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1	A friendly reminder for all men that the nerdy weird chick you think you have a chance with There's a theory that its female autism. A hyper female brain. Like autism is a hyper male brain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/19 02:44 PM
1	To the feminist, leftist and BP women (and men) here Europe is much more racist than America. So racist its very difficult for immigrants to assimilate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/19 11:27 PM
1	A4men who hate traditional gender roles and feel like the male gender role is oppressive: would you LTR/ marry a very masculine woman? Masculine appearance is not masculine personality. Attractive women (ie not what you described physically) that have masculine personalities are in huge demand. The hot, or even average looking, tomboy has an army of men chasing her. So guys don't want masculine looking women. But men clearly want women with masculine personalities. But women like that are rarely interested in feminine guys. In fact their preference is usually for extra masculine guys. Or at least very attractive ones since wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/19 01:57 AM
1	What’s a guy to do in the modern dating era? Make your life about something other than women. You were never meant to be a lifelong monogamous husband to a women that you loved forever. That is an invention civilsation came up with to make it possible for civilisation to function. The drone worker husband is one of the fundamental building block of civilisaiton but its not natural. Its not in your genes. You're meant to be in medium term relationships of 4-7 years that eventually peter out while always being on the look out for anything on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/19 11:14 PM
1	What's the evolutionary reason men care about facial beauty? blonde hair and blue eyes Vitamin D production in low sunlight environments. Fair skin (to enablemvitamin D production) evolved multiple times independently in different high lattitude populations. There is extremely strong pressure for fair skin selection. Blue eyes and blond hair are proxy markers for fair skin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/19 01:57 PM
1	Study: Women's sexual attraction towards men is less affected on the men's personal traits, men's sexual attraction towards women is more affected by women's personal traits Speed dating draws a particular crowd for men. It might be self selecting men with those particular traits while the women are drawn from a more diverse set of personalities. The men might be selecting for similar personalities to themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/19 12:47 AM
1	What is your idea of a good man (question for men and women)? What iz goody two shoes about not cheating, being hard working and trustworthy and whatever else has come up in this thread? Perhaps cyncism has rendered the word meaningless to you so you ascribe other motivations to good behaviour? Generally the phrase "goody two shoes" implies following the rules and sucking up to authority for bad reasons. I think I begin to see where your hostility to a universal standard for good is coming from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 11:40 PM
1	IME, men are more likely to stick with women who are down on their luck than vice versa. Why is that? There isn't anything in the article saying its a result of decisions rather than circumstances ie, men being more likely to have kidney disease, wives generally being younger and men more likely to be bread winners that can't take time off for recovery. It would be interesting to adjust for these factors and see how it shakes out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 11:22 PM
1	What is your idea of a good man (question for men and women)? Its not rocket science that finding a man who will be good to you involves finding a man that is just a good man in general. You'd have to be noticably more solpisistic than the average woman to for it to not even occur to you that they could be the same thing. I donft know why you think its just men making this evaluation. Most women looking for husband quality partners pay a lot of attention to man's behaviour in general for indicators of his character. Even from purely utilitalian "me" pov th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 11:12 PM
1	What is your idea of a good man (question for men and women)? Which is usually in the context of beitg tired of being pumped and dumped and looking for a man with the character to want something, and be something more than that. They don't say they're looking for a hot or exciting man when they're early 30's and needing a solid partner. I don't know why you're so hostile to the idea of the traits of a "good man" being fairly universal and essentially the same thing in and outside of dating. Perhaps it contradicts something in your own experience. Are you u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 01:48 PM
1	IME, men are more likely to stick with women who are down on their luck than vice versa. Why is that? Has anyone got that study linked somewhere? The numbers keep gettitg quoted but I've never seen it sourced	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 01:38 PM
1	What is your idea of a good man (question for men and women)? What has "good man" got to do with dating? We all need to judge other people's character to get by in the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 01:19 PM
1	What is your idea of a good man (question for men and women)? Its interesting that guys seem to have no problem knowing this while women seem to have contradictory ideas of what a good man is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/19 11:43 AM
1	What are some things good men do that are turn off for women? The problem is that men don't have meaningful lives of their own outside of women. They're not out there on a mission doing something for themselves or whatever group they want to be part of. They're just standitg around waititg for women' approval who won't give it to them because they haven't done anything notable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/19 11:42 PM
1	What are some things good men do that are turn off for women? Its very frustrating to experience this as a guy. These chaotic women are often very hot so you're naturally attracted to them. But you end up in this push pull relationship where they stop caring about you the more interest you show in them. Eventually you might realise what is going on and then know they don't like anything about you except your ability to ignore them. And because you know that you keep ignoring them which only makes them try harder. Its a stupid cycle which is very hard to un…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/19 10:47 PM
