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The stigma is real. Never realized that until now. The age gap between me and women I date isnt even that big
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:08 PM
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Im going to be honest here... Men and women do age but men dont have to rely as much on their looks. We have game, money, status to fall back on. Womens sexual marketplace value heavily relies on their looks. And this usually fades slowly or rapidly once they hit late twenties. So I may be old but younger women find me more attractive than ever. My age works to my advantage.
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:53 PM
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Honestly, she's being a cunt here. Absolutely disrespectful. Remember, you attention is your currency. If you arent getting anything back in return you stop doling it out. Move on brother. This chick sounds like bad news.
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:55 AM
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Hey man, I feel ya. The fact you're telling me that you saw a "future" with this woman who hasnt even kissed or fuck you speaks volumes on your issues. You invest in women way to easily. You dont have a set of clear expectations of a women that justifies emotionally investing in her. Simply her offering her "friendship" is enough of an expectation which is pathetically a low bar to meet. What can she do for you? What does she offer? Does she meet YOUR needs? Women are attracted to men who care a…
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:22 PM
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Im thinking with a clear head now. I was a vulnerable wreck back then. Whatever wishful fanciful ideas I deluded myself into believing has been discarded in the trash. I just realized what a gamble it is to pursue something with a co-worker. The awkwardness of having to work together if things dont work out would be considered the least terrible of possibilties. I also practice an abundance mentality now. I date multiple women until I'm exclusive. To me she is just another chick now. The rose ti…
/r/seduction07/01/22 02:16 PM
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No. Theres scientific term called muscle memory. Its well know phenomenon observed. Its much easier and way faster to get your gains back compared to building it out of scratch
/r/seduction07/01/22 12:02 AM
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Dont bother with work women. Things can get dicey.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:44 PM
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Bingo. No boundaries, no expectations = weak spineless cuck
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:38 PM
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What type of work though? Improving appearance is a powerful thing but inner game trumps it. Are you fun to talk to? To people enjoy being around you? How about your expectations of people around you? Do you enforce them? People (girls) care about people who care and meet their expectations aka not being a spineless subservient cuck.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:32 PM
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I dont think she intentionally meant any of it. You dont share details of your dating experience to some dude you just met at work. She was subconsoncioisly using me as a source of validation and attention. Come friday she leaves me on read only to come back next monday with an excuse. That stings regardless of how you see it.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:24 PM
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I ran my own business back in 2012. Lasted a year only. Its a brutal industry my dude. Thats why I changed career paths . You need to be an excellent sales person. If you are only good in the training aspect of the job such as me, you will stuggle
/r/seduction06/01/22 07:13 PM
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She's playing you man. Move on and tell her to kick rocks next time she comes back
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:44 PM
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The same type of expectations a self respecting person has. Examples When I like a girl and give my time and attention to her she needs to reciprocate. If they dont I remove all of that attention/validation and treat them as a stranger/aqcuaintance. I expect girls not to be bithcy and pick fights with me. If she does I respond by invalidating her/calling her out or ignoring her. I expect my friend to be on time when we meet up to hang out. I call them out if they arent You get the idea here. We …
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:40 PM
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Lol thats a good analolgy
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:09 AM
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I dont think she actively knew what she was doing to me. She'd text me all week then pretend to forget to hit send on the text or some other bullshit excuse. She subconciously used me as a crutch when dudes she was going out with didnt work out. I know she didnt mean any of it but its hard to get out of this without a bad taste in your mouth. Besides, she liked the spineless mentally ill version of me. I was safe and non sexual option that offered her free time attention and validation. Im not t…
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:08 AM
