conspicuoussgtsnuffy Archive

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1	The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth. Intimidated? No. More or less attractive? For me, less attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/25 09:59 PM
–	The patriarchy isn't real Patriarchy is a neutral word, unlike what many fake feminists would say. It existed, but has died a slow death. Back in the day, not many women in the trenches of WW1 or building the Empire State building or discovering antibiotics. Sure they had some achievements, but most knew their place, and it wasn’t shameful to stay home and raise a family. Then in the last century they finally got their equal rights and equal pay, and look where that’s lead us to today: logic replaced by emotions, masculi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/25 01:27 PM
1	Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You Think Good men need good women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 06:03 PM
7	The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries Grew up middle class during his time. I really didn’t think we had a race problem anymore. All of my friend groups during those years were mixed and never had any issues. Then came the riots and then the movement which told us all that race was more important than anything else…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 02:04 PM
-3	Late stage feminism leads to population collapse Unlikely and desire are two different things. Don’t strawman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 01:38 PM
-6	Late stage feminism leads to population collapse You are the one who posited a false dichotomy, not me. I personally think it’s great for women to have both. However with their prime birthing years being their 20’s, it’s a difficult situation that requires that dual priority. Do you really think the mass desire of women across all of human history would change over the last 10 years? The US is a developed country. Do you think the global desire of women to have children would be higher or lower than here??? Maybe you’re nitpicking because you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 01:37 PM
-2	Late stage feminism leads to population collapse Most women would rather have children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 01:17 PM
–	Is the fate of being settled for, unavoidable? You have a better chance in the next 5 years of being desired than you will for the rest of your life. Hit the gym and improve your social circles to improve your verbal game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 04:04 PM
0	The real wall is menopause The chance of me going out of my way to attract a female in their mid 30’s or older is rare at best, but I’m also tall, fit, handsome, and humble haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 12:30 PM
1	Redpill is very difficult for vast majority of women, it's heartless and cruel You can be red pilled and not be a hoe. This is a common misnomer by mainly weak dudes posing as strong (as a recovering weak man)	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/24 09:10 PM
1	Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himself They have to be attracted to the guy in the first place. After the honeymoon phase wears off, she still needs to find him attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 12:21 PM
3	Have tradcons taken over the redpill? The red pill is a tool that both players and serious men looking for a wife can use.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 07:14 PM
–	Blue pill: "We are equal", Red pill: "We are different", Purple pill: "We are different, but we have to treat each other equally at least some of the time" Yes they both use stats. The difference is that those men either use those statistics to their advantage OR they give up and complain that there’s no hope for them. Yes there are many embarrassing self-proclaimed RPers who are not actually RPers. However talking about SMV, frame, and red flags in women is just part of the stats.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/24 03:06 PM
–	Blue pill: "We are equal", Red pill: "We are different", Purple pill: "We are different, but we have to treat each other equally at least some of the time" If the claims aren’t backed by statistics, then they’re just anecdotes. RP does not involve emotions, it simply uses statistics. RP may claim negative things about feminism, but those are based on statistics. RPers work with those statistics to make better decisions (i.e. getting a prenup). Black pill on the other hand FEELS negatively about feminism, and has a nihilistic view. One person doesn’t speak for the whole movement, and you’ll hear many self-proclaimed RPers on the internet give opinio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/24 01:25 PM
2	Blue pill: "We are equal", Red pill: "We are different", Purple pill: "We are different, but we have to treat each other equally at least some of the time" You’re wrong about red pill. RP is based on statistics. Ergo a true RPer would never believe a generality about all members of a sex. They simply recognize that there are common behavioral attributes among many. To say “all” is disingenuous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/24 11:22 PM
2	"You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse." There's a reason the trad wife movement is making a comeback.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 10:09 PM
–	The more you meet women, the more you realize they're all the same He complains about a minority as if it’s the majority. I am so glad my world isn’t as small as yours is. The man’s lost in his own sauce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 12:54 PM
3	The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is… Aren’t players sluts though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 06:27 AM
