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| 3 | Live together before marriage? No thanks!But, you also see the forever girlfriend problem. There's two simple things you can do to avoid being a forever girlfriend: 1) Make it 100% crystal clear that moving in is a test run for marriage, and that you expect things to progress to engagement/marriage within a specific period (before the lease runs out). If they don't progress on the timeline you both agreed on, you're not renewing the lease even if the relationship is otherwise good. At a minimum you're moving out again; very likely you'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Let's share the best and worst gifts we have ever received from a man. What discerns a LVM/NVM from a HVM in terms of gift giving?Best gifts: I have a lot of anxiety around surprises/the unknown, so for my birthday one year he gave me a ‘choose your own adventure’ letter where I got to pick one book from a list of three, one dinner date from a list of three, and one activity date (like going out dancing or picnicking or something) from a list of three. And all of his options in each list were things that I was really excited about, things he knew I liked or that we had talked about. He also likes to buy me quasi-spontaneou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Do complacent men ever change?Even in lockdown he can plan an actual date. The internet is full of articles about how to do a socially distanced outdoors date or a special date night in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 04:25 PM |
| 6 | If he wants you, you will know.At least for us, both of us are pretty freaked out at the idea of one of us getting sick and the other one not being able to visit them in hospital or make medical decisions on their behalf. So we are gonna get a courthouse marriage as soon as we can and do the big reception later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 03:06 PM |
| 26 | Look out for what he says about your spendingIt's more HV to get you the one you're totally in love with, instead of override your tastes to comfort his ego/insecurity/whatever. Maybe he can take the few hundred left over and get you a pair of matching earrings or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 03:24 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)No worries! I grew up in a very non-religious family and my introduction to the type of very religious Jews who would actually follow these laws has only been in the last few years. (FH and I are still learning in order to figure out how observant we want to be in our future lives; there's a ton of benefits but it's also a LOT of work and tends to isolate you somewhat from the rest of society.) The couples I've met take the man's responsibilities towards the woman very seriously. Where there are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 06:35 PM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I'm reading up on halacha (Jewish law) in preparation for my upcoming wedding, and I thought the folks here would appreciate the following halachic requirements: Financial Responsibility of Husband The husband, not the wife, has the responsibility of financially supporting the family. This is the halacha and NOT an opinion! That the husband must support his family is explicitly stated in every ketuba. First Week of Marriage: Making the Bride Happy The groom is commanded to make his bride happy f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 05:05 PM |
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