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I don't use tinder but I use(d) ok cupid and hinge. More relationship trials from okc, kinda not much from hinge lots of no talkers and I think the 2 people I met off there were superficial hit it and quit it spinning plates fuck bois, but that was obvious from their looks and profiles and I just kinda wanted boy toys myself. Slightly annoying in their feigning how interested they are though off the bat. Like just cut the shit I do however, know someone who met someone and got married off tinder…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 11:22 PM
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I never understood women who have new men over their apartment right away, so dangerous for them to know where you live off the bat! If you want to hookup I think it's best to go to their place personally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:58 AM
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I watched a clip of that part and it's truly disturbing and scary I'm freaked and would be freaking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 08:15 PM
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I don't even answer the door during the day lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 07:34 AM
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Maybe if his selfies didn't look like a serial killer mugshot and his tone and words weren't full of resentment....not the plastic surgery bro lmao how are they seriously this obtuse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 06:55 PM
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I recently dated someone like this and it was pretty awful. I was fairly concerned or aware it was happening but somehow got roped into/manipulated out of it. He had, very strong EQ and could say/mimic the right things when I needed to keep me roped in..until things started slipping more and more and he did that less and less. It was pretty shit but I'm glad I kept true to my gut and kept confronting inconsistencies and issues until he didn't want to keep up the game any more and let me go. I do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:14 AM
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I tried dating a man who was allegedly 5 years post divorce after having cheated on his wife (while pregnant I think??? Based on timeline??) to end the marriage because he "wanted out", who was "coparenting" with the ex wife...which I found out meant living ~8 blocks away, not having a room for the kids at his apt, going over to their prior shared apartment together multiple times a week, and still having her feed him 🙃 who dangled a relationship/future carrot in front of me from date 1 (before …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 08:25 AM
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🥺🥺🥺 this is so good 💔 I recently had this happen to me in a really weird way and when I confronted something changed and if he wasn't that into me just say so, he always swooped in with all these promises and reassurances and excuses so I believed it but nothing changed But all of it was this. I felt a little overwhelmed in the beginning but ended up being roped in by the enthusiasm and yeah, the checking out and lack of the stuff in the genuine part was there which is what kept me calling thing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:11 AM
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This is so true!! Once men learn psychological abuse terms they weaponize that to make it seem like they're not doing exactly what they're doing: "I'm not trying to gaslight you but...." proceeds to gaslight you OR they use that terminology to flip the script and behave as if you're abusing THEM to shirk responsibility and not address your feelings when you're bringing up very valid and normal things to discuss. Also of the 3 men I dated who were in therapy, not a single one of them were improve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 11:46 PM
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Yeah this happened to me. For 6 years ex brainwashed me that he wanted to get married and have kids and tried to talk me into it when I was only 19..despite never moving out of his parents or gou g to college or doing anything independent or growing up at all.. At 23-24 or so I'm like ok let's move in or I'm getting roommates (male because there weren't any women in my circle who wanted to move out) he flipped so we lived together. And I always told him I'm not going to mother him the way his mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:12 PM
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Oh my gosh yep. I've been trying to do this the last year or so after a bad relationship and a series of dating guys who turned out to be hot fuck boys. The nerdy/lesser attractive guys don't appreciate you or treat you any better! They treat the same shitty way but with 10x more emotional manipulation becuase they've learned they need to manipulate to get the interest of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:06 PM
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I DO not get the appeal of these men..They're so gross. They look so unhealthy and from what I've garnered of their behavior it seems pretty toxic as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:14 AM
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A surprising amount of gay men love sexually assaulting women (grabbing tits, ass, objectifying their bodies, etc) and fucking their female friends, facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:21 PM
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Yeah same I'm okay with it now. I've always wanted to foster and adopt anyways. If I want one with my own genes I can just tell a hottie with good genes I'm on BC and never speak to them again lmao. Free ONS sperm donor anyone? Having been raised by a single mother high school drop out and turning out to be brilliant and getting multiple graduate degrees..being a single mom and doing it alone is not a fear for me. Never was. If my mom could raise a decent kid with all her problems..I absolutely …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:42 AM
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The problem with sex work is work is that it's not becuase you're not doing work, you're making access to your body the product. There is no labor, you're not working; YOU are a product, not a worker. And that's a problem becuase people aren't products.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:50 AM
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Omg SAME Punching them at recess, locking them in the coat/backpack closet when they harassed you at the closet crowd, shoving them into the water in a field trip when they're screeching for your attention, and telling them to shut up all day when they forced you next to them and kicking them under the desk when they were too loud USUALLY undid the mommy's helper bs. But that didn't stop the teachers from sitting me next to all the literally mentally retarded girls whose parents wouldn't accept …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:55 AM
