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women are loved unconditionally Man meets woman, his friends ask what she looks like. Clearly it's not unconditionally. Women are valued by theiir looks Only children and dogs are loved unconditionally. Women are loved on the condition of her looks and sexual access to her body with some slight preferences/criteria of her body count.
/r/MensRights10/09/19 11:55 AM
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There's a difference. In the right to sex stance they're obligating someone else to engage them in an optional activity. In the right to free birth control they're not forcing anyone to share with them an optional activity. They're seeking aid to prevent a medical issue arising from that optional activity. Medical issues that do not force others to engage in an activity with you are healthcare concerns. Governments usually have a funded healthcare program.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 05:30 AM
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I don’t understand why I’m like this the only time I will make eye contact with a man on the street is if I want to let him know I’m interested in him. You subconsciously know why. You know that men will take anything as an indicator of interest especially eye contact. So you avoid eye contact so they won't bother you. I don't do this. I look where I want to look. Many time men approach me because he thinks I was looking at him. I simply tell them to "Fuck Off", "Go Away", "Not Interested", or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 05:26 AM
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Yes he can and that's by not associating those traits to masculinity. Be confident. Don't think of confidence as a masculine trait. Be dominant. Don't think of dominant as a masculine trait. In my opinion once men start thinking X is a masculine trait that trait turns straight to shit. Because then the direct opposite is a feminine trait and that's shameful, bad, etc for a man to be and he must under all circumstances avoid even hinting at not being X. Thus when dominance is seen as a masculine …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 05:21 AM
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Exactly if your stance is single mothers raise shitty kids...then don't fund any government aid for all groups that raise shitty kids. The specific targeting of single mothers comes across as bitter butthurt sexual frustration "women won't fuck me so I won't give any money to help any woman" and simply using a seemingly valid excuse to cover it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 05:15 AM
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The fact that it is a shitty stance based on sexual frustration is what makes you incapable of changing my mind. It's not as if "women won't fuck me so I resent aiding women" is somehow unreasonable for to raise an eyebrow at. Anyways your triggering at my use of menz tells me enough. Laters (my questions don't really need answers but feel free to comment just to hear yourself talk). Low income single mothers are statistically speaking atrociously bad parents. So are low income single fathers, l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 05:08 AM
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In my opinion in American society children are screwed no matter what home they come from. Incels are upon us so everything is fucked up now. Actually children turn out worse in financially stressed single parent homes. It's actually telling how much finances influence a well developed child. An upper middle class single parent home is equivalent to an ideal two parent family home. I state ideal because soo many assume two parent home = good kids. No two parent household with a healthy relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 04:36 AM
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From the information from other sources, his case was too interesting, he has two parents. It's just that mommy is the sucker coddling him. Daddy doesn't play that shit. Though mom may soon be a single mother as it seems the son and the finances are causing martial issues. Divorce may be pending.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 04:33 AM
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In my opinion there shouldn't be any outraged. I don't see anything to be upset about. A woman is multi-dating and eliminating the guys that don't fit her criteria..oh the horror of this evil woman selecting multiple guys and telling them they're rejected if they don't fit her criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 04:15 AM
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The reasoning that 1) women tend to have lower sex drives 2) sex is societally seen as a degrading act that lowers a woman's self-image 3) sex is generally non orgasmic/non pleasurable for women. most sexual acts are for male benefit/pleasure so it's not like women will be missing out on some amazing grand pleasure by skipping out on the average typical sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 04:06 AM
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Therapy. Struggling with such means they have some issues that they can't relate to women as human beings and interact with women as human beings. The reason they turn to TRP isn't because they are being mocked or given unhelpful advice. It's because they see women as evil gatekeepers unfairly denying them something he wants. He's been nice and done the bare minimum (not abusive, hygienic, and not deformed) so he feels owed the girl of his criteria...overlooking she make have more criteria than …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 04:04 AM
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I'm curious about this too. Exactly what societal, personal problems are single mothers causing these poor menz. Is it some kind of 'women can get support from the government so they don't need to depend on a man for survival causing less men to have a woman' incel mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 03:57 AM
