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Question For Menconcretecannonball/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:17 PM
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Redpillers hate women because they confuse themselves by investing in highly homosocial relationships and behaviours and wonder why they don’t get a relationship or sexual contact with a woman in return lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 09:33 AM
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No, it’s not. Nothing is stopping a man from hiring a surrogate or adopting a child or becoming a sperm donor. No one is entitled to reproduction. Castration is castration, having the ability to reproduce but not being able to do so is a personal social failure, not the fault of women or society. Do you think women only exist in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:52 PM
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According to YOU, women are necessary for the creation of a family lmfao so you should … care about women. There is *no where on earth* where women are equal to men under the law. It’s not a debatable issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:36 PM
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https://news.un.org/en/story/2026/03/1167081
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:35 PM
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*some* women in the west have the “best” access to those things, and it’s still not equal. but your argument also disproves your original point. in countries where women can’t access healthcare or education or independence, those men are even more radical in their oppression of women despite having guaranteed access to them. so surely it can’t be a lack of reproduction and access to women that’s radicalizing men …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:32 PM
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You really said that telling a man he can’t reproduce is like a terminal diagnosis … wow. 😂 The promise of access to a woman is the glue that holds patriarchy together, not civilization. The majority of men have no actual power in the world except for that over their spouse and family and now that women in *some* parts of the world have independence, men can’t cope with it. That’s not women’s responsibility nor is it a real problem. Men need to learn to fulfill themselves in other ways. Women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:47 AM
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As someone upper class, it’s not a status signal to become a broodmare at right away and idk why you think they. Statistically the higher your socioeconomic status, the later in life you have children and the fewer you have lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:15 AM
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My country has mandatory military service so most men have some stories … and MOST of them have done gay shit and they don’t even realize it hahahaha like two of dudes I know were recalling how they paid an “actual” gay guy to suck their friend’s dick while he was blindfolded but they told him it was a female prostitute, so them and a couple other dudes watched this gay guy suck their straight friend off and were laughing about it calling him gay. I was like … you guys are the gay ones. He didn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:06 PM
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You are seriously uninformed about pregnancy and birth. Risk of death aside, it is health negative, not health neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:49 PM
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My straight male friends talk about dicks more than my gay male friends lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:58 AM
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Both men and women under-report sexual assault. But men need to start acknowledging that statistically (80-90%) the perpetrators of assaults against other men are other men and not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:56 AM
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Because statistically women are the majority of victims and men are the majority of perpetrators…? Hello?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:55 AM
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when’s the last time lightning killed a woman for not wanting to fuck it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:50 PM
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Have you ever been on r/whenwomenrefuse? Pretty sure we aren’t the ones who ruined cold approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:15 PM
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You need to learn that just because someone is going you attention does not mean they will be a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 03:53 AM
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This really isn’t always true. I get approached all the time by men my age and even younger. The only time they were consistently significantly older than me was when I was a literal teenager and that was anywhere from 30s-60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:45 PM
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Omg bro you’re trying to pathologize one of the most basic standards for compatibility, that’s what’s weird. You aren’t challenging anything. 😂 I’ve dated all kinds of people all over the world, I’m not confined to just 10% of men in my country and I’ve learned over the years what works and what doesn’t. I had a lot of fun when I was dating and I didn’t say otherwise anywhere lol it was mostly easy emotionally, just because you aren’t compatible with people you’re dating doesn’t mean it’s a bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:06 AM
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I didn’t use it for anything. 🙄 “I want to date someone with a similar lifestyle” is a basic dating concept. Financial shit is the leading cause for divorce lmao financial compatibility is completely normal as is having compatible lifestyles. Most people date and marry within their socioeconomic class. Me having a good social circle and money helps us both, him having a good social circle and money helps us both. I feel like you’re being weird about it even though it’s really just basic standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:25 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:01 AM
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Travel industry. I’ve always had fun dating, in a good longterm relationship now with someone who also retired early. He out earns me and is better connected than me, so while that’s not the only different thing about him, I do think that’s been one of the bigger contributors for something more sustainable long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:12 AM
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Not particularly “flashy” with my money, never have been. I have a nice place in a nice neighborhood, nice car, nice clothes, but nothing too extreme. People in my area are much flashier than me. My hobbies (riding and sailing) are expensive but I met most of the men I dated through those so it’s not like they were unaware of the expendable income required. Most of them kinda balked at the fact it was my money once they found out, because they had assumed it was just family money. I looked more …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:11 AM
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I’m in the top 10% of earners in my country and it was an obstacle my entire dating life. Men did NOT like that I owned a successful business and retired in my 30s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:09 AM
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LOL The only reason respect for men is going down is because women and sane men are tired of hearing from you whiny babies complaining about the results of being unable to adapt to having to compete with the entire human species instead of just men. It’s not uncommon to come across news about men being beaten up by women? Where? When? Where are all news stories about women gang-raping men and boys? Where’s the coverage of men losing their rights to education and voting and being able to go outsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:54 AM
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No, we do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:27 AM
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Get offline then. Most people of either gender date and marry within their income, education, and lifestyle bracket. It’s a statistical truth and not a debatable issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 07:30 PM
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Women almost never post like this in this sub. Why’re you acting like we all can’t see the same posts lmao the overwhelming majority is just rants from antisocial men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 04:08 PM
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He didn’t articulate a view. He rambled vaguely about things he thinks women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:30 AM
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It’s not information though. You just monologued your opinion. You say things like “most men” and make sweeping statements about women as if they’re rooted in any objective reality but you can’t produce any sources based on science because there aren’t any. The only thing you have is the brainrot opinion of incels on YouTube. You are in no position to talk about self development or awareness with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:14 AM
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Is this a debate sub or an misogynistic rant sub
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:48 AM
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People complain about it, but not on the basis of it not being okay because women don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:51 PM
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I live in a country with mandatory military service (for men) and have never in my life heard a man complain that women don’t have to do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 06:23 PM
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And how tf would you know and measure which women are self reflecting and how? 😂 Making a false report is already a crime. There is accountability. You care more about complaining about women then holding false reporters and predators accountable, men are more likely to be raped by another man than falsely accused of rape by a woman but you aren’t whining about that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:12 PM
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what do you mean by accountability exactly? RP dudes are so obsessed with that word but never explain what they want to happen in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:54 PM
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Bro is using a hook up app in Germany and thinks he’s getting a scientific sample of women 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:44 PM
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LMAOOOO “it’s not men’s fault that they accidentally kill women when they only mean to cause them serious injuries” is an absolutely insane argument. you should be on a watch list
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:52 AM
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You don’t need strength to kill anyone bro we have guns and knives and women don’t run around killing people with them like men do 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:41 AM
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They understand it but it doesn’t suit their narrative so they pretend it doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:48 AM
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… it’s human trafficking babes are you being serious lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:48 AM
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Because that division works in their favour. Also, statistically, men really don’t mind when a dynamic shifts in a way that infantilizes their partner. Thats why we have to have laws against men marrying children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:38 PM
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What’s the proof for that? Women make up the majority of solo travelers. Women having travel as a hobby statistically has absolutely nothing to do with men or being subsidized by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:30 PM
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lmfaooooo WHAT? so you agree that men are detrimental to the health of women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:30 AM
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Unearned merit is a very odd choices of words to use for things women do that are essential to society than men don’t give them credit for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:27 PM
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We exist in a global patriarchy specifically because women have been barred from having any tools to influence or equally participate in it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:19 PM
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Are you being fr? Women couldn’t even have their own bank accounts three generations ago lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:15 PM
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And heterosexual women are equally unattracted to heterosexual men that they think are unattractive lmao there’s no difference bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:56 PM
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sure … a 32 year old guy dating a teenager is facilitated by her and that guy definitely doesn’t have any emotional baggage 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:13 AM
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He thinks his anecdotes are statistics. You’re trying to assign a value to his comments that doesn’t exist lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:46 AM
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bro on steroids talking about attraction … oof
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:44 AM
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“Roided up” is short form for “doesn’t have the self control or discipline to execute what he needs to in order to be the person he wants so he takes shortcuts that will leave him impotent in the longterm” yet you’re here trying to give people advice …?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:43 AM
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dude wtf even is this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:41 AM
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I have friends who are fuck boys. I have friends who are not fuck boys. I don’t fuck any of them because friends don’t fuck each other. I don’t know why so many men have trouble understanding the concept that friendship is for companionship and not sex or romance. The feelings I have for my male friends are identical to the feelings I have for my female friends. I do not make any extra considerations for the sexual or romantic market value of either because it doesn’t matter to me. Being a frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:15 PM
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I’m in the top 10% of earners in my country and have literally never paid for a date because literally no one ever expected me to or ever asked? I always politely offered but never in my years of adult dating ever had to actually follow through lol is this really that big of a deal? Does this mean that men who want kids are parasites unless they compensate the woman who is carrying them? Are your friends parasitic if they don’t pay you back for buying a beer? 💀 if y’all are stingy you can just s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:34 PM
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except for literally every social and political measure lmfao “Tolerate” is a weird phrase to use for the concept that men are willing to fuck just about everything and women prefer to … not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:46 PM
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That’s an entirely different issue. You are trying to argue about the military and not the topic at hand because you know you’re in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:44 PM
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Watchlist type statement tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:54 PM
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It’s genuinely concerning and scary that you can’t seem to grasp and understanding of what the difference between having mutually enthusiastic and consensual sex is difference than purchasing a set amount of time to masturbate using someone else’s body.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:07 PM
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… did you just compare being desperate for sex to being a sex worker? 😭 god you people are hopeless
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:02 PM
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I worked in nightlife for a very long time, if you think escorts don’t have pimps or that they chose the profession over other options then you’re being ignorant as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:29 AM
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Bro. I live in a country where escorting and SW is legal. You are dumb if you think that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:42 AM
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No one is asking for a ledger of all your sexual experiences. But participating in an inherently exploitative purchase of another human is something that people should be informed of before you have sex with them. Men that hide that do so because they know it will change a woman’s mind about having sex with him, which is rapey as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:37 AM
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NGOs and gov agencies report literally 80-90% of SWers are trafficking victims depending on the country. They know that these women are not choosing sw as a career, they just don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:04 AM
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Can the builder get STIs or pregnant from building the house? Is he made to build that house under coercion? Does the builder have freedom of movement and financial autonomy? It’s not the same thing. You guys act like SWs are clocking into a 9-5 and it’s BIZARRE. All these dangerous jobs you mentioned, all those laborers have a pimp that takes control of the wages they earn during that labor right? Because he has to protect them from the people they’re laboring for, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:56 AM
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Prostitution is human trafficking. You’re buying a person’s body. I’m an atheist and I know that’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:42 AM
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You do realize the overwhelming majority of sex workers don’t actually choose that profession right? I live in a country where it’s legal and no one chooses that, they’re all trafficked Eastern Europeans or people in active addiction lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:41 AM
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Why are you making up statistics lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:40 AM
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Gross. If I found out my husband had purchased women I’d divorce him so fast. The fact you hide this means you know it’s wrong and will inform people’s opinions about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:31 AM
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Explain why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:44 AM
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“They agree” Liberals and leftists hardly agree on anything, but like, who tf is asking and where lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:09 AM
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Hey so you’re literally just making shit up 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:08 AM
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“We don’t mind” As the west increasingly panics about women choosing to be single lmao The fact y’all call women wanting equitable partners “entitlement” is so tired and weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:02 PM
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… why do you think an analogy needs to be made? you’re trying to make a translation here that doesn’t need translating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 03:14 PM
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No. It’s not about it being such “a low level of attraction.” The only gendered difference between a man you don’t want to have sex with trying to have sex with you is that you can’t get pregnant from it if you’re a man. Men think the equivalent is an ugly woman trying to sleep with them. But there isn’t a need for there to be “an equivalent” when it’s the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:48 AM
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You don’t know how statistics work, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:20 PM
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There IS NO 80/20 rule. It’s a figure plucked from ONE article about OkCupid. It’s not a rule, it’s not a study, it’s not rooted in any other reality but cope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:18 AM
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💯 Men tend to think that women feel the same way that they do when a woman they don’t think is attractive makes a move on them. I don’t know why they don’t understand that the equivalent is literally a man they don’t want to sleep with, trying to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 10:17 AM
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There are telegram groups of tens of thousands of men teaching each other to rape women and girls and exchanging content of those acts. Clearly many men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:30 PM
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Legit just an okcupid article lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:15 AM
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this sub is getting so boring lmao what are we debating here exactly? your incel opinion that’s not based in any fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:14 PM
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do you just want us to debate your revenge fantasy or
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:08 PM
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The majority of women work and believe in their own autonomy and independence, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:55 AM
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I used to own a photo agency, the only people who ever hired us to take dating app pictures were men. Women mostly have nice looking photos because they’re usually just better at taking them with their phones or they have a friend who is. When my friends and I travel together we take tons of candids of each other so everyone has lots of little memories from the trip. Lightroom doesn’t have filters and is used literally only for color grading and cropping and masking. Object removal. It literally…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:11 AM
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Let’s not forget the part where statistically patients of both genders have better outcomes with female surgeons, but women with male surgeons are more likely to die than their male patients lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:26 AM
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Because it’s not irrelevant … women exist outside of western countries too. I live in the west but we receive a lot of MENA immigrants, 80% of which self-report that their views on women don’t change upon completion of integration courses, yet western women still have to share communities with them. If men’s freedoms and personhood are firmly established on global scale, why shouldn’t women’s be? Do you seriously expect that in an increasingly globalist society that having the personhood of half…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 06:41 AM
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you do realize there are places on earth where women aren’t allowed to read or go outdoors right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:10 AM
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How the hell is that what you got from what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:54 AM
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Your beef is with capitalism dude not women jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:53 AM
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There are hundreds of subreddits full of rape fantasies and non-consensual content actually, this one just has more words
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:52 AM
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Most women work paid jobs AND do more unpaid labor as primary caregivers if they have children. It’s men like OP who complain about being oppressed when they lose the privilege of their free maid 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:51 AM
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But we know that marriage as it is now is still a net negative for women’s health and happiness. Maybe we should be encouraging men to be better partners instead of going back to 50’s nuclear family propaganda lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:05 PM
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These guys genuinely believe that their mythical top 20% of men all have harems I stg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:35 PM
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Women’s struggles: femicide, professional misogyny, medical misogyny, lack of human rights globally, risk of pregnancy, lack of bodily autonomy Men’s struggles: not getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:35 PM
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lmao what
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:39 AM
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man discovers genuine friendships require emotional effort and not physical transactions, more at 11 you think that women using male friends as an “emotional dumping ground” is draining because many men don’t have emotionally vulnerable friendships and are deficient in experiencing and processing emotions enough that it feels like labour. sharing emotional vulnerability builds trust and emotional intimacy, which is a key part of sustainable friendships. this is not something women just do with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:40 PM
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women rally against conscription because we are logically consistent when it comes to bodily autonomy. women do the bulk of menial laborious tasks, they just don’t get paid for it. have you ever done any research about why women have traditionally been prevented from being soldiers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:35 PM
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Sorry, maybe this is mean but it seems like men who think this stuff about women are usually in a low socioeconomic class where women are popping out kids young and ignorant or they just don’t have much exposure to the world in general. I’m in the top 10% of earners in my country and the majority of women I know do not even start thinking about kids until 30-35 because they’re getting educated and career building. I’m 32 and everyone thinks I’m 21-24, but my husband is 44 and everyone thinks he’…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:54 AM
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By getting talked at, do you mean sit in a lecture? The education method that was invented by men and made available exclusively for them, for centuries? Why do you think men have such a hard time with it now if it was made just for them originally? What do you think can be done to make men actually parent their children and teach them these essential skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:52 PM
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What kind of studying is easier for women? What do you think makes men capable of deserving the majority of leadership roles if they don’t have the skills and discipline to be competitive in academia?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:07 PM
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My country has mandatory military service (9-12 months and conscripted roles aren’t in any sort of combat) and I honestly think it helps men a lot. I’ve lived in a lot of different places and find the guys here to be the least “toxically masculine” with each other than anywhere else I’ve been. Doesn’t transfer over to how they treat women tbh, but it does seem to help with discipline/maturity and their overall sense of self.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:05 PM
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You used “capable” when you should’ve used “allowed.” 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:45 PM
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Stay consistent. If women are reproducing, the majority of them are not part of the dating pool. You don’t get to leverage them as a part of that. Reproduction also has little to do with community building, as evidence by the societal death of “the village” in the west. Most women are primary caregivers without community support. Why are you making men’s social skill deficits with other men about a bloodline? 😂 Also, who cares? The overwhelming majority of bloodlines are … nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 11:52 AM
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Okay, but women would be competing for that top percent of men, yet we excel at community building despite that competition. So it’s not an obstacle for us. What is the deficit for men that it’s such an obstacle for them that they can’t great healthy communities that have nothing to do with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:37 PM
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That’s not an actual response to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:38 PM
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You’re complaining that men compete and fear other men and feel disgusted at them so it certainly seems like you don’t like the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:35 PM
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By your logic, men also have a victim narrative they can bond over. They’re victims of women and the patriarchy. So why do you guys still suck at community building?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:20 PM
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Oh. So, just the exact same variables that would apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:00 PM
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You didn’t answer half the question. The best you have is … a clip from the View?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:40 PM
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Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:15 PM
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Nobody is making fun of you … to your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:57 AM
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They are teens 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:56 AM
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You’re already old enough that your sperm quality is degrading and are more likely to have a disabled child and cause a complicated pregnancy and birth. By the time she’s old enough to responsibly have a child, you’ll be too old to start fatherhood. Unless you’re like, totally fine with planning to leave your child without a living father for the majority of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:55 AM
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The manosphere will never be able to define accountability or know how to exist without basing literally everything they do on a juxtaposition of women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:35 PM
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The elected and unelected leaders of America right now both have multiple children by multiple different mothers. One of which is being publicly chased for child support despite the fact he has billions of dollars. The other one has been on multiple talk shows saying that he’d fuck his daughter if he wasn’t related to her. Women having abortions isn’t killing a child. Most women who get abortions have children already. And bodily autonomy exists, and forced pregnancy is a war crime. If you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:12 PM
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You chose a label that encompasses building one’s life on an objectification and resentment of women and then ask why people have a negative option of it. Be sooooo for real
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:09 PM
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Bro is so lost in the redpill sauce he doesn’t even know what he’s saying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:07 PM
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Explain what accountability means to you, with specific actions. And follow up with how men take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:06 PM
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Men deal with problems violently, women deal with them socially. Regardless of who hates who and why, society should be evaluating the risk of either and act accordingly. When women don’t like men, they decenter them. When men don’t like women, they abuse them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:05 PM
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Find me a single subreddit or online social community that exists solely to degrade and objectively men (that’s run my women and not gay men)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:03 PM
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Reddit also allows dozens of subreddits with violent and non-consensual sexual content of women and girls but sure bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:59 PM
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Chad isn’t a real thing. It’s an ambiguous figure that validates the insecurities and bitterness of men who can’t cope with women having equal access to capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:30 PM
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He willingly came in her. He is a victim of his own stupid decision making. You think with your dick and you’re going to be on the hook for the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:48 AM
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Sounds like this man should take accountability for not choosing better 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:27 AM
2