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What?? It's the exact opposite lmao what an idiot who can't read or critically think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:32 AM
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Oh I made them use condoms. Once I was committed with my new bf and we were seeing each other for a few months I allow him not to. He seems non stressed about it and confidant of not having anything and that was correct as when I went for my check up after we were dating nothing new showed up. I suppose he will have to deal with that if we break up with future partners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:20 AM
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Yes..I used to always get worn down by scrotes not to wear condoms..now I have to get biopsies every 6 months after contracting HPV. It hasn't felt right "inside" since I got my first one done, and 2 of my aunts died from cervical cancer and my grandma got a full hysterectomy at 30 after getting HPV/abnormal pap. I'm 29 and no kids yet so I can't do that yet...I'm hoping it doesn't develop 😫 I regret ever letting myself be worn down by them. The grossest part ? Since I found out. Every guy I've …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 10:05 PM
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It's so evident And he looked so much like my ex too it was grossing me out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:19 AM
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This! I think it's societal *which includes porn, with a tinge of pedophilia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:57 PM
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Shes from the area I live..also home of the gilgo beach serial killer and someone who decapitated ladies and spread their body parts across the island. Also frequently women are attacked/raped/killed if running alone in parks. And this is suburbs ! Wealthy nice areas! Women really have to protect themselves. It's hard sometimes but worth it when we get someone who understands and doesn't push boundaries and is respectful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:34 AM
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What the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:59 PM
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Wow I never knew about this...disturbing. And men really wonder why I'm afraid to travel and haven't traveled much or left this country. That's a reporter with an entire crew..unknown women traveling alone are not safe either. Men really don't get what a privilege it is to literally exist or travel without that fear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 06:30 AM
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Gosh I couldn't agree more. Sex work IS NOT work, and I hate the stupid slogan about it. Just because some women feel that's all their worth doesn't mean it's legitimate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:42 PM
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But they're not actually getting a man, they're just getting used by them so it blows my mind they somehow think they have some upperhanded value?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:40 PM
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Ugh same ! All the HVM get married lol Hoping I can find one whose ready to settle down lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:15 AM
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That's what I thought too..its only been 5 years that's so bad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:30 PM
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I've had a guy use that as an excuse with me before. And someone I've been dating for a few months I thought was pretty great has been using the work thing a lot lately..starting to think it's a cover for dating other ladies or just he's not that interested anymore 🙄 ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:31 AM
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This is so weird especially if there's no kids ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:19 AM
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I learned this dating a guy who was Buddhist..I always liked a lot of Buddhist principles and believe them more than most religions, and it is sort of the way I naturally think and operate as well. I also had just started doing yoga..so I thought, great! A guy who meditates and stuff, this will be cool! Wrong. He used it as a way to completely separate and detach from his emotions and our relationship even more than he naturally did. It was terrible. He would do all these 10 hour meditations Sat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:31 AM
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Lol exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:23 AM
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This is what blows my mind about these men. Idc about sleeping on the first date because if they're the type of man to hold those double standards than tbh I don't want him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:28 PM
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Exactly. Like they are the same except for the added detriment of not being attractive and being gross and bitter..who wants that for the same old toxic masculinity treatment lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:02 PM
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It's amazing how a lot of these "nice guy nerds" are exactly the same misogynists, if not worse !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:54 AM
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I've said this type of then to men I have dated, they always get upset instead of explorwbwhy they're treating me like they don't want or like how I am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:46 PM
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Yall always talking about how great MGTOW is and how it's totally different than women hating stuff of incels/redpills and it's just focusing on the self! Clearly see THATS not the case 🤣 Anyways thought I'd debunk at least 1 thing but your heads are so far up your asses and delusional worldview you cant even comprehend basic things like toilet seats and pissing. Good luck with "going your own way" while obsessing over hating women. Really showing us how uh, actualized you are 🙄
/r/MGTOW26/01/19 07:12 AM
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It's not from splashing. It doesnt always go straight down right away? Sometimes some points towards the seat I guess. Also I dont know how but sometimes when on my period a little blood will end up under the seat. Again I have no idea how. Didnt realize until er moved in together. So pee on seat is a pretty shit litmus test for cheating.
/r/MGTOW26/01/19 05:02 AM
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??? It's tru tho. I never knew til my bf moved in and hed bitch to me about it. I never knew, I dont lift the seat lol
/r/MGTOW26/01/19 12:47 AM
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You do realize sometimes girl pee hits under the seat and we dont realize it since we never lift it, right?
/r/MGTOW25/01/19 07:13 AM
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