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Hell yeah, I remember when my short, fat, balding co worker said he wasn’t interested in this chubby black girl cause he doesn’t date black girls, but this man would always complaint about not getting dates. It was crazy man . Funny guy, but definitely not attractive enough to be demanding what he was demanding
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:26 AM
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I met my current gf by asking her out in public. She was giving me “eyes”, so I went to talk to her and it worked. Every other gf I met in the past was accidentally through friends and co workers .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 04:53 PM
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I think people on the internet over exaggerate . No one is looking at a guy who dates a single mom and thinking that. Maybe if it was something ridiculous like a woman with four kids or something, and a man with no kids, but typically no one is thinking that a step dad is a “cuck”….at most they think, “couldn’t be me”, but if I got my gf pregnant and died, I would want another man to be there for her and my kid, so this rhetoric that step dads are less needs to stop because it’s not helping soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:49 AM
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Only someone who can’t hook up with people would post something like this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:05 AM
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The onus is on men because it has to be due to biology. Men want sex with women, we have competed for access to women for thousands, possibly millions to years. So we have to adjust, the only other option is to force women , and is that the world we want? Cause I don’t. We come on here and throw stats around about women, but what about men.? Most men are fat, play video games all day , and sit on the internet, not exactly helping their chances. Women will never say, “you know what, all these men…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 10:50 PM
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So what are we supposed to about this? We can’t force women to change , so what else can we do? Men have to adjust and become better, no amount of complaining is going to change the world. Women have money, they’re more educated than men on average, and in todays society, they have many more options. I had a girl a few years ago who I was really into leave me out of the blue after about three months of seeing each other. I’ve had women ghost me , etc. all you can do as a man is better yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:16 PM
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Where did he say anything about “unrestricted freedom”, just simple freedom as free as men are. That’s not “restricted”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 01:00 AM
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This is a good post. As a man, I agree , honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:20 AM
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Nah I’m college educated and a lot of educated people are dumb as fck, and I have a bachelors and associates degree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:13 AM
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She’s a good woman, loyal and loves me very much. Makes me breakfast, stands in my corner, my best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:01 PM
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Nah, I’ve met some friendly hoes. I think the women who hate men , a lot of the time, genuinely have had a terrible experiences with men. Men making them uncomfortable, men sexually assaulting them, etc. I hate being attacked too because as a man, I don’t harm women, but unfortunately there are some who do. My gf is like this, she swears she dislikes men, even though she dates one,but she has been through a lot .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:25 PM
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Im black and I have never felt like it was that big of a dating obstacle
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:46 AM
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I have a gf, but I still watch porn and honestly, I prefer to look at porn with women who look like normal women rather than women who look like perfect 10/10 , skinny blonde with big tits and six pack abs, shaved vagina…not my thing , and it’s not even realistic for me cause I have never been with a woman who fit those descriptions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:38 PM
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Women don’t have to work out as much because , A, their body type is meant to hold a bit of fat for child birth , and B, that’s not their role in nature…As men, our role is to compete for women and that means being fit. Women’s role is to choose which men they want to procreate it with. Want someone to blame? Blame Mother Nature. I tell all guys to exercise and work out , different expectations for women so we need to stop comparing ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:05 PM
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I mean, I get what you mean, but to say more than men is a stretch, that’s definitely not true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:06 PM
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As a man who is 6 foot 1 barefoot, I can’t relate, but I feel for my short bros. If it makes you feel any better, I genuinely do see short men with hot women from time to time. I work at a resort and see couples all the time, and I do see it. I do think women prefer height, but it’s not the end all be all. It’s just an obstacle . I’m black, and it can make dating harder for sure, but it’s just an obstacle that you have to try to find a way to maneuver around . Also, I’ve known some short dudes w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:29 PM
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In my opinion, it’s a man who is in good physical shape, with a good income and his own things like his own home , car, etc. a high value man also has good morals and doesn’t do shitty things like scam people or attack women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:34 AM
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depends on the man. But I know that sex for women is so easy to get, a lot of men will really fuck anything. Sex for a man is much, much more difficult to obtain because women aren’t just sleeping with any dude. Women have to worry about a lot more and are a lot more selective with who they have sex with. So a man who is regular who is getting pussy left and right from attractive women signals that he has positive traits that many women want. A woman doing that just signals that she is easy to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:26 PM
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The real answer is simple , it’s because sex for women is extremely easy to get, and a lot of men are willing to have sex with just about any woman. It’s genuinely impressive (still gross) but impressive if a man who is not famous or rich could actually sleep with a bunch of attractive women, it even impresses other women because if that man can get that many women, there must be something about him . Men and women aren’t equal in this regard. It would be like if a man did ten pull-ups , no one …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:21 PM