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Im 30 my guy. My journey into seduction started way back when I was 21.
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:14 AM
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I didnt. I shifted to the way I was before my mental breakdown. That means re-learning old habits I built and repairing the broken expectations I had of people (women included) i.e creating boundaries and not rewarding people until they meet my expectations. Dropped the false people pleasing behavior I built as a coping mechanism to avoid confrontation in order to manage my anxiety. This wasnt exactly a case of transformation. It has more to do with becoming the person I worked hard to become pr…
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:00 AM
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Exactly this. You need to fail with women to calibrate your approach
/r/seduction06/01/22 03:09 AM
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This only matters to young dudes. If you try doing that when you are mid twenties to 30's, it comes off as pathetic.
/r/seduction20/12/21 01:14 PM
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Welp guess I fucked up. Oh well.
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:42 AM
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Lets just say I prefer not to get burnt and frustrated whenever things dont work out. I treat dating as a numbers game now to spare me the anguish of operating in this fucked up dating scene. Its cynical but at least you dont end up pulling all your hair out.
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:38 AM
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Noted. Wasnt aware people in their early 30's still operate this way. Its pretty naive and you end up getting burnt more often than not doing this.
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:21 AM
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But she isnt wasting her time though. Not with me at least. She gets as much chance any of the other girls im dating. Im just playing the game like anyone else. Im dating other people until I become exclusive.
/r/seduction10/12/21 12:07 AM
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We werent even dating or anything. Just talking. If we were dating I'd understand her anger.
/r/seduction09/12/21 11:58 PM
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Lol no. Not even dating yet. Just talking. Which is why I think its overboard
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:24 PM
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But Im not leading her on though lol. I'm just playing the field like everyone else. Im dating other people until I become exclusive with one.
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:21 PM
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Isnt being open about these things a good thing? That way theres no unrealistic expectations if things dont work out.
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:44 PM
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Just wanted to be honest with her. I also wanted her to be honest with me too.
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:33 PM
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Not this time. We were just talking about our dating practices and I threw it out there.
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:24 PM
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She is actually a coworker. She straight up started ignoring me immediately after I admitted it during our christmas party. I could tell she was angry with me. Seems excessive to me dont you think? Sounds like a red flag.
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:24 PM
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Never reveal these intimate personal things with a chick you just met. Save it for your close friends or the psychologist. Same with revealing your insecurities and stream of consciousness thoughts that frame you in a negative unflattering light. It puts you in a position of weakness. You come across as too trusting/eager. You are rewarding her for jack shit my dude. The only time I'll ever tell a chick these things is maybe way down the line when a serious relationship has been established. Eve…
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:41 PM
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Drop that B
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:14 AM
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If she bails twice thats a strike out. Same goes with rain checks. If she starts ssnding mixed signals I disengage and wish them well. Its simple really. Dont get invested to some chick you barely know. Always be willing to cut things out
/r/seduction05/09/21 08:17 PM
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Dont. It will only lead to bad shit. Plenty of women out there my dude. No need to get yourself involved in this incoming trainwreck. Think with your bigger head not the smaller one
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:11 AM
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I made a mistake once of sharing my fear of having to get major surgery in a months time to a date. I had a bad experience once. Life threatening complications. I noticed she got a little turned off from this
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:48 PM
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So how far into a relationship? Definitely not the 1st few dates right?
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:39 PM
1

