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cooldadnerddad/r/askTRP29/04/19 07:30 PM
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This is why social media is such a powerful tool; women can see what your world looks like and imagine themselves joining you in it. Make your life look fun and exciting. Be John Malkovich. This also works more broadly for building social clout with men and women, people love viewing the life experiences of high status people.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/25 04:04 PM
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Or even better, try to include her in the business or figure out how to change up your lives so you’re not bearing so much of the burden and tired all the time. You don’t even have kids and you’re already too exhausted for sex - buddy I’ve got some news for you about being a parent.
/r/askMRP18/06/23 02:40 PM
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Asking someone if they have access to M isn’t as much of a deal as you think it is
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 10:34 PM
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You didn’t definite what you mean by “wait” so I will define it as sex on the third date. Any longer than that I would argue is socially unacceptable for a non-virgin in 2019. A man who is only looking for short term interactions (ie sex) won’t be willing to wait because his time is better spent with someone who will put out. Why waste your time with someone who may never sleep with you. A man who’s looking for something long term will be more likely to wait, because he’s looking at other factor…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 03:16 PM
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Because the idea that a lone wolf who works in IT is cold approaching the hottest girls in clubs is laughable... unless you’re some kind of Chad incarnate they won’t even talk to you, and if they did they’d immediately deduce that you’re a loser with no friends. Or when they check your Instagram, or creep your Facebook. Maybe you can trick a 7 or 8 for a but OP is talking big guns here.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 09:00 PM
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Do you go out alone! With friends? Are your friends cool and good looking?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 06:29 PM
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If you’re attractive enough, sure. A regular looking dude with a steady upper middle class job isn’t going to cut it.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 06:25 PM
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Super nerdy. What the fuck is a biochemist anyway? You wear a lab coat and run tests all day in an office without talking to anyone? Lame (no offense). Doctors are high status because they’re in a position of authority, and ER doctors especially because it’s perceived as dangerous and exciting. Even then it’s more of a provider strategy which has it’s limits. Top of the male hospitality hierarchy is the international DJs/ musical talent. Then club owners. Then maybe promoters (ones who actually …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 06:12 PM
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These girls are hit on constantly and exposed to tons of high quality men through their work, so they have huge egos and massive bitch shields which can only be penetrated by truly high status guys. If you want a chance, everything about you has to be on point - looks, career, style, friends, behavior. If you have any negatives (ie biochemist) you’ll have to make up for it with something else - for example, if you’re totally swole or rich as fuck and stylish it’s okay to have a nerdy career. Alt…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 12:58 PM
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Go to a bar or club where it’s so loud that you can’t talk easily. Girls who give you IOIs think you’re attractive, those who don’t will make it very clear they aren’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 12:59 AM
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Nah fam I just have an unbelievably angular jawline
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 02:56 AM
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This question is retarded. I’m a 5’ 7” manlet and I’m happily married and get IOIs from cute girls whenever I go out. I know 5 foot nothing Asian guys who slay. You’re just a loser or have a defeatist mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 05:19 PM
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A clever manlet only goes on the prowl with his fellow manlets, so as not to provide potential targets with a tall comparison point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:57 PM
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That’s what headless imgur posts are for, my darling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:42 PM
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This thread is worthless without pics
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:30 PM
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Cool story bro. Wanna bang?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:46 AM
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ENFPs are way more fun and much sexier. We always know how you’re feeling...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:41 AM
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That’s the point. They flout the rules but aren’t actually scary. Real drug dealers are scary, the casual guys are just cool and well-connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:53 AM
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You type like a woman. Who’s gay now, bitch!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:48 AM
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All of the above. Girls like drugs, and guys who seem dangerous but aren’t really
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:28 AM
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I hope you’re a girl because I find you incredibly sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:23 AM
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The entire concept of involuntary celibacy is fundamentally based on hatred of women and men they perceive as more successful with women. I don’t have an opinion as to whether or not they should be banned but I think it’s fair to say that it’s not possible to have an incel sub without harassing or bullying behavior because that’s the whole point... men avoiding personal responsibility for their own outcomes by blaming other groups of people for their lack of sexual success. TRP, on the other han…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 09:06 PM
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This makes perfect sense from a due process perspective. When a new rule is announced you can’t in good faith penalize people based on their behavior prior to the rule coming into existence. It’s too blatant. Now that Reddit admin have announced these policy changes, they will wait and see if TRP mods ensure that posts comply with the new rules. If they believe that mods can’t or won’t control the discourse in a satisfactory manner, then the subreddit will be banned.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 08:16 PM