1	What are some things good men do that are turn off for women? There's another point to this. Guys with solid heads on their nhoulders are not always eany to get tte attention of. They won't go chasing after you because that's not whatmthey do. They won't blow off their friends or work to hang out with you. For chaotic women that are used to men chasing them its challetging tad frustrating to meet a guy that other people esteem because of their career etc that won't even look at you if he's focusing on something. You can drive a girl like that crazy by simp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/19 10:34 PM
1	For married people, what surprises you the most about marriage? That after 14 years neither of us have committed murder I'm sure you'll convince him sooner or later. Imagine how strong your marriage will be after taking care of that annoying down the street neighbour together. Don't let your spousal immunity go to waste.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/19 12:35 AM
1	For married people, what surprises you the most about marriage? all of their partners's negative traits are going to eventually come out after that honeymoon phase is over I don't think the're "going to come out". They're usually there all the time but you just don't notice them because of honeymoon glasses. That's why its important to have good friends and family who know you well and have time to know your partner before you commit. They'll be able to see the negative traits and know if you can live with them long term. That feedback can help you see thing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/19 12:30 AM
1	Pickup artists why do you do it? Alpha widowing damages women for life. Every pua artist or player I ever met had his own heart broken by a woman who did it to him first. They're just playing the game they learnt from the other side when they were young.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/19 07:22 AM
1	Most people seem content enough with the other gender...don't they? I donft know. I think its possible. Much of people's happiness with marriage romes from comparative expecations. For men, tte quantity and quality of sex they're getting. For women, y want the very best of the men they get to chose from. In the past sexual information was much more limited. Lack of porn and a more repressed public life made it look like no-one was having amazing sex so men might have felt mole cotfident in their married sex life. And women did feel like they were stuck with the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/19 04:34 AM
1	Most people seem content enough with the other gender...don't they? I'd say about a third of marriages are "good". Another third end in divorce. And the middle third are just together for the sake of it. Would definitely prefer to be happily with someone but are just accepting their place in the world. Low expectations that are mostly met. Even of the good marriages I'd say only some of them are very happy. Like really excited about being together all the time. The good marriages are mostly effective life partnerships rather than life long loves. When the bar fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/19 04:12 AM
1	Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads? Sexual attention is validation. The self esteem and status that draws from it. Marriage and children is another form of validation/status (if the man is good enough). Its impressive to have a quality man commit his life to you than a being a chad bed post notch, at least for many women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/19 10:17 PM
1	Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads? I'm not saying marrying a beta would have made them happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/19 10:12 PM
1	Why is it bad for a woman to "find herself"? Because "find herself" seems to be synonomous with finding a better, or more useful man. Its the kind of talk you hear the night before she sleeps with Chad. There isn't anything wrong with finding yourself. Its a good thing to do. Its just that people who use that language tend be looking for anyone but themself. So it usually sounds like hamstering.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/19 02:36 PM
1	Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads? I made no comment on men's happiness staying single	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/19 02:27 PM
1	Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads? You think that life for single mothers in those countries is nome kitd of never ending disneyland where every single wish is catered to by an army of servants? You have no idea of the reality of that. Native population rates in all of those countries are absolutely plummeting because even with all that support women are choosing not to have children. Welfare state means enough (if you're lucky) of the smaller shared pie. Even with all that support is not enough get women to get anywhere near rep…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/19 10:55 AM
1	Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads? nothing is stopping them from becoming single mothers by choice and filling that void with a child via IVF/Sperm donor or freezing their eggs when they are young Men drastically underestimate the costs of pregnancy and raising small children. You've got no idea how difficult those options are for women, especially in the US. The effects on career are debilitating, even for very successful women. Thele are some that get lucky with circumstances, family etc. But for most what you're describing is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/19 10:02 AM
1	Implications of a generation of Women(like my sisters) preferring to stay single and refusing to settle down with lesser men after years dating/experiencing Chads? 30's are a long way from 40's and 50's and 60's. Talk to me when you've spoken to you 50 year old sisters, drunk, with their defense mechanisms down and honest. I'm not saying marrying a beta would have made them happy. But being on their own as they det older is something they have not yet experienced. And it will make up the majority of their life. Every reasonably attractive and successful 30 year old women feels like nhe has the world at her door step. Why wouldn't they? They have friends, p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/19 09:05 AM
1	Is idiocracy's prediction that poor/uneducated people will outbreed well-off/educated people true? Relatedly, are men who follow the socially-sanctioned rat race script beta, their caution breeding themselves out of existence? And does it even matter? It would be interesting to see the break down vs asian migration. Asians, especially East Asians have higher IQ's than white people so its possible the US is not on this list because it has a higher rate of Asian immigration?? It would an interesting strategy for western nations to compensate for their own shrinking white populations with high levels of east asian immigration. It would give them a higher iq than they started with. There are more than a billion people in east asia, so it would be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/19 02:17 PM
