to use his weight. Look at Butterbean. Bigger guys should activate some primal instinct in girls, even if it's fat, just not only fat. Maybe they prefer dad bods over anorexic physiques, if there are no fit guys interested in them. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/19 04:27 AM |
| 3 | You have zero excuses to not get jackedThe thing is not against video games, is against not-exercising-activities instead of working out. Youtube, or instagram, or watching the 6 pm news. Video games is just an example. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/19 04:21 AM |
| 2 | You have zero excuses to not get jackedMaybe you can focus on regulating your weight through diet. During this year, become leaner or heavier, depending on what you lack. Or improve in other areas if you can't do that. Read more, learn useful skills, go to a therapist, idk. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/19 04:18 AM |
| 53 | You have zero excuses to not get jackedLift the glass or lift the dumbbell. Great choice. My dad died fighting that demon. Congrats on the life changes. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/19 12:07 AM |
| 269 | You have zero excuses to not get jackedI have to have a hip operation, expensive as shit, as it uses stem cells, I can't do squats, abs, anything that goes through the mid section, but I work around that. I asked my doc what I could do, and do the shit out of that. 2 of my buddies have diagnosed depression, and working out does wonders for their mood. The gym has likely saved one life there. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/19 09:34 PM |
| 3 | What If The Difference Was 25 LbsOne kg of fat is 7000 kcal, so it's 1000 per day, but the exercise/walking ads to 500-600 kcal per day in average, so you're right, it's a 400-500 kcal deficit per day (in food intake). I'm an electronics engineer, but it was killing my soul. Also never in a serius relationship, slowly falling out of life, lost in the routine, stressed as fuck. till last year. now I'm studying agricultural sciences (love it, also free school here), and interacting with cute 19/20 year olds every day. They know m… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/19 06:25 PM |
| 3 | What If The Difference Was 25 LbsGreat! I'm aiming at ~ 155 lb, so abt 10 more pounds need to go. I bet more people notice you than the ones that have told you. What was your routine/diet? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/19 04:19 AM |
| 8 | What If The Difference Was 25 LbsI went from obese to a few kg from normal BMI (should be there around mid September/early October). Girls now stop me to talk to me at uni. Face gains are ridiculous, and I even wasn't fat in the face, had it mostly around the belly. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/19 04:05 AM |
| 9 | What If The Difference Was 25 LbsAt Christmas I weighted 97kg (214 lb) (and I'm 1m70 or 5'7'', so it was a lot) , and got rejected by my then crush (a flat chested 6/10 at that) so I decided to change. I discovered trp around that time. Started intermittent fasting at first 8 x 16 hrs, then to one-meal-a-day starting on March; hit a plateau at 80 kg (176 lb) from April to June; Changed to keto diet about a month ago, returned to the previous rhythm of losing 1 kg per week (abt 8 pounds per month). I also walk my dogs, so I aver… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/19 03:40 AM |
| 269 | What If The Difference Was 25 LbsI've lost 45+ lb this year and, boy, it does make a difference. Does it bother me that I got no attention before? Hell no. I'm trying to get in the pants of fit girls, and I have rejected fat girls, even some I like as friends. It's just the rules of the game. Thank the gods I found about them this year and not in 5 years. No point in crying over the spilt milk. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/19 11:17 PM |
| 6 | What should I so ? She is pissedZoos are sad as shit. You will never get a girl wet by looking imprisoned fat animals. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 04:55 PM |
| 7 | No social life/skills. Where do I start?Learn to dance. Lock yourself in your room and follow youtube tutorials, 20 min a day, a few months. You'll become more close with your body. A lot of people live in their heads, and become neurotic. Join a sports club/dojo. You'll find people with some shared interest, and by pure exposure you'll find at least acquaintances, at best a friend. Go to the gym to bulk up if you can, but I think socialization is more important now. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill sexual consent truths coming from Chinese dating showBefore TRP, a girl told me exactly this. I backed off the moment she said no. Months later, she she accused me of not trying hard enough. I told her she had told me to stop, and I respected her wishes, besides at the moment there was a whole thing about consent in our university going on, so I couldn't afford appearing as forcing myself on her in any degree. Her exact words "Yeah, I get that, but you should have insisted after I said no..." She was interested, but wanted a chase, and old beta me… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | My oneitus gets me into trouble, how the fuck to get out of it?If you find yourself fantasizing about your oneitis, change the protagonist with other girl you know (like, a real woman, not a pornstar), not the same one every time. A few weeks on that and your neural pathways will start to change. The thing is that you already know what to do. Do it. If it gets hard, you know you're on the right track. Retail jobs are not hard to get, and you sharpen your social skills. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 06:30 PM |
