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Dude you need to post a lot more detail on the issues that you're saying resulted from this triad. You spent more time bragging about it than talking about the actual problems resulting from it. What the hell are we supposed to be able to tell you?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/20 06:34 PM
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minority that looks quite big from those videos Pretty much. The overwhelming majority of Americans are just trying to live their lives, just like people anywhere else in the world. There’s a tiny but very vocal section of the population that cares about these types of things, and because they cause all the trouble they get all the attention.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 02:47 PM
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You’re overthinking this. She’s just flirting.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 11:22 PM
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It can be helpful to read stories from those subreddits, but to throw out a diagnosis of mental health issues - from a second-hand story over the internet - seems a bit premature, you know? In clinical terms she may be afflicted with one or more personality disorders from Cluster-B:
/r/RedPillWives22/07/17 07:00 PM
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Does your husband know about your adultery? It's unclear from your post.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/17 12:10 PM
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Men seem to be unable to accept that women are way more valuable and important then they give them credit for. ???
/r/RedPillWives02/07/17 03:30 PM
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Stubborness and Pride are a very slippery slope towards arrogance and bad decisions. I think it is sad that men rarely dress this issues in themselves. I will raise any future sons with a clear understanding of both Stubbornness is the foundation of steadfastness, of determination, of sticking up for yourself and others, of doing the right thing even when it's the more difficult path. Pride is the foundation of courage, of the drive to succeed, of the sense of community, of self-confidence, of r…
/r/RedPillWives30/06/17 11:07 AM
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Honestly I don't even think his fidelity stems as much from his love of me as from his personal pride in the integrity of his own honor lol (but obviously he does love me a lot). I think this is a really good thing! Having principles based on feelings isn't ideal because those can change, you know? People fight and relationships have rocky periods. It's not out of the realm of possibility that a couple will fall out of love for a bit. Given all of that, it's much better for a person's principles…
/r/RedPillWives17/06/17 11:21 AM
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Do you have a college degree? If no, what have you been doing since high school? When you say "study medicine," what career track are you thinking of?
/r/askTRP21/05/17 01:46 PM
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For a while, maybe.
/r/askTRP11/05/17 02:17 AM
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I'm assuming you aren't in the armed forces? Your view of the status (and, frankly, fitness) of a junior enlisted service member is a little... rose-tinted, for lack of a better word. And the rest was just TRP boilerplate that's not the slightest bit of use to the actual OP.
/r/RedPillWives09/05/17 10:11 PM
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Him joining the AF with you is probably one of his best options. At the very least, the tables will be even; being a presumably attractive military man on deployment (or off base) is enough sexual leverage to counter your swimming in highly testosterone saturated, cock infested waters (aka, he can cheat just as easily as you, so don't give him reasons to do so and vice versa). I gotta say, I disagree with this pretty strongly. First, the tables won't be anywhere close to even. It's difficult to …
/r/RedPillWives09/05/17 11:27 AM
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1) and you think you're at your natural limit right now? 2) so you're not even lifting, but you're complaining about being skinny?
/r/askTRP25/03/17 05:39 PM
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You dropped all the way back down after your cycle? How long had you been lifting prior? What was your cycle like? What was your PCT? To answer your real question, though, meditate and spend time alone. Hiking is great for that.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 02:07 PM
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Steroids are a bad choice for you because, as you admit, you already have no work ethic. Now is not the time to look for more ways to make things easier. What you need is grit, determination, the willpower to see things through. To develop it, you need to start doing something, regularly and long term. What that thing is doesn't matter. The only important thing is that you pick something and keep working on it, as often as you can, for a long time. More than a year. Exercise may be a good fit fo…
/r/askTRP11/03/17 05:17 PM
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I think this is the best recommendation. If the husband loves the book and wants more, OP can go deeper into some of the Ian ironwood or rollo tomassi stuff. If the husband is put off a bit, OP will know not to delve any further, as No More Mr Nice Guy is relatively inoffensive.
/r/RedPillWives11/03/17 12:58 PM
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>There are not really any daycare options but only cheap subsidized daycare which is pretty crappy and is for poor people. I don't want to be overly mean about this, but you're contemplating bankruptcy. You are poor people. Regarding the resume thing, you can just... retype it, right? It's one thing to not want to go against your husband's wishes, but I don't know why not currently having a resume is such an impediment to working.
