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Yeah I talk to dozens of girls at these venues and get numbers pretty frequently I do zero cold approach outside of this
/r/seduction15/05/26 06:45 PM
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Always think ‘just be yourself’ is the dumbest advice out if you’re trying to change your dating prospects If being one’s self was working, there wouldn’t be any issue to resolve…
/r/seduction11/05/26 05:20 PM
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I’ve never had an issue with wanting to or being willing to dance, me and friends were clubbing most weekends from 18 But it took me an embarrassing long time to be conscious of the fact that you should dance to the beat
/r/seduction07/05/26 06:51 PM
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OP should just flex different muscle groups - the movement of blood brings ‘it’ down
/r/seduction19/04/26 05:25 PM
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No fucking wonder this guy struggles to get a date Making 7 figures and doesn’t want to cover dinner out of ‘principal’ JFL Bro should get on TRT and peptides as on the personality front it ain’t looking good
/r/seduction13/04/26 01:39 AM
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Lotta men these days seem to want women to ‘sweep them off their feet’ like they’re the female protagonist in a romance novel Insane lack of insight into crystal clear societal gender roles when it comes to romance At initial stages men give the attention: be it a look or a line or an approach or a first message - then women choose whether to acquiesce. Simple AF How is this so hard to grasp
/r/seduction09/04/26 08:54 AM
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Paris - Dakar it’s very warm
/r/seduction09/04/26 08:36 AM
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Smoking area, queue for the bar, chill out areas, corridors between different rooms/spaces…
/r/seduction05/04/26 10:14 AM
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Some things just cannot be explained - they need to be experienced first hand to be properly understood There is no ‘help’ for OP other than try it yourself and report back What would your advice be? If you have advice that will actually work and be easily understood by someone with no experience - you could be a very rich man because currently no one else does
/r/seduction01/04/26 01:12 PM
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Nationalism is definitely on the rise in the UK But London is by far the most multicultural place in the UK and most accepting of foreigners - attitudes will be worse pretty much anywhere else London is 43% white British compared to 80% for the rest of the UK, rising to like 90% white British if you exclude Manchester and Birmingham also
/r/seduction29/11/25 11:38 AM
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actively wooed/courted/seduced/connected with romantically Apologies for not being clearer, I meant romantic in the broadest possible definition - anything that engages them in more than platonic way, be that a look/touch/tone of voice etc - this definitely can be done immediately if the skills and situation allow I definitely didn’t mean vast majority of women every time need to romanced in a fairytale or rom-com kinda way
/r/seduction22/11/25 02:28 PM
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Having low standards is the fastest way to sex Lots of people with no issues having and keeping close friendships and large group-based/casual friendships - do still struggle romantically While there certainly is crossover in the social skills and personality aspects needed to have successful platonic and romantic relationships - they are definitely not 1:1 Even if a women is attracted immediately, the vast majority will need to be actively wooed/courted/seduced/connected with romantically in wa…
/r/seduction22/11/25 01:49 PM
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Airplane seats
/r/seduction08/11/25 10:33 AM
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Wow, next you’ll be telling us they don’t love each other and Iron Man isn’t real…
/r/seduction14/10/25 10:35 PM
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That’s not how it works for me
/r/seduction27/07/25 10:07 PM
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I haven't really used it that much for a month but l used it enough to assume that Id get matches. Not using the apps consistently lower’s your ELO too btw, hit the swipe/like limit every single day, at first engage every single match you get or immediately unmatch if you’ve swiped in error Getting matches to agree to dates also boosts ELO I’d say you couldn’t be sure you’ve used them enough to know unless your combined dating app screen time is over an hour a day over the course a couple of wee…
