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I had no idea she was capable of that, she's always been so quiet. I am sure he will be fine, he's a high value man who has hopefully learned some things.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 10:55 PM
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Sometimes, when women vent and complain, men immediately leap to try and solve the problem. This is just how men are, and it's nothing inherently wrong. In 99% of situations, trying to find a plan of action is the right thing to do. However, sometimes your GF might just want to complain and let it all out. Listen to her problems and be there for her. Lots of good advice in this thread - I'm sure you two will be fine.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 08:40 PM
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I had this exact same issue. Friends that tear you down and make you feel awful for doing what makes you happy aren't friends. They don't like YOU, they like what you do for them. You did the right thing by cutting them off. You should try Meetup, they have some very nice women only book clubs and so on.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 08:29 PM
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I've been there, hun. We fall into habits with the people in their lives. Part of TRP is learning to axe people who don't bring value into your life. It doesn't matter what's in their pants or the jokes you shared years ago, it's what they do for you and whether they support what's important to you. Best of luck with your new guy :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 06:42 PM
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why do feminists keep arguing that we're all the same? We're NOT. Men are stronger! Let women be good at their strengths - it's like trying to rip a paintbrush out of an artist's hand and shove him onto the sports field.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/13 01:44 AM
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In terms of trying to be a better partner... My fiance and I have been together for over 7 years, and so I had fallen into some really selfish patterns. Doing stuff like asking him to grab me a drink instead of just doing it myself, getting sulky if he went out with his friends instead of hanging out with me, lots of little petty things that really added up. They were harmful because it was a clear pattern that I put myself as #1 and him as #2. I'm correcting those issues now and putting him fir…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/13 02:59 PM
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I love this.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/13 08:24 PM
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Follow up questions: Should I look for women as friends, or men? It seems like it's impossible to find early 20s women in Toronto who don't sleep around/go clubbing and drinking/want to settle down. If I have friends who do this stuff on their own, but I don't indulge in it myself, am I still opening myself up to a bad influence? Should I cut off communication with these women or give them closure and explain why we're done?
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/13 05:29 PM
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I need to stop being so generous with my time and attention, I think. Thanks for the advice.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/13 05:21 PM
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I told them they were being disrespectful once and they flipped out about how "disrespectful" is a rude word and they were just concerned, etc. However, the only solutions they have to offer is to go out clubbing and drinking, so I'm thinking these friendships are a dead end.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/13 05:21 PM
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You're right. I made these friends in university and am now working/getting married next year - they're going to grad school for liberal arts and sleeping around. I will need to find a way to make new friends with something going on in their life... will be lonely during the transition period but oh well.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/13 05:03 PM
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They are probably upset that you chose to be married & happy instead of miserable singles like them (or miserable marrieds). Happy people don't demand that other people live their lives a particular way; they are too busy living their happy lives. They are very, very single - they like to go out, get wasted at the club, go home with guys, then complain about how there's "no good men". Then they turn around and call my fiance ugly, insult how much he makes, and so on. I made friends with these pe…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/13 05:01 PM
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Good luck getting the red pill past the hyper hamster brigade :(
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/13 09:08 PM
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I'm sorry for your trouble, and I know you're strong enough to make it through this. Those women are acting out because they're childish, spoiled brats. You are better than them, despite any diagnosis you may have. Stay strong.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/13 09:04 PM
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I don't blame men for being trod down into the dirt by the feminist agenda. I do blame them when they hear the truth and they respond by insisting that its nice and warm in the mud and they'd rather be down there anyways. Good for you for giving him advice, you did the right thing. We need to let men be MEN again.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/13 09:02 PM
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Yes dear, go ahead and strongarm an unwilling man into giving you what YOU want (not what you need). Then you'll become an utter bridezilla when he can't pay for the table cloths you want at the ceremony. Give me a break.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/13 09:01 PM
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I love how our 'blue pill' critics cry about how red pill men are a bunch of virgins who will never be in a relationship, and then they point to red pill men talking about what they want in a partner/girlfriend/wife and cry 'misogynist!' It's almost as if there's no consistency to their beliefs, and no logic, just a bunch of feeeeelllings
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/13 08:59 PM
