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Your preferences are based on ignorance, Not really. They're based on observation. You think I don't know people who have dated older men? This is coming straight from the source 🤣 I’m going to call you out on it. Call me out? On the fact that I don't want to date old dudes? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:27 AM
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the majority of humans did something a certain way for most of history, there’s probably a good reason for it. And I would argue that there’s actually far more people today doing weird shit in the name of thumbing their nose at tradition. We didn't believe in germs until 150 years ago. By your logic, there's good reason to stick to the 4 humours theory of medicine and use leeches to cure illness 😬😂 You realize there’s more to history than just the past century, right? Human civilization is about…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:17 AM
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I'm not southeast Asian so I can't speak. orgasm too quickly Never had a problem with that personally. act childish, look less masculine Disagree personally can't afford basic dates Ew. I mean there's broke old dudes but I've never met a guy at any age who couldn't afford dinner...if he was looking for a relationship at least. give poor advice Disagree again personally no stories This is def untrue for me. My husband and I stayed up for 3 nights straight telling stories when we met 😂 spin plates…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:08 AM
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gross because you envision gross men. Thats about as obvious as can be No, I still don't want to date any of those dudes you mentioned. I looked them up, they're too old for me. And I'm not into older men. can envision a gross 50 year old woman too. But I can also envision a voluptuous 50 year old milf with huge boobs, big ass, and fit body. Good for you? Idk what to say few that don’t represent the attractive older people. Yes I have been attracted to older women many times, and I’ve also seen …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:05 AM
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Lmao what's your point sweetie? Cuz I don't see nothing but bs 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:02 AM
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Less than me but definitely enough. We're a few years into our careers now tho. We were both pretty broke when we met haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:00 AM
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I'm stating my preference. You seem to be offended that I don't want to fuck old men. You still don't have a response tho 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:00 AM
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To me it's a red flag if a guy doesn't have experience by his 20s yeah. Everyone I've met started in high school age if not like 7th grade age. And I've lived in quite a few countries 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:59 AM
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My husband was broke when we met. He was still amazing and we fell in love. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:55 AM
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women are attracted to experience, confidence, status etc It depends on the woman. Personally I was attracted to my husband's similar level of experience to mine. If there was a huge difference in experience I would not want to be with him for several reasons. As for status, idgaf about that. When my husband and I met we were both broke uni students. all things that take time to accumulate He was perfectly confident and we were quite young when we met 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:10 AM
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obviously you don't speak for all women Never claimed to pal, try harder i'd rather be single than date women who call other women 'bro' but i don't project that opinion onto all men. Um...what? OK bruv 😂 some women date older guys, even if it's not common. they clearly don't share your perspective I never said some women don't do this, did I?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:08 AM
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I don't care about these random hot Hollywood men you're talking about. Because most men aren't those men. And realistically, I'm not going to meet, let alone date, someone of that level of hotness in everyday life 😂 I'm stating my opinion, which is that older men aren't attractive sexually to me. They're fine as people, but I can think of no reason to date one. It's just gross thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:06 AM
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Bruh I'm from one of these "non western cultures" and think it's just as weird as it is. Which is a lot. My grandmother was married at 18 to a 35 year old. She hated it and him and was miserable. We all think it's creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:04 AM
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Can’t drink as much? Guess I’m a freak then because I can drink a lot more now than I ever could when I was in college. I used to get drunk off beer in college; now I drink exclusively liquor and can never get more than a buzz and I can’t remember the last time I had a hangover. Lmaooo drunk off beer in college? Goddamn, I haven't seen someone get drunk off of beer since I was 14 🤣 Athletic sex”? Tf are you doing that requires elite athleticism? Lmao bruh did I say elite? ho tf are these frail, …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 12:02 AM
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use a word like “historical” and then reference shit from only 100 years ago Bro...why don't you provide a source denying it? You're the one that made a claim in the first place 🤣 nothing from an historical perspective; that’s basically still modernity. Source? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:54 PM
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Literally almost all of them Huh? All of who? Most 20yo dudes are skinny, poor, can’t dress well, and are often obnoxiously immature. Yikes it sounds like you don't hang around a good crowd 🤣 All I know is I’m bigger, stronger, wealthier, and more mature now in my mid-30s than I was in my early 20s. OK sure. Assuming all of this is true (which I doubt), a 35 or 40 year old still has much more baggage from previous relationships, likely kids and possibly an ex wife, and I'm (and most 20 something…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:53 PM
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Your condolences huh? I'll be sure to pass it on. By the way I've never claimed to be a feminist, nor do I have pink hair. Not my style 🤭😂 But it's funny how you make these assumptions simply because I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:12 PM
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Most well adjusted men don't, you're definitely right. Because the well adjusted ones are able to date adults. And teen pregnancy is HORRIBLE for the mothers health! I believe peak times for a baby are mid 20s to early 30s!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:06 PM
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Me too haha my husband and most of our friends are either out of college and at good paying jobs or went the trade route and making bank. And were early 20s. I don't really see the appeal of financial stability if it comes attached to an old weirdo 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:37 PM
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Ew tbh. Call me old fashioned but I'd much rather earn my way than suck grandpa dick 🤮🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:35 PM
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I believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:34 PM
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It's not even true either. The historical age for women's first marriage was much higher. Nobility were married off young. He's spouting bullshit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:33 PM
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Similar story haha. It's so pathetic that they think that because we have opinions, we'll be single and alone forever 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:22 PM
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Lmao I'm married but good try 🥺🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:12 PM
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There’s a reason that in most traditional cultures, the age of marriage for men is late 20s/early Traditional doesn't mean shit 😂 there are people doing weird shit in the name of tradition. Don't make it true or valid. Next please Women, meanwhile, are typically married off in their mid to late teens, because that is when they have the most potential value. Actually, historically, the age of women's first marriage was mid 20s. Mostly nobility were married young. Here's a source: https://www.bgsu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:12 PM
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any man who even halfway tries to take care of himself is going to be more attractive at 40 than he was at 20. Idk what 20 year olds that you hung around that got more hot as they got older 🤣 but this is not true. Metabolism slows down in one's early 30s. 30 and 40 year old men can't sustain physical fitness as easily, can't fuck as well or as hard, can't drink as much, can't stay out all night. Why would I want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:07 PM
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Good for you then. Lots of people glow up in some way. But I wouldn't be attracted to a 40yo no matter how "hot" they are, because they're 40 and they're older and that inherently means less hot. At 40, you can't drink as much. You can't have athletic sex, you probably have kids or some other baggage like an ex wife, you can't pick a woman up and throw her against the wall without throwing out ya back, etc. 😂 do I need to go on? Young men are more often than not pimply, skinny, poor, and don’t k…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:04 PM
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What about a fit 40yo A man in his 20s is just way hotter, tho. This is just my opinion. No wrinkles, no dad bod, he can drink more, the sex is more athletic. And he doesn't have kids or a wife or baggage. Male prime is 30s-40s. Ew. I'm in my 20s and wouldn't be caught dead with a man over 30. It's just nasty. 40 is how old my parents were when they became grandparents (sisters kids) 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:58 PM
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Bro they are so gross too! I have nothing in common with a man more than 10 years older and it is BENEATH me to pretend to like him for cash! It's just sad that men think they get hotter as they age. Like I would rather be celibate than fuck a 40 year old tbh. And if I had to choose between a 40 year old and a 23 year old? No contest 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:48 PM
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De Nrio and Pacino fathering children with women young enough to be their granddaughters If they're willing to suck old man dick for a famous baby, I guess good for them? But I don't see how it's enjoyable. Why would I want someone PAST his prime when I can have someone in his prime? 25 year old man is an infinitely better lay, boyfriend, partner, etc., than 75 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:42 PM
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Younger women are objectively more attractive than older ones. But so are younger men. It doesn't even COMPARE how ugly old men are compared to one in his 20s. Why would I, in my 20s, want to date a used up father or grandpa when I can date a guy with abs and a full head of hair 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:35 PM
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"women with ASD might present less pronounced social and communication deficits and have special interests that are more compatible to the interests of their peer groups.33-36 Furthermore, women with ASD seem to apply coping strategies, such as imitating the social skills of their non-ASD peers, therefore being more socially unobtrusive" Sounds like we just try harder than men 😂🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:22 PM
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this ostracizing begins extremely early and doesn’t get better for a lot of reasons. It might not get better if you don't learn to blend in socially never suffering consequences for autistic behavior, isn’t one of them. Lmao I actually was in group therapy as a kid with a guy who had autism. His dad CONSTANTLY got pissy with the therapist for "criticising" his obviously disruptive behaviour...it's definitely excused in boys. In preschool I was attacked by an autistic boy and NOTHING happened cuz…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:19 PM
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how would the man who's being rejected ever know? How is he supposed to figure out what to fix? If they were honest and clear about why, although I agree that "fixing yourself" for one women's preferences doesn't make you universally appealing, if you got some kind of consensus across a number of women then that would probably be a good start. I mean if people rejecting you aren't telling someone, they can alwahs go to friends and family and ask them what they could've done better. Get a baselin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:17 PM
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If you genuinely don't know and nobody will tell you, you might be making people too uncomfortable to give you the reason why tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:15 PM
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Realistically, they'll won't all have the exact same reasons, and "fixing" yourself to appeal to one woman who already rejected you might make it so the next woman rejects you. There are only so many reasons why EVERY woman rejects someone. Find the common denominator 😂 There are an infinite number of wrong guesses and all of us only have a finite amount of time. It's not infinite though. Lots of things are unattractive to a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:14 PM
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Cuz they actually try
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:13 PM
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Lmao sounds like you're just not trying and wanna blame it on gender
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:23 PM
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I mean personally, submissiveness is unattractive to me, but that goes for both men and women. vastly outnumber dominant women. Where is this info coming from? masculine women tend to prefer even stronger men and are even more disgusted by submissive men than feminine women are. Where are you getting this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:45 PM
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attitudes like that you're not. Lol objectively tho yea we are, did you not read the study 😂😂 there's reasons we date more empathetic OK and? Empathy wasn't part of this conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:13 PM
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"women with ASD might present less pronounced social and communication deficits and have special interests that are more compatible to the interests of their peer groups. Furthermore, women with ASD seem to apply coping strategies, such as imitating the social skills of their non-ASD peers, therefore being more socially unobtrusive" It sounds like we're just better than men with autism 🥰😂 why would I have sympathy for someone who doesn't even try
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:00 PM
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significant percentage of men are either passive or submissive and they will struggle to satisfy a submissive woman. So they should date dominant women. I guess I don't see the issue here Practice isn't going to make up for low testosterone. I mean fair ig I won't argue with you here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:58 AM
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enforcing traditional masculinity via "whiny men" and refusing to accept human suffering as even existing in the romantic sphere for men. So more or less reality denial. If a woman was complaining about this, I'd think she's a whiny little bitch too. repeated social rejection especially romantic rejection damages mental health outcomes and can lead to mental illness, since you have trouble articulating other perspectives Where's your source on this? continued refusal to validate a real human exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:13 PM
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doesn't qualify you to issue any recommendations based on it. Do you think reading the Merck manual makes you a doctor as well? I never claimed I was qualified to diagnose or make recommendations. This entire time I've been expressing my opinions, which you don't seem to understand 😂 must have a pretty bad understanding of the term to seriously contend that sustained environmental stressors can't lead to mental illness. You're saying that being single leads to mental illness? Having no luck with…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:02 PM
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Good try but your feelings aren't facts 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:41 PM
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Lol I can see why you're insecure. It's exhausting to even think about interacting with you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:37 PM
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your Insecurity Which is...? Men accept that they are infact shallow. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:35 PM
