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Never get rid of it, but “flinch forward”
/r/seduction20/10/17 12:20 AM
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the way ou should get a number is by having a plan first, and then saying "i'm gonna do x this week, wanna join?" she either says yes or no, yes means she's interested. no means she's either not available, or she isn't. but usually if you're not weird, girls will be fine with giving there number. just say "let's exchange numbers" and make it chill. not that big of a deal these days tbh
/r/seduction14/08/17 03:46 AM
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literally in exact situation. i've had to cut her off almost completely to get her out of my head. even when i banged other chicks i thought of her. i think it's just a thing that will lessen over time, and experience. distancing myself from her and talking to other girls definitely helps, though
/r/seduction14/08/17 03:42 AM
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Art of manliness is a good starting point: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W1_Nmudpkks
/r/seduction22/02/16 03:24 AM
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Could you elaborate on how you are more open?
/r/seduction13/12/15 07:02 PM
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She's not interested, and you are trying to set up a date. If I have to tell you a time for a date, and you say no but don't offer a new one, obviously there isn't something there. But I don't know what to do from there
/r/seduction12/12/15 07:30 PM
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Really, then how whould I approach asking to hang again? Doesn't it come off as needy?
/r/seduction12/12/15 04:48 PM
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Agreed. If she's interested, she'll take initiative to hang with you again, otherwise move on to the next one
/r/seduction12/12/15 03:11 AM
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Thanks
/r/seduction29/11/15 06:18 PM
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Make your intentions known.
/r/seduction12/11/15 07:08 AM
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interesting, thanks!
/r/seduction11/10/15 05:05 PM
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Would you recommend Lasik for someone who is practically blind without glasses?
/r/seduction11/10/15 01:57 AM
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You can't build attraction through text. Meet up with her
/r/seduction21/09/15 11:27 PM
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Push pull is golden with LMR
/r/seduction14/07/15 02:11 PM
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=define+(y)
/r/seduction14/07/15 02:06 PM
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Part of being a man is not being afraid to tell girls how you feel. You really shouldn't give a shit, and not having a backbone probably showed weakness and was unattractive to her.
/r/seduction30/06/15 01:31 PM
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ABC: Always Be Closing. At least # close so you can meet up again
/r/seduction30/06/15 01:28 PM
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Good attitude
/r/seduction26/06/15 11:33 AM
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Well why were you upset then from the sherlock gif? You solidified your friendship I thought thats what you wanted
/r/seduction25/06/15 08:35 PM
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The point is that you are not looking for her approval. You are the man and should at least attempt to go for it. If she disapproves then obviously back off and shrug it off, but it sounds like you basically friendzoned yourself. Not sure if that was your intention?
/r/seduction25/06/15 08:28 PM
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She was practically giving it to you dude
/r/seduction25/06/15 08:21 PM
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Probably the worst advice I've ever read lol
/r/seduction24/06/15 05:38 PM
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This shit should be side barred
/r/seduction16/06/15 01:21 PM
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That's one word; the hyphen makes it an adjective and renders your sentence incomplete
/r/seduction12/06/15 01:27 PM
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Are you drunk
/r/seduction11/06/15 12:17 PM
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Dude I was about to ask you why the fuck you didn't go for the #-close, but you did, so props to you! Imagine now if you hadn't gone for it, how regretful you would be thinking to yourself about not going for it, and wondering what might have happened. Rejection is not a big deal. On to the next blonde!
/r/seduction20/05/15 09:54 PM
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TL;DW Signal for her to take them off, obviously.
/r/seduction22/04/15 06:17 PM
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You sound like you are borderline friendzone. I always get stuck on the "were friends, if I try anymore she will get weird and not talk to me". If you want to be friends, this is the right route. Otherwise you should polarize her, though slowly, but make your intentions known with more flirting
/r/seduction07/04/15 11:14 PM
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CS major here. There are girls outside of classes, you know
/r/seduction01/04/15 03:36 PM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction29/03/15 09:12 PM
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No. Just do it.
