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confidentgirl/r/seduction27/02/19 10:22 PM
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Honestly I’m not great looking at all. I’d say I’m average to slightly above average. Looking even just average is enough to get a girl in the door so to speak. Our personality and confidence is what keeps guys with us and scores us a second date. I’ve definitely dated and am dating “out of my league” guys due to my personality and confidence. Looks wise I’m okay but guys mention that enthusiasm (especially for sex) is refreshing. Even going on r/askmen or irl guys admit that looks only get wome…
/r/seduction26/04/19 03:30 PM
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Tbh girls don’t need much simply because society sucks in terms of the pressure we place in men to “chase us.” Women need minimal skills to find a guy. With that being said a woman with confidence and personality can almost effortlessly attract guys. Women who are forward and are confident are sexy as hell to men.
/r/seduction26/04/19 03:04 PM
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Honestly, the best things are very effortless and you just kinda stumble in. Happy for you!
/r/seduction26/04/19 12:56 AM
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This has prepared you for boss-level terrible
/r/seduction08/04/19 06:34 PM
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I would say just accept it and be cool with it. A lot of girls will say this and still cheat but that’s on her to make that choice. At that point it’s your choice if you want to be the guy she cheats with. My word of advice is don’t, not for ethical reasons but because these type of girls are drama and will suck you into it.
/r/seduction04/04/19 03:02 PM
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Nicely nicely melts my ❤️
/r/seduction03/04/19 04:50 PM
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My (25F) bio says “guaranteed to reply with more than two words” We aren’t all bad, but I feel for you.
/r/seduction03/04/19 01:14 AM
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This
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:27 PM
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I'd like to think guys like you are out there. I'm not a guy but I'll say that women struggle like this too. I'm genuinely happy for you and that you made a change for yourself. I hope things get even better for you.
/r/seduction16/03/19 06:05 PM
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Thank you for not giving ridiculous advice and crazy schemes like others. If we were all just a bit more direct and honest we wouldn't need all these schemes.
/r/seduction15/03/19 05:51 PM
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Wait what?!? They're on your bed half naked and nothing? What the literal fuckery is this? Well you are great and I'm glad that you respect them saying no but idk what is up with them teasing like that. Yeah, you need to establish this much earlier on, like prior to meeting.
/r/seduction15/03/19 05:41 PM
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Thus
/r/seduction15/03/19 05:39 PM
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Damn bro! A compliment and teaching me something new? That's very sweet of you. Yeah I say it all the time on here, most chicks are not taking advantage of being direct and honest. I legitimately get it as much as I want just by being a simple human female. Also I'm decent looking and 25 so that really helps.
/r/seduction15/03/19 04:58 PM
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Based or biased? Either way what do you mean exactly?
/r/seduction15/03/19 04:36 PM
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This is an educated guess ok? Girls say that because 1)their inbox my overflow if they write that they do want a hook up 2) they dont want to attract guys that are only looking for hook ups 3) they may be worried that it says they are easy and have a high body count which may or may not turn some guys off 4) some may be looking for a semi serious relationship and this would ensure that they get the one time guys for hook ups I think you are on base tbh. I think a lot of girls take it a bit too f…
/r/seduction15/03/19 03:52 PM
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Lol yes of course it is different. Im.just saying that there are plenty of women who are into it, they may not advertise it or endorse it right away but it is true. Either way it should be discussed ASAP and be as honest as you can be.
/r/seduction14/03/19 07:43 PM
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I tell my guys before we meet. What do you want what do I want. Considering I'm a female and decent looking they are all down. Just let her know you dont want anything serious but something consistent.
/r/seduction14/03/19 04:32 PM
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Nope I'm not
/r/seduction14/03/19 05:36 AM
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I'm no expert but I'll do my best
/r/seduction14/03/19 05:35 AM
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Dm me if you want, I'll do my best to practice with you. I'm pretty busy but if I can help I will. You got this OP!!!
/r/seduction14/03/19 04:17 AM
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Look, I agree with you to some degree. The typical mindset currently is the casual one. This is a difficult thing to manage, especially for men, and it greatly benefits us women as we are served literally hundreds of men who want us. Considering myself, all I have time for is sex really so yes I will choose a very attractive looking man because that is what I'm looking for. With that being said, I think women, even those seeking casual things would prefer one or two consistent partners to be cas…
/r/seduction12/03/19 04:23 PM
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Lol well I just wanted to be objective. Yeah he doesnt care. Tbh I'm pretty slim so I dont really need abs considering my stomach is flat. He is an ass guy so he is happy with my shape. I definitely love abs, and he has them so yeah lol
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:51 PM
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Oh. He has abs, I dont. Other than that we are both equally good looking and I'm pretty in shape, minus abs. Most importantly our drives match, I think that's what is most important for us really.