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My gf told me that she hated men the other day , and that she loved me because I’m different. To answer your question though I don’t think the misandry we always hear is on the same level as racism because they are totally different dynamics. Men have always treated women as second class, and women’s can be seen as “retaliating” defensively against the “patriarchy “ , so it’s not the same as white peoples hating the fuck out of black people for simply existing, they’re totally different and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:11 PM
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I’m not in a manosphere or anything but a lot of celebrities are average, they have money and fame , which makes them seem more attractive than they are though , men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:57 AM
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It’s more of a red flag for a woman to date a significantly younger man than it is for a man to date a significantly younger woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:38 PM
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She isn’t mid by any means but she has a lot of biased for being a white , blonde woman. I see white chicks as attractive as her or more every day at my university.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:18 PM
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You basically described me and my gf except for the stupid ass broccoli haircut . I will say this though, I work at a resort as well and I see diverse ranges of couples tbh. Often times I see a man who is average looking and he has a good looking girlfriend. My job actually reminds me that this sub is wrong on a lot of things
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:49 PM
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Yeah I get boosted ego when I read the comments, and realize that I don’t have these issues with women like everyone else. And I’m not a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:09 PM
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Of course it’s non sense, but the people saying that type of stuff are typically on the internet much more than they are outside
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:35 PM
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Chads don’t get as much attention as women either. Your average woman gets way more sexual attention than chad unless chad is also a movie star or something
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:21 AM
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Well, we never know, but based off the circumstantial I believe that we would.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:13 AM
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If us men had the options as women we would be very choosy too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:55 PM
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That last sentence is so true , all in their own matrix
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:20 PM
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Well I already got my woman, so I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:15 PM
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Because younger women are usually less mature than older ones
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:17 AM
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This cool with me as I never wanted kids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:59 PM
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It’s low iq rhetoric that’s why. I mean, I get what they mean , there are some creepy men out here, but I’ve been told to smile more by women, I’ve been mansplained by women, etc. it’s just dumb rhetoric. I’m black and it’s kinda the same thing between white people and black people, or gay people and straight people. The oppressed group can talk more trash without criticism, that’s the rule us as a society have subconsciously created
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:38 PM
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Toxic masculinity dudes get the most pussy if we being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:42 PM
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First off middle eastern women are considered Caucasian, second, in my opinion, on average middle eastern women do look better than Nordic white woman, but that’s just my specific preference. A lot of white women are attractive but overrated in my opinion , due to how much they are represented since we live in a very Eurocentric society. Also, having color is nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:47 PM
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Went to the nude beach with my gf and Saw this short guy at the nude beach with a gf who was slim with some big ole tiddies , another example as to why a lot of this sub is bs. This dude had to be like 5 foot 6 and the woman was taller than him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:02 AM
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As a man , I think a lot of men who aren’t successful lack motivation and drive to better themselves. A lot of men are out of shape and uneducated , anti social with no hobbies besides gaming . I game sometimes myself, but through fitness and getting back in school, I became a better person. Also, stop comparing yourselves to women, there isn’t as much pressure on them to better themselves so that they can mate, and guess what? There never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:24 PM
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Honestly, I get how this reads foolishly, but I completely agree with this post and I have seen this in my own life in countless examples. Men have testosterone flowing through us, we want to fuck women , men do the craziest things for pussy. Women don’t act this way , there are obvious differences even though people act like there isn’t, they know better. When a woman cheats, its usually not because she just wanted to fuck. Women are a lot more emotionally intelligent than men, and it takes mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:30 AM
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This is just a foolish take. It’s not like humans are all a collective group with shared interest and goals in mind. Men are protectors because they protect women from evil, violent and terrible men, and in the past animals too. Idk why so many women act foolish like this and act like all men can be good natured individuals. As you grow into adulthood , you learn that bad people and evil exist in this world, and in both sexes. It’s a naive take to think that all men will be good people, or there…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:09 AM
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Look, I was kind of being silly with my original comment, there are some techniques that can be used from tae kwon do, but it’s not a high tier martial art style. The lack of actual punches to the head really hurt it, it’s just not realistic, but whatever. Muy Thai is a much superior style if you want something that uses kicks and that actually is going to work the majority of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:01 PM
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That doesn’t count, that weak ass martial art. Boxing has definitely given me heaps of confidence, especially now that I’ve had a few amateur fights with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:55 AM