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Who calls men studs anymore? It’s 2019, the word is fuckboi and it’s clearly derogatory. Gold diggers are now glorified; we call them sugar babies or “instagram models” and laud them for extracting resources from rich men and bragging about their luxurious lifestyles. In turn, men are accused of so-called “fat shaming” for only dating girls that are slim and attractive. Why can’t we all be honest about what we find attractive in the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 04:30 PM
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There are countless examples of men being shamed for going after what they want - casual sex with fit young hotties. Yet somehow it’s unacceptable (or ineffective) to shame women for pursuing their optimal sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:12 PM
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Of course it makes a difference, everything makes a difference. I once broke my toe and had to wear a walking boot while it healed, and girls said it made me look tougher and more manly. They notice everything about you and use it to assess your worth, both consciously and unconsciously. Whether or not the hairstyle is an improvement or not depends on your overall look, and whether your hairstyle is congruent with that. Also, different looks will attract different girls, and in different situati…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:27 PM
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I don’t believe this is true. More likely, most guys are oblivious to the usual signs of female interest. Usually woman are discreet about it in public places. It could just be a quick glance out of the corner of her eyes and then she pretends you don’t exist, even if she thinks you’re cute. Last night I was actually at a bar with a group of guys, and on two separate occasions I caught a milfy type across the bar staring hard at me. It was super weird because women just don’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 04:00 PM
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No, but I do like dressing well and seeing girls check me out and maneuver themselves in my area because they’re interested. I’m married though, so it’s pure ego stroking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:34 PM
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Speak for yourself bro. I love meeting people and getting validation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:24 PM
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If a guy is inviting girls out to dinner on a first date then he’s doing it all wrong. So cliched and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 04:44 PM
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You’re probably correct... in this situation OP probably never had a chance. As a self-described “west coast guy, not a Don Draper type” he doesn’t sound like he has the right skill set or lifestyle for this sort of situation. That being said, I want others to know that it is possible to fuck (and bring to heel) girls like this. Brats can be tamed, but you need to show you can handle the shit tests. And afford to have your blood sucked to a certain extent.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 01:40 PM
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It’s not the folding on buying drinks per se, it’s the rationalizing and explaining (aka DEERing) why you won’t spend $12 on a glass of rose, then not being able to recover from it and ejecting from the date with a passive aggressive “have a nice night”. She was shit testing him and he failed miserably. Of course she expects drinks, they are at a bar and she’s a hot girl. Successful men can afford to buy drinks for hot girls without a second thought. Really successfully men have boats stocked wi…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 07:29 PM
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That’s not a tough door, that’s a line! Sounds like you were out of your usual element (it was her turf, after all) and messed up by asking her for help. Normally wouldn’t be a big deal except you had a date with a Russian ice queen.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 04:02 PM
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Maybe she thought you were a loser if you couldn’t even get into the bar on your own and needed her to come and vouch for you. She probably does have a high opinion of herself, but the solution to that is amused mastery, not asking her for help and being salty. “My girlfriend is in there, let me in guys! I’ll ask her to come and rescue me” said no cool guy ever. In hindsight, a better option would have been to get a couple of guy friends to come with you, then split off from them once you met up…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 03:27 PM
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Depends on the vibe and how much potential the girl has - is she worth the effort? I personally wouldn’t eject so quickly but it sounds like she wasn’t his type to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 03:21 PM
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I’m going to play Devil’s Advocate. You sound like a pussy. The Russian girl was probably surprised you were such a weak man (and a broke loser, in her eyes) who would willingly disqualify himself right off the bat. The line about only buying drinks for people who add value in your life works for a random girl you meet in a bar, not a Russian HB9 on the prowl for an apex alpha. Since you say you’ve dated Russian girls before, you should know that Russian culture is very old fashioned when it com…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 01:40 PM
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Hooked up = penis in vagina, no less. Since you haven’t actually fucked you do have to approach her differently, but sounds like this girl was potentially yours for the taking. Don’t obsess on it too much, just make a move - assuming she’s giving true IOIs of course, and don’t be spergy about it. Learn to quiet that voice of doubt inside your head. Internalized game is key. Just do it.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 04:19 PM
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Dude! You already fucked this girl, and she came into your room and sat on your bed of her own accord. You don’t need plausible deniability, just grow some balls and make a move - when you’re sitting together, get close, touch her arms or thigh, then escalate. If she isn’t interested she’ll let you know.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:52 PM
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Who’s willing to step up and organize an alternative to 21 convention? Seems like a lot of guys like the idea, but not the implementation. Disclaimer: I could never do such a thing for fear of being doxxed. I imagine many are in the same boat.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 06:44 PM
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Because my wife wouldn’t appreciate it...
