| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 823 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzoned | Fundamentals | conker1264 | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 02:56 AM |
| 228 | I did it reddit, I finally worked up the courage and talked to a girl! | conker1264 | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 06:51 AM | |
| 166 | Approached my gym crush, it was the most awkward interaction I've ever had | conker1264 | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 03:29 AM | |
| 10 | Signs a girl you dont know is interested? | conker1264 | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 04:31 AM | |
| 5 | Approached my gym crush but got too nervous midway through | Field Report | conker1264 | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 02:18 AM |
| 3 | How to know if a girl wants to be approached? | conker1264 | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 06:36 AM | |
| 2 | I hate myself so much (confidence issue) | conker1264 | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 03:43 AM | |
| 1 | Approaching girls at community college? | conker1264 | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 03:09 PM | |
| 1 | It's not much but I sat by the hot girl on the first day of class today! | Field Report | conker1264 | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 05:06 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Online dating is pretty brutal and insaneThey all do though, that’s what they’re designed for | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Am I a pussy for not eating pussy?Personally I’m not really into it, been a dealbreaker for some but it is what it is. | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 03:31 AM |
| 64 | Matched with a girl on bumble. It expired. Any ideas on how I can get best results with a cold DM on Instagram?If she didn’t bother to message before it expired then she wasn’t that interested. Move on | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Are women overly picky from all the options they have with modern dating?Can you tell me more about your theory? | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 01:50 AM |
| 7 | Are women overly picky from all the options they have with modern dating?I have no data, just my personal experience and others I know, but imo in 10 years or less we’re gonna see a serious decline in marriages among younger people and it’s because of online dating | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 12:26 AM |
| 74 | Are women overly picky from all the options they have with modern dating?Yup, it’s not natural for an average looking girl or even an extremely attractive one to be hit on by 100+ guys in a week. People really are undervaluing how unsustainable this is. It creates a false self of attraction where 80% of girls now believe they deserve literal perfection and won’t settle for anything less. I’m not suggesting girls should settle but you shouldn’t believe you can be with Ryan Reynolds either | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Do failed attempts still count as progress?Yes, your first interactions are almost always awful | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Girl at the gym bending over in front of me.If anything I have more experience in this lol. Thought I was picking up signals from her but turns out they were all in my head. Seems pretty similar to you no? | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Girl at the gym bending over in front of me.She was just working out man | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 12:48 PM |
| 126 | Hookup app Tinder vs Facebook dating?All dating apps are trash | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Book recommendations on seduction?The book was not written by a crazy serial killer cult leader | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Book recommendations on seduction?Uhhh | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | This shit easier than I thoughtWell some girls have no intention of even being friends sadly | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Approached my gym crush, it was the most awkward interaction I've ever hadI’m aware, that’s why it was just a friendly chat related to the gym. Nothing wrong with making gym friends | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Approached my gym crush, it was the most awkward interaction I've ever hadYeah I’m definitely not gonna try a 3rd time, if she’s cold next time I see her then yeah I’ll just drop it and move on | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Approached my gym crush, it was the most awkward interaction I've ever had5’6, 155lbs. I’m short but height has never really been an issue for me in the past as my bodies pretty big for my size | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Approached my gym crush, it was the most awkward interaction I've ever hadI literally said I never do but it seemed like she was looking at me at several occasions which I picked up as a sign to do so. And even then I never hit on her | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 10:34 AM |
| 22 | Approached my gym crush, it was the most awkward interaction I've ever hadI mean yeah I’ve considered this, was planning on saying hi again and trying to have another conversation the next time I see her but I’m not getting my hopes up. Mainly because she didn’t break eye contact, in my experience they usually look elsewhere if uninterested | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | (28M) Dozens of matches on apps. Couldn’t get a single girl to meet up.That’s online dating, delete that shit | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | I’m starting to get more attention at the gym. What do I do with it?New girl at my gyms been checking me out lately, still can’t manage to go over and talk to her for whatever reason | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Can you live a happy life without women?I’m a consultant so moneys not really an issue but time definitely is. Can’t travel as much as I’d like to but usually spend about 3 weeks a year traveling. 2 international trips and some smaller local ones throughout the year | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Can you live a happy life without women?Having a pet helps a lot, I travel the world solo and absolutely love it too | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 02:18 AM |