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The same way women can have some type of emtoional attachment/invest in their man despite the truths about men such as "men are not protectors/heroes/saviors they're usually your enemy" or "men can't truly love a woman heck they don't even like women as noted by how the ideal woman is usually not like other girls since being a female is bad by default". Denial is great for many. Thinking your partner is the exception also works. Accepting what is often is a lesser choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 12:56 PM
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My view is not to treat men better than men treat me. I don't see most men being considered what is disrespectful- approaching women when she is busy, feeling entitled to women's time/attention/bodies. So ghosting is a wash for me. When men stop intruding on me because of their dick I'll stop ghosting. I don't see most men being considered about what is morally wrong. If anything men seem to go by 'if it works then do it'. They will advise emotional manipulation, psychological abuse, sometimes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 12:55 PM
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Meh men often have sex with women they don't care about just because they want the sex. Heck even women they're not attracted to just to have sex. I have yet to see most men call men out negatively for doing that. So having a placeholder relationship just to have a relationship seems tit for tat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 12:53 PM
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Women don't create entire movements about lack of mutual sexual options and devising systems of forced sexual slavery or conditioning to get what they want. Nor do women enact violence on rejection of those options. Men feel so entitled to sex that they will enact violence on women for 'denying' them it and devise ways on how to coerce women to have it- sexual slavery, emotional manipulation, societal conditioning. Your statement doesn't support women being entitled: Ending a relationship isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 12:40 PM
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If your goal was truly about who has kids your focus wouldn't be on men passing their genes on more. But creating a system testing genetic quality to decide who can pass their genes on. And in that case even less men will be passing on their genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 12:33 PM
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Less men pass their genes on than women. What kind of education can boys and girls be given to improve outcomes for men? If the focus is passing their genes on- surrogates exist. End of. If women can be happy sharing an alpha, they should be able to become happy sharing a beta as well That's illogical. That's like saying if a hetero man can be attracted to a woman then he should be able to be attracted by a man. The women are happy sharing an alpha because they want the alpha. The only way they …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 12:27 PM
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Depends on the feminist. I find the notion of approach if you see positive signals a good one. And it stumps me as to why men seem so offended and opposing about it. Wow such a big deal to approach those that seem willing. Oh the horror. I think the offense and opposition comes from: male entitlement that women exist for him and thus by not approaching them he is 'denied' an interaction he wants. male objectification that interaction is a numbers game thus by 'denying' him this interaction it hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 12:20 PM
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Meh the only real issue to me is whether the MGTOW and celibate males will be hateful and act on their hate. No one owes you sex, dates, relationships, or marriages. If you are not desirable enough to get a willing partner...then accept it or buy one. It never ceases to amaze me how with all the issues in the world it's often that men's complaint is basically "I don't get the attention I want" or "I don't get access to another person's body". Boo fucking hoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 12:17 PM
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I am often amused by how so many men have this rationale that "one woman/singular example = females in general" yet they are the first one to whine #notallmen when masses and masses of women explain their experiences with most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 12:15 PM
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Mail order brides exist. Escorts exist. Prostitutes exist. (Marriage, companionship, sex as the role of a wife) Adoption exist. Surrogates exist. (Children as the role of a family) Shit ton of ways to get what you want in alternatives. End of. I'm done here. If you deny that and try to claim they want it 'naturally' or want 'true/real' love and relationships, you're on cosmic brain levels of hamstering considering the premise of the thread is forcing women via threats of society progress to endu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 12:08 PM
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Meh to me. Life isn't perfect so I see no reason to end everything due to a flaw. Rather than overcome the flaw. Separation seems the best suited way to overcome how men will inevitably unleash their hatred onto women as a whole. Men already unleash their hatred on a daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 08:19 PM
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It's not hatred to share an opinion you state isn't a fact or truth. Hate to me is negative generalizations touted as the almighty truth or hidden reality. Hate to me is thus generalizations used for acts of violence. Unless you expect men's and women's worst to be EXACTLY the same, radfems fit here. One subreddit versus the 1000s...doesn't really compare. Not that that's what RP is about, but I wonder who came up with "all men are rapists" A radical feminist who was shamed and denounced. Femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 08:18 PM
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In my opinion female 'choosiness' in a post world is no different than male 'choosiness'. Most men go for what they find attractive. Sure they will slum it sexually as a pump and dump...but that's it. Women however see no benefit in slumming it for a pump and dump...they're they lay not the ones getting laid. So why be a lay for a guy you don't even want for shitty sex. Women are just behaving as men would if they had the options. Most men aren't going around approaching women they find unattrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 08:14 PM