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Do you think you have any grasp on what that is? Unless you have an MD I'll clue you in: you don't. I've read the DSM V, so yeah, I do know what it is. I'm guessing you haven't read it. It details every medically recognised, diagnosible mental illness. And being a lonely sadboi who has no game isn't one of them 😂 Not being able to find romantic companionship or feel desired and validated in a crucial aspect of life can't cause mental illness? Prove that it can if you're recommending people see a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:34 PM
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And you're spouting bullshit you can't back up. What's your point, dipshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:31 PM
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How is it then? Let's hear a detailed explanation with sources. I'm being serious, I'm genuinely curious what your reasoning is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:03 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:03 PM
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Lmao 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:03 PM
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Yes but it's not impossible. Social skills can be learned just like any other skill. We just have to put in more work. certainly give them more slack. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 08:02 PM
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Different rules for you Source? stats What stats
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:29 PM
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autism is preventing me from having normal interactions with other people, resulting in many obvious downstream problems. my head is unable to work fast enough socially to follow any sort of flow of conversation. I struggled with this a lot so I understand where you're coming from. I was born into a huge family so I think that being forced into so many social situations throughout my childhood has allowed me to mask better. I am sorry you're dealing with this. It sucks to feel overwhelmed in sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 07:14 PM
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Lol if you had specified who 'they' and 'you' are I almost could've replied but you're not worth my time tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:49 PM
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it’s not literally what you said, but it’s the broader theme of course . Except it's not. Good try tho 😂 Sometimes I forget to use layman’s terms. I forget some folks don’t know a lot of words. Lol good one. Your paragraph still doesn't read tho 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:47 PM
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Hmm that's a good question. The first thing that comes to mind is being able to be in the rain without being in sensory overload and pain. As far as long term goals or aspirations, I don't believe autism can prevent me from achieving anything - unless it requires me to get rid of sensory issues or the way my brain works. It's an obstacle, not a road closure. But something tells me you're asking this in bad faith and no matter what I say, it's not going to be "good enough" of an answer for you. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:46 PM
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Sorry you struggle with social interactions buddy 🥺 Are you autistic? Cuz if you're not you really can't comment on my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:29 PM
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Men can’t be dissatisfied with their life or circumstances or something is mentally wrong with them. Except that's literally not what I said 😂 That’s why they tell you to seek therapy. You struggle because something is literally wrong with you that needs correcting. Couldn’t possibly be because socioeconomic status quo. What? This doesn't English 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:28 PM
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Idk why they said that haha I am actually autistic and it really doesn't take that much effort to pretend to be "normal" most of the time, once you get enough practise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:23 PM
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Ohh no, the men are closed off, repressed and depressed, why won’t they express themselves and be vulnerable “ Maybe they should see a therapist😂 Not being able to get a date is not the same as real mental illness but good try 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:22 PM
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Lol imagine thinking it's shallow to want a fit partner 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:19 PM
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People just don’t like to hear men complain about not getting dates is all. No shit, who likes to hear grown men whine about that? It's pathetic there’s a huge industry for listening to women complain about the boyfriends and husbands they picked. Which is?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:18 PM
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Lmao I'm actually autistic and still managed to improve enough to make friends and get in relationships 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:16 PM
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How is it the woman's fault that another dude is better in bed? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:14 PM
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She's shredding your "arguments" dude🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:14 PM
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a lot of it is skill, and some are guaranteed to be inherently better at sex than others no matter how much you practice, just like with other skills. What determines this, according to you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:13 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:09 PM
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, it doesn't get better than after a dozen times. Sounds like you're bad at sex😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:09 PM
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I feel like if you've been getting rejected nonstop for YEARS then either you know why or you're just oblivious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:54 PM
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you underestimate just how pathetic most men are. Most men dont have options and the only time they can experience intimacy or the illusion of being wanted is through a relationship with the promise or possibility of marriage. That doesn't sound like anyone's problem but their own tbh been told that just by how dating works, the fact that women have to gauge if they'll give a guy "a chance" or if its not a cold approach how he ranks in the hierarchy of the dudes around him. If he interacts well …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:47 AM
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Just because your their type, still don't make you a 10/10 for them. Whose type? Lmao i never claimed to be a 10 to anyone except maybe my husband lol women care sooo much that they are viewed at the Top of the Top which drives people insane. What the fuck are you talking about 😂 they aren't the absolute best athletes, they aren't the absolute best employee, they are the absolute best friends, and like wise they aren't the absolute more physical attractive so why does the last one matter so flip…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:17 AM
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always viewed him as a possible relationship candidate because you didnt outright disqualify him. There is no in between for women. Lmao what?! I wasn't even single when we met. Of course I disqualified him for quite some time, I was only interested in my bf at the time. And when I was single we both dated others...I didn't view him as a possibility until like a week before we started dating. If I had, I would've made a move 😂 most women find most men ugly or below average meaning. Women mostly …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:44 PM
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if you have kids, generally one person is going to be more able to do kid stuff and one person is going to be more able to make money Interesting point. Do you know if there are studies relating to this kind of thing? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:50 PM
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Why does it matter that I care? It doesn't, I was just curious. Personally I can't imagine caring about it, but I'm sure that I care about things that others might not understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:48 PM
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This is a very sane answer Tbh beyond the first year where the mother obviously HAS to do more childcare (breastfeeding), there's NO reason why childcare shouldn't be split 50/50 in a relationship where both work full-time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:29 PM
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Why is that humble bragging lmao Bouncers have a shitty job to do, especially where we worked 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:42 PM
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Lmao huh? What on earth is bragg-y about what I said? I'm providing some theories about why women like that shit I'm saying it makes no sense to me and made a fucking joke 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:16 PM
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why do women need to see other women being attracted to the person they feel attracted to? I personally don't like men in relationships (I think it's tacky to hit on another woman's man) But - if a guy is single, (especially desperately so), there is likely a reason why that's got something to do with him/his behaviour If a guy is in a relationship, someone else thought he was okay enough to date and he's more likely to not be a psycho Just my 2 cents
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:15 PM
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But they're only prettier to YOU 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:01 PM
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I think the reasoning might come from it "proving" the man's strength/protectiveness but this is just me spitballing tbh What do I know about protection tho tbh, my husband is a 6'7" ex-bouncer 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:56 PM
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Lmao why would anything lower my value? The right man values me for no reason other than he loves me and that's all that matters. But when I was single, it didn't really matter either tbh bc any man that had preferences that were not me wasn't worth my time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:53 PM
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inflated self-rating? Why does it matter if it's inflated tho 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:51 PM
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Plenty of women find the general life advice of “nice” behavior unattractive Source? it spawned a whole genre of dating advice revolving around how to strategically not be nice to spike women’s emotions and get her invested Lmao what , this advice is effective when done well and will score men results leagues above just “being nice to women” the way they were taught to. Source? it’s creepy, primarily because it’s unattractive guys who do it. I've already covered this. It's creepy because they ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:42 PM
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obviously, no one owes anyone anything. But for some people, being themselves isn’t enough. Then they should be single. End of when being yourself isn’t enough, you look towards the external factors, the behavior or a systematic approach towards relationships and people, almost analytically. This really doesn't work tho. The problem isn't that being nice means you owe them sex, it's that nice isn't sexy or isn't enough. Nice is absolutely sexy to a lot of women. Myself included. . Attraction is …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:40 PM
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Well that's good on them then? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:26 PM
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viewed as competent in relationships/as the prize unless he is an 8 to 10 in looks or sometimes when they are rich. Well, yeah, why would someone below an 8 or someone whos not successful be viewed as a prize 😂😂 Women don't pick the 6 because they've gotten the attention of the 8 or 10 and have rose tinted glasses on. I mean all things equal (personality included) why would anyone pick the 6 over a 10? It's just basic math. I understand that I said I'd pick an 8 with a better personality but all…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:26 PM
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Lmao how the fuck am I supposed to tell through text bruv 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:07 PM
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lot of disillusioned people on here and they literally don’t realize that many people have healthy, normal relationships Exactly! And they assume that there are these absolute truths to dating and relationships, as if everyone doesn't have a completely unique life experience 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:49 PM
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Lol entitled people come in all shapes and sizes. Whether a guy claims to be "nice" and is actually a creep has NOTHING to do with his physical appearance 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:46 PM
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being an upstanding nice person would get them rewarded in the dating market. I mean it low-key does though. resentment at being lied to. It doesn't matter where it comes from, it's creepy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:37 PM
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how would they compensate for lack of looks? You're saying that no hot people are nice? I don't know, maybe by being interesting or having a personality 😂 being nice is part of the “work” you have to do to gain sex Except this is where they become creepy. No one owes you sex for being nice don’t get paid whereas some people don’t work and get paid. Seeing t The world is unfair mote news at 7
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:52 PM
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Yeah this is so clearly not true but ok 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:00 PM
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Well let me rephrase: people who are nice shouldn't let themselves be taken advantage of. Nice people get things all the time, sounds like you're a pessimist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:37 AM
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Lmao maybe you shouldn't let yourself be taken advantage of if this is based on your experience
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:20 AM
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Not being attracted to creeps is a bad thing now?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 01:07 AM
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You literally said congrats on the sex to op 😂 learn to read
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:31 AM
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having to be convinced to put effort I don't understand why these men are even bothering. If she has to be convinced, why would any man with self respect pursue? in terms of being single you dont have options. I mean yeah you kinda do. You really just have to find someone willing to be with you. If you're not offering anything as a partner that's not gonna happen. Relationships start pretty much anywhere, with anyone. Friendships, relationships, etc. All human connection is built on shared inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:29 AM
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I mean maybe that's been your experience. Sorry you hang around shallow people 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:24 AM
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men who expect ANYTHING but basic human politeness for being "nice" are entitled and creepy. Its that simple. Nice people - really altruistic ones - don't expect favours for their kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 12:22 AM
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And what of the fact that there's a subreddit with 1 million members? And the fact that you ignored the rest of my question
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:32 PM
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There is no subset of men who claim to be nice but are actually creeps Really, because at least 22 people agree with my original comment. So it seems to be known to them. There's also a subreddit dedicated to this behaviour with over 1m members 😂 There is just men out here doing every thing they can to be kind decent men like momma raised them and getting turned down and called creeps If they're getting called creeps by multiple people in multiple situations, chances are they're being creepy bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:18 PM
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Nice guys I'm very clearly talking about "nice guys," a subset of men who claim to be nice but are actually creeps. Not actual nice people. Because actually nice people don't think they're entitled to anything for being kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:06 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:41 PM
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For every one of you there's an opposite, and you both claim we're super offensively or hilariously wrong, both claiming to know what's up because you're women, I never said you're wrong bro. You haven't even expressed an opinion for me to disagree with other than strawmanning feminism when I've never claimed to be a feminist. either way we catch shit for it. All I've been doing is expressing my opinion, you weren't even in the conversation. You're not catching shit you have a victim complex 😂 b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:38 PM