| 3 | “How I became a beta cuck at 16.”Even the youtube comments find what this guy did a mistake. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Posted a really fucked up caption on social media on a post about a sensitive topic”rape” and I had a whole bunch of people come out the woodworks... understandably I deleted the post because but I had some people message me “I’m offended you” even find that funny” do I owe an apology?Just read the heroine joke. It's clearly a joke. Fucked up, but not that bad, actually. Don't apologize, doing it would define you more than the joke, specially to women. I'd rather be an asshole than a spineless fuck who flakes under pressure. But don't fight people about it either. Just keep living. I'd say, stop using social media, because it's cancer. You say this in person, and no one bats an eye. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 02:52 PM |
| 3 | I just started my first proper job earning a decent amount of money and living on my own. What sound financial advice can you give me?I'm a bit of a prepper, so I'd say have savings just in case unforeseen circumstances come. Gold coins can't be taken by hacking. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 02:04 AM |
| 6 | Posted a really fucked up caption on social media on a post about a sensitive topic”rape” and I had a whole bunch of people come out the woodworks... understandably I deleted the post because but I had some people message me “I’m offended you” even find that funny” do I owe an apology?Depends on the circumstances and the comment. Was it a closed group? 'Cause if it's something like your kid's class' whatsapp, that was fucked up. Not all outrages are SJWs being soft. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 02:00 AM |
| 1 | I haven't had to post here in awhile but I just hit omega male tier. my girl from dodgeball is leaving me and I need to know what to do.tl:dr | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Chin Implant?From your profile photo, I don't see much of that double chin you talk about. You're chin does look a bit short, but that stubble could cover it. It's not horrendously short, but I see how it could become a problem if you fixate in it. Maybe go to the subreddit "rateme" and don't tell them about what you think is your problem. See what they think about your features, so you can get an unbiased view. I'm not gonna tell you to do it or not to, but if you decide to do it, better sooner than later. … | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 04:48 AM |
| 6 | Chin Implant?There are things that exercise won't fix. A photo would help to know if you're in one of those cases. Censor the eyes and shit. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 01:57 AM |
| 7 | Do Women Ever Get OneitisWomen that stalk men, maybe? according to this https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2695740/ there are types: 1.- The Rejected Stalker—stalking follows the end of a relationship 2.- The Intimacy Seeking Stalker— stalking based on a desire for intimacy 3.- The Incompetent Stalker—stalking with lack of social skills; stalker feels entitled to a relationship 4.- The Resentful Stalker—stalking meant to frighten victims 5.- The Predatory Stalker—stalking in preparation for a sexual attack It … | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Cheat daysThe caloric concentration of some foods is hard to visualize. A big mac with medium fries and soda is about 1100 kcal. You burn about 100 kcal by walking 1 mile, so that's an 11 mile walk (18 km) to go back to zero, or about 3-4 hours walking. And that meal isn't that caloric, either. I've eaten 3000 kcal meals, easily. That's a 12 hour hike. A letuce head is about 50 kcal, and that would satiate you way more that a big mac. So do what you want, but be aware that that cheat day may be 2-4 days e… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How can I make friends at a commuter university if everybody lives at least half an hour away from each other?I've made several of friends in a situation similar to yours. Guys and girls. My friends at hs and college lived farther than 30 minutes away, and we were visiting each other all the time. Distance is no excuse. Invite people to just hang out. If you're in a club, organize trips (for instance, an astronomical observation, but in a mountain, is easily a 2 day affair.) Talk to everybody you can. It makes easier to talk to girls if you keep the "talkative mode" on all the time. Stupid stuff, superf… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I read ‘Models’ notes & it’s life changingI must have an early version. He presents himself as Mark at the begining, and even if he isn't Mark, the guy clearly isn't a professional reader. | /r/seduction | 24/06/19 02:35 AM |
| 1 | My supervisor asked me outKeep a record man. You can buy cheap pen sized spy cams. Don't know about the legality of it, but that's a chic that carries a gun, and you're a symbol of the patriarchy. The news would live to fuck you up. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a post on neediness managementGracias x2 | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 04:31 PM |