/r/seduction27/07/25 12:03 PM
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Where do you live? Like people say the UK is hard as - except pubs and clubs - if you try and start a causal conversation with a stranger people will immediately look at you with suspicion and the tone will be stand-offish (mine certainly is) Or worse places like the Middle East where you’re liable to get lynched if you start approaching random women
/r/seduction15/07/25 09:10 PM
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It turn me off when I see women do it It says to me this person focuses on the negatives vs positives Women are the ones who are pursued as that is their traditional gender/societal role
/r/seduction11/07/25 05:01 PM
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I agree, with the rise of dating apps and the rise in number of young people not dating at all I’d be shocked if all but a tiniest percentage of women are getting approached ‘too much’ or that too many men are doing it
/r/seduction04/07/25 12:56 PM
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And let’s face with obesity/overweight rates and the average man’s style probably some external work too
/r/seduction01/07/25 06:53 AM
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If she doesn't match your energy, learn to pull back, not push forward I often find myself wondering when on dates when I feel women that are showing signs of disinterest or lack of reciprocation etc - why are you even here, why are we continuing this I personally know immediately whether I’m attracted to them and within 5 minutes of speaking whether I will enjoy their company - if I feel it’s a no I will seek to end the date as soon as possible (I wish more women respected my time in the same w…
/r/seduction25/06/25 01:36 PM
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I’ve slept with almost all of my long term relationships on the first date If you don’t establish intimacy quickly women will lose interest as they will start to see you in platonic and not romantic light, and as we know attractive or even average women are not short on potential options If she hasn’t had sex with you by the second or third date there is a vanishing small chance she will at all Women do enjoy having sex and physical intimacy too despite what the culture seems to say
/r/seduction25/06/25 12:58 PM
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Shoulda busted inside Just wait til you know the next day fear of not pulling out when you know for she’s not on birth control (still worth it)
/r/seduction23/06/25 11:54 PM
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If she’s really interested it doesn’t matter imo I wouldn’t suggest Snap as I hate the messaging function
/r/seduction19/06/25 12:55 PM
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Same My personal theory is that as I can send unique opening messages, I can stand out more, or show more of my personality / vibe
/r/seduction11/06/25 12:53 PM
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cialis doesn’t treat performance anxiety Gonna disagree here, it might not stop one from being anxious but it’ll definitely keep you rock solid while you are. And not having to think about going soft is one less thing to worry about Also it give you a sick pump after hitting the gym and is good for the circulatory system OP just needs practice and to feel comfortable ime
/r/seduction11/06/25 12:01 PM
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As in cold approach? Most men at all attractiveness levels aren’t doing that at all Approach as in the man is the one that broaches and escalates romantic intention? Yes most men of all attractiveness levels do that Most women will choose not to under either meaning as it runs counter to gender expectations / social conditioning / natural characteristics, but obviously it does happen
/r/seduction29/04/25 02:34 PM
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Start blasting gear
/r/seduction15/04/25 08:03 PM
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A CM under 5’10 which is the statistical average height for a man where I live. How tall are you? You shouldn’t worry about height too much, no point as you can’t change it You should try never to hate / get mad at / even dislike women in general btw, it’s terrible for your game
/r/seduction07/03/25 04:20 PM
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Do you speak Spanish? Are you sending Likes? Also if you get matches in other places and won’t break the budget for you I’d try paying for the minimum premium, I find it helps.
