connectiongold Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What is your outfit of choice at a nightclub?		connectiongold	/r/seduction	16/12/19 02:18 AM

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1	You can't make someone love you. Why do you say that?	/r/seduction	22/09/20 12:37 AM
31	[FR] Asked a girl for her number at the market Couldn’t agree with you more on the first point, unless you’ve got a serious connection with her, it’s pretty unfair to go after someone who’s working, because: She’s obligated to be nice to you. There’s no way for her to leave the interaction should she feel uncomfortable.	/r/seduction	03/02/20 12:20 AM
2	A Good social circle is SEVERELY underrated Thanks I appreciate the response. That's actually not a bad idea. I will try and give that a go.	/r/seduction	16/01/20 12:00 AM
1	A Good social circle is SEVERELY underrated I’m at university and finding the social side of it really frustrating. I have people that I talk to, but no one I’m that close with. They have their own groups but seldom invite me to join them, but are happy to hang out with me one on one? I’d love some general advice if you have any. I’m at uni in the UK and from your use of university as opposed to college would I be right in assuming you are too?	/r/seduction	14/01/20 03:01 AM
1	I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach. But if you don’t mention the reason why you’re approaching her, can’t that be quite confusing for her? I can’t imagine building up to asking her out if you haven’t done this.	/r/seduction	04/01/20 09:02 PM
4	What Every Pretty Girl and Champ Guy Knows, But Can Never Tell You Couldn’t agree with you more. I hate how this whole post is framed.	/r/seduction	01/01/20 03:56 AM
3	What Every Pretty Girl and Champ Guy Knows, But Can Never Tell You Tbh I am that age and if I was that good with them, I’d feel pretty damn good about myself haha.	/r/seduction	01/01/20 03:54 AM
8	What Every Pretty Girl and Champ Guy Knows, But Can Never Tell You Thank you for calling this out for what it is. I’m honestly so sick of these posts. They all seem to be some kind of pseduo-motivational posts while saying very little at all, especially in the way of practical advice. It gets really old, and it’s not why I’m on this sub. It seems to be the same thing over and over again. And the adoration for them is just annoying.	/r/seduction	01/01/20 03:54 AM
1	So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it? I like that mindset a lot. I often get too invested, I’m too self-conscious about what people think. I have the best nights when I just let go. Honestly, at this point, I’m just happy if I meet a few people. My bar is relatively low. The thing I’m asking is what kind of openers are good for a club situation, how would you approach people? Like I said, dance floor is difficult when girls are with a group and they tend to be super averse at the bar, but also, it’s almost impossible to hear and hav…	/r/seduction	31/12/19 12:00 AM
2	So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it? Thanks for the response! I can definitely corroborate push-pull being extremely helpful. I mean I’ve only used it properly once, but it managed to get hottest girl in the club (and still someone very few people come close to) to grind on me. I was wondering around on my own looking for some friends, and saw her dancing with some friends. I was walking past and decided to dance to her, but after I did, I held eye contact with her and danced away from her, almost telling her she couldn’t have this…	/r/seduction	30/12/19 02:16 AM
1	So looks don’t matter, but why doesn’t it? More guys kept trying to approach her and many of them were better looking than I was, because I'm definitely not the best looking dude in any room. And yet she kept rejecting them and not paying attention to them, but she totally dug on me. So how did you do this? You never shared it.	/r/seduction	30/12/19 01:50 AM
1	Pancakes don’t get the pass this is some obvious bait, no one says stuff like that.	/r/PussyPassDenied	23/12/19 06:29 PM
1	What is your outfit of choice at a nightclub? At nicer nightclubs, I want to wear a casual unstructured blazer, but a dilemma I have is that while it would look great, it would be difficult to actually dance in. Does anyone wear a blazer/jacket going out?	/r/seduction	16/12/19 02:19 AM
1	Pubs and bars are better than nightclubs I have the money for sure, but it’s not nothing to me. and I feel like the money to get in is only a small part of my reluctance - greater still is this idea that the girls there won’t find me attractive or in their league. that i won’t match up to the slick business guys who frequent such places. i’d obviously much rather go to places where girls are more open to dancing and interacting, but I feel at higher end clubs it would be the inverse.	/r/seduction	16/12/19 02:17 AM
5	Pubs and bars are better than nightclubs Trashy nightclubs suck. Expensive exclusive nightclubs are good. It comes down to the people. I’ve heard a lot of people say this on here. As a student, I’ve mainly been to those cheaper nightclubs, as it tends to be where the crowd I’m with goes. I always worry going to a higher end nightclub, that first I’ll pay a lot of money to get in, and it will be dead or whatever. And second, that the girls there will only be attracted to higher status men with money - as in men who have their own busine…	/r/seduction	15/12/19 06:58 PM
10	Pubs and bars are better than nightclubs I find it so jarring when guys talk about trying to have a conversation in a nightclub. From my experience, it’s almost entirely physical. You lock eyes with someone, dance with them, get closer and closer, and then things just happen, almost naturally. Is your experience similar to this?	/r/seduction	15/12/19 06:53 PM
1	Pubs and bars are better than nightclubs I have also found this to be the case x100. I wonder why it is though?	/r/seduction	15/12/19 06:50 PM
5	Pubs and bars are better than nightclubs I definitely agree with that. I find girls that are a 10 just seem to be nicer, more open and genuine, in general.	/r/seduction	15/12/19 06:46 PM
2	In a split second, clothes makes a person more competent in the eyes of others, suggests new study. Faces were judged as significantly more competent when the clothing was perceived as “richer.” This judgment was made almost instantaneously. When explicitly asked to ignore, the bias still remained. I was in my second comment. Ahh, thanks for letting me know. Not really what I would call designer, but each to his own.	/r/seduction	11/12/19 01:20 AM