| 5 | What’re your experiences with gay guys?Actually no problem. Masculine gay guys are just one of the guys, except for their sexual preference. I have little experience dealing with effeminate men, so there might be a difference. Not obvious gay men pass under the radar. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | I read ‘Models’ notes & it’s life changingI have the audiobook version, and it's a shame that Mark read the thing himself and didn't hire a professional reader. The book is great, but Mark can't read that well, and even when he doesn't make mistakes, he has a flat style that makes it boring, even though the concepts and stories are intriguing and fun. | /r/seduction | 16/06/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Taking a step back from this community: TherapySex won't fix you, a girlfriend won't fix you, even the therapist won't fix you. Only you can fix you. Kudos for the courage, OP. | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 01:49 PM |
| 2 | is boxing somewhat "as good" as lifting?The one good thing from my beta old self was that I learned martial arts, and I could walk with confidence at night alone. Not Mac from iasip's delusional shit, but true confidence. I wasn't stupid, didn't ever put myself in danger. It gave me discipline also. But it did not gave me a good physique, I was a chubby guy all along those years. You need surprisingly little muscle to fuck someone up. The last 6 months (post trp) I had to focus on losing fat, and last 2 on gaining muscle. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 01:35 PM |
| 4 | If you saw a women being harassed in public would you intervene?Yes, stupidly I would do it. Not recommend it, but latino macho upbringing has some "must do", even in you're a recovering beta. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Would you fuck a 4?Are you ashamed of being seen with a 4? That seems to be stopping you. My 10 right now is really a 6, I could seal the deal with a traditional 8, but it's a 2 in my eyes due to slutiness. There is a 3 I wouldn't fuck with a borrowed dick that wants to jump my bones. Scales aren't worth shit. You're the prize, my friend. Don't settle for crumbs, but you decide what's valuable. It's your world, you make the rules. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 02:45 AM |
| -1 | My Ex confessed to cheating - it's been a giftConfessing to an infidelity is never good. You failed, and to feel better, you fuck the other person's life up? Cheating is beta behavior anyway, to me at least, because you're not living an honest life like a man, but just pretending. You want more women? get more women, but let them know you're not exclusive. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Police: "you harass girls!", got a fine of €100 and criminal recordWere you approaching with your dick out? | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 02:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you're alone?Learn a skill (in my beta days I learned lockpicking), a new language, play an instrument, singing, etc. I'm 1st in my generation, but I almost don't study, so we are on the same boat. I'm new to trp, so my time goes to that, tutoring (make ok money), working in construction once in a while, learning guitar, lifting, walking, talking to girls, learning tarot. Deleted all games from my phone. I still loss time on youtube and reddit, and I could do more. I've been told that meditation could help m… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | How does one get over the fact that they were severely blue pilled for 36 years?Maybe like the 'sinner' guys that fall into a religion, they start preaching. Use your experience as a beta who knows what doesn't work, and what 'common sense' stuff is bullshit to teach young men. Pass the insights. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 09:41 PM |
| 18 | Rich girl?It has a very low chance of working out in the long run, so it's a great opportunity to practice working on your frame. She has very little power over you. See how far alpha can you get before she complains. Just don't be an asshole. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 09:31 PM |
| 10 | One person in ten is mistaken about the identity of their fatherMy very alpha cousin had a fling with a girl on her bachelorette party. 10 years later, knock knock, guess what, you have a son. She always knew, and told her beta husband during a fight. This fucked the kid up a lot. No one understood why would she said it, if she was going to cause trouble to everybody involved, maybe even break her marriage. But she knew who she married, the beta husband didn't leave her, and personally drives the boy to my cousin's house once every two weekends, because he h… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/19 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Stare down oneitis to enter the MatrixWhy would I like to enter the Matrix? Well, the steaks are better, I'll give you that. | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 02:22 PM |
| 6 | Can I still be the nice person I am at heart while on TRP?The "nice guys" of the memes are beta as fuck. Being a true nice guy is alpha behaviour, as to you decide how your life is lived, and who deserves your attention, but you have well defined boundaries. She crosses a line, next, her loss. No taking back rejected material. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 02:43 AM |
| 2 | In the last year this became easy. Here's what fell into placeI'm learning to play guitar, about 1 hour a day, 2 weeks. Very beginner level. Fingertips are sensitive as shit. I want that performing experience you got. Any advice anyone, on a method or a course to follow? So far it's just youtube videos and repeating the same 4 cords. | /r/seduction | 01/06/19 01:37 AM |