/r/seduction05/03/25 10:52 PM
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Over 60% of couples met online vs through friends/work/hobbies etc so it’s not really that surprising to me I’m over 30, I have only ever tried cold approach once Had many girlfriend and flings from online dating so why put myself through the awkwardness of IRL romantic rejection from a stranger Spoken and danced with many women on first meeting in nightclubs but those were almost always with platonic/friendly intentions
/r/seduction11/02/25 03:53 PM
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Are you British? Lots of people are just quite stand-offish / hostile to uninterested in any interaction at all with a stranger. Still I usually always find someone to chat with in the smoking area or waiting at the bar What kind of clubs / club nights do you go to? I live in Glasgow, go to mostly house / techno / garage / disco nights with big to middling name DJs playing, primarily for the music The gender balance seems pretty fair to good most nights I go to tbh. I’m early 30s and I feel in g…
/r/seduction01/02/25 02:17 PM
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I’ve tried paying for all of them but I find the lowest paid tier Hinge works best for me as I can send tons of personalised first messages (this could be seen as a lot of work but I’ve sent so many it feels like second nature now, it’s maintaining the conversation I can’t be bothered with)
/r/seduction24/12/24 06:25 PM
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If you’re getting matches, you get more if you pay, in my experience If you’re getting nothing at all, best to rework your profile, take better pics etc first
/r/seduction24/12/24 06:19 PM
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I exclusively date using apps, virgin til mid 20s, live in a medium sized W European I get matches pretty much everyday (I swipe and message a lot), go on dates a couple of times a month, have found several serious gf’s / fulfilling situationships I get hook ups very rarely but I guess don’t really push for them unless that’s clearly what they’re looking for I only go after girls I am definitely attracted to and will want to see again (barring bad behaviour or truly terrible personality). I have…
/r/seduction23/11/24 02:29 AM
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I see, at that age men aren’t asking or discussing this to gatekeep or keep you down, they’re looking to share experiences stories insight and will probably just presume you already have some experience. I’d just be honest or not engage depending on how close you are to the people in the convo Don’t tell people you’ve visited hookers but I mean you must have learned something WRT the act of sex from those experiences talk about that if you really must I actually feel I very rarely have platonic …
/r/seduction07/11/24 02:22 PM
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How old are you approx? The answer for a teen will be different than if you’re in your 30s IME women aren’t deciding to sleep with a man because of how he talks about sex in a platonic conversation Get women on dates, whether she is willing to spend time with you one on one is much bigger gatekeeper/indicator on whether she will sleep with you than almost anything else You can discuss your lack of experience once you’re pretty certain she actually wants to sleep with you
/r/seduction07/11/24 02:14 PM
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Me and nearly 60% of people in couples find girls on dating apps
/r/seduction17/10/24 04:52 PM
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Dogging parks even better
/r/seduction15/10/24 06:54 PM
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You won’t know til you ask, so don’t give up hope If it was me, I’d start moving towards seeing if she has romantic interest in me now, better to get it out the way now vs having built it up for months Women are generally somewhat less shallow than men when it comes to picking romantic partners But if someone isn’t attracted to you or doesn’t see a romantic prospect in you, there’s a slim to zero of being able to change their mind Most people won’t tell you the specific reason why they don’t wan…
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:53 PM
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We already know women don’t like the pics… An outside perspective can help indicate reasons why, also people here aren’t just gonna tell you they look good to make you feel better unlike most women / your friends
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:55 PM
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You should post your profile still Even if you look good women can easily be put off by certain styles of picture or vibes
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:21 PM
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Not in the UK Not to say it’s impossible but it’s definitely not something people normally do
/r/seduction08/09/24 10:57 AM
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What about on dates?
/r/seduction23/08/24 12:05 PM
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100% I try not to go more than 24hrs but sometimes I really can’t be fucked
/r/seduction10/08/24 04:43 PM
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You’d be much quicker just making a new phone number Dating apps are functionally a monopoly. Match Group owns every single one of the big ones except Bumble (which was started by people that worked for Match Group apps)
/r/seduction10/08/24 04:01 PM
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I find rejecting as bad or worse than being rejected sometimes
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:44 PM
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I believe in you bro, we can get those numbers up
/r/seduction26/07/24 11:50 AM
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How many dudes have you banged?
