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| 11 | What is the most toxic part about redpill theory/dating strategy/life for you?if you have to put someone else down to feel good / better than someone else, there is something very wrong. There are some ok ideas about self-improvement in the red pill, but too much toxic trash going with it. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/19 06:02 AM |
| 7 | Is there a healthy level of oneitis?no. the term implies a unhealthy way of thinking. if you ask having a crush on someone, sure, that's totally normal and healthy. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/19 12:46 PM |
| 4 | Ladies. When do you consider a guy ready for a relationship?Im a big sensntive teddy bear. Im obsessed with art and music and colors and designing and drawing and writing stories in reviewing things and that's basically always been me Sounds like a list of great attributes for a partner right there. :) | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/19 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Realized a date I had was into PUAseduction must have deteriorated recently. I used to read there now and then picking up an idea or two to use on my partners. Do they still do the cheesy pickup lines? I could always make them laugh that way :) | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/19 08:05 AM |
| 5 | Any former incels/blackpillers here?I think this point needs to be repeated and emphasized: "women are different people with different opinions and feel differently about different things" One woman has a higher priority on looks, another might value other things more (eye color, money, humor, religion, ...). And even two women valueing looks very high could see someone and one thinks "whoa, handsome guy" and the other "uh, no thanks". Like it was said somewhere else: You could be the perfect peach, but out there are still people … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/18 02:24 PM |
| 19 | If I don’t want the red pill, how can I stop myself from growing into a pussy?Another question: what do you experience as feminine with you and why do you think this is so negative? I experience my life as a colorful mix of things and I do not restrict myself to ideas of masculine / feminine. I can crochet, I love to cook, I grow flowers etc and I am manly as can be. And I also love to drive my car, do repairs in my house and enjoy woodworking - and I learned to talk about my emotions when appropriate or stash them for later when necessary. I cultivate my feminine side. A… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/18 10:44 AM |
| 14 | If I don’t want the red pill, how can I stop myself from growing into a pussy?About defending yourself / loved ones: where are you living? Is (violent) crime really a common occurance? Or is it more of a general anxiety? For me as a german violent crime is something happening in the news and nothing more, the worst crimes I have personally witnessed this year were parking violations. I think even my 3 y/o daughter can handle that. But I know there are enough regions that are less safe. But a lot of US citizens seem to suffer from a general anxiety of possibly being attack… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/18 10:32 AM |
| 3 | Ex-RP Men: How do you handle this?but she doesn't want to discuss it. ask her why she doesn't want to discuss it. Sounds like you could use some better or more communication in your relationship | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/17 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Ex-RP Men: How do you handle this?There you have your answer: it's not about your partner's past, this is about you. Would you still want to do "those things", if your partner had been totally vanilla in her past? Or do you want them, because someone else had them with your partner in the past? It sounds more like the latter and that's BS. If you really want to try out something, be specific about it. Tell her how the thought of doing X together with her turns you on so much. Ask her how she thinks about it. Talk, listen. Don't … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/17 04:47 AM |
| 8 | what redpill needs to learn mostWhile chubby, balding guys who can't lift 50 lbs always seem to be in great relationships and aren't terrified of being cheated on. I'm not that bald... ;) | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/17 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.Nice false dichotomy. What if sexual attraction is a core requisite of a healthy, monogamous relationship Because then you wouldn't call it "unwanted celibacy", that only stresses the aspect of sex. Sure sex is a major component of many or even most relationships. But it sounds like OP can "play the act" to get laid, but only with partners that are not attracted to him beyond the act - because his act is attracting the wrong partners. If you want to stress the "no relationship" aspect (which may… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/17 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.I'm pretty sure most women aren't attracted to my "S" side - and that's totally OK, because we would be a bad match. But over time I found a few that genuinely liked my "N" side and vice versa and we clicked just fine. Well, about the "unwanted celibacy" (a stupid term if you ask me - call it what it is: not getting fucked and being salty about it): would you prefer a shitty sexual fling to a lasting relationship? Then pretend to be "N" until you fucked someone, but don't complain they dump you … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/17 07:22 AM |
| 16 | Why is it when I treat women nicely they are not as receptive as when I treat them aloofly / the TRP style.I'd say think of a magnet. You present your "N" side and attract "S" side partners. Then you switch around and wonder, why your "S" side is not attractive to their "S" side anymore? When they were looking for an "N" side? Do you know, why so many people are disappointed by politicians? They show their "N" side before the elections and their "S" after ;) If you want to attract someone that likes, enjoys, cherishes your "S" side, show it to potential partners instead of pretending your "N" side is… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/17 08:12 AM |
| 2 | CeremonyI am active in my religious peergroup and we have been discussing these rituals as well and we started to build our own rituals around the stages of live. So far we had three rituals for the transition "boy to man" and one "girl to woman" and each was something very special and you could really feel, that the young people were changed afterwards. Especially the recognition of the adults was important, I think - and this also changed their behaviour. I also attended one ritual from women passing … | /r/MensRights | 21/03/13 10:10 AM |
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