/r/askTRP30/04/19 03:25 AM
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Very true. I’m thinking not so much of a natural friendship, more like the guy intentionally ingratiating himself with her in an attempt to benefit himself. I suppose the real question is whether the girl will actually do something nice for the guy, or just soak up the attention and give nothing in return.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 08:39 PM
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If your sex life is great, then who cares. People fuck each other, whatever
/r/askTRP29/04/19 08:35 PM
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This girl sounds dumb, but your logistical planning and communication was terrible. You were both responding after 1-2 hours yet trying to set up same day plans, you suggested meeting late evening despite you wanting to have an early night, you went to the bar without her actually confirming that she was coming, then you left after 30 minutes and blew her off when she told you she actually wanted to get together. Clearly your schedules for the night weren’t compatible (if she’s getting ready at …
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:44 PM
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Scenario A: She’s distraught because her grandma is in poor health and she neglected her schoolwork while visiting family. Scenario B: She’s doubting her commitment to you because she talked about it with friends back home, or hooked up with a guy while there. It sounds like a comfort test to me (scenario A) but hard to know without being in your shoes. Straight up breaking up with her is a bitch move; instead make plans to see her and ask why she’s been so distant. If you’ve already established…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:58 PM
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How about you try talking to them. Make eye contact and say hey sometime.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 05:47 PM
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Turn down a girl too many times and she’s going to find other options. Seems like you were a little too aloof bro.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 07:10 PM
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I felt sorry for you. Having to having to live with a husband addicted to giga anal porn must be tough. Have you ever considered bleaching your asshole? That might be your problem right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:21 PM
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Sorry to break it to you, but psychiatrists do not believe that sex or porn addiction actually exist. It’s like saying a man is addicted to water, or food. If this is happening it means he’s just not that into you. I like porn as much as the next guy, but I save myself for my wife because porn is a very poor substitute for good quality real sex. Don’t expect him to kiss you and get turned on, that’s how your brain works. Instead, go up to him, unzip his pants, whisper in his ear that you need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 05:09 PM
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This is terrible advice advice for men. Assuming a guy is looking for an LTR, the whole point of a first date is to see if two people have chemistry, pique the girl’s interest, and leave her wanting more. A guy shouldn’t be boring, but that’s more about having good social skills and demonstrating his value than relying on gimmicks like mini golf. If the guy is actively trying to impress the girl he’s just putting her on a pedestal and liable to make her think she’s better than him. Unfortunately…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:27 PM
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Maybe she realized how unprofessional she was behaving. And dude, don’t try to fuck your therapist.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 02:05 PM
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Maybe the nuance of my argument isn't quite clear... girls are attracted to Dark Triad men, not Dark Triad characteristics. The reason for this is that Dark Triad men mimic the natural alpha behaviors that woman find attractive. Therefore, telling someone to imitate Dark Triad characteristics is a suboptimal strategy; better to tell them to imitate the actual alpha behaviors instead. Be confident and secure in yourself, not vain and self-absorbed.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 08:24 PM
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It's not about logic, their feeeeeelings are what dictates how they will respond to you. And if you give off the vibe of a brooding, potentially murderous psychopath you probably aren't going to get laid very much. It's like, eye contact is good because it shows you're not afraid to lock eyes with her, but if she looks back at you 4 times and you're still looking her right in the eye she'll probably think you're a little too intense. A real dark triad guy will naturally hide the fact that he's d…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 06:39 PM
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As someone who does actually has these traits to a moderate extent, I can tell you that most women don't actually want a full-blown dark triad man, they want men who have traits that are similar but slightly different. Let's look at them individually: Narcissism What is actually is: vain and egotistical admiration of one's own attributes What women what: a man who is extroverted and has confidence in himself Psychopathy What is actually is: lack of conscience or empathy What women want: a man wh…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 05:47 PM
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Stop masturbating and figure out why you’re so anxious about getting it up. Condoms do not cause ED, full stop.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 04:32 PM
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Sounds like a Beta trying to justify why he’s not getting laid. Why are you so choosy, exactly? Do you already have unlimited sex on demand?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 03:11 AM
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Yeah, because women are more choosy about their partners, in other words Hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 02:00 AM
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Typically that would imply that she thinks she can do better, and would rather focus on other options. Women tend to see being with a guy who’s beneath what they think can get as a waste of time, a distraction from nabbing the hypothetical hyperChad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 01:51 AM
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No, it’s not. I mean maybe if a guy literally stops talking to a girl if another one walks by, but that’s not how it works in practice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 01:48 AM
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Hypergamy means that a woman will ditch her existing partner when she finds a better one; she is always looking to trade up. However, men tend to be happy fucking anything that passes a minimum threshold. If we’re forced by societal pressure to choose one person at a time then sure, we will try to get the best one possible, but that’s not our biological preference. A man can impregnate multiple woman, but a woman can only be impregnated by one man. Also, your last sentence does not describe hype…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 12:18 AM
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