contemplatiive Archive

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1	I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna work that is a tool, or excerises, to stop being SO afraid. The fear never goes away completely, but it does help you to learn to operate under it	/r/seduction	17/07/24 10:00 PM
1	Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as well Don't start having a scarcity mindset, the real problem is that not enough males will get their butt kicked in time for them to become better, bettering society, families, the economy and our species as a whole. Put some thought into it, unattractive people and weak men (simps, betas) ruin democracy, culture and society. We all benefit from better men. Better as in, what's under their control.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 12:17 AM
3	How do you deal with being a morning person and having dates in the evening 6 pm is often a bit too early for a lot of girls for dates What type of girl you been dating? I just assert control of the frame by saying I need to be done by whatever hour. I don't come across any problem other than girls don't wanting to leave or making time by coming up with some bs funny silly joke (I won't leave until I get another kiss, You didn't give me X, We haven't done Y) But that is because I choose the girls that really like me. Everything is easier when she really likes you.	/r/seduction	19/06/24 12:10 AM
2	Do you have to physically escalate on the first date? I live in Mexico so I am very safety oriented whenever I go out, I completely avoid everything that has to do with alcohol/night life because things can go south easily... So I personally don't go to bars and I see them as just marginaly better than coffee shops at night, plus coffee shops are cheaper, no drunks and ready for you to set the tone for the date. In my city started popping out these coffee shops with dim lights, small tables and outdoor spaces as if they were just formalities or pla…	/r/seduction	15/06/24 02:44 AM
3	Do you have to physically escalate on the first date? Nooo not a bar, I had a coffee shop in my mind. I've never gone to those places but I've had massive success in places like starbucks and movie theatres. Btw if you're attractive enough she won't mind looking like a slut over you	/r/seduction	15/06/24 02:08 AM
1	Do you have to physically escalate on the first date? At any given moment if shes enjoying the date, smiling, filling gaps in the conversation.Try scaling and starting contact by holding one hand of hers by a little bit, see how long you can hold her, if she responds positively then try pulling on her waist to get her closer etc. If the attraction is there you can do it at any moment	/r/seduction	15/06/24 01:42 AM
4	Do you have to physically escalate on the first date? Read her broski. Reach for her hand, if shes cool you go for the kiss... You need to leaen how to read	/r/seduction	14/06/24 10:01 PM
6	[FR] She won me back but felt " raped " I don't totally understand why you are going overboard with the reassurance; that is clearly not going to work. You could tell her once that she is the one you want, and that you both found a boundary that will be respected for the well-being of both. That is as close as I would get to a 'sorry' if I were in your situation.	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/06/24 10:48 PM
33	What advice, quote, lesson or move made you level up the most in life/game? The most powerful of them all. No. Being rejected put me on the path of perpetual self improvement. My first rejection was in 2018. I started hitting the gym consistently. I will be forever grateful to her. Every rejection is like an attempt to pass your card at a store. Declined, you need more funds. Work on your appearance, charisma, messaging, game in general, because you're not enough. Which also means that you could be more than you are right now. And then, if you're still interested, come …	/r/seduction	08/06/24 11:45 PM
2	Why learning Spanish will improve your game and open you up to more possibilities. If anybody has doubts while learning spanish or needs info about redpill dynamics/the current state of Mexican women hmu, Mexican born and raised living in the border	/r/TheRedPill	12/05/24 10:12 PM
9	This shit is so addictive Or choosint the wrong one, not being able to read red flags, most men of my family, so much suffering stemming from it...	/r/seduction	24/10/23 05:33 PM
4	Dicking Down The Disciples Of The AntiChrist I can also confirm this. Everywhete internet reaches exists the possibility of a young girl obsessing over attention. They might not be completely totalled like one in a first world country psyoped by HBO and Netflix but it doesn't get considerably better by any stretch of the imagination	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/22 08:26 PM