How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:22 AM
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Because they weren’t going their own way, they were spiraling into dangerous and misogynistic rhetoric lol Men do things for men without involving women challenge: impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:34 PM
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It’s if you’re normal. Feel like we are talking in circles here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:33 PM
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There is! It’s called being a normal human being. Redpill isn’t for dating or well adjusted people. It’s for validating insecure men. You said it yourself. Instead of adapting to the real world everyone lives in, men would rather join toxic communities. I think one think RP men have trouble understanding about “be yourself” and “go to therapy” is that it’s not a condescension or write off. It is genuine. When people say be yourself, they really mean, be the person you were before you were hurt a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:32 PM
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I live in a country that’s had conscription since 1914. Women weren’t allowed to vote until the 1950’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:15 AM
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You’re disgusting. He wasn’t always violent. We had an amazing relationship for five years before he became violent. I don’t need to show anyone love in order to be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 08:31 AM
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Women’s only dating pool entirely overlaps with the people most likely to kill us but we have it easier? 😂 RP men need to learn that having more people willing to have sex with you doesn’t actually mean your dating life is easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 02:15 PM
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I refer to my ex as a narcissist because that’s what our couples therapist and his therapist referred to him as. I was in therapy because he tried to kill me. Not in a weaponized therapy kind of way, in a, he legally isn’t allowed to own a gun anymore kind of way. You know what they say about assumptions …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:17 AM
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Because they find them attractive…? Why is this so interesting to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:06 PM
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If you’re “fixing” a man who is very much capable of fixing himself then yeah, you are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:55 PM
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Lady and Tramp dynamic is an interesting way of phrasing a relationship where the woman does all the emotional labour for a man who isn’t willing to do it himself but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:20 PM
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If a woman is around gang members, thugs, whatever then chances are she was also raised in the same socioeconomic class and environment as they were and her decision making process would reflect that. The same way boys are groomed into gang culture, girls are groomed into caretaking for and seeking out men who are successful in that culture. Low-class behavior isn’t gendered. For every woman commenting “free him!” there’s a man commenting the same and a man who was actively involved in perpetuat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 04:18 PM
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It depends on the woman, not the girl. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:35 PM
2

according to this sub accountability is only for the female monolith, not men. they need society to address their needs!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 10:16 PM
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You’re making the claim so it’s on you to support the claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:16 PM
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How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:58 PM
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That’s not what I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:36 PM
1

You didn’t answer the question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:58 PM
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What sources do you have for that? Mothers don’t get default custody, it’s just the primary caretaker, which happens to often be the mother. Courts make decisions in the best interest of the child, not the parents. The average child support payment in the US is $430 and the average cost of raising a child is $2,000 per month. Only 20% of fathers pursue custody and they get it 72% of the time. How are you turning this into male victimhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:21 PM
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A growing amount of single mothers is also a growing amount of absent fathers but you didn’t say that, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:52 PM
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Leaving an abusive relationship is statistically when you’re most likely to get murdered by your abuser, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:28 PM
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It’s not. Lots of men just read attractive women showing up in any way online as attention-seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:51 AM
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You never see them moving to Utah 😂 These “traditional men” don’t want a traditional woman, they want someone they can control through isolation and financial abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:29 AM
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Women don’t like the passport bro movement because most women don’t support the exploitation of other women. I assure you none of us are morning the loss of guys who couldn’t cut it in the domestic dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:28 AM
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For men, you mean. For the majority of history dating for women was just being lucky if your husband didn’t beat you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:10 AM
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Valentine’s Day was literally invented by a man and the romantic theme comes from soldiers pining after women they weren’t allowed to marry under the Roman emperor of the time It’s no more commercialized than Christmas or Halloween. It only seems like it exists as a cash grab if you aren’t romancing your partner the rest of the year. My husband gets me flowers every Sunday. We both always grab each others favourite candies or desserts while we are out and about because we … love each other lol i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:21 AM
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You were abandoned and abused by men. But you chose an ideology that blames women for everything. Explain that. Divorce rape isn’t a real thing. What is real is, you know, actual rape. And it is very bizarre for a victim of abuse to use such a violent term to describe things like child or spousal support.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:03 AM
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think they were talking about support systems and communities for men that are not based around having sex with, removing rights from, and objectifying women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:16 PM
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Just because you say something doesn’t mean it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:32 PM
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He didn’t imply at all there was anything wrong about being gay. Think that’s just a bias you have as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:20 PM
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It’s only homophobic if you think there’s something wrong with being gay ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:17 PM
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Don’t think you understood my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:40 PM
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Nope. You still don’t! 😂 Same class doesn’t mean “exact same income.” Socioeconomic class is determined by more than just income alone — education, occupation (again, not the same thing as income), family wealth, assets, etc. and sociometrics depending on regional and cultural factors also play a part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 01:56 PM
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Seriously so much of this sub is just redpillers trauma dumping and arguing with anecdotes while they demand sources from everyone else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:51 AM
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Women are increasingly foregoing sexual and romantic relationships because men aren’t worth the risk and this sub exists because they can’t stop whining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:41 AM
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I don’t think you know what socioeconomic class means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:54 AM
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Seriously, why do you think that? Men need to stop thinking women are choosing abusers and need to realize that abusive, narcissistic, and manipulative people don’t act that way when we meet them and reveal themselves as such as they gain access and control over people’s lives. Also, abusers aren’t necessary attractive. Saying women think it’s worth risking their lives to date a man is an untrue and disgusting thing to say about the ~140 women who are murdered every day by their intimate partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:45 AM
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My mom was a model in Miami in the 90’s and was on boats all the time because she had a license and likes being on boats. My dad was her first. Both sexes statistically date and marry within their own socioeconomic class. What you’re arguing is not based in any statistical fact. You’re just bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:33 PM
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As someone with a yacht that I bought with my own money, that my husband and I occasionally bring to Miami, “why is she on a boat?” is so fucking funny. You guys are weird. It’s normal for single people of both genders to date around. That’s how you decide which person you would like to be monogamous with. If you’re mad about other men being able to provide better experiences for women than you, then your beef is with yourself and the other men you feel you can’t compete with, not with women who…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:18 AM
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The solution would be for men to stop stalking and harassing and assaulting people. “Blacks” ???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:27 AM
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straight men: we have a loneliness epidemic and men aren’t allowed to be emotional also straight men: when we hang out with our friends we like to act like we’re in fight club [sounds like someone didn’t understand Fight Club] and degrade each other and take shots at things that make friends feel less confident. when we’re done with surface level conversations, we compete with our own friends and degrade them and compare them to women we don’t respect
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:54 PM
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Bro do you mean melanin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:48 PM
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… gendered spaces in public transit are responses to the stalking and assault often experienced by women. what’s not fine about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:47 PM
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As opposed to Christianity and Islam, which has always been a cheesy and violent justification for a bunch of dudes to get together and fuck kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:08 PM
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… huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:07 PM
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The concept of witches predates even early concepts of satan. There is no “evil satanic reality” at all actually because satan isn’t real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:04 PM
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Men having their save the day fantasies when research shows that women are better at responding to emergencies is so funny to me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:03 PM
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Hahahahaha what???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:00 PM
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lol explain that please
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:32 AM
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It’s not. The dating market isn’t worth it. The straight male loneliness epidemic isn’t our problem to fix. As a group, women have been proactive in just about everything else and now that women don’t need men to access society, it’s becoming increasingly apparent for women that a romantic relationship with a man isn’t a requirement and not something worth sacrificing your happiness and health for. Why do men never wonder why there aren’t groups where men need to warn other men about women they’…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:49 AM
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Young women earn more than their counterparts in what fields?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 12:04 PM
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Idk why you’re presenting your (wrong) assumptions as facts. Rich people get married and stay married more than other income groups. There’s actually an increasing “marriage gap” between socioeconomic classes in North America. Plastic surgery, sometimes, sure. But also wealthy people generally have lower exposure to social and environmental factors that contribute negatively to appearance and aging. It’s also just easier to hit the gym when you have investment income vs grinding at a wage job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:33 AM
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Most rich men aren’t actually marrying women just because they’re hot. That’s what mistresses are for. Generally, people who are well educated and have good careers and high earnings seek the same in a partner. Sometimes those people are also hot. And it’s easier to be hot if you’re also rich tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:16 PM
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Exactly. People aren’t exactly comparing pay stubs 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:10 PM
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But not because they earn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:33 PM
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But we already know that wives are working less paid hours in generally lower paying fields. the salaries you’re talking about here don’t really apply to the topic of rich men or rich women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:14 PM
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Not really. I’d say most of my married friends are pretty close to equal when considering overall net worth and not just annual income. A difference of a fraction of overall income isn’t really going to matter to most people as long as neither person needs to take extreme risks or make major lifestyle changes to accommodate that difference and if you’re rich enough to worry about it then you’re rich enough to be responsible about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:10 PM
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What’s your source for that? Don’t confuse for men being wealthier in general to women insisting on dating wealthier than them. Hypergamy is about increasing your socioeconomic status. The people making multimillions are more likely to be in the same general socioeconomic status already.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:53 PM
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Trophy of an attractive rich man here 👋 Men who talk about women who marry rich love to leave out the fact that most of us are … also rich. My desire was not to be a trophy, but to have a partner who was compatible with my lifestyle and finances factor into that. It’s fine to demonize high earners for being snobby or having disproportionate wealth or whatever but it’s really not a gendered thing. I think RP men have a hard time processing that women are capable of amassing wealth or status indep…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:00 PM
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Hahaha the mental gymnastics men will do to justify other men abandoning their children is so sad and cliche
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:52 AM
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Hahaha please like half the dudes in this group say they’re justified in not associating with women professionally because they’re afraid of getting MeToo’d and now y’all wanna call harassment equality 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:12 AM
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I think men care much more than women. And if you have any degree of familiarity with financial comfort then you have an understanding that it really doesn’t matter and cars aren’t a particularly reliable indicator of actual wealth, but how someone chooses to prioritize their money. My ex owned a few yachts and drove a 2002 Audi lol. What vehicle you have isn’t as much as a symbol as redpill guys seem to think. The grifters convincing them that women only have an interest in certain status symbo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 09:06 AM
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I have a 13 year age gap and I’m in my 30’s. It wasn’t that I couldn’t find someone in my 20s, I turned down three proposals because I was focused on my career and travel. If I had or wanted children — probably wouldn’t be fine with that sort of age gap. Not from a caretaking perspective but as someone who lost most of their immediate family pretty young, it isn’t something I’d be comfortable with setting up my children to deal with. But since we’re childfree I don’t really care lol. We have eno…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:32 PM
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They don’t want a girlfriend. They want someone to fuck and someone to clean up after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 07:30 AM
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Protected from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:03 PM
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… do you know how pregnancy is achieved?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:28 PM
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Yeah I wish this sub had actual debate rules. The majority of posts are just dudes literally making things up and struggling to decide the definition of terms they want to argue about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:53 PM
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It’s exhausting at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:58 PM
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LOL. America loves big government. Just not when it benefits the citizenry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:50 AM
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Most men and women date and marry in their same economic class. This is especially true for wealthy people of either gender, and wealthy people of either gender are not just more likely to be married to other rich people, but also are more likely to marry in general. You keep saying “men” but I think what you mean is “a few rappers”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:48 AM
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Please remember that “daddy issues” is an attack on inadequate fathers, not the children who suffered because of them. Not very red pill of you 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:29 AM
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Most of the US population of either gender is fat. It’s very clearly acceptable. And the difference between the two genders is literally 2% so idk why men on here love to pretend like they’re all toothpicks trying to date whales
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:41 AM
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I mean … take a look at the username and kinda scary obsessive post history. He clearly struggles with that concept on many levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:16 PM
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“So-called oppressed” — no, not so-called. It is oppression. Objectively. The fact you’re positing lack of access to speech, freedom of movement, education, safety, and bodily autonomy as something that debatably or inappropriately counts as oppression is kinda terrifying tbh. As for the rest — If you knew what a freedom fighter was then you wouldn’t be asking this question. Did you really make a whole thread just to ask women why they think other women should be allowed to be people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:43 PM
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I love how you tried to give two examples and both of them only apply to an extreme minority of women hahahaha you know most of us aren’t dating or trying to date rappers or serial killers, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:12 AM
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Lmfao the study itself is sexist. It says autism is a predominately male condition. 😂 Can you try again with something from this decade? Why do you think it is that it’s only straight men who underperform in academics? They have the same newborn eyeballs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 03:06 PM
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Good point about children actually. Did you know that male children receive access to healthcare faster than female children? Or that parents statistically overestimate the abilities of male children and underestimate the abilities of female children? Men are literally raised to overestimate themselves (we also see this in employment statistics where men are more likely to apply for positions they aren’t qualified for) and still can’t compete with gay men and women in academia. Not that it matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:55 PM
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It’s still patriarchy lol. STRAIGHT men are falling behind because education is now a genuine meritocracy and they aren’t socialized in soft skills that make an individual successful in academia such as self regulation, attentiveness, empathy, and willingness to listen to others. There is no disparity between gay men and women. It’s just straight men who perform worse than everyone else. If things are sooo hard for men, and women outperforming them is so detrimental to men, why do men still make…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:11 PM
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Mentioned this earlier in the thread but I live in one of those fourteen countries and there are still places here where women are not allowed to go (shoot out to the church) and we still have the lowest gender equity in the EU.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:02 AM
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When a corporation hires someone from another country, they don’t hire them to live in their office and fuck their boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:36 AM
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You’re saying things that have no basis in reality. Most women AND men date and marry within their own socioeconomic class and despite that women still do more in the home. Real life isn’t your algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 12:38 PM
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No. Don’t care about men’s preferences. When I was single and looking, it was important to me that the person I ended up with found me attractive at my default personal style because I had no intentions on making modifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:16 PM
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Y’all ride that 80% figure from that singular Tinder study so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:40 AM
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Buddy it’s not just women who use their twenties to find themselves. That’s what your twenties are for 💀 why’re you talking like somebody’s grandpa
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 09:39 AM
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wow, that sure is a lot of shit I didn’t say
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:30 PM
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I didn’t say forcing. Women do more unpaid labor when they’re married regardless of whether or not they earn more than their spouse. What incentive does a woman have to provide more to the household in both paid and unpaid labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:43 PM
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His own source undermines his point 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:27 PM
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When men earn more than their partners, they get a free housekeeper. When women out earn their partners and don’t want to perform unpaid labour for an extra person, they’re stingy. Got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:26 PM
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Another example of the intersection of incel culture and closeted men lmao antisocial men are far more obsessed with how men look than women are. there is no bar for looks that women are talking about, that’s a narrative of your own invention. when we say the bar is on the floor — it’s in reference to men being held to a much lower standard compared to women when it comes to their general behavior, behaviour in relationships, and the ability to function as an independent adult. people online pra…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:36 PM
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source? why are rp dudes so committed to pulling figures out of thin air lol just making shit up atp
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:33 PM
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did you really just try to use a cherry-picking compilation from a manosphere grift channel as a source for your argument lol they could’ve put anything in there to prove their point yet didn’t show a single actual profile or message and it’s just two random girls on video giving anecdotes 😂 let’s try to work on our media literacy skills a bit maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:38 PM
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Nah seems like you’re just having a hard time justifying a claim that you pulled out of your ass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:19 PM
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If by “in another way” you mean “with resentment, anger, and suppression” - sure! y’all fear and hate the emotional intelligence you associate with femininity so much you’ve manly’d your gender into a “loneliness epidemic”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:13 PM
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imagine bringing an entire human life into the world and then setting it up for the reduced opportunities and outcomes that come with being raised in a single parent household just bc your dick wasn’t getting enough attention
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:10 PM
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ah yes, nothing gets a woman going like someone telling her she has no excuse. so hot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:08 PM
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I mean, an average of 135 women a day are murdered by their male partners yet somehow you think the quality of available women is lower or on par with the demographic doing that murdering so it just seems like you’re either completely delusional or hate women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:38 PM
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You’re sure you’re a recovering incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:29 PM
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Objectification isn’t validation and ease isn’t the same thing as quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:34 PM
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Women absolutely do experience romantic loneliness and you’re being weird for thinking otherwise. You need to stop assuming that just because a man is romantically interested in a woman that that woman would be fulfilled in a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 12:57 PM
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If an evil wizard transformed a typical woman into a man and she tried to get laid, it would be very easy because the typical woman has better emotional intelligence and empathy than the typical man and that’s something women tend to value in sexual and romantic partners lol Most men try to attract women as if women were men. Idk why it’s so hard for so many guys to understand that women don’t like or prioritize the same things men do. Even the average male OLD profile looks like they’re shoppin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:32 AM
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next up is another wave of “divorce rape” posts!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:07 AM
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What’s your source that says “most men” are doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:17 AM
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The only people who compare the two are men. Because women know they aren’t comparable, not in terms of risk and procedure and certainly not in terms of accessibility. The issues of women’s healthcare and bodily autonomy are one and the same because of practical application of legislation and policy and how those end up in the real world. In red states, women are dying because hospitals are afraid to give life-saving care over fear of being held liable against abortion laws, even when they’re le…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 09:00 AM
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If you knew anything about women’s health then you wouldn’t be comparing a tubual to a vasectomy. Not all sex is consensual, nor can most women access a tubual or hysterectomy during their adolescent or prime reproductive years.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:41 AM
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Being pro-choice means I’m in favour of women taking full control of their reproduction, which includes everything from birth control to abortion. Moron
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:53 AM
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Yet women are expected to turn off their desires to date men they aren’t attracted to just because those men think they’re good guys who deserve it lol we have posts in here like three times a week of dudes wanting some sort of state sponsored bang maid program. You ever see women posting anything like that, anywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:18 AM
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A financial abortion isn’t a real thing lmfao if you don’t want to be at risk for child support then get a vasectomy or don’t stick your dick in anything 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:15 AM
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This isn’t a gendered issue and it’s weird that you’re trying to make it one Common interests help in dating but they’re not everything. I think you’re confusing personal style with lifestyle and maybe that’s where you’re running into trouble? Are you fr the type of guy who asks women to name songs and spout trivia if you see one wearing a shirt with an artist on it? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:29 PM
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High vs low value isn’t real. So I would advise him to lay off the redpill delulu content and unpack why he’s more concerned about what other men think about him than his own happiness. Bossing a woman around, controlling what she wears, and insulting her friends is a great way to get her to want nothing to do with you so I guess that guy could choose between being alone or not being an insecure weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:19 PM
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Feminism is fundamentally against the draft. This conversation is so old. Y’all need to stop acting like selective service actually matters to you beyond being what you think is a gotcha response to women’s rights. The reason why it’s not part of the mainstream narrative is that it generally falls under bodily autonomy that feminism fights for but also because no one is actively getting drafted nor are they realistically at risk for being drafted and the same is not true for human beings who nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:04 PM
2