1	What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them? It’s absolutely possible, just not for you it sounds like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 06:00 AM
1	Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)? If stranded on an island together, maybe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 12:32 PM
1	Has the pendulum swung to far? What happens when too many have a finger on the scale when determining self-worth?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 12:45 PM
–	There are no benefits to having kids as a women Have you ever considered ‘tough shit’?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 12:48 AM
6	"Hook-up culture is destroying society" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. I believe the logic goes something like this: The quality of a society is based on the general quality of its children. The quality of children is directly impacted by families that stay together. (Single-mother stats for children are pretty grim: chance of finishing high school, incarceration, etc) Women who have had more than a couple sexual partners tend to get divorced way more. Women are also responsible for a majority of divorces. Ergo much higher divorce rates indicate a society is trendi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/23 12:47 PM
1	Is it wrong to want a masculine woman ? Hey I’m all for masculine women, I just don’t find them sexy. Doesn’t mean I won’t cheer for them to bench more than me, I just don’t want to be in a relationship with one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/23 09:09 PM
1	Are many average guys really refusing to give chubbier women a chance? Both men and women in the US are overweight on average. Most people find them unattractive, even other overweight people. Women draw the short end of the stick on this one as men give more credence to women’s bodies than women do to men’s, but it doesn’t mean men are out of the water, it just means there are lots of hypocrites all around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/23 10:52 PM
3	Men can't cold approach, but they can't ask out their female friends either. What options are we left with? If you’re “confessing your feelings to a female” you’ve already lost. Have you heard of the word ‘suave’ before?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/23 01:10 AM
1	The best possible option for highly educated, high earning, healthy weight men in the west is to passport bro. Just because you can catch a bigger fish doesn’t mean your life will be better with that bigger fish. The catching is just the beginning lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/23 03:58 PM
2	what do men really think of female virgins? My fiancé is a virgin. It doesn’t matter to me except that I’m proud of her for her commitment to her own purity. Up to meeting her, I only cared that they have a low count. I learned the hard way about girls with high counts. (I also think there’s something to be said for guys with high counts also)	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/23 12:35 PM
2	If men are inherently driven by the obtainment of sex, and the lack there/in search of effects their thoughts, feelings and behaviors about themselves/towards others. Would it be better for society if men held less power and influence in society? Many of us also want to have families and become father figures, just with the right person, so there’s the cost/benefit analysis with having sex. It’s just that the cost of being a hoe for men is less than for women; but there’s still a cost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 11:03 PM
1	You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degree You misunderstand. I’m saying that if one person sees the other as inferior, this is narcissism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/23 10:18 PM
9	You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degree Big doubt. Within a pair of humans, one will always be submissive to the other to a degree. This is human nature. What the “non-submissive” person thinks of the submissive one is subjective to the individual. What you’re thinking of is a narcissist. This is understandable since narcissism is one of the main problems we have in western culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/23 12:28 PM
1	Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women? I mean, expensive and tasteless is pretty universal between the sexes. Especially when you include hobbies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 11:43 PM
2	American women have the worst reputation for relationships / marriage in the entire world. This is not (so much) the case for American men. Worst? Not sure you could really label a whole gender of a country as better or worse. Now having an inflated sense of self-worth, with high expectations and a general lower effort of femininity they “bring to the table” I can get behind. After traveling the world, that one is easy to see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/23 11:59 AM
5	If the redpill/manosphere is based on facing ugly truths head on, then why do so many men who belong to it cherry-pick data to suit their preferences, and ignore/downplay what they do not like? What do you mean “all the material that people work from”? There’s no official doctrine, the movement comes from The Matrix. Your experience with RPers is anecdotal. Read the wiki of this subreddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 10:06 PM
7	If the redpill/manosphere is based on facing ugly truths head on, then why do so many men who belong to it cherry-pick data to suit their preferences, and ignore/downplay what they do not like? RP is a tool. Tools can be used well/poorly, for good/bad. You aren’t going to hear much about the good on the internet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 09:49 PM