| -5 | How to meet girls on a cruise?Almost all cruises people are with their families, ain’t gonna happen | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 04:40 AM |
| 69 | My big butt co-worker modeled 3 thongs for me!She might just be Canadian and was being nice | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 10:37 PM |
| 2 | How to seduce auntJust no to all of this | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Is being 6 ft/6 ft 1 now considered short? Or am I just buying into all this trash I see on the internet?Bruh I’m 5’6 | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.Yes, it’s a waste of time and effort. Old makes even 8s feel like ugly because girls only swipe right on the top 10% of dudes. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.Wrong, old is fucking god awful. First, it’s way more competitive as even average looking girls get 100s of matches. You think someone gets cold approached 100 times in a day? Fuck no. Second, so many people are not photogenic or they know how to make themselves look better than they are where as in person you know what you’re getting. Lastly you can’t get a sense of someone’s true personality or confidence through text. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:44 AM |
| 5 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.Absolutely, I’d kill to look like him | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:29 PM |
| 8 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.I’m talking about just his looks alone | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:28 PM |
| 6 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.Pretty sure someone like Ryan Gosling would do just fine on dating apps | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:26 PM |
| 4 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.Unless you’re a 10/10 and have pictures done by a professional you don’t get access to the attractive or even decent looking females. Like you don’t even show up in their pool unless you want to pay. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Tip for Ghosting: Monitor your day dreamsOr just think of the situation differently. If they ghost realize it was never gonna work out anyways as they’re immature and lack basic communication skills. Do you really want someone like that in your life? | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 03:00 AM |
| 1 | 2nd date with a girl from tinder hasn't respondedJoin the club. Girl was texting me for 2 weeks after our 2nd date acting interested and flirting. Asked her out and got the I’ll let you know. Week later I ask her out again and she ghosted me. Thanks for wasting my time bitch when you could’ve just been honest from the get go. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:50 AM |
| 29 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !I think it’s cause we’re so diverse in the states that everyone’s used to seeing people who look vastly different than them that only the super attractive stand out regardless of race. In foreign countries it’s almost all 1 race so you tend to stand out being more attractive. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:57 AM |
| 12 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Depends on the area. Mexico City was one of the safest places I’ve ever been, as long as you stay in certain neighborhoods. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:48 AM |
| 10 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !It’s a fantastic city. I plan on going back. It’s extremely cheap and the food is incredible. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 02:08 AM |
| 6 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !That was autocorrect, meant to say white lol. I am short though but it doesn’t really bother me. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:45 AM |
| 18 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Luckily latinas tend to be my type too lol. I’m white but I definitely have always connected more to Latin culture than any other. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:42 AM |
| 306 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Not completely false. I get very few matches on tinder in America despite being above average looking, at least in the body. Went to Mexico and got over 100 matches in 3 days. Edit: It was Mexico City, some of y’all are extremely racist. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 09:57 PM |
| 5 | My best friends mom just took my virginity .. sex is so awesome!Doubt | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Can you be friends with someone that rejected you?I went on a date with a girl from my gym, she rejected me after but we’re still friends. Took like a week or two to lose feelings but we’re good now. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedThat’s not what my post was getting at. Obviously don’t chase sex, I don’t even like casual sex. But you can’t treat them like a friend only either. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 02:09 AM |
| 104 | Getting laid regularly taught me I don’t like casual sex, I want a girlfriend. Anyone else?Yeah I don’t really enjoy casual sex, just feels emotionless | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Guys: What is the best way to get rejected?Just be straight up honest and direct. Don’t put it off or hope they’ll lose interest. Just say it as soon as you’re sure. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:08 AM |
| 0 | Why abundance is importantFor sone reason I’ve had like 4 girls, 1 of which hit on me first, interested in the past week. My last rejection really changed my perspective on things and I think it’s working lol. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 02:18 AM |