/r/RedPillWives10/03/17 10:04 PM
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He wants to take family money to invest in something that his family has suggested (which isn't terrible, it's just not very ambitious) There are far, far more men who became wealthy and powerful by measured, cautious investments than there are men who created something like Tesla or Facebook.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/17 09:14 PM
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It's far more likely that you're going to get fired, just so you know.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 03:21 PM
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There's nothing inherently "bad" about seeking revenge. The issue is that it should be a calculated act designed to attain some concrete benefit -- e.g. you're getting beat up, you get revenge, you no longer get beat up. It's very difficult to calculate when revenge is "worth it" and it's even more difficult to be certain that you're making the decision logically instead of emotionally.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 10:29 PM
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I don't think she will spend lunches in the lunch room there anymore I understand it can be hard to deal with people who have differences of opinion, but I would really recommend that she learn to get along with these people, rather than avoiding them. The world is full of people who will disagree with her choices. She can't hide from all of them. The sooner she can learn to politely disagree and carry on a professional relationship, the better!
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 11:28 AM
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The guys who will think less of her are the ones she isn't interested in anyway, right? Dating's not about getting every man interested, it's about getting the right men interested.
/r/RedPillWives07/12/16 11:24 AM
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Chuck Palahniuk is pretty close to a nihilist, so of course he feels that self improvement is masturbation. Just because somebody says something doesn't mean that it's true, right? Fight club is a great flick but don't take every quote in it too seriously.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 08:16 PM
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Because of his desire to be a super dad... I am going to miss Christmas and will probably impose on my family members. Holy cow, these are words of an entitled shrew. You have a husband who is supportive of your visit, who wants to be a good father, and all you can talk about are the negatives. I mean, honestly, re-read what I quoted. From what I'm reading, you yourself admitted that your husband is correct in that he cannot rely on your family. You planned the travel dates without consulting hi…
/r/RedPillWives03/12/16 02:49 AM
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While I can certainly sympathize, saying "I get better results from cooking than my husband does" is really just a euphemism for "I'm a better cook than my husband." There's no need to use flimsy language to avoid the concept of being better at something. One of the key concepts of OP's post is that being better than your husband at something than is okay -- provided you don't turn into a bitch about it, of course :). Having different skills is an important part of a complimentary relationship, …
/r/RedPillWives25/11/16 05:36 PM
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In general, maybe not. However, I think there are also far fewer community ties than there used to be. Years and years ago, church groups and small communities were the norm, which meant that a man was less likely to approach a total stranger and more likely to approach a woman that he had some sort of connection with, whether it be religious or ethnic or what have you. With the shift to big-city life, the vast majority of cold approaches are to complete strangers. I think that this modern age p…
/r/RedPillWives07/11/16 12:17 AM
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Well said.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:17 PM
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Men respect the following 4 qualities: strength courage honor mastery Everything else you mentioned is close to irrelevant if you aren't displaying these things. As far as random people disrespecting you goes, gain some muscle. That is the easiest way to stop that.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:59 AM
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Classical etiquette holds that you shouldn't shake unless she holds out her hand first. In addition, it tends to be less of a shake and more of a grasp. I personally find that I tend to almost turn the hand, rather than shake it.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 01:01 AM
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That's not how the female sexual strategy works.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 09:17 PM
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You've got it backward, actually. Men will sleep with women that they don't have any interest in dating, and women will date men that they don't have any interest in sleeping with. In your case, I'm guessing that you "agreeing that you might be interested in dating" is not coming off quite as casually as you're implying here.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 09:15 PM
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I want kids.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 09:13 PM
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Have you heard the adage "watch your thoughts, because they become your actions"? While you said you don't have any intention of cheating, I would strongly encourage you to change your mindset about the "other guys would love to be here" thing. That is a slippery slope that has often led to cheating in the past.
/r/RedPillWives23/10/16 01:12 PM
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You don't need 1 gram per pound body weight, but you should probably try to get more than 50g/day. Protein requirements aren't that high on a bulk because the body has excess calories and doesn't need to scavenge amino acids. Protein requirements are highest when cutting.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 01:08 AM
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Doesn't sound like a 'real' alpha. Just sounds like an AMOG knob I get what you're saying, but ultimately we have to judge based on the results. Relative to the OP, this guy was more "alpha."
/r/askTRP13/09/16 01:00 AM
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Reply: "Who are you? Huckleberry Finn? Footrace? And the winner gets to kiss Becky Thatcher?" I'm not sure most people at a party would get that reference, but it is hilarious.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 12:59 AM
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Hmm, I'm not sure I agree. I think the bigger issue for these men isn't that home has people at it, it's that home is unpleasant. After all, if space was what they needed, the bar wouldn't be the right place to run to, right?
