concrete333 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why do red-pillers think that relationship is some kind of a war or a battle where you have to strategize and beat your enemy otherwise you'll lose Past relationship trauma usually	/r/ExRedPill	05/07/23 09:28 PM
2	Help! I’m a narcissist and manipulative Np at all. I feel like your post is exactly what this subreddit is for! Random internet people have helped me a ton on here before too, just glad I had a little to contribute :) Also, I'd highly reccomend this guy Eckhart Tolle. Specifically his second book "a new earth". It starts out a little woo woo, but don't let that fool you - the guy is seriously educated in philosophy and almost all religions (I'm saying that as a confirmed athiest and philosophy major). He has a way of looking at things…	/r/ExRedPill	20/03/21 07:32 PM
5	Help! I’m a narcissist and manipulative Hey man, first off good on you for creating this post. Absolutely the best first step. Only one minor thing I want to add, as someone who was in your shoes about 6 years ago - be careful with buddhism, as it can sometimes feed into a sense of superiority over other "unenlightened" people. Not saying this is the case for everyone, but I had to check myself constantly on that. That side of Buddhism is subconsciously appealing in the same exact way TRP is, in a subtle way feeding your ego as being …	/r/ExRedPill	20/03/21 06:42 PM
1	PUAs VS Feminists, who's right about seduction? (1) "In general what is happening is that, through trial and error, these guys end up trying enough times to find someone who is interested. "	/r/ExRedPill	14/09/20 04:30 PM
1	The Red Pill creates its own demand. Here's a list of reasons how. Ok so field reports are bad and written by people who didn't understand what was happening in the context of humanity as a whole? Is that what you're saying?	/r/ExRedPill	14/09/20 01:03 PM
3	The Red Pill creates its own demand. Here's a list of reasons how. This right here	/r/ExRedPill	14/09/20 11:59 AM
-2	The Red Pill creates its own demand. Here's a list of reasons how. I agree with everything you say, but I'd challenge you to create a better reasoning regarding the last "field reports aren't true". I personally have experienced, and also witnessed, many a situation that was "field report" worthy. Again, I agree with everything you say up to this point. But there is some undeniable evidence in the behaviors observed in field reports that warrants more thought. Otherwise you're just preaching to the echo chamber, so to speak.	/r/ExRedPill	14/09/20 11:55 AM
19	my vision of women is fucked up and probably irreversible, studies and life experiences do nothing but confirm it Good comments so far on here, definitely follow up. My advice as someone who started to feel how it sounds like you're feeling during my red pill experience: Start looking at men too. Apply the same logic, honestly, to them as well. What you might find is that, it turns out, everyone is human. We're all, for the most part, animals. Its unavoidable. Women have their things, men have a whole other set of shallow behaviors as well. No matter how wise we get, how broad our conscious perspective beco…	/r/ExRedPill	22/08/20 10:32 PM
2	Female anus too close to the vagina Sounds like you're dating the wrong girls, beta boy. I used to be like you, but then I got in shape and learned game. Now I only date girls with a good 1 to 2 foot vagina-asshole distance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 10:26 PM
5	How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and women 33m. For me, they increased just a ton. I stay in shape and don't smoke, also worked in sales for a year and a half which definitely had a positive effect on my charisma. However, while I do have a master's degree, I've truly never had a great job/much money. Here's the thing - have you talked to a 25 year old guy recently? As long as you've developing yourself, learning things, and improving however slowly over the years, you're just going to blow most of them out of the water when you open you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/20 01:51 PM
0	How much do your dating options diminish/increase as you get older? For both men and women This ^	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/20 01:39 PM
8	As a Bi guy, dating men is not only easier, but it is the main reason I resent women Every man going gay is a bit... unrealistic? And does a disservice to your reasonable points.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 04:49 AM
38	As a Bi guy, dating men is not only easier, but it is the main reason I resent women You had me till the end there	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 04:42 AM
-1	Are men just not that attractive? Makeup definitely helps. If most guys had years of experience cosmetically making their face prettier by college, might be different. Also, seems to me that women are generally the most "pretty" right around college age. Guys take a few more years to become "men"	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/20 03:42 PM