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Lmao and I personally discovered radioactivity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:36 PM
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Lol my husband is a year younger so I can't answer this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:53 PM
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Umm...what? You're not making any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:47 PM
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certain loud-mouth feminists are quite keen to attribute a thousand years of oppression and violence to those same men. Ok...and? I've never claimed to be a feminist, nor have I claimed that women have always been horribly oppressed. You're going to have to pick a lane. I have
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:30 PM
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What do you think a guy with triple digit count looks like? I don't know. You haven't said anything that makes me think he'd have any particular physical features. be dishonest about other women? Please show me where I ever was
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:16 PM
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one of the most dishonest people on this sub lol. How so? I'm not answering your questions until you clarify this. Why would I talk to someone who assumes I'm a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:08 PM
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Huh? I'm not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:02 PM
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No, I'm asking for a source that it works, and a source that it's what women want. you just disagree like you are supposed to because it is misogynistic? How infantilising tbh. I never accused you of being misogynistic, nor did I disagree. I think you need to learn to read 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:43 PM
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actual logic. Logic is making claims you can't back up? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:40 PM
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can't believe there are people this stupid out there. You manage to shock me with each of your comments 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:38 PM
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it works because it's what women want, Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:35 PM
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nor was it even insinuated. You said that women here don't make a good impression of women. That insinuates that this is one of your main sources for your impressions. Sorry bud, try harder next time 🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:32 PM
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Wow, that sounds really sexist of you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:27 PM
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Plenty of men just come here to vent, and it has no reflection of their in person lifestyles or personas. Same for women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:26 PM
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demand that performance, reward it and punish the lack of it. Elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:25 PM
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narcissistic sociopathic bullshit 🤣 How so? Explain in detail please. I don't think you understand the words you're using 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:24 PM
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If this is the only source you have for interacting with women, maybe u should go outside 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:23 PM
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do not need men the way men need women Sounds like it's a male issue then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:23 PM
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Except he wasn't saying it was an issue 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:12 PM
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I have a right to think people are weird lmao that's about as simple as it gets 😂 It's weird to not have any friends of the opposite gender to me, end of
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:11 PM
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It's embarrassing how stupid you people are. That's how I feel talking to u so 😂 If a high value man wanted to propose to you but had 150 bodies, I doubt you'd care. I absolutely would because it's incompatible with my values. Either way it doesn't matter. I have a husband who fits all my criteria and he's "high value" to me whatever that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:10 PM
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How am i acting high and mighty? I get bored and like to argue sometimes. Nothing wrong with that 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:09 PM
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Ahaha ok I still don't get why the hypothetical girl is having sex with OP 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:26 PM
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called you out on your BS If thats what you wanna call throwing a temper tantrum, sure. But we all know you're just a sad little incel who can't get any human connection and instead lashes out at strangers on the internet 🥺🥺 Of course, you only give it up for the men who are masculine, tall and attractive and then give pity pussy to some average oofy goofy looking retard Lmao I'm married and my husband is perfect to me. Why would I give him pity sex? He's attractive to me and amazing 😂 I enjoy s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:25 PM
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And how has your approach worked? Where's your girlfriend? How much sex do you have 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:21 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:20 PM
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Bruv you're the one who posted like 8 talking points with no sources. Sounds like you're just regurgitating bs too 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:20 PM
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If this was accurate you'd be in a relationship 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:19 PM
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I find it interesting to hear others perspective too. You can't exactly go up to people and ask their thoughts on this kind of shit in real life most of the time 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:18 PM
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If you're not getting your needs met maybe you should try harder 😂 survival of the fittest
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:16 PM
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Huh? Who is date 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:14 PM
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Except I had this opinion before I lost my virginity. Try harder, your argument fails there 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:13 PM
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You're too low IQ to comprehend my argument What argument? I didn't see any well-made points 😂 You're female so your opinion can be dismissed. Oh so cute, a man thinks I care what he has to say 😂😂 Nothing you say has value or is relatable to me or to other men, you useless hole How has this attitude treated you so far? Do you have friends? Do you have sex? Have you ever had a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:10 PM
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got so twisted up over women. It seems like a lot of history has a lot to do with trying to control us. Kinda makes you wonder why exactly that started. Was it always sex? Or did something happen to make so many men hate women both outright and subconsciously? Or maybe they did it to each other. It really is such an interesting rabbit hole to go down! I feel like each culture has its own history (and that can be further divided into where that culture came from, extinct cultures, etc) from an an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:06 PM
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easy for you to say sex means nothing when you're the one who had/has it, I had this opinion before I lost my virginity tho 😂 fucking fool. Cute how you have no argument so you jump straight to insults 🥹🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:38 PM
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lot of men and women on here are bitter and would rather troll and exhaustively argue with the opposite gender than go to therapy or have actual discourse and maybe gain some insight/perspective, or possibly even add some nuance to the conversation. Could not have said it better myself. As a married woman here it's shocking how some of these people expect to have a fulfilling relationship of any kind with their attitudes please trust me that I hate most of the RP shit some of these dudes post ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:37 PM
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Absolutely agree on almost everything tbh. The thing is, i feel like most men view valuing women as an insult to them when it's really not meant to be. It's like their "masculinity" is expressed by being a dick 😂 My husband is a 6'7" big scary mechanic who used to be a bouncer lol. But he doesn't view himself as any less "manly" for respecting women. He just views it as respect plain and simple. if more men did have that specific “yes ma’am” respect.. wed see significant improvement in all the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:35 PM
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Guess I didn't read your comment the way you intended it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:25 PM
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I don't understand what you're saying 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:24 PM
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Either religious cult or they're just weird lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:24 PM
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Lol I found mine. They just have to be raised humbly and with a good strong female figure in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:23 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:22 PM
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True. It's nice to see someone calling out both men's and women's bullshit on here 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:21 PM
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Have you never heard of friendship 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:20 PM
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assumes that women are pure of heart and never want anything more than a mans company Why do you believe this to never be true? I assume you also believe men are incapable of selfless behaviour too? which is never the case is it? Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:20 PM
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Lmao right? Sounds like they don't get out much either tbh. Literally everyone I know has at least ONE opposite sex friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:19 PM
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women are only attracted to a narrow portion of men who often make them tingle with insecurity This sounds like bullshit tbh. I can't imagine being attracted to someone who makes me insecure 😂 sounds miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:18 PM
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And then the same women blame us for patriarchy as though modern men actually decided on all of this and women don’t participate in society as well What also grinds my gears is men who say "men built society/the world/etc" as if they personally did anything 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:17 PM
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What? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:16 PM
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You have to be providing value to them at all times. From a female perspective I would understand if they see it as only providing company because that’s all they have to do. They don’t have to provide anything because men are grateful to even be in their presence. Lmao what? Any self respecting man wouldn't be friends with a woman who treats them like this. If these men you know are putting themselves into one sided friendships cuz they don't respect themselves, sounds like you hang out with lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:16 PM
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See examples of what a little “yes ma’am” respect and some callous handed confidence does for a man. Right? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:14 PM
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Do other women find your man attractive? Before you got into a relationship with this man, were other women giving him choosing signals and pining after him Yep, he's a catch all right 🥰 Does it make you feel good that your man has lots of options when it comes to women, but he chooses not to exercise those options and instead chooses to commit to you? I'm sure it makes me feel the same way that he feels when he thinks about the fact that I have lots of choices in men. Doesn’t that fact that oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:12 PM
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I agree with this. Friendships aren't made by a quota, they're built on shared experience or interest and mutual desire for connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:05 PM
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Most relationships I’ve seen men and women in are. Of course a relationship is transactional. Why would you want to provide something for your partner and get nothing in return? It's supposed to be a mutual transaction She’s receiving something even if it’s not always money. Could be a guy pampering her by being nice. Making her laugh, providing a social circle to go out with, free food. I don’t think I can recall an example of a non transactional relationship That's called being in a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:04 PM
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far more to life than having mediocre sex. I wish more men would understand this and stop whining about not getting sex tbh. It's only one facet of one's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:02 PM
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I feel like people who are only nice to those that benefit them are just really draining to be around, man or woman. We all know they type.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:01 PM
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nice guys" aren't nicer than "Chads". They're just uglier, that's the only difference. The difference is that "nice guys" think they're owed something for being nice. They aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 05:00 PM
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suggesting that theres just something so inherently wrong with you when awful criminal murders and worst even get to experience relationships, casual sex, dating and the genuine desire of someone else on them but no apprently you don' You're phrasing this like sex/relationships are something that happens to someone rather than a joint effort of 2 people. Sex/relationships aren't something you "get," or "earn." It's whether or not you're palatable enough to another person, that's about it. be bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:32 PM
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Most people in relationships just happened to meet each other and vibe. This is the most sane thing I've seen on here I think 😂 The woman (usually) opened herself up to the moves the man was putting down and things developed. Or vice versa. Again, the most sane thing I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:29 PM
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wear our "women are winderful" glasses, it wouldn't be depressing Huh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:54 PM
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My God your worldview sounds depressing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:42 AM
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My God what a sad life to live 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:41 AM
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dodged my question and kinda proved my point. Once again, I didn't dodge your question. I honestly didn't notice it tbh What point was proven? I have to know that 😂 when you were dating, did you tell the guys you were sleeping with others If they asked, of course I told them. Otherwise, why would i? I dont owe them that information after being on less than 3 or 4 dates where we split the bill. Same way that they don't owe it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:32 AM
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ying and act like you're invested while sleeping with others. I've never lied and said I was committed when I wasn't. Until both parties agree to be exclusive, there can be no expectation of commitment, that's just how it works Do you tell guys you're dating that you're sleeping around? Well, I'm married. But when I was dating people, until we become official, why should I have given commitment if we weren't official? I didn't expect it from them. Women whine about guys doing what you're advocat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:24 AM
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enforce your polygamous dating standards to other people. Lol I'm not poly it's called playing the field, exploring options etc. If there's no commitment yet there's no exclusivity plain and simple I don't enforce anything to people. If people dont like the fact that without a mutual agreement, there is no exclusivity, they can stay single or get someone to commit 😂 people want exclusively from get go then that should be ok Show me where I said it wasn't ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:22 AM
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Yea, everyone else seems to think that morals are absolute but it's really about if you're practising what you preach