/r/RedPillWives10/09/16 09:50 PM
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feminists still complain that there are not enough women in "man fields" such as STEM, etc. So they do things such as "Women in STEM" days in colleges to try to push women in these fields. One of my favorites: https://i.sli.mg/Rwv77I.png
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 04:39 AM
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a number in the hundreds is a very LOW estimation. I have a hard time imagining that thousands of women are pressed into sexual slavery each year in the United States. The only way I can see this being accurate is if we expand "sexual slavery" to include every prostitute.
/r/RedPillWives10/08/16 02:24 AM
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While I'm sure there are people out there who could provide unbiased, productive feedback to an ex, 99% of the time this will not go down well.
/r/RedPillWives10/08/16 02:21 AM
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Good catch!
/r/RedPillWives07/08/16 07:10 PM
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Reading the full article is a great look into how dominance threshold mediates how a man is regarded. Notice that bystanders are describing Tusup (clearly a high-dominance man) as scary and mean, while Hosszu says that he just wants the best for her. Great example of a LHL HLH relationship.
/r/RedPillWives07/08/16 06:29 PM
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I can't think of any major decisions that we made without doing it jointly and it hasn't caused an issue. Your husband is so miserable that he proposed radical changes to your relationship because he feels like you don't respect him. You're so miserable that you seem to feel that being a single mother would be better than what you're doing right now. Your relationship structure has indeed caused some issues, doll.
/r/RedPillWives05/08/16 01:12 PM
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Yes, it is a "beta" behavior. That does not mean it is a bad behavior. Why do you not want to give a girl you've been dating for a year and a half "provider vibes"?
/r/askTRP04/08/16 06:38 PM
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roasted chicken In case anybody is inspired: http://www.seriouseats.com/recipes/2010/05/butterflied-roasted-chicken-with-quick-jus-recipe.html
/r/RedPillWives28/07/16 06:05 PM
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What I particularly enjoyed about this article is that it's a great foil to the way many men feel about the way women communicate. Renee embraces emotionality, while many men seem to find it distasteful or suspicious. Many times, men (who are used to straight talk) seem to believe that women are attempting to somehow trick them because they communicate a different way. This is when you'll hear "why can't she just say what she means?" A more game-aware man will recognize the difference in modes o…
/r/RedPillWives25/07/16 01:21 PM
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I'd advise not actually killing her.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:17 PM
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You got her snapchat? Not her number?
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:15 PM
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I'll say this. Even if you find no evidence, it's very unlikely that you'll feel better. I'd actually wager a bit of cash that you'll feel relieved -- for a few days. Until the doubt starts setting in. What if she just deleted the messages? What if she's talking to dudes on WhatsApp instead of facebook? If you don't have any reason to believe she's cheating, don't go looking. It won't make things better. If you do have reason to believe she's cheating, do you really need conclusive proof to dump…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:06 AM
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soft next them all. Why?
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:02 AM
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Judge by actions, not by words. She clearly has some sort of connection with this dude. If you're hoping to make her your girlfriend, you're shit out of luck. If you're just hoping to sleep with her, that could probably still happen.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 01:01 AM
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Be cool. If you can interact well or get along with that kind of dude, it can actually be a boost to your own status.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 02:55 PM
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Can you explain what you mean by "soft next?" The context is making this confusing.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 02:52 PM
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These would be great responses to a shit test but are poor responses to a comfort test. Assuming you want to keep her as a girlfriend, you need to feed her some affirmation. Too much dread will literally drive this girl insane.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 01:04 PM
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Sun, I totally agree with you. Banning Milo is silly. Ultimately this will probably work in Milo's favor. The single best way to make something interesting is to ban it.
/r/RedPillWives23/07/16 12:57 PM
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Naturally, you listen to someone more closely (i.e. with more respect) when you perceive that they are speaking to you from a position of higher power. I disagree with this characterization. Women do not respect, they admire, so they're right out of the equation. Men respect other men who display the following attributes: Courage Mastery Strength Honor You gain respect by displaying these attributes and/or building a reputation thereof. Men tend to respect power because a person holding power im…
/r/askTRP23/07/16 01:11 AM
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Multiple reasons but it all comes down to powertalk. Not "saying what they mean" is a social defense mechanism, as it allows for more fluid opinions and allegiances. Example: "he's too nice" equals "he's boring." Everybody knows this. Why not say it? Because saying "he's boring" is publicly making a negative comment about the person that can't easily be explained away or reversed. Saying "too nice" communicates the same message to anybody who understands, but maintains defensive ambiguity.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 08:02 AM
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But twitter isn't getting rid of radical Islamic twitter accounts On the whole I completely agree with what you're saying, but just wanted to let you know -- this is not the case. Twitter has banned over 100k accounts for radical Islam (unfortunately they are created faster than they can be banned.)