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I made a thread a while back because I was afraid of heading down this same road. Thank you for talking to us, this is an important first step. I think it's important first of all, that you look at what your end game is. Not the immediate future, but what do you see out of a relationship with this man? Do you find him attractive? Do you have sex with him because you're overcome with desire? Do you want to have him be the father to your children? Or are you desperately trying to push water out of…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/13 08:58 PM
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Women, don't take this as an excuse to lie down and eat bon bons all day in front of the TV! (Like you needed an excuse...) Not every woman can stay at home all day - financially, emotionally, mentally, etc. But remember that your career is always second to your husband, and its not a close second either.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 08:51 PM
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I have a male friend who was brutally abused by his wife, but surprise surprise no one thinks that's intriguing and exciting. It's really sad :(
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/13 04:06 PM
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Why is the public so fascinated with making every relationship the story of a cruel man and a terrorized woman? These relationships are so rare and horrific, but it's like pornography to your average woman nowadays. I feel like they should serve popcorn alongside articles like this nowadays.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/13 02:57 PM
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Because self-improvement is the most important thing a person can do, and the red pill is the foundation for being aware of the world and your own strengths/weaknesses in comparison
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/13 02:26 PM
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When a woman's only been with one partner and she wants to stay with that partner, then cheating is way less likely because either 1) it's a better experience and then she can't go back or 2) it's a worse experience and then she feels awful. The key is to make sure she wants to stay with you, and /r/theredpill should be able to help you with that :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/13 06:54 PM
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Yeah I find men prefer it if you give them a plan or a problem that can be solved instead of just being like "I had a bad day, it sucks!" and expecting them to understand what to do ASAP.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/13 03:11 PM
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Oh ok I see what you mean! I find that sometimes just leaving the offer open and then stepping away is a great steategy when he is being too aggressive after a bad day... I go "If you need to talk, I'm here" then I let him come to me when he's ready. I'm not sure how to get comfort from him after a problem though, but as soon as I figure that out I'll be sure to share :P
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/13 03:00 PM
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I think it's important to remember that things would be far worse if they were a 100% blue piller. For instance I'd rather have a man who can be angry and aggressive sometimes than someone who just sighs and is a defeated lump, or someone who is stoic and tries to help you solve your problems instead of shutting everything down to help you get through minor conflicts. Sometimes what we WANT from a man isn't the same as what we NEED. For instance I'm struggling with the fact that I WANT my fiance…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/13 02:49 PM
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Does your husband have a cellphone or tablet? I use an app in there to bring up reminders and scheduling. It might be easier for him to remember things if he puts them in when they come up and set alarms for it to go off, and that way he gets the reminder without you having to step in. Just a thought. And yeah, it's important for me to remember that one meal with onions is not the end of the world :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/13 03:37 PM
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Thank you, thank you, thank you for this advice! I really, really appreciate it. I think you hit on the main problem I have been having - I am acting like his mom or his boss instead of his wife, and then ignoring the small signs that he is seeing me in that way - like a work supervisor, not his lover. I will put this into action and I think these are all things that will make our relationship much stronger.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/13 05:30 PM
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I checked out /r/paleo and it seems to have a lot of really yummy, natural recipes, so that's great :D We cook a lot of pasta, a lot of carbs, so that's probably a big culprit as to why I've packed on excess weight. And yeah, I need to stop keeping a 'scorecard' in my head and just pick up the socks and go to the store when it needs to be done.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/13 02:28 PM
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You're right, I think I just build it up in my head and have unreasonable expectations as to what he wants. Thanks for your honesty.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/13 02:20 PM
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This is super helpful advice, thanks. I'm going to put your advice in motion soon because it seems like great baby steps.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/13 02:12 PM
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Thank you for giving me a chance :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/13 02:11 PM
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We have sex about twice a month as it is, while I know that he could go for it once every one/two days. I'm just so exhausted that I say 'no' and 'later'.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/13 02:08 PM
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Yeah, I really do need to lose the weight, no excuses. It will be harder for me than most women because I'm on medication and whatnot, but it's gotta be done. I probably do nag too much, it's the sort of thing where I get frustrated that he's not doing "his share" so I nag, then he shuts down in response. It's a vicious cycle. :( I never considered that he would take up the slack if I eased off on some things, thanks for the suggestion. Fantastic advice, thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/13 02:07 PM
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