2	In a split second, clothes makes a person more competent in the eyes of others, suggests new study. Faces were judged as significantly more competent when the clothing was perceived as “richer.” This judgment was made almost instantaneously. When explicitly asked to ignore, the bias still remained. really helpful, thanks	/r/seduction	11/12/19 01:15 AM
1	In a split second, clothes makes a person more competent in the eyes of others, suggests new study. Faces were judged as significantly more competent when the clothing was perceived as “richer.” This judgment was made almost instantaneously. When explicitly asked to ignore, the bias still remained. no one (guys included) has yet to say a single word about my Amber Harness IRs and it's annoying because i think they look incredible and it's the most I've ever spent on a pair of shoes.	/r/seduction	11/12/19 01:03 AM
1	In a split second, clothes makes a person more competent in the eyes of others, suggests new study. Faces were judged as significantly more competent when the clothing was perceived as “richer.” This judgment was made almost instantaneously. When explicitly asked to ignore, the bias still remained. designer hoodies or sweaters which designers are you talking?	/r/seduction	11/12/19 01:01 AM
14	First date from irl pickup I'm kind of weird in that I find it difficult to be dishonest. So I don't think making something up would be good. But I also don't want to weird her out by coming off too strong, by saying 'you're absolutely stunning and I had to talk to you' or whatever, especially if I've only seen her for like 10 seconds.	/r/seduction	08/12/19 11:45 PM
28	First date from irl pickup Asked for directions? I sometimes have this, when I see a girl walking by, and I'm just like 'holy fuck', and I want to approach her, but I'm often at a loss as to how to do that.	/r/seduction	08/12/19 11:39 PM
3	Had 3 dates this weekend after nothing for almost a year! That's awesome, way to go. What do you mean super ruthless with your tinder though? Like swiping right on everyone?	/r/seduction	08/12/19 01:40 PM
3	I would like to share a very small technique that made a huge positive change when approaching someone Thanks for taking the time to write this! It makes a lot of sense actually, and it's not something I've ever really considered before. I did wonder if girls get sick of hearing that, because everyone must say it to them, especially 9 and 10s. Basically your advice is to completely ignore the way you (they) look? There are loads of attractive women around. Tonnes. As someone who has just moved to a very big, affluent city, I can definitely confirm this. It's actually shocking just how many there …	/r/seduction	08/12/19 04:48 AM
1	[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store Haha I think you would be too. ;) I'm in college so it's pretty chill at the moment. I think just going to as many things as possible is a good way to meet people you actually connect with - it feels like more a numbers game than anything else. But to me, connecting with someone personality wise, and being physically and sexually attracted to them are not necessarily the same thing. I guess the main reason I'm even on this sub is to get better at the latter, especially in clubs, which is somethi…	/r/seduction	04/12/19 01:00 AM
1	[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store I can see why you like the romanticism of the idea, but the amount of times that would happen is so low, and I don’t want to spend my life waiting for chance interactions to occur. I thoroughly agree, hence my desire for more places that are social in nature.	/r/seduction	04/12/19 12:47 AM
1	Night Game Or Daytime? Which one should you do? An in depth explanation of the pros and cons to both. Thanks for posting this, it was really helpful to understand the differences between the two environments. I want to ask what you mean by this though: If you are approaching her with the right attention and say the right things then you are doing her the favor. If you come up to her just to say she is beautiful or small talk, then you are taking and wasting her valuable time. What would you consider to be 'the right things'?	/r/seduction	04/12/19 12:26 AM
1	[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store I agree - approaching someone while they're sitting down is really intrusive and aggressive, and I was wary if that was what you meant. But if we're just saying 'hey' to people in line, well then you can do that almost anywhere. Plus the lack of agency you have in deciding who will be next to you in line (if it is someone you actually find attractive) kind of lends the whole thing to be much more down to chance, than any ability you possess. There's almost no agency in it at all.	/r/seduction	04/12/19 12:10 AM
1	[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store hot blonde chicks in yoga pants all I need in life tbh	/r/seduction	04/12/19 12:04 AM
1	[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store I really agree with what you're saying about there being a time and place where it is acceptable to approach. Honestly, I even find the idea of approaching a random woman on a street really weird, let alone 'targeting' people in a grocery store. This is the main reason I like going to bars and clubs, but the issue of people being drunk and the loud music is prevalent. I think it would be nice if there were more places where people just go to meet others. I don't think coffee shops are a good pla…	/r/seduction	04/12/19 12:03 AM
2	I would honestly approach girls in club if they were to even hold 1.5 seconds on eye contact with me. But I've noticed that most of the time, they don't even look at me. How do I fix this? I feel like it’s what people mean when they call some guys a ‘chad’.	/r/seduction	02/12/19 01:00 AM
3	I would honestly approach girls in club if they were to even hold 1.5 seconds on eye contact with me. But I've noticed that most of the time, they don't even look at me. How do I fix this? Pretty sure opening multiple girls in a row would look creepy as hell and put other girls off you even more.	/r/seduction	02/12/19 12:23 AM
3	I would honestly approach girls in club if they were to even hold 1.5 seconds on eye contact with me. But I've noticed that most of the time, they don't even look at me. How do I fix this? I wonder what it is that makes it so much easier for some guys than others.	/r/seduction	01/12/19 11:28 PM