| 7 | So i met 3 womanIt's not a language selection problem, mate. Use short sentences and go to the point. Separate different ideas in paragraphs. Every language works like this. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 01:38 AM |
| 2 | What should I do?She wasn't thinking about you when sending the insta, 99% certainty. 6 hours isn't much, and she doesn't owe you a response, either. Don't feed the hamster caffeinated food, man. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 01:29 AM |
| 1 | I lose my skills when my more alpha friend is with meHow close are you with him? Maybe he can be your wing man, and prop you up. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 01:05 AM |
| 7 | Should I fuck this ADHD girl (please here me out)ADHD is crazy common. Trying not to find a girl with it is playing the game in super hard mode | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 01:02 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being intimidating, start being more social and openTry improv. You'd get in touch with your funny and creative side. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Where to find books in Spanish?Thanks, great resource. | /r/RedPillBooks | 28/05/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Where to find TRP material In Spanish?You haven't used google translate to translate long passages. It sucks. Every automatic translation tool still sucks. AI isn't there yet. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 03:43 AM |
| 2 | is it over if a girl mentions her boyfriend in a conversation?Keep the flirty conversation going. Ignore the boyfriend remark, she may have made him up, or named him out of guilt for finding you attractive, or she's in love with him and would never cheat. You don't have how to know. One point does not mean a tendency. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 04:39 AM |
| 64 | Dear Red pilled dudes with a below 5 inch dickA bit of science for people's peace of mind: the average human erect penis is about 5.2 inches long (13.1 cm) with an standard deviation of 1.66 cm (0.7 in), from a 2014 study of over 15,000 subjects from around the world. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/bju.13010. Other studies give results around that ball park. With that mean and SD (Z score = 1.208), percentile 90 (longer than 90% of the population) is just over 6 inches. Porn's monster dongs are mostly small girls, trimmed … | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 02:37 AM |
| 14 | Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted herI'd also text the guy saying that you got a nasty STD from her and you're both on treatment, so she gets double ghosted. And actually get tested, 'cause you just may. This is the conversation you found, how could you be sure he's the first ex she contacts? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Got called a psycho last nightI've been an antisocial loner most of my life and let's say I wasn't drowning in pussy. If being an asshole keeps most people away but gets me laid, great, I never really cared for other people that much really. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Fuck itI'm in negative karma for this. People just love their screens | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Approaching womanWell, keep it up. Go and say something you're actually interested in, so it sounds natural. Or ask for directions and "by the way..." something. Best luck tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 01:41 AM |
| -1 | Fuck itI'll add reduce screen-watching time. Video games, social media, TV, Youtube, etc. most of it just numbs you. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 12:14 AM |
| 4 | Holding frame in this situation?May I suggest you getting a donkey jawbone? But really, how old is he? Is he depressed? These family fights are difficult to solve without the 2 involved wanting to. My aunts are in a fight since their teens, and the young one is 70. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Oneitis ruined me. Now the journey begins.Hear hear brother. That's the hardest part for me, inner game. | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How many hours/days does it take for you to read 48 laws of power?The audiobook is about 10 hours long. So reading slowly would take 15-20 hours. 2 hours per day, it would be about 10 days. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 12:15 PM |
| 1 | I can't seem to stop.If hobbies aren't as enjoyable as good habits, at least change them for neutral ones. Watch hours of youtube, but seduction seminars, or social skills gurus, or how-to-fix-things channels, or try those "brain boosting" games, anything so that they leave something behind when you're done. Try combative sports, will fill some of that LOL release you miss. Or BMX. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | What to fucking doDude, start doing what you can do regardless of your living situation. Stop drinking, smoking, getting high, fapping, any waste-of-time activity you have, like watching tv or youtube, playing video games, etc. and start working out, eating healthy, meditating, reading, improving your looks, etc. I did all that I just suggested, and I've lost like 55 pounds since Christmas (like 25% of my original weight), and it's better than taking antidepressants (though if you're on them, finish your treatmen… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 06:54 PM |