| 6 | Do you think omegle is a good place to practice talking to girls?Not unless you want to talk to old men jerking it off | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 05:39 PM |
| 5 | Got 2 dates set up this week!Overtexting is bad | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever stayed friends with someone who rejected you?I’m trying to do that now with a girl from my gym who rejected me after our date. I see her almost every day so figured why not. Was tough at first as I still had feelings but I’m good now. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Got 2 dates set up this week!Eh I prefer not to converse too much through text, rather talk in person | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 02:42 AM |
| 4 | Got 2 dates set up this week!Oh I’m not that disappointed, I just thought it was a funny coincidence that both ghosted. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Got 2 dates set up this week!Set a date, place, and time | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Impact of muscle trainingHonestly not much of a difference. And I say that as someone who is absolutely obsessed with the gym. I’ve gained 40 lbs of muscle since I started. Girls don’t really go out of their way to compliment me, guys definitely do though. It does make me feel better about myself however which gives me more confide which helps with girls. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 01:58 AM |
| 8 | Got 2 dates set up this week!Yup, gotta love modern dating | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 12:32 AM |
| 282 | Why do females move on faster?More options | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 03:39 AM |
| 102 | What activities and things can you do to become more masculine?Work out | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 10:00 PM |
| 2 | How do I make peace with never getting any closure?Honestly just time. My ex ghosted me after we went on a cruise together. Took a while but eventually I stopped caring. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 02:36 AM |
| -2 | Whenever you see a extremely beautiful women wearing tight revealing clothing that’s your green light to hit on her.If you want a woman you gotta understand woman | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 04:51 AM |
| 0 | Whenever you see a extremely beautiful women wearing tight revealing clothing that’s your green light to hit on her.Well you don’t treat them like garbage either… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 03:32 AM |
| -15 | Whenever you see a extremely beautiful women wearing tight revealing clothing that’s your green light to hit on her.No I just don’t treat women like a body only… | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:35 AM |
| -19 | Whenever you see a extremely beautiful women wearing tight revealing clothing that’s your green light to hit on her.This post is extremely sexist. Girls can wear whatever they want without trying to fuck. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Short men 5'7 and below, how well do you do and what's your story? How did you get good with women?Reddits ppl routine. As for diet I just bulk and cut so I either gain or lose a lb a week. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever tried again with a girl you completely fucked it up with? How did it go?Almost did last night but decided against it. Went on a date with my gym crush and she more or less politely rejected me after. We stayed friends as I see her all the time. Went out last night and somehow she happened to be at the same bar I went to. Almost said fuck it and went for it again but decided it wasn’t worth ruining a friendship over. If she ever becomes interested again she’d make it obvious I’d assume. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 11:22 PM |
| 66 | Short men 5'7 and below, how well do you do and what's your story? How did you get good with women?I’m 5’6 but workout a lot so my body’s good. My heights not the issue for most girls, it’s my terrible social skills lol. | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to carry a pre-written slip of paper with your name and phone number?It does which is why I don’t ask out people working | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to carry a pre-written slip of paper with your name and phone number?You ask | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Is it weird to carry a pre-written slip of paper with your name and phone number?Yes cause then it assumes you were out looking for girls | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 07:20 PM |
| -2 | I approached this girl, she sent me a lot of mixed signals but today I think I found out that I’m in the friendzoneJust be honest, she’ll tell you how she feels | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 07:06 PM |
| 13 | How do you spit game on LinkedIn?You don’t, it’s for work connections strictly | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 06:16 AM |
| 55 | So I am a police officer, very pretty girl, no BS. I was told I am 8-9. Why guys are afraid to approach me and just say hi, or is it the idea of dating a cop is scary?I mean no offense but I wouldn’t want to date a cop. Not saying you are but they just have a really bad reputation right now. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 05:23 AM |
| 5 | How to get out of a friendZone ?You dont | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | should I move on?Anytime someone acts flaky just send a text saying let me know when you want to meet up again, if you’re not interested that’s fine too. You’ll get your answer. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedYeah I’m not putting any weight into it. I’ll continue to pursue other girls, I can’t waste all my time on someone who may not even be interested. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedShe knows I wanted something more serious so we’re just staying friends now. I see her throughout the week so obviously didn’t want to just ghost her. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedShe actually told me after the date she wasn’t looking for a relationship and didn’t want to give me the wrong idea. Now is that true or just a polite rejection? Who knows, could go either way. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 02:14 AM |