Do you evet reveal your symptoms though? Like how you feel scared atm. What about your regrets about having to live with a debilitating condition?
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:35 PM
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Sounds like what matters more is how you present a vulnerable fact about you. Yoi can do it in a matter of fact way or present in as a complaint/whiny gripe
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:31 PM
1

Financial interest? Like marriage?
/r/seduction23/08/21 06:11 PM
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Im trying to weed out Immature girls.Those girls in your podcast come off as vapid immature women. Ignoring them might work in the short term but I dont believe its worth playing these games to keep their attention. This just leads to toxic relationships. Acting like you dint want her comes off as needy and the complete opposite of being direct. Id rather be alone than play these frivolous tactics.
/r/seduction22/08/21 10:53 AM
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Different one
/r/seduction22/08/21 07:06 AM
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Ill do that next time. I got the I'm not ready for anything serious right now talk. I told her all the best. That was 4 months ago. I havent been able to land any dates as we have been in a stage 4 lockdown since June. Im trying to figure out what to do next time a girl pulls this shit. Your reply seems reasonable.
/r/seduction22/08/21 06:49 AM
1

I tried building comfort first before and I ended up with the Im not ready for a realtionship excuse lol
/r/seduction22/08/21 06:46 AM
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I did lol. She said nothing was wrong
/r/seduction22/08/21 06:42 AM
10

At the start. It was weird. I tried playfully touching her just safe stuff like in the shoulder for example or the small of her back. It was like a completely different person. For example she usually asks me questions and is a very active participant in our convos. I felt like I was leading the convo by myself.
/r/seduction22/08/21 06:41 AM
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True, you lose frame when you show how hurt/angry you are. In her eyes you've lost control. Its easier said than done but when you are in the moment its apparent how difficult it is to keep your emotions in check. Im also working on this issue
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:41 AM
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In what way were you overreacting? I thinm I have this problem too
/r/seduction02/07/21 11:24 PM
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Sounds like she just wanted attention. Good on you for cutting her out. "Appreciating your friendship" lmao. Your attention is a valuable resource. She appreciated the free attention you gave her.
/r/seduction18/05/21 11:11 PM
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You are an inspiration man
/r/seduction02/05/21 12:26 AM
1

Well our meetup was in two weeks (we see each other often as we work together) I had a date on the coming weekend when I told her at work. This is weird. Never had a girl act like this.
/r/seduction23/03/21 01:09 AM
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Large latin dance school that has classes all day. I live in Sydney Australia
/r/seduction19/12/20 04:09 AM
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Uhhh I am... Ive got more than 1 option. Nevermind. I checked your profile. You're 20. Explains it all
/r/seduction19/12/20 02:27 AM
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Yep. A time waster and attention seeker. NEXT! Appreciate your feedback.
/r/seduction19/12/20 02:25 AM
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Dude this is some dumbass advice. Salsa dancing is awesome and you meet lots of hot girls. How old are you? Jesus christ.
/r/seduction19/12/20 02:20 AM
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I am. Im asking how I should do it without causing any more weirdness at work. Total shut out or just keep things civil
/r/seduction19/12/20 02:11 AM
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She mentioned her hobby was dancing
/r/seduction19/12/20 02:09 AM
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I never say or text lol. Thats some nice guy shit. The lol I wrote just signifies me jokingly disagreeing with her assesment. I was keeping things light. The boss did not bail her out. She was the one who approached me and sat next to me. we have had awesome flirty convos in person when it was just me and her. Either way it doesnt matter as this girl sounds like a headcase anyway
/r/seduction19/12/20 02:06 AM
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Yep
/r/seduction19/12/20 01:45 AM
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All I can think of is she is jealous that I'm dancing with a lot of single attractive girls or she thinks Im secretly doing salsa to pick girls up.
/r/seduction19/12/20 01:28 AM
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Its so weird lol. We've had awesome convos in person beforehand. Dont know why she got triggered by this.
/r/seduction19/12/20 01:17 AM
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Not in the traditional activist sense but she is very independent based on our past convos in person and text. She dumped her ex of 8 months because he was way too much of a doormat. She most definitely likes wearing the pants in the relationship. Furthermore, none of her relationships have went past a year. She is 33.
/r/seduction19/12/20 01:13 AM
1

That's what I was thinking. But man is she persistent to keep this up for 2 months despite me replying with 3 word replies or sometimes just not replying.
/r/seduction04/12/20 02:12 PM
1

Yeah I liker her. I'm seeing her for coffee in two weeks. Problem is she wont stop texting. I keeping texting to a minimum now as it only serves to kill any potential chance you might have. I'm dont want to enter that pen pal texting again as that stuff can only work against me. I dont want to ignore her texts completely either.
/r/seduction04/12/20 12:27 PM
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No wonder you're name is forever alone you white knight cuck
/r/PussyPassDenied31/12/17 11:48 PM
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