| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance while being blatantly adverse to most real life romance?I can utilize analogies, and the rest of your comment simply admits that you don’t have the capacity to deal with real life situations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance while being blatantly adverse to most real life romance?Where did you read 50% of men think they’re superior to women? What a terribly misandrist thing to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 05:12 PM |
| -7 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance while being blatantly adverse to most real life romance?There’s no equivalent, and your analogy is horribly offensive to those who fought for their country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 05:08 PM |
| 0 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance while being blatantly adverse to most real life romance?You think dating men is comparable to fighting in war? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance while being blatantly adverse to most real life romance?Bingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance while being blatantly adverse to most real life romance?Why do you think men in real life wouldn’t care for a woman? That’s a massive assumption | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:58 PM |
| -3 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance while being blatantly adverse to most real life romance?“The guys in the book are fictional, and likely handsome”, so women aren’t attracted to average men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerWould you say that the male friendships you mentioned are as emotionally and physically intimate as female friendships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerI agree but why do they see no value in it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerI agree, those from a rural background or lower socioeconomic class are generally more confined in how they display masculinity. They’re the primary demographic who rely on a romantic partner for emotional intimacy and if they break up, the man is often left alone with nobody to turn to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerI agree that emotional intimacy takes work on both sides, but why don’t men want to put in that work outside of a romantic context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerThank you for the insight, do you think men who cultivate their friendships are in the minority? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerWhy is that the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 04:11 PM |
| 5 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerI disagree that once a man experiences emotional intimacy through a relationship it makes him more likely to have emotional intimacy in male friendships. If anything it just makes the male friendships feel surface level and unfulfilling relative to what he had with his partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerWhen was that the standard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerI’m talking about male social dynamics at large | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Men can only access emotional intimacy through a romantic partnerI also think it’s social conditioning, men are brought up to adhere to a certain standard of masculinity. This often results in the aforementioned lack of emotional intimacy between male friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?I mean men in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 05:55 PM |
| 10 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?Yeah I think you’re right. When you’re starved of attention any almost any girl seems amazing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?Sure, but it’s relatively easy for attractive men too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?I have options too, I don’t think that’s a factor here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 04:53 PM |
| -1 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?In this case, the girl invited me back to her apartment. So she was into me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 01:34 PM |
| – | Why doesn’t the mainstream talk about how unbelievably brutal dating is for men?According to who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn’t the mainstream talk about how unbelievably brutal dating is for men?So you’re saying the majority of people end up in relationships, sounds like they’re not choosing that isolation you keep mentioning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn’t the mainstream talk about how unbelievably brutal dating is for men?Cool. On average people would not choose total isolation, and I’m sure you’d agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 10:19 PM |
| – | Why doesn’t the mainstream talk about how unbelievably brutal dating is for men?No I’m quite sure almost everyone would choose physical intimacy over total isolation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 10:11 PM |
| – | Why doesn’t the mainstream talk about how unbelievably brutal dating is for men?I should clarify I’ve had romantic success personally. I’m talking about men as a whole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 10:02 PM |
| – | Why doesn’t the mainstream talk about how unbelievably brutal dating is for men?I’ve been on both sides. Not trying to brag but I’m tall and been told I could model. Girls have used me for intimacy and ghosted afterwards. Yes it sucks, but having no access to intimacy is worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 10:02 PM |
| – | Why doesn’t the mainstream talk about how unbelievably brutal dating is for men?Getting some form of physical intimacy is better than what many men experience: total isolation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 09:53 PM |
| – | Why doesn’t the mainstream talk about how unbelievably brutal dating is for men?Sure girls might indirectly hit on guys by giving signs. But even if rejected the girl can use cognitive dissonance to cope “he just didn’t pick up on my very subtle hints I liked him”. When a man gets rejected there’s no hiding from the truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?I’m the one approaching them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/24 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?Brother? C’mon it’s often just the dude in the pic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?I respect your viewpoint. It would be nice if more people were as thoughtful and aware as you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?Well considering you’re on a gender debate subreddit, I’d imagine it has impacted you in some way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?It’s not just me. Many dudes, including my friends who are admittedly handsome, have had similar experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?About being inundated with attention? No, but I’m sure their boyfriends would be bitter if they knew | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?Most have a dude as their locksceen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?Cool, but how does that relate to the topic at hand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?Ireland | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?Western Europe, but the girls are mainly European and North American | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?It’s not necessarily a ‘type’ of woman. It seems to almost be ubiquitous among taken women, I’ve very very rarely had a taken girl outright reject me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?Considering how common it is, it’s a pretty damming indictment of many women in my opinion 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:52 PM |
| 0 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?They’re just normal bars/clubs in a typical western city. The girls are all completely different, it’s across all types of girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:50 PM |
| -1 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?I may add this isn’t a one off. It’s happened so so many times, it actually appears to be the norm with taken girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:44 PM |
| -1 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?These girls aren’t trashy. The venues I frequent are in an affluent area and the girls go to highly ranked universities/work white collar jobs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?I assume they want me to give them some plausible deniability, so they can cheat without guilt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?These girls are grinding on me, putting my hands on their chests and essentially groping me. They also tell me I’m sexy and want to bang but can’t because of their boyfriend. These are not ‘friendly conversations’ that I’m misinterpreting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:35 PM |
| 0 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?I don’t know, I’m a dude. If anything it’s a reflection of women’s solipsistic nature. I’ll admit I’m tall and quite attractive, and having a boyfriend doesn’t seem to stop these girls from hitting on me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?Many taken girls have told me their boyfriend is ‘needy’ and they’ve lost attraction towards him. These girls will sometimes approach me in the venue and are very receptive to physicality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:27 PM |
| 4 | Why are girls with boyfriends often more receptive than single girls in bars and clubs?The boyfriends aren’t in the venues. I find out when I see a dude on their lock screen and ask about it. Sometime they’ll tell me when I go for a kiss, even though they’ve been touching all over me and physically receptive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance, while seemingly being disinterested in real life romance?This is the exact point I was trying to communicate in my post, you worded it perfectly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 08:35 PM |
| 9 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance, while seemingly being disinterested in real life romance?Okay? The audience is women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance, while seemingly being disinterested in real life romance?Why are the majority of young men single, involuntarily, if women are deeply invested in romance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 02:48 AM |
| 10 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance, while seemingly being disinterested in real life romance?Sure it’s often written/produced by men, but the audience is women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so interested in fictional romance, while seemingly being disinterested in real life romance?Good points. I’ve had girlfriends and experienced intimacy, so yes women can be romantic. However, you say most women are dating. The majority of young men are single, how is this the case if most women are dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 02:32 AM |
| – | Ireland: A Case Study on the Most Difficult Country for Dating on EarthAre you Irish or have you ever been to Ireland? You’re armchair philosophising, I’m speaking from countless points of experience. I’ve dated NUMEROUS Irish women, I choose not to now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 01:38 PM |
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