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:48 PM
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She's been on 2 dates with you lol she is definitely interested
/r/seduction11/03/19 09:20 PM
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Allowing things to happen is just as bad tbh
/r/seduction11/03/19 09:17 PM
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Ok so follow up question. Btw this response was articulate beautiful. Do you find that finding a quality woman is difficult? And what exactly would you say is your ideal woman? Quality wise.
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:55 PM
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I actually hear this from a lot of guys. They love hooking up but they want a connection more than anything. Guys love when I stay and give them a massage and big spoon them tbh. They say it is a very close second to actual sex and I find it kind of heartbreaking. Regardless if I'm just hooking up with a guy or a consistent fwb I try to rub up on them and just lay there and compliment them and make them feel wanted/loved. I know it isnt super serious but I can tell they all crave it and some wil…
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:52 PM
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I think I'm a solid 7 overall. But other qualities make me more attractive, from what I've been told.
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:44 PM
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What do you mean specifically? In comparison to who/what?
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:52 PM
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Tbh I dont think I fit the norm for females my age, based on almost all my guys telling me this. I keep him around because he is consistently available and to be very blunt the man knows how to please me for a long time. My drive is very high and frankly most guys cannot keep up so I keep him.because he does that. Also, he feels the same way about me so he keeps me around too lol. I dont want to make it seem like he doesnt have the chance to end it if he pleases. Also considering I mostly want g…
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:30 PM
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Sometimes it is different yes, I have one consistent guy as well. Haha 25 why?
/r/seduction11/03/19 07:09 PM
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How often does it actually happen? Like once every 2 weeks or so. Mostly because I dont have time to meet people or else it would happen more, my schedule sucks lol.
/r/seduction11/03/19 03:47 PM
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I will say that this is very true. My partners have told me they've havent had sex in a few months (some one year plus) and I am almost in shock because they are all very good looking. Of course they could be lying but I doubt it based on the fact that there really wasn't a need to, it wouldn't have changed my decision to go on a date/hang out. Btw super wholesome comments people. Very nice
/r/seduction11/03/19 12:27 PM
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F
/r/seduction09/03/19 04:09 AM
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Ok, your comment made me feel as though someone disagreed with me (which is fine) Thank you
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:29 PM
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I cant see my notifications, did I make someone upset?
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:28 PM
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As a female, if a guy approaches I am very flattered honestly. If I'm not interested I will say it in a nice way and I would never dare be rude or condescending. I'm hoping that when I approach you all do the same. Lol And if I am interested I will give you my number and probably set up a date :)
/r/seduction08/03/19 04:57 PM
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Oh dear lord!! Even bowing out is wholesome. I'm done. Lol
/r/seduction08/03/19 03:33 PM
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I work in psychology so kinda
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:37 PM
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Lol as long as he can use the force I'm all for it
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:33 PM
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Omg goodnight #cantwinwithyou
/r/seduction07/03/19 11:05 AM
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Alright no more compliments. Lol. I'm going to bed. Goodnight wholesome fellow!!
/r/seduction07/03/19 11:02 AM
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Haha omg you are too much. I'm the opposite I'll just start smiling and blushing all cute then I hit you with the "shut the fuck up bro" lol But honestly thanks for saying all the nice stuff.
/r/seduction07/03/19 10:54 AM
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STOOOOOkeepgoingOOOPPPPP with the cuteness bro. Shit has me cheesing. Lol. I smile and blush a lot when things are so wholesome.
/r/seduction07/03/19 10:31 AM
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Making me swoon and blush honestly. Being kind is something I try to do all the time. If we all tried a little more we'd be okay.
/r/seduction07/03/19 10:23 AM
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Right in the feels! Well I appreciate the time/effort. Upvotes for you!
/r/seduction07/03/19 10:00 AM
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The comments like this that say cute is preferred over hot are really warming my heart. Btw thanks for commenting and going into detail!
/r/seduction07/03/19 09:57 AM
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Alright message me your snap and I'll add you.
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:46 AM
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I have WhatsApp? Or snap?
