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1

How would you say you behave towards women on a date? What is your personality like?
/r/seduction29/07/24 04:33 AM
3

Seduction skills? Dude just threw money around, and his passport. That's literally what a passport bro is and does.
/r/seduction27/07/24 05:38 PM
2

Which is pretty independent of seduction
/r/seduction27/06/24 01:57 PM
2

That's not what he's looking for i think.
/r/seduction26/06/24 03:23 AM
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Dinner dates are by definition at night, making sex afterwards somewhat more likely. Coffee dates are daytime, meaning it's highly unlikely to end in sex, unless you're extremely charming and engaging, which takes a ton of energy if it's not a natural part of your core personality. If you turn it into an all day thing and it ends at your place, you've just used up your entire day and a lot of energy in pursuit of sex. Some of us have other things that need doing with our limited free time.
/r/seduction26/06/24 03:21 AM
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To your edit: you are hitting on them. It's okay. That's what you need to convince yourself.
/r/seduction30/05/24 12:46 PM
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To your edit: you are hitting on them. It's okay. That's what you need to convince yourself.
/r/seduction30/05/24 12:45 PM
1

Yeah, but, unless I refuse to have a consistent and stable something with someone even as the vast majority of humanity in my age group does the same, and more importantly, those in my dating pool, I feel compelled to play the monogamy game if I want someone halfway attractive who hasn't borne another man's kids.
/r/seduction12/05/24 02:53 PM
3

that's called playing your game, because, as you said, it's funny
/r/seduction12/05/24 02:51 PM
3

Now you just sound sociopatic, I'll leave you to that.
/r/seduction12/05/24 02:28 PM
3

But you are diagnosing him with your opinions worded as judgmental statements.
/r/seduction12/05/24 02:25 PM
6

You are assuming and projecting a lot onto OP, with 0 cause for your assumptions.
/r/seduction12/05/24 01:01 PM
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He's probably meaning, once you have a ton of stuff going on and success to boot, getting women who have few or none of those things becomes quite easy, people seem to prefer to date up if they think they have a chance. But, and maybe this is truer for men, it's much harder to secure a partner who is physically attractive and has her own ducks in a row, is fun and charming and energetic, etc.
/r/seduction12/05/24 12:58 PM
4

I'm definitely not, I've racked up triple digits too. It's not that hard if you're energized to pursue, fun to talk to, and have enough ducks in a row to appear a functioning adult
/r/seduction12/05/24 12:55 PM
7

This cut deep, I'm very much as you described, lol, but then, that's probably where most of us wind up. But I'm older, and tired of fighting for more more more.
/r/seduction12/05/24 12:52 PM
13

Another fucking sex tourist. Japan is swimming with you guys already.
/r/seduction15/04/24 02:13 PM
1

Use tease after the establishment of romantic context?
/r/seduction09/04/24 04:51 PM
2

Okay, but negging is not flirting. Teasing is, lightly, unless you want to make someone feel like garbage.
/r/seduction09/04/24 04:47 PM
4

Then get off Reddit and focus on that
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:41 PM
6

You're on the wrong sub. But, let me say, chill out. Have fun. Invite her to the arcade, that sounds like fun. Expect nothing, but it's okay to want everything. Touch her, maybe give a kiss here and there, if she seems to be okay with it.
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:40 PM
3

What do you want to do? Let's start there
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:07 PM
6

Touch her and invite her home. If she says no, laugh it off, get a kiss if she's cool with it, and meet her again. It's not that complicated. Keep it simple. You can do player tricks to try to get her to put out, if that's all you want. But you can also be a decent guy and just be straightforward and fuck to your heart's content, since a lot of women these days are also willing to fuck like animals.
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:06 PM
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Why post this shit? Go work out instead.
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:27 PM
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again, you attack, and you sound angry. if you're not angry, your words are. maybe that's your performance of manhood, i don't know. if that's how you perform in real life, well, whatever, kudos, g'night.
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:04 PM
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Name checks out for sure. And closing with the obligatory IDGAF, which always means someone does, to the point that they have to remind themselves to perform angry indifference (if you're angry, it's certainly not indifference).
/r/seduction05/03/24 04:28 AM
2

