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Conversationconnigton/r/seduction04/07/24 10:50 PM
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Are you telling this to yourself to make you feel any better about something you can’t change? I have plenty of male friends that are 5’7 and get constant action. They aren’t whining on Reddit about how misfortunate they are, though.
/r/seduction17/06/25 12:12 AM
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Phone calls are very underrated, but in that case, it’s not the way to go. Build some rapport over text and then schedeule a call. Make sure to ask her out while you are on it.
/r/seduction04/02/25 12:36 AM
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Yeah, that’s the point Something that I personally love to do is a ocasional phone call. I’m 26 and not many guys do that nowadays Much better in breaking some barriers and setting up a date on the spot
/r/seduction22/01/25 02:59 PM
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This is absolutely bollocks. Texting can and should be used to build connection. The point is that you musn’t be a “texting buddy”, sending dull messages that aren’t useful for buildind rapport.
/r/seduction21/01/25 12:10 AM
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50+. Opener I’m using (GPT translated): Hi XXX, how are you? I saw your profile on Bumble and I’m interested in getting to know you better. You seem like someone who can have an intelligent conversation Honestly, this digital dating app environment always seemed a bit strange and robotic to me. I’m following you here so we can chat and get to know each other in a more natural way Kisses! XXX
/r/seduction07/07/24 01:08 AM
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I scroll through the app and directly DM the girls on Instagram with a pre-made message 50% of them follow me back. 30% at first awnser back. 15% get engaged on a more enthusiastic conversation. 5% lead to dates. And had sex with one. I like this because 1) i can get off the app, where the competition is tighter 2) its much easier to interact through stories 3) i can get to talk with women of much higher quality than the matches i get. This is the most important thung lol In the end, I think my …
/r/seduction06/07/24 08:09 PM
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Pay someone to do it for you. A photo shoot ain’t that expensive.
/r/seduction06/07/24 07:39 PM
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It doesn’t work if you don’t pay. In Brazil, it costs the same as a lunch. If you are getting a lay every 1-2 months, that seems like a good deal.
/r/seduction06/07/24 07:38 PM
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Yeah, in-person is always better The catch for me is that an abundance mentality is key to success Dating apps provide just that; you may not get a date, but you do have options to diversify your focus Eventually, you can catch a nice fish Makes sense?
/r/seduction05/07/24 05:21 PM
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26
/r/seduction05/07/24 06:28 AM
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I did a vasectomy. The world is safe
/r/seduction05/07/24 12:15 AM
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I’m working a bit differently I scroll through the app and directly DM the girls on Instagram with a pre-made message 50% of them follow me back. 30% at first awnser back. 15% get engaged on a more enthusiastic conversation. 5% lead to dates. And had sex with one. Done this script like 50 times.
/r/seduction05/07/24 12:15 AM
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Mostly clubs and label parties
/r/seduction04/07/24 12:40 AM
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Looks aren’t everything. If you are in decent shape and is a genuinely interesting person, you can shoot for the stars. What I see a lot are ugly guys that are out of shape, dress clothes from Target and the last book they read was To Kill a Mockingbird in high school. Welp, can’t do much with that.
/r/seduction03/07/24 03:52 PM
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Got prettier, got more money, got more confident, went out at night frequently and to the right places. Bet you heard those things a thousand times, but it is what works lol
/r/seduction03/07/24 12:39 AM
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Dude, you are 18. Calm down. I lost my virginity with 21 and slept with 40 women in 5 years. How do you get a job without work experience? By fuckin trying. Live your life and keep working on yourself. Just by constantly hitting the gym you are above 90% of the folks of your age.
/r/seduction02/07/24 09:54 AM
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Given how anxiety ridden your post and replies are, I find it hard to believe that you aren’t coming off as needy, clingy and insecure. You are settling for subpar women, how is that not an insecurity? You are desperate to fuck anything that moves, how is that not being needy? Those are not things that you can “hide”. Women smell that shit from the moment they lay their eyes on you, believe me on that. Are you working on improving your subpar looks? Are you reading anything that is not related t…
/r/seduction02/07/24 04:57 AM
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That’s a nice one lol
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:24 PM
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I don’t agree with you. IMO it’s all about building trust. You do that with “boring questions”. You have good habits. You do interesting stuff in your free time. You have a nice job. Surely, you can’t keep that going on forever. After you show off that you aren’t a kid that lives with your parents and play videogames all day, you go down the path of being playful and “interesting”.
/r/seduction17/06/24 03:53 PM
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Why asking questions would make you a boring person?
/r/seduction17/06/24 03:04 AM
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Sorry, not a native speaker :(
/r/seduction11/06/24 10:43 PM
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Chatted a ton with a chick at a club. Said we wouldn’t be doing anything because I was way too young compared to her. “Well, point me out to a folk of the age of your dreams that approached you as well as I did today.” 1 hour later I was pounding her.
/r/seduction11/06/24 02:01 AM
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Dude, don’t “consider” it. Just go an do it. I don’t know what is exactly the thing that is holding you back here, but it is a perfectly fine, and very much needed, thing to do. Childhood traumas are the things that most fuck up our heads, and apparently you still carry this burden with yourself.