| 2 | The Basics Of GameIn the city (may be the whole country) where I live, the better quality clothes come from second hand stores. The chain stores work with inferior brands. at least the ones in my price range. So it's a simple problem: buy over expensive low quality things, and look like the other 1000 guys buying the same shirt, or spend some time sorting through the piles of clothing, and finding the gems. | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 05:39 AM |
| 1 | what if a girl replies she doesn't drink to an invite to a bar?There are girls who don't drink (mormons don't even dink coffee), so offer another option. Can you have fun without a drink? 'cause if not, that's a boring prospect for you. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 07:48 PM |
| 93 | Unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfaction while married couples are among the least satisfied, finds a new German study (n=3,207) of sexual satisfaction among seven relationship-status groups. Only unmarried individuals with no partner scored lower than married.Somebody commented there (like 600 upvotes) It would be incorrect to use this research to come to any sort of conclusion about marriage being bad for sexual satisfaction. while the author says as the last line in the note [...] marriage is not a positive predictor of sexual satisfaction, quite the opposite. Cognitive dissonance over 9000. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/19 08:21 PM |
| 5 | Unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfaction while married couples are among the least satisfied, finds a new German study (n=3,207) of sexual satisfaction among seven relationship-status groups. Only unmarried individuals with no partner scored lower than married.Any place to find the article in full? it's not in LibGen, and it's behind a pay wall, US$43 for 24 hours access. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | I [28M] got a good paying job and suddenly have women show interest in meJust don't marry yet. Get a vasectomy, a ton of condoms, and date those girls. All of them. Rinse and repeat a few years. Then maybe look for long term relationships with colleagues, so they won't need your money, 'cause they have their own. Nice problem to have, better than mine. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Ego ruins your game more than anything else - here are 5 ways to kill itMaybe as a "before 3 months had passed" goal. like, try your best, and if you're rejected , it counts still for the challenge (can't read original post, this may be what it said) | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.Hey, great idea. I work at graphic design part time and and I cook really well, though I never studied any of it formally, so these would make me look good. I don't know of any improv class close, but that's what I would like to do best. (When you say "do a course", is "impart" or "take"? English not first language) | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/19 01:42 PM |
| 3 | 1000+ approaches, lots of instant rejections, how to stay motivated?Not being an ugly guy with with poor hygiene is a great start. This seems like an inner problem, then? Have you done an "autopsy" to any failure with a friend? I'm also not getting any, but a good friend is helping me improve my inner game. I'm off the market for two months for a growth period (started this week), and not surprisingly I've had a couple of great conversations with cute girls since, because I'm not in my head trying to impress them. My mate has seen it happen, so it's not just my … | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 07:44 PM |
| 19 | 1000+ approaches, lots of instant rejections, how to stay motivated?I can't know from your post, so these are shots in the dark - Maybe you're very unattractive? Identify the worst problem, and fix/alleviate it: lose weight, get a better wardrobe, go to a dermatologist, a fashion guru, etc. You can always look better, if not well. Plastic surgery is a valid option. - Maybe you approach women too young for your age (or the age you look)? There are girls who like older men, so I don't think it's the case, but you could change your target group - Maybe you are too … | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | I bought Donald Glover’s Dating Essentials for Men. I won’t be reviewing the whole product but it’s really, good. Especially if you found NMMNG helpfulThought you were talking about the Childish Gambino. A bit pricey. Are there podcast or something where he shows any part of the material? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/19 02:40 AM |
| 122 | The 12 Most Attractive Qualities A Man Could Show...About n° 12, my grandfather was an absolute alpha, got laid with hundreds of women, won poker, boxing, fencing, shooting tournaments, was a total boss. I knew him very old. He saw a couple of pretty young women on the street once, and he told me and a cousin to chat them up, "3 of us, 3 of them" and my cousin told him "what would you do if it worked, with your bad heart and all?" and my grand dad told him "If I have fingers and a tongue, I can manage". Not a fancy answer, but true. | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 07:33 PM |
| 12 | 5 exercises that will make you attractive to the women you wantI know 2 below average looking guys that get girls all the time. Both have great confidence in themselves, not a coincidence I think | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 02:39 PM |