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:43 AM
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Automatic Point deduction lol. Alright where should this battle take place?
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:41 AM
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Could this be the battle she's been waiting for???? Find out on the next episode of DBZ
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:39 AM
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I keep them around to discuss sex with men really and to appear normal. All the guys I date lose in our meme battles. Then they tell me I'm like a man, which I'm going to take as a compliment hahaha. Memes are life, I live it daily.
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:36 AM
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I'm at around 500 on this phone and my IG is all memes. Which leads to more catfish issues hahahahaha. I have them categorized also My female friends dont understand my love of memes
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:33 AM
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I'm accused of being a catfish all the time. My meme game is next level fr fr
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:29 AM
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What?!? I meant you are sweeping me off my feet
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:26 AM
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Literally swooning rn
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:18 AM
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I'm serious though. That is cute of you
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:15 AM
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That's fucking adorable actually
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:12 AM
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Awwwwww a man after my own heart
/r/seduction07/03/19 04:06 AM
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Idk that's weird to me honestly. I dont even tell guys where I live lol
/r/seduction03/03/19 07:27 AM
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Ummm, something related to their bio or a gif
/r/seduction03/03/19 05:07 AM
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Same!!! I just messaged like 30 of my matches on Tinder. Good luck bro!
/r/seduction03/03/19 12:39 AM
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Ok well good luck.
/r/seduction02/03/19 11:15 PM
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I mean you could, but I mean if she was that horny it could be worth it. Girls go through times of extreme horniness like once a month and the sex is much better at that time. But yeah you can go back anytime lol good luck dude :)
/r/seduction02/03/19 11:10 PM
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Go back then lol she is pretty much guaranteed to be there.
/r/seduction02/03/19 11:01 PM
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Ask the people if she is goes there often and go again. Just saying
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:59 PM
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Get it bro!!! She wanted it.
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:47 PM
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That is true. Username checks out btw lol
/r/seduction02/03/19 08:17 PM
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I always apologize and automatically during the apology I give a window of dates I'm available to be mindful of your schedule. Just tell her that's fine (if it is) and ask her what days she has free If she still cant give days then say ok and keep her on the back burner.
/r/seduction02/03/19 06:38 PM
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I was just trying to make sure you have that before approaching because it is important to appeal physically too. Your physique sounds good honestly. I think just reading woman who give you signs that they are checking you out. I think the simplest approach is try to observe something about her that can start a conversation like if you're at Starbucks or something. Best thing is have a quick one liner to start but overall just keep approaching girls. I think mentally prepare that you will get re…
/r/seduction02/03/19 04:00 PM
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There is a degree of mystery and aloofness that I think women find attractive
/r/seduction02/03/19 02:33 AM
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Easiest way to get chicks is start hitting the gym, eat good and loft heavy. Invest in nice clothes and start grooming yourself. You can be the fly, hot, mysterious type. And get someone to take good pictures of you.
/r/seduction02/03/19 01:28 AM
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Bring it up. Itll only get worse. Say "hey I dont know what you mean when you say that. I dont want to make assumptions. In the future can you just say what you mean?"
/r/seduction02/03/19 01:22 AM
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I think it is too focused on you being innocent. Try: "Tonight I want you to violate and corrupt me on the unholiest of ways" You can tone it down, up to you. Also you can make it better by saying that you want to do something to him "Prepare for your dick to be either be in my pussy or mouth" Guys are very visual and the more you say you'll do the better. Good luck OP!
/r/seduction02/03/19 01:20 AM
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Yeah you dont want to get caught up on this girl. Ahundqnce mentality sir. It is! All my guys say how pleasant it is to have a real conversation. anyways, good luck to you sir and I hope you get your date :)
/r/seduction01/03/19 01:47 PM
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Have plans in case she bails but I think assume you are meeting. And yes ppl talk on the phone. I still have hours-long conversations sometimes and guys actually enjoy them.
/r/seduction01/03/19 01:36 PM
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Walmart 10, Target 8 OMFG I'm dying bro
/r/seduction28/02/19 09:09 PM
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Kind of hard to talk when my mouth is full
/r/seduction28/02/19 08:27 PM
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A man after my own heart with the numerical breakdown! But the weird part is the guy who called me a cutie was death gripping my ass when he said it. 🤔 Thank you!
/r/seduction28/02/19 01:13 AM
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Omg all these responses make sense lol. Alright, I feel good being called cute then. Lol Thank you
/r/seduction28/02/19 01:12 AM
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🤔 thank you!