/r/seduction05/06/24 12:02 PM
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Ever heard of the Konami Code? Press ↑ ↑ ↓ ↓ ← → ← → B A and you will obtain multiple sexual partners! You are asking something in the lines of “how to get rich”. I guess by… working your ass off? The thing is that, you are already looking for shortcuts. This is a bad fuckin habit for anything you are chasing in life. Getting good at seduction is a path of self improvement + eagerness to learn + putting yourself in unconfortable situations. You take baby steps, not a leap of faith. Are you in de…
/r/seduction05/06/24 03:51 AM
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Great post! The other thing that boggles me is how little accountability folks around here tend to have. Playing the blame game and pointing fingers is pretty fuckin easy. Looking at yourself in the mirror and figuring out what is wrong is a whole other thing. Truth hurts.
/r/seduction03/06/24 01:29 PM
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I’m feeling that you are the one projecting your insecurities on girls that are perfectly normal. If you are not getting laid, I’m very sorry, but that’s on you. It is very easy to point our fingers at others and picture what is wrong with them. Yes, maybe they are seeking validation. So fucking what? Isn’t exactly what you are doing over here, venting your frustrations and looking to some sort of approval from random people on the internet? And if you don’t like social media, go outside and tak…
/r/seduction28/05/24 12:47 AM
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What are you trying to achieve with this post?
/r/seduction19/05/22 07:39 PM
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Yeah, think you are spot on. Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:42 PM
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For me, it is because I like to call them out of the blue. With a FaceTime, you just add one more layer of complexity to the scheme. In my experience, girls are waaaay moodier than guys when it is related to their looks. If you call her on FaceTime when se is feeling ugly, high chances she won’t pick up, right? With that being said, I think it can work if you arrange it previously. But again, I think it might be way to intimate to do that with a chick you talked for 15-20 minutes.
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:41 PM
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What the number of persons someone fucked in their lifes says about how valuable they are?
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:32 AM
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This is bullshit. Of course you can compliment a woman.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:27 AM
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What would you add?
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:24 AM
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I do like your method. It is a good framework and I could find many more things that I actually do than stuff that I would never run. Just don’t see what you have to gain with Step 5. For me it feels like you are being a sore loser. Rejection is also part of the game. If she actually gives a shit, most of the time she will propose another day and time on the moment that she flakes.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:23 AM
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Of course texting is still a thing. It is the most common thing. That is why he advocates calling the girl, because no one does that anymore. I highly recommend that one. Wouldn’t do a FaceTime with a chick that I barely know, tho, even more if it is out of the blue. But I do give random phone calls to girls that I have only a superficial level of connection.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:17 AM
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We had a friend in common. One of the most important things in improving my game was making true friendships with woman. You don’t need to fuck all girls that you meet.
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:05 PM
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Yeah, some of them are like that. Better to leave up to chance. Don’t go completely MIA, send a text ocasionally, awnser some stories just so you don’t lose touch.
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:01 PM
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I can share a recent story of mine on this topic. Went to a trip with a bunch of girls that I had never met before at the end of 2021. They were all super friendly and we got along really well, but I didn’t make a move on any of them because I was having some emotional issues due to a recent breakup. Couple of weeks later we went together to a night club, where one of the chicks started hitting on me. She is very smart, friendly, easy going, and on top of that very beautiful, pretty much the tex…
/r/seduction13/05/22 04:37 PM
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Definetely okay texting her again. Just don’t do it in a plain, dull, boring fashion. Spark her curiosity, don’t be obvious. Found that Matt Artisan’s “The Attractive Man” YouTube channel has some solid texting content. Check it out and you surely will find something that you can give a try. Something that I would surely say you to do is GIVE HER A CALL. Matt has a whole video on that. Also, I personally wouldn’t suggest a hike for the 2nd date in that case. Will be hard to find an opening to ph…
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:25 AM
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Loved it!! Will def use this in the future
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:09 AM
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Two pieces of advice I would give you: Make an effort to have a social media presence. I honestly know how you feel, for a long time I hated pictures because I thought they made me look worse off. But seriously, you can only overvome your fears when you face them. Social media is absolutely the best way to show women that you have an interesting life, period. They do value it. I didn’t have any social media until ~4 years ago. It took some time to get a grasp on how to properly use it for game, …
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:16 AM
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Think you are spot on what is outdated on the book. But I do think it is a good read for beginners. Strauss’ story makes it clear to every single person that anyone can make it, and that is a very powerful message when you feel like shit and can’t seduce women even if your life depends on it. From my own experience, when you are starting out, lots of quality techniques can be seen as dumpster fire and shit advice can look like a gold mine. You don’t have the experience to filter the good from th…
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:50 PM
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Dude. You are taking medical advice from a stranger on the internet. Stick with the treatment. You will feel better. I’m assuming that you have medical guidance from a psychiatric; if that’s not the case, you are indeed fucking up. Prescription meds are no joke, don’t fuck around with them.
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:26 PM
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Don’t be so obtuse. It is a medication just like any other.
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:23 PM
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Fala irmão, feliz q vc curtiu! Sou baiano :)
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:09 AM
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Neither of what you are specifically asking, but I found Mad Men to be a gold mine into the seduction world and just a really great series, one of the best I have ever watched.
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:38 AM
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