2	Do men like plus size women? There’s always someone willing to scrape the bottom of the barrel.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 03:38 PM
1	Men are more superficial about weight than women It’s almost as if sexual selection is more based on physical appearance for men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/23 10:38 AM
3	CMV: If makeup vanished overnight, the game would change drastically. Men who have been in the game for a bit can see through the makeup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/23 11:40 AM
1	I think the red pill is morally wrong in almost every aspect. Have you even seen the matrix? Where are you getting this scheming and tricking from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 01:42 PM
–	Why are men so obsessed with carrying on their bloodline? How disconnected are you? Everyone subconsciously thinks it, rarely do people overtly think it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/05/23 11:55 PM
1	What is red pill, actually? Your point has no effect on the question I posed. The concept of blue pill/red pill comes from the movie. It matters not whether it’s fictional or not lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 11:22 PM
3	What is red pill, actually? Have you even seen The Matrix?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 07:57 PM
–	Any men or women felt initial revulsion or was appalled at RP that later accepted and was glad to know? TRP is simply a tool to give perspective, and like all tools it can be used for good or bad. Some use the red pill to avoid falling into a toxic relationship or making a generally bad decision, and on the other side some use it to belittle the opposite sex or prop themselves up higher than they actually are. IMO broadening your perspective and learning new info is always a helpful thing. However good people will remain good and assholes are gonna remain assholes, whether they take RP into into a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/23 06:14 PM
2	Men, how long is waiting for sex too long? An objective approach might be something to the effect of: depends on the consequences. It’s always worth it to make good decisions!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/23 02:09 PM
11	CMV: It is sad that it has become so normalized to not settle down until you're 30+ Honestly, half of the “cool” parents from my teenage years turned out to be losers as I grew up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/23 02:03 PM
1	CMV: TRP romanticizes men and demonizes women Hasn’t anyone on here seen the Matrix? It’s simply a different way to say “woke”. Obviously opposite perspectives, but based on facts and statistics instead of emotions. What TRP actually is and what some people use it for (obviously those who don’t like TRP only hear about the worst cases of people abusing the perspective) are two different things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/23 06:38 PM
1	Men who advocate for trad relationships, what do you expect your relationship to look like in the future? Not divorced with kids who grew up getting enough attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/23 01:14 PM
1	Why not look for a woman with a career? Do you know how to not present false dichotomies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 08:50 PM
4	Why not look for a woman with a career? When I was younger, I wanted my future wife to have a career. Now that I’m older I see that life is much simpler not having to compete between careers when making big life decisions. That and I want my spouse home to raise the kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/23 06:45 PM
0	Female mating strategies prevent them from giving men genuine answers This false. There’s this magical world in which both sides win, but the amount of commitment involved is too much for many these days.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/23 01:56 PM
0	Why do RP guys try to shame women for desiring top 20% men? You are describing black pilled. RP is about using facts and statistics to your own advantage, not about expressing negativity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 04:06 PM
3	Why do RP guys try to shame women for desiring top 20% men? Adding emotion makes it no longer RP. RP is about using the facts to your advantage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/22 02:29 PM
7	What's the male equivalent of a promiscuous woman? Charlie Sheen	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/22 10:48 PM
1	What percentage of people within your dating age range do you find attractive enough to sleep with? What percentage do you find attractive enough to have a relationship with? (33M) >6’ decent job, and some would say handsome. After living in Europe for a few years, my numbers have dropped significantly for American women. Just before dating my current SO, I’d say 40% are physically attractive and 5-10% have attractive personalities. The lack of both men and women taking care of themselves is so bad stateside, and there are high levels of narcissism. American women overrate their SMV significantly. Most men and women need to get off social media, hit the gym, and go o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 12:01 PM
3	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse You may not identify as red pill, but your post is a red pill post (using data to show information that is outside of the mainstream narrative).	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 11:25 AM
1	What do men think of the Pink pill? Pretty sure that red pill has nothing to do with emotions or hate. That sounds like black pill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 01:43 AM