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Nah I don’t think it’s offensive, and in fact, on crowded buses and trains it protects both sexes. It protects women from creepy , predatory men and it protects men from false accusations , so win win for both honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:52 PM
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I agree that it’s cope for men who don’t get laid too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:54 PM
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Dude, there’s this hot chick who works at a grocery store in town and has a co worker who looks like Chester cheetah, and this man is dating her. So idk man, if purple pull debaters spent less time on reddit and more time out in the field, you would have success with women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:48 PM
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I get what you mean, but you can fake it until you make it. Be confident through hobbies, skills and progress and women will see your confidence as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:59 AM
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Nah, I’m a guy and honestly I don’t give af about getting compliments and attention from strangers. I would suggest you find something that makes you happy and realize you don’t need validation from random people like a beautiful woman to have value. You’re a man , not a woman, so i would suggest you not compare yourself to women, and work on making yourself more valuable as a man, which is something men have always had to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:49 PM
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A lot of those features you named are genetic and have nothing to do with a persons age. You said in your first response , “I realize men in their mid twenties are usually more objectively attractive”, and then you gave traits such as height and muscularity as example of objective attractiveness. So men in their mid twenties are typically taller, and more muscular with broader shoulders than men in their mid thirties or early forties? Honestly, I don’t think objectively attractive is a real thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:01 PM
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Serious question. What is “objectively attractive” ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:43 PM
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Hard disagree, idk why people on here think that everyone finds adolescents attractive. I don’t see women younger than 25 as someone I want to fuck. I truly and honestly don’t, they look too young. Personally, I think people are most attractive mid 20s to mid 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:16 PM
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You lost all credibility
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:57 PM
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Older women don’t like it , obviously. To be honest though as I age, Ive lost attraction to younger women . Like I can recognize that a 21 year old is attractive, but they look too young to want sexually, typically
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:28 AM
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Women are a scarce resource for the average man according to this sub and women are also an unlockable achievement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:49 AM
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This is common sense though . Men need to compete for access to women , which means we will be hornier. I feel like only in recent years, has this stopped being common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:02 PM
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As a man , I think it’s fair because this is the dynamic that has always existed in our human history. We aren’t women, so comparing us to them is pointless. Men have always had to work for value while women didn’t have to as much. This is because as men our testosterone makes us want to complete for women, so that gives them value. Maybe it’s not fair, but it’s the trade off to be a physically strong male.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 01:34 AM
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I agree. If a man was to talk about how many women he banged, most women would obviously think he is gross. I’ve never met a woman who thought it was attractive for a man to be a slut. Women are attracted to men who are wanted by other women, but not to men who sleep with lots of women. Most women who aren’t promiscuous think promiscuity is gross as well. I think we just hear it about women more because they have easier time accessing sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:01 AM
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Eww, speak for yourself, as a man in his early 30s, I definitely am not . Even women in their early 20s look too young and I have no problems getting attention from some of them sometime. I work in a very popular place where people bring dates and I interact with women of all ages all day, and although I can recognize a young woman as attractive, I am definitely not thinking about fucking them. Personally, I prefer women 24 -40
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:17 PM
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Yeah if you aren’t handsome and or fit , you better at least have swag
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:27 PM
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guys in those areas have cultural advantages and understand things and cues that you won’t , good luck doing that lol. How about just improve yourself and do better with women here, and before you say you can’t, I’ve seen plenty of subpar average ass dudes with good looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:21 AM
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A woman who expects you to pay for everything will have other expectations of men too, and I bet you she will follow non of the expectations for women . Don’t date women who think that you are their bank account and you won’t have this issue. Personally, I’ve never been with a woman who is like this and don’t ever plan on it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:36 PM
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That woman, even with her kids, would be a better partner than, a childless, “all men are trash” type of woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:37 AM
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Nah if she is sucking his dick, cleaning up and making him food, then I think it’s a fair trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:36 AM
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Why you asking him his height anyway? Did he just go, “hey, by the way I’m 5 foot 10”, unprompted?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:50 AM
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I just buzz my head with no gaurd , and sometimes women do tease me for not having hair. I don’t think men need to be aggressive if they’re bald to attract women, but it doesn’t hurt to have a toned, nice body. Also, I’m 6 foot 1 and black, so there’s that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:16 AM
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Losing hair isn’t that big of a deal dude it really really isn’t. I lost my hair, I have a gf and still get lots of female attention and so do many, many other men with no hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:25 PM
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I love my gf so this is definitely wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:47 PM