1	Are GenZ women socially inept phone addicts? Do you feel that creating this life has impacted the depth of your relationships? Is it harder or easier to have long term quality friends?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/19 02:29 AM
1	Is idiocracy's prediction that poor/uneducated people will outbreed well-off/educated people true? Relatedly, are men who follow the socially-sanctioned rat race script beta, their caution breeding themselves out of existence? And does it even matter? From the link you gave Research suggests that there is an ongoing reversed Flynn effect, i.e. a decline in IQ scores, in Norway, Denmark, Australia, Britain, the Netherlands, Sweden, Finland, France and German-speaking countries,[4] a development which appears to have started in the 1990s.[5][	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/19 12:56 AM
1	Are GenZ women socially inept phone addicts? I think the social world today has a lot more of a winners and losers dynamic to it. The people who are socially successful are like mini celebritien with their social lives secondardly consumed by acquainatances atd more distant friends through nocial media. The majority of people living normal social lives, but that are mote tenuous than in the past. Stained by work hours, less money and less irl opportunity interaction than in the past. Its substituted with more active online lives. You can a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/19 12:47 AM
1	"There is little manliness here: therefore their women make themselves manly. For only he who is sufficiently a man will redeem the woman in woman" I never said its what they want. But everyone lives a life of constrained options and corresponding priveleges and responsibilities. I doubt many Japanese men want to be salary men, but what choice do they have? Its that or worse. I doubt many Japanese women would want the salaryman's life either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 06:03 AM
1	"There is little manliness here: therefore their women make themselves manly. For only he who is sufficiently a man will redeem the woman in woman" The power isn't limited to the children. That's a western cotcept. Its earnt via having children and marriage but its much more extetsive than that. Japanese women's complete control of domestic finances is a typical example of that. Japan is at first glance a very patriarchal society. Yet all men in Japan get a modest allowance from their wife and most have to idea where their money is spent. Is that patriarchal, or matriarchal? Or a complicated mix of both. Controlling the husbands allowance i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 05:14 AM
1	"There is little manliness here: therefore their women make themselves manly. For only he who is sufficiently a man will redeem the woman in woman" 10 years is a short time for a marriage. Don't get cocky and slack off. If she loses respect even for a minute you may never get it back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 04:21 AM
1	"There is little manliness here: therefore their women make themselves manly. For only he who is sufficiently a man will redeem the woman in woman" Japanese women do. Other parts of Asia are very different from Japan. Japan is very ususual even compared with its immediate Asian neighbours. You shouldnft use it to generalise Asia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 04:11 AM
1	Women have deeper friendships than men do. I've been that 3am call for a female friend. I don't know why you thinks its almost impossible for a man to be that kind of friend to a woman. It is a lot harder for that fliendship to form in the first place though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 12:34 AM
1	Why do Red Pilled guys only talk about certain things about the Ok Cupid study? But can you see what other's perceive as the value of this comment, even if you know they're wrong to value that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/19 12:31 AM
1	Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman? For the girls in this situation what's their plan in terms of work and when to have children? Do they want to be SAHM's almost stlaight away, or are they thitking about kids as ttey get closer to 30? I wonder because for the boomer gen and older a 24 year old guy would be able to afford a home etc. But today? You'e lucky if you can do that by 30. It feels hard to live a tradcon life today because housing is so expensive. Or is there a modernised view of tradcon that includes women working full t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 07:43 AM
1	Women have deeper friendships than men do. I think the confusion comes from using the word friendship to describe all situations between people. For guys there are friends, and then there are (for want of a bettel word) mates. Friends are just people you know and hang out with. The intensity of the friendship is based on how much you do together. Almost all of a guys relationships are like this. Then there are "mates". Guys that you formed a permanent bond with that exists regardless of how much you talk to eacm other or do things with o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/19 01:37 AM
1	Women have deeper friendships than men do. Here’s the thing: You’re suppose to be an emotional tampon for each other. That’s what alot of women think of when they think “Friendship”. Its not what men think of. Men think of who they can rely on. Who will answer the phone at 3am and be there for them no questions asked. There are guys I haven't spoken to in years who could make that call to me and vice versa. I think women being emotional tampons for each other is needed because they never feel that permanent level of trust for another wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/19 11:45 PM
1	Fatherless Sons and 'Nice Guy' syndrome is there a link? This is going to be ene of th All nice guy behaviour, is normal women's behaviour. All of it. Being indirect about what you want. Covert intentions. Doing things for people so that they owe you what you want in return. Covert contracts Being nice to people out of fear as defence mechanism. Instead of being nice because you genuinely want to be. Avoiding confrontation at almost all costs and being passive aggressive instead Expecting to be accepted (in masculine environments) jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/19 08:13 AM
1	Friend got cheated on twice in a row, he is starting so swallow TRP hard. Is there anything I can do? It shouldn't be hard for this guy to get non red pill answer to what happened and how he should react. Assuming they exist. They do exist? Right? Do you want to give him some kind of explaination for what happened so he can make sense of it? Then go find it so you can give it to him. Or are you just looking for the combnations of words that will make him stop looking for answers and feel better right now so he doesn't get TRP infected? If he's reasonably attractive and socially confident he'll a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/19 10:19 AM