/r/seduction28/02/19 12:58 AM
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AWWWW I've been called beautiful few times but that description was really nice. Thank you
/r/seduction28/02/19 12:51 AM
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I mostly do hook up or fwb but the question is if a hook up cakking me cute is preferable to hot. I'm sorry you dont have luck!
/r/seduction27/02/19 11:33 PM
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Ok so that's what guys tell me. That when they call me cute it's because I'm wholesome and they pair the "cute" with me having an "awesome " personality. But my friends say that because Tinder is a hook up sight I should be getting Hot or that's what I should "shoot" for.
/r/seduction27/02/19 10:38 PM
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Ohhhhhhh ok makes sense now lol
/r/seduction27/02/19 10:34 PM
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Idk if it does because other people said cute is like basic. For tinder I would prefer to be hot. I usually get the cute but I'll take any compliments really
/r/seduction27/02/19 10:33 PM
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Damn, never considered myself basic lol
/r/seduction27/02/19 10:32 PM
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Just text her, just tell her upfront your busy and your replies may be delayed that way you can delay without seeming uninterested
/r/seduction27/02/19 06:43 PM
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What the literal fuckery is this ?!?! Haha I would say not to get involved. Not necessarily because of morals or ethics because the gurk obviously doesn't have any if she is on the edge if cheating. I wouldn't get involved because these girls bring a lot of baggage and drama that you dont need. Keep her in the very last back burner as a one time deal but try to find a single woman/girl. Good luck OP!
/r/seduction23/02/19 04:39 PM
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I'm a girl but thanks man. Honestly, we all shit, eat, sleep. The hottest girls still get scared. Something that is a universal turn on: Guys with the "balls" to approach and who know what they want. Go for it and give her a compliment, a genuine and specific one.
/r/seduction22/02/19 05:51 PM
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What works for me is that I bring people down. Lol Everyone is a human doing their best in life. No matter how hot you are you have insecurities and fears. Once you think of everyone struggling and being human it makes it easier to approach. Good luck OP!
/r/seduction22/02/19 05:49 PM
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This is true. No matter what guys that superlike me are right there. It makes me make a decision on them.
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:03 AM
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Same with a guy too! Congrats OP!
/r/seduction22/02/19 12:01 AM
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Prepare for her to not change anytime soon tbh. Keep her as a fwb and if you both follow the same pattern as what you said, then something could develop. But just keep other people lined up so you dont become obsessed. Good luck OP!
/r/seduction21/02/19 07:59 AM
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Hey, I totally get you. I'm in a similar boat. I think you just have to make a mantra or something and just prepare for there to always be an expectation date. I know you know why they are ending but it still sucks when they do. I treat every date like it's my last so that if it is I had a good time. It's a work in progress though. Good luck OP and keep up the honesty!
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:58 AM
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Female here. It is for attention, she just wants to see if you are still into her and make sure you are an option for later. Personally I dont do this but my fellow females do. Wait to text back and pretty much only offer to meet up at your place so you dont waste time.
/r/seduction21/02/19 05:43 AM
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I see why you think that and I'm sorry. The second paragraph is my personal opinion due to actual interactions with men. Especially when I consider myself to be an honest, straightforward person as opposed to many who play dating games and treat people like shit. I dont think all men are like this, there are some decent ones but I've met only few of those. As a woman I can only speak about my experiences with men and make observations about how I see women behave towards men.
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:31 AM
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I think an asshole should be labeled that and I would label a woman as asshole if she acted that way. I do agree with OP that there are a lot of women who do this and even average women due to the use of apps that provide too many options. However, not all women are like that. In my case I'm not like that so I think it is a generalization.
/r/seduction18/02/19 09:46 PM
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That's a fallacy. There aren't only two options: my opinion or yours. And frankly I dont care to be downvoted because that is just my opinion whether it is popular or not.
/r/seduction18/02/19 09:24 PM
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I didn't know you knew me personally to include me in that generalization.
/r/seduction18/02/19 05:48 PM
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I will say that there are a lot of women who lack the skills to engage men appropriately but that also applies to men. My issue with men is that I feel as though when they have more than one option they turn Into assholes. Communication wise and follow through really takes a blow. I would think if they have an abundance they would do their best to keep all options content. That is just me though.
/r/seduction18/02/19 05:05 PM
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Like if you are next to each other and you put your arm around her, place your hand on her ass. Then start rubbing slowly and add in a nice firm sexual grip. If she responds with any enjoyment make it more pronounced and then start moving your hand to other areas and that should do it.