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Monogamy is unrealistic with a male partner. They're predisposed to cheat. It's not in their nature to be sexually loyal and faithful. . It is just not in the male nature to be sexually exclusive. Sex is not tied to love, intimacy, connection, or anything to their partner. It is compartmentalized it is an ego boost the only feelings are self ones aka validation of their masculinity. It's why men can fuck partners that are completely unwilling or uninterested. They don't care that she's just doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 08:02 PM
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Meh separating society seems more useful. thought it was cool to have forceful violent sex with women provided that they're their girlfriends exgirlfriend actually in the case I gave. But yeah many also raped their gfs and wives. Another reason not to commit to a man somehow your body is now a free for all. Overall on a lesser scheme but as a tie in: The notion of consent seems lost on most men. In my opinion most men would rather risk raping a woman than risk losing out on sex..hence why they j…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 08:01 PM
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Unsure why you're telling me incels aren't mentally ill. Never did I state incels were mentally ill. Again you seem to think institutionalization is only for crazy or criminals. It's not. It's for also for people who need therapy as their mindsets/behaviors can possess harm to society. Or people incapable of taking care of themselves. You are complaining and shrieking nonstop in these threads about "enslaving" women and that they are "enslaving" YOU. LIES. I never said they are enslaving me. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:58 PM
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Uhh, don't do it. I likely can't do it as women aren't as prone to hate like men. Last manhate group was SCUM... in the 1967... 51 years ago. Compare the hateful female subreddits (rapingwomen, beatingwomen) to the hateful male subreddits and hating on women wins by a landslide. There's no comparable female Redpill (stating how AMALT in negatives where all men are evil horrible leeches and need to be trained with talk of beta/alpha women). There's no comparable Foreign Men Are Better (stating ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:53 PM
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In my opinion your society, one in which a random person knows 200 rapists, would be better off if all people were castrated and it ceased to exist in a generation's span. Castration doesn't end rape. Socializing and demonizing the behavior does. No 'rape is bad' but actually labeling the rape. Men as the study showed think rape is god awful since almost all said no to would they rape. However what is considered rape is horrific. That's what needs to change. I'm not remarkably unlucky going by s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:49 PM
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Institutionalization is not just for insanity or criminals. You are aware people are institutionalized for harmful mindsets and behaviors right for potentially being a harm to society? Legally you can confine someone for 72 hours under a psych hold. Incels would fit the need as their harmful mindsets and behaviors can easily posses a danger to society and has already proven to be a danger. I never claimed someone enslaved me. Quote where I did...oh right you can't because I never did. What's rid…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:46 PM
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You're lucky. You're in Brazil. I'm American. The studies showed vast differences based on country. Apparently Middle East and America have quite similar views on rape and women so it's odd to me how racist America is towards the Middle East. Canada recognized all of that as fucked up. I recall the video of one Canadian male and he was seriously looking around like 'wtf are you on?'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:43 PM
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Monogamy is uncommon for men regardless of their so called love. It is just not in the male nature to be sexually exclusive. Sex is not tied to love, intimacy, connection, or anything to their partner. It is compartmentalized it is an ego boost the only feelings are self ones aka validation of their masculinity. It's why men can fuck partners that are completely unwilling or uninterested. They don't care that she's just doing it to shut him up. It's not about her. It's about his nut. Sex is a ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:38 PM
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Unsure why you're telling me it's not a crime or insane. Nowhere did I state it was a crime or insane. I did state their behavior is why I think it's suited to be institutionalized. Then mocked you for how therapy for hateful violent revenge fantasies is somehow me having a violent revenge fantasy. Oh I want medical attention for their issues..how violently revengeful I am. I did also state that's why I don't empathize with them. I don't empathize with people with violent hateful personalities o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:33 PM
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I know 200 rapists. 50 knew it was rape. 150 just considered it sex. somehow having to roofie a girl who rejected you isn't rape by most men. somehow fucking an unconscious body of a drunk female friend who you lied to saying you'd get her home but ubered her to your home isn't rape by most men. somehow blackmailing your stepsister with threat of releasing nudes and having her kicked out of her religious home at 14 when you're 17 for sex isn't rape by most men. somehow holding down a struggling …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:30 PM