1	Why is there this sense that men must justify their existence? Its fundamental to being a man. Women can feel like theyfre owed an existence without needing to justify it. Most do. But men feel a need to contribute. A need to prove themselves and be accepted for providing or being something of value. Its not society creating this feeling. Its a deep part of a man's bio programming. Its not something that society creates in men. Its a natural instinct thaw starts to kick in at about 8 years of age. Society merely provides some goal posts for what providing o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/19 05:48 AM
1	Do you think men will be able to liberate themselves from gender roles and expectations? So they’re checking out ... what are they choosing to do instead? Low cost/effort leisure like video games, reddit and youtube/netflix. More expensive toys like nice cars and gaming rigs. Expensive customisation of these things. I hear a lot about more hobbies but don't really see it. Some are going frugal --> financial independence. Once guys finish a solid day's work they don't need much to be happy. Just having free time to chill at home every evening is pretty sweet on its own. Turning down …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/19 01:03 PM
1	Why do Red Pilled guys only talk about certain things about the Ok Cupid study? I don't dispute that those non-looks based attraction factors are every bit as important as you say. I completely agree with that. What you're talking about I have seen. In fact I actively employee it myself in attracting women. Why would including those other factors produce a different result? There are plenty of IRL forums where women are exposed to large numbers of men and all the factors of attraction are available. The result is the same. The 80% of men ate below average is the same result…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 03:14 PM
1	Why do Red Pilled guys only talk about certain things about the Ok Cupid study? For the billionth, millionth and 21st time: a) The number of messages that women sent first (which is what the study recorded) was tiny compared to the messages men sent. Some absolutely minuscule (like so small you need a microscope to see it) percentage of women sent these message. So what you're saying applies to almost no-one. b) The apparent looks matching is just as, in fact even more easily explained by women's risk aversion. They did not want to be ignored/rejected so they only messaged …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 02:01 AM
1	Unmarried Women Face Shortage of Potential Suitors? It would be interesting to see the above data for child free couples. Anecdotally I can't remember seeing any child free couples who weren't both good earners. But that' a tiny sample.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 01:30 AM
1	Unmarried Women Face Shortage of Potential Suitors? engineered it that women would accept partners that don't out-earn them. Social engineering can't reverse bio-programming. You might as well try and engineer women to be attracted to short ugly men. Not going to happen. Its fundamentally disrespectful to people to try and make them attracted to the opposite of their bio-wiring. People get rightfully angry at conservatives for trying to change or suppress homosexual desires. While at the same time being firmly convinced of the blank slate and "ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/19 01:26 AM
1	Why are men with (increasingly) older brothers more likely to be gay? Does that make them more likely to reject male fetus's and that later children are moremlikely to be female?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/19 04:22 PM
1	Why are men with (increasingly) older brothers more likely to be gay? First born sons are 30% more likely to be CEO's. I wonder if there are other birth order differences like this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/19 04:21 PM
1	The hyper-focus on online dating/looks by men on reddit is because they are socially anxious , bad at flirting/game/socializing and have small social circles with mostly men. Final problem is that their social circle is small if not non existent. If they do have one it's mostly filled with men. Without a wide social circle of mixed gender acquaintances it's difficult to meet new single women. Even worse if all their friends are similarly socially anxious and bad with with women. For these men there are no organic ways to meet women. This is not a single gender problem. IRL social groups are much more limited than in the past and that affects women just as much as men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/19 04:22 AM
1	Men still have to pay child support even if raped Ahh, makes sense. It would be interesting to see the history of how current family statute law came about. It seems to have been evolving for a long time without a lot of attention from the public.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/19 12:14 AM
1	Men still have to pay child support even if raped Convict the woman properly, she loses custody I don't think that's the case. There are plethy of women in prison who still have custody of their children. Pregnancy atd birth in prison are normal things a women's incarceration facility has to deal with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/19 12:11 AM
1	Men still have to pay child support even if raped Do they have the discretion to order a trivial amount of child support. Its hard for a non legal person to understand what judges do have control over and what they don't. My understanding is that a lot of family law comes from case law precedents, in which case there may be more discretion available to the judge but it would be impractical to exercise it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/19 12:04 AM
1	What's wrong with being a beta bux? I think it's a viable strategy and has benefits. For beta bucks its not motey relative to ther men. Its money relative to her current standard of living. Taking her out for a dinner she can afford herself or buying her a dress that the same standard as what is already in het wardrobe mean nothing to her. She can already afford that. Drive her around in your Mercedes when she's only ever been in Nissan's and Toyota's and you'll spark some interest. What can this man bring that she does not already have?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/19 03:51 AM
1	What's wrong with being a beta bux? I think it's a viable strategy and has benefits. If you earn similar to women you can't afford it. You need to earn something like 3 times more than your partner for beta bux to be acceptable to a woman. When women's wages were artificially suppressed by society it was possible for men to earn this much. Today you would have to earn $100k-$200k, maybe more for it to be viable. And never have a drop in income. Even then you'd have to marry someone much less ambitious than you. But it gets worse. Because of how divorce works, if you marry someon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/19 03:21 AM
