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| – | Women are not attracted to men and all major sides of the gender wars already lend support to the notionI’m a bisexual woman who slept around quite a bit when I was younger. And I’ve slept with around the same number of both. I can promise you I’ve been very physically attracted to and experienced physical and mental arousal with every person I’ve slept with. Even when I had multiple partners, I didn’t really prefer having sex with one gender over the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/26 02:03 AM |
| 2 | If she wants you, the sex doesn't matterThis! I have stayed with men who were not the most attractive longer than I should have because the sex was good. I also contemplated leaving my now husband who has always gotten plenty of female attention, two years into dating, because the actual sex was going downhill even though I still got wet when he kissed me. But when I told him that, he said let’s work on it and we did a lot of talking about the kinks we were into it, reading on it, bringing it to our bedroom and talking about what we l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 08:31 PM |
| 2 | If she wants you, the sex doesn't matterWhat kind of stupid logic is this? The way my husband eats me out has everything to do with how fast I can cum. The same way the way I give him a blowjob has everything to do with how fast he cums. We have sex multiple times a week and we both initiate about the same amount but there are things he does that gets me to cum quicker. And there are things I do that makes him come quick. But we don’t do them every single time because sometimes we want longer play sessions. Even when I was on a SSRI, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 08:00 PM |
| 6 | Do women really sleep with the “hot guys” first and marry the average ones later?This. For all of my one night stands, the driver behind it was that I was horny and wanted sex. That’s it. And if a guy was attractive enough to arouse me and could hold a conversation, I was sold. I didn’t really care about anything else. Not even height because I’m never going to see him again after that one encounter. In contrast, I’m a lot more pickier with men I date. My now husband and I started as a ONS that turned into a fwb. And he absolutely didn’t want anything else in the beginning w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.Good luck with med school!! It’s tough but so worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.Funny you use surgeons because both my husband and I are doctors. Not surgery but oncology and ER. But to answer your question, yes it does. My job has a lot of unknowns and is unpredictable and that’s why I chose it. But honestly what helps most with my relationship and I think ultimately why we work is because we have a very adventurous sex life. We’re strictly monogamous but we’ve explored and like a a lot of different things. Most of the time my husband decides what we do and that gives me t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do you demand empathy/sympathy from men? What do you think will change?The only men I want empathy from are from the men in my family I’m close to, my 2 close guy friends and my husband. Because I sympathize/empathize with them and that’s what we do for our loved ones. All of them have known me for at least 7 years now and I have supported them emotionally and with resources through hard life events so I don’t think it’s something odd to ask in return. The people, of both genders, in my life incapable of empathizing with me are kept as acquaintances or friends at t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 01:14 PM |
| 7 | Women Are Completely Fine With Admitting that they are a Monolith - Provided that the Generalization is not UnflatteringSure. It’s just most victims are women so it gets co opted as a women’s issue. Same thing with breast cancer. Men can get breast cancer but there are more women with breast cancer than men so it gets co opted. Same thing with young men having less relationships or having sex and feeling lonely. There are more men than women that go through it so I’m never going to deride men’s rights activists for co opting it. There are not many things that every single person in a community or societal group i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.I was just supporting shadowrangerfs point about nice guys sometimes being turned down for non superficial reasons with my experiences. But personally, I think both genders are kind of shit at picking partners. My husband and I are both physicians(ER and oncology) and there have been a lot of couples we’ve seen where I couldn’t help but wonder why their significant other can’t see the red flags and why choose to stay. Women with physically abusive or narcissist men, men with verbally or emotiona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:57 AM |