Ah, memories
/r/seduction04/03/24 05:38 AM
2

If you're calling yourself a player, you're not a player.
/r/seduction01/03/24 03:38 AM
2

This only works if you appear special, i.e. desirable enough that they would question or be surprised that you would approach them.
/r/seduction01/03/24 03:38 AM
12

Fuck you, I don't care what you think. Seriously though, I don't know how one can balance performing a strong degree of confident narcissism like that while also wanting to make new friends. Maybe those are incompatible states of mind, and the arrogant assholes who polarize women are just comfortable with extremely shallow friendships centered purely on picking up women together.
/r/seduction01/03/24 03:33 AM
5

Yes, that's what you want now. But when you were younger, perhaps you fell for the asshole and let him have his way in ways that you now call uncrossable boundaries? That seems a common pattern, so those of us who were never assholes feel like we seriously missed out on having the time of our lives.
/r/seduction01/03/24 03:32 AM
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I jumped at the alpha/beta male/female thing originally bc it’s a stupid as fuck way to look at people you’re trying to either hookup with or eventually date. We're in agreement there :)
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:33 PM
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While I'm happy for you and your family (maybe not a good idea to post a picture of the whole family publicly like that, my two cents), I don't exactly think you're the kind of person the guys on this sub had in mind. Also, probably many guys here are older than 25 (the age you started dating him in seriousness) and trying to improve their dating game having no circle of female friends in the first place, and just the circumstances of their lives have little to no resemblance with yours. You als…
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:41 PM
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I didn't say otherwise. Just wondering how you treat him, and how he feels about the sexual imbalance, and also how he feels treated. He's not here to give his take though, and we don't know how he looks either, the gap may not be in our minds anywhere near what you consider it to be. In short, while your advice is to be authentic and patient and the hot girl might choose you, the picture you paint is probably nowhere near that simple, and perhaps your guy is compromising in many areas, or a tot…
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:10 PM
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Her willingness to compromise on or accept things that might inconvenience or displease her because they contribute to his happiness, in a reciprocal fashion. Or, perhaps the annoying convenience that she, because she might be hot, gets to live life entirely on her terms, little to no compromise ever needed.
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:24 AM
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But one wonders how equal the relationships are.
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:00 AM
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In other words, he was willing to do everything entirely on your terms, and didn't make you feel bad for that? You got to have your cake, and then with him, eat it too.
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:57 AM
4

Lol, no it's King of the Hill.
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:33 PM
3

I'd say most women know if the answer is no fairly early, otherwise most guys are in the maybe category.
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:56 PM
2

I'd say half the fun of dating, though, is meeting people unlike yourself and learning about their world.
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:52 PM
4

Nope. It's on the man to make the effort, make the move, build the chemistry, by and large. You can't win them all, but if you don't try to drive the interaction forward, it will almost never move forward.
/r/seduction16/05/22 05:10 AM
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You must be a virgin neckbeard.
/r/seduction16/05/22 03:21 AM
1

The bullshit here is that you seem to believe OP must imagine having sex with every female friend, which is just weird of you.
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:48 AM
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Whoa, sounds like you're projecting here
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:22 AM
2

I could have written this post. It's kind of a mystery to me too. Part of it may simply be they have more active social lives, and are not introverts?
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:27 PM
17

You should have just had a good cry 😗
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:33 PM
8

Lot of strawman posts on this sub aimed at fighting extremist positions no one holds, unless they win the generic lottery and delude themselves into thinking their success is due to their assholery.
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:12 AM
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I'm totally with you on this, and never bought into the idea of building mystery through unavailability or whatever, especially not early on. Problem is, when women are playing it this way and enjoy the chase, they may make it absolutely impossible to get an in-road with them, giving nothing back but actually being interested enough to let you keep chasing (they don't ghost you). They're almost always the hot ones in my life...
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:10 AM
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This is definitely the quickest way, just got to struggle till you succeed. Maybe OP should target women he's not as attracted to to rack up some early successes and build that confidence.
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:57 PM
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How old are you I wonder. This shit you describe and the unhappy mindset you have seem the kind of thing I'd expect from a 22 year old on coke. My success rate on converting dates to sex is near 100%, and almost always I can convert to FWBs if I want. I don't do this weird power shit, and I think the only women who will go with it get some kind of rush from being seriously objectified by the guy who plays it extreme like you do. That's non sustainable, and generally damages the woman emotionally…
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:48 PM
5

