confusedforme Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	What happened to this place? Where are the field reports?		confusedforme	/r/seduction	31/12/19 03:45 AM

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1	I don't get tonality / expression on cold approaches. Props for even thinking about tonality. That said, This is how I understand breaking rapport, I'm not putting on a show, I'm not trying to be real friendly and energetic, I'm just there. I don't get it, they say use breaking rapport tonality... Well that is a tone, and if I'm to use just that tone I'd be monotone... none of this is breaking rapport tonality. You are misunderstanding it. You might be speaking a neutral rapport tonality, which is fine once you get to that point with a girl (buildi…	/r/seduction	27/04/21 12:42 AM
2	Over AA. How to have a cold approach conversation that leads to dates? (Topics, Ideas?) I see a few things here. First, a challenge. Next time you approach, do not ask her a single question. Speak only in statements and cold reads. Going from question to question is boring. It's an interview. It's the definition of platonic. "What do you do?" becomes "You look like a city-slicker." Or whatever. It doesn't matter what you say, she'll think it's fun and correct you. Just cold read. "Do you come here often?" becomes "I love this place, I'm here all the time, how have I never seen you?…	/r/seduction	01/08/20 01:58 PM
2	Too many people are missing the point I just lamented the same thing on another post in the sub. It's a numbers game insofar as those numbers are reference experiences that you build and grow on to getter better with. Approaching women without being introspective on what you did is literally useless.	/r/seduction	30/07/20 04:15 PM
2	For those who say to ask out 300 women... But if your stats suck, you have to change and improve, not keep doing the same shit forever. This is why this sub is insufferable. There are a million posts like this, where guys are going out and approaching umpteen amount of women and somehow expecting that to get them results without being introspective at all. How about approach 2 women and write detailed FR's, so the people who have experience can actually help.	/r/seduction	30/07/20 03:30 PM
1	Good looking guy with no game please help me I agree with this. If OP is actually very good looking, then laser eye contact and slow physical escalation will get him very far. Nightgame would be a good place for him to start with this, since there is already sexual expectation, plus a little bit of liquid courage could help get him started.	/r/seduction	07/03/20 07:22 PM
19	How do you go to the club alone? You go with outcome independence and have as good of a time as possible in the moment. You assume everyone is your friend. You dance your ass off with zero shame. And when people ask you just say that your lame friends bailed on you tonight but it wasn't going to stop you from having a good time. You are the energy of pure fun and sexuality that everyone wants a piece of.	/r/seduction	06/03/20 09:33 PM
2	[FR] I made a rookie mistake teasing her and telling her she's out of your league I think you meant to say "You're out of her league". But yes, exactly. It's a very simple thing to say to establish the frame of her chasing you.	/r/seduction	03/03/20 09:01 PM