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| 2 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"I was referring to how women focus on women's rights at the bottom of society, not general rights—just like men focus on men's rights at the bottom of society. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/03/23 08:13 PM |
| 1 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"Yes, I just found the survey you're talking about, the numbers are indeed much closer in this one than in the 2010 one. Who is to blame for men’s victimization by women? Aren’t women responsible for helping male victims of domestic violence by your logic? Men also report sexual victimization often by female perpetrators, so women would also have a responsibility to address those issues? I do think that women are responsible for helping male victims of domestic violence. Women also have a respons… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"most of gang-related violence is caused by blacks as a group, so they are responsible for cleaning it up. Actually, this very thing isn't rare at all—there are many organizations in black communities dedicated to stopping gang violence, created by community members themselves. Also heard similar things being said about a certain group being responsible for losing WWI for Germany. Can't exactly recall which group was it Yes, nationalism was part of the reason that Germany lost WWI, and as a resul… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/23 06:19 PM |
| 0 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"How is your comment not more disingenuous than mine? In my comment, I was talking about the ways that feminism focuses on women at the bottom of society, not men at the bottom of society. Of course some feminist advocacy on these issues does nothing for men because it wasn't intended to. I'm not saying that's a good thing, I'm just saying that's the nature of a movement that has historically focused on women specifically. You said that "Since you said that you feel like women equally focus on eq… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/23 05:47 PM |
| -3 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"I feel like women equally focus on equality at the bottom of society, with sex workers' rights, domestic violence, voting rights, beauty standards, etc. I guess I'm wondering: what can be tangibly done to address incarceration rates, work death rates, homicide rates, low life expectancy, and drug death among men? And a follow-up, has a group that tried to address any of these specific problems been met with so much pushback it had to close? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 11:57 PM |
| 1 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"I was thinking more of a group that would address the homicide rate among men. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 11:51 PM |
| -4 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"First, I'm really sorry you had to go through that and were basically told that your experiences didn't happen, that's horrible. I hope you have been able to find some peace and/or take legal action. In terms of my personal experience, every woman I've met who claims to be a feminist recognizes that violence/sexual violence against men is real and underacknowledged. I obviously can't say the same for random people you encounter online, but at least IMO many feminists don't dismiss male sexual as… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 11:48 PM |
| -5 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"? 54.8% of straight men who experienced sexual violence reported having only female perpetrators. 94.7% of straight women who experienced sexual violence reported having only male perpetrators. Yes, those numbers are both too high, but one is almost double the other. As for female quotas, you're right, it's hard to give one reason that explains why women account for so few seats in governments. Do you know of any specific governments in which men initiated quota systems, though? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 11:36 PM |
| 1 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"I looked into Earl Silverman. This article states that "he had paid for the shelter out of his own pocket, but could not raise enough money from either government or private donations". It's horrible that it closed and didn't receive government funding, but I didn't see any information about receiving ridicule from feminists being part of the reason why, nor did I see anything about boycotts. Feel free to provide a link if there's another source that says so, though. Do you have any examples of … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 11:12 PM |
| -16 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"1 and 2) I'm not sure which sources are considered credible, but this CDC survey says that among over 16k participants, "28.6% of heterosexual men who experienced sexual violence other than rape in their lifetime reported having only male perpetrators, while 54.8% reported only female perpetrators, and 16.6% reported both male and female perpetrators. The majority of lesbian, bisexual, and heterosexual women (85.2%, 87.5%, and 94.7%, respectively) who experienced sexual violence other than rape … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 10:51 PM |
| -4 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"How is it different than making a general "white group", for example? This "white group" could intend to help make white people become less racist, but the name alone will be seen an issue because white people are perceived to hold more power in society than people of color. In the same way, men are perceived to hold more power in society than women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 10:36 PM |
| -19 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"Yes, that is definitely an issue. It doesn't make much sense to me. I feel like the bans might have something to do with the phrasing/naming of these groups. Without knowing what its actual goals are, a "men's group" might seem like a response to a "women's group" intended to counter the advances that women have seen in recent years. But a "men's mental health group" or "men against violence group" might get better results because their purposes are more clear. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 09:15 PM |
| -35 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"IMO, many of women's problems were caused by men as a group, making it necessary for individual men to address them. For example, domestic violence against women perpetrated by men, sexual harassment from men, under-representation in positions of power, restrictions on reproductive health, etc. Now, women have the same responsibility to solve problems that they cause for men, such as the physical aggression and banning of men's groups mentioned in these slides. But overall, women did not cause m… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 09:05 PM |
| -41 | "Patriarchy hurts men too!"Are women responsible for solving these problems, though? They didn't create them. Yes, it's stupid for some people to pretend that these trends aren't problems, but why can't men band together and address them? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/23 07:58 PM |
| 2 | As a guy Imma be honest, I think more guys should really work on self-establishment and self-actualization before getting into any relationship, even if it isn't seriousAs a woman, CMV: relationships (and trying to get them) distract you from pursuing goals that are actually important. This is true of both men and women. Plus, if you have things going on in your life aside from thirsting for a gf/bf/hookup, you'll automatically become a more desirable partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?That's fair. But to be honest, I think men and women have it equally hard in finding actual love despite the different issues they face. Also, I don't think any of the relationships that someone who's perpetually in a relationship has are healthy—that kind of person usually has some sort of codependency issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 04:23 AM |
| 28 | Men would you trade getting more attention for increase risk of being sodomized, stalked, harassed and being sex trafficked for more attention and special treatment from women?But getting more attention doesn't guarantee love either... it just means more people are sexually attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | A woman is never too busy to text back. If she doesn't, take the sign.Same thing goes for men. But I'd say it also depends on what you're texting about and what else is going on in her life. It can take me multiple days to respond even to my friends when I'm really busy with school and work and if they're not texting me something that requires an immediate response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/22 04:06 AM |
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