| 5 | FrustratedIt’s tough. When you’re actually into a girl you say or do things that you think would avoid scaring them off when in reality girls can sense these things and notice you’re not being yourself. It comes across as needy or too friendly. I don’t really have a solution as I’ve only recently discovered I do the same thing. But personally I’m trying to get into the mindset of just being myself and if they’re not interested, no matter how much I like them, then that’s ok cause it never would’ve worked … | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 07:54 PM |
| 14 | Pulling back - not watching IG stories?They really don’t care. Guys do as we don’t get attention on the daily. Girls do so they really don’t care. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedThanks for confirming my hunch was correct lol | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedThe key is to not overdo it. Don’t do it with intention of expecting something. You do it naturally in conversation. You don’t want to come across as needy. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 05:54 PM |
| 8 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedLooking back she definitely tried imitating sexual tension but I never escalated or advanced. I met her at a place we both frequent and we talked every few days for 3 weeks before our date due to scheduling conflicts. For example we’re both into fitness and workout a lot. She casually mentioned she’s trying to make her booty bigger so I joked saying I would but I already feel like mines too big for a dudes. She asked to see and said girls love a guy with a big butt. Instead of taking the obvious… | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 05:40 PM |
| 12 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedBut a girl doesn’t want to kiss you without any tension | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedI would say it’s crucial to try and escalate on the first date. Overdoing it imo is just trying to be sexual to be sexual. It has to come off naturally which is the issue as for many of us it isn’t natural. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedNo, it almost never works | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedPlease tell me how I’m wrong | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 04:19 PM |
| 9 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedI have a 6 pack. Girls don’t just sleep with any guy who has abs yknow. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 04:07 PM |
| 8 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedHaven’t yet lol, only just realized my issue. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedBecause she said so? | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedWell yeah I’m not saying overdo it | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 03:52 PM |
| 18 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedYeah that’s not the issue I’m referring to though. It’s more about escalating once you have secured the number and a date. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 05:31 AM |
| 20 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedTook a look back at all my successful vs unsuccessful encounters. The successful ones, except 1, was when I didn’t really care what the outcome was so I was more bold and outgoing. The unsuccessful ones were basically all the same. I liked the girl and wanted it to work so I ended up not being as bold as to not scare or push them away. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 05:30 AM |
| 54 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedYes but if she did see you as potential you could lose it by not being flirtatious. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 05:21 AM |
| 51 | Don't forget to make a girl feel wanted or you will be friendzonedSame here, if I can get them to come back to my place then I’m usually fine. But sadly girls lose attraction long before that. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you view rejection?Depends on the situation. If rejected before getting a date, no biggie we aren’t compatible. Rejected after a date? Starts to hit me for a few days and then I realize it’s either something I didn’t do or we weren’t compatible. Usually it’s the 1st. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?More like last 27 | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Who has a gym crush?Yeah I mean I don’t think she is either. Just wish she would say that as I see her all the time. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Who has a gym crush?I can share as I just went on a date last week with mine. Noticed her a while but was too scared to approach her as it’s the gym and I see her all the time. Started noticing others talking to her so she seemed like she didn’t mind it. So I said fuck it and just hey I see you here a lot and has a small convo. From there I just did small talk, little teasing but not hitting on her, for a bit every time I saw her until I asked for her number about a week later. Took like 3 weeks to eventually go ou… | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Do men care about boobsI personally don’t as I’m an ass man but just depends on the guy. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Girls that workout....I’ll give you my advice as I actually have a date with my gym crush tomorrow. It’s ok to approach girls at the gym but only if they seem approachable. Do you see other people talking to them? If so they probably don’t mind talking to you. Do not hit on them if you approach them. It’s the gym and you see these people on a regular basis. This is not like a club interaction. Just say hi I see you here pretty often and converse from there. Do not ask for her number in the first interaction. Again yo… | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 01:03 AM |