/r/seduction14/02/19 10:40 PM
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First of all, dont let women put it on you to make the move. Women also need to start initiating. Second, a butt grab or rub can definitely get someone started.
/r/seduction14/02/19 10:36 PM
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You're welcome.
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:54 AM
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Stop her, even if she is with friends. Just walk up and say "hey can I talk to you for a minute?" Tell her you've noticed her and want to get to know her more. Take your shot OP, beats thinking about it all day. Good luck!
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:51 AM
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If people were simple we wouldn't need subreddits. Just avoid girls like that
/r/seduction09/02/19 02:39 AM
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I (f25) will set up a date within the first week and the actual date within two weeks of the initial conversation. I think you are probably meeting women who dont prioritize going out. But then again, that may just be me.
/r/seduction09/02/19 01:43 AM
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If you would get some enjoyment out of it, do it. If not, save it for another time/person.
/r/seduction07/02/19 08:57 PM
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Hey, she gave you her number, she has to assume you are going to contact her. I would say tomorrow would be good. Just invite her out to a movie or some local event. Good luck to you.
/r/seduction07/02/19 12:31 AM
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The least she could take away from you approaching is thinking "man, this guy has some balls."
/r/seduction06/02/19 11:06 PM
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I have a somewhat similar problem. I'm young, above average looking, fit, smart, witty, homeowner and guys think I'm a catfish lol.
/r/seduction06/02/19 09:53 PM
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True! I dont mind that as long as they keep that same enthusiasm with everyone Haha.
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:04 PM
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I am a woman and I get a lot of matches but honestly I feel the guys are just tired. I message first and always respond and most of them seem to have given up of actually trying. I think I am one of those few women on Tinder that is actually relationship material and I am getting the aftermath of guys being rejected all the time.
/r/seduction06/02/19 05:45 PM
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I (25 f) definitely make moves on guys. He doesnt have to be super hot either, just someone I would like to go out with because we connect on a number of topics/areas. I give signals too but definitely also a straight, can i have your number or would you like to go out with me is common for me.
/r/seduction06/02/19 05:42 PM
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Your descriptions are fucking hilarious hahahaha. Btw that is great, hope you have a successful dinner!
/r/seduction03/02/19 03:32 AM
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I would say tell her "is there a reason your friend is coming? If you are worried about your safety we can meet somewhere more public." Idk but her bringing the friend is very strange.
/r/seduction02/02/19 04:14 AM
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I'm not petty so I cant relate to this. On behalf of my fellow (petty) females, I'm sorry.
/r/seduction01/02/19 07:14 PM
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Good luck!
/r/seduction01/02/19 04:11 PM
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Okay, so in that case, be more direct. Say I cant stop thinking about being on my knees in front of you.... He sounds like he needs to know explicitly that you genuinely want him. In the morning you can text him and tell him you had a wet dream about him and describe what happened in that dream?
/r/seduction01/02/19 03:51 PM
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Start off slow. If he is going to be gone a while you want some build up. Start by maybe saying I had a really great time, then depending on how he reacts, build it up to I've been thinking about you in my mouth etc. Send pics until later.
/r/seduction01/02/19 03:32 PM
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Right?!? Cuddling is fucking great lol
/r/seduction31/01/19 11:17 PM
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Initials on a bracelet or necklace would be really nice. There are some nice bracelets that can be customized by "Alex and Ani."
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:40 PM
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Alpha males are dominant and protective by nature, get something that reflects that in her own style. A necklace with your name on it, or you initials that she could wear. Or just think what has she been wanting or something she already has but needs to be replaced? Best of luck
/r/seduction27/01/19 09:37 PM
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Have you tried swiping in a different area? I've met up with guys on Tinder and not ghosted. If it helps I have gotten ghosted many times as well (F25) and I'm fit, funny, etc.
/r/seduction27/01/19 01:32 AM
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It sounds like you are incredibly frustrated. You want to meet someone and are finding it difficult to do so. Have you tried the Tinder subreddit? They can review your profile and try to help.
/r/seduction27/01/19 01:23 AM
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I resent that! Lol we are just too busy to date. At least me.
/r/seduction26/01/19 10:13 PM
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Maybe walk up, and say "I really want to know what music you are listening to that has you so focused?" At this point you just need something to start a conversation. Or say hey I'm going to grab a coffee, would you like to come?