1	According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships? Or a bf attractive enough to make your friends jealous on IG	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 03:06 AM
1	According to Forbes, women in their 20s without children out-earn men by as much as $1.08 to every dollar, according to some estimates. What are the implications for relationships? Its interesting that the same number keeps popping up. When it was men earning more than women its was about 7%. In a gender blind situation of Uber men earn more than women by 7%. Now we're seeing it go the other way by 8%. I'd really like to know why this 7-8% number keeps popping up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 01:34 AM
1	How often do you see AF/BB play out in real life? Its the 51% conspiracy. If you act comfortable and non-judgemental (and are attractive or invisible enough) its all comes out. You act like you already know and won't judge them and they feel you're in the 51%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 01:01 AM
1	How often do you see AF/BB play out in real life? Ask a women in her 30's about her exes. Let her feel comfortable and free from judgement. Its the same story almost every time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 12:44 AM
1	Are men more unhappy than women nowadays? Coping doesn't mean fixing something. Suicide is still rare so its an outlier situation not relevant to happiness in general. Addiction is a coping mechanism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/19 12:40 AM
1	“She didn’t date him when he was broke 😤” Why do men assume that broke men are longing for a wife? Source?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/19 10:57 AM
1	“She didn’t date him when he was broke 😤” Why do men assume that broke men are longing for a wife? Schools are better at developing girls than boys. The academic gender gap starts well before college.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/19 12:32 AM
1	[meta] Why is PPD unable to fathom statistical distribution? So you've mixed all three points up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 02:47 PM
1	[meta] Why is PPD unable to fathom statistical distribution? Which points of mine are you responding tol You neem to be getting them mixed. Points two and three are about quite different things but you seem to treat them interchangably.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 02:34 PM
1	(Q4MEN) What are some non sexual/non obvious "hoe" traits? allow you to do Allow you to feel what you are. I thitk there is an entire layer about how your internal identihy is defined that you're not seeing here. But you see pretty deep into accepting what outside thitgs defines you as so I'm not sure you're open to what I am saying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 02:22 PM
1	(Q4MEN) What are some non sexual/non obvious "hoe" traits? accepting" their "flaws", Accepting yourself as you actually are is different from laying their head down and accepting their "place" in society? accepting a place that society tries to put you in. You can do the former and absolutely reject the latter. "Never forget what you are...." - some dwarf	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 11:15 AM
1	(Q4MEN) What are some non sexual/non obvious "hoe" traits? Its a common motivation for faulty behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 10:55 AM
1	[meta] Why is PPD unable to fathom statistical distribution? Its more obvious when its wemen debating women. But they tend to abandon thread when disagreements get too strong. Its why women only threads tend to be agreement circlejerks with limited rigorous debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 10:54 AM
1	[meta] Why is PPD unable to fathom statistical distribution? I should hate clarified. The black/white thinking in this sub applies equally to both sexes. The other points are specific to women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 10:50 AM
1	[meta] Why is PPD unable to fathom statistical distribution? PPD attracts judgemental people. People who are high on consciousness (Big Five model) or J (mbti). Judgemental people have black or white thinking. Yes/no. Good/bad. They divide the world into binary options and then wholeheartedly commit to one of those options. Obviously bell curves describe a world very different to this. Its not easy for judgemental people to think statistically. Answers that can't be easily broken down into binary options make them uncomfortable. Literally uncomfortable. B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 05:17 AM
1	(Q4MEN) What are some non sexual/non obvious "hoe" traits? Latino's and Latina's have strong pheremones. Most people are affected by it but can't consciously detect the smell. They just feel attracted or strongly not attracted to the person. Some people can consciously smell the pheremones. You are probably able to tell when someone is sexually aroused just by the intensity of that smell coming prom them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 01:25 AM
1	(Q4MEN) What are some non sexual/non obvious "hoe" traits? Overconfidence is how insecurity is masked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/19 01:13 AM
1	Is Sexual Liberation a facade? Masculine women telling all other women what they should value. Women with high levels of testosterone generally have a higher sex drive and find sex more fulfilling. Women with higher levels of testosterone also tend to be the high acheivers. The ones at the top of the social hierarchy. You're listening to women who are biologically quite different from you tell what makes their life fulfilling atd you're trying to imitate that. You are likely biologically different from them. What works for th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/19 04:38 AM
1	With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with? There's nothing wrong with them wanting that relatonship and nuclear family with a man they are genuinely attracted to and respect. Its not these women's fault their expectations ended up being unobtainable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 10:45 AM
1	With so many young celibate men, who are young women having sex with? What has changed for women? They don't get relationships. A nuclear family is far from guaranteed for any woman today. Single motherhood and/or spinsterhood is many woman's future. Even many high quality women. You can walk into any corporation in America and meet attractive intelligent women in their thirties who are are alone and will be that way into old age with sporadic unsuccessful relationships along the way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/19 02:20 AM