| -1 | How to get more dates from dating apps?Be hot | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Ask for a date straight or chat before?You can do a small hey convo for like 3-5 messages before asking | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 03:07 AM |
| 16 | Dating apps for men are a game of chance where the odds are against you, even for attractive menYup, only time it ever works is if you go to a foreign country. In the states I get like no matches. Went to Mexico, in just 3 days I got over 100 matches. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 02:33 AM |
| 2 | I want to fuck my boss, but is he into me?This is a god awful idea | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 02:31 AM |
| 16 | Approached this girl at the gym, got her number, but she said she's not looking to dateThese comments are awful. She clearly rejected you. Move on. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 03:32 AM |
| 6 | wtf happened my best friend who's a girl just dippedSounds like you were a drunk mistake and now she’s embarrassed | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 11:00 PM |
| 1 | My Experience With Working Out and Its Effect on SeductionYeah we’re the exact same. I actually have less success now than before I started lifting. I think it’s cause once I got in shape the girls I found attractive also changed. Most of the girls I used to find attractive I don’t anymore. So now I have less potential women to even ask out. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | My Experience With Working Out and Its Effect on SeductionYup, went from skinny to fit. My luck with women didn’t change. But it definitely helped with my depression. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 12:12 PM |
| 10 | My Experience With Working Out and Its Effect on SeductionThat’s why I only date girls who stay active | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Will having a lot of sex make me happier?Not really | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Do You Think My Aunt Would Be Ready To Have Sex with me ? And How Do i Seduce herWtf is this trash | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 11:13 PM |
| 5 | Be real with me (generalized question) are Latinas more promiscuous?Race doesn’t dictate your sex life. Everyone’s different… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 11:13 PM |
| 201 | The Discourse around men's height is inaccurate and social media is preying upon your insecuritiesWtf is this shit post. Insecure at 5’10. Bruh I’m fucking 5’6. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Singletons of Reddit who physically improved their looks/body. Did your love life improve?Made it worse in fact. I’m now no longer attracted to people I used to be making my options even more limited. My confidence and social skills are still the exact same meaning I strike out almost instantly with girls. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Antidepressants? Have they helped anyone here after major pain?Nah just time is the only thing that helps | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 03:51 PM |
| 27 | How do introverts get girls?We don’t | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Has a woman ever shown interest in you first?Well sadly I can only change my body not my face | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 10:58 PM |
| 5 | Has a woman ever shown interest in you first?Sigh, I have a good looking body but average looking face | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 09:50 PM |
| 2 | How to prevent partner's anxiety/depression from killing a LTRIt’s tough tbh. No matter what you do she’s gonna over analyze everything until there’s something wrong. It’s just how our minds work. Eventually after a few weeks she realize it was her fault. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How to prevent partner's anxiety/depression from killing a LTRAs someone who suffers from depression and social anxiety I’ve learned we’re pretty much cursed to short term relationships only. No one wants to deal with that shit and honestly I don’t blame them. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Finally asked for my gym crush’s numberShe typed it in | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Finally asked for my gym crush’s numberNumbers are 10 digits | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Should I ask her out via text or in person? Why or why not?I usually do text tbh as a rejection in person is usually more awkward than through text | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Finally asked for my gym crush’s numberThought about that but felt like it would’ve seem like I would’ve confused my intention’s. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Finally asked for my gym crush’s numberFirst time I tried it, won’t try it again lol | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Finally asked for my gym crush’s numberThink you meant 1 short but yeah it does seem weird especially since the area code is the same as our cities. You’d think a fake would be more obvious. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Finally asked for my gym crush’s numberYes | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Finally asked for my gym crush’s numberYes. We even talked pretty personal. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 02:34 AM |