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In my opinion almost all men are rapists or rapists in waiting. That's just an opinion. No basis on fact. It'll be a bit like this. There will rally, maybe pacific, certainly extremely loud. Lots of spraying. Lots of posters. Some dude will manage to get himself beaten, all the others will come, and the trump crowd will take the chance to pick their automatic weapons and shot some people. They'll leave the hot women alive so they become easier to pick up once they're ostracized. So as I said jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:25 PM
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I don't hate men though. I just distrust them. And it's not just based on my experiences but statistics. Women make excuses for shitty male behavior heck society does ala boys will be boys and personal accountability for letting yourself get in that situation. Most women see men as protectors. There won't be a war. Just men attacking. I mean George Sodini, Elliot Rodgers, van guy, swimmer guy....nothing from women but whining about how it's a problem with the response being notallmen. Whenever w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:07 PM
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It's not a falsehood. Most male media is the male as a hero and the woman as the prize. It doesn't happen all the time. You can't name movies, tv shows, etc where ugly women feel entitled to handsome men while treating ugly/average men like shit and go unpunished. And women do this, too. But it is also still quite rare. You sound like the Conservatives screaming about Muslim terrorists. Again it's quite rare...that's the point. Literally you cannot deserve what you must earn. The two are complet…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:51 PM
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So the only way I can know that many rapists is if I hate men. Alrighty. Guess you never read studies on how men view rape. Most men hate rape...however what men consider rape is terrifying. In a study all men say no to 'would you ever rape'. The researcher asks the question omitting rape and more and more men say yes. "would you ever blackmail a woman for sex" "would you ever hold down a woman who didn't want to have sex with you and force her to" "would you ever use physical threats to force a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:47 PM
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Again I don't deal with implications. Your argument is shockingly emotional. You can't claim a group is doing something they never stated anywhere on any of their pages. Oh it implies it...is not a valid claim. I'm done on that bit thought. You can be a man and keep whining on it though. Literally every "marry the Prince" movie ever. Nope. Those women are generally nice as that's the point of why she 'deserves' the guy. You seem to confuse a woman getting a hot guy as being hypocritical and enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:43 PM
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Without the money and labor of millions of men and women those roads, schools, courts, and military wouldn't even be there. And still they belong to the government. People pay the government to build them and pay to use them. You seem to think men are the only ones with jobs and the only ones getting taxes cut out. They're not. Men aren't the only contributors. Most women have jobs...if I recall male unemployment is higher (?) so women are actually paying more taxes in general if you want to pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:39 PM
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Less than 10% of your taxes go to support women and even then it also includes minorities aka men. https://www.cbpp.org/research/federal-budget/policy-basics-where-do-our-federal-tax-dollars-go 24% of taxes go to Social Security...men and women. 26% of taxes go to Medicare, Medicaid, CHIP...men and women. 16% of taxes go to Defense and international security assistance...men and women. 9% of taxes go to safety net programs...aka the programs that are mostly women and minorities. undisclosed amou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:37 PM
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And this is bullshit. Men don't feel entitled. We are raised to believe we're unworthy by default. Men are raised to believe they are the heros and women are the prizes. If that men were raised to believe they were unworthy the case: most men would have horrible self image...yet men vastly overrate themselves. most men would expect rejection...yet most are shocked, astounded, and lash out violently blaming any and everything besides himself most men wouldn't resort to the niceguy mindset where h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:31 PM
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It's reality. Everyone slaves/works/gets stolen for the government. Your taxes aren't going just to women. Government redistributes it to overwhelmingly poor women and men (most of whom are minorities). You can whine all you want but women aren't living and being supported by your taxes. Poor people are. As for your INB4....you do work for them. That's also what taxes go to and you do benefit from roads, military, courts, and school. You don't own those roads. You pay for your use of them throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:21 PM
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Do you actually know a guy that told a story like the one you described? I know several guys like the ones I described. Most men have a rape story...they just don't consider it rape. So you KNOW at least 10 men that said they raped a woman? Is this right? I know at least 50 men that say they raped a woman. I know at least 150 men that say they had sex but it was really rape..somehow to most men having to hold a woman down when she doesn't want sex isn't rape or fucking their friends unconscious …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:18 PM
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I don't work with implications...especially from biased sources with emotional reactions. Against means disagreeing with the notion. Nowhere on the pages did I see talk of banning, making it illegal, or such. I didn't conflate wanting with entitled. Most men do feel entitled to women's time, attention, and bodies. There's a reason incels exist and go straight to sexual slavery (they feel they are denied something they deserve/owed/entitled to). Women bashing short men is not comparable. Comparab…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:10 PM
