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I’m 6’3” so that helped. I put on muscle mass pretty easily. I lost some weight, Invisalign, better wardrobe, and took up standup comedy to improve my confidence. Everything worked wonderfully
/r/seduction14/10/25 04:18 PM
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You pay attention and work with what you have in your surroundings. Canned openers are cheesy and don’t work unless there is already massive amounts of initial attraction (e.g she has been eyeing you in a bar). Direct or indirect method, it doesn’t matter. Once you start talking to her you’ll get a feel for how the convo is going. Example scenario - dumbed down, you’re in a grocery store and see her grabbing a bag of snacks, placing them in her cart. “Excuse me, have you tried those chips before…
/r/seduction04/09/25 01:45 AM
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Not the debugging code reference 😂
/r/seduction04/09/25 01:34 AM
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After building rapport with both, I would ask the other one if it’s okay that you tell the one you’re interested in a secret. Then you can move the one you’re interested in away and then it’s full direct method. “I think you’re cute, and I’d like to have dinner with you or bla bla”
/r/seduction06/07/25 07:36 AM
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At some point you just have to be attractive. Inner game works with outta game
/r/seduction30/06/25 07:37 PM
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2-3 is the max. 3+ has never worked for more than a month for me. I have a job and got other priorities.
/r/seduction04/12/24 07:38 PM
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Could be Canadian
/r/seduction03/05/24 12:26 PM
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You don’t, I am too much fun for you
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:26 PM
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Alpha male other guys. When you approach a group of girls with a guy, you show your dominance over the other guy
/r/seduction28/07/22 03:00 PM
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I think you should have just owned it in a playful way. Getting embarrassed and flustered will kill your game. I would have been like "haha, yeah I am, you got me figured out. I was trying to be discrete here haha", and then continue with your target like nothing just happened. What you are doing here is maintaining your frame and saying "yes there was a potentially embarrassing moment but that is nothing to a guy like me, the mission stays the same"
/r/seduction20/05/22 06:53 PM
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Copious amounts of stress-free & safe coitus, as well as companionship
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:06 PM
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It is called perfomance anxiety. Start with foreplay and get really into it so that you can take your mind off sex. If you are focusing on her, you wont focus on your perfomance anxiety.
/r/seduction29/04/22 07:54 PM
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Balancing both of these statements is what makes it an art. That itself is seduction
/r/seduction28/03/22 08:42 PM
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Stop it dude. Move on. This is not healthy. There is plenty of fish in the sea. What you have is a massive case of oneitis. Realize this, work on yourself, and become the best version of yourself. There’s not nothing more that you should do. I know you’re probably going through a lot of pain and anger right now but the beauty of life is that the pain never lasts.
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:25 PM
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Step out of the pen pal zone and only use text/snap to set up dates/logistics. Constant communication is only hurting your game
/r/seduction21/02/22 07:07 AM
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this guy fucks
/r/seduction10/12/21 02:16 PM
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Curious, what is the song?
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:27 PM
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That is fine too. It could be an inner game thing instead. It doesn't have to be something that is very visible from the outside. But having a rich lifestyle can work wonders on your confidence
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:24 PM
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what was your opener?
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:34 PM
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Why even bother if you’re not attracted. You’re wasting both hers and your time
/r/seduction15/06/21 12:14 AM
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Get a tri pod that comes with a remote to take pictures. Selfies are the lowest quality photo to post of yourself online.
/r/seduction29/05/21 04:38 AM
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Look for Indicators of Interest. Is she laughing at your jokes that are really not that funny, what is her body language telling you, is she receptive and willing too continue the conversation, is she taking an interest in getting to know you, and so on. The clues are most of the time always all there, you just have to know what to look for Take a look at https://youtu.be/SBOtj1RmaUE
/r/seduction21/05/21 04:54 PM
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Don’t poop where you eat. Think twice about a girl from work, you don’t wanna make things weird if it doesn’t work out
/r/seduction14/03/21 05:15 PM
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I’m in Canada here and there’s lots of Pakistani, Egyptian, Indian, Afghani, dudes I know who pull lots of girls. Just get a nice haircut, lift weights, and work on your confidence.
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:46 AM
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Don’t get emotionally invested, she wants attention and intimacy when she wants it. Match her energy and only stay just for sex. Otherwise this doesn’t sound like the girl you’re going to be with forever. You’re definitely not the dude she wants to be with forever either.
/r/seduction03/03/21 06:51 PM
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Gain confidence, stop focusing on the outcome and show value by just being cool to be around.
/r/seduction01/03/21 01:28 AM
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She is bored and you’ve become a pen pal now. Block and on to the next
/r/seduction28/02/21 11:06 PM
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The chase can be addicting
/r/seduction26/02/21 11:28 PM
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It doesn’t matter what you say, what matters is how you say it. First internalize the confidence, then say whatever with that confidence and don’t doubt yourself. That right there is step 1.
/r/seduction23/02/21 03:29 AM
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Curious on the YouTube channel you stumbled across. Seems strangely odd but would probably make for some good content. Would you mind sharing the link to the video?
/r/seduction18/02/21 07:35 PM
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Clean bathroom, clean house - a roomba changed my life for cleaning my house, nice cozy couch, snacks, alcohol and drinks, a few house plants can help, apparently a trash can in the bathroom is essential. A few paintings on the wall. A nice area rug in the living room
/r/seduction17/02/21 10:38 PM
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This dude living in the year 3021
/r/seduction12/02/21 10:07 PM
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Flirting, teasing, and kino escalation. Break the touch barrier, progress from that, and you’re off to the races.
/r/seduction08/02/21 09:13 AM
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day game > night game anyways
/r/seduction08/02/21 04:33 AM
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You’re letting the approach become something that is almost climactic and you are building up pressure in anticipation. It shouldn’t feel that climactic. Instead think of it as a cool guy just casually approaching another cool girl. Nothing of it. If you guys hit it off then great, if not who cares, both your lives move on. You shouldn’t let an interaction with a girl who you haven’t even met take up so much mental space in your head. Instead look at it as an opportunity to make her day by havin…
/r/seduction06/02/21 07:04 PM
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First thing, don’t be so hard on yourself. Secondly, what is the worst thing that could happen if you get rejected? She says no and you both move on? Big deal, move on and try again with a new girl. Getting rejected a few times will only work wonders for your confidence if you keep trying. Just walk up to her and say “Hey… I know this is reaaaallly random… but I saw you walking by... and I thought you were cute… So I had to say ‘Hi’…I’m [Your name].” (The “...” means take a breath so you seem mo…
/r/seduction06/02/21 06:49 PM
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I told a girl she was a book and I was gonna flip through her pages. Probably the dumbest thing I have said but it worked just because of the way I said it.
/r/seduction27/01/21 03:05 PM
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Challenge accepted. I'll be back
/r/seduction02/12/20 06:28 AM
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Yeah, in other words. That is all you need. You are enough :)
/r/seduction30/11/20 10:47 PM
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I believe true confidence comes from not having the need to have to explicitly display value. Personally, I feel accomplished for my age and I would rather my accomplishments come out naturally when the topic comes instead of looking for opportunities to show off. Accomplishments that are discovered naturally seem to gain more interest than when the conversation is directed to talk about the accomplishments. That’s just my $0.02
/r/seduction30/11/20 10:27 PM
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01100110011101010110001101101011 fuck
/r/seduction26/02/20 06:35 PM
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Avoid situations such as talking about programming languages in a group of people where the majority know nothing about programming. Technical people often speak way too in-depth about specific things that other people have little knowledge about. I feel personally singled out.
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:15 PM
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