… what do you think a vasectomy is?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:41 PM
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No, it’s in his best interest too. He’s 43 and has never wanted kids either lol I’m 31 so they would’ve been more in the cards for me when we met, at his age he’d almost too old to meet and marry a whole other person and still be alive long enough to be able to parent a child into adulthood lol Men who think they don’t need to budget years to parent children forget they actually need to raise those children and not just … ejaculate. It was actually me who suggested that he freeze sperm if we eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:40 PM
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Does paying child support biologically age men by seven years and put their health, life, and future employment opportunities at risk? 🤔 If men don’t want to risk having to pay child support then they can take advantage of the bodily autonomy they have and get a vasectomy ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:37 AM
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It’s … quite literally forced labor. I’m not sure why you think access to healthcare and bodily autonomy is hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:26 AM
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“Ignoring the massive issue of healthcare denial and forced pregnancy” lmfao … okay There is one common denominator in the existence of child marriages across the globe and that they benefit men almost exclusively. The problem is men, not where those men live or what ethnicity they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 09:24 AM
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The majority of people in political and policy-making leadership are men. So. They’re set up by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:41 AM
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Yeppp. Most safety equipment in general is designed for men lol women are like 25% more likely to die in car accidents because even seatbelts and crumple zones are designed for men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:40 AM
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And why do you think there is a need for women-only shelters?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:37 AM
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It’s common enough in the west that white Christians overturned Roe and are rolling back child marriage laws so that’s not true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:29 AM
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man it’s not the 1800’s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:27 AM
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So most men are emotionally promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:27 AM
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Fr. Men are standing right on top of the reality that they feel like they’re getting left behind because the western world is increasingly a meritocracy and they don’t even get it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:38 AM
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So you believe men should be compensating women for childbirth and raising children, right? Cause one gender shouldn’t be entitled to the labour of the other …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:38 AM
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Not really, I think you’re just projecting because you think like a sled dog and find some weird equivalence between reproduction and masculinity lol. I didn’t “get him snipped” — on our first date I said if he wanted to date me longterm then he’d have to get one, so he did. Our life is too cool to ruin it with kids and it was in our mutual best interest to ensure that didn’t happen. The physical ability to produce a child isn’t the only clock you need to worry about. You already admitted to bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:20 PM
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I’m not single/on the apps anymore but when I did I found them super overwhelming, if I didn’t swipe incognito or turn off my discoverability when I wasn’t actively using the app I’d get like 4k swipes a day and be interested in like … maybe three dudes lol someone has to be good at marketing themselves or I just assume they aren’t very smart and therefore aren’t worth the swipe tbh — a lot of men just … are not anywhere near as attractive as they think they are — a lot of men make profiles as i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:15 PM
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My husband had a vasectomy at my demand so you can save the weird fertility revenge fantasy for someone who may actually be affected lol Sperm health isn’t everything. Most men are not wealthy (or at least not enough to be worth banging for someone with a large age gap) or celebrities. They still need to plan for parenthood within a certain timeframe or cope with the fact that they missed their chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:38 PM
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Seems like you should’ve made better choices during your own peak fertile years lol women aren’t the only ones who have to plan for a family if they want one. It isn’t something you just get to opt into in old age 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:35 PM
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sooo … what are men doing for themselves that isn’t related to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:29 PM
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Maybe he would have if he hadn’t denied to participate in literally every option to pursue custody that the court offered. Man thought he could temper tantrum him way out of parental responsibility and then left a maniacal rant of a suicide note and chose to just leave his kids fatherless. (After he was arrested for hitting his daughter.) Definitely sounds like someone who is mentally sound and can be trusted with custody of young children. I’m sure he would have raised sons that were totally em…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:08 PM
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Tbf, a lot of dudes prefer to kill their wife and kids so I guess we should be … grateful …? that he chose himself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:05 PM
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Yeah, no, he admitted to slapping his four year old child in the face, refused to go to court-ordered counseling, and refused multiple channels offered by the courts to address future visitation and instead chose to picket court houses about father’s rights and try to incite violent acts in public spaces with other men. There were no circumstances he couldn’t come that didn’t exist out of his own creation. He cared more about being right than his kids. I don’t find it tragic at all besides the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:04 PM
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Oh, I’m so glad I looked him up. It just confirmed everything I assumed to be true. He didn’t kill himself because he was being soooo taken advantage of by court and child support demands. He was mentally ill with previous legal troubles and was obviously not a safe parent, custodial or not. He admitted to physically abusing his four year old daughter. His suicide note was just as much about family courts as it was about political conspiracy (can you explain what his recipe for a Molotov cocktai…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:41 PM
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I mean it’s sad he had mental health issues but like … clearly if that’s the course of action that made most sense to him then those issues were there long before a divorce lol stable people don’t set themselves on fire for not getting their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:45 AM
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Why didn’t he get custody then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:42 AM
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It’s “in sickness and in health” not “in sickness and in health as long as you’re meeting my sex quotas” I thought incel content wasn’t allowed in here? wtf is divorce rape? Are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:25 AM
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A man prefers self harm to providing for his own children and that is supposed to … make us feel bad for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 10:23 AM
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My partner and I are both high earners (top 10% in our country) and he simply will not go out somewhere unless he has VIP, our last little party week he spent 70k just on tables and I think that’s stupid as hell, def would’ve seen it as a red flag it was a new relationship or if I didn’t find basically everything else about him to be super attractive 😂 I promise you, as someone who socializes almost exclusively with women who earn above-average income and associate with men in the same bracket, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:30 AM
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Most people date and marry within their own socioeconomic class. Around half of men are not comfortable dating someone who out-earns them, the same is not true for women. Why do you think men who earn a certain amount of income only find women because of that? Wealth and good looks and/or good personality are not mutually exclusive. One of my friends who is very high income, conventionally attractive, just can’t seem to get a girlfriend. No problem getting dates but he rarely has a second one. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:11 AM
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It’s not rude. You’re just entitled lol. It is faster and less effort for you to look it up yourself instead of asking a woman to do it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:45 AM
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You are correct in this. I think a big part of the general miscommunication between men and women is that men interpret aggression as power or dominance and women interpret it as emotional disregulation paired with impending physical threat. Part of that is … why should women have to be able to defend themselves physically? Physical altercations have an inherent risk and trauma and women by and large do not use physical force or violence as a method of communication. For probably the same reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:58 PM
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It’s rooted in the Ancient Greek for “Google it”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:54 PM
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oooof the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:53 PM
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Men def need to talk about other men about the weird anhedonia plaguing the majority of their sex bc it’s actually like not physiologically normal at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:45 PM
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Idk why you’re treating asshole and narcissist as interchangeable concepts. Narcissists are, more often than not, very charming people with good social skills. It’s only once they’ve acquired an attachment with someone that they start presenting anti-social and abusive or manipulative behaviors. So many women end up in narcissistic relationships because they don’t start out that way. Assholes are just assholes. It’s just their personality. Most people (women are also people) do not seek out rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:11 AM
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… why do you think this? Someone being nice to look at doesn’t mean they are also worth being with, especially if it involves narcissistic abuse lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:06 AM
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… are you living under a rock? the US elected someone found guilty of sexual assault as president
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 01:39 AM
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… no lol more than twice the amount of men prefer to date down vs the amount of women who want to date up. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:53 PM
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Funny how none of you can answer this 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:19 PM
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No, it doesn’t. You’re being intellectually dishonest. Most reported rapes don’t even get convictions. No one is advocating for men to be fired or ostracized on accusations alone. You’re literally just pulling things out of your ass. Women outperform men in academia as well as in workplace productivity. Men don’t want to admit that they have to withhold jobs from women because they’re afraid to compete with them. Forced pregnancy is a literal war crime. lol. Sorry you didn’t feel loved enough by…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:18 PM
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Let me help you. “Believe women” doesn’t mean convict someone without evidence. It means that instead of pulling the classic man move of questioning and blaming the victim, to put resources and attention toward investigating and punishing rape. Men have to be asked to give women “preferential treatment” because men make up the majority of management roles and gatekeep positions and promotions from women. (Women are 30% less likely to be contacted for interviews than men with the same qualificati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:14 PM
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they have the audacity to ask men to consider people other than themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:50 PM
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Have you ever considered that it’s not that women want to “date up” its just that literally half of men refuse to date someone who earns more than them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:29 PM
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Not really. Men just out-earn women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:38 AM
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as a sailor, omfg the slapstick attempts 😂😂😂 when there was that meme going around where women were asking men if they thought they could fly and land a plane without training and most of them said yes, I … wasn’t surprised by that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:57 AM
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This is “under-discussed” because it just falls under the umbrella of … lifestyle compatibility. I’m by far the more outdoorsy one in my relationship. My man is the type of guy who is into skiing mostly for “the outfits and the après” as he puts it. When we met, I was the city dweller and he lived beachfront. But we had enough other things in common that distributing quality time together vs our hobbies isn’t really that challenging. It’s just a matter of compromise and not feeling like you need…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:54 AM
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It doesn’t reduce human trafficking, rape, or violence against women. It just means that women will receive a cut of the profit from being trafficked, raped, and treated violently. All of the science on the matter shows is that sex work is not mentally or physically healthy or safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:47 AM
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What about a person being able to purchase another person’s body is amoral to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:36 AM
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this is actually a really funny way to put it but idk man — your entire statement is about more easily accessing women and you just kinda threw black women in there as if they had lower standards or were the lower standard themselves and it reads very … icky
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:28 AM
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seriously, we need to save men and ban child support. it’s not their fault that women don’t choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:26 AM
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“I voted for a liberal because I want to commodify women’s bodies and do drugs” is not the virtue you seem to think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:13 AM
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That has nothing to do with being liberal or not racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:11 AM
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I’ve reached a level of mediocrity I’ve deemed appropriate!! now bring me my bang maid!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:00 AM
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You literally sandwiched black women in between “lowering your standards” and “get a prostitute” bro. You can’t be liberal and red pilled at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:58 AM
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it’s literally a 13% difference y’all uggos will be okay https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3000557/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:21 AM
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… did you seriously just say “date black females” immediately after saying “lower your standards” …? sexism we are used to but we’re doing racism in here too now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:16 AM
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The overwhelming majority of people (which includes women) date and marry within their own economic class lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:14 AM
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So the fun part is the stigma is disproportionately targeted at women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:44 PM
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Seriously half the posts in this sub are just “this universally-accepted concept doesn’t suit my preferred monolithic idea of women or dating, why?” lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:38 PM
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My exes too. Only the ones who did less and achieved less than me though. Funny how that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 02:49 PM
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RP dudes are neither witty, intelligent, cool, or attractive so they have very little exposure to women who are those things. Because they live in a strictly anecdotal reality and see women as objects and not individual multidimensional human beings, it isn’t possible for them to be aware that women can be both good-looking and interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:26 PM
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If the argument is about matriarchal vs patriarchal societies then I don’t see a point in referencing current or past leaders bc these societies were all still patriarchal? Like matriarchy and patriarchy arent actually strictly about the gender of an individual in charge lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:21 PM
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Omg big on the social pressure to choose unattractive mates. Media has normalized the “hot wife, dumb and unattractive husband” trope so much and girls are so often raised to believe that personality should overshadow a lack of physical attraction as if we don’t deserve to have both like men do. The amount of women I know who believe they’re asexual until they break up with their ugly ass bf is like, concerning lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:32 AM
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It shows a severe lack of understanding of how (negatively) impactful pregnancy is on the human body to believe that the cancer stats shouldn’t be counted lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:52 PM
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Race (at least as you seem to understand it) has very little to do with politics in Europe. Not sure why you’re projecting American issues onto a whole other continent? It’s not about having enough young white people, it’s about the cost of living being too high for young people who also have access to other European economies to have incentive to stay in Spain. The immigrants being “imported” to Spain en masse are largely economic migrants from North Africa who make their own way here (women ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:45 PM
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… Spain is overwhelmingly white lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:13 PM
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The lack of choice is what is oppressive. In religious patriarchal cultures, there is no choice. And you are entirely wrong about harsher punishments as abrahamic religions have disproportionate punishments for women. Not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:53 PM
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Having a double standard that demands compliance in exchange for humane treatment is textbook abuse pal but given the obvious narcissistic personality I literally don’t think you’re capable of comprehending that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:25 PM
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Okay, so now women don’t have to give a shit about men. Why can’t you just leave us alone instead of trying to oppress us? You have to be absolutely delusional to think men created a safe world for women. Men are the major majority perpetrators of violence toward men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:23 PM
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Having to attach yourself to a person who you have no choice to be attached to is not a privilege. Please explain how having someone else controlling your healthcare, social life, finances, and time is being “taken care” of. The word you want is control, not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:21 PM
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But women do that too, so why do we have to behave in a way that men approve of in order to have them? Why do women have to play nice but all men have to do is exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:06 PM
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Dude, having control over your money is literally how you participate in society. When women could not have their own accounts they were under financial control of a man. Why do I need to explain this to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:06 PM
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Why do you think it is that women have to behave a certain way in order to have rights and men do not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:49 PM
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Dude we’re one generation into women being able to have their own bank accounts lmfao you don’t gatekeep education, medicine, leadership, and autonomy from a group unless you hate that group. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:38 AM
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We know men have gatekept society from women. That wasn’t the question. I asked you what humility men had to demonstrate to earn their rights. You’re demanding that women trade humility for theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:52 AM
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Answer the question :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:17 AM
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Terrifying that you think someone would only acknowledge that a women is a human being because they think it’s more desirable lol that’s a lot of projection
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:16 AM
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Buddy … the lose-lose situation for women predates feminism. Men still hated us when we were just compliant bang maids. That’s how we got feminism. Can you describe the humility men have demonstrated that entitles them to their rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:09 AM
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I didn’t say anything about rape. Forced pregnancy is not the same thing as forced sex. But it is a war crime!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:54 PM
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… the anti-choice movement in America is also religiously based. You don’t find it a bit odd that there aren’t any religions where women oppress men? Religion isn’t the root cause lol it’s just a tool of patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 04:30 PM
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Who is “they”? What is your source exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:50 PM
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I’m in twox literally on the thread about not fucking conservative men and not a single person has said anything even remotely akin to teaching anyone a lesson lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:33 PM
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That is absolutely not what constructive abandonment means.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:31 PM
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How do you know what most people who are actually raped do?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:08 PM
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Wow what a real winner you are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:08 PM
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Not as well as you probably :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:07 PM
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Oh my GODDDD are you like living with a disability or something? What are you not getting here? You’re bewildered that people do not want to be forced to sacrifice their lives and be forced to carry children they don’t want? Are you of sound mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:06 PM
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Omg can you please think … better. This is exhausting lol If you have to uproot your entire life, assuming you even have the means to do so, in order to have control over your own body — you ARE NOT free. Be so fucking for real rn. There are quite literally hundreds of thousands of girls who are forced to marry adult men in America. You saying it doesn’t happen doesn’t mean that it doesn’t happen. You have no idea what’s going on in the shared and factual reality and keep making weird statements…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:05 PM
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By your own definition of freedom (being able to make the choices you want without fear of punishment) — women are not free in the US or the majority of the world 🤦‍♀️ What world are you living in that women are not held to any sort of standard? You say something that stupid after also arguing that the US leads the world in beauty standards… who do you think those apply to? This also like, isn’t a matter of opinion lol there is plenty of data on the subject m. The US is ranked 27 in the world fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:17 AM
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Why do you seem to be obsessed with the idea that women having equal rights to men is somehow an advantage for them? Scared of having a level playing field?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 11:09 AM
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How would you argue that women are free when systemic misogyny and an ongoing attack on healthcare access is in constant violation of multiple constitutional rights? Abortion rights just got shoved back to the states, which resulted in a 7% increase in maternal mortality (this in itself is not a debatable issue, these policies kill women) … and you’re asking me how the US is legislatively sexist? You cannot freely pursue life, liberty, or happiness if you are a female child in one of the twenty …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:49 AM
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Sure … because Trump is such a notorious man of his word. You’re missing the point entirely. Women are not free nor equal if their freedom and equal access to society is dependent on the state they live in and the state of the current executive branch.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:18 AM
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There are only fourteen countries on earth where women are legislatively equal to men, and the USA is not one of them. The US is a sexist country. I’m confused as to how you’d otherwise interpret having half the population’s right to life and liberty being subject to a vote. But importantly — women everywhere are not truly free and equal until all of us are. Men are the mandatory default in narratives from everything from government to medicine, that is not equality. We are in an increasingly gl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:16 AM
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forced pregnancy and assault are not “consequences” of sex, they’re consequences of violent patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 10:10 AM
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freedom to autonomy — no, depends on which country and state you’re in freedom to be single — half of the marriages in the world are arranged ones, including half a million literal children who were married to adult men in America in just the 2000s freedom to be childless — again, depends on the country and state you live in freedom to be a whore — prostitution is criminalized in more countries than it is legal freedom to be sexual — you cannot have sexual freedom without bodily autonomy which i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:38 AM
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I’ve not seen anyone say it’s to teach men a lesson, it’s about not putting yourself in a position to be forced to have a child you don’t want because you can no longer get an abortion that you also don’t want but may need.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:22 AM
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You brought up women in Asia and the Middle East. Where women are barred access from some or all schools depending on the country and have a systemic lack of access to healthcare and independent mobility. Girls do not “have” better education than boys in America and Europe, they’re just better at it. Men like you are mad that women became competitive in academia as soon as we were allowed to participate in it. RP loves a meritocracy until it includes women. 😂 Europe and North America’s move towa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:53 AM
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you’re literally doing the thing lmao nobody has given a shit about women … ever … yet we are still participating in society and caretaking for men, but when men feel a disruption to the status quo that may remove them as the default human being they turn into little domestic terrorists lol men simply COULD NOT function if they had to deal with the same things women do and your little tantrum proves that lol you don’t get to just opt out of society because you don’t get your way 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:46 AM
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Oh you mean the ones who aren’t allowed equal access to healthcare or education or speak in public? your entire account is women-hating bro it’s not worth trying to have discourse with you when you should be on a watch list lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:59 AM
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yeah this is what I mean lmao frothing at the mouth to be violent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:21 AM
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I feel like the venn diagram of men who are obsessed with female “accountability” and men who want to actively harm women is a circle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:28 AM
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Dating someone with a compatible lifestyle is not “dating up” bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:42 PM
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are you okay 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:29 AM
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lmao womppp no one is just “telling themselves” they can freeze their eggs lmao all of my friends who want kids and are over 35 have done it already and they can have those children with or without romantic partners 😂 personally I know I don’t want kids, I’ve never even held a human baby, so I had my tubes tied and all of my longterm partners have had vasectomies present one included
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:45 PM
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Redpill exists because more professional women have access to live the exact same way professional men do and that makes men sad lol the solution is not for “modern professional women” to just … stop being that as a gotcha to incels But like it’s … any class. People who are broke marry people who are broke. People who are middle class marry people who are middle class. You think it should just be upper class women who aren’t allowed to have the same standards everyone else does? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:25 PM
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It’s different for you as a guy, couples where the woman out-earn the man report more conflict and statistically men prefer to earn more than their partners. Financial differences are a leading cause of divorce and for me, it’s also a lifestyle thing. Most people date and marry within their own socioeconomic class. It isn’t an unreasonable or unrealistic expectation. None of what I’ve said here is a departure from what’s normal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:50 PM
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Not really. Women are statistically happier alone so if they aren’t settling by reducing their standards, there’s no logic that supports them being the problem lol the majority of the women in my friend group are successful business owners who travel most of the time, so it’s a smaller than average dating pool to begin with, especially as comparable men statistically tend to travel for much different reasons at different budgets and don’t consider children as something that need to be planned fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:04 PM
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Over 30 isn’t ancient lmao I’m in my 30’s and most of my hottest and most successful friends are still looking because they refuse to settle, had longterm partners who didn’t have the same ambition, or are too busy traveling to give it up for kids. Not because there’s something wrong with them 💀 People acting like egg freezing isn’t a thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:12 AM
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Because it’s not their body. Hope that helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:09 AM
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umm hello?? are you new? Lying is like the easiest way to get rejected by a woman lmao we don’t like liars. Wake up man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 03:27 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:29 AM
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If you want a healthy adult sexual or romantic relationship then you should not build it on a foundation of lies. Y’all give each other the worst advice fr
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:29 AM
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The question was single mother, not single father. Society views the two very differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:19 AM
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why are you pulling percentages out of your ass lmao what even is this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 08:50 AM
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i’m “foreign” and it’s soooo funny bc these dudes think they can just socioeconomically extort themselves into a compliant wife but don’t realize what they’re actually advocating for is being obligated to financially support someone for ten years, and that that person is going to absolutely steamroll them morally and emotionally 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:22 PM
18

so … trafficking with extra steps?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:11 PM
2

If you’re that uneducated on consent and sexual arousal maybe you shouldn’t be fucking anyone. Scary
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 12:39 PM
5

Extremely concerning that you’re just out there with the general public lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:09 AM
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If someone cannot notice that someone is asleep while they’re fucking them then they shouldn’t be fucking them lol are you fr?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 08:21 AM
2

So many RP dudes hate women because they’re jealous of them and hate other men because they wanna fuck them but haven’t figured out their gay yet lmao the way some RP dudes describe “chads” is like … pining
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:25 AM
3

source pls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:56 PM
1

Literally no one said that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:10 PM
2