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It's not wrong. Feminists shame men for feeling entitled to dating certain women. Shallow Hal was a hypocritical ugly dude who felt entitled to dating very attractive women and shat on women who were average (still better than him) or his equal. That's a pretty shitty example to whine about. The entitlement thing isn't pure fiction. Most men feel quite entitled to sex, attention, and time from women. There's a reason the incel group exist. There's a reason men lash out violently when rejected. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:04 PM
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It's not bullshit. Your taxes don't go to support women. It goes to support society...that's men and women. Stop acting like you're some poor workhorse for women. You're working for the government...which you benefit from.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:02 PM
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Nowhere do they use the word ban or talk about banning, making it illegal, or criminalizing it. Can you quote it in case I missed it? They talk again like I said about disagreeing with it, being against it, and why they are. I did address feminist 'attacking' men for wanting certain types of women. Shallow Hal was a hypocritical ugly dude having high standards expecting women to be those standards and shitting on women that aren't. That's not really a good pick for your whine of hypocritical fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:01 PM
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Ah gotcha it's a 'I'm a man so what I say is true' thing. I'm not something just because you say I am. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:59 PM
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In my opinion men are suited to be grateful women enjoy money and status. That way his looks and personality are rarely a deterrent in getting the type of women he wants. Ugly women don't get passes like ugly men do. Plus if women weren't so obsessed with money and status then they would have to look at what men have to offer...and most wouldn't bother with men. Most men aren't attractive nor do they even think they need to put in the effort to be. Give me a chance, love me for who I am...when I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:57 PM
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and feminists always feel entitled to shame men for who they want to date. Feminists shame men for who they feel entitled to date. There is a difference between a man being attracted to certain women and a man feeling he is owed, deserving of, entitled to certain women because he is nice/wealthy/etc and then he rants/whines/shames the women when they reject him. You seem to think feminist shaming male entitlement to certain women is shaming men for who they want to date. Feminists are all for wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:49 PM
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Feminists aren't trying to ban sex robots. Disagreeing with them isn't trying to ban. Pointing out the objectification and how it dehumanizes women and the associated misogyny isn't trying to ban them. Men never needed women. They just wanted warm holes to bust a nut in. Women were only deemed almost tolerable because they could also be servants (cook, clean, childcare). Bangmaids are all men what hence why sex robots are ideal. Men don't actually like women or are capable of genuine love for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:47 PM
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hate and violent revenge fantasies for your imagined and perceived "inequities" and alleged "injustices", mostly brought about by women's own conduct and decisions. Yep what an awful violent revenge fantasy I have that hateful incels who wish to sexually enslave women or murder women should be institutionalized. Oh the violence of therapy. Yep it's totally not an injustice to be sexually enslaved because someone feels entitled to your body. Yep it's totally on women how dare women think they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:45 PM
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Your brand of radical manhate feminism You clearly didn't read my post history I'm not a feminist. LMFAO If you truly read my post and commenting history you would know I don't dislike men. I do distrust them no different than I distrust women. I'm not hostile towards men however I find pointing out shitty male behavior is often seen as being hostile...because the widdle men can't ever be criticized in any form. I do not care what men want, need, or desire from their lives. My concern is my own …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:43 PM
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The opinion that women need to start getting fucked by unwanted men in order to be treated equal and stop sexism and toxicity goes against feminism. If anything feminists is helping their gender by ensuring that their equality and freedom isn't based on Male satisfaction and access to their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:31 PM
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If you want. You seem to have a mindset of so many women are like the rp says and dangerous to men. And seem shocked and awed at anything suggesting other. Especially ones suggesting men behave more shitty. I'm not trying to change your view but it seems you are only looking for reinforcements and bidding over your view. So why bother reading differing ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:27 PM
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There was a specific point: "Men will lash out when they don't get the gf/sex they want while women will accept it or be alone". Don't try to debate/argument a general when the topic and counter is specific. If I argue more men commit a specific crime. Don't claim you disproved my point by showing how women commit more of a completely different crime. Disproving my point would be showing men don't commit that specific crime more. I don't want to point out anything about how unattractive men are.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:28 PM