/r/seduction25/01/19 06:00 AM
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What is she wearing? Is she listening to music?
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:57 AM
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What else does she have with her? A drink? A certain bag? Books?
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:28 AM
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Just do it bro! When else are you going to find a hot girl alone in a library?
/r/seduction25/01/19 05:23 AM
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If a girl likes you dont waste money. I always pay my half or more lol I'm f btw.
/r/seduction24/01/19 10:03 PM
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Okay, she is interested. So go for it. Try this: If she is walking to a class alone or walking alone at any point in time, walk up to her and say "Hey, I think I owe you a walk, and I like to repay my debts" She might laugh and think it's cute. If no then move on, you are young.
/r/seduction22/01/19 11:25 PM
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As a female I'm curious about what you are doing and I'll try to give advice
/r/seduction22/01/19 11:14 PM
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Use your strengths, you are obviously dedicated, smart, driven, goal oriented. I would be more likely to swipe right on a grad student with a degree like mine than a hot model tbh
/r/seduction22/01/19 08:37 PM
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No, I mean a guy that is active is hella hot BUT I dont want to be hiking with him everytime we meet. Also I can tell by their age and job if they can even afford the shit they post. Be yourself, show some good qualities like being with your family, working, and what you enjoy.
/r/seduction22/01/19 08:11 PM
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Look, you can post pics of you cooking. Or going to a new restaurant or eating a burrito or spending time with family. It can really be anything we just want to know what you are like outside of Tinder. Girls say they want more but they have a limit. We like to go somewhere fun here and there but we all binge watch on our couch so just be honest.
/r/seduction22/01/19 08:02 PM
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That is very true, but I tend to see more of their personality if that makes sense. I would definitely get one and post what you like. Memes make me laugh. Or even if it is work, you should be honest about how your life is. I honestly dont believe everyone is on hikes or traveling 24/7 anyways.
/r/seduction22/01/19 07:34 PM
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Profile pictures are usually staged just for that app and to attract the opposite sex so I dont take them very serious. Mostly guys use a gimmick to get attention. On IG it us for everyone so I see more of how you really are, not just when you're trying to get sex.
/r/seduction22/01/19 07:23 PM
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As a female who doesn't like using social media, I have one with few posts. With that being said, I definitely prefer a profile that has one linked that has pictures. I am more likely to engage them because it let's me.know what they do with their time. It doesnt have to be hikes and desserts in every picture. Just what do you like to do. Best of luck!
/r/seduction22/01/19 07:15 PM
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I fucking swoon when a guy texts me good morning or good night. I know im on his mind. Recently a guy started opening doors for me and he will definitely reap the benefits of it. And be genuine about the compliments too. Being called beautiful feels great.
/r/seduction21/01/19 09:52 PM
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As a female looks do matter. With that being said, you dont have to be super in shape. I'm more than happy with a slender guy with defined arms. Average face is fine. I am definitely more attracted to a guy's qualities and personality. Open doors for her, compliment her, text her in the AM and PM and you are golden. Best of luck.
/r/seduction21/01/19 09:16 PM
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As a woman, I feel for guys. I really do. I always make a guy feel good even for just trying because I know the set of balls it takes. The right woman will treat you with at least some respect for approaching. Keep it up!
/r/seduction21/01/19 08:37 AM
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What? I really get frustrated with my fellow women sometimes. Personally I know how hard it is to make the first move, especially for guys so i would never make a comment like that. People like that are not worth it and just move on. Sorry that happened to you.
/r/seduction21/01/19 12:55 AM
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Be honest and genuine, the right person will appreciate it and reciprocate.
/r/seduction21/01/19 12:47 AM
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It is subjective but most girls/woman like honesty. So you can say "hey I really like you" and a guy can try to pull a girl closer at the end and if she doesn't resist land a kiss on her. My last date and I are both leaders so we both kind of went for it at the same time lol. Life is too short to regret things like that.
/r/seduction21/01/19 12:45 AM
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People are weird, both men and women. Just move on and learn from it. Next time you meet someone go for it and see what happens. I know it sucks but trust that something better may come along. Best of luck.
/r/seduction20/01/19 10:53 PM
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I am definitely a leader on the first date. I naturally am very confident and I have no problem making the first move. With that being said, a guy with guts to make the first move is a plus. If you are worried about ther saying no she will tell you right away.
/r/seduction20/01/19 10:08 PM
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