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3	To what, if any, degree has modern Feminism been responsible for the steady decrease in men's success financially/romantically/educationally/mentally? Ok What is feminism in the real world? And has that been more damaging than the employment and financial/educational/medical autonomy of women ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 11:09 PM
2	To what, if any, degree has modern Feminism been responsible for the steady decrease in men's success financially/romantically/educationally/mentally? Then please tell us how feminism is like Muslim terrorists No need to be vague or coy!	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 10:55 PM
2	To what, if any, degree has modern Feminism been responsible for the steady decrease in men's success financially/romantically/educationally/mentally? Then please enlighten us all as to what it is and what it has done Because the dictionary is quite clear	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 10:43 PM
-2	Why do women gaslight men over the significance of online dating? Why would women have an advantage? Everyone on there is supposedly available, which used to be the main issue with initial contact in real life — you didn’t know which woman was actually single And men’s problems in OLD are primarily created by men — to start with, the lopsided gender ratio, rude/hostile/lewd messages, and the male technique of spamming contact indiscriminately	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 10:38 PM
1	Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worst Really? When all socialization and available information says the exact opposite? Where are all these prescriptions for men to be meek, fearful doormats?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 10:35 PM
3	To what, if any, degree has modern Feminism been responsible for the steady decrease in men's success financially/romantically/educationally/mentally? Nope. They advised, since many of them were in those fields. After observing reality, I realized they were right. Institututions aren’t guarantees, and whistleblowers are never rewarded. And I was not prepared to spend most of my occupational life fighting and getting hated on That was about 20 years ago. Rape/sexual harassment in the military is still an issue, and STEM/the trades don’t seem any friendlier. Nor are men that much more tolerant/enlightened	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 10:26 PM
6	To what, if any, degree has modern Feminism been responsible for the steady decrease in men's success financially/romantically/educationally/mentally? Nope Women couldn’t get a credit card or loan without their husbands permission until 1974 You could legally be fired for being pregnant until 1978 Marital rape was still legal in the 1990s Women are still required to get their husbands permission to get their tubes tied as of 2020	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 10:24 PM
1	Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worst “all women are like that” And if you have to be told that women don’t like weak, hesitant, fearful men you need way more help than TRP	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 08:44 PM
2	Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worst If you go into individual interactions with the mindset that all x people are y, it doesn’t do you much good. It will just filter y types for you. Also, it will annoy x type people But you do you !	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 07:10 PM
8	To what, if any, degree has modern Feminism been responsible for the steady decrease in men's success financially/romantically/educationally/mentally? It’s not apex fallacy. Only rich women used to be able to be educated, have high paying jobs, hold meaningful amounts of property and wealth, and live alone. Now almost all women can do this, hence male dissatisfaction There’d be more women in trades and similar jobs if there were fewer men. Sexual harassment, sexual assault, isolation, and ostracization are good reasons to avoid such professions, as any female STEM, soldier or trades worker could tell you. I myself was heavily discouraged from …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 07:06 PM
1	Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worst Should they? Or should they try and find an individual who wants them, specifically?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 06:44 PM
1	Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worst Unfortunately, to generalize, it appears that most people in modern western societies choose voluntary relationships — such as partners and friends — on a personal/individual, not general/impersonal, basis That is why most people date, did you know? Otherwise we could swap stat sheets and CVs, or have arranged marriages	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 06:38 PM
5	Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worst This post is defending the use of impersonal generalities while deriding specific, individual personal standards and desires as “virtue signaling” and “redundant” Much like your other post	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 06:15 PM
4	To what, if any, degree has modern Feminism been responsible for the steady decrease in men's success financially/romantically/educationally/mentally? Female employment, financial/legal/medical autonomy, education, and contraceptives are primarily responsible for men’s relative decline in power over them. Equality is such a bummer, I guess Whether you want to lay all of that at feminism’s feet is up to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 06:11 PM
1	Will being attractive get you a better partner? It won’t hurt It’s not a guarantee	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 06:11 PM
11	Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worst I don’t use massive generalities when choosing friends or partners. I interact with them as individuals instead of “male, cis, American, age 29, n count of 8, liberal, mixed ethnicity” And most people don’t care about what other people like. Unless they’re trying to bypass or overcome those preferences. We want people to want to be around us, not pressured, nagged, forced or obligated to be around us. Or at least normal people do	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 06:08 PM
3	Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worst You are not familiar with that phrase? Lol. Let me rephrase: “What a concept /s” Got a rebuttal, or are we going to split more hairs ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 05:50 PM
7	Ppd posters are outliers, their answers are pretty much redundant at best and by the numbers virtue signalling at worst Some of us are looking for an individual who actually likes and wants to be around us — not a number, a role, an obligation, or a filled-out checklist Fancy that	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 05:40 PM
2	Both men and women in relationships are far better off in every metric than those who aren’t. We should acknowledge this It’s in society’s interest to support voluntary reproduction — I accept that, and also know that I can reject it if I want to. You don’t have to do it. Have some backbone — it used to be way, way harder to be single	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 05:39 PM
1	In regards to OLD do you hide what you want because you know you'll get less matches? Why wouldn’t people lie to get what they want ? That is the primary purpose of lying, after all	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 04:12 PM
1	What do men want in women, what do women want in men, and how are these desires different from eachother? According to each gender’s fantasy content, OLD behavior and marriage traditions, men want many hot young partners and women want the best status/wealth partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 04:11 PM
3	q4women in loving long-term relationships: would you keep being in relationship with your SO if he indefinitely stopped being able to work or bring money? Is my relationship transactional ? No	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 04:10 PM
1	How do PPD subscribers deal with boredom? Is the future unofficial polyamory? I think you may be projecting just a tad I’m not bored And people who are able to choose instead of obligated to do x or y are less likely to be bored	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 03:47 PM
3	Both men and women in relationships are far better off in every metric than those who aren’t. We should acknowledge this Of course we do. Marriage and family are pushed everywhere and normalized, especially for women. We swim in a sea of coupledom, as opposed to the old unit of the clan or tribe. Do you not socialize or something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 03:42 PM
1	Whats with all the buzz around confidence Confidence is attractive to women because men will say yes Confidence is unattractive to men because women will say no	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 01:48 AM
1	Really puzzling study shows that women do not find dominance a desirable characteristic in a man when considering him as a potential dating or romantic partner It’s not puzzling if you can explain it away by saying women are liars	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 01:46 AM
1	Most men are part of one of these two groups You guys are taking those “there are two kinds of people” memes too seriously	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 01:45 AM
11	If "men are loyal" and women are opportunistic, how do you explain the concept of "starter girlfriends" and the phenomena of men leaving their SO when they achieve a certain level in life? “Men are loyal” is gaslighting Men are the ones who tell us that they are “dogs” who “can’t help it”, “are as faithful as their options”, “have needs” and “are naturally polygamous” And I respect men enough to believe them when they tell me who they are	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 04:09 PM