| 7 | What are the signs that a man is genuinely desired and not just settled for as the "safe guy"?I was a hoe in college but I was also tall, extroverted, very good at school and ambitious while being a sorority girl. Probably also helped that I had nice boobs. My husband also fucked around a lot and we actually stated as a fwb. But we love each other and have stayed together through financial issues, long distance, family deaths and both of us in med school back to back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.I can also answer this. I grew up in a very emotionally volatile environment. I was so used to having constant adrenaline rushes from being around constant fighting and yelling. So when I was in stable relationships and the honeymoon phase was over, it started feeling boring. That’s expected but because I associated love with adrenaline growing up (my parents love each other and their kids a fuck ton regardless of the fighting) that I was unconsciously seeking it out in my romantic relationships… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.This. I went on many 3+ dates with plenty of good men when I was single in college. But things didn’t work out because of a plethora of reasons. Sometimes it was because we had different opinions on kids, taking care of elderly parents, different career goals etc. Other times it was because there was no connection past the surface level. And a couple of times it was because we were not sexually compatible. All of those men are great people and the couple of them I kept in contact with are now ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 04:00 AM |
| 1 | How did you meet the last 5 guys you had sex withAs you should. I also married my tinder fwb! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How did you meet the last 5 guys you had sex with22-27 and tinder, frat party, tinder, friend of a friend, house party | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 08:21 PM |
| 4 | The overwhelming majority of women don't initiate or make the first moves because they are cowards.1) I haven’t needed to. I approached my ex boyfriend senior year of high school but that was the only guy I’ve had to make a first move on. When I was single, usually smiling and holding eye contact at the bar meant that the guy was gonna approach me 7/10 times. Or men have just cold approached me at other social events. The rest of the time when I’m in public for non social things, I’m so caught up in my own mind and tasks that I don’t really register peoples faces. And I averaged a couple of h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 03:39 AM |
| 2 | The Reason why Men can act like sluts but Women can't is because of WomenI wrote that at like 2 in the morning after a day of clinical rotations so that’s probably why the writing is off tbh. But what I said in it is true to my experiences. Both my husband and I have lived in the Northeast, close to or either in NYC and Boston, our whole lives so there’s definitely going to be variation in societal attitudes surrounding sex based on where in the US you’re located. I feel like people here are a lot more liberal/open minded when it comes to sex. Plus there’s a large am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 06:37 AM |
| 2 | The Reason why Men can act like sluts but Women can't is because of WomenI genuinely have no reason to lie lmao. I’m sorry it’s hard for you to believe that some men are fine with their partners having high body counts in real life. My husband has had more sex partners I had so it’s never been a problem for him. Plus, I am a final year MD PhD student so we have very similar ambitions and lifestyles which is ultimately why we worked out. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 05:39 AM |
| 8 | The Reason why Men can act like sluts but Women can't is because of WomenI have a body count between 15-20 and it’s pretty much never been a problem for me when trying to find dates. I am also brown and I’ve had guys of all races including brown guys interested in dating me. When I was in college and on dating apps, it was mostly to find fwbs and I actually ran into quite a few guys who ended up wanting to date/become exclusive after fucking around with me for a couple of months. Anyways, I ended up saying yes to dating one of those fwbs and now he’s my husband lol. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 07:52 AM |
| 1 | LVM saying they prefer non-virgins but yet claiming to be “secure” is counterintuitive.You were “bragging” about being a resident in some of your other comments. Does that make you less secure or does that only apply to women? I’m secure in my choices and my family. And I am far from the most impressive in my family (my mom and uncle are both DVM PhDs and my sister has a JD from an Ivy) so I’ve never felt the need to compete by the letters after my name. And I know I have good values. My mom made damn sure both my sister and I did. Plus, my husband chose me for those values and my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Men who cannot handle rejection from women, and women who cannot handle judgement from men, would do best to avoid pursuing relationships until they can.My husband doesn’t really care about my past that much. He obviously doesn’t want to hear any details but we both whored around plenty in our college days so he doesn’t really have a leg to stand on. And I don’t know why any man I dated would’ve had a double standard where it’s ok for them to sleep with multiple people but not me. Especially considering that I was more than fine with splitting everything 50/50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 07:38 AM |
