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Could you explain?
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:26 PM
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Get off porn, I’ve met a handful of women in my life and only one of them talked about needing at least 8 inches. That same woman was also the most toxic woman I’ve met.
/r/ExRedPill19/04/22 07:30 PM
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I wish I could give you gold, but the top comment of this thread is right
/r/ExRedPill04/04/22 02:42 AM
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I think people need to realize that most of the true things that Redpill employs Is basically the surface of Redpill, which is what you described above. As you take in more information, you’re essentially moving down the rabbit hole, where you’ll find the vile information that only spikes ones ego and nothing more.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 12:32 AM
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9,500 likes isn’t enough likes to speak on the behalf of all men
/r/ExRedPill02/11/21 06:32 AM
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Exactly this. A warped view on dating is an understatement with red/purple pill
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 09:51 PM
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Eh, it’s Reddit, but I do see it from time to time women asking a genuine question to then be bombarded by incels
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:14 PM
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I occasionally do, they’re either really downvoted or already deleted
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:02 PM
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I think you have to look at it as something in control. Can you magically extend yourself or any other body part? No. Or all the people complaining about their height would of done something. If you’re 5 inches(which is completely average) then you have to learn how to own it. It’s either you own it and be confident about it or you let it put you through the ringer of insecurities, don’t take the ladder, women will find you very attractive if it’s something you own and don’t worry about. Then to…
/r/seduction14/09/21 09:52 PM
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I hate the wall, and I hate a massive age gap too. Like dude y’all are two different generations, wack
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 08:03 PM
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Good read, but what’s an example to say when someone asks about other girls you’ve been seeing? I’ve actually been asked this a bunch before now that I think about it but I always just smirked and shrugged my shoulders at them 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction27/08/21 08:52 AM
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I know this may not mean much, but I full-heartily respect you for doing this. A lot of guys get very nervous at the icebreakers part of meeting people because they’re worried of rejection, and seeing women choose to make a first move is just rad for both genders, you’re doing great 😎
/r/seduction02/08/21 07:29 PM
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Posture, body language, witts Everyone says humor but you should also learn how to roll with the flow, meaning if something is said- it won’t bother you. So much so that you’re witty enough to make a small joke out of it. Be easy going and not take anything personally, and if it sounds like it could be taken personally, try to flip it into a joke. Witts or “Wittiness” is a something that is overlooked IMO as most people just say humor to cover the spread.
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:55 PM
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For me I used these.. r/menslib r/confidence r/socialskills Although I do kind of agree with what Detox said here, some of the groups can help with certain things when they are posted. A good example was how someone made a post in r/confidence on how to be able to show true vulnerability and be okay with yourself with it will show true confidence. If it was anyway TRP related, they would tell me I was a beta for having such emotions(and they have) There is other great subs but some also can have…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/21 05:55 PM
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Guy here and I've heard this Waaaay too much to count. Majority of the girls that are actually date-able(the ones actually looking for relationships and connections) have to weed through mad pictures of dicks and terrible sexual pick up lines To OP, I think you finding yourself in the desert. I've dated a bunch of cool chicks that wouldn't fall for a Chad. I think the girls that OP is referring to are the shallow ones with an enormous set of standards(6pack, fat wad of cash, etc.) And an ego the…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/21 06:39 PM
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To sum it up, I became a selfish dick and she walked away. Nuff' said
/r/ExRedPill27/04/21 12:14 AM
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I have to say this is a very great thing to see, I'm an advocate for men's self care and mental health and I'm so happy to see something like this. Even if it's just a survey, this is a step in the right direction.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/21 02:35 PM
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This is me with the sport Disc Golf. Instead of going on and on about the sport and how it was on ESPN and Paul Mcbeth the 5x world champion blah blah blah, I just told her it was Golf with specific frisbees, and it was something that was really important to me. I kept it simple instead of going on about it. And she was intrigued and asked me more about it. Keeping it simple is the key, but you must show appreciation for the hobby as well.
/r/seduction15/04/21 12:33 AM
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Exactly. The whole "Be a man" phrase isnt exactly the bandaid to a problem for the men's side.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 08:27 PM
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Coming from a dude. I think if there was a little less social pressure, and men taught the correct way to respect boundaries and communication. As well as to respect themselves and other people. I think social stigmas really kill the vibe of dating for most people, but this is IMO. Men think they have to be a stubborn badass with women, women have to have a certain body image with breasts, ass, etc. Of course there are many other things that we can teach Men and women at a young age, but the soc…
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 07:16 PM
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I actually enjoy going down on my gf, if she's going to go down on me I don't see why I can't return the favor.
/r/ExRedPill11/03/21 12:53 AM
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What is Imposter syndrome?