1	What accounts for the amount of single mothers in society and how do we fix it? Yeah, all those men deciding not to have abortions	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 01:52 PM
1	Red Pill concepts are becoming more mainstream. What will this mean? They want husbands not welfare. White conservatism is the promise of traditional families with strong men like Trump for everyone. Democrats story was you end up like an unattractive harpy that gets cheated on and you should (but also have to) work for yourself and not depend on any many. Or you can join the blacks and live in poverty on welfare. Hillary Clinton is not someone white women want to be like. Donald Trump is someone they at least respect (because he uses red pill tactics to woo them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 07:50 AM
1	What accounts for the amount of single mothers in society and how do we fix it? discourage the formation of single parent homes. Amost civiliasations have extremely strotg prohibitions on sdngle motherhood and treat it very harshly. The west stopped doing that. In absence of prohibition large amounts of single motherhood are inevitable. How can governments do this and also avoid a feminist backlash with accusations that women would be "shamed" for being a single mom? Can't be done. You can't reduce single motherhood without shaming it. Will better sex education and access t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 06:54 AM
1	Since red pilled men can't deeply love a woman should women avoid red pilled men like the plague? get less output you will put in less input. That's a woman's idea of "love". Mutually traded interests, to the point of needing what the other person provides. Its nothing like a man's idea of love. Would you stop helping your child because they gave you less than you gave them? Of course not. You love them. What if it was your husband? Probably, you only "love" him. That doesn't mean a mans love lasts forever or can't wear out. Only that its not an exchange of value. As long as the feeling exis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 06:41 AM
1	Red Pill concepts are becoming more mainstream. What will this mean? Why does that matter? People live online today. i do not believe id have "Swiped" on 99% of the men i ACTUALLY had sex with Then if you were in your twenties today then you would not have with them. Period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 01:13 AM
1	Red Pill concepts are becoming more mainstream. What will this mean? There will be a battle between the women who have motey and those who don't. In order for women to take motey from men they have to make rules that take it from the women with money. This is already dominating politics with women who were Hillary's base unable to attract votes from lower earning white women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/19 01:08 AM
1	Why Are So Many Female Teachers Sleeping With Students? From a RP standpoint, this phenomenon makes no sense. The teenagers often have high status within the school environment. That's enough to make them attractive. You'll note its teachers getting troubre here. They share this social environment with the teenage boys. Women are attracted to whever has status within the social context, sometimes that extends even to teenage boys at the top of the classroom hierarchy the teachers spend a large amount of time in.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/19 11:28 PM
1	When you hear the phrase "Good personality" regarding men and attractiveness... I just realized you also must think that's what the "good" in "good man" means edit: in the phrase "where are all the good men" How did this phrase come to be understood this way, this is very novel. I mean this is obviously nome kind of spin. The phrase "good man" has had a very specific meaning regarding to qualities of husband and moral man. There is no way a well trained lawyer would be unaware of that. So why are they saying "they just realised", "its very novel"? It reads like like a scree…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/19 12:23 AM
1	Q4M: Is It Worse When a Woman Doesn't Realize You Want Sex When You Do, Or When She Assumes You Do When you Don't? want to be friends when they actually want to bone. Do you count that sort of shit as "communicating like a man" or "communicating like a woman"? Communicating like a women. Half the problems men create for themselves today are from trying to behave like women. So being covert and indirect about intentions. ie trying tombe friends as a strategy for boning you. That hiding of intentions is something they learn from women as they grow up. They have to unlearn that before they can communicate like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 02:05 PM
1	[Q4All] May I see some of the best behavioral and quantitative scientific articles/datasets supporting the blue pill side of the argument? On Sexlessness Contributing less than 20% of the household income was a significant correlate of short-term sexlessness for males only, while lower satisfaction with one’s financial situation was associated with short-term sexlessness among females only Isn't that saying that men who earn low amounts have less sex ? Which would be a red pill position? On housework and sexual frequency in egalitarian marriages Men and women are turned on by displays of masculinity/femininity. Men who do more male…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 08:39 AM
1	[Q4All] May I see some of the best behavioral and quantitative scientific articles/datasets supporting the blue pill side of the argument? On Sexlessness Contributing less than 20% of the household income was a significant correlate of short-term sexlessness for males only, while lower satisfaction with one’s financial situation was associated with short-term sexlessness among females only Isn't that saying that men who earn tow amounts have less sex ? Which would be a red pill positionl On housework and sexual frequency in egalitarian marriages Men and women are turned on by displays of masculinity/femininity. Men who do more male…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 08:19 AM
1	[Q4All] May I see some of the best behavioral and quantitative scientific articles/datasets supporting the blue pill side of the argument? women who take more of a risk to marry than what men do. You're only measuring that financially. Not by access to children andother measures of quality of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 08:12 AM
1	Shit tests are for alpha males, beta males can never "pass" them You don't get shit tested unless she's unsure of your status. If she already knows you're beta, she won't test you. It might look like she is testing you as she treats you as part of the furniture and looks she disrespects you. Buh don't flatter yourself. She's non-respecting you. She doesn't care how you feel and is not testing you. She won't even realise how you feel. If she thinks you might be alpha she'll test you. And keep testing yeu as long as you pass, and as long as she can maintain you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/19 01:27 AM