| 13 | LVM saying they prefer non-virgins but yet claiming to be “secure” is counterintuitive.I guess I’m a bad role model for little girls just because I’ve slept with multiple people. Forget the PhD and soon to be MD after my name. Or that I’ve been published in some really high impact journals. Or the fact that I’ve successfully mentored 15+ younger students into going to med school/academia/getting published during my time as a grad student. Or the fact that I’m happily married to a “high value man” (6ft, gym bro, blonde hair, blue eyed extroverted fellow resident) and have regularly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 07:25 AM |
| 1 | LVM saying they prefer non-virgins but yet claiming to be “secure” is counterintuitive.I guess I’m a bad role model for little girls just because I’ve slept with multiple people. Forget the PhD and soon to be MD after my name. Or that I’ve been published in some really high impact journals. Or the fact that I’ve successfully mentored 15+ younger students into going to med school/academia/getting published during my time as a grad student. Or the fact that I’m happily married to a “high value man” (6ft, gym bro, blonde hair, blue eyed extroverted fellow resident) and have regularly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 07:24 AM |
| 1 | LVM saying they prefer non-virgins but yet claiming to be “secure” is counterintuitive.I guess I’m a bad role model for little girls just because I’ve slept with multiple people. Forget the PhD and soon to be MD after my name. Or that I’ve been published in some really high impact journals. Or the fact that I’ve successfully mentored 15+ younger students into going to med school/academia/getting published during my time as a grad student. Or the fact that I’m happily married to a “high value man” (6ft, gym bro, blonde hair, blue eyed extroverted fellow resident) and have regularly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 07:24 AM |
| 7 | Why do women dislike the bottom 50% of men?I think online spaces attract the most anxiety ridden inside dwellers across all spectra whether it be gender, race, religion, political views or whatever else. And these people don’t rub their two brain cells together before typing and hitting post on stupid, hypocritical shit. But irl, it’s pretty different. I was a sorority girl in college(I graduated in the last 4 years) and even there, for the most part, girls just said “I want a guy taller than me” or “I only go out with guys over x height… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:18 AM |
| 3 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalI mean, I enjoyed ACOTAR but if anyone acted like that towards me or my loved ones like how people in that book do, I’m running for the hills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchalThis is true. I have a pretty dominant personality in my day to day life but I tend to be more submissive in bed. But even then, I don’t feel like I’m truly “submitting” in the traditional sense because I hold a lot of the power there. The moment I use my safeword or safe gesture, everything ends. Zero questions asked. And having that control and assurance is the reason why I’m even comfortable being that vulnerable. Idk if that makes sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 04:35 AM |
| 10 | Prison for non-payment of child support should be abolished, and if someone can't or won't pay it, the state should just pay it instead of prosecuting the non-payerThat is what most states do. You only end up in prison for not paying CS if you do work under the table or fudge the books/not report the right income to the IRS, which at that point is fraud and that’s what the charges are. Or if they flee the state or country solely not to pay CS. As far as I know federal statues and most state statues(atleast on the east coast) only mention jail time for “willful non payment” which includes evading wage garnishment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Straight women who do not want to date bisexual men, what are your reasons?The gay STD panic is gross. While certain STDs tend to be more prevalent in mlm communities, there’s a higher correlation of STDs to risky sexual behavior(condom-less sex with multiple partners). You have a pretty equal of chance of getting an STD from straight men as with bi men if you’re having sex with no condoms. Maybe not HIV but trust me when I say chlamydia/gonorrhea and syphilis are no jokes. Everyone, regardless of sexuality, should really be insisting on using condoms with short term s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/25 09:06 AM |
| 8 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?Well, I know how long my phone is so I use that to get a relative idea lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 02:01 PM |
| 5 | Theory: hookup culture is an example of the paradox of choiceI don’t really care. My fiancé and I met each other in our last years of college and we both had 10+ sexual partners at the time. It’s never really bothered either of us because sexual compatibility was very important for us before we fully committed to each other because we’ve had previous LTRs where everything else was compatible except for sex. Plus our past experiences have taught both of us exactly what we like and how to best pleasure each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/25 05:07 AM |
