| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 378 | Not dating related but wtf.. | MALE DEPRAVITY | concioustly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:12 PM |
| 43 | Need some support | SEEKING ADVICE | concioustly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 08:59 PM |
| 11 | Dating after divorce | SEEKING ADVICE | concioustly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 11:21 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | MoodOh for suuuure girl. I’m gonna be living my best life come end of the year. I’ll be doing cartwheels after I sign those papers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:37 PM |
| 3 | MoodI can’t wait to have that feeling soon! Freedom feels amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:36 PM |
| 173 | MoodThis will be me on my divorce finalization date end of this year, leaving my abuser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 11:16 PM |
| 3 | NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY pointIt’s how I keep myself sane 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 11:12 PM |
| 8 | NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY pointFrom what I hear yeah. He always needed someone to help him find a girl. He got lucky when he found me himself. But his parents have always been the extremely protective kind, to a point where they know their kid did something wrong but they would do anything in their power to make it look right. He punched me in the face and they said “she’s lying” then later it changed to “oh boys are just like that, you’re overreacting”. They worship all 3 of their boys, if they murder someone I wouldn’t be s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 06:31 PM |
| 18 | NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY pointOh and I forgot to add some of the prostitutes were men and transvestites so no way he’s getting out of that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:44 PM |
| 22 | NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY pointThis is what I see my ex husband-to-be doing in the future. He was calling up prostitutes behind my back while we were together, now that we are separated I hear that his parents are talking about finding him another girl. Ain’t no way I’m gonna stay quiet about his extra curricular activities 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 05:34 PM |
| 11 | RIP Jyoti. Justice was truly served for you. But it made me realise that I don’t see many stories like this where the violent men are being adequately punished for their abhorrent crimes.Ugh every time I’m reminded of this story it breaks my heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 05:42 AM |
| 12 | Husband of 12 years hits wife, she posts to relationship advice, read the male replies below. JESUS.THIS MAKES ME SO MAD. I left an abusive marriage, it took a lot of thinking and pushing to make that decision. ITS BECAUSE OF PEOPLE LIKE THIS. They make you second guess and rethink if you were at fault, when it’s the fault of the abuser ALWAYS. I don’t care if you get in their face even, they still have no reason to hit you NONE. GTFO if you think bitchiness is the reason for someone to get hit. I will stay bitchy forever, I dare a man to hit me because of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Apologies for potato quality but you all had to see this one as soon as possible.👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 11:01 PM |
| 8 | I’m speechless???What the..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 12:52 AM |
| 13 | Psychopath TestReminds me of my abusive ex husband | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:48 AM |
| 13 | Not dating related but wtf..Ugh ew, I’m so sorry to hear that. Men are pigs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 02:10 AM |
| 115 | Not dating related but wtf..Oh you betttt, mans had a -700+ downvotes. Funniest thing is if you go on his profile he’s commenting on porn subreddits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 12:21 AM |
| 189 | Not dating related but wtf..Mans also replied to someone saying something along the lines of “I can’t get fired because I have family friends in the executive team, they’d have my back” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:33 PM |
| 8 | The TRUTHUghhh yesssss. Finally understood this after going through so much shit. Learned from my mistakes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:54 AM |
| 21 | Most efficient way to eliminate narcissists? Refuse to follow their Love Script and watch how he reacts. If his response to the word "no" is persuasion, devaluation, or control: LEAVE and go No Contact. You have just successfully identified a narcissist, and there's NOTHING you can do to change him.Woww this perfectly explains my narcissistic abusive ex husband. The only thing is when he knew he couldn’t control me he started to hit me and that’s when I left his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:28 PM |
| 6 | Oh baby! 👶So happy for you girl! You give me hope :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 01:29 PM |
| 37 | Oh baby! 👶Lord this was almost me in my abusive relationship. Thank god the asshole actually hit me for me to realize I need to get the hell out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 12:32 AM |
| 30 | I realized that giving a man ANY emotional support is infinitely more valuable than the money he spends on youReminds me of my ex husband. We went to South Asia for our honeymoon, he was so excited to take to me there. But unfortunately I got food poisoning during the trip, he was constantly emotionally and verbally abusing me because my sickness was “ruining” his trip. I had to deal with the fact that I was sick + a man constantly abusing me during it rather than being a comforting person I need when I feel so sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:37 PM |