/r/seduction29/03/15 09:12 PM
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THAT"S WHAT I"M SAYING
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:15 AM
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Let me ask you something. What is more productive: never approaching a girl because you are unsure if she likes you, or just fucking APPROACHING HER? With the latter you will find out right away what she feels without the constant questioning bullshit that goes on in your head. If you still are too nervous to talk to a girl after this explanation then it's not only assuming attraction you need to work on
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:12 AM
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What's so hard about it? Assume attraction Profit
/r/seduction22/03/15 12:29 AM
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Assuming attraction does not imply that you should approach every girl in the room. It implies that if you are questioning whether a girl is into you or not, just go for it and find out, rather than spending ages wondering what she actually thinks of you.
/r/seduction22/03/15 12:28 AM
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Or, you know, assume attraction
/r/seduction21/03/15 05:20 PM
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This won't spike interest, but its also not beta. Up to OP if he's actually interested in the girl(s) involved.
/r/seduction21/03/15 05:19 PM
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Wow, what a small world
/r/seduction09/02/15 06:15 PM
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That's awesome! I'm so glad!!! How did you meet him?
/r/seduction09/02/15 06:35 AM
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This was also picked up by Jerome Jarre, a famous Viner with over 8 million followers! He had a challenge with his snapchat followers to send him pics of them lying down on the ground, and had a ton of responses. Check it out! http://instagram.com/p/yN7I1POyFN/?modal=true
/r/seduction09/02/15 12:51 AM
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I mean if you have to fap that often and still are able to keep yourself in good shape, then more power to you.
/r/seduction31/01/15 05:12 AM
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Agreed.
/r/seduction31/01/15 05:11 AM
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You might have a low libido. Check out /r/nofap
/r/seduction30/01/15 08:07 PM
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The best part about life is that there are so many more girls out there, you might even find someone you share an even deeper connection with.
/r/seduction30/01/15 07:58 PM
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Fake it 'til you make it
/r/seduction30/01/15 07:48 PM
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Handled like a boss.
/r/seduction26/01/15 03:39 AM
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( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/seduction25/01/15 11:42 PM
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Can also confirm this ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/seduction25/01/15 11:31 PM
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Autistic people and shit. Exactly what I've always thought. Their vids always end up on /r/cringe, especially Julien's
/r/seduction24/01/15 04:41 PM
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holds up spork!!
/r/seduction12/01/15 06:28 PM
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Look up any standup comedian. Find one you like. Eventually you will start picking up on their wit, and can implement it!
/r/seduction04/12/14 06:51 PM
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Especially the standup thing. That really does make it much easier to develop one's wit
/r/seduction04/12/14 04:45 PM
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Dude you have to make a move ASAP. You are encroaching on, if not already enveloped by, the friendzone.
/r/seduction02/12/14 02:20 PM
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I feel like we are suffering from the same problem. I will game a hot girl and get her attached much quicker than I thought would happen. Then for some reason or another, because its no longer a chase for me I get turned off and no longer want this girl I wouldn't have dreamed of even making laugh. What the fuck brain
/r/seduction02/12/14 02:17 PM
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How many times have you tried this...
/r/seduction02/12/14 02:11 PM
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mercury-oxide*
/r/seduction19/11/14 07:34 PM
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This is also good for day game!
/r/seduction15/11/14 07:20 PM
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Wow. What a read. Thanks for sharing, and congrats on your progress!
/r/seduction14/11/14 05:20 AM
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What are the chances that a guy and girl both browse seddit? What about the same person browsing seddit? Hmm...
/r/seduction07/11/14 05:43 PM
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Dude I haven't cringed that badly in a while
/r/seduction07/11/14 05:37 PM
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Jesus Christ this needs spacing. Give her space by letting her decide if she wants to hang before your trip. If she doesn't initiate the plans, or at least reply, just move on.
/r/seduction07/11/14 05:41 AM
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