But it may have contributed to his willingness to settle on her.
/r/seduction07/05/22 10:42 PM
11

She's traveling two hours to meet him. OP really skimped on important details. Edit: though for all we know, the timing might just line up conveniently for her.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:37 PM
2

Ah, well, if she's coming to see you, then yeah, just have the date. She may just not want to emphasize the romantic aspect because she doesn't want to have it assumed you're getting sex. Just make it a good date, be normal.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:37 PM
18

Yeah, sounds like she's messing with you to me.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:36 PM
11

Share more of this background, it is essential context.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:21 PM
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I would just go, but don't put yourself in the position of supplicant seeking her approval. Just go for what you want.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:20 PM
1

Or, she doesn't know you. How quickly are you pushing for a date?
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:39 PM
6

If you walk away too soon, you haven't built the connection to lead her to come around. Spending thirty minutes making a connection with another human being ksn't some weak-assed move, lol.
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:38 PM
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The reason guys hang on is because she's the hot one. The ones who respond, make time, etc, aren't very attractive maybe
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:36 PM
1

Considering your citation is a Wikipedia article defining animal dominance hierarchy, nowhere saying this applies to human interactions, it's hilarious you think your belief that human, especially male, group interactions mirror those found among e.g. chimpanzees and birds is scientifically well-supported, but sure, I'll bite. First, let's try to sum up your position: human men, in actual human societies, are caught up within a system of competition and social dominance. Everywhere, across time …
/r/seduction06/05/22 02:47 AM
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It's thoroughly debunked pseudoscience. The alpha beta notion is purely an invention capturing a few truths, but mostly just aimed at the insecure. I have plenty of friends, actually, and am well regarded in my career and elsewhere. Good luck chasing social validation by envisioning human interaction as a game and purely a performance. Edit: let me give you a little test. Go ahead and tell your acquaintances (very much doubt they're true friends, who are there for you through thick and thin) tha…
/r/seduction05/05/22 04:58 PM
1

Uh huh. I don't need a gaggle of guys I believe to be inferior to me to both lead at work and in dating, or in my social life. And the minute any other guy tries to assert himself over me, it is immediately obvious to me this guy has self-esteem issues and isn't worth my time.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:31 PM
2

Not true. This is why many people do improv as a hobby
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:40 PM
1

it has nothing to do with whether you took a sip of her drink, and probably everything to do with how well you lead (why aren't you the knowledgeable one suggesting she sip your drink?)
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:40 PM
2

If you're the kind of asshole who thinks of friends as your gaggle of betas, holy shit, you will not have friends for very long, and anyone who thinks of human association in that way is delusional.
/r/seduction04/05/22 06:35 PM
1

In action, this just plays out as not being overly invested, having confidence, not being pushy. 1, it doesn't work to play it too cool when the women are playing the same game and have dozens of guys to choose from, 2, you don't need to frame this as adversarial, the action taken looks the same even if you regard her as a person having equal inherent value.
/r/seduction04/05/22 05:09 PM
1

What do you mean by the maybe?
/r/seduction04/05/22 04:51 PM
1

How to project that feeling, and when to actually set the date? You can't play maybe forever.
/r/seduction04/05/22 12:47 AM
2

Not at a bar a club, people get pressed into each other and just like looking around. In those venues, you just have to bite the bullet and talk.
/r/seduction04/05/22 12:43 AM
0

Well, I don't know, Occam's Razor man.
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:05 AM
1