| 38 | 5 exercises that will make you attractive to the women you wantI decided 10 minutes ago to give myself 2 months to grow as a person, and stop obsessing about a girl, and I read this. I fits like a glove what I want to achieve. I'll try for 60 days at least. | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.That's not a thing in my country. could a friend help? I don't know what hey do, really. I don't feel it as bad as an alcoholic drinking again, but I can tell you that after lent I did indulged a bit, and my willpower went to shit, so I stopped again. It wasn't so hard the second time. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.And my (receding) oneitis looks EXACTLY like a very famous pornstar (face, build, even hair color). Talk about fucking up your brain pathways with unfulfilled fantasies. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.I'm on my second bachelor in an area I love, after a very misguided first one, thanks to a free college program in my country, work tutoring and doing graphic design online. I've been thinking in learning guitar. I even have one without cords, just collecting dust in a closet. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.It's true, I stopped using porn, was on intermittent fasting 2/22 hours, was working out, and it was easier than after lent, when I stopped IF. Forcing myself on one thing made the other fights easier for some reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.I used to do that before, but I have completely abandoned it. It does give perspective working with kids in need. I haven't thought of this, not once in the last year. I guess I was really desensitized. Daaamn that hit a nerve. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.I read "medication" first, hahaha. I'm trying meditation a tiny bit, by request of my bit annoying mate, who does it daily. It helps me. Thanks, will check out the book. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.Thanks. My mate keeps telling me how much better I'm now, but I'm too close to the trees, I guess. I'm in this improvement journey for good. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.Lately I see TV as empty entertainment, but I still follow some shows (like GOT). I see your point. I can't badmouth books, my first love, but it's true, I keep the escape they gave me controlled now. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.I don't know many places to game girls, I don't drink, and I feel clubs awkward, but they seem to be the best place. Maybe I need to drink more (?) or just go to clubs and have a soda (?). | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Discovered TRP, now porn is ruined for me.Not much. I have veeery nerdy interests, that are hard to get into a conversation (books, actual astronomy club, (as in telescopes), weird British humor (Spanish speaking country). I'm forcing myself to speak more and it's getting infinitesimally better. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 02:30 AM |
| 5 | Anyone remembers Bonecrker?Is it on epub format? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/19 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Why does this sub feel so intense?'cause 4,000,000,000 years ago a DNA molecule figured how to start replicating, and it wants to keep going at it. | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | I don't really believe in the friend zone being impossible to get out of, as most of my 'female friends' have shown strong interest at some point.I got out of a deeeeeeeep friend zone in highschool. After a summer vacation, without calling or texting her for a month and a half, cause I was dating another girl. Got back more confident, skinnier and more muscular (swam a lot that summer) didn't followed her around, learned to say no to her requests. | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 08:18 PM |
| 45 | Make Her Feel Intense Attraction By Creating UNCERTAINTY (Including: How To Do It)A pretty girl I know retracted the second I showed the slightest interest. Not much, but I felt it. Weeks later, we were going to see each other if there were to be a small gathering of friends. I was to organize it, but didn't called no one. She texted me several times, I didn't answer. When I saw her, I told her I had something to do instead. I'm a bussy man. Then ignored her. Now I have "hi, what are you doing" texts from her. This shit works. | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Men have little to no intrinsic value.If a meteorite is coming to destroy us, who would you put in the safest bunker? A bunch of women, and frozen sperm. Every extra man would be a fewer womb. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/19 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Does pretending to be in a relationship work to attract women?this is a question for r/asktrp | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 07:20 PM |
| 5 | This life is garbage because of how I lookMy uncle is an obese ugly guy in his 50s, with diabetes and a limp from a motorcycle accident, and his last girlfriend was a hot woman in her early 30s. He's always with some new lady friend. Never in his life he has been handsome, but he exudes confidence. I don't now his seduction techniques, but I've seen him talking to women, and he treats them as people, challenges them, doesn't put them on a pedestal. I'm trying to do that myself these last months, and it's hard for me, but it's working mu… | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Talking about sex around you - an IOI?Are you a rooster in a hen house? That's a sweet spot to be in. It sounded like a green light to me. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Losing multiple girls interest and cant find out why.Thanks. Watching it right now | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Losing multiple girls interest and cant find out why.I think we have the same problem. I have trouble keeping the length of the texts close to a 1:1 ratio. Maybe setting a time constraint (like always waiting at least X amount of hours before answering) might work. Just thinking out loud here. Good luck, mate | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 12:28 AM |