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In my opinion and from experience, “boring” usually means lack of taking risk, no hobbies, submissive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:33 AM
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They just won’t act that way when the man they want approaches them in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:52 PM
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If someone tells me that they’re redpilled, I would think they spent too much time on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:08 AM
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Damn we got some playas in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:32 PM
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Nah I agree, as a man with a six pack and who goes to a spa frequently and sees lots of bodies. Although, I would argue that women also don’t have to work out and look physically strong. Most guys I don’t believe want that in a woman, personally I prefer women soft and squish
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:09 PM
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It’s much easier for a woman to be attractive, just be fit. Most women in my opinion can be attractive unless they just look unfortunate. For men, we have to have a lot more qualities usually .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:34 PM
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Yeah of course, that’s why my advice is to always get off these apps
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:07 PM
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Nice humble brag post. I agree though, men on here do need to understand women better, but it goes the other way too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:28 AM
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Well why do women typically go after men who get lots of attention from other women then? It’s cause they know women want him, which increases his “value” , its impressive cause it’s not hard for women to obtain sex, and it’s difficult for most men on looks alone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:22 PM
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Women know this, that it is difficult for a man to obtain sex , so it’s impressive when a man can obtain sex from attractive women. They just like to act dumb about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:13 PM
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This is true as well , good point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:06 PM
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Bro, idc how much money they paid, ain’t no way I’m getting in camera and speeding my ass cheeks apart for the internet to see
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:30 PM
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It’s not just they’re single so they’re depressed, that’s not the point I’m trying to make. I think it’s just all of it, the lack of opportunities, the lack of relationships, the anti depressant meds, social media, other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:58 PM
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Honestly, as someone who is always around women . I don’t think this is really true. I do believe that women have always had these standards and now could exercise them because they have more rights, but I don’t think that women today feel more at peace by being alone , if that were the case , there wouldn’t be so many depressed, social media addicted women around complaining about how they can’t find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:48 PM
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Aren’t white women and women in general more depressed now than ever before? I’ve read women are less happy now than they were in the past and that’s why their use of anti depressants is so much higher https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db377.htm#:~:text=Among%20women%2C%20use%20rose%20from,among%20women%20compared%20with%20men.&text=Significant%20increasing%20trend%20by%20age.&text=Significantly%20lower%20than%20women%20in%20the%20same%20age%20group.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:42 PM
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Just delete the app, go outside and join a fitness club or marital art club, yoga, etc. meet women there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:08 AM
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Anecdotally, I do much better with women in person than on tinder. I’ve gotten matches, but it’s much better for me in person. Even my long term girlfriend swiped left on me when she saw me on tinder long before we met in person randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:32 PM
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My gf of 3 years told me that she swiped left on me when she saw me on tinder. We met in person randomly, and later she told me she had actually swiped left on me a while before we met, but was into me instantly in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:30 PM
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Damn 140 k a year? I’m jelly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:16 AM
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Yeah dude of course, just stop caring. I did, I say all kinds of wild shit calling out gender hypocrisy. My girlfriend , my sisters , my mom and my coworkers are all people i love dearly , but all say hypocritical bs like this. It’s just me fighting this bs, my gf stays mad at me, but in her heart, I know she respect what I have to say and when I call stuff out, even if she gets mad temporarily
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:32 PM
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Many women are attracted to status and income; they cannot help it. Even my sister is like this. Biology and society wires them that way. Honestly though, this is anecdotal, but relationships based on that don’t seem as strong as if a woman was simply with a man for his natural qualities. A lot of those guys (not all) are with those women because they have money and status, lose any of that and they lose the woman. Where as a handsome, broke dude don’t have to do all that to keep a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:48 PM
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As a man, I completely agree with this. Personally, I have had to learn these things, and it’s worked out well for me, but a lot of young men are how you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:16 PM
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As a poor , attractive man I like this comment section
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:12 PM
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Not my gf, she basically wake me up at six in the morning and will have sex with me when I’m half asleep (even though I do consent)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:15 PM
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Honestly, there may be some truth to it but there are many , many women who come from two parent households too who aren’t good partners for a variety of reasons. Depends on the person. My girlfriend has a damaged relationship with her father but she is a good partner, emotionally supportive and wouldn’t cheat, very trustworthy woman, so I think like anything, it depends
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:12 PM
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