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:14 AM
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just stringing you along. How can you string someone along if there's no mutually agreed exclusivity tho 😂 I'm not going to sit there and date someone while they are sleeping around lol That's your preference and your choice. pretty self explanatory. Maybe to you call out women all the time for this and absolutely do not date those types. OK...and? Lol I don't see what this has to do with my question
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:13 AM
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being exclusive does not mean commitment though. You can still be exclusive and start out less attached and build up You can be exclusive if you mutually agree. Otherwise it's not exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:12 AM
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Why do you think that being ok with someone you're not exclusive with sleeping around means you lack self-respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:08 PM
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I think this is the only right answer tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:07 PM
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I really don't think that's what he was saying at all😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:07 PM
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enforces the notion that women who have sex soon are low value and that men are heartless people who can’t see themselves committing to women who they have immediate chemistry with. When my husband and I started dating we both agreed to wait for sex for a little bit. It was actually his idea. I'm curious if you think that's sexist of him? Lmao do women seriously think men go “aww man this woman was gonna be the one. I saw a future with her. But aw shit she fucked me too soon so scratch that plan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:16 PM
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if you’re thinking “I’m gonna make em wait so I know it’s real” then you’re are just coping/have a vain perspective on sexuality I mean this makes even less sense than your previous comment. But agree to disagree ig
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:45 PM
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just make him wait” Thread full of women still with their hookup: What point is this supposed to make? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:39 PM
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My standards begin at 8 to ME. what I think is an 8 might not be an 8 to another girl. But I've been told that I'm a 9 by too many men and woman I find attractive to doubt it It's just I have lots of childhood trauma and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:46 AM
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Judgemental sounds like tbh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:04 AM
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They're the same. If I'm going to be in a relationship long term, I'd imagine we're going to be having sex. Why would I want to be with someone and be faithful to them the rest of my life if I'm not even attracted to them? That's setting the entire relationship up for failure. However, no amount of good looks can make up for a shitty personality. I do not have the patience or time for that. There has to be balance. I'd take a guy I thought was an 8/10 physically with a great personality over a 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:56 PM
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Lol you asked now you're unhappy with the answers 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:52 PM
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Every paper that digs into spicy topics throws that useless line in to soften the blow. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:10 PM
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gaslighting I don't think you know what that means but good try 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:41 PM
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Right now, my husband's cooking😂 Looks like you're getting lots of answers buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:40 PM
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I understand what you're saying now, no need to explain causality lmao. However i dont understand how that contradicts what i said - there isn't proof that differences in structure impact cognitive function
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:58 AM
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Low effort tbh. To answer your question, no I don't sleep with men who don't respect me. Just my respectful amazing husband 😂🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:42 AM
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😊😂✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:36 AM
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Sure, that’s why you don’t sleep with men who do genuinely respect you. Because you looove nice guys. And you know who I sleep with...how? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:35 AM
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😂 you're committing, I'll give you that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:27 AM
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they do have evidence that we do not think the same. Except this goes directly against the fact that more evidence is needed to determine if those anatomical differences cause differences in cognition and behaviour Seriously, am I misunderstanding something here, I'm being genuine tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:25 AM
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Lol it's hilarious how you think you know so much about me, so here's some truths - I enjoy to be respected and you're creepy af tbh People who use "woke" are so cringe tbh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:23 AM
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Nothing dries me up quicker than this shit tbh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:13 AM
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It's not even subtle tbh, he had me going for about 30 seconds 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:12 AM
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It's so cute how you think your feelings are facts 🥺🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:11 AM
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So cute how you didn't include this: More research is needed to determine whether these anatomical distinctions play any role in sex differences in cognition and behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:09 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:08 AM
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You made the claim, the burden of proof here is on YOU And you have no sources. Just your little feelings 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:05 AM
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He's a troll or potentially has been living in the wilderness 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:04 AM
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There is extensive archeological evidence that shows women also hunted 😂 good try tho
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:03 AM
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🥰😂 I'll comment where I want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 04:02 AM
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You're so boring to engage with it isn't worth my effort. You clearly don't have a source or you would've shown it by now. Try better next time 😂😘
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:58 AM
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Bruv this is meh tbh, and quite boring 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:56 AM
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But i even wrote it down. You're definitely a troll 😂 this is such low hanging fruit, it's a little pathetic that this is the best you could do tbh. I think I'm done here 🥰 Why couldnt they vote? Sounds like a skill issue. If women were as competent as men they could have voted earlier. And this is a worldwide thing as men were in charge all over the blue ball. It's sentences like this that make me so happy knowing most men who think like this will die alone 😊 meant women. It was a rookie mistak…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:40 AM
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In this case my opinions would be the general opinion and hence facts. Or do you disagree? How is it the general opinion? Do you think that because a few people believe something it's a fact? No way That's ur opinion sweetie 😂 Well lets take the madatory dna testing topic that seems quite popular here. Pretty much every woman tales that personally even though it isnt happening to her and only being discussed as a topic on ppd. And they all state they would leave the man rather than logically ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:36 AM
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Lived experience. That's not a source buddy 😂 There are more male leaders in the world than women both historically and currently and also men dont need reservations to get to those positions. Historically (assuming you're US), men being in power is irrelevant considering the fact that women couldn't even VOTE until 100 years ago. Dont most men want men that are taller than them, more muscular than them, have more money than them are generally more competent than them? In their partner. Are you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:21 AM
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Everyone has years of lived experience on this? So you're admitting that your post consists solely of your opinions and not facts You do know probably multiple men and women right? Yes, and aside from physical differences, none of this is true 😂 Okay lets stick with women take things personally. They see the world woth themselves as the focal point rather than a part of the big picture. Why do you say this? Examples? Life So your opinion again 🙄 Do you think women have a higher or equal sense of…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:19 AM
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Yes because the men that gather here are clearly SO successful with women🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:14 AM
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What do women want? Hmm let me ask MEN 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:07 AM
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Men and women are not physically equal Fair e dont think the same and we have different motivations. Source? Men are also accepting of more pressure and responsibility than women and handle it better which makes men better leaders. Source? women also want men that are better than them or superior than them in nearly everything. Source? correct idea should be that men are above women. This is a wild conclusion to come to with 0 data other than your feelings 🫠🤭 I'm convinced you're rage baiting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:06 AM
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What do women talk avout when they get together vs what do men talk about? There is absolutely no way to research, quantify or study this beyond anecdotal evidence How do women view the world vs how do men view the world? See above, unless you know of studies that I don't. If so, link them. Men and women clearly think very differently. Clearly? You haven't provided any examples Women also take things way more personally than men. Source? men are at a higher level of self awareness than women bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:04 AM
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Your sentence does not sentence 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:10 PM
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Oh you're one of those people who thinks the world stops and ends in the US You said INDIAN 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:10 PM
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short, ugly, and Indian? The average height in India is 5'5" for men. Short men are getting laid left right and centre Or is this about you? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:07 PM
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It's not bullshit tho. If there was one singular way to get with women, there would be no incels
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:30 PM
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Lol I've done it before
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 09:41 PM
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But I'm not excluding anyone, I'm saying I'd have to find out WHY a guy was a virgin to be ok proceeding 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:55 PM
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buying a Ferrari would be the equivalent of being sexually attractive to a woman That doesn't compare tho. bottom 50% of men in SMV (who are in the bottom 50% mainly due to things like height, race, facial attractiveness, and extroversion Oh God you're one of those people 🤣🙄 majority of which are not changeable in any meaningful way Personality is changeable. The other factors you mentioned - where is the research pointing to these as a determining factor of singledom?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:46 PM
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And you never said you’d take time out to learn why I said I deal with it on a case by case basis. Use your brain love, it's not that hard 😂 Promiscuous women are terrible for relationships usually they have mental disorders, cheat a ton, deadbed their husbands. It’s case by case but this is typically the case with body counts over 5 Alrighty, well you have your opinion and I have mine 🤣 If a man said this, evident by this thread, people would correctly say those are generalizations Why don't yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:41 PM
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I didn't make a generalisation, I shared my thought process. Notice how I said "usually"? How many virgin men do you think I've met? It's like 7 or 8. Not enough for me to talk about all virgin men. Which I wasn't claiming to 🤣🤣 Obviously it's a case by case basis too, which I also detailed. That means I would take the time to figure out why he's a virgin, instead of judging him because of that fact. Try harder 🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:05 PM
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How so? I want someone with the same values and experience as me. How is that reverse slut shaming 🤣 By the way, I could give less than a fuck about men not wanting to marry sluts tbh. People can go after whoever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:00 PM
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constant sex shows a lack of discipline and composure on both sides, But it's healthy to constantly have sex with the same person in a committed relationship? What's the difference? You're having the same amount of sex. The only difference is the number of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:59 PM
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I think it's a red flag tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:57 PM
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Personally it's a case by case basis for me, but my reasoning is as follows: usually, he's a virgin for one of three reasons. Religious and waiting for marriage No social skills which means no dating experience Asexual And I don't want to be with a man in those categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:56 PM
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So game is real? The fuck 😂 pick a lane bruv
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:53 PM
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Is that all you have to say? No elaboration 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:44 PM
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Attractive males tend to become sexually active earlier than their peers The same is true for females. combative Please explain in detail how I'm being "combative" 😂 Learn how to have a discussion Aren't we having one now 🤣 it will help you in all aspects of life. Don't need ur life advice pal 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:42 PM
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Having no game is a red flag tbh 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:28 PM
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So you think that every incel is ugly and not just a raging misogynist creep who women don't want to be in a 10 foot radius of cuz they're creepy? 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:25 PM
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just means you're less attractive, Or that you have no game 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:24 PM
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This is exactly how I feel. Very well said
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:23 PM
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if you are a socially well adjusted person, chances are you aren't going to be an adult virgin. 100% facts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:21 PM
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Women are all the same Then why are there incels? Why can't they just di what other men do to get a woman 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:48 PM
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Please further explain your analogy. Who is the Ferrari? Who is the poor person?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:35 PM
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That's your opinion bruv 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 06:07 PM
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Yea it is 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:50 PM
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Bro has never heard of a rhetorical question 😂🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:48 PM