| 2 | After 6 months of no contact The wild narcissist appears. 5 years of nothing but sacrifice for a man. It feels good to know he’s upset his power is gone. “You deserve, but I probably can’t” lmao I know. Always that making a negative seem positive. (You ladies have done wonders showing me the light)AHAHHAA perfect translation👌🏻thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 07:40 PM |
| 9 | Imagine being a grown man and bragging to your girlfriend about how hot your own sister’s body is.Just when I thought men cannot be any more disgusting... I read this and again I am baffled | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 02:21 AM |
| 4 | Respect vs AttentionYUPPP 👌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 11:22 PM |
| 13 | Do better. It's your fault he cheated. NOT!HAHA what a funny joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 11:10 PM |
| 10 | Sex Addict? Or just LVM Narcissist? (TBT)Ugh yes, I was literally her in my marriage but with abuse. We keep giving them chance after chance “oh he’s still young he’ll grow up”, “maybe he’s autistic”, “he’s going through a hard time at work”, “he needs therapy and then he’ll be fine”. So happy I left that useless POS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 07:10 AM |
| 3 | "Women are so lucky! Everyone takes their feelings seriously!"This is spot on, I’m screenshooting this. Want to use this next time my ex in laws to be blame me for “making my husband abusive towards me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:41 PM |
| 4 | The attitude I’m trying really hard to have with anyone who doesn’t value me enough in my relationships.Really needed this today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 11:09 PM |
| 5 | A constant reminder to men that not everything is theirs for the takingThank you for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Need some supportThank you! This gives me hope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Need some supportHonestly I sometimes thank god that he punched me early in our marriage so I could realize he wasn’t right for me. I’m really trying hard to work on this, just becomes a bit challenging with all those divorce logistics I have to go through | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Need some supportYes that’s what I keep telling myself too, I’m almost 26 and just imagining getting past this age while still being with him would’ve made me a person that I wouldn’t recognize. He was toxic, always miserable. He had literally everything good in life, nothing he can complain about but always miserable. And I’m the type of person who counts her blessings, no matter how big or small. He could’ve changed me into a selfish and miserable person too but he couldn’t. I’m doing everything I want now tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Need some supportThank you for this... I keep putting myself down because I feel like I’m not good enough. Even in my past relationships I was usually dumped because they found someone better. It really hurts your self esteem and confidence. I just want to start loving myself, I really need to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Need some supportYes.. from what I thought of him and knew of him he was this nice and loving person. It’s hard to let that go... even harder when I sleep at night and he’s not beside me.. I did have a blood and urine test a month ago so I’m good thank god. I doubt he’ll come back at all, he’s hiding out scared right now. I had to tell his parents to tell him that I want divorce and he never even said anything to me after he found out. He can’t even show his face to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Need some supportThank you for saying that... Never thought of it as his loss and my gain. I think this is a huge wake up call in my life to look after myself and do things for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 04:00 PM |
| 55 | Ladies, THIS is how men view you when you do wifey shit before they've earned it. Stop embarrassing yourselves with simple bitch nonsense.Reading this makes me feel sick... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:54 AM |
| 4 | Need some supportBut how can someone who look at me as a mother if he could disrespect me this way? He could never raise a hand on his mother then how could he do it to me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Need some supportYes. We don’t live together and I am divorcing him. We don’t have any kids. We were married for 1.5 years. I am really trying hard to not dwell on this and keep telling myself I tried really hard but then my mind goes to the fact that why did I try so hard for someone who never deserved it? He ruined my perception of love and marriage. I feel like real love doesn’t exist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 09:53 PM |
| 13 | So his flirting is a little 🙄 but I used the “I’m overqualified” for the “Y U Single, girrrrrl?” Q 😂🤷🏻♀️💃Any guy that says “honey” and “how come a beautiful girl like you...” is someone I’d block right away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Honestly. Because it’s bullshit.Can’t disagree with that. It’s very unfortunate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Honestly. Because it’s bullshit.Honestly I have to push myself to be positive or I’d fall into a big black hole of depression lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 02:39 PM |
| 18 | Honestly. Because it’s bullshit.Every single one of my relationship ended with someone cheating, leaving me for someone else, or physical abuse, this includes my marriage that I’m currently getting out of. But in my mind I don’t think I would give up on relationship. There are some good people out there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | LOL some lurker decided to sexualize my dog after I posted on here saying how happy I was that I adopted her. Talk about projection!Men and their friggin egos and holier than thought attitude. This shit is disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 05:33 AM |
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