| 3 | One of women's biggest advantage: In-group biasHmm funny you say that because I spent my pre teen and teen years in 2010’s and by that time, there was a lot of emphasis on female empowerment and appreciating women for being women. I wonder if it was just a changing trend or if it’s just the effect of growing up in Massachusetts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/25 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Modern Dating Woes are due to TechnologyDo you also believe that you should only be a legal adult at 21? Because you cannot expect 18-20 year olds be mature enough to fight and die for their country, be able to operate machinery that can kill 1000s, and face adult legal consequences while at the same time not be mature enough to have the basic civic right of voting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 08:04 AM |
| 7 | If most women who claim to be afraid of the potential threat men pose to their lives were sincere, they wouldn’t feel emboldened to mock, berate, or taunt men online, especially men who express sentiment from a socially/romantically unsuccessful perspectivePeople on the internet, regardless of gender, say things that they would not utter in real life. That’s nothing new and women are not immune to it. I try very hard to not be belittling or condescending even online but I will not stop calling out people on horrendous opinions or expressing my thoughts just to appease some peoples mental state. Basing your behavior irl heavily by online discourse just shows me that you’re not mature enough. Mature and well adjusted adults regardless of gender shou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 10:14 AM |
| 3 | What age ranges do you have on dating apps?When I was 20 and in college, I had it set from 18-27. And I’ve gone out with men in that entire range but my husband is a year younger than me and we met on aforementioned dating app . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 02:25 PM |
| 8 | My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time jobI am an ambitious person so I expect my partner to be an ambitious person. I know that I most likely will out earn my partner as a physician but I’d still like them to be ambitious about their own career and financial goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 05:19 PM |
| 7 | Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers.Yes and each of those tests requires a signed consent form from the mother. It’s going to be hell to try and get people to agree to let the government or any other entity have their biological data. Especially in an age where there not very many protections surrounding it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 10:03 AM |
| 8 | Paternity fraud is DV and women who oppose paternity tests are abusers.Uh yeah. If my husband had asked for a paternity test after I spent 22 hours in labor with our daughter and we cried when we held her and introduced her to our families, it would’ve broken my heart. Not only because it’s a soft core accusation of cheating, all I would’ve thought about it is why hold my baby and cry when you meet her if you’re not genuine in your love for her and in the back of your mind want to “confirm” she’s yours. So was all that an act? Right after giving birth is an emotion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 09:59 AM |
| 5 | Would you date an Ai with a real human body?I’m a physician and a microbiologist by trade and I don’t see how this AI could be biologically even possible to have hormones or bear children. Let’s say you’re using a “meat suit” but replacing the brain with AI, you’re still gonna need a human woman’s cells to act as scaffolding for your initial project. Lots of ethical considerations and issues there. Furthermore, you’re gonna need to figure out a way for your AI to have human eggs to reproduce. Human women are born with all the eggs we’ll e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winThey very well could like we saw with Roe v. Wade but it would be a lot more complicated and harder unlike overturning Roe. Roe v. Wade was based on due process and right to privacy and it was overturned because the court ruled that abortion was not mentioned in the constitution and because it was not “deeply rooted in this Nation’s history and tradition” and “implicit in the concept of ordered liberty.” Prayer in schools is complicated because we are guaranteed freedom of religion in the First … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winThere are some things that are federal laws. States cannot make laws that contradict federal law as that would be violating the constitution. That is why states cannot pass bills that prevent gay marriage(because SCOTUS overturned Baker v. Nelson in ruling that states denying marriage licenses or refusing to recognize same sex marriages from other jurisdictions as unconstitutional in Obergefell v. Hodges). Trans rights are kind of a grey area. Sex and gender identity are protected classes federa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 04:25 AM |