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I understand this, but the average height of a man in the USA is 5'9" so short men are clearly reproducing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:37 PM
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That's that logic. People are similar. Yes, I'm following with your line of logic Why would I disagree with that? How would I know? I don't know your brain 😂 Did you just find it insulting that someone said women are similar? Lol what? I posted my opinion in response to a question. How does that mean I'm insulted 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:31 PM
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By your logic, it's evidence of the fact that all men are similar too in that they have no game 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:18 PM
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I'm just curious how you came to the conclusion that most women marry their 2nd choice. Its just such an outlandish conclusion 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:11 PM
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Where do all the short, ugly men come from then, if only tall hot ones are reproducing 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:10 PM
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This is what I think about men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:09 PM
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If someone is attracted to desperation...yikes 😂 that's a huge turnoff for all normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:08 PM
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No, I'm assuming most women marry a guy that wasn't their first choice. You're assuming How has this assumption treated you? Are you in a long term relationship? Do you have lots of sex? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:01 PM
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If women are all the same, why can't you whiny incels or perpetually single men get with one? 🤣🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:00 PM
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what exactly was the thing that sealed the deal that made you go through with it? I like sex. I like sex with attractive men who are good at going down on me. It's fun to flirt, tease, etc. And it's fun to get naked with a hot guy and have sex without worrying if you're compatible for a relationship. What about the guy made you choose him Personality, chemistry, if he was a decent person, how funny he was, and if I found him attractive. Once I considered sleeping with him, i would vet them based…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:44 PM
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It's just low-key sad that you go around commenting under people and blatantly misquoting them to argue with yourself, instead of providing a meaningful comment 🤣🥹 Don't you have anything better to do with your life 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:14 PM
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It's just hilarious cuz I don't even know when I'm ovulating if I don't use a period tracker, who tf is thus guy friends with that they share not when they're on their period, but when they're OVULATING 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:20 PM
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This is phrased beautifully it made me laugh on the bus 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:26 PM
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As soon as any type of flirting starts, that's crossing the line. But it's forgivable if he's honest and repentant. When would I leave? If he had feelings for another, was actively sexually attracted to another woman, or flirted with another woman. Anything past that and it's over the second I find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:25 PM
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society lets women get away with more shitty behaviour. Examples??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:23 PM
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Tf?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:31 PM
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So you're saying there's a good chance that census data is completely inaccurate? social desirability bias But these surveys are anonymous. What do anonymous people get out of lying deliberately 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 03:08 PM
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Seems like you're projecting your view of "women" when all I did is share my opinion Someone asked a question and I answered. You just don't like my opinion 🤣🤣 Women disagree often because this is something that benefits them I disagree when I have a different opinion. I don't see how this is benefits me? I'm married already 😂 They first say "whoever invites should pay" And I did say this. And I believe it. then turn around and say "don't talk to me unless you make plans" or "men should ask wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:35 PM
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Attitude can be just as off putting as physical unattractiveness tho 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:30 PM
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Must be nice to never meet the degenerates that populate most of them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:10 PM
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You do you but ok😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:10 PM
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I disagree but you're entitled to your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:09 PM
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Well yes, whoever is asked out always has the choice to say no. That's just a fact. How does your statement add anything? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:43 AM
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Investigate the cost of what 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:39 AM
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Lol if you have multiple people correcting you it's not a good generalisation is it tho 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:36 AM
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Youre correct in all of your statements. Hope your day goes well 🤟😊
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:41 AM
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I mean, objectively, yes. But something tells me that you doubted me claiming this in the first place because every man here seems to have huge notions about women for some reason. So I'm hesitant to take this at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:14 AM
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Since you can't read: YOUR PARAPHRASE MISQUOTED ME
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:10 AM
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hats off to you. Why
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:09 AM
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Let me make this clearer: YOUR PARAPHRASE MISQUOTED ME The dumbest people are always so convinced they are smart 🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:05 AM
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Bro has clearly never worked manual labour in his life and it shows 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:04 AM
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You didn't paraphrase what I said tho 😂😂 learn to read child
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 01:01 AM
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Who are you quoting? Cuz it's not me 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:56 AM
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There's a difference between asking how many children do you have and do you find looks or personality more attractive. You specifically said that surveys are unreliable research. You did not specify what "types of questions" they have to ask in order for it to be a survey. survey is not science because you can never prove the results Let's take something like race. I think we can assume that people have different opinions of race and ethnicity, no? Censuses ask what race people are. And people …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:30 AM
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Sounds like you want to argue for no reason. I've asked out 2 men of the 5 I've dated 😂 Just be honest and say yeah, men should pay But that wouldn't be honest. That's not my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:27 AM
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It's not just the dick, it's the guy. Certain shapes and sizes might feel better, but it's how he flirts, leads up to sex, does foreplay, his willingness to "give," etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:56 PM
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My personal opinion is that whoever asks the other out, should at least offer to pay. Because the date was their idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:55 PM
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That means that a LOT of social research people post here is bullshit 😂😂😂 bruh surveys are a primary method of social research. How do you think they come up with demographics of a country? Do you think they go to every person's house and do a DNA test to determine their race? It's based on SURVEYS via the census 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:45 PM
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What do you mean by "lesser man"? Do you mean uglier?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 11:43 PM
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Same hahaha 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:50 PM
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If he had a legitimate reason, maybe. Otherwise, no. Its not something I'm willing to compromise on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:54 PM
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I'm nt the only woman who has corrected you 😂 bad generalisation but good try 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:47 PM
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How is that long term? I'd be out the first time we tried to have sex if he was bad in bed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:47 PM
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I know right?! They tell on themselves so easily 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:46 PM
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That's not what I was saying. I'm sorry your "goods" are so undesirable that you couldn't even make $500 a month off them apparently 🤣 There's male model/pornstar millionaires out there. It's got nothing to do with being a woman 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:46 PM
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I'm gonna be honest - I really don't understand why this is an issue. People have a preference, and eventually it'll come back to bite them if they go for dangerous people Why is this worthy of discussion 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:20 PM
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HAHAH what the fuck is this?! I have sex because it should feel good. Not to "feel sexy" this is nonsense 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:06 PM
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Nah, I'd leave if a guy couldn't make me finish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:05 PM
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Can confirm. If he doesn't do foreplay, I leave lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:04 PM
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I assume you also think it's disrespectful when a man does this to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:02 PM
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Maybe you should market yourself better and have better goods to sell 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:00 PM
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Lmao what does this even mean. If someone is putting 30+ hours of work into something that pays, they're gonna get paid😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 06:16 PM
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I have a friend (male) who managed to trick a snapchat scammer into $50 but it took him months of catfishing the scammer 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:22 PM
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Dang so they even admit it's a fantasy reality 😂 cognitive dissonance is wild, man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:00 PM
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why they think every woman on earth makes $3,000 a month in passive income selling feet pics on OnlyFans 😂😂 I knew a girl that did only fans in university and said it was pretty much a full time job to get to even 500 a month. This is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:24 PM
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I can't even begin to imagine giving a man a chance if there's no chemistry, so start with that I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:11 PM
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Personally, I value confidence in a man for the following reason: The world is shitty and life is hard. If you aren't able to roll with the punches and get back up after you've been kicked down, why the fuck should I attach myself to you? Why would I want to go through life with someone who doesn't believe in themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:10 PM
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Shared account that we put a percentage of each paycheck into (so we contribute equal percentages even if it's not the same dollar amount) Separate accounts for our own things (fun money, our own car insurance, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:07 PM
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Personally, the person who asks the other out should at least offer to pay, since the date was their idea. But that's just my perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 07:05 PM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:42 PM
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Again men aren't going to say that if they're smart I don't really understand what you mean here. Most men I've met who aren't interested in me for some reason have made it clear if I asked why. I don't see why a man would be afraid to speak up about his standards But I mean, okay. I'm just sharing my experience. Unless my partner of several years has been lying to me 🤣🤣 But this experience is also coming from me talking to male friends (most of my friends are male anyway) and what they tell me …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:33 PM
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I mean this is a question that assumes everyone knows about pill stuff, and I have never met anyone IRL use those terms un-ironically. But that's just my 2 cents. I guess if the question is, "do you think you can use this strategy" well then...yes, but I don't want to tbh. I've never met a man who cares about past partners to the extent that he'd only date a virgin, so most men I've been with have had almost the exact same "body count" as me (maybe plus or minus one). But to me, I don't see the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:18 PM
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Lol cringe I'm shocked you're single with this attitude 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:11 PM
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Not sure what this has to with what I said tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:11 PM
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Yeah and your example included one video, that doesn't represent society either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:19 PM
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Thanks for actually leaving a reply that responds to what i said, you've no idea how rare that is apparently women who expect that for life in order for you to be considered “dateable” Not sure what you mean here though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:15 PM
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Why u so mad bruv😂😂 it's a discussion on the internet 🤣 can't imagine what you're like to joke with😬 I can literally hear the angst 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:49 PM
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Idk, I personally never have expected a man to pay unless he specifically offered to 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:24 PM
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Tbh you could be, just like I could be lying. The point of discussions is to discuss.😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:23 PM
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Ooh, wow thanks for telling me about anecdotal experience, something that no one has ever mentioned! Wow do you want a cookie for your fucking amazing comment that added so much? 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:15 PM
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Tbh I've noticed a lot of men are delusional about how valuable they are They think they deserve a 7 but they're like a 3 without social skills 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:08 PM
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Oo sick burn bruv 🤣🤣 I'll have much more fun with people who can logic thanks 🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:29 PM
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I know right?! I'm shocked you can type English tbh with the "points" you've raised 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:27 PM
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U didn't answer 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:27 PM
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Tbh my only issue is that most men think they are WAY more of a catch than they are. The dating market isn't actually that skewed, they just don't like what their "match" is 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:26 PM