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Freethetrees basically said that. Her/his entire stance was that when it comes to low value people that men are more likely to go out killing due to not getting a gf/sex and taking it out on the world. While women will accept their situation or be alone. The entire topic is about incels. Though freethetrees refer to them as low value people. The convo is about reactions to being a low value person. His/her stance is women accept it or be alone while men are violent. Based on your reaction of 'no…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:24 PM
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The convo is basically: A: Serial killers who murdered, raped, and ate the corpses of children are men more than women You: Lots of serial killers are women. She killed this many people. She killed those people. A: But I want serial killers who did specific acts. You: They're serial killers and killed people. It counts. Where are the women who murdered out of sexual/romantic frustration of not having a bf/sex and disliking the options of their equal/looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:21 PM
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You seem confused. Even IF we worked on your these women hate men claim. That still doesn't counter the other person's point. They asked for women killing out of romantic/sexual frustration aka can't get a bf and can't get sex and don't want their equal options. Not out of gender hate. A woman drowning her kids due to Post Partum is not hating men. Again you seem to mistake serial killer with murdering due to sexual/romantic frustrations from not getting the kind of partner they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:18 PM
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How many men you know raped some women or murdered some in droves because of not getting sex? 5%? Rape: 10% out of not getting sex. 40% out of opportunity. This is what they admit themselves. Heck many do not even consider it rape. Again Soo many tell stories of the drunk hookup- he found a drunk girl away from her friends, scooped her up lying he was taking her home, dragged her unconscious body from the uber to his place, and had sex with her passed out...but that wasn't rape to most men seemi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:16 PM
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It seems you're the one that needs to calm down. Kind comes across as you're projecting as nowhere was I hostile, upset, or emotional. I answered your question and gave my experience overall of monstrous behavior and why my percentage is low. This is a remarkably low number, Likely it's low to you as you expect higher since you agree with RP. So any number that doesn't sync with your belief is dubious or low. Tell me something, do these 5% of women have another trait or traits that suggest they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:06 PM
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No mental gymnastics. Those are what the studies of marital infidelity state. Women are more willing to work on marriages with cheating husbands. Men aren't willing to work on marriages with cheating wives. Even when men are women are the ones not capable of forgiving themselves for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:37 AM
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I do enjoy how a woman is being incredibly choosy because she doesn't go after an unattractive man just because he has money. Because apparently women not thinking first of the money/status is being oh so choosy. How dare she want an average looking or attractive partner...nah short and balding should be enough if he is a heart surgeon. Oh she has her own money so she actually wants someone she can enjoy fucking....so incredibly choosy. Yet it's men whose majority of dating advice is how to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:45 AM
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Sure which is why most advocate sexual slavery...yep because that sure is a woman being sexually attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:42 AM
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Laurie Dann is the only one who killed out of something sexual. You seem to confuse sexual/romantic frustrations by taking lives or falling out of society as a catch all for any serial killer or murderer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:39 AM
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Divorce is still acceptance. You can accept your situation by living with it or living without it knowing that's the best you can get. If a woman knows her looksmatch is low value she can either date him or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:37 AM
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Divorce rate doesn't equate to not accepting their situation. Whining about it to the extent of formulating slavery as a solution, going on about how the world is against them to the point of murder, and such is not accepting their situation. Accepting your situation is either living with it or living without it. Living without it is the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:35 AM
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Yes those serial killers had looks to compensate for their shitty personality. They also had charismatic personalities. Incels have neither personality or looks. You can also be ugly, average, or deformed and get women. You just have to have something to offer. The incel not getting women isn't because he's not hot. It's because he has nothing attractive or appealing about him. Shit ton of ugly/deformed men getting laid. Looks isn't the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:34 AM
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Doubtful. I don't really empathize with a group that wants my gender sexually enslaved and obligated to have sex with whichever man. I also don't empathize with a group whose issue is not having sexual access to another person's body. Masturbation exists. You are not oppressed or abused because you don't get to use someone else for your own selfish pleasure. I really don't empathize with a group who's main solution is to take away my ability to say no or punish me for saying no. Incel is just ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:31 AM