3	How do you get a long term commitment from a guy BEFORE you have sex with him? I could see that definitely making it hard. Even despite that, you're still probably the best and only judge for what works for you. One thing I agree with, that some of the other posts on here are trying to say in their own reddit rant ways is: it's up to you to be the kind of person that both attracts someone open to a long term relationship, and entices them to stay. In that equation, the only thing you can control is you	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/20 11:05 PM
3	How do you get a long term commitment from a guy BEFORE you have sex with him? It 100% is, and if you withhold sex as a test it's going to scare away the good ones (and justifiably so). Also not much fun. Your only real recourse is to go with your gut, work on being pretty great outside the bedroom too, communicate well, and hope. That's the game we all play, for better or worse - no way to be completely without risk in love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/20 10:50 PM
1	Hook up advice from women is 9/10 awful advice Yup	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 11:48 PM
8	Hook up advice from women is 9/10 awful advice You're looking at this from the perspective of "what's most advantageous for shy men", which is quite an assumption. Also, your argument assumes that all attractive men are incapable of getting into a meaningful relationship with a woman that shows interest. Another way to look at OP's might be: if you're a shy woman, starting a conversation with a man you find attractive will help you get laid or find love, whatever you choose	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 11:42 PM
18	Hook up advice from women is 9/10 awful advice You missed the point here. I take OP to be talking to single women who are finding it hard to meet men. This advice is spot on, from my own personal experience. TBH your response seems weirdly defensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/20 11:30 PM
5	Why do women have to lower their “standards”? Why can’t men just lower their sex drives? Many of these cases are men who are trying to do just that. Catholic priests come to mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/20 12:10 PM
1	I have zero sympathy for men who go after wrong girls, then act surprised when they get hurt Worth it	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/19 12:38 AM
2	I have zero sympathy for men who go after wrong girls, then act surprised when they get hurt I would counter with a relevant and classy r/rule34 post, but honestly I'm too afraid to look one up	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/19 03:15 PM
7	I have zero sympathy for men who go after wrong girls, then act surprised when they get hurt Nah brah, I ain't no beta loser. You're not a man until you've seduced the killer female space clown, get her to fall for you, then break up with her. Its exactly like the movie, but with more space clown sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/19 02:20 PM
1	CMV: There Is Possibly No Greater Red Flag For A Woman In This Age Than A Man Obsessed With N-Count, Or Her Being A Virgin I can't tell if you're joking or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/19 03:33 AM
2	CMV: There Is Possibly No Greater Red Flag For A Woman In This Age Than A Man Obsessed With N-Count, Or Her Being A Virgin Yeah, this exactly. u/Tyler_Gatsby, what's your take on this sort of advice? Does it seem reasonable, or is this mindest flawed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/19 11:35 PM
5	CMV: There Is Possibly No Greater Red Flag For A Woman In This Age Than A Man Obsessed With N-Count, Or Her Being A Virgin Interesting, I like the logic at least: based off of how past behaviors can predict future behaviors. So in this case is N count a measure of how likely a person is to stay monogomous, or be monogamous in the first place? Which is the value driver, so to speak?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/19 06:09 PM
72	CMV: There Is Possibly No Greater Red Flag For A Woman In This Age Than A Man Obsessed With N-Count, Or Her Being A Virgin The reason this topic is so hotly debated is that its a grey area. You're correct, men OBSESSED with N count are a huge red flag, but there are also sensible guys who might raise an eyebrow at a larger N count than the norm. The main point I'd like to actually see discussed from an honest female perspective is: what is a reasonable N count, and what can higher or lower N counts mean (in broad strokes, of course). For example, if a girl is lets say 25 with an n count of 10, who cares? Lots of rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/19 03:05 PM
2	pornography and its effects https://www.cnbc.com/2019/07/29/fortnite-world-cup-us-teen-wins-3-million-at-video-game-tournament.html	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/19 02:31 PM
2	CMV: Men can be neutral about high N women but it is rarely a postive I'll disagree on a minor but significant technicality: most of the men I know are wary of women with an N of 0. 0, especially as one gets older, can mean many, many things, most of them not positive. Best case, she's got an iron will and wants to wait for a guy who really connects/meets her standards (be they cultural or personal). Worst case... worst case has the same connotations for men as it is for women. Plus, inexperience in a partner with the emotional effects of a sexual relationship can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/19 02:19 PM