Literally every set of diagnostic criteria in the DSM is based on the male presentation of the disorder and every drug for the treatment of those disorders were developed for and tested on majority male physiology because female hormones make testing “more difficult.” But it’s men who are disadvantaged when it comes to mental health …? Did it ever occur to you that a mentally ill man is more undesirable because that mental illness is so often used as an excuse for male violence? I’m mentally ill…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:52 PM
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You can literally be a rapist and still run for president lmao someone please point me to the cancellations and social assassinations
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 07:32 AM
1

💯 same in my experience as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:24 PM
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lmaooooo get em
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:38 AM
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I’m independently wealthy and the majority of men I’ve dated who have learned less than me have been weirdly competitive and fucking catty with me about it despite not even being in the same industry or role lol Only 3% of men want a wife who earns more than they do lol https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:35 AM
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both genders learn about pronouns in elementary grammar lmao what in the Fox News
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:32 PM
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Having a bad experience with one woman and then deciding to hate women/follow the RP is hypocritical af from the “not all men” crowd lol I treat my friends mostly the same regardless of gender. But to answer your questions (or rant disguised as a series of questions) one by one: 1) No. If a friend is venting to me about their partner, it’s not my instinct to ask them “well what did YOU do wrong?” Lmao that’s not supportive and it doesn’t foster open communication. If their version of events lend…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:01 PM
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Personal anecdotes aren’t equal to reality. It has nothing to do with empathy. You’re presenting an opinion like it’s a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:37 PM
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Oh. So, nothing legitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:22 PM
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What “top guys”? How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:37 AM
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This is scary and weird! There is nothing in traditional wedding vows that require sexual slavery to your spouse. Getting married to someone does not entitle you to their body. Marriage is not advertised as an all-access pass to someone else’s genitals and if you think that, for the love of all things holy and not, please do not date or marry anyone ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:48 AM
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I think it’s very telling that so many men read “self-improvement” as just looksmaxxing and increasing their perception of their own “status” when women really just wan’t y’all to go to therapy and be nice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:19 AM
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…. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:30 PM
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Having a child increases your biological age by 7 years and causes permanent hormonal changes idk why you think that wouldn’t affect someone physically Arsenic is natural too lol doesn’t mean it’s good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 02:48 PM
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It certainly should. It’s weird if you aren’t asking about a potential sexual partner’s history/STI status before you sleep with them. Basic responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:25 PM
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Lying by omission is still lying. It doesn’t have to be the first thing out of your mouth when you meet someone but when the topic comes up and you’re both sharing, yeah, you should be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:30 AM
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Not being honest about your sexual history or lack thereof isn’t healthy. Also it’s not like people can’t tell lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:23 AM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:43 PM
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Spoken like a true predator lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 02:00 PM
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“Do not sexually harass me” doesn’t mean “block my advancement in my career and dehumanize me in the workplace because I won’t let you sexually harass me”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:55 PM
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Women have to outperform men to be eligible for the same leadership positions. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9912935/ Women are perceived as having less potential unless they outperform men in the same role. https://mitsloan.mit.edu/ideas-made-to-matter/women-are-less-likely-men-to-be-promoted-heres-one-reason-why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:54 PM
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incels🤝islam
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:13 AM
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Kind of an odd way to explain that men gatekeep career opportunities and promotions from half the working population because other men normalized a culture of harassment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:12 AM
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About 1/3 https://osuit.edu/1-is-2-many/facts.php#:~:text=Men’s%20responses%20to%20rape%20facts%3A&text=Nearly%201%2F3%20of%20college,could%20get%20away%20with%20it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:44 AM
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Lord of the Flies is a representation of how white men act when left to their own devices, not people in general
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:43 AM
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the mental gymnastics here are worrisome. you’re acting like similar crimes don’t also happen in the US, UK, India, MENA and parts of Europe at higher rates than in France (hint: they do)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 09:42 AM
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Yeah I mean it’s definitely more than two — I’m not trying to undercut the severity of the instances where women do predate on men, but they are basically statistical anomalies on a global scale and men have so many problems as a group because they concentrate more on their resentment for women and other men than literally anything else so makes plenty of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:14 PM
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The comment you replied to said “the majority of the time [outspoken ethnic women] end up with white jocks” and you said it was bang on when it comes to Asians but that’s not obviously not true because the majority of them end up with … other Asians.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:17 AM
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Nah I’m white in a country that’s 97% white but it doesn’t matter lol the point is that it’s not most WOC. There’s no back and forth to be had because what you’re positing is proven to be false.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:02 AM
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Asian-Americans are the largest group represented in interracial marriages at 28%. So not most of them, nor most WOC.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:02 AM
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Nah he was a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:16 AM
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Y’all just want to blame women for everything we get it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:15 AM
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It is counted in many parts of the world and stays still skew heavily towards female victims
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:14 AM
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LMAO what
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:12 AM
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“And who set that system up?”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:13 PM
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source?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:23 AM
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It’s sexual for the person doing the assaulting, not the person being assaulted. Perpetuating the idea that rape has anything to do with sex lessens the layman understanding of the trauma and lack of autonomy for victims as well as the sickness and inherent danger of rapists. You’re accidentally agreeing with me. Men are responsible for most violent (“non-sexual”) crimes — they are both the most violent gender and the most responsible for gender-based violence even if their victims are male.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:48 AM
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They are not more likely to be assaulted by a woman than a man. Men are the majority of people who perpetrate assault, sexual or not. Put down the crack pipe isn’t an argument. It’s intellectually lazy and dishonest of you to cling to one institution that only insinuates to prove your point while ignoring a literal world of data that disproves it. Men are statistically more violent than the general population lol. 50% of the human population is responsible for 89% of violent crime. In women’s pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:45 AM
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It’s not a lie. Why do you think it is that more men report being made to penetrate vs being raped? Because of the power dynamics of a male-dominated society and those that are inherent to rape and violence. Very strange to grasp at straws about men underreporting or definitions not favoring male victims while also not making those same allowances for women who were raped by their husbands, or as children, or are coerced with threats of further violence and don’t have the social or legislative f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:29 AM
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The sources are quite literally in the text. And there it is lol. So many men think rape is sexual. It’s just violence bro. It says AND/or.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:26 AM
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It’s from a DOJ report not a college website…? Why are you ignoring that rape is violence and men are responsible for nearly all violent crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:26 AM
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An estimated 91% of victims of rape & sexual assault are female and 9% male. Nearly 99% of perpetrators are male. (1) This US Dept. of Justice statistic does not report those who do not identify in these gender boxes. In the United States, 1 in 6 women and 1 in 33 men reported experiencing an attempted or completed rape at some time in their lives. 99 percent of female and 85 percent of male survivors were raped by a male. 93% of women and 86% of men who were raped and/or physically assaulted si…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:16 AM
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men are overwhelmingly responsible for the majority of violence of any kind. these posts are so weird to me especially when they ignore that the majority of men are sexually victimized not by women but by other men. bizarre priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:39 AM
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Where do you guys get this idea that women don’t have to be interesting and why do you think male attention is privilege lmao If you aren’t confident or charming, you don’t get access to confident and charming people. That’s just how socializing works. Don’t project the male thought process of “this person isn’t someone I find physically compelling therefore I resent them” onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:26 PM
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the vast majority of women want absolutely nothing to do with rp dudes … but sure 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:50 PM
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No probs dude, will keep an eye out for you in my inbox!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:10 PM
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If you’re comfortable, feel free to DM me your profile and I can give you some tips. I curated all of my friends’ photos and made their bios for them. Tbh only like two of the five I recreationally swipe for are like … what I would call objectively attractive, and one of them is certainly not at all and still gets matches and messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:50 PM
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Yeah, I usually do it in 1-2. Drop a compliment, question, and propose a date idea and then give a number or social handle for them to reply to. Myself and most women get bored with the possibility of pen pals and are more inclined to go on an actual date with someone who communicates for the sake of planning a date vs getting to know someone through text.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:56 AM
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how many messages are you sending before you try to move to a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:37 AM
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I swipe and message for my guy friends all the time and it takes me like two or three exchanges to get a number and set up a date with a girl lol I think most men go wrong is using OLD apps as actual dating apps as not apps to meet people. When I was on them, and when I use them for my friends, the most successful outcomes are always when two people match and move the actual chatting/dating vibes to … an actual date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:25 AM
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What do you mean by accountability and how are you quantifying that it’s reduced? Lower expectations from who? Women do not have more funding towards our problems. lol. Women’s health is an afterthought and wildly underfunded (and under-researched) and if you’re talking about mental health problems — those services are for men too. Welfare and child subsidies go to more women because they are primary caregivers and sacrifice their earning potential when they have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:28 PM
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Statistics show that lower classes are more likely to get married, so … that’s not true. 30 something boss babes are not who you should be comparing as these women aren’t the same ones in the marriage-dating pool. More women who are career focused and don’t need a dual-income lifestyle aren’t going to sacrifice that for a man regardless of his income.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:02 PM
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Do you have any proof of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:40 PM
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Explain how being a victim is a luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:27 PM
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Men do care, just not in the same way they think women do. Every guy I’ve out-earned has had a problem with it eventually. I’d rather a man see the value in my accomplishments because they’re an important part of my personhood and how I have spent my life and time. If a man is just looking for a hot girl, he’s probably kinda boring long term lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:27 PM
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Correct. This is not the gendered issue the rp men in this sub insist that it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:47 PM
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… women’s career prospects don’t fade as they age unless they’re married with children lol y’all need to stop making claims only based in revenge fantasy. it’s actually aging men who statistically have regrets about their family planning as they assume a wife and kids is just something that happens to them as opposed to something they need to consider in the same way they do their career. most people (women included) date and marry in their same economic class — the rich guy thing is a largely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:34 PM
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I don’t think you know what a bigot is lol the population doing that is OVERWHELMINGLY male and you’re ignoring entirely that many women are harmed, disfigured, or killed by men not even for financial benefit but because men cannot control their emotions or would rather see a woman dead than separated from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:28 AM
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Maybe because when a bad man victimizes a woman she ends up injured or dead and when a bad woman victimizes a man he ends up with less money than he had before? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:03 AM
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People love to glaze over the fact that most of the bad men that women actually do end up with are manipulators and narcissists who do not present themselves as bad men. Then when it comes to light it’s oh, she should have known, there were signs, blah blah. Like oh, I didn’t realize that having a vagina meant I needed to be a psychic and a psychologist and a private investigator too? I was with a guy who picked me wildflowers, carried my bags, and did his fair share of household chores for thre…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:02 AM
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which is what so many RP want “dating” to be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:42 AM
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It seems that you’re confused because you don’t understand that women are also humans and their wants and reasonings for things vary from person to person …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:38 PM
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fr, I would love to be a dad. A mom? fuck that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:06 PM
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because women are socialized to people please and bear the burden of emotional labor for others while deprioritizing their own
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:38 PM
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Loyalty to violence is such a good way to put it! So well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:50 AM
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Agree. Same energy as the game who suggest women buy guns/learn to fight/become more violent in response to male violence instead of men not attacking women and other men lol like they can’t conceptualize men as anything other than the default and they clearly think very lowly of men in general. So weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 05:35 AM
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Dude being rich and famous means you have different rules regardless of gender. You’re just focusing on women ‘cause you don’t like them lol When women DO say that they’re just looking for a tall rich guy y’all cry on the internet about how it’s not fair and women need to take accountability and give men they aren’t attracted to more chances. Men complain either way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:24 PM
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fr lmao like 90% of the posts from men in this sub are just revenge fantasy and suddenly it’s women’s fault and female fantasy that most men can’t evolve past their lizard brain lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:45 PM
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Idk man I’m autistic and I don’t think people are or should be together just for access to sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:09 PM
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Again, why do you think that equality means women should have to fix men’s body issues for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:29 AM
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*People prefer attractive mates. Not just women. Why are you trying to frame this like something that’s being done to men? What is a “strict standard” to you and have you seen it consistently across many real life individuals or are you seeing it online? We’re already seeing what happens in society when men start feeling like they don’t have the control of and access to women that they want. They start trying to limit our rights and autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:14 AM
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No, man. They are “highlighted” because they are the gender doing it the most. It’s not a matter of opinion lol idk why people act like this data doesn’t exist and that they can just declare the opposite is true instead, it’s so lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:28 AM
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bro what? men are the overwhelming majority of sex tourists
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:58 AM
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Most women work and most people marry within their own class. Where are you getting this idea that western women are marrying for resources lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:22 AM
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My favorite thing is calling white American expats and digital nomads “migrant workers” lmao they don’t like that 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:21 AM
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We don’t have to imagine. Women in the west were finding it increasingly hard to find romantic partners who were worth the trouble. So they are increasingly staying single. And the Christian right + redpill/incel dudes are losing their minds over it. The issue is that PPBs go to countries intentionally because they need less resources and personal attributes to impress a woman because it’s a transactional relationship lol they want a “traditional” economically disadvantaged women who will be sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:20 AM
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“Anything I don’t like is misandrist” would’ve been a more efficient post I think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:12 AM
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💯 Men definitely just need to start fucking each other more. Let us be in peace. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:10 AM
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No. Why do you think the renewed wave of anti-divorce and anti-woman legislative movement is so strongly renewed right after the ‘women are happier and healthier single so they’re staying single’ movement? The science says video games and porn aren’t healthy at all. They increase anti-social behaviors towards both genders and dehumanize women which leads to gender-based prejudice and violence. Like with most of the things in the sub, touching grass and engaging in actual real life instead of you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:09 AM
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are you ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:57 PM
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Answer the question. Women being equal literally has nothing to do with male body image issues. Feminism is about equality for women. I know it’s hard to understand but not everything needs to be about men. What have men done for male body image issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:28 PM
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What have MEN done for men’s body issues lmao why do so many men want feminists and women to do everything for them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:22 AM
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No, they aren’t. Those words do not mean the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:03 AM
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if you have to prove your point with a minority sample of the human population then maybe it’s not a very good point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:07 PM
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There’s no “rules” buddy, people can have sex with people for different reasons than they do other people and that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:06 PM
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If someone doesn’t like what he brings then it’s not really all that valuable is it…?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:05 PM
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Why do you think men can’t do things for themselves and not constantly compare themselves to and remain concerned with women and what they’re doing? Like why can’t you be empowered while also leaving women alone? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:04 PM
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What proof do you have of that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 03:02 PM
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ok you can complain about it to the social scientists doing the studies and proving that then I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 11:46 AM
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he says, after making a baselessly misogynistic post lmao The equivalent is not the opposite. I don’t know why men always default to that. Women perceive unwanted male displays of sexuality with the same unattraction and repulsiveness as men do, with an additional layer of concern for potential threats. Just because we are attracted to some men doesn’t mean we have a higher tolerance or different perception of male displays of sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:45 AM
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you’re just bitching about women, science says the opposite lol just because you don’t like it doesn’t mean it’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 10:22 AM
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Men also find male displays of sexuality to be disgusting unless they’re the one doing them, to be fair Women ARE more empathetic and emotionally intelligent than men, it’s not an opinion thing. Obviously it’s easier to build friendships and have a better opinion of people who have the skills that make them easier to communicate and spend time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:42 AM
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… you think the feudal system only affected men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:25 PM
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men are always bitching about accountability but absolutely refuse to do anything for themselves lmao why is it our problem? the majority of the women in the world don’t have equal rights to men. we’re busy with more important things than doing even more unpaid labor for y’all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 04:23 PM
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Right? Statistically, families are more likely to stop having children after having a son and more often continue to have children until having a son if they have daughters first. Fathers use daughters as an outlet to exercise toxic masculinity and sons as a means to perpetuate it. It’s not good for anyone either way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:01 AM
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It doesn’t. Studies show that fathers are more likely to enforce gender stereotypes on children than mothers are, so you should be asking why adult men’s empathy disappears when it comes to male children. Male children, besides being culturally preferred in many places in the world, receive basically every advantage over female children. Parents of both genders overestimate male children’s abilities and underestimate female children’s, which has developmental advantages for boys and continues pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:58 AM
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… according to who
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:41 PM
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Fr lol now that women can have their own bank accounts men are really take “I would like to have a base level of attraction for the person I’m supposed to fuck for the foreseeable future” as “omg I only want a 6’5 chad with a six pack who is a millionaire even though I’m a fat single mom” 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:41 PM
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They aren’t. Most people date within their own class. Women being obsessed with a man’s money is red pill propaganda. You’re confusing women’s desire for competency for a desire for money. Others have mentioned it but if you think Anglo women have an obsession with money, you’re in for a real treat once you remember the Balkans and South Asia exist 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:51 AM
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Except the fact that every study on the subject says that women are indeed more empathetic than men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:46 PM
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“Why does no one care about male loneliness?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 10:15 AM
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this is not true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:48 AM
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you’re projecting a lot bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:59 PM
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you’re right, most men do just masturbate using women’s bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:58 PM
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oh it’s a circlejerk my bad. have fun with each others pseudo-intellectual penises, boys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:08 PM
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this is precisely why fewer and fewer women have an interest in casual sex. we can tell that you don’t think it’s your problem 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:52 AM
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You don’t think it’s weird how the majority of men don’t have to give women a guidebook to making them cum? like why is it just one gender that has to teach the other how to be good at sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:51 AM
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we know lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:50 AM
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Jesus Christ man the victim complex is CRAZY lol SMV is a male invention. Y’all will do anything but be accountable for your own choices in life lmao if someone gives you advice, you don’t have to take it. Just because something doesn’t work for you or apply to you doesn’t mean it’s gaslighting or toxic. Please touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:40 AM
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I live in a country with no rules against it and you can just book one off a random site off the first Google search page but people still look down on it because it’s a bit sad because we’re also a country that has a lot of casual sex so if you’re buying prostitutes it’s usually because there’s actually no one around who wants to fuck you or you’re into some crazy-crazy stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:47 PM
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Why do you think this is a gendered issue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:54 AM
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I’m from a poor popular tourist country and American men really do think that lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:59 AM
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I don’t know anyone who doesn’t know that socially and financially isolating someone who doesn’t have the means to leave is exploitative. If you’re not happy with the definition you can take it up with human rights organizations, I guess. The current passport bro movement is just mail order brides without the middle man and that’s outright human trafficking lol you don’t need to disable or enslave someone to lure them into a situation they don’t have the means to escape from under false pretense…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:50 AM
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finding someone foreign to do the same thing a local won’t do because they have lower financial requirements is like … the definition of exploitation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:56 PM
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because when redpill bros say “foreign woman” they actually mean “foreign woman of an exploitable socioeconomic status”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:05 PM
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Hey so um lots of women in the world still are traded like livestock and are forced to cover up outside the house. Men using their relationship with a woman as leverage to try to isolate her from the social side of her hobbies is an extension of that same patriarchal attitude and need for control.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:19 AM
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… do you not get the reference or something? what an odd thing to be upset about https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/8291435-the-way-my-mother-always-explained-it-the-traditional-man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:00 AM
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… there was no personal insult and idk why you’re projecting your problems and past onto the rest of the world lol why are you making men’s competitiveness with each other women’s problem? we can’t have common interests or friendships because y’all can’t grow up and act like civilized human beings? making sacrifices in a relationship doesn’t actually have anything to do with anything I said. if you’re the type of guy who wants a woman to have hobbies until she actually … has a hobby … then it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:13 PM
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No, it’s not reasonable for men to be skeptical of a woman’s hobbies because he’s been told to find one that puts him into contact with women. I do my sports because I like them, not so I’m in proximity to men. Men’s dating lives do not affect my choices about the things I enjoy. And no. I got into archery because I like going to different places in nature with my bow and I like having the option to socialize. What you’re describing is a massive red flag lol it’s giving exotic bird collector. if…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:32 AM
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Idk it’s really NOT lmao As someone who has very much male-dominated hobbies (sailing, archery, skiing) — there are still lots of women are into those. We just prefer doing them with other women because men add a layer of bullshit a lot of the time. I have had to switch archery ranges so many times because men who I outcompete still feel like it’s their place to grab at me and give me pointers lol. It’s been 50/50 for me on this but a lot of men are also super competitive lol. My ex was also int…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 12:25 PM
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he called unmarried women over 35 useless and told a mother that if her child told her the man she was seeing touched her inappropriately that “kids lie” but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:37 PM
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Kevin Samuels was also a raging misogynist and grifter and idk why the manosphere still uses him as the example for what the movement was “supposed to be” lol it just proves the point that the entire thing is trash
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:15 AM
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We literally live in a patriarchy that’s designed by men to protect other men and their interests lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:52 PM
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“Why does no one care about male loneliness 😭”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:39 PM
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Women increasingly choose to stay single because they live longer and happier lives … there’s no reality in your revenge fantasy here bud lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:38 PM
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It is about happiness now. Women do not need to be married to men to access society anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:58 PM
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This isn’t reflective of how most marriage work now. Most women work. It’s also their stuff. Maybe women should get to invoice for all the unpaid labor after divorce then? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:53 PM
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LOL and y’all wonder why women initiate most divorces. marriage is not permission to give up on making your partner happy lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:52 PM
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If your wife isn’t your captive then there’s no incentive for men?? 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:51 PM
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What does a male act like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:56 AM
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Opeeee sounds like you’re the homophobic one friend and you’re doing so much projection and assumption here it’s crazy Being a “real man” has nothing to do with fucking or being attracted to women. You are the one perpetuating the stereotype that gay men are just culture-jacking caricatures. People with genuine friendships with gay men know that isn’t true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:55 AM
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For the love of god please remember that quora and Reddit and YouTube are full of incels and are not representative of real life As a straight woman w a bunch of gay friends, it’s not for the same reasons I don’t think straight men realize how touchy and sexual straight women get with each other haha if I’m out with my girls, we’re grabbing and sexualizing each other constantly but it’s like … harmless and complimentary. When my gay friends or girl friends comment on my body I know it’s out of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:49 AM
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yes https://news.byu.edu/intellect/study-visually-captures-hard-truth-walking-home-at-night-is-not-the-same-for-women#:~:text=Heat%20maps%20show%20men%20look%20straight%20ahead%3B%20women%20scan%20periphery&text=Women%20focused%20significantly%20more%20on,points%20or%20their%20intended%20destination.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:42 AM
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Def a girl’s girl. I love my partner but the girlies come first always. I have close straight male friends but I’m closest to gay men and women. Women are more emotionally intelligent, empathetic, and supportive. My allegiance is always to women lol I had a guy friend of 15 years who told me he cheated on his girlfriend who I met one time and I snitched on him immediately. Feminine community and support is priority. I was raised by a single dad so honestly gravitated more towards male friends un…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 09:41 AM
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… did you just whataboutism sexual assault and exploitation https://www.publicpolicyexchange.co.uk/event.php?eventUID=OA23-PPE#:~:text=On%2013%20April%202022%2C%20UNHCR,the%20risk%20of%20sexual%20exploitation. What do you think happens to women during wars bro? I actually live in a country with mandatory military service. Leave it to the incels online to try to use it to justify violence toward women lol watchlist type behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:59 PM
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LOL we learned this in school too and my brother is 30 years old and still can’t do it himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 06:48 PM
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Living in a world where everything from workplaces to medicine is designed for me, my psyche, and my body? Getting the full human experience because it’s okay for me to go into remote areas or out alone at night? Sign me up to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:38 AM
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Sure! Also the UN had to intervene and get the UK to stop placing female Ukrainian refugees with single men because of all the sexual exploitation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 07:35 AM
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It’s so weird how you think it’s just women who change with society and not men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:55 AM
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You talk like you’re one of that “10%” (Also why are you just making things up lmfao)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:53 AM
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Yes, they would have. Women have also always done those things. You’re living in a delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:52 AM
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if men didn’t exist, women would just do those things. we’d need a lot less cops though because there would be no men committing the majority of crimes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 06:03 PM
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Where are all the men defending as a group? 😂 Women do way more positive things than men do for us and men pose way more of a threat than men do to women and also each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 04:20 PM
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Are you dull? Do you also argue with people who say that fire is dangerous? Some fires are really nice, bonfires, campfires, fireplaces … but no one has to make that caveat every time lol y’all wanna be victims SO bad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:39 PM
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We’ll defend men when we get to stop having to defend ourselves against them 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:23 PM
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No. Objectively lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:42 PM
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like every study ever done on the subject shows that men have lower moral standards than women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:35 AM
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As someone who lives in a country with lots of third places, people do go alone and no one thinks they’re a predator??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:44 PM
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… it’s only sex work if they are selling sex or sexual content lol the overwhelming majority of women who “do instagram” to earn money are not sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:29 PM
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Yeah, zero logic to that. Sex work is selling sex or sexual content. It is not the same as being attractive and selling a non-sexual product or service. Or simply being attractive and selling nothing. The female form is used to sell everything from clothes to food and women are allowed to be pretty on the internet without being sex workers lol wtf even in this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 05:04 PM
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It’s not blurry at all. A woman existing in a picture is not a thirst trap. Y’all admit to a mindset like this and wonder why women think men act like animals lol. A woman is allowed to be attractive without being confused for a sex worker. The objectification and entitlement is insane. All the dudes posting gym selfies must be thirst-trapping then right? They’re whores too?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 02:53 PM
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So women who are attractive shouldn’t post themselves on line the same way every other human does or they’re thirst trapping? Are you Muslim or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 01:14 PM
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That is not only completely delusional but also impossible. lol. Instagram is not sex work, unless they are using it as a marketing channel for actual sex work. Just because an attractive woman exists online doesn’t mean she is selling sex and it’s honestly deeply concerning that you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 11:24 AM
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oh my god you guys need to remember the real world exists. literally 0.2% of western women engage in any form of sex work lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:24 AM
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It’s weird how we’re talking about “emotional vulnerability” but you’re talking about weakness lol they aren’t the same thing and it’s toxic that you think that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:15 AM
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Feeling or acting lukewarm toward someone isn’t something that just women do. Life happens. Idk what answer you want … if people who are interested in you are expressing that and people who aren’t interested in you are acting accordingly that just sounds like a completely normal dating life. What’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 08:59 AM
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We have lives and a 28-day hormone cycle my dude. A bad week is a very legitimate reason to rearrange or cancel plans. Has nothing to do with fragility lmao what the hell Have you maybe considered that women don’t envision their soulmate as someone who would wants them to “tough it out” to go on a date lmfao I think most of us who like men like ones who show consideration and empathy, not ones who expect us to deprioritize our comfort for their convenience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:17 PM
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Like where?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:43 PM
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It’s not transphobic to have genital presences or not want women’s spaces to actually be “non-men” spaces lol OLD apps aren’t great for the psyche as it is, having to swipe past people you’ve joined a specific app not to see is simply annoying and not something women should have to deal with there 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:41 PM
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Is he funny? Does he have hobbies and interests? There’s lots of handsome guys with their shit together but contrary to the beliefs of many rp people on this sub women do like being to actually talk to and enjoy time with the person they’re dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:20 AM
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it’s … really not lol just rp cope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 07:47 PM
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Totally predicting “real women” as a porn category in the next few years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:12 PM
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Men are less qualified for their roles than women on average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:49 AM
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Exactly why we choose the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:05 AM
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Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:26 PM
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Not really. Women are happier single because we have friends and communities, mostly with other women. Obvs some women have internalized misogyny but the idea that all or most women despite each other is just rp revenge fantasy because y’all can’t cope with being lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:25 PM
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Always hilarious when men reinforce radfem ideals lmao you can just say the male mind literally cannot comprehend a world without violence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:49 PM
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Nah just learned from my lived experiences bb
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:48 PM
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How is it bigotry? Risk assessment is based on probability. Men commit an overwhelming majority of violence toward women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:47 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:46 PM
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women wouldn’t need men to protect them if men were not predators lmfao god you’re on top of the point lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:46 PM
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They are, though. Sorry if that makes you feel bad but it’s true. Are cats not a predator of birds just because some birds never encounter a cat?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:45 PM
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So why do men teach their daughters to be careful around other men? Why do men enforce the traditional role of protector? Women do not have to fear other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:30 PM
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Risk assessment and self preservation is not bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:28 PM
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Keeping my spray can handy just for you bud
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:28 PM
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Research shows that female CEOs outperform male CEOs and companies with more women in leadership positions and more profitable than ones with less. Men are more prone to criminal behavior because of increased opportunity and social conditioning and their biological deficits in impulse control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:27 PM
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There are hundreds of comments on this thread, I’m selective with replies because I’m not as chronically online as some of those comments want to insist and replying to each one would be redundant and boring. If red pillers’ replies had actual ideological substance I’d be more inclined to reply but there’s not much to say to huhhuhuh women are stupid and must never go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:21 PM
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I chose the bear based on 20 years in the woods with men and bears :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:18 PM
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I like how you chose this ideological hypothetical to just make a baseless misogynistic comment. There sure are a lot of TV shows about criminals too. Ever notice how one gender is featured much more than the other? I wonder what that proves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:17 PM
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Right. Men never keep women alive to rape and torture them before they kill them. It’s always very swift and humane.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:09 PM
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Weird, everyone in my female mountaineers groups also choose the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:08 PM
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Funny you think you can negotiate with a man
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:06 PM
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I mean that’s kind of just a basic part of risk assessment and management, which women are statistically better at than men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:06 PM
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Do you ask the same question to all the men in here who basically admit that they hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:06 PM
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Been hiking alone with many bear encounters for most of my life 🙂 The only time I’ve ever had a problem with anything alive outdoors, it’s just been a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:04 PM
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What if women don’t want to have to be violent just because men are? I have never once encountered a woman anywhere where I thought I might have a physical altercation with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:25 PM
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When bears are curious and they approach you and you make noise, they run. When men are curious, you have to be extremely aware of what it is they are curious about and avoid showing weakness while also not appearing overly threatening or confident because they may take it as a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:23 PM
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You know what you’re getting with bears. You don’t with men. Most people I encounter outdoors are friendly. All bears I’ve encountered ran away once I made noise. Not the same for all the men I’ve encountered. I’ve been followed to campsites, had men attempt to get into my car while I was sleeping, have been followed on hikes to the point when I had to join groups of strangers, hell one guy actually did fuck off when I told him to, but he started masturbating first. I’ve spent A LOT of time outd…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:21 PM
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Yet men call women paranoid and delusional for having an instinctual aversion to them even though we’re like one of the very few (or only?) mammalian species that’s supposed to mate with our only natural predator lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:13 PM
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Perfectly said.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:12 PM
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Women have been taking precautions and avoiding situations because of the risk men pose long before TikTok. Remember the traditional male role of protector? And what exactly are they protecting women from? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:11 PM
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Men have done much worse. 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:08 PM
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Do you think men who decide to hunt people down are able to be negotiated with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:08 PM
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Which animal would you rather encounter on the woods, one that runs away when it hears you, or one who runs toward you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:58 PM
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Why is it silly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:57 PM
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It’s not paranoid to be weary of predators 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:50 PM
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The whole idea is that a man means there’s a risk of both but with a bear it’s just the killing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:49 PM
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Kinda proves the point all the women are making lol you literally cannot comprehend the level of hypervigilance women have to have to share the world with men. I also think it’s very telling of the male psyche that you just assumed you’d have a violent encounter with the random man. The prompt never said that at all. This was just about being alone in the woods, not a 1v1.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:48 PM
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I don’t consume true crime content (I find it seriously disrespectful) but I’ve hiked literally every part of bear country in contiguous North America and I would pick a bear every single time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:43 PM
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You don’t actually know anything about bears, do you? Encounters rarely result in attacks because bears operate on instinct and not malice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:42 PM
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Nah. The opposite. I spent 15 years in the Canadian Rockies, used to have bears in my backyard all the time and see them on hikes often enough. I still never carried bear spray for the bears. 😉 Like most outdoorsy Canadians we know how to handle bears and as long as you take proper precautions and have self awareness, a bear encounter will almost always end in them backing off when you make noise. Men do not back off. I’m 5’7” and 100 pounds and I’d take a bear over a man any day after having mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:39 PM
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Men already do that to women moron
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:31 AM
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why are you acting like men don’t already beat women senseless and initiate physical violence with them? most men do not pursue primary custody. if you are a parent then you are responsible for financially providing for them even if you live separately from the other parent. abortion is healthcare. women have nothing to do with male-on-male rape and men make up the vast majority of policymakers and people in leadership roles in all bodies that can influence legislation to penalize and prevent pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:31 AM
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I don’t think you do understand what I’m saying actually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:11 PM
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Gender swapping doesn’t work because men and women are different, not opposite, and too different for just swapping genders to make situations the same. For example, rp men are obsessed with the idea that the majority of women have easier lives because lots of men want to have sex with them and they can leverage that to succeed in life. men expect women to be happy with that attention because they’re viewing it through a lens of “wow I’d be really happy if women hit on me like men hit on women” …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:45 AM
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When women say “treat us like people” we mean “treat us how we treat men” not “treat us how YOU treat men.” Women are more empathetic and safer to be around, it would be better if men treated all people more like women do 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:37 AM
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There are only 14 countries on earth that have full equal rights for women so, no, it’s now, not 150 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:48 AM
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Girls? You mean women? Women date jobless men all the time lol you measure career value by whether or not someone can get a partner? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:04 PM
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And what makes you think the jobs men are working are more valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:01 PM
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… cleanliness isn’t valuable? yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 06:21 PM
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Most married women work. But which is it, interdependence or a woman relying on a man? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:26 AM
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Honestly this sub has convinced me that lots of men are just out there living in filth because they don’t seem to indicate any understanding of the time and energy it takes to maintain a hygienic household lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:24 AM
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Oh, for sure. I used to live in Canada, I’m based in Greece now. I have the privilege of foreign income but I think it says a lot about the state of things that my COL and QOL is better in one of the world’s most notoriously shit economies than it was in Canada lol And as a woman, it also pisses me off that a country that built its national identity on equality and tolerance is importing a bunch of people from countries that aren’t shy about the fact they don’t like girls or gays lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:04 PM
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You’re forgetting about immigration. Places like Canada and the EU are already combatting low birth rates with increased TFWs and immigrants from countries with high birth rates. The only financial incentives for people to have children would be tax incentives. If you’re talking about policy in the States - no way will women ever just get money to have kids. Half the population votes against providing children lunch at school, against child tax cuts, and against financial and food assistance for…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 07:47 AM
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A woman’s “body count” is completely irrelevant to their education and career and the resulting qualifications. Do you also evaluate men’s value based on their body count? Your arguments aren’t coherent. “Sluts” aren’t having sex with sex workers, they’re having it for free. So while men may not be praised for having sex with a lot of “hookers” — they are praised for having sex with a lot of women who aren’t sex workers, which is the actual equivalent. Why can’t you answer the question? I don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:40 PM
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Watch list behaviour for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 01:00 PM
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Women don’t want you to “discuss sluts” because men criticize women for having multiple sexual partners while praising men for doing the same. A woman’s power does not lie in her sexuality. You just think it does because you only view women through a lens where a woman’s personhood and value is attached to her attractiveness. Do you really think men are so awful and disgusting that engaging in sex with one somehow degrades a woman? Men who are violent people are different from “sluts” and it’s w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:59 PM
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no it wouldn’t lil guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:49 PM
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working with men is horrible they all have awful attitudes and sexually harass people and gatekeep management roles from qualified women and just don’t try. please stop working.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:12 AM
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Literally no one is calling men incels for only wanting to sleep with women they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:56 PM
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The majority of women work and the majority of couples split finances. Would probably help to ur understanding of women’s standards if you pull your head out of rp’s grifting ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:36 PM
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… no shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:16 PM
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How are you defining feminity? For a debate sub people in here really suck at defining terms before they spout off about them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:10 AM
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RP is fueled by revenge fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:13 PM
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sounds great please leave us alone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:37 AM
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no offense dude but kind of a futile effort for someone obsessed with their ASPD diagnoses since it clearly forms your entire worldview and view of humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 09:51 PM
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Performing basic care tasks like a grown adult is not servitude. Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:40 PM
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They love to leave this part out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:36 PM
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thank you 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:52 AM
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Ask OP. He’s the one arguing that it’s “game over” for women since men can have sexual relationships with computers. Women are different than men. I don’t know why so many men can only understand women in the context of only being the exact opposite or the exact same as men. Women aren’t the ones campaigning for their entitlement to sexual relationships or for men lowering their standards so that they can have relationships with them. We aren’t killing men for rejecting our sexual advances. We a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:52 AM
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Dude your entire account is passport bro women-hating MRA garbage. You’ve lost touch with the real world. It’s not TikTok. Go to therapy and retrain your algorithm and join the rest of us in reality. Women are not terrified of men leaving them alone. We’re terrified of them when they don’t leave us alone lol. Your revenge fantasy is just that, a fantasy. If you think women can be replaced with sex robots, then go get a sex robot. Spend your time fucking silicone instead of advocating for male su…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:36 AM
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Which is terrifying because MGTOW is on the domestic terrorism watch list lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:30 AM
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r/menandfemales
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:24 PM
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yeah, being required to meet a put out minimum and provide your “partner” with a doctor’s note otherwise is definitely super romantic and well-adjusted and something that women will totally find sexually attractive. y’all will do anything but turn a woman on lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:14 PM
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hilarious bc you’ve left commends on other threads about how second wives are disadvantaged lmfaooo pls stay in the desert
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:57 AM
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nah most of them look like total meatheads and there’s nothing more unattractive than watching someone jackhammer with no regard for the person they’re having sex with. most pornstars of both genders are popular because of what straight men think is attractive, not women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:53 AM
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lmfaoooooo what the actual fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:50 AM
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its all you see on social media and podcasts and the radio because you’re obviously consuming rp grift content that isn’t representative of actual reality if it’s true and you can provide some kind of source that proves that, seems like a super easy fix would be for men to stop gatekeeping higher paying and leadership roles from women. RP dudes love to complain about how women are more educated and do better in school and how men have to do all the work that makes the world go round so it seems …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:39 AM
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I love men, all my longest and dearest friends are men. I just don’t like misogynists. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:29 PM
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I literally stopped using public transit in the city I used to live in bc of the frequency of harassment and creepy fixations from strangers men. It’s not fun sitting on a train for twenty minutes with a man leering at you every time you look up. Or getting spit on when you ask someone why they’re staring at you. They won’t stare as much if you’re with a man though, so my ex just fully believed it didn’t happen like that. But when he caught a group of guys staring at my ass when I was leaning ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:07 PM
2