/r/seduction26/07/24 11:44 AM
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It’s a supply and demand issue Gay men (in the average) put out vastly quicker and easier than straight women Supply (men putting out) is high which means costs of demand (romantic seduction) are pushed low
/r/seduction15/07/24 08:50 AM
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Much of what this sub is about is identifying the differences in what women say they want and what they actually want in practice If it was as simple as just doing whatever women say they want there would be no need for this sub
/r/seduction15/07/24 08:45 AM
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Yeah, I definitely agree with that, being able to talk with a stranger (which everyone on a dating app really is) is a vital skill I’m not totally discounting cold approach, for some guys it could well be the better approach, just that dating apps don’t only work for 6’3+ 10s which is an opinion you sometimes hear on here Also I live in the UK and feel like in general people can be pretty hostile to strangers speaking to them in public places, not even just women men too And for other men readin…
/r/seduction27/06/24 11:51 AM
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Cold approach is foundational to any success anyone will have in dating I get dates every week and have never once cold approached, all off the apps
/r/seduction27/06/24 10:18 AM
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I send tons of flirtatious / explicit messages with good success but they’re all personalised and/or a double entendre Women like to be horny too but they need plausible deniability and generally do not want to receive message that could sent to absolutely anyone I used to struggle with this a lot and tended to just avoid anything that could be deemed horny or creepy but after enough practice and sending so many openers I feel like I have it down
/r/seduction13/06/24 02:06 PM
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Get on Feeld / FetLife / Pure Hookup Attend your local sex club / munch Hint at it in your profile bio edit: just seen your a women just say ‘I’m kinky’ then
/r/seduction12/06/24 04:24 PM
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If you pay for Hinge you can select non-monogamy in the filters I also pay for Pure which is a hookup app
/r/seduction04/06/24 07:27 PM
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Not OP but Feeld
/r/seduction04/06/24 06:37 PM
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Just like spiders they’re actually more afraid of you than you are of them
/r/seduction22/04/24 09:37 PM
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As well as men’s own fear of commitment, moving from casual/situationship to a relationship can be a risky move as the women may have commitment issues or feel you’re moving too fast and once you bring it up they decide that they’d rather leave than commit This has happened several times with me and it makes me more cautious as bringing up commitment can torpedo a quite enjoyable situationship
/r/seduction22/04/24 10:35 AM
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The second most wealthy and powerful nation on earth is a third world country… The nation the US Gov’t feels it has to spend $100s of billions in economic subsidies; and re-orient their entire foreign policy to counter is a third world country…
/r/seduction15/04/24 06:52 PM
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It’s a spoonerism
/r/seduction14/04/24 12:53 PM
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I only want to hug if I know there’s a reciprocated romantic interested or if I’ve taken X Otherwise it just feels awkward to me
/r/seduction10/04/24 02:48 PM
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I never ask for nudes and would never share them (it’s a crime in my country) But if she chooses to send them to me, I take it as a gift and I won’t be deleting them, just as I wouldn’t give back any other gift a romantic partner gave me after they decide they’re finished with me
/r/seduction16/02/24 04:10 PM
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No
/r/seduction11/02/24 07:16 PM
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Not really comparable, it’s like asking for a choc chip cookie and being offered an Oreo Social media is not any worse than texting, it makes no diff to how I’m gonna message Please have a more positive attitude She could’ve just said no
/r/seduction31/01/24 05:05 PM
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It’s not even a rejection, they’re offering a way to communicate with them…
/r/seduction31/01/24 04:12 PM
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It’s a lot easier to block on insta than a phone number, so girls like it gives them a sense of safety. Many people, maybe even most, use social media as a primary form of communication So what if she leaves you on read at least then you’ll know. She can leave you on read just as easy via text than insta message. Why are you rejecting her advances due to a fear of being rejected in future? This obsession with getting the phone number is weird and I presume a hang up from when phone was the only …
/r/seduction31/01/24 04:03 PM
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Fucking NFL players, always getting the girl
/r/seduction31/01/24 09:16 AM
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I see rappers fucking and dating overweight women often and they 100% could be fucking slim white women if they wanted Some bro’s just do want more cushion for the pushin, and I can respect it
/r/seduction17/01/24 08:23 PM
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