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Yes...I believe the average man struggles as much as RPers claim but with highly attractive women. Most men don't want their equal hence why men often tout leagues don't exist....while rating women in leagues. Men seem to only see women's existence as in relation to whether he would fuck her. So regardless of how many women are there if he doesn't want to fuck them he has no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:28 AM
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I know 5% that behave as TRPs claim all/most women do. I know far far far far far more men that behave or think monstrously than I do women. Women aren't the ones murdering men in droves because of not getting sex. Women aren't the ones whining about a sexual slavery world because of not getting sex. Men's behavior when it comes to being shitty far exceeds anything that I've seen in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:25 AM
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Nah dudes just have really low standards for themselves while having really high standards for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:19 AM
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I think the men mean pursuing much younger naive and inexperienced women will be easier as you have more status/wealth than her male peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:54 AM
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It does not explain though how even when you control for the most obvious factors it's still very large It's not very large as there's no way to 'control' the factors as the factors are what affect the sentencing. What you seem to be saying is if you exclude race, age, class, wealth overall men get higher sentencing on all/most crimes? If so I doubt you really read the actual studies and instead read MRA/antifeminist koolaide of the studies. No credible criminal sentencing study claims overall m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:53 AM
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For some reason they believe men are going to enslave women the second men get a point in their favour. Yeah women come out with that for no reason...it's not like historically women were denied equal rights and treatment. It's not like there are masses of movements calling for the sexual enslavement of women (incel, truecel, braincel, etc). Nah. Nah it's not like men have tantrums over being rejected. Nah it's not like masses of men have been out shooting because of their sexual lack. Nah it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:46 AM
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Redpill would still exist because men have a highly idealized hypocritical double standard view of women. Most men seem to hold women to standards of behavior he would never uphold or in fact see as weak/lesser for a man to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:39 AM
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Sure if I found him attractive and he is great in bed. Men seem to have no issues or care about the personality/values/morals/ethics of the women they fuck. Heck many men don't even have issues or cares about how they get that sex- isolating a girl, negging, predatory behavior, fucking unconscious women, intentionally getting a woman drugged/drunk. I find it odd that women are for some reason held to a higher double standard for who they have sex with. Would you describe yourself as a feminist? …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:32 AM
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The only disney-esque pure/true love I have seen has come from women's feelings towards men. In my opinion men aren't that emotionally deep to genuinely love. The only reason they are even in the position to be with the woman is her looks. He wouldn't have bothered with her if she didn't look a certain way. His companionship is limited by sex as most would bail asap without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:25 AM
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The sentencing gap is based on race, gender, age, class, and wealth. The status quo isn't man gets higher sentencing. That's what MRA/antifeminist gleamed using their very limited comprehension. You get sentencing depending on your race, gender, age, class, and wealth. Certain crimes men get sentenced for more than women. Certain crimes women get sentenced for more than men. Some crimes black men get lighter sentences than white men. Lighter/higher sentences is a combination mix. Again it's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:21 AM
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An average looking guy with a job. That's average. Jobs are not some rare commodity that propels you to high status. High status jobs like doctor, lawyer aka 6 figure jobs would be that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:12 AM
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Nowhere does it say nice looking or moderately fit. It says average looking. AVERAGE. It's not semantics. Nice looking is more attractive than average. AVERAGE IS PLAIN NOT NICE. An average body is just that average it's not fit even moderately. It's PLAIN
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:12 AM
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If a woman wants a high value man (inb4 Chad, I don’t mean a “Chad”), a man who is employed or in training for a good career path, clean cut, nice, and average looking, It amazes me how privileged men are. Such low standards for a guy to be high valued- hey your average, hygienic, and have a job totally high value. Yet for a woman there would be a complex list of criteria and she would most certainly have to be more than average to be high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:10 AM
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But there's not. Even your study doesn't support your claims that most of the husbands were good men and that they were unsatisfied due to boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:06 AM
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Women will stay and work things out with a cheating man and a deadbeat man, but you rarely see the reverse. Yep and even on the very rare case a guy wants to work it out with a cheating wife. It tends to be the wife who doesn't mutually agree because she actually feels shame and guilt over her actions and thinks he deserves better...I have yet to see cheating men respond that way instead it tends to be it was one mistake, I'm still a great guy, past is the past, forgive and forget, let's move on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:04 AM