Kinda weird how autistic women can learn to understand social nuance but autistic men get a free pass
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:45 PM
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They’re generalizing autistic people so I’m a femcel? I’m married lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:42 PM
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It’s funny you mention not being a child anymore because most women start experiencing sexual harassment as children. Men need to understand the difference between looking and leering. No one cares if you look. They care if you’re staring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:39 PM
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No, it’s not autism, it’s misogyny. Autism can certainly make someone more prone to RP propaganda but it is not the cause of sexist behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:34 PM
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Genuinely wondering, why would you choose a pornstar as a sample for women as an entire group?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:42 PM
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The Canadian rental market is shifting to favour the countries of origin and lifestyle where the vast majority of immigrants to Canada comes from. Immigrants survive because people from certain Indian castes are the preferred tenants since landlords can maximize profit fitting three of them into a den.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:33 PM
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She isn’t being sold to him by an “agency” for their profit …?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:40 PM
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Expecting someone to consent to something with you just because they’ve consented to it with someone else is entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:37 PM
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Right. So, still scary and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:00 AM
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You go on vacation of your own volition and you get to travel because you have an income and passport that allows you to do so. You get a job in Germany and fly there to work because you will earn an income and you can quit whenever you want. The migrant crisis has nothing to do with you getting your dick wet. I think it’s pretty safe to say that if anti-trafficking organizations call mail order brides human trafficking, it probably is … Like most other forms of human trafficking, victims of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:57 AM
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Okay. But why are you letting misogynists define what is or what isn’t respecting your body?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:53 AM
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Wanting something from someone just because they’ve “tolerated” it in the past shows a wild misunderstanding of comfort and consent. And the way you speak about women is … creepy and defining expectations for a partner by their sexual past reeks of insecurity and entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:52 AM
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Mail order brides is just a romantic way of saying human trafficking, so, absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:50 AM
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PPD episode 1000000 of “women are anything but people”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:46 AM
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Having sex doesn’t mean you don’t respect your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:45 AM
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this is scary lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:44 AM
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And where are you getting this information that it’s “on average”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:36 AM
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I feel like there’s too much you don’t know about this topic so it’s hard to respond to you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:06 AM
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What the actual fuck are you talking about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:21 PM
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Women only have equal rights to men in fourteen countries on the entire planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:42 PM
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Whatever you gotta tell yourself dude Thinking not getting female attention is “stress and trauma” shows the maladjusted and antisocial attitude that so many people criticize RP for. When people tell others to “be themselves” it’s under the assumption that the person they’re telling that to is a healthy, pleasant, and functional adult. But many men are not that. It’s all “ahhh male loneliness crisis” until it’s time to unpack why no one wants to be around men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:27 PM
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It is, though. The hypervigilance required of girls and women to mitigate the risk of men is an inherent burden. Absolutely ridiculous to believe otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:04 PM
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Most women work. Men are not “providing” in the majority of households. Men want a second mommy, women want a man who doesn’t need one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:18 PM
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going by the math, the L is all yours bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:16 PM
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someone like you would think nuance is random babble
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:08 PM
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manchild is used in reference men who can not care for themselves practically and is insulting. RP men thinking women are naive to life and constantly comparing them to actual children (as well as advocating for sleeping with actual children in RP spaces) is infantilizing and insulting and isn’t the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:50 AM
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so you shouldn’t be sleeping with women, right? since they’re like children?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 03:47 AM
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Well when that opinion is often basically “I perceive you and your right to access the autonomous human experience as lesser than me and mine” it certainly seems like it’s against women lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:52 PM
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that quote is the best thing modern media has given the human race and nothing and no one will change my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:59 PM
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Yes. My partner and I met at an awards gala/afterparty. I caught him staring at me like ten times before he finally came up to offer me a fresh drink and years later he’s still tracking me down at parties making sure I get my refills. 🩷 Months into dating we figured out that we’d matched on Tinder on a tiny island pretty far away from where both of us actually live but I’d deleted the app the day we matched to switch to Bumble lol love finds a way. I get stopped in the street by random dudes wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:09 PM
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That’s cool until you consider the fact that studies show women and happier and healthier without men and the opposite is true for men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:11 PM
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Romantic love should never be unconditional and it’s insane for either gender to think otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:10 PM
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been there done that, highly recommend
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:03 AM
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sorry but this is one of the funniest things I’ve ever read in this sub I’m dead
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 11:09 PM
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sorry but as a pre-nup haver this is an insane take lol and who tf told you verbal consent is a turn off?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:03 AM
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I like that whenever I see lazy incel posts on here that I know Safinated is gonna be there to set them right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:00 PM
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r/menandfemales
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:38 AM
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Well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:28 AM
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way cooler to be single and childless than burdened with raising a child with a man you’re not even attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:27 AM
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Sorry, it’s my fourth language. Subs for men that do not relate to women, how to date women, or about fighting for “men’s rights.” Which subs are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:23 PM
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Prove it lmao show us some threads where women are advocating that men should be raped and then you can say they’re as horrendous as an incel forum
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:12 PM
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Are there even subs for men that don’t relate to women or how to get them or fight for imaginary rights that men don’t have that women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:10 PM
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Incels hate women because they can’t get attention from them. Women hate men because they have lived experiences of violence. You genuinely think that’s the same “excuse”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:08 PM
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men center attention from women way more than women center attention from men more men than I assumed do not understand that women are people and that different does not equal opposite or lesser men have an even lower baseline emotional intelligence than I thought no one has any media literacy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:39 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:37 PM
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No, every time YOU get on tiktok YOU are flooded with women complaining about men. Because that’s the content you consume and engage with. Your algorithm is not representative of actual reality. Work on media literacy before trying to give other people life advice pls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:16 PM
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It’s clear we’re in different brackets when it comes to looks. When you’re used to being around attractive people, it’s not very novel or interesting and self control is easy. But yeah they do, one of my guy friends of ten years is on a transatlantic flight this very moment to come sailing with me while his wife, who I’m also friends with, goes on her own vacation. They don’t see me as a threat because we’re loyal to our partners, confident in our self-worth and relationship, and because we’re w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 02:27 PM
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I’m actually hot af lmao my male friends don’t sexualize me because they’re mature adults capable of interacting with and respecting women as people and not exclusively as sexual objects and are loyal to their partners like I am to mine. Men and women don’t just fuck and believing otherwise is emotionally stunted. But if you’re fine admitting that you isolate your husband from half the population because you don’t trust him, okay, that’s your right, but how embarrassing is that for you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:10 PM
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Because women are people. You’re that insecure you want your husband to ignore half the population? Why do you think your husband acknowledging the personhood of other women is disrespectful to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:12 PM
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Hahahahaha do you know like … any women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:50 PM
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ALL of my best friends are men. Some gay. Some straight. Zero sexual energy or romantic interest. Have only had one boyfriend that had an issue with it and it was purely projection because he sexualized all of his female friends. My straight guy friends and I travel and hang out together, without my partner, because just because someone has a penis and another one has a vagina doesn’t mean they have to use them lmao This sub has such a hard time understanding than women are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:25 PM
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As a European, everyone I know here who has self actualized knows life is way cooler without kids lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:10 PM
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Men get the attention. Everything from modern medicine to transit routes to media is designed primarily for men. Women might get more sexual attention but men love to forget that that’s often a net negative for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:37 PM
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you left out the part where all those places are now begging women to have more kids regardless of gender because the one-child-and-it-better-be-a-boy policies have fucked their societies up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:35 PM
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only 18k in Iran but then you have to deal with being a woman in Iran lmao I’m against it solely because kids are proven to fare best with two involved parents and if you’re gonna go out of your way to create a whole human life on a dying planet then you should take every step to ensure the most favorable outcome for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:30 PM
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It’s really not though. Normal/pro-social people aren’t part of stan and chronically online culture, which is what twitter is a hub for
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 10:52 AM
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… okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:39 AM
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the racist “well if X was a black person” cliche?! in 2024?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:30 PM
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the rp obsession with hypergamy is so embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:29 PM
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literally no lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:28 PM
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Women are better at community than men. We share experiences and advise each other. It’s not controlling lol it’s giving a shit about your fellow woman. Most of us have been young and thought we were in love with an older guy until we got more life experience and realized there was a reason women with equal life experience to him didn’t want anything to do with him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 12:02 PM
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It’s not. Looking at your post history you seem like you’re in some sort of religious mania tho and you should probably get that checked out
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:12 PM
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ok hope you get picked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 10:54 PM
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ew girl it’s 2024 why are you calling other women bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:41 PM
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It’s normalized because functions of the human body are … normal. It’s not a behavioral issue, it’s a hormonal one. As others mentioned, testosterone levels get higher as we approach our periods and our behavior becomes more similar to men. It’s very well established that when women exhibit the same personality or behavioral traits as men, they’re seen negatively, while those same traits are positively received when they’re coming from men. The female hormone cycle is monthly, while the male cyc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:40 PM
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tell that to men lmao they make up the lion’s share of violent people because they can’t keep their composure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:36 PM
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Oh you crazy crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:35 PM
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Earning more than a man doesn’t make someone a bad person lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:12 PM
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“Why shouldn’t you support a grown ass man who can’t clean up after himself or contribute to his household while he fucks other people” do you hear yourself bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:08 PM
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so you guys can whine some more about “male loneliness”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:06 PM
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Regardless of your height you should be able to reach some grass and it seems like you’re overdue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:02 PM
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I choose death
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:56 AM
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Half of OP’s recent post history is about him having chlamydia and liking it or fucking his dog. We’re just letting anyone post anything in here now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:41 AM
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Say what they are. Because I just checked and it seems like you just think women shouldn’t be talking about things like sexual assault or misogyny just because it gives you negative feelings…?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:36 AM
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It’s not posts that paint how women see men. It’s our lived experiences. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:14 PM
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Just for fun I checked the first ten posts in twox, they are I just had to explain to my(30f) 35m ex partner why surprise choking during sex is assault and not normal. My r-pist died today. Taylor Swift I Was Brave Today my(20f) dad called me a slut and wished that I was never born because I wore a miniskirt. He's literally fucking grabbing me while I'm "sleeping" Why are men obsessed with women’s weight? I finally told my mom no, actually, I’m not going to reach out to my jerk brother. It feels…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:26 PM
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“Rare are they on the frontlines of violence” — no, we just experience violence in our own homes, workplaces, and communities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:20 PM
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How is a woman commenting about another woman breastfeeding misandry? How is misandry displayed through “toxic femininity”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:43 AM
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Refreshing flip of the script from r/menandfemales
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:18 AM
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So according to your own thoughts, toxic men are violent and abusive. And toxic women … stay at home parenting their children. Only 26% of women are SAHMs, 7% of men are SAHFs. Most women work and perform free labour at home, more than men. What basis do you have to claim that SAHMs are making a one-sided decision? You said yourself that “nobody asks” — so how do you know? People tend to take the woman’s side in divorces because most divorces are initiated by women. Idk why you’re working from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:06 AM
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Marginalized. Not minority. (Unless you’re talking about corporate leadership, elected officials, or criminals, then we’re a minority.)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 10:00 AM
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so we’re rebranding internalized misogyny to “toxic femininity” lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:59 AM
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Lmao are you sure this isn’t a rant?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:47 PM
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No one said men who aren’t good looking are worthless. Have you ever stopped to consider that average looking women are more successful than average looking men in dating not because of their looks, but because it’s not in their personality to project their insecurity into bitterness toward other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:37 AM
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lol no I don’t agree I think you’re delusional and wouldn’t feel safe to be in a room with you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:08 AM
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Absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:11 PM
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lmao he did the meme
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:40 PM
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And more male-on-female violence. Weird of you to leave that out. There are lots of women who go without children and relationships in their lives, yet they’re not the majority of violent criminals. When are men going to learn how to manage their emotions without hurting other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:37 PM
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Because they cant take the “accountability”, that they’re so obsessed with women having, for their own emotional ineptitudes. Misery loves company.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:17 PM
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You forgot to mention that you’re so socially incompetent that you draw wildly baseless conclusions about half the population because you’re unable to cope with your own lack of self worth and as a result have fostered a bitterness toward people that can
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:15 PM
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If you want to get off on women denigrating themselves you should be offering to pay us, not posing it as a debatable issue 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:14 PM
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Seriously. The GREAT majority of media and marketing toward women enforces unrealistic standards and impossible ideals that all women should apparently be subscribing to. Every time a woman looks at a screen or advertisement, she’s faced with a critique on women. It’s so sad to me that men have such visceral responses to women having self confidence. It wouldn’t bother me if the revenge fantasies stayed fantasy but so much of violence from men is based on their inferiority complexes and fucked u…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:13 PM
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That sure is a lot of words for “I’m jealous of women and hate them for it”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:10 PM
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You’re projecting your view of what an attractive man is onto women in general and it doesn’t make sense. Men are so much more obsessed with attractive men than women are. I have friends who are literal models (not IG models, represented models working in Europe) who have bang buddies that look like Harry Potter lmfao I stg men care more about height and cock size than the women who fuck them do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:31 PM
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I’m conventionally attractive. Why would I sleep with someone I didn’t find attractive? lol No one is entitled to sex. No one can take something from someone if they weren’t going to get it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:30 AM
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And several men can be FWB with one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:02 AM
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I mean 90% of my country is tall and white so that’s just how it is lol but how are they “taking” most of the women if the women we are discussing here are actively dating other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:20 AM
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What do you mean? How can fwb be one way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:23 AM
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Most of my male friends have at least one longterm fwb 🤷‍♀️ I mean, doing the math, has to be at least as many men having FWB relationships as women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:15 AM
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I usually had a fwb when I was single and dating. Never brought it up unless one of the people I was seeing explicitly asked and just kind of assumed men are doing the same so idk why so many dudes on this thread are like shuddering at the concept. Don’t really have a set waiting time for how long I “make someone wait” for sex, I just wait until I want to have sex with them …? And that depends on the person. Some guys who I’ve gone on to be exclusive with I’ve slept with on the first date, other…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:39 PM
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Let’s just start with one because you’re going to have to prove to me you’re not useless before I continue the discussion. Why do you think emotional control and resilience has no value?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:26 PM
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Bodybuilding is a terrible example lmao it’s about muscle mass, not physical strength. It’s a whole ass meme that fat randos off the street outlift bodybuilders. Everything I said is backed by science. If you’re going to forego intellectual honesty in favour of feeling like you’re bullying someone (I’d have to take you seriously for that to be possible, and I don’t) then I’m not going to waste anymore time on it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:21 PM
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No. I’d argue women are the stronger sex because strength means more than picking things up and putting them down and violence isn’t equivalent to strength lol. Female bodies are more resistant to fatigue, have better aerobic endurance, and are environmentally and biologically more resilient than male ones due to higher estrogen levels. Women are more likely to survive famines, epidemics, and climate change, and have stronger immune systems than men. Women are better at identifying emotions and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:51 PM
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my parents are academics, you don’t have to be … not an idiot … you just have to have good self discipline lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:12 PM
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I know what you meant. And I still mean that you’re sick. This woman is not sexualizing herself. She is wearing completely normal clothing in the comfort of her own home. Where her family does not view her as a sexual object. Are you on some kind of list somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:17 AM
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this is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:42 AM
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Are you paying for dates or paying for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:42 AM
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You are sick and reading too much into it. How repressed are you? Nowhere in that video is that woman wearing “almost nothing.” A woman saying she is dressing in a way that makes her feel good isn’t an empty platitude. That’s literally what personal style is. It isn’t a gendered notion, you just don’t like women. Stop projecting your need for validation from the opposite sex or the cultural zeitgeist on everyone else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:41 AM
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I think gendered difference of opinion when it comes to prenups is based on the fact that so many men want their partners to be stay at home wives/mothers and still get nothing if they split. I refused to get married without a prenup. We both have businesses and assets beyond what we share, we aren’t having kids, we both wanted to be able to leave the relationship as independently wealthy and economically mobile as when we entered it. No problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:44 PM
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For people with assets and/or people who own businesses. Unless you’re doing heavy negotiations through a lawyer, prenups aren’t that expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:40 PM
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opinions you’ve pulled out of your ass aren’t actual examples that prove a point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:39 PM
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Women in America are still underrepresented in everything from medicine to elected office. Idk what you’re talking about easy mode for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:56 AM
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Why? Because … misogyny? 😂 “As long as men in leadership roles continue to gatekeep women from leadership roles and opportunities for growth in the workplace, men will be better leaders” is not a good take lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:32 AM
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By Harvard business and S&P, they’re both linked in this article https://heritagefinancial.net/the-undeniable-connection-between-female-ceos-and-stock-prices/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 08:06 AM
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Recent studies show that female CEOs and CFOs outperform their male counterparts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:34 PM
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there are so many of them 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 06:33 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:12 PM
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What rights are feminists attacking?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:09 PM
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bruh what 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:27 AM
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I’ve done 50/50 relationships and think generally, whoever asks pays. I don’t do coffee/low effort dates though personally. My partner doesn’t let me spend money in his presence. I think that’s hot. I like feeling taken care of. If we ever split, I’d probably choose a man that paid for things over one who wanted to go 50/50, not because of the money, I have my own, but because I like a man who takes care of things and shows consideration for what I spend showing up for him. We’ve done the math a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:44 AM
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a man feels like a woman should only give attention to him despite not having earned that attention, but it’s women who are entitled?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:31 AM
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Nobody said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:53 PM
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No ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:31 PM
1