| -2 | When a Girl says she has a boyfriend...The thing is that fo a man who isn't really confident, that advice is hard to take into action. people look robotic. Maybe practice in front of the mirror a few (hundred) times? "I'm sorry, I didn't know" and just turn around seems the best answer | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl Only Texts You If You Text First (Here's Why)Never tried it, but sure sounds cool. And you only need to carry a deck of cards with you. I'm now learning tarot and palmistry to talk to girls. Maybe magic can help me draw cooler readings. | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 11:08 PM |
| 9 | A simple trick to get more comfortable talking to girls.Today I spoke with 5 girls without reading this first. The universe is giving me signals. I also gave the widest berth to my oneitis. I comprehended what my buddy has told me for months. She actually doesn't deserve me. hard to do, but necessary | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Here's an idea: be grateful for rejectionI would be grateful if any girl would have rejected me directly like that. never has happened to me. Is this a guy /girl ting? I mean, do gay guys go through the hoops like straight guys when trying to know if they missed their shot? | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How to Get Hot Girls to Approach YOU | 7 Simple TipsYeah. the mind changes are the hardest, but I'm trying. Today I spoke with the hottest girl in class about noting for 10 min. No that she's interested in me, but 4 months ago wouldn't have dreamed that. | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 01:50 AM |
| 2 | How to Get Hot Girls to Approach YOU | 7 Simple TipsI just went from 100kg on new years to 82 kg today. Still got like 7 to go, but still. I feel great, and look way better. Girls notice me, not a lot, but I caught them looking sometimes. Not a lot of game yet, but improving. Thanks to your video, I'm starting bench presses tomorrow. Thanks for the tips. | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Girl Only Texts You If You Text First (Here's Why)Then go outside. a park, a free recital. My city is tiny and has those things. Or stay inside and learn a cool skill (cooking, yoga, speaking Chinese, jugglery, I don't know, some thing interesting), then go outside and practice in the open | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 04:28 AM |
| 2 | I just made a fuckbuddy... I'm a virgin.Just do it with her. You'll have done it with your oneitis (how many guys can say they did that) and will be able to turn the page. Even guys who have had lots of sex can suck at it. Besides, the sex has a probability of being awful, but just for her! for you will be great, the best in your life. If you want her to enjoy it, go down on her first. . Remember to K.I.S.S. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Some Motivation For My Fellow Seductionists/Creators Out There! 👊Sauce? | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Should I (Sophomore) ask this girl (Freshman) from my class?Seed the date, as they say around here. Find something she may like, and tell her about it, but don't invite her right away. Maybe not a date-date at first, but a more introvert activities. Then invite her. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 04:13 PM |
| 3 | How do you turn your life aroundFirst, change takes time, so hang in there. Try working on your will power. Not by doing what you want, but by forcing yourself to do things you don't want to do (cold showers is a good starting point); I used to have no will power, now I'm in a better position. I improved a lot after training in martial arts. Try to structure your time (when I don't, my life goes to shit fast). Clean up the house, do exercise and shower early in the morning, for example, then you'll have the afternoon to improv… | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to seduce someone completely online?Sure it's possible, otherwise the TV show Catfish wouldn't exist. I'm not saying anything negative against your relationship, to be clear, just that people can get attached and even in love with someone online without even seeing their faces. | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 06:29 AM |
| 1 | 1 year old situation (with a girl) makes me depressed even today...Maybe it's an acquired taste, no pun intended. You do only what you find pleasurable. Some rando online's opinion is meaningless at the end. | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 06:04 AM |
| 1 | 1 year old situation (with a girl) makes me depressed even today...I say you sound a little depressed. Porn can be used as an escape of your problems, so you may want to lower a bit the rhythm. Attachment to somebody can be proportional to your complete romantic history (first girlfriend break up stories), so that girl just may be a big portion of what you've lived so far. It may be a problem of perspective. It will get better, most surely. ---- A little bit off-topic, but pertinent.---- You didn't say if you tried it, but perhaps performing oral sex on her wou… | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 08:06 PM |
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