| 14 | Men need to work actively against women's rights for their issues to be take seriously.I don’t get this mentality at all. I saw the things that you said are unequal and want changed and I agree with pretty much all of that list. But I don’t see how threatening rights of women are gonna get any of the issues solved. Because first, women are recognized under our amendments as having equal rights as men. A change requires 2/3 of congress or 2/3 of states to ratify it. Idk how the hell you’re gonna convince a capitalist system to turn against almost 50% of its labor and consumer base.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Not placing unrealistically high standards on women is causing the dating crisisProbably still doesn’t make as much as me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Why can't fkboys simply be non-negociable?Nah I think a fuckboy is a guy that will say anything to get into a woman’s pants. I’ve never thought of a guy that was very clear about only wanting something casual from the start as a fuckboy. A fuckboy uses you by making you emotionally attached which is what makes them “dangerous”. If a guy is straight up with me about only wanting sex and an interesting conversation, I won’t invest any emotional energy into him and no harm no foul, we just have a good night or fwb. I might choose to engage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Boycotting sex with men won't work..Well dobbs did move the needle. Briefly. The “red wave” didn’t happen last midterms because of high voter turnout all across the country directly following the Dobbs decision. And abortion bans have failed on ballots in even really red states, one just failed in Missouri on Tuesday and the one in Florida got majority vote at 58% but only failed because Florida needs 60% for a constitutional change to pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Boycotting sex with men won't work..LMAO, this is actually so fucking funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winNo to understand how to respond. No matter the state of presidential elections in the future, we will have midterm elections in two years. Being able to understand why virtually every single county in this country swung more right than it has in 30 years is what’s gonna give Dems an edge to try and reclaim congress. That is assuming they get their heads out of their ass and actually coalesce and do something. There are some things that Dems can learn from how well the GOP has organized itself ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | What is the appropriate response for a gamer bf/husband to his woman that protests his hobby?My fiancée and I play stardew valley together and have a coop farm. But a lot of the time, he plays Elden ring and I just give him company by crocheting and watching/talking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Recent School Shooting - why was the mother not charged?His parents are going through a divorce and he stayed with his father while his siblings stayed with their mother. Furthermore, it’s alleged that his father gave him the gun as a present in December 2023 and his mother and maternal side of family has been in talks with the school/alerted the school about the kids’ mental status. Local police records obtained by CBS News indicated that Gray's parents were going through a messy divorce around that time, with his mother taking custody of two other … | /r/MensRights | 08/09/24 08:31 AM |
| 2 | I recently saw someone’s post on a therapist not being informed on male sexual abuse which inspired me to post this. Male sexual abuse isn’t recognized by the field of psychology and psychiatry.Hi, I’m a hotline counselor for RAINN and I don’t know exactly who you spoke to but if you can give me a your county and state, I should be able to connect you to resources local to you. All RAINN counselors have this information available to them if you told them your general area. I apologize on behalf of my colleagues if we weren’t able to connect you with the right resources. We have a lot of male survivors that use the hotline and we’re constantly finding areas to improve on. I will definit… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/24 08:24 AM |
| 3 | University if Missouri has Women-Only DormsYes, unless you go to the small fraction of schools that are super religious or women’s/men’s only colleges, most universities have mixed dorms. My alma matter had one women’s only and one men’s only dorm. One of the dorms was co ed but sex segregated by floor. Everything else was just a mix of girls and guys on the same floor | /r/MensRights | 29/05/24 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Feminist song and dance around circumcisionThis is funny to me as a woman who could be considered to be a feminist. When I was pregnant with my son, I was against circumcision and it was my husband that rallied hard for it. God, we had so many arguments about it but I stood my ground and we came to the compromise that we’ll pay for our kiddo to get circumcised if he tells us he wants it after he’s older than 16. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 07:09 PM |
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