| 6 | how do you guys handle so many women blowing you up on tinder?I’m buff but only 5’6 :/ | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Would have been my first cold approach in yearsOk I’ll give my 2 cents since I’m in a similar situation. Currently have a gym crush, I basically never approach them as it’s the gym but idk this one feels different. Got a different vibe from her that she might actually be interested. Anyways, I like you planned my approach and went up to her just to ask how many sets she had left. Got too nervous after asking and couldn’t think of anything to say and pretty much ended the conversation right there. Tried it again and once again failed miserabl… | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Am I giving up too soon?I think you probably misread the hand thing. Probably just an accidental touch. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you actually get better results when you get fit (I got none)?Hasn’t for me yet. Figured my confidence would improve once I got fit but it didn’t. The only thing getting fit changed was that the women I’m now attracted to are much more attractive than the ones I used to bs attracted to. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:02 AM |
| 0 | Did Any Other Late Bloomers Face This?Waited a few years. Moved out of state to a bigger city and starting really getting into working out. Did it gain better results? A lil but not as much as I'd of liked. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 04:42 AM |
| 5 | Zero luck on dating apps - better in real life?Idk I've tried both and have gotten shit results either way. At the end of the day your personality and confidence is what gets girls and if yours ain't great it's not gonna happen. Guess I'll just continue working out every day hoping that my looks will makeup for it. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 08:03 PM |
| 27 | Tinder’s Algorithm is a scamYoung people don't really use Facebook anymore though. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Am I too short at 5'7"-5'8?Bruh I'm 5'6 | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 02:16 AM |
| 0 | How are you even cold approaching women with masks on?I don't pass on the opportunity to shit on an antivaxxer | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 06:54 AM |
| -1 | How are you even cold approaching women with masks on?Nah I just browse for amusement, I don't use this sub lol | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 05:53 AM |
| -6 | How are you even cold approaching women with masks on?Yeah you definitely don't get laid lol. You didn't even use the phrase right either. Antivaxxers aren't known for their intelligence so that definitely checks out. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 05:47 AM |
| -8 | How are you even cold approaching women with masks on?Oof, stuck in 2004 are we? | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 05:45 AM |
| -3 | How are you even cold approaching women with masks on?Your type is a dumbass? | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 05:45 AM |
| 2 | How are you even cold approaching women with masks on?Well that sounds fucking stupid | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Best locations for vacation seductionSingle cruises are usually older people. The only kind of cruise I can see for this purpose is like festival cruises like groove cruise. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Anyone who got fit and saw huge difference with women?Surprisingly the opposite for me. I'm way more attractive and struggle to get dates now. I'm also no longer attracted to people I used to find attractive so maybe I'm just only attracted to people out of my league lol. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 02:05 AM |
| 7 | Best locations for vacation seductionMost ports aren't the actual city, it's like an American town essentially. No one really lives in the ports. At least for Caribbean ports which is where op would most likely be going if he's from Florida. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 11:33 PM |
| 10 | Best locations for vacation seductionWhat, most cruises people go with family or significant others... | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 11:29 PM |
| 0 | Trying to move from Tinder to Instagram. Don't know the ins and outs of Instagram and looking for tips.You don't get laid through Instagram lol | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 12:18 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If it makes you feel better the party I went to was a complete shit show and I'm tempted to go home already. It's that bad. Music is complete ass and the crowd is god awful. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 05:24 AM |
| 79 | I need a pickup line for a girl named BambiWant to grab a coffee and exchange childhood trauma stories of our dead mothers? | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 08:00 PM |
| 29 | Having a good fwb is much better than having multiple ONSAnd I get neither :) | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.This is only true to an extent. In my experience it's just extremely hard to find a connection with a woman. That's not an excuse. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Single guys, if you were set financially, what would you do with your life?I'm about to start a pretty good paying job in July. Plan to travel 3-4 weeks a year. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 11:10 PM |
| 7 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?Speak for yourself. I'm in the best shape of my life and as soon as I hit 24 I've basically hit a wall. Everyone's taken and the ones that aren't have no interest in me. 20-24 is where it's at. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 11:46 PM |
| 0 | Shoot. Your. Shot.I'm naturally talkative online. Doesn't work for me, no girls want to meet up. | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 06:36 AM |
| 40 | [deleted by user]I've had female friends do this, wasn't sexual. Girls just don't like wearing bras. | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 05:55 AM |
| 198 | [deleted by user]Taking a bra off isn't exactly a sign. Girls don't sleep with their bras on, she's most likely just getting comfortable for bed. | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 05:33 AM |