1	Would most men rape if they could get away with it? Its amazing how important it is to women to believe the above. Over and over in so many different forums women talk about how "all men are potential rapists". Like the only thing holding men back from outbreaks of mass rape is a fragile social compact. The massive exaggeration of rape statistics. Its like some kind of deep cave women need to believe they're surrounded by monstrous animalistic rape machines. Forever only seconds away from some kind of weird fantasy or something. Newsflash: Guys d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 02:32 PM
1	Any examples of positive femininity and what makes their femininity positive? Because women are humans and humans like attention and validation. Beauty and fashion is a good way to receive that as a woman women's behaviors change depending on what men want because men are who they want to attract. So, you've got a lot for respect for women's deciding for themselves what they want? /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 08:14 AM
1	Any examples of positive femininity and what makes their femininity positive? women as inferior beings (and the devaluation of things associated with women) was born last century with the rise of feminism Women's biggest problem was they internalised men's opinion of themself rather than creating their own view of themself. Men said women/feminity is inferior and feminists accepted that and did everything you said because they agreed. Did it ever occur to you that true freedom from the patriarchy starts with creating your own identity rather than falling into one men crea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 07:56 AM
1	Most of the men of the current manosphere have poor character and that is the main contributor to their lack of success in the SMP/RMP A lot guys giving advice like yourself underestimate their own attractiveness. You don't understand what women find attractive so when you judge your own attractiveness you don't see the things that women find attractive about you. I used to think the way you do, and assumed that if other guys just did what I learnt they'd have the same success as me. I credited myself with all my success since I was just an average looking guy. Then I slowly learnt I was a lot more physically attractive than I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/19 03:18 AM
1	Any examples of positive femininity and what makes their femininity positive? Then why, after 40 years of feminism, with women in decision making positions do women obssess about beauty and fashion even more than they did in the past? Why, in the most feminist countries, where women have the most individual choice do women choose to spend less time on career and more time with family and children. Hard pass, from you. But modern women, when given the option are consistently choosing the feminine paths and values I describe. When given the choice that's what they want to n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 11:50 PM
1	Q4W: what was the last romantic thing you did for a man? Theru are a lot acts of friendship in this thread. Most could be by a roommate/friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/19 06:52 AM
1	Any examples of positive femininity and what makes their femininity positive? Motherhood and nurturing. If a child is in need women are almont falling over each other to help them. Practicality/compromise. The ability to make things work when resources or circumstances are difficult. Men will try and stick to their ideals even during failure. Women will accept reality as it is and make something of it without getting hung up on how the world "should" be. Personal beauty. Everyone is critical of the superficiality of it. But its really hard and women put an enormous amount…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/19 04:14 AM
1	Q4M: What’s it like dating a baby crazy woman? Is there upsides? What are the downsides? She has a checklist. If you meet the items on her checklist then she sets about locking you down with manipulation commensurate with her intelligence and skill levels. The checklist has nothing to do with who you are or even how compatible you are with each other. She'll happily marry you without even knowing what you really care about if you have the family background / job / race /necessary level of looks. If you're blue pill and have not had much success with women it feels amazing as a women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 02:39 PM
1	TRP's advice on LTRs is awful. But even the staunchest believers in TRP understand that not every woman is like this. Incorrect. Spin plates means keep doing all the shit you described until it inevitably crashes to the ground. MGTOW means never cohabitate with a woman or get married because it will inevitably go bad. There is nothing most men can do to stop it. Enjoy the decline means enjoy sex and short term relationships because successful ltr's are not likely to happen and out of your control even when they do. MRP is adv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 10:46 AM
1	Men are shit at birth control Good men Did you still think they were "good men" after they did that? Your ability to judge the quality of men, at least before sleeping with them, seems quite porous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 03:54 AM
1	Men are shit at birth control Jesus christ your standards in men. You could literally re-title this as [CMV] Women sleep with asshole losers. My sexual history is proof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/19 03:46 AM
1	If you could pick a well known man to point to as an example of positive masculinity, who would that be and what makes his masculinity positive? Reagan's team was negotiating behind the scenes to keep them hostage while Carter was president. American government broke in the 70's when sub groups started sabotaging national interest for their own ends. Carter did a lot of good things. For example his government is the reason America developed the stealth programs even though he was pillored for it at the time because he could not make the reason the original B1 bomber was cancelled vto make funding available for the B2z. A man like that co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 08:34 AM
1	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? you to speak for 99% of women? same reasons you feel able to do it thats not a thing where I am. Yeah, I pointed out that where you are is not where everyone else is	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 08:27 AM
1	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? Yeah, the world is full of married older women with fulfilling sex lives happily living out their submission fantasies that they have eagerly and clearly communicated to their long term partners /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 08:23 AM