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Sounds like you did all that work just to get in a relationship and you can't even enjoy it now cuz you're in your head 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:24 PM
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Yawn, if men aren't capable of asking people out maybe they should just accept singleness 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:21 PM
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How is it looked down upon? Every woman I know practices this😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:20 PM
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imo That's just it, it's your opinion 😂 Let's say I think that whatever you do for work is gross and not worthy of my respect. I proceed to tell you that you're disgusting and nasty and don't deserve basic human decency. I don't think you'd like that very much 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:17 PM
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Oh really? What's your "sample size" 😂😂 And I assume you recorded all demographic information about each woman (age, ethnicity, national origin, etc)? Pray tell 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:15 PM
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And yet...despite all your pathetic attempts to insult people, you have provided exactly 0 evidence to back up your claims 😂 so cute how you think your feelings are facts 🥹🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:14 PM
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I've never considered sex with someone unless I found their personality attractive but that's just me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:41 PM
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How is my response weird 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:39 PM
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public school I guess. Wrong, I went to Catholic school 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:37 PM
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was told the other day by women in this sub that the ideal man is That's her preference 😂😂😂 worst types of women (OF hoes). Damn, there are female serial killers, rapists, and abusers, but the "worst" type of women is OF creators? 😂😂 priorities I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:36 PM
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feminine equivalent of machismo I've only ever heard machismo used to describe male sexist behaviour. How are you using it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:11 AM
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You're saying that a large percentage of women are choosing to stay single and collectively lying about it like some conspiracy 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:09 AM
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People can't control what they find attractive at a base level, but that doesn't mean that there aren't certain personal traits that make one more palatable and enjoyable to be around, aka date
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:02 AM
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Confidence is sexy in my opinion because it means you're still putting your head high despite how shitty your life may have been. I know life is rough, and most people will be kicked in the teeth a few times, so why should I partner with someone who doesn't believe in their ability to go down swinging?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:00 AM
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fem-chismo Are you referring to toxic "mean girl" dynamics between women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:58 AM
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Right? He's salty 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:08 AM
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Men aren't considered attractive by the HUGE percentage of straight women who marry, date, and have children with men each year? How does that logic 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:07 AM
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the sex which has had an entire philosophical campaign to paint them as historical villains, 🤣🤣 what are you talking about had modern technology to increase their disadvantage What are you referring to? nature itself made them less charismatic and appealing than women Is this your opinion of men? I've met plenty charismatic, appealing men 🤣 If you're not into men, maybe you should go for women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:06 AM
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This is super well said
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:55 PM
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Sounds like you go for weird, irresponsible ones 🤔 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:27 PM
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You've done nothing but whine that men are held accountable by needing to wear condoms if they don't want kids 😂😂 congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:37 PM
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All I see here is a man refusing to take ANY responsibility as per usual 😂😂 I'll accept logical counter-arguments, but I don't think yall are capable, since keeping your dick to yourself is apparently too much to ask 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:26 PM
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Sorry if a lot of women like to pick bad boys What does this (false) claim have to do with anything 😂😂 men have their boundaries OK and? No one's stopping you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:24 PM
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Bro, you are the one spouting bullshit that you refuse to elaborate on😂😂😂 Don't get your panties twisted when people call you out 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:21 PM
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Oh that sounds really boring tbh 😂 Personally I'd rather just be better at skills or smarter rather than prettier but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:17 PM
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You're literally projecting and have no arguments other than your own sad romantic anecdotes but go off 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:16 PM
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Men who use the term "baggage" to refer to a woman having previous partners are so cringe tbh 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:14 PM
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Lmao what are you even on about 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:12 PM
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Men do not become unattractive with age the same way that women do. Here's my opinion: they do. Maybe in my 40s I'd want a man in his 40s, but at age 23 I can't imagine anything more cringe and pathetic 🤣 Older women seem to be desperate to settle down Then why are there more single women by choice than ever? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:12 PM
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OP doesn't understand that they don't make the moral rules for everyone 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:09 PM
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If I didn't care about not being an incel I would live working for minimum wage Damn, so you literally have nothing going for you other than determination not to be an incel huh? Sheesh that must be bleak 🤣 I am a successful lawyer capable of feeding a family of 8. And somehow find time to constantly comment on reddit 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:06 PM
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why wouldnt we be Why wouldn't WHO be WHAT sexlessness and lack of experience supposed to imply anything When did I say it implies anything to have no experience? impinge the validity of what we want? What do "you" want? How is it valid?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:01 PM
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10 years and counting It literally makes me so happy that you and your girl (if she's real) are off the dating market 😂 Your relationship sounds exhausting to be within a 100 mile radius of tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:01 PM
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Just a thought- maybe men are more likely to let themselves go more quickly, so to speak. Maybe that's why women in relationships lose attraction easier 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:56 PM
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What is it that you guys say Who are you referring to 😂😂 women care more than men about the insides of a person? I have never claimed this 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:28 PM
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I'm not being sarcastic. I'm being genuine. I don't understand how wearing makeup would allow me to compete with other women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:40 PM
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I’m referring to the general reception women get. Which is why those skills are optional No, this is your perception. this is not a fact. still haven’t defined what that work is. Would you like some examples of how you can improve your social skills 😂? there's lots of books on human behaviour, psychology, and interpersonal dialogue. Start with those. observe family and friends. Observe peers. Observe coworkers. Interact with colleagues. Ask questions in class, talk to your classmates join a comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:39 PM
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Aww no reply how cute 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:29 PM
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Why would a 20 year old with no experience wanna date a 30 year old? Genuine question
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:28 PM
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Why would a young woman want an older man with no experience? 😂 that's lowkey pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:25 PM
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it is well known that a percentage of men went from ugly ducklings to golden gooses Where does this well known statistic come from 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:24 PM
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Why are those the only 2 options 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:22 PM
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Lots of men peak after college 25-35 The same is true for women. Most people don't graduate college until 22, and probably aren't stable in their careers until mid to late 20s. The average age of marriage is older for men and women now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:19 PM
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insulting OP I did not insult them. His standards are still higher than yours, even if yours aren’t rock bottom. Who cares? I did not say I think they are a bad person for not wanting to have sex outside of a relationship. Show me where I said that 🤣 insinuate that he’s immature for not championing casual sex I literally never said that about them for not championing casual sex. I was responding to a comment about SMOKING WEED 😂😂 And I'm not saying they're immature for not enjoying casual sex, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:13 PM
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delayed gratification and self-control You know that people who like casual sex don't just...fuck anything that moves, right? You do understand that there's a difference between enjoying sex but not wanting to marry someone and being a complete fuck machine...right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:57 PM
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You’re saying this as if there is a class you sign up for that fixes all social issues. Show me where I said anything of the sort. What reason do you have to believe men have done no work? People who have done no work on their social skills, have poor social skills. It's that simple 😂 What even is “work” in this instance? Obviously, it's putting in effort to improve your social skills. you didn’t need to improve anything You can't make statements about my life buddy 😂 I haven't presumed anything…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:45 PM
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That was my first thought too. OP sounds very young and immature
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:36 PM
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They're well within their right to date any (consenting) woman they choose. What I am referring to, is the men who get into relationships with women who have had more experience, and get salty that they did not just sit around and wait for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:33 PM
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Ok...and? I don't understand if you're trying to argue against what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:28 PM
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Depends on their personality Edit- I see, no response 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:27 PM
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Your disgusting attitude tbh 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:27 PM
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I hate to break it to you buddy, but I have ASD and struggled a lot with social interactions as a kid. But I worked on it and was able to make friends and enjoy my youth. That's why I have no sympathy for men who put in no work to better their social skills tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:25 PM
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Lol sounds like you have no self respect 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:21 PM
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Depends on their personality tho. Finance bros have a higher likelihood of douchiness in my experience 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:19 PM
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Yikes bro 😬 Curious what you think of used up men who can't keep their dicks in their pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:18 PM
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Never crossed my mind that I would need any kind of assistance while pregnant tbh. Its been a priority to be able to provide for myself my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:17 PM
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If all you know is casual sex, that it’s the norm, then obviously a normal relationship will be hard to sustain. You have no proof for this statement. Wouldn’t you want to get old and ugly together lmfao? Yeah, after I've enjoyed myself and figured out what I like. Same for my partner. We have had the life experience to know what we like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:15 PM
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while you were able to succeed without needing any skills Are you talking about me specifically? while you’ve had the luxury of never having to worry about it Again, me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:09 PM
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When he's 30+ without any romantic experience? What makes this hypothetical dude such a catch 🤣 Edit - salty, I see 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:07 PM
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you're going to get used to go in and out a relationship making the false assumption that anyone is disposable False. rather than learning (how) to build a lasting and meaningful relationship that can go through the hardships that everyone experiences one way or another Why do you think that people who have casual sex are incapable of having a relationship? I've had a few hookups, so has my partner, but we've been together for years and have never had a commitment issues. In the end when you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:01 PM
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Yes, but those men are also losing value. They're getting older and have no experience to show for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:58 PM
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I'm dead 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:57 PM
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Well said. OP doesn't seem to understand that their morals are theirs only, and don't mean anything to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:53 PM
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"Extensive" trial and error does not equate knowing something for a fact but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:51 PM
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the aforementioned points I didn't see any points, all I saw was you hemming and hawwing about your moral standards the problems present in casual sex What problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:49 PM
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And yet they always think they have this novel, groundbreaking info 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:47 PM
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he shouldn't settle for those same (now older) women What do you mean? Who should he date, then? that have lost their youth That's what happens when you get older. The same hypothetical man who is now in his 30s has also lost his youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:46 PM
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Why is it wrong to enjoy things that are enjoyable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:40 PM
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Whatever works for you pal 🤣 Gotta be honest, I've never met someone who values consistency more than happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:38 PM
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It feels good, is fun, and harms literally no one (unless you're salty that you can't get any) I fail to see any issues with people having sex when they want, as long as they consent I also don't see how it "objectifies" women. If anything, it gives women agency to have sex whenever and with whomever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:36 PM