/r/seduction14/02/21 05:32 PM
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Where would I be without you, detox
/r/ExRedPill23/01/21 02:05 PM
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I need this.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/21 10:12 PM
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One word: Ego
/r/ExRedPill16/11/20 03:24 PM
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Great job my dude! But I have to say be cautious with a girl who is willing to chill while she has a bf. Obviously you dont know what's going on behind close doors, but one tip I heard that stuck to me is that if she's down and willing to POSSIBLY cheat, she very well could do it to you.
/r/seduction13/11/20 07:15 AM
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Tell her to learn some spelling and grammar Then move on
/r/ExRedPill02/11/20 07:34 PM
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Just like others ask. What meditation? What do you do/think about
/r/seduction18/10/20 01:27 AM
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For me stoicism actually worked out well, but it has its fair share of criticism. Most people think of stoicism as being bland, or boring. And I believe that's just the surface of it. For me stoicism helped me cope with my emotions and control them. I built emotional strength over time and was able to hold it together when times got rough. It taught me that my emotions are completely valid, but I shouldn't act on them, instead it taught me to be rational, it taught me that the only thing I shoul…
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 01:47 AM
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Been there done that. If she walks away let her. I've shared a joke or two with a girl at a bar. She laughed but got roped into the convo of another dude, so I just watched the hockey game, not chasing her. After a moment or two she came back and then we had the convo. I think joking is good but if that's all you can do then some women can sense your a poser that's trying to hide something. A good opener followed up by a second joke then onto a good convo while staying confident, relaxed and gen…
/r/seduction26/09/20 07:38 PM
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Best of luck out there man. And one tip, clear your mind on any expectation withing the relationship world, I dont mean this in a bad way, but coming from emotional guy, it will help "There is no permanence in this world" People will come and go- reminding myself of this ultimately helped my emotions and mindset
/r/ExRedPill14/09/20 04:26 PM
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I read "how to be a 3% man" and "Mastering yourself" by Corey Wayne. Some people have mixed opinions about it but Mastering Yourself got found me my purpose and The 3% man taught me dating advice while still being a gentleman with confidence rather than being an asshole.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/20 03:29 PM
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I asked myself this question after I had been broken up with by a girl, who yes we had good times, was just looking for fun more or less. It clicked with me that I would rather have the love and support from someone that sees the value in my trust form. It took me time to see that all girls arent just shallow sluts that only care for a fun time. There are plenty of women who have integrity, heart, and a good head on their shoulders who like genuine men, in that case, wouldn't you want someone wh…
/r/ExRedPill09/09/20 03:03 PM
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Like guys opening emotionally to you?
/r/seduction04/09/20 06:02 PM
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How does one open a girl emotionally on the first without putting himself in the friend zone?
/r/seduction04/09/20 04:16 PM
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I think I needed to hear that last part. I've always struggled with my self esteem but I must tell myself to be patient and keep moving forward.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/20 03:09 PM
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There are many people who are driven. Take it from me, I'm also a 3rd year at a state college and I started the same way- started dating a girl, went to a couple parties and started making a good social circle For me however, when my gf broke up with me I had hit rock bottom. Confidence was gone and I had no drive, with very little friends. After some time on the water(I row for my college)I chalked up what I had and I focused on myself, started doing better. One thing I realized is no one is go…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 09:31 PM
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This gives me the same vibe as different gangs reaching out to vulnerable young men for more recruits of their army
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 09:57 PM
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Nothing wrong with that- but I like to give a relationship a chance, and if they're not down or it doesnt work out then no biggie- I may get hate for saying this but I think there could be more to it than sex
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 07:44 PM
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Then explain
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 12:08 PM
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Wow this makes sense, like the last time we saw each other went very well, it was late and she wanted to cuddle more, next thing I know shes done
/r/ExRedPill12/08/20 12:55 PM
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They distance and run when someone starts to get feelings for them? That's just messed up, especially someone that was saying they always wanted an emotional connection
/r/ExRedPill12/08/20 12:40 PM
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Yeah i probably should've noted it was her exes and previous flings she hooked up with that she was texting, Im not bothered if a girl im dating has guy friends- she had a few and i met them, they were good people. But to me, talking to your ex is one thing, but constantly texting them and entertaining them in front of me is disrespectful. Edit: there were times i felt gaslit by it, she always had moments where she would get angry if something she did bothered me, Nonetheless im going to move on…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/20 11:25 PM
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God i fucking needed this, thank you much. Today im going to start putting myself and my goals first, rather than the opinions of others
/r/ExRedPill11/08/20 10:05 PM
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Edit: I should probably say this now, we just broke up a few days ago and it made me realize that she may have been shallow. If something bothered me, it was my problem. She never kept a good relationship down and was hot and cold with me. She told me i was the best bf she had yet had moments of disrespect then went on to say we bickered alot(WHAT?) and the spark fizzled? maybe i am a hopeless romantic deep down.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/20 09:40 PM
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