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If a man wants to and can provide for more than one set of women and children go ahead. he just has to find women who want that arrangement. You seem to confuse "women not wanting" = "women being selfish". And to me that is true selfishness. Just because women aren't interested in following your script does not make them selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 02:01 AM
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Yep just like if a woman gained weight, stop putting effort in her looks, or stopped having sex...then he'd be unhappy. Your behavior affects your partner's happiness. Love is not unconditional in this case. It never ceases to amaze me how men desire unconditional no strings love when the only reason they are even in the position to be with the person is his attraction to her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:54 AM
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No matter what world. Women are always shat on and men still have their privilege. The punishments men and women face are almost always in favor of the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:51 AM
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It's called Darwinism survival of the fittest. If you aren't desired and chosen as a mate likely your genes suck. It's not on women that's on you. Especially if your only desire to be a worthwhile productive individual is sex. The point of working hard and advancing professionally is because you like to work and enjoy your profession. You can provide for yourself with way more than on minimum wage. Shit costs money. Especially really nice shit. Unless women are capable of taking over the place o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:49 AM
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Egh. In my opinion if men are going to insist women be less picky then men need to stop having: most male dating advice be about how to get a hot woman most male encouragement be about how hot his gf/wife is despite him being average, short, etc...I have yet to hear a guy go on about how loving, understanding, etc his gf is. I have yet to see the most upvoted comment be about his wife/gf personality. What guys seem to desire is being schlubby and getting their pick of the litter. approaching by …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:45 AM
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Nope. I tend to be brutally and cruelly (?) honest about my lack of interest. My goal is to get him to feel how much he isn't desired, attracted, or wanted. I may list out all the physical flaws I perceive, all the personality flaws I perceive, and all the reasons he is undesirable and unappealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:42 AM
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I have yet to see a woman describe a man akin to Ryan Reynolds. It comes across as the posters seem to think after a certain age or after having kids women should just take whoever and be happy. Yet most male dating advice is how to get hot young women. Yet most male dating stories is about getting hot young women. Yet most male encouragement isn't "I got a loving gf/wife" it's about how hot their gf/wife is despite him being average, short, poor, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:39 AM
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Boo hoo men are 'demonized' aka told it is inappropriate to demonize women yet women are not. I'm quite sure most men would not give up all the double standards in their favor to publicly objectify women. They can simply just enjoy the graphic objectification of women without commentary (WAY WAY WAY more often women are sexualized then men...but boo hoo men can't also look and talk they can only look). They can also just simply comment to their friends with locker room talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:37 AM
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Your question is like a woman saying she is heterosexual but she will never have sex with you or engage in any sexual activities. Then the woman wonders why you feel it's a dealbreaker and you feel she isn't really sexually attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:30 AM
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Nope. In my experience and opinion men who aren't into marriage tends to be sexism, misogynistic, redpilley, incely, rape apologistic, and all around assholes. Their reasons for being anti marriage tend to stem from a hatred/dislike/distrust of women and seeing marriage as too risky to trust a woman for. As well as they tend to have a severe lack of commitment and heavily desire to easily and quickly leave without hassles, liabilities, concerns, or consequences. So many men will claim they can i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 01:28 AM
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And yet in none of his comments does he attribute any of his shitty remarks about her behavior to them. In fact he lays all of the negativity on her stating she caused the scene. Somehow she caused a scene by responding but him stating nice tits wasn't a scene. Nope there wasn't a scene already she caused it by not kowtowing to however men decide to treat her that day. Most of his remarks wasn't all about physical harm so don't pull that poor innocent bf just scared about his gf safety. Most of …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/18 11:22 PM
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Woman is hurting, man tries to help and turns himself inside out. Not according to studies. Going by studies men generally don't listen to women's concerns or dismiss and belittle women's concerns. Quite hard for men to try to help when they see her voicing concerns as nagging. Really hard for men to try to help when they see communicating with their wife as some evil horrible chore or think her issues are not important or not that serious. Heck when a wife is terminally ill more than half of th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/18 10:06 PM
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