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I know. How? In order to be attractive to women I need to do a lot and change a lot. How do you know and quantify this? Regarding the rest, I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:31 PM
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Are you in a relationship? Have you ever been in one? It seems like you're taking the absolute most legalistic view of human interaction (which I understand, since I struggle with empathy and rely on logic), but that's not something that's likely going to work out for either of your long term happiness. Do you plan on keeping score of everything like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:29 PM
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The men who say shit like this usually fall into the following category: Couldn't get any when they were young (weren't attractive enough or had horrible social skills and didn't work to improve them), and are now jealous that their female partner actually enjoyed her youth instead of waiting around for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:27 PM
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You don't know for a fact that there isn't a woman who would accept "less than your best." Are you expecting her to never allow you to make mistakes? Constantly call you out and correct you? Do you want to be on your toes, walking on eggshells all the time? Genuinely confused by your point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:26 PM
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You think hiring a private investigator to see what behaviours your partner exhibited in previous relationships but won't do for you is healthy? Bro...🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:24 PM
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Lmao do you have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:20 PM
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Did you get this scenario from porn because it's so obvious you don't know how human interaction works 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:18 PM
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I disagree tbh. I'm in my 20s and haven't met a single partner through dating apps - the most that came from the apps were some one-off terrible dates. Nor do I know anyone who's in a long term relationship from a dating app. It's kind of viewed as a relationship that definitely started as a hookup 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:17 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:12 PM
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All it takes is one google search of andrew tate to prove men are just as susceptible to dumb bullshit 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:12 PM
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So fascinated by this because I have never once had a desire to wear makeup to compete with other women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:10 PM
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I'm dead 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:08 PM
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This is very true. It also affects men - think of all the fathers that get called a creep just for playing with their kids at the park. Or the victims of female abusers that aren't believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 08:03 PM
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14.3 million compared to how many women in the world? Try harder 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:57 PM
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If they don't want to do them now, there's obviously a reason. So i accept their boundary and move on because I'm not a whiny little bitch 🤣 The exceptions being fundamentally incompatible behaviours
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:56 AM
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Lmao they're literally just salty People find different people varying levels of attractive and if she's not into you that way, move on or stop whining. I don't see the point of being with a women who apparently doesn't fulfill your desires and just NONSTOP complaining instead of bettering your own situation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:52 AM
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I feel like that's the same for most women tho, at least everyone I've known. I'd NEVER date a man who'd been with more than 10 women. It's nasty imo but everyone has their own views
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:48 AM
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Lmao you talk like an infomercial 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:44 AM
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Are you fucking kidding me? You linked a different study 🤣🤣 The one you linked was published in 2015 The one I linked was published in 2009 Yours had 2700+ subjects Mine had 515 Yours was written by Amelia Karraker et al Mine was written by Michael J Glantz and Chamberlain et al Honestly- and I'm a little worried when I ask this - but can you read? 😂😬 Like...they don't even have the same name
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:41 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:13 AM
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What's it to you, you jealous? 😂😂🫢
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:13 AM
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Males are 7 times more likely to leave their female partner with a life threatening illness, than females are likely to leave their sick male partner Try harder 😂😂 https://www.reuters.com/article/idUSTRE5AB0C5/#:~:text=The%20study%20confirmed%20earlier%20research,when%20the%20man%20was%20ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:12 AM
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What is whose nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:04 AM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:19 PM
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Sorry but I'm not sure what you're referring to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:18 PM
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I'm glad you have had mostly good experiences with opening up to women. Opening up to your SO should never be hard. I strongly agree with your second paragraph. I hear a lot of males complain that their female partner doesn't support them or doesn't have empathy, when in reality they are expecting her to TREAT or CURE their mental health struggles, and are getting angry when she obviously can't. (Obviously the above paragraph can apply to both genders).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:17 PM
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Bro, you're projecting HARD. Your insecurities are glaring, your frustration hidden behind 390 emojis is super obvious, and the fact that you most likely don't interact with a lot of people (no friends) is also obvious. I suggest you touch grass. You're cringe af tbh and it's not surprising you're single 🥰 And yeah, I do look for personality. Which is why I think I'll go home and give my amazing, caring, sweet partner some head just cuz he's so amazing and ...not like you 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:02 PM
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No because I'm in a relationship can't u read 😂 And I'm in my 20s, why would I settle for an older used up man lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:42 PM
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Lol homie I don't disagree with you about 100 partners vs. 5 partners. I have the same standards. I wouldn't want to date a used up man, so I understand men who feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:41 PM
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Now you're putting words into my mouth Wrong. Show me where I claimed you said something. nor did I mention your boyfriend Did I say you did? impossible standards? I rephrased to arbitrary it doesn't make him insecure OK, agree to disagree However, if he fails to find a virginal woman, he should shut up and accept being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:39 PM
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I mean they don't tho to some people. Myself included. I chose all my partners based on their personality. Looks only matter if you're shallow, or if you're just looking for a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:25 PM
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My definition of fun is not being held to an arbitrary standard by insecure men who really don't bring that much to the table tbh. What it sounds like ur saying is that men are so insecure that their dick is not the first to go in, that they won't date someone who's had sex before them? Is that what you're saying? Lmao, I've been with my partner for a few years. He has told me multiple times he doesn't give a fuck about how many people I've been with...not sure if he's somehow "not a man" accord…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:22 PM
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Women are trying to pull well above their level Who cares those guys have sex with them but not commit Again, who cares? they fall back on average guys Why is this a problem? Everyone "settles down" after "having fun." It's the POINT of youth - have fun, mess around, figure out what you like before you settle down. I fail to see the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:52 PM
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Have you thought about the fact that you might not be sharing in appropriate ways? In all honesty, while I can't speak for other women, I know this is false for myself. I enjoy being able to be supportive for my partner when he is going through something. In fact, before we even dated, he was extremely vulnerable with me about his messed up childhood. That was one of the things that caused me to crush on him initially - his willingness to be vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:50 PM
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a woman that's a 6 thinks they deserve n 8 or 9 So what? Don't date her. End of problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:39 PM
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Lying about what bro 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:31 PM
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Not a source just your feelings then Oh and BPD people are not representative of the rest of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:28 PM
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Bro I'm in a relationship of several years 😂😊
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:18 PM
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It's only good if the man knows how to use it, but tbh I could take or leave penetration. Honestly, my favorite part about sex is what I'm doing for the other person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:07 PM
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What I don't get is why men don't just accept that if it's gonna happen, it'll happen and stop complaining...if no one wants to fuck you, how is that everyone else's problem?! Edit: I can see that accountability is a problem for some men 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:06 PM
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Do you have literally any research to back up your assertions?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:01 PM
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Oh and another thing: Not only do men NOT take accountability for their loneliness (and I have not seen a counter- argument explaining why their loniless is anyone's fault but their own), But they have the audacity to expect SYMPATHY for being lonely! What the fuck?! Since when did that become anyone's problem but yours? If anyone has a legitimate explanation as who why this is, I'd love to hear it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:02 PM
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Which may be true in some cases, but again it's all self reported so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:56 PM
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HAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:29 PM
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Fair enough, I suppose some guys do give this out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:27 PM
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Coming from a woman... if you're not getting off, it is YOUR responsibility to make sure you do. Don't just lay there and hope he will find some magic button. Talk to him, ask him to go down or use whatever...just don't whine if you're not putting on effort and not getting off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:56 PM
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Anyone who thinks there is "no skill" in intercourse is HORRIBLE in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:52 PM
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Any man who thinks there's "no skill" in intercourse, is TERRIBLE in bed 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:52 PM
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OK bro I'm not going to change the way I talk to be "neutral." Especially on the internet 😂 I believe I answered your question, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:18 PM
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To be fair to her, there is some research that supports her claim, but a lot of the stats are pretty close, and since it's self reporting, it's only SO reliable: "About half (54%) of parents in households where both the mother and the father work full time say that, in their family, the mother does more when it comes to managing the children’s schedules and activities; 47% also say this is the case when it comes to taking care of the children when they’re sick. But most parents in this type of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:57 PM
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there is not necessarily any skill involved in intercourse HARD disagree with you there pal if the touching and intimacy...you did not want to have sex I'll put this as plainly as I can: If a man cannot give good oral, or use his hands to get me off, I'm not having sex with him, because it's not enjoyable. Why would I have sex if I know I'm not going to enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:44 PM
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it matters where OP lives Aww sorry sweetie but OP never said he/she was American either Learn to read before you start butting into conversations, confidently incorrect 🤣 Sounds like you're the American here, which checks out from what I've read about them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:37 PM
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I mean idk about BDE as I've personally never understood that, but men's attitude surrounding sex is definitely a sign at least as to whether they are super selfish in bed or if they are more of a "team effort, let's both enjoy this" kind of dude. I obviously prefer the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:35 PM
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Check out that guy's reply to this comment earlier, he was BIG mad 🤣 really illustrated your point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:31 PM
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The definition I'm using of sex is intercourse Let me rephrase: if they were not good at foreplay, I did not proceed to engage in vaginal intercourse. Does that make it clearer?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:29 PM
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That's how I feel about men who identify as "alpha," "red pill," "MGTOW," etc. Nice to know that it's not gendered lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:42 PM
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53% of people in the USA say religion is very important in their lives Countries with a higher percentage of religious people: India (80%) Egypt (72%) Brazil (72%) Uganda (86%) Pakistan (94%) https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2018/06/13/how-religious-commitment-varies-by-country-among-people-of-all-ages/ Try harder 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 08:02 PM
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Nah let's be real they want pussy, but they want women to understand that MEN have it SO MUCH HARDER and she needs to have EMPATHY for the MALE STRUGGLE Not to mention how utterly unpleasant to talk to they are. Lmao pal, women don't dislike you because you like anime, they dislike that you bring up anime as the reason you're single constantly 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:58 PM
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🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:36 PM
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I'm not in the us try harder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:36 PM
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I know, and they just don't get it no matter how many times it's spelled out for them 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:35 PM
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Please show me where I made a claim that the percentage of men who wait to have sex is significant I'll wait
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:34 PM
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Tbh you still haven't cleared up your disaster of an argument so I'm gonna have to pass 😂 can't argue when there's no argument to respond to take care
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:33 PM
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No, it's not on me. It's on the person who said tHaTs An InSiGnIfIcAnT nUmBeR 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:31 PM
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Your sentence structure is relevant if it impedes me being able to read. If you don't want me to be able to read or respond, by all means, keep typing like someone who just learned English yesterday. Your example of "this sub" is not an example. I'd LOVE to address my flawless logic, but I will do so after this comment cuz I'm sure you'll try to get the last word about this argument in 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:25 PM