/r/RedPillWives20/07/16 09:44 PM
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https://reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2j3u3o/request_i_would_like_more_on_power_talk/cl87c9r
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:14 PM
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/u/bicepsblastingstud had a few posts about it.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:48 PM
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It's very easy to change your surroundings, but it is difficult and a lot of hard work to change yourself. Seneca, a Roman stoic, has some great lines about this: Why do you wonder that travel abroad does no good, when you carry yourself along? What drove you from home still sticks close. How can strange lands help you? If you ask why escape is not feasible, you are escaping with yourself. You must lay down the weight on your soul; until you do, no place will satisfy. But once you have rid yours…
/r/RedPillWives07/07/16 03:13 AM
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Nope, you do not need to have read the office. Start with the gervais principle series. If you develop any questions about what he's saying, feel free to come back and ask.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 02:55 PM
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I've been looking forward to this post for quite some time. Glad to see it up. This, in particular: High threshold women are drawn towards both the positive and the negative alpha traits. is an idea completely new to me. I would place honor into the "alpha" category. Jack Donovan, in The Way of Men, identified four categories or aspects of masculinity: strength, courage, mastery, and honor. Donovan more or less conflates masculinity and "alpha" behavior, describing both as "being good at being a…
/r/RedPillWives01/07/16 05:32 PM
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Keep the audience in mind. NMMNG is writing to passive men who typically swallow their feelings and become doormats. They won't say if they don't like something, nor say no to any request. As such, the advice "communicate your feelings" is tailored to that set of men, whereas it would be bad advice for men who are fairly well self-actualized and are looking to improve their pickup game. For these men, being mysterious/standoffish is probably better advice. Make sense?
/r/askTRP26/06/16 08:53 PM
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This is an absurd meme. Of course it could matter.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 09:57 PM
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Okay, but what does that have to do with the fitness model thing?
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/16 08:43 PM
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I don't understand how this is salient to you not liking advice to "don't worry about what other people think," etc.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/16 07:23 PM
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I recently came across a post from a fitness model, and challenged her to rephrase her statement to also appeal to those who work just as hard (if not harder) than her on their physique and appearance, but realize (or don't) that they simply were not born with the genetics that she was. ?
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/16 06:30 PM
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Also, my pregnancy was a very rough time for us relationship-wise. I know this had something to do with it. If you know that your pregnancy has something to do with the problem, it might be good to add some details about it. :) But I have tried almost everything I can think of, short of total separation, to right any wrongs and to do my part to do what I can to make the relationship good again. Ditto for this. What have you tried?
/r/RedPillWives23/06/16 06:25 PM
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Your best bet is going to be 2 months of lifting concentrated on the deltoids, traps, triceps, and forearms while you get your diet in check, followed by one month of a crash PSMF diet like the Ultimate Diet 2.0. This is, essentially, the quickest way to look big/strong without actually being big/strong. A caveat is that of all the people I've trained, however, not one who was trying to get in shape for some event in the near term has managed to achieve any real success. Typically they put in 2 …
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:57 PM
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2+ hours of lifting 5 days a week is not a good idea for natural lifters. Find a 3 or 4 day routine that isn't a body-part split and switch over to that.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:44 PM
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Teasing is radically different from what you proposed, which was basically to concede, but then not do anything about it.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:35 PM
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On the other hand , if you say, sure maybe I'll start doing that, but don't actually do it, it seems less bitter and less offended, plus you didn't actually Change your behavior. I could not disagree more. The initial response seems more passive and more submissive, and then not following up is passive-aggressive or forgetful (at best). Words should typically be congruent with actions.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:28 PM
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I can understand why you would feel this way, but it isn't actionable advice, nor particularly useful.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 08:42 PM
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Bad form, socially.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 05:41 PM
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Or somebody in general to which you have no wish to participate. Mr ____ declines with regrets.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 05:40 PM
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Someone who is the backup quarterback could make a much better husband than the first string QB, depending on what a woman is looking for. Of course, but you're using one (hypothetical) example to try to disprove the much broader point that social success is attractive. I agree that social success shouldn't be the one, only goal in life, but I don't think that's what the author of this piece was arguing.
/r/RedPillWives21/06/16 04:06 PM
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alcohol The best wedding I ever attended had a few kegs of beer (at around ~$100 each, maybe), wine from Trader Joes, and booze from Costco.