Well, I read some of your self description in other comments, you sound pretty awesome and interesting. But, another question -- do you laugh? Have a sense of humor? Your communication in this post at least does read like someone very intense and on the spectrum, or who does indeed have ADD. So perhaps your intensity scares people away, and you have a "gives zero shits" attitude and don't extend the olive branch or make an effort to make the other party feel good in your interactions.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:53 AM
5

Agreed. There's probably a dead canary in that there gold mine, she's deliberately omitting something huge.
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:47 AM
1

Are you addicted to Adderall? Maybe you have mental health and substance use issues that scare men away?
/r/seduction23/04/22 04:46 AM
5

I'd say an important factor is context. He's at university, surrounded by horny young women, and if it's an "elite institution", the women tend to be very easy to "nice boys"--think Bandcamp or theater in high school movies, lol. I'm skeptical like others, but if he's partying it up a lot, and is decent or good looking, it's possible, but does seem pretty unlikely.
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:20 PM
-1

Well, and they're young, I missed the boat on these kinds of hijinx. Women in their 30s by and large are hostile to any suggestion of this kind of fun.
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:07 AM
3

What's the age group, and how to meet women like this? 😅
/r/seduction22/03/22 04:50 PM
1

Kimono. Nothing beats a garment that is elegant, colorful, traditional, form fit, and very easily removed.
/r/seduction18/03/22 03:09 AM
1

Enough to date it?
/r/seduction18/03/22 03:06 AM
1

I'm curious, what do you mean by "fuck boy" communication versus "formal"?
/r/seduction10/03/22 04:36 AM
1

If you have this sense of dread and aren't having fun with this process, it's not going to work. If you see yourself as an unwelcome creep, how can you ever make a girl comfortable and imply time with you will be fun? Maybe avoid daygame, but you're not drastically out of the age range for 20-23 year olds. Go to college bars and parties in the evening, but if you want to do day game, maybe a mall, a park, a museum, somewhere other than a place that makes you seem like a predator. Or, go to grad …
/r/seduction24/02/22 04:34 AM
1

Why are you creeping around college campuses as a non student? Go to a bar and chat someone up there.
/r/seduction24/02/22 04:24 AM
0

With you on this.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:57 PM
2

May be a function of where you live and your target dating pool. If you're in e.g. DC and aiming yourself at women at your education level, or only the most attractive women below your education level, then yeah, cards are stacked against you maybe. Go compete where you are more likely to be scarce?
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:31 PM
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Not true. Caveman days dating probably looked more like chimpanzee style social and sexual selection: male violence directed at other men and especially at women.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:26 PM
2

Definitely, but what I mean is the sexual desire wanes very quickly, could be they just don't do it enough for me in certain regards, like degree of interest and compatibility, but also just straight up the things I would never tell them which they can't change about themselves and shouldnt have to.
/r/seduction07/02/22 12:44 PM
4

If that's your perspective, women obviously lose with you.
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:17 AM
1

But what if you can't find anyone you have a strong initial attraction with, one that lasts longer than a few weeks while the sex is new?
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:15 AM
1

I like this idea in theory, but in practice, I find that a lot of high body count women are regretful and burned out, not happy, enthused, and glowing with lust and desire for you because they like fucking so much, lol. Many just want to lock a man down by their 30s and have kids, and they have lost interest in sexual exploration and adventure. This also tracks with age I think.
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:10 AM
1

You're at a pretty extreme end of the spectrum, with your lifestyle it sounds like this perspective you have is the only one that could feasibly work.
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:08 AM
3

That usually kills my interest in a heartbeat.
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:03 AM
19

Chicago should be high on that list.
/r/seduction12/01/22 10:41 AM
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Read his comments above. He admitted he uses player and pickup artist tactics, has a mysoginistic view of women, and is probably hot and cold enough that they catch feelings and feel like they need to conquer him to feel validated as women. That tactic works because he's in his 20s, maybe good looking and tries to look successful in career and such, and they're too stupid to see what he's doing to them. When women complain about emotionally unavailable men using them for sex, this is pretty much…
/r/seduction27/10/21 09:14 AM
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