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Hahaha so I just showed an argument similar to this to my partner, in case you want to know his exact response: "This dude doesn't understand thay there is more to life than sex, and if he did, he'd have a woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:16 PM
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their general attitude and knowledge about sex I made sure to do foreplay. If they sucked at that, i didn't bother having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:14 PM
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HAHA fair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:13 PM
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He's still making points he can't back up. I provided the only form of evidence, even if it was anecdotal. Why don't you come up with some stats? If this is how you approach conversations in daily life, I can understand your issue with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:11 PM
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I only picked the "purple pill" flare because I had to in order to answer and this sub provides entertainment. Tbh the whole pill thing is cringe To answer your question, my partner was 5 years single by choice when we started dating. I watched him turn down 4 or 5 girls while we were friends, then a few more once we are together. It's kind of funny how you claim to speak for all men, yet when I show the men in my life posts/comments similar to yours, they laugh and express confusion as to how s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:09 PM
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I sense a minor flaw in your general point: as opposed to out there and not actually able to talk to women Sentence structure pal but watching women ridicule and bait them Please provide examples those women are having a grand old time themselves elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:08 PM
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Lol I literally know 3, one of which is my partner so ok The way you paint men as sex starved animals makes it very hard to have any empathy or sympathy for their sexlessness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:50 PM
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I can only answer for myself as to why women have casual sex. In the 2 hookups I had, I made sure they were "good in bed" before having sex so i knew I was going to be enjoying it. Not sure about other women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:47 PM
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Have you thought about the fact that some men wait to have sex for personal/religious reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:46 PM
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Interesting, so what do you think of women who don't call themselves feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:44 PM
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That's pretty much my impression after ~3 weeks here. It honestly makes me happier knowing that they're struggling dating, cus I'd be fearing for every single woman I know if these idiots were out there and actually able to talk to women 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:42 PM
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Because men are NOT a prize and they ain't that special 🤣 Don't care if you are a F500 CEO, if you can't show up with all of yourself, don't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:37 PM
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I don't, next dumb question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:54 PM
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It really just depends on if they have enough relatable characteristics
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:52 PM
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Men on reddit are not normal men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:45 PM
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Your example doesn't give enough info to draw conclusions, try harder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:44 PM
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Yeah, I've noticed just how little men take accountability for their loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:36 PM
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I'm using the term "attitude" to mean the way you present yourself to others and situations. Your reactions, your phrasing, your tone of voice all have an impact on this. Even if you're asking someone to move to the right, you understand that that could be asked in a dickish manner, don't you? If you believe that mental health is determined by your circumstancds, why don't you change your circumstances? Im very interested to know what is holding you back so much that you can't seem to do what th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:25 PM
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You are correct in that it is not realistic to blame oneself for everything that happens to them. However, that is very clearly not what the other person was saying. You are responsible for your attitude, your own mental health, etc. Hope that clears it up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:43 PM
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You seem to have quite the victim mentality. If people who have literally survived genocide are still looking up, what the fuck is wrong with you? You're telling me that not being able to get your dick wet = the literal holocaust?? Yikes dude. By that logic, I should be forever miserable because of my messed up childhood and past abusive relationship. Not to mention putting myself through school, taking care of younger siblings, etc. Except the difference is that I recognise that only I am respo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:59 PM
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He's the type of virgin who posts on forever alone and whines constantly. I wouldn't take anything he says seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:11 PM
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Awww it's so cute how you think that conscription, a practice started by men for wars started by men, is somehow oppressive to men! Try harder, and I'm not even a feminist 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:53 PM
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It really just depends. You're clearly not taking anything people say seriously if they disagree w you so why does it matter Self improvement (and changing ones mindset) is not a one-size-fits-all, so therapy may or may not help you. There are several different types of therapy, so I wouldn't write off the entire concept based on what limited knowledge you probably have of talk therapy (of which there are still several styles). The fact that you jumped to "let me guess, therapy?" Tells me that o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:35 PM
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Yawn, please find my comments about wage gap and wars...don't recall it? That's right, you're a pathetic incel who can't argue to save his life and defaults to what he thinks EvIl fEmInIsTs support! Bad news buddy, I've never called myself or identified myself as a feminist. Or talked about those issues...so you can crawl back into your sad little hole and be alone 😔 it's what you're best at, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:25 PM
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Incel doesn't comprehend "If she's not fucking ME she must be fucking CHAD"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:18 PM
1

Tf does that even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:16 PM
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I kind of feel sorry for you but at the same time, it makes me happy knowing people like you won't reproduce 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:13 PM
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Lol these guys really out themselves so easily don't they
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:09 PM
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I replied to another comment of yours. Your attitude and general vibe is off. Shit, even I can tell through the internet. You need a serious reset if you don't want to repel women like a dead body
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:08 PM
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Well, what other value could you POSSIBLY provide as a woman to this dude? Surely men and women don't ever enjoy each other's company 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:38 PM
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I believe he's one of the incels or incel-adjacent men who refer to women doing anything other than remaining virgins until marriage as "Riding the cock carousel." Don't worry, he'll never reproduce thankfully 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:01 PM
1

How to have a stroke 101
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:59 PM
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You have a very healthy mindset regarding opposite sex relationships. I empathise with you a lot, I also came from an abusive household that made my self esteem suffer. I wish you peace and healing in your journey, and if you ever wanna chat hit me up. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:54 PM
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Lmao you're right on. It reads like a fucking 12 year old on MySpace learning to use text speak for the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:52 PM
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You know, I really admire that quality of yours. Usually, people who are in your situation are much more insufferable, and it's no secret why women don't want to be around them. I don't know you or your situation, but I can say that your attitude doesn't reek of desperation or grossness like most men here, so you've got that going for you. For what it's worth, I know lots of people (guys and girls) who didn't lose their virginity until their 20s. One girl I know is still a virgin at 23. Another …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:24 PM
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Lmao have you thought that that not everyone wants to read tweaker speak? If AAVE is considered its own dialect, this can be yalls dialect of Idiots Who Can't Spell or Use Grammar English (IWCSOUGE)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:20 PM
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Lol it does hurt the eyes! My tweaker cousin texted like this and it always took me and 2 or 3 friends to try and decipher it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:07 PM
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you think the men i am referring What? Lmao can't even make a sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:01 PM
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You know, I'm curious, why is the question never: Why do men abuse their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:59 PM
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I'm so glad you are agreeing that men need to shut the fuck up about not getting laid!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:52 PM
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Why don't you ask why MEN abuse their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:49 PM
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You're giving me cancer trying to read this bullshit. Learn how to spell if you want to be taken seriously. You type like a tweaker
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:46 PM
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Yikes. So you're saying that men literally have created this situation? Because they would do anything for "the slightest crumbs of pussy"? Glad we agree and men can stop complaining about their pretend victim status because no one will fuck them 😁 Oh wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:43 PM
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by not being delusional Your psychiatric health has nothing to do with this, but I'm glad you're not experiencing delusions. So it's anecdotal evidence, gotcha. Limited to the women you've interacted to. That's not enough to establish a pattern of behaviour for 3.5 billion individuals. Try harder
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:14 PM
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Where did you get this info?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:41 PM
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Maybe people suggest therapy because of other raging red flags preventing him from getting a date? Just a thought? Please provide examples (including statistical evidence) that women have "traumatised" men in any way 🤣🤣 Because otherwise you're just sharing your feelings. Which don't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:45 PM
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Have you considered that maybe she's just not into you? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:43 PM
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Lol K
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:57 PM
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What double standard? Edit - yea that's what I thought lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:47 PM
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I'm glad someone does enjoy it! And I'm free to tell you that you're not on topic and that if you're responding to someone who has one of the top comments in a specific discussion, but you're "not willing to engage in that argument" (that the thread was created for), to leave 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:43 PM
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Lol k
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:39 PM
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Still waiting on that "evidence" pal. Lol we all know it doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:38 PM
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All women say there are too many boring men. Not a fact. No evidence. Why don't women do a poll to see how many of THEM are boring? You want to poll each and every woman in the world? The US? Europe? OK, whose standards are we measuring "boring" off of? Yours? Won't happen? Of course not. Did I miss your comment about how you are a psychic? Women can be boring, or annoying or even insufferable. This is a fact. Good job! Let's chalk it up to female privilege Huh? Sometimes when a conversation tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:35 PM
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Guess I'm on reality coz no one outside of the weird internet corners uses "sub 5" un-ironically. Especially not attractive guys 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:32 PM
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Hybristophilia is not limited to women. So your comment makes no sense. Are you going to actually answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:24 PM
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Found the incel 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:23 PM
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Wow, you just make up whatever you want, huh? Next time you're gonna make a claim, how about you provide some evidence, hun? That's what the grownups do when they make valid, logical points.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:22 PM
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Do you have any evidence to support your "confirmation"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:17 PM
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You must really like the sound of your own voice, huh? It's not about what you're allowed to do - I never said you aren't "allowed" to do anything, did I? Instead, I said you are missing the point of the thread, and your comments add no value to the discussion. I called you smart, clearly I was wrong 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:16 PM
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Then leave 😂 that's the point of the thread smart girl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:04 PM
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So you think that TV shows = how all women behave?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:03 PM
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I think 4 is the only one that's reasonable. Because of STDs it's completely fair to want to know if he/she's sleeping with others. Personally i have only had a "FWB" situationship twice, and while i did "like" them both, as in, i found them attractive, i did not want or long for a relationship with either. My last BF was FWB for a year before we dated. He caught feelings and asked me out on a date, not me. However, we also broke up due to horrible incompatibilities, so being friends and being s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:55 PM
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Bruv just making shit up now 😂 Can you come up with some more?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:43 PM
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Yikes...so none of your comment had anything but anecdotal evidence (if you can call it that), and you want to paint 50% of the world's population based on...your feelings? Bro you need to touch grass🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:33 PM
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Who is interested in these topics? Do you know multiple people who have mentioned these topics to you? Because they sound like bullshit you just made up for WoMeN dUmB
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:30 PM
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So all men are interested in art, history and science? Is that what you're saying? What do astrology and iPhone have to do with this? Lmao make your point better pal 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:29 PM
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If you think women are so boring, why date at all my dude 🤣 you're setting yourself up to fail
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:28 PM
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