| 23 | Hooked up at the party but she left with her friends after she said yes when I told her I’m taking her homeIt does not | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I've had that once but it was just another shuffler who was with her bf, so basically platonic only lol | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Only thing I get is other shufflers complimenting me or random people asking me how to dance. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 02:03 PM |
| 18 | [deleted by user]This is obviously just a way for you to advertise your onlyfans Also the dancing shit is a lie. I'm fit and I go to a lot of edm shows where I shuffle and I'm pretty good at it. Legit never gotten a single girl through it. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 01:57 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Not necessarily. I've met a few girls when going out, talked with them and got their numbers. They sent me a text back after I messaged and then never messaged again. They just weren't that interested and were just being nice. Again a text will not change their interest level if you met in person originally. If you met through a dating app then sure texting is key but if you met in person they're basing their opinion of you on the interactions they had with you not a text. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you met in person originally first impressions are everything. If she was interested she would've said yes no matter how you asked her or how long you've been texting. I would just say nothing, if she's interested she'll respond back. Texting again won't change her mind. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 06:43 PM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]This ain't the fuck my professor sub. There's so many reasons why that's a terrible idea. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 02:08 AM |
| 18 | [deleted by user]Wtf kind of post is this | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 12:52 AM |
| 5 | All this height none sense is annoyingI'm 5'6. Used to bother me but the older I got I just stopped caring. There's actually plenty of girls shorter than me, I'd say most are in fact where I live. My main issue now is working up the confidence to approach and making small talk. | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 03:15 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I'd move on | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Girl realised i went through her instagramYou followed her? What the fuck else did she expect you to do? Network? This ain't LinkedIn. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Is it worth dropping the standards a bit?I tried that once, turned out terribly. Now I just get rejected a lot more often when I go for my standards. It's a lose lose situation. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 01:58 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]I lost mine at 20, my first kiss wasn't even until I was 19. You're fine. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 11:42 PM |
| 5 | [FIELD REPORT] Rave EditionDepends. For me I use it to dance harder without getting tired. I am the least bit horny. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Tinder chat, what did I do wrong?Tried that too, still ghosted | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Tinder chat, what did I do wrong?Online dating apps are like that. Just had 2 days of texting this girl, she sent me some nudes even. I didn't ask, she just sent me them. Asked for a date and was ghosted. I don't get it. | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 05:24 PM |
| 6 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.Weird fucking family | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Dating tips for high quality womenI feel like it's harder to make friends once you're older. I'm only 26 and most have no interest in adding new friends it seems. | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 04:56 PM |
| 4 | Dating tips for high quality womenThere's less women available. I'm only 26 and most women I find attractive end up being taken or have a kid. | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Left my number on her truckI wouldn't call that creepy. Creepy would be knowing which vehicle is hers without actually talking by the vehicle. | /r/seduction | 19/06/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Guaranteed way to know if a girl wants to be ApproachedAlright but you're gonna come across as a deuche or creep if you can't tell there's not. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Guaranteed way to know if a girl wants to be ApproachedOf course not, just time and place is still important. There's just certain places people don't want to be hit on. Work and gym are examples. | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 02:57 AM |
| 8 | Guaranteed way to know if a girl wants to be ApproachedFor random girls maybe but he approached this line on someone who was at work. No girl wants to be hit on while working. | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 04:31 AM |
| 12 | Guaranteed way to know if a girl wants to be ApproachedMy guess is he's probably super attractive. Average looking guys can't pull that off. They'd be seen as creepy. | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 03:28 AM |
| 13 | Simple Tinder photo trick to get more matches!This does not work | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups?Haven't counted but I think 10. Lost my virginity at 21 and am 26 now, most were when I was 21-22, probably 6 during that time period. Cant get shit anymore for some reason. I remember consistently getting matches and dates through Tinder when I was 21 but now I'll be lucky to get 5 matches with any leading to a date. I honestly don't get it. I've gained way more muscle since 21 and look so much better and yet nothing. I even have better pictures too. Maybe it's cause I'm older and younger girls… | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 11:13 PM |