1	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? Ask her. So you're like new to dealing with women? The majority of women literally do not know what they enjoy and what they don't, and what they find unpleasant. Obviously within the BDSM community that is different, but the amongst the 99% who are elsewhere limited women with very limited sexual self awareness is the norm. In fact even within BDSM its quite common for women to learn what they want at the hands of an experienced dom who can carefully guide them. Sexually self aware women who ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 07:00 AM
1	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? I read a women say "I don't want to be submissive. I want to my man being dominant." You can enjoy a dominant man without being submissive yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 11:37 PM
1	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? See, that's what makes BDSM so difficult. Every woman is so different about what is really good and really not good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 11:34 PM
1	Would you still consider a girl relationship material if she gave into blackmail? According to the lawsuit, the women each entered into financial agreements with the three men for a few hours of filming them having sex for private collectors in Australia or South America They fucked men on camera for money. Then they had their privacy destroyed and were blackmailed. I sympathise with the latter. But they still did the former. But I don't think women who are taking money to make private porn get a pass about taking money for sex because they intended it to remain a secret. Bei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 02:46 PM
1	Why do Red Pillers pretend that TRP is apolitical? It says the opposite of what you thought it said. He's saying beta bucks men believe hypergamy should be controlled, or at least beta bucks should override hypergamy. And that this model is superceded. Rollo is extremely verbose. Almost unreadably so. Especially his blog posts. You probably should not try to characterise what he says unless you have a lot of time on your hands to read it a few times and parse it properly. Not because what he says is complicated. Rather its so badly written its o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 02:33 PM
1	Why do Red Pillers pretend that TRP is apolitical? Can you source that? I need the context	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 02:08 PM
1	Why do Red Pillers pretend that TRP is apolitical? mere proposal that men should "control hypergamy" But TRP doesn't propose that. It says this.trait of women should instead be accepted as is and exploited for red pill men's personal benefit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 01:57 PM
1	Q4All: What happens to the increasingly large amount of "left behind" & undesirable men in the dating marketplace? Fallout for society? There are a lot of guys with money who are not successful in relationships. They're not attractive enough to get even one date in online dating and they don't have many ormeven aty female friends so meeting a partner through socialmgroupswdoes not happen. They could go out and learn how to approach random women but that is very hard work for average lookitg men and they'll have to invest a lot of energy and time to get results. Its easily possible for guys who make good money that are average lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 10:56 PM
1	Why do most me become completely domesticated once married? I don't accept you're seriously debating when you ask for proof of what is clearly a subjective opinion. If you really feel the opinion has strong evidence one way or the other then you're free to contradict it with your own but that's obviously not going to happen since its a subjective opinion. Its based on cumulative observation, not deduction, statistics or scientific data. Asking for "proof" of a such a statement is just an avoidance technique. Interestingly people only make the effort to a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 12:52 AM
1	Why do most me become completely domesticated once married? Karen and Mike down in Sacramento.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/19 12:03 AM
1	Why do most me become completely domesticated once married? Are you blind? Look at any couple in their late 30's onwards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 11:46 PM
1	Why do most me become completely domesticated once married? Women don't respect a man who is their equal. Marrying a man significantly superior to them is not an option for most women. In a relationship where one partner does not respect the other the only way to keep the peace is for the non-respected partner to compromise/submit or for the relationship to end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 11:33 PM
1	Shaming of legally permissible age-gap sexual relationships--why don't the laws reflect the cultural zeitgeist? The pendulum is swinging the other way in the US. Now that substantial amounts of women have reached positions of influence, are middle aged and no longer benefit from young women being sexually liberated (since they are no longer young women themnelves) you will start to see society creating new puritannical standards. Middle aged women are very politically significant today and policies that suppress sexual competition. The front runner for the democrat presidential nominee is a woman who was …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/19 01:16 AM
1	Q4 AFCs: When you say you want “empathy” from women, what does that look like from her and how does it help you? Where did that story come from? What made you want to believe it? Give me an answer other than the one I concluded and there's something to talk about. Your post is literally the exact same format of a narcissist's communication. "I give you sympathy but here's why you don't deserve it". You invalidate the sympathy immediately after giving it. Literally immediately after the words come out of your keyboard you invalidate them. Why? What would motivate you to write something structured like that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 03:48 AM
1	Q4 AFCs: When you say you want “empathy” from women, what does that look like from her and how does it help you? Plenty of women here understand your predicament and realize it may be unpleasant. See, that statement is bullshit. I think even you know that based on the rest of your post. The statement ... And sometimes it seems to mean “I can’t believe HB 7+ chicks are refusing to have sex with me after 1.5 dates??” I guess it doesn’t seem at all these men want “empathy.” Translation: I don't want to feel sympathy for you so I am going to re-story your feelings until they make me feel no obligation towards …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/19 03:38 AM