Explain how thinking men who call women females are stupid proves you right lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:13 PM
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💯— most people worth dating are going to have multiple options. I’ve had guys demand exclusivity only once they find out that I’m seeing other people and it just comes off as insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:11 PM
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Hate when I agree with RP men, but, I agree. I date multiple men at a time until I find someone I want to be exclusive with. Dating/courting one by one and focusing on one person at a time romantically is something that’s earned, I’m not giving someone priority over my time just to get to know them better, that’s what exclusive dating is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:09 PM
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“Females” 🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:06 PM
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Misogyny has always been mainstream. Alpha/beta bullshit is just online grifter nonsense and the vast majority of women do not give a shit about what idiots some men online are watching beyond the fact that it’s a massive red flag. Touch grass please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:16 PM
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I meant statistically, women are healthier and happier without men. The opposite is true for men. But yes, both genders should be able to be fulfilled and functioning adults without a partner. One gender is just better at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:12 PM
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you’re leaving out the part where women are happier when they’re single and childless lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:11 AM
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the US is literally in a whole ass “women should die because we care more about their fetuses” movement but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:15 AM
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men are the near-exclusive perpetrators of familicide, it’s not divorce, it’s violent men who can’t cope emotionally with the concept of divorce https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1524838018821955
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:19 AM
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oh no!! how dare they put a female character in a video game if she isn’t attractive 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:27 AM
1

I’m literally banned
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:07 PM
1

oh yes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:52 PM
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I don’t know why you’re being so belligerent lol the only options are not “submit or be controlling” — are you an adult? Do you effectively communicate and collaborate with other adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:59 PM
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My silence? Lmfao Not submitting is COMPLETELY irrelevant to someone’s inability to compromise or consider other people. You don’t get to just redefine submission lol. Submission means: the action of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person. None of that mentions leeway, compromise, or having faith that someone will do good. Men in general have proven that they aren’t qualified to know what’s good for women or relationships — if they did, and then a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:53 PM
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Lots of women think the opposite. When I see a man who wants or needs to be submitted to, I see him as weak. If he needs to feel above or in command of someone in his own household or relationship, I assume he lacks control over other elements of his life. And they often do. All of the angriest, submission-obsessed men I’ve ever met have been peons or overexploited blue collar workers who get shit on by their daily life so need to feel like a big man at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:25 PM
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I fucking love Mychal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:03 AM
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no. we’re a team. neither of us have more say than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:27 PM
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not at all. we’re collaborative decision makers, he’s just more domestic than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:09 PM
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bc they can’t afford a housekeeper and surrogate mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:39 PM
0