/r/RedPillWives02/06/16 01:56 PM
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If you don't want to sleep with her, why did you invite her over to your house, alone, at night? Not making a moral judgment on whether you should or shouldn't sleep with her, but understand that your (stated) goals and your actions are not congruent here.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:25 PM
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I agree. It makes for an interesting thought experiment, but society has changed, irrevocably. One can't just pass a law and have it go back. If society does return to a patriarchy, it will be the work of generations, not years.
/r/RedPillWives01/06/16 02:08 AM
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Do you mean that traditional European patriarchy is more family-based? Generally speaking, European-Christian patriarchy was social in nature. A badly-behaving wife was divorced, ostracized, but not judicially punished. Social mores came from the church, but there was usually some separation between church and state, so those cultural values were enforced socially. Islamic patriarchy, by contrast, tends to be legislative. Sharia, if you aren't familiar, is Islamic law, and has strict restriction…
/r/RedPillWives01/06/16 12:31 AM
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I am not sure what's going to change that man-child culture! Given that you yourself have enumerated some societal ills which might make men less inclined to commit, I'm not sure it's fair to call them "man-children" for not doing so.
/r/RedPillWives01/06/16 12:23 AM
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Roosh's jab at women who travel the world in order to "find themselves" made me laugh, since I can think of SO MANY MEN who talk that way about their travels. Hah, well, nobody ever said solipsism was exclusively reserved for women! I would not be surprised if Roosh were describing travel the way he thinks about travel. In general, though, I think he's espousing the sentiment that traveling (particularly solo travel to exotic locales or places known to be "party" destinations) is often looked up…
/r/RedPillWives01/06/16 12:21 AM
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Part of the problem is that reddit's upvote/downvote system rewards posters who say the things that people want to hear. There are several posters who are frequently upvoted but don't really have a firm foundation of introspection. They've mastered the surface-level stuff about wearing dresses, but whenever a hard-hitting theory post goes up, they'll start to pick it apart under the guise of "thinking critically" or whatever. And because being wrong sweetly is better received than a hard truth, …
/r/RedPillWives29/05/16 04:21 PM
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I think your dude is actually a disney princess.
/r/RedPillWives26/05/16 04:46 PM
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Have you told your wife anything that you're doing? Lets hope not. Nor should he.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 06:13 PM
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beta testing hah!
/r/RedPillWives19/05/16 02:58 AM
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. There's a risk my girlfriend and I might bump into one of the women I cheated on her with (or worse, she might bump into one of them, and somehow find out that I cheated on her). How would this happen? Are these women from your social circle or what?
/r/askTRP19/05/16 02:52 AM
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It's not a bad idea, but overall not worth the tuition fees. Instead, write and write. Read everything you can find. Get feedback. Write some more. What you may wish to do as a backup plan is get a degree in something eminently marketable like computer science. That way you have a backup.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:01 AM
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If you're dead set on making money through writing and entrepreneurship, you should go for it. College will not help you in those scenarios.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 11:48 PM
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Typically I'd agree, but creatine really is a good supplement for most people.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 11:00 PM
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You don't need to take it on any specific time of day. Once the muscle is fully "loaded," you're just taking more to maintain stores.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 11:00 PM
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A guy who has to ask this question won't be able to handle the social fallout of following this advice.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 08:09 PM
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Provide more context, please.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 12:27 PM
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It's worth a shot. If you like it, continue, if not, don't. People occasionally talk about testosterone-boosting benefits; these claims are all bunk. It is better for your hair/skin. The biggest benefit of starting the day with a cold shower is that willpower is something that you can train and exercise like a muscle, so doing something unpleasant each day helps to develop it. A cold shower hits the sweet spot of a) not actually harmful, b) unpleasant, and c) you need to get cleaned up anyway. T…
/r/askTRP10/05/16 02:48 PM
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First, "talking about feelings" is not necessarily breaking frame. There's a huge difference between saying "I feel sad because you [x]" and saying "You will not disrespect me like that again. It angers me." Putting that completely aside, he doesn't have to say a thing about his feelings, he just needs to make sure that his words are congruent with his actions. Withdrawing attention is the right path, but to then go and act like you aren't doing it on purpose is incredibly transparent. It's the …
/r/askTRP10/05/16 03:28 AM
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Good advice until the last bit. Lying about what you're doing is both petty and vindictive.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 02:11 AM
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It stands to reason that your husband would not be looking for TRP, nor making changes in your lives, if he was happy. A healthy man does not go looking for medicine. Rather than focus on how you don't like the changes, perhaps you should be asking yourself why your husband feels compelled to make them. Your relationship with him is obviously something he feels the need to improve. Why?
/r/askTRP09/05/16 06:31 PM
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