| 0 | Not very good at night game with bars and clubs alone but great at concerts alone?If I had to pay a premium to see a dj I wanted it's fine but if I'm just going to go out I don't know what to do. | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Help me seduce my cougar boss.Well this sounds stupid as hell. I regretted just dating a coworker but your damn manager?! Jesus Christ this isn't a soap opera. | /r/seduction | 09/05/21 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Do women find most men attractive?Well no wonder why it's so fucking hard for us. You have to be in the top 20% just to even be noticed on first glance. | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 02:03 AM |
| 13 | Swipe LEFT on hot girls who have their snapchat and instagrams in their biosThe worst part is there's literally no teasers or anything. You have to pay to unlock whatever they post so they can just post random selfies if they wanted to. It's bullshit and only desperate fucks fall for it. | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 05:55 AM |
| 27 | Swipe LEFT on hot girls who have their snapchat and instagrams in their biosLow key ruined porn because girls now realize that some dumb fucks will pay for a porn subscription without even having to actually post porn. | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 05:51 AM |
| 42 | Swipe LEFT on hot girls who have their snapchat and instagrams in their biosOr onlyfans | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Critical Game Skill - This one skill will make you massively more attractive to womenYeah the older I got the less I cared and it's worked out amazingly. | /r/seduction | 09/02/20 12:52 AM |
| 1 | First week of class and I already got 3 numbers!I mean they are but it's still worth a shot. If all I get is a study friend kind of vibe I won't pursue anything but 2 of the 3 seemed pretty interested and asked me about my personal life and even what I was doing later. The other one was kind of shy so no idea what to expect there tbh. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 09:53 PM |
| 8 | Sums up my struggle with external validation and needinessThat was my most recent ex who dumped me 2 weeks ago after only a month. Best ass I've ever seen/been with. But turns out she was a total cunt so eh sex was good at least but I certainly don't miss her. | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 04:54 AM |
| 2 | When another guy swoops in as you walk toward a girl youre about to approachI did, gave it over 20 minutes. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | When another guy swoops in as you walk toward a girl youre about to approachRead my edit, I already made progress! | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 10:59 AM |
| 6 | When another guy swoops in as you walk toward a girl youre about to approachApparently a couple seconds makes all the difference. | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Don't let online dating be your main way to meet womenYeah I gave up on dating apps | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 01:04 PM |
| 5 | How do some of you guys hook up with 50+ girls in a Year?Hey that's when I lost my virginity lol. | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 01:03 PM |
| 44 | My experience with Tinder dating and creating an engaging bio.Yeah this thread doesn't help 90% of men, myself included. It's why I gave up on online dating in general. | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 11:17 AM |
| 2 | 12 signs that she’s into youI don't really have much info. It was a ghost after all. They always happen out of nowhere for no reason. | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | 12 signs that she’s into youShe displayed the same traits on the date as well though... I'm not saying that but based on this she should be still talking to me at the very least. | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | 12 signs that she’s into youShe was still texting me the next 2 days... | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 09:42 PM |
| 1 | 12 signs that she’s into youYeah not completely accurate. All but 2 we're true with a girl I recently went on a date with. She ended up ghosting me 3 days later... | /r/seduction | 30/10/18 09:41 PM |
| 45 | I actually lost my virginity through tinder. It’s easier than I thoughtI lost mine through Yik Yak of all places lol | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 08:28 AM |
| 1 | I did it reddit, I finally worked up the courage and talked to a girl!I'm pretty close. I do shuffle lol. | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 02:48 AM |
| 2 | I did it reddit, I finally worked up the courage and talked to a girl!Yeah I usually don't mind it. I've met a few people who I consider friends now. I'm not gonna not go to a concert just cause I have no one to go with. | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 02:02 AM |
| 2 | I did it reddit, I finally worked up the courage and talked to a girl!I'm 22 and I only just did it for the first time. It's tough for sure but I think now it'll be easier from here on out. | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 01:03 AM |
| 10 | I did it reddit, I finally worked up the courage and talked to a girl!Smart thinking, I could use more friends. I go to most concerts alone sadly. | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 02:39 PM |
| 7 | I did it reddit, I finally worked up the courage and talked to a girl!Zedd. | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Signs a girl you dont know is interested?Thank you, coming from a girls perspective it makes it so much more helpful. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 05:55 AM |
| 1 | I hate myself so much (confidence issue)Doesnt mean she'll be there. And I doubt ill be able to work up the confidence still. Ive always been like this, never have the courage to do anything. Always assume ill get rejected. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 03:49 AM |
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