This is what frustrates me about men, they think their feelings are facts and when data to the contrary is shown to them, instead of refuting it with data that supports their view, they throw little tantrums because there’s nowhere for their frustration about being wrong to go. Are you here to debate or complain? This will be the third time I’ve invited you to share studies that prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:38 PM
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we’re very happy 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:34 PM
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lmfao “it doesn’t agree with my opinion so it has to be biased or irrelevant” same shit every day, man whines wanting data, whines when he gets it. you’re welcome to provide studies you think prove your point!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:32 PM
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I make more than my man and he does all the cooking and cleaning and I’m highly confrontational and not submissive at all either lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:20 PM
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https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Aggression-and-party-affiliation-Republicans-were-significantly-more-aggressive-than_fig2_221980088 https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/00104140211024313 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33667037/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:18 PM
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Most women work. Protection from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:13 PM
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It is a debate. This sub is full of dudes mad that women are single and happy. They demand women “give them a chance” and when they don’t they start whining about women who don’t want them having cats 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:06 PM
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No, it’s not. You have good takes, please don’t degrade them with pointless ableism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:02 PM
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Let’s not use autism as a synonym for stupid as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:50 PM
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She did, you’re just focusing on the fact a woman had the audacity to … say something online. If you don’t have anything to debate about the actual content of her post, why would you think anyone cares what you have to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:53 PM
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a man talking too much while complaining about women talking too much strikes again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:52 PM
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I loved it! Your commentary on it was less than useless though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:23 PM
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Fr. Idk why so many people cling to the alpha/beta thing. It’s steeped in bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:50 PM
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ew!! women!! talking!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:50 PM
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And then you can get blocked and reported when a woman googles you before a date and realizes you’re a liar lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:51 AM
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we aren’t wolves bro no one needs to be an alpha lmfao it’s so cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:55 AM
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When I was on Tinder I was only looking for casual. I still left swiped on hot guys if they had a low effort or no bio. If a man can’t put in effort into how he chooses to present himself online to get dates, I assume he’s also going to be low effort in bed. I’ve made some exceptions and gone out with guys with low effort profiles and they’ve all been awful sexual partners — the lack of effort isn’t limited to just their profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 11:51 AM
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💯— I’d rather spend time with people socialized on Disney movies vs the violent video games and movies men consume
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:43 AM
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Man is this even an actual debate sub anymore or is it just a “here is some baseless theory I have and I don’t like women” sub? This is such a weird conclusion to come to. Disney movies as a root cause for domestic violence is an insane take lol Have you ever thought about why the mere possibility of women thinking they’re special bothers you so much? What is it about a stranger valuing their individuality and having self confidence that actually affects you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:31 AM
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Guy 2 is a lazy communicator and seems like he wants to play games or is emotionally unavailable. If I got messages like that from a man, I’d cut things off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:13 PM
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how many men have you swiped on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:06 PM
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What’s your bio like? I have lots of objectively conventionally attractive guy friends who didn’t really get shit for likes because they had no bio or a super low effort profile. When I was on Tinder, I left swiped on guys I found attractive because men are generally wayyyy lazier and way more negative with the content they put on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:38 PM
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There are entire books that prove you wrong but I know you’re not gonna read them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:32 PM
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Wow, that’s really untrue!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:12 PM
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Well the average child support payment (5.1k/yr) is significantly lower than what it costs to raise a child (21.6k/year) so the custodial parent (and 3/4 don’t receive child support at all) would obviously be picking up the financial slack in addition to all the parenting and household labor. But don’t be so lazy, if you make a claim, it’s on you to support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:55 PM
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What data do you have that supports that last claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:07 PM
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we tried that already and men couldn’t tolerate the same side effects that women are subjected to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:39 AM
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Well duh man lmao if both parents aren’t on board with leaving the kid at a fire station that’s just kidnapping
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:31 AM
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Women also do that and it’s not uncommon at all. But that’s not a harem lol that’s just having multiple casual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:29 AM
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And more than that, there are women who aren’t prostitutes who have casual sex with and casually date multiple people. Weird that you jump right to prostitution especially when we’re discussing dating and not sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:20 PM
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As a woman, no it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:57 PM
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Okay so you didn’t answer my question at all then because I asked where people were seeing harems but what you described is not a harem at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:56 AM
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You’re misunderstanding the definition. Let’s take a look at all the definitions. fthe separate part of a Muslim household reserved for wives, concubines, and female servants. — these women are not your wives, concubines, or servants. the women occupying a harem; the wives (or concubines) of a polygamous man. — these women are not your wives or concubines and sleeping with multiple people is not polygamy. a group of female animals sharing a single mate. (Very interesting that you changed this de…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:55 AM
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… it means they’re not part of a harem. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:50 AM
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Oh, honey. If you think women don’t also have a rotation … But I dont think you and the other angry one understand what a harem is lol its not that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 08:27 AM
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but it’s not a group of women. you’re seeing them individually. it’s just standard non-exclusive dating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:38 PM
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That’s not a harem that’s just what casual dating is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:22 PM
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It’s not. What proof do you have that enough women do this that you feel confident making this generalization?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:59 PM
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This is so insecure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:59 PM
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I’m in southern Europe. Depends on the foreigner. My grandparents used to try to set me up with Italians and Brits but said they’d write me out of the will if I married an Arab lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:57 PM
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what world are you people living in where grown ass women are knowingly part of “harems” outside of rp grifter podcasts??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:19 PM
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Because you’ve done it at the expense of other people?? You don’t think women are entitled to … equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:23 PM
2

What do you define wokeness as?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:50 PM
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Your words didn’t have to be in the comment lmfao this is why men having healthy father figures is so important. When they don’t, they end up like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:30 PM
5

I just threw up a little
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:28 PM
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So you were raised in a manipulative household oppressed by toxic masculinity and instead of breaking that cycle to turn into a prosocial and well-adjusted human being you just decided to double down?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:22 PM
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Ahhh libertarians, famous for their logical and practical ideologies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:20 PM
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being a belligerent and unlikeable misogynist authentically doesn’t make you any less of a belligerent and unlikeable misogynist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:20 PM
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Why do you think women do this more? There’s an entire social narrative of women thinking guys in relationships who engage with women on social media are gross lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:18 PM
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Interesting. With that perspective, it seems easier to achieve success if it’s just performing a biological function. Having a marriage would take more effort, but it’s less of a success to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:03 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:58 PM
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You’re not being intellectually honest in this conversation. Switch it up or there’s no point debating with you. “Women exist in the government” is not an argument. Women make up between 25-33% of elected representatives now despite being half the population and women had only had voting rights for 20 years when the draft passed lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:58 PM
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what a sad outlook that is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:35 PM
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Men aren’t abusive and manipulative? 🤔 Women don’t always get parental rights, the majority of fathers never pursue them. Who created the military draft? Who makes up the majority of the government that upholds that draft and created FAFSA requirements? (hint; it’s not women.) Can you produce any real arguments backed with actual science instead of lazy anecdotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:35 PM
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Men do enough to demonize themselves lol I’m not doing it for them. Can you show any examples, any data where men are equated to the things you mention and actually pull their weight during things like pregnancy or do you just wanna keep whining and making shit up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:28 PM
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It’s the average range for the average marriage age which is 27 for women and 29 for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:25 PM
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Can you explain how women are just as responsible for upholding the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:21 PM
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Can you explain why it would be a mistake that someone would try to put effort into improving their committed relationship before leaving it? Most women don’t just up and leave because they’ve ignored the obvious — it’s because they’ve tried to fix those problems and the solutions don’t work. Lots of new problems manifest after kids, take a look at any relationship advice or AITA sub and you’ll find countless instances of men who are getting mothered by their partners and then don’t know what to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:20 PM
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Yes, most people get married after two years of dating (in the west) and most people have kids within the first 3-6 years of marriage so I don’t think it’s all that unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:17 PM
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Most of my close friends are men. Two of them have tried to make a move, one was attractive, one wasn’t. Didn’t make a difference in my response, didn’t ruin the friendships. They both responded with kindness and understanding and that they’d work on getting through those feelings so we could continue our friendship and promised that if that wasn’t possible that they’d communicate that and we’d go our separate ways. Been besties for a decade since.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:13 PM
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mans thinks he’s Monsanto
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:09 PM
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imagine saying you have multiple baby mommas and still thinking your value isn’t in question lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:08 PM
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It doesn’t need to be, but if you’re with someone for years, it would be highly unusual to not have discussed goals for the relationship and a general timeline for those goals. Basic life and family planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:05 PM
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And yet those shit men still blame the woman when she leaves their ass lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:04 PM
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Take responsibility for what? Men’s emotions? I’m an adult who can manage my own without violence or aggression, why do you feel that men aren’t capable of doing that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:04 PM
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Well, yeah, dude — reading the room is pretty important when your partner is growing another human being and putting her life and health at risk to do so. It doesn’t go unnoticed when men complain about being stressed while doing the things women do every day in addition to full-time paid work, because it’s a ridiculous thing to do. But constant mocking, calling men whiny bitches? Be so for real. 😂 No one says that. I think it’s you that’s equating domestic labour with uselessness and you’re usi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:02 PM
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You’re so close! If a man can acknowledge his patriarchal privilege, he could leverage that to promote healthy masculinity within his own circles and community and hold himself accountable for how being raised in a society built for men effects the women around him and take measures to balance things out on a personal level instead of tapping out to play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:35 PM
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Literally not being able to do anything? Like what?Parenting your other children or performing basic care tasks that come with being an adult and taking care of your partner and family while they undergo a major medical trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:31 PM
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Men don’t care about what women think even when it is about them, so why should we? Can’t help people who don’t wanna be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:30 PM
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I love how y’all will go on women’s subs, see what women think and why they think that, just to completely blow past the lived experiences of women so you can blame them for shit men do lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:28 PM
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Yeahhhh that’s not what I said at all. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:01 AM
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if you’re with someone for “years” and still don’t know if you want to continue with a normal milestone of a committed relationship with them that’s a perfectly fair reason for a partner to leave you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:19 AM
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nah girl code always
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:56 PM
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cooking and cleaning are not reasons someone should date you, they are basic life skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:53 PM
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I think lots of men confuse making their feelings everyone else’s problem for vulnerability. Women like emotionally intelligent men with communication skills. We do not like being free therapists and support systems for people who are incapable of reciprocating. Women don’t have a low tolerance for male sadness, we have a low tolerance for men who cope with that sadness with aggression or emotional manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:19 PM
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yeeeeup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:15 PM
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But that doesn’t actually mean anything about satisfaction. Someone can be penetrated and stimulated to infinity, doesn’t mean it feels good or results in orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:53 PM
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Can you just answer the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:40 PM
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Why are you so aggressive lol what do you define complete female satisfaction as?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:37 PM
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Well, no. And this is why we shouldn’t make strange declarations based on Reddit threads when we have plenty of science available. 81.6% of women can’t orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Only 18.4% of women say that penetrative sex alone can make them orgasm. The reality is kind of the opposite of what you’re saying. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0092623X.2017.1346530
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:32 PM
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We don’t. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:03 AM
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Fucking opposite bro. You can make healthy lifestyle choices without following redpill bullshit. This nonsense is why there are so many ND incels that people want nothing to do with. TRP’s structure might be appealing for autistic people because it’s easy to follow but RP values will definitely further ostracize autistic men from both ND and NT women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:52 AM
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Can you share an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:51 PM
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Autism is a hard example to use because it presents very differently between in men and women and within each individual. The passport bro issue isn’t about skin color, it’s about culture and socioeconomic status. No one is calling it problematic because the women usually targeted by passport bros are POC, but because they’re preying on people who culturally commodify women because of lack of economic mobility. Idk about the weight thing because people have different tastes. Most of my fit guy f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:14 PM
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Educating women to avoid risk and keep themselves safe isn’t fear-mongering, it’s common sense. Men’s general proclivity for aggression and violence doesn’t allow them to see that self-defense isn’t a real or healthy solution for women. Being in a position where you have to use self-defense at all is traumatic. We don’t want to be violent, period. It’s not just about escaping the results of aggression and violence, it’s about avoiding those things in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:00 PM
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incels don’t get to ask for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:56 PM
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you want respect you have to give it sorry not sorry go cry on 4chan about it ig
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:26 PM
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Ohhh it’s an incel nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:09 PM
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r/menandfemales
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:48 PM
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Men are expected to be more accountable?! On what earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:20 PM
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Go ahead and tell us what it is then. ☺️ You’re not competitive in the field so you think everyone else should stop playing. Just be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:03 PM
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We know you can’t get the attention you want from the women you want. Why do you care that other men can? Why do you want to convince other men how to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:53 PM
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Men having to cope with the fact that they aren’t entitled to women’s attention isn’t putting anyone on a pedestal. Calling my reply to your multiple posts that are literally just whining that you can’t compete with men who treat women well “emotional” is such a disconnect from reality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:44 PM
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post a selfie for us OP don’t be shy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:28 PM
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man so many dudes on this sub should be or are already on a list somewhere lmao the daily revenge fantasy threads and justification for some of y’all wanting to fuck teenagers is getting old
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:27 PM
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Because we live in a society and men who spend their free time campaigning about why normal men should dehumanize and devalue women to make the lives of unlovable and unattractive men easier is concerning to me …?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:22 PM
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Dude you’ve posted different versions of this same notion so many times. Why are you soooo concerned with how other men spend their time and money?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:04 AM
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Agree. RP podcasters/Internet personalities know they’re grifting and that’s why they’ll never invite someone they know can easily mop the floor with them. Like all RP men, they aren’t interested in a conversation with women, they’re interested in validation while they talk at them. Even women like Pearl, who they rely on to validate their bullshit because she’s rich, white, and doesn’t have OF, cannot make a coherent argument if her life depended on it when she encounters even the most basic li…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:39 PM
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Ahhh you’re a forever alone woman. Damn, that’s crazy. All this simping and self-deprecation based on a group of people who doesn’t even want anything to do with you. Your parents must have been real winners. Really sorry about your trauma but again, curious as to why you’re trying to make it other people’s problem if you seem to want to be fundamentally ignored? Your statements are grabs for attention, but when you get it you want to shut the conversation down. What do you get out of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:26 PM
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I do accept that you’re a pathetic person. I’m just curious as to why you’re so okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:19 PM
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The reality may be that you are a joyless, bored, shell of a person but that’s certainly not true for other women and it’s objectively psychologically concerning to see that kind of self-talk in an adult of any gender. Do you have some sort of mental disorder?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:13 PM
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Are you, like, intellectually simple then? A good body and “being nice” is enough for you in a partner? You must be boring as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:58 AM
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I love how you default to “he will never cheat because he doesn’t have that many options” and not “he will never cheat because he has integrity” lmfao It’s not appealing. Idk why so many men act like being a loyal person and a person of “high value” are mutually exclusive. I’ve only dated guys who hot and charming and who are rich and can travel with me whenever I want, because I’m hot and charming and rich and travel whenever I want. One of them did cheat, I disappeared overnight, and three mon…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:56 AM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:47 AM
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Mans is hopelessly confusing his algorithm for actual reality and then wondering why women advise men to socialize like an actual human being lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:44 AM
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It’s sexist but lots of women are well aware of the internalized misogyny that happens to some unfortunate members of our gender. I feel sad for her that she doesn’t feel herself deserving of the full human experience, but I also think it’s pathetic to spend the free time she could be using to develop an actual personality on spreading brainwashed bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:42 AM
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man this level of self-hate and devaluation is so deeply sad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:40 AM
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Episode #103736493 of Redpill: Women are anything but people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:39 AM
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A huge problem with the male proclivity for violence is men think it doesn’t affect them or other people emotionally or mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:37 AM
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Honestly if it was worth the risk I would lol but it’s not r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:13 PM
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I thought this was a debate sub but most posts are just different versions of “I don’t like women or view them as human beings”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:17 PM
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I’m not talking about the thread mf read or stop talking to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:24 AM
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Read my actual comment dude ffs so tired of talking to men who insist on arguing about things they’ve made up in their own head
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 06:26 PM
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Are you illiterate? I didn’t say anything about looking up anyone’s salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 05:57 PM
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“Keeping yourself safe makes you a feminazi” is a cold ass take lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 02:12 PM
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Finances matter. They are relevant to every aspect of life. Why are you trying to make financial compatibility into a gendered issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 12:04 PM
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ffs can we go one day in this sub without men trying to justify why they wanna fuck kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:18 AM
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We look our friends’ boyfriends up to make sure he’s not going to kill her not because we care about their salary
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:53 AM
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Wrong. I’m a business owner and have out-earned the majority of my partners. I still care about their salary, but only because financial compatibility is an important factor in lifestyle compatibility. Why would I date someone if they aren’t able to afford to participate in the things I like to do? Ya’ll love to whine about how so many divorces are initiated by women based on financial issues and then whine when women try to avoid those issues entirely. RP dudes should just date each other lmao …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:48 AM
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I’m also European and the age of consent is not meant to facilitate grown ass men having sex with CHILDREN.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 10:43 AM
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man some of you dudes just out here saying things that should put you on some kind of watch list
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:39 AM
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Any sources for the wild declarations you’re making or is your ego that out of control that you mistake your thoughts for facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:35 AM
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Sure, Jan
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:14 AM
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If you want to liken it to an investment then let’s be realistic, investments have returns, or it’s a bad one and you shouldn’t double down because of sunk cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:02 AM
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… I don’t have a problem and haven’t used Tinder in years lmao this is such strange advertising
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 02:59 AM
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A woman flying into a rage because Leo might not wanna bang her is so fucking funny lol why are you making men needing to date people with incomparable life experience into a revenge fic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:34 PM
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on this episode of Redpill: Women Are Anything But People
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:43 PM
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Hi, token foreign woman. My partner does the cooking and cleaning (at least the stuff our housekeeper doesn’t) and pays for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:37 PM
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I mean shit if I was into women I’d probs pick Latinas too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:20 PM
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Tourist city, year round pop of ~3.5 million. Have no idea how many Tinder users there are obvs but my settings were 28-35 iirc, been off the apps for a couple years. I paid for Gold cause I don’t like to spend time swiping on infinite randos. Basically the same conversation every time. Show up to the date, get to talking about our careers, they find out I own the largest company in my industry, drill me about whether or not I actually own and founded it, and then say something vaguely xenophobi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:12 PM
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I’m a feminist. All of my partners have paid for dates. I’m in a European country where it’s just considered gentlemanly. Whenever I’ve unpacked this with my guys they just say they want to pay, one said it’s because “as a woman you deal with enough shit already.” Feminism isn’t about making women into or the same as men. It’s about equality and the freedom of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:03 PM
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coldest take today congratulations
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:46 PM
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I live in a broke ass country but have a foreign business so I earn more than most Americans. When I was single and on the apps, I’d get like 2,000 likes a day and man, the fucking rageeee western dudes fly into when they discover that you aren’t poor is terrifying lmao had guys furious at me for “misleading them” because they just … assumed I’d be willing to fuck them because of some weird socioeconomic assumption they made based on my nationality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:45 PM
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RP men: western women are so greedy, they won’t even go 50/50 on a date because they’re all gold digging whores obsessed with status Also RP men: I should inflate my status with foreign income and go look for a wife from a poor country where the cultural expectation is for a man to pay for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:41 PM
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There was a whole ass dating app for conservatives that failed because it was mostly dudes and the small amount of women who were on the app were really just men pretending to be women lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:20 PM
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Most women work. They are providers and caregivers. Could it possibly be that women are more likely to divorce someone not because they lost their job, but because they lost their job and still expect their wife to do a disproportionate amount of labor?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 06:12 PM
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That literally has nothing to do with what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:56 PM
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Why do men constantly try to map their obsession with dicks onto women? Like do you guys genuinely not understand how attraction works for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:34 PM
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“You don’t know the meaning of words” says the guy who blows by the study on humans to post a YouTube link in an attempt to conflate dogs with human beings 💀 It did have a negative and lasting impact on you. You’re a grown ass man who wants to hit children if he doesn’t get his way. You don’t have the communication or emotional regulation skills to teach a child, because your parents clearly didn’t model those things for you. Hitting kids makes them more inclined to violence in adulthood. You’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:09 PM
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I was literally raised by a child psychologist, didn’t get hit as a kid, turned out just fine. Since apparently personal anecdotes are science now. (They’re not.) But the real science says that hitting your kids, even without drawing blood or bruising, has a negative and lasting impact on emotional regulation and healthy attachments. You aren’t going to convince me that the way to teach kids to behave appropriately is … behaving inappropriately. Pathetic that parents expect more emotional contro…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:33 PM
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So that’s a yes …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:07 AM
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You’re some kind of freak science denier, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:40 AM
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Red pillers thinking women being alone is some kinda gotcha is so fucking funny lmao why do you guys project your fear of loneliness onto everyone? Single women are the happiest demographic on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:20 AM
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You may not have jumped on the bed again but you did grow up to be an adult who thinks it’s okay to hit kids, which is worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:18 AM
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https://today.yougov.com/society/articles/22754-women-safety-sexual-assault-awareness?redirect_from=%2Ftopics%2Flifestyle%2Farticles-reports%2F2019%2F03%2F28%2Fwomen-safety-sexual-assault-awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:44 PM
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I tend to go for artsy guys or ones with weird niche careers. I couldn’t be with someone with a 9-5 ‘cause I like to travel a lot and don’t like time to do things with my partner being limited to just evenings and weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:41 PM
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Lol. It doesn’t need to be hypothetical, mandatory military service isn’t that uncommon around the world and no one is making women broodmares because of it. I think you’re missing my point. Women don’t need the benefits of military service like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:01 PM
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My comment was actually about posts in this sub but now that you brought it up I’d love for the US to double down and have mandatory non-combat military service for men, not just the draft. That’s what my country does. I think American men would really benefit from structured communities and skill building in early adulthood, it’s a net positive for them (and society in general) over here. I lived in the States for half my life and the differences between male friendships, toxic masculinity, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:16 PM
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Anyone else creeped out by the daily threads about forcing women into things? Weird how it’s never the opposite. Most people cannot afford not to work anymore. Even if they are married. Women who are married and work full time are doing more work than men. If you think wages are low because of … women in the workplace … you may be shocked to find out about this little thing called late stage capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:19 PM
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Woman. No lifestyle changes from when I was single/living alone really. I’ve been lucky like OP, haven’t had much of an issue with guys I’m with not being clean or organized. But the state some of my male friends live in is … certainly eye-opening. Dishes — weekly. We eat out for most meals and just run mugs, thermoses, and cutlery in the dishwasher when it’s full. (It’s usually him who actually turns it on and unloads it though.) Laundry — we both do our own laundry during the week, tag team th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:20 AM
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That’s wild. What’s it like not being capable and competent enough to care for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:45 AM
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if you had to plan your life around when and where a certain gender is more likely to harass or do you harm I’m sure you’d find that to be a bit of a bother
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:03 PM
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You’re just describing weaponized incompetence bruh lol people (women) do want the help. They just don’t want you helping to create more work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 08:01 PM
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they haven’t. but wouldn’t that be nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:46 PM
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… Do you think you’re not annoying to interact with? and you don’t even have a good excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:29 PM
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girl respectfully shut the fuck up. you can have your own dating preferences without being an ableist loser
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:19 PM
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Hi, also neurospicy. ASD and ADHD doesn’t make you blind. If you saw your partner participating in household chores and that didn’t result in a thought to contribute, that’s a deficit in consideration for your partner, not one that comes from a disorder. I don’t think a grown ass adult should need to be directly told to do things like clean up after themselves. If that communication style and dynamic works for you, cool, but you should be aware that partner is still doing additional work by havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:45 PM
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the conviction rate for actual rapes is 2% bro. if it’s effectively legal for anyone to do anything they want and get away with it, it’s men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:17 PM
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oh god who summoned the passport bros to the comments 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 05:15 PM
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do you have sources for these claims or do you just hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 02:38 PM
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Amazes me that some men run their mouths about how women are entitled when the shit in that sub is a possibility for every woman on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:24 PM
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… you visited the r/whenwomenrefuse sub and still came to this conclusion? how disturbing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:14 PM
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Two of my best friends are guys I dated for a few weeks. We’ve known each other like ten years now. I really liked who they were as people and we had a good time together and lots of shared interests but the romantic and sexual chemistry wasn’t there for me. I didn’t ask them to be my friend as a gentle rejection or for the purpose of letting the relationship fade. I asked them to be my friend because I wanted to be their friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:05 AM
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preach
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:20 AM
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Ahhh the news articles about the sprinkle sprinkle girls. Who aren’t representative of the actual dating pool lol I earn more than my partner (but we both earn more than we need) and still don’t do 50/50 so I’m always curious about women who feel the need to pay their way out of some made up social obligation or transaction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:06 PM
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We must have radically different friend groups and socioeconomic statuses because I don’t know a single woman who would waste her time going out with a man just for a free meal. Sounds like you’re basically just going along with the jaded rp male ideal that women are users but your prerogative ig
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:47 PM
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and how do you/men know someone’s intentions? dating is just evaluating someone for a longterm relationship. if someone decides a person isn’t the best option for them on those dates, how do you practically determine the difference between someone who has gone on dates for someone for entertainment vs someone who has gone on dates and then decided they weren’t compatible with the person?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:36 PM
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Can you explain what you mean by “taken advantage of”?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:30 PM
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No point in debating with someone who treats their own opinion as fact while calling actual facts baseless and significant. Women attempt suicide more than men. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0165032722006103?via%3Dihub https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35598742/ Most childless and childfree women do not regret not having kids. 71% of them have no regrets. 60% of mothers do, however. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/23780231221142969?icid=int.sj-full-text.citing-art…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:25 PM
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Depends on the religion. I think most of them tend to overly demonize and pathologize basic attractions and human experiences and that’ll give anyone social anxiety or weird complexes, especially when it’s paired with fairytale books and leadership that shame and self-contradict. As far as the pastor’s kid anecdote, it’s probably important to keep in mind that if you have parents involved in any religious organization enough to lead one, those people aren’t going to be … normal. It requires a wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:08 PM
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It won’t hurt everyone. Women are statistically happier and healthier when they are single. Dating isn’t society. It is not the responsibility of women to correct problems created by men that only affect men. Everything from snow plowing, transit safety, medication dosage, medical diagnostic criteria, the 9-5 work day, office buildings, and public bathrooms are designed for men. For example, women just got our first female-bodied crash test dummy this year — we are 73% more likely to be injured …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:45 PM
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I’m confused about why other women go 50/50 for the purpose of taking the expectation of sex off the table. Why are we validating the assumption that sex was ever on the table just because a man pays?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:25 PM
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oof
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:23 PM
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Agree. I’ve out-earned all of my partners. All of them also earned six figures tbf, but I still made more than them. Never thought much about it. As long as someone is within a salary range that is compatible with the lifestyle I provide myself, it’s pretty irrelevant what my partner brings home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:22 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:19 PM
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Dating isn’t broken for women. We don’t have to do anything. If men want to fix dating and relationships they need to accept that society is largely built for and by men and that only they have the power to overcome the parts of the patriarchy that keep them from forming healthy friendships and communities like women do without the help of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:18 PM
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That’s not true. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0276562416300518 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3185017/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:06 PM
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Hair and makeup are not advertisements for men. They’re part of the expected presentation for an adult woman in society. “Somewhere where they are available to be hit on” — based off of many women’s experiences from around 12 into adulthood, this simply means … anywhere but home.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:39 PM
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A conversation isn’t commitment weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:16 PM
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“We talked a bit about life and it was just awkward at that point” “After talking for about a half an hour I asked her if sex was still on the table” Dude’s response to “hey I’m feeling a bit dehumanized by our arrangement” was “but can I still fuck you?” It’s brick-level emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:28 PM
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Nah, dude. “Meeting only for sex” doesn’t equal “not engaging in conversation.” OP from this thread wants a sex worker, not a FWB. The fact that he had an entire conversation about the woman communicating that she was feeling dehumanized and responded by asking if sex was on the table says everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:25 PM
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So having sex, without the communication and connection the woman requires to feel comfortable and enthusiastic having it, would be an abuse of her time, no? So many guys think bootycalls and FWB situations just mean you get to call someone up and fuck them. You also have to treat them like a human being and remember that the relationship is supposed to benefit both people sexually. Idk why it’s so hard to understand that a woman willing to have casual sex with a man isnt synonymous with sex wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:21 PM
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… do you think having sex with a man happens in a vacuum where time doesn’t exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:10 PM
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Men have lost the fucking plot lmfao even Johns small talk with prostitutes before sticking it in. A FWB relationship is supposed to be mutually beneficial. The female orgasm is mostly psychological. Having a basic conversation with someone before trying to fuck them is the MOST BASIC form of foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:08 PM
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TIL having a conversation with someone who wants to have sex with you is “abusing their time”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:06 PM
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I don’t think you understand what a boundary is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:05 PM
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Right? By the age of twelve, all women are CHILDREN lmfao like what the actual fuck is this 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:44 AM
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“In the west” 😂😂😂 Ya’ll know men are paying for like, everything, in non-western countries, right??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:40 AM
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they’re redpill men. what are you expecting, for them to make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:37 AM
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“advertising” 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:45 PM
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Nothings stopping you from wearing makeup too bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:38 PM
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Truly laughable take
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:31 PM
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Fr, any dude falling into RP because he thinks it’s the only option for unattractive men has never been to the Pacific Northwest lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:03 AM
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I think any person who responds to women expressing concerns about their comfort and safety with “we need to stop taking this shit seriously” is a jackass lol I guess this is another episode of “explaining to men that real life is not the internet and the internet is not real life.” Just because you as an individual haven’t seen a video of something online … doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Do you realize how disconnected from reality you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:25 PM
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I think that part was a poor regurgitation of Jordan Peterson’s rant on blush and lipstick
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:58 PM
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men will still creep on you, you’ll still pay more for less and earn less for doing more, but someone might hold a door for you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 02:00 PM
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this emotional tampon bullshit is so funny to me lmfao men literally cannot comprehend that platonic friendship involves emotional support for your friends … even if you aren’t fucking them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:58 PM
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idk if a woman would call a man autistic for not looking into her … brightly coloured contacts lenses …? but one could certainly call a man autistic after reading this list lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:20 AM
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You’re ignoring the fact that single women are statistically happier are more likely to have communities and friendship outside of romantic relationships. Literally zero reason for this weird ass masochistic volunteer service you’ve dreamed up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:21 AM
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men getting more and more socially intelligent is a HILARIOUS notion lol what on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:28 PM
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https://spssi.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/asap.12308
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:27 PM
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Ahhh you’re getting so close! Women are societally shamed for natural human things like aging and having body hair so we buy things to conform to traditional beauty standards. Whereas society allows men to just … exist as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:24 PM
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You aren’t getting it, are you? Women don’t want to deal with the risk and harassment and annoyance that comes with being viewed as a sexual object by default. We are looking forward to it lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:05 PM
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You made a whole post bitter about an entire gender and how you still think about someone who rejected you ten years ago … but I’m projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:29 AM
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you’re so bitter and misogynistic. embarrassing fr. you can just say you envy women for being sought after for most of their lives because you never were in yours. I’m very much excited for not being viewed as prey while I’m just trying to live my life, naivety has nothing to do with it. I’m 30. I’m aging. I don’t give a fuck lol bottom of the barrel dudes like you out here acting like men don’t age and experience everything that comes with it is soooo weird
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 09:51 PM
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on this episode of men wildly over-estimating their importance and impression in women’s lives … others have said it but this is just a revenge fantasy lol. a particularly sad one at that. the only thought I give to male attention is how to avoid it. can’t fucking wait to get older so I can worry less whenever I go out. how many times do we have to tell men that we don’t want to be bothered lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:19 PM
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men seem to interpret “treat her well” as “do the bare fucking minimum” and still manage to fuck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 11:03 AM
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Studies show that men are actually worse decision makers and are more prone to tunnel-vision, especially under stress, and take higher risks in decision-making. How does that make them more logical exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:13 PM
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hating on women with career ambitions and then wanting to go 50/50 is wild
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:46 AM
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this is insane lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 10:28 AM
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Healthcare outcomes are better for men though and everything from medication dosages to seatbelts are designed for male bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:18 PM
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You won’t be having sex with any of them then, I assume? ‘Cause if you truly believe that, would be quite pedophilic of you 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:51 AM
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You realize all this shit is no different to a traditional dating service, right? If someone has to go to the extent of uploading financial, health, and personal data to get dates, you’re just going to end up with a pool of antisocial weirdos lol men will try everything but being a well-adjusted social adult
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 10:08 PM
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this is deranged lol why are you acting like men are being forced onto dating apps? if men aren’t enjoying the online dating experience literally nothing is stopping them from … not using them. you think the government accessing a bunch of personal and health data to match people up isn’t nebulous?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:36 PM
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“For guys it’s like advertising they are ripe for the picking” Do men really not understand that women do not determine our confidence based on how sexually attractive we are to other people, but rather how we feel about we look in something? If you look at clothes women like on other women vs clothes men think look good on us, there’s usually a huge disparity. Women are people, not fruit. Our existence in clothes we like is not advertisement just because men choose to dehumanize and objectify w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:14 PM
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OLD apps know that they are not worth womens’ time bc of how men act on them, they’re not going to make it any worse for us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:42 PM
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ngl this is a completely batshit insane idea
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:41 PM
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IIRC some apps have a body type section? You can’t tell anything about body type from just a number. You get photos of people. What’s the problem exactly? Or do you just want to feel like men should be able to reject women based on their weight because you feel like men are getting rejected based on their height?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:38 PM
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Girl you seem like a miserable person lmfaoooo you do realize people can make their own life choices and use whatever words they want, right? Are you so bored and unfulfilled with your own relationship that you’re this concerned with how other people are referring to theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:37 PM
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It’s not new. I’m a year younger than you and my dad and his gf of fifteen years called each other partners, his coworkers and friends called their partners that … it’s common and normal thing to even back then if you’re in a mature longterm relationship but weren’t married, regardless of gender. Why does it bother you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:35 PM
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If you’re expecting a woman to pay for a first date with the assumption she’s going to go on a second one with you, yeah, you should keep assuming you’re going to get ghosted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:21 PM
5

These dudes live in a delulu conservative algorithm and have lost all touch with reality and real women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:15 PM
14

Wrong. I’m in Southern Europe, men trying to split the bill is seen as platonic, undesirable, and immature in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:15 PM
9

I stg you guys see like two redpill TikToks about women going on dates for food and you think most women are putting ourselves at risk just for a free meal lol it’s so delusional First dates are about setting and evaluating standards. If someone wants a 50/50 type relationship, they’ll offer to split the bill. If someone wants someone who will take care of dates and activities, they won’t. It’s not some moral litmus test, it’s one of compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:12 PM
0

Nothing more unattractive than a committed man acting like he’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:00 PM
1

Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:59 PM
1

Men really just be making whole ass declarations based on their personal anecdotes lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:58 PM
5

you’re really trying to justify men not paying to support their children because they spend more on video games and sports equipment lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:35 PM
2

That’s not true lol men outspend women on things like cars, food, and entertainment. “Supposed” as in courts/custody agreements set out an amount based on the non-custodial parent’s income and men chronically underpay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:07 PM
2

Marital assets …? Women are … part of the marriage lmao those are also their assets. The average child support payment in the US supposed to be $4,356/yr but the actual amount received is an average of $1,800. The annual cost of raising a child is $21,000~. Only 44% of mothers get the amount due to them. Just 38% of child support-paying fathers contribute to healthcare costs. Ya’ll wanna be absentee fathers and have mothers foot the bill and do all the work lmao ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:49 PM
2

Yeahhhh what you’re saying isn’t reflective of actual reality. Very clear you live deep in the delusional redpill algorithm and it’s rot your brain. Or maybe you were always stupid idk
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:09 AM
3

They do though. Most households in the US are dual income and have been for the last 20+ years. Men work on average only three hours more per week than women, while women do 10-21 more hours of unpaid labour per week than men depending on the region. 75% of unpaid labour in the world is performed by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:45 AM
2

what’s the incentive? 😂 don’t you dare say child support
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:38 AM
7

why’re you acting like women aren’t also working on top of doing more unpaid labor than men lmao jfc men are not resources they’re hazards
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:37 AM
7

Plan B isn’t that effective if you’re over 150 pounds (average American woman weighs 170) and condoms fail. “Making sure” someone isn’t a horrible douche bag doesn’t have much to do with intelligence. You think rapists are just out there … acting like one … and women are still going home with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:14 PM
1

Do you have a source for the majority of women’s speech being based on fleeting emotions? Because you just made that up lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:42 AM
1

The fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:32 PM
1

Bro you’re talking about men being more effective communicators but you just said delude when you should’ve said dilute lol just shhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:59 PM
1

Men, not people. Studies show that women are actually more effectual communicators and collaborators than men, part of why men’s performance in academia is on the decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:40 PM
1

Please. I’m not stupid enough to rely on a man for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:42 PM
8

You just did it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:42 PM
10

You just proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:18 PM
43

Generally, women want men to hold each other accountable for their behavior because men don’t fucking listen to women. Studies prove that when women talk, men perceive them to talk longer than they actually are, and they don’t listen to women as much as they do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:25 AM
4

Because statistically, when women try to “hold men accountable”, that’s when men get violent. Don’t be obtuse. Men are less likely to get violent when they know the person their getting violent with has a bigger chance of kicking their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:22 AM
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Lmao. Women started “picking better men” and then we entered an epidemic of “male loneliness.” Pretty weird to make violence toward women about male victims though. Women don’t really expect for bystanders to intervene — we’re conditioned to protect ourselves. Women just want men to hold each other accountable for the behavior that creates a pipeline towards violent or incel behavior toward women instead of circlejerking with their fresh n fit misogynistic nonsense lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:20 AM
1

Generally women respect average men. Men also perceive completely reasonable things women do as disrespect — there are several studies that show men have a skewed perception of time and word count when women are talking (they tend to think women talk more and longer than they actually do) so sometimes women are perceived as rude due to inherent bias or just basic things like keeping themselves safe. I don’t help men with directions if I’m alone and I don’t move for men because it’s been shown th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:14 PM
2

Why can’t you answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:07 PM
3

Do you call squats and lifts provocative when men do them? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:25 AM
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Men can’t … look … at a woman and respect her at the same time? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:46 AM
16

No. Revealing clothing does not complicate respecting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:42 PM
0

Hormones bro. Dudes are wired to procreate everyday. We get a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:13 PM
0

… you’re like, so close to the point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:50 AM
3

Bruh previous generations couldn’t even get a house or a credit card without a man signing off on it wtf are you even saying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:03 PM
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But you literally said that if women don’t, the red pill will. That is not the reality of the situation lmao men could just … be accountable for themselves. That’s an option. Not just putting shit on women or falling victim to incel propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:41 AM
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lmfao so … men can’t possibly be accountable for themselves. Their only options are to demand labour from women or be radicalized into dehumanizing them. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:01 AM
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Just for clarification … being coerced into being physically abused and drinking piss isn’t really terrible to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:47 AM
1

lmfao whatever you gotta tell yourself buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:20 PM
0

“The exact same thing” HAHAHAHAHA omg delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:59 AM
3

Their media literacy (or lack thereof) should be considered like a national threat at this point lol between AI and rage-baiting algorithms, they’ve become so detached from actual reality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:56 AM
2

Women dealing with body issues is putting a fat girl on a magazine cover. Men dealing with body issues is devolving into creepy women-hating incels and occasionally deciding to murder women they feel wronged by or just whoever is around at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:52 AM
0

no I’m saying you’re boring misogynist trash
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:54 AM
0

yeah all that is … delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 06:28 AM
13

and do your “friends” know you talk about them like this or…?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:49 AM
0

lmfao it’s always “not all men” until it’s time for them to try to take credit for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:45 AM
1

It’s not feminist propaganda though. Are you insinuating single men don’t clean …? How do they live without women? Men are expected to do basic domestic tasks because it’s their house too. Most households have two people working full time. Why should women have to do extra daily tasks but not men? Where is your proof that men are more efficient? Want to maybe unpack why you think male labour is inherently more valuable? Fixing a fence isn’t an essential life skill lmao we aren’t cowboys. Women c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:15 AM
1

but cleaning isn’t part of a woman’s gender role. it’s a basic life skill. and why are you acting like most women don’t work full time jobs in addition to performing more unpaid domestic labour than men lmfao what is a “full husband” exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:25 AM
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