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dafuq did i just read
/r/seduction18/11/13 04:07 PM
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If you are putting on a 'act' for these women, then you shouldn't be wasting any time on them at all. There are 3.5~ billion women in the world. There is going to be a handful that are going to like you for who YOU are. The reason why you are feeling tired is BECAUSE you are putting on an act for these women. Now imagine you had to put on this same act for HOURS to talk to one girl. It's going to get tiring, very fast.
/r/seduction04/11/13 04:40 PM
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Just address the elephant in the room. Tell the girl you can't hear well. If she can't hear you, this gives you even a better reason to pull her in closer. You think girls really care that you have a hearing problem? Their stuck in their heads most of the time...probably more then you think!
/r/seduction02/11/13 10:12 PM
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Me: OK well J I think you're really cute and I wanted to know if I could grab your number Your 'opener' is fine. Remember an opener can be anything from saying 'hi' to just looking at a girl in the eye. Instead of going 'your cute...whats your number?' Just don't ask for the number right away. You can go somewhere along the lines of 'Hey, I saw you walking, and i find you really cute. I just had to approach you..' Anything really...just don't ask for the number. You want her to get to comfortabl…
/r/seduction01/11/13 01:49 PM
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Me: hey, my name's redplayer Her: my name is jess (actually it was a harder name) Me: Jane? Her: just call me J Me: OK well J I think you're really cute and I wanted to know if I could grab your number Her: uhm...sure You're literally approaching girls just for their number. The number means nothing. A lot of times, a girl will give you their number just to get rid of you. You need to build much more rapport/comfortness with her before taking her number. You can also introduce the number a littl…
/r/seduction31/10/13 08:50 PM
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PM me as well, i'm in waterloo quite a bit , especially when there are good artists playing at Beta.
/r/seduction31/10/13 08:39 PM
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Not luck. The fact you took the initiative to actually grab her hand and tell her she sounded great is what got her to come up and talk to you. Might seem small, but for her, it shows your a confident guy and not shy to express compliments. I highly doubt another guy would of done that at that bar. Cool FR!
/r/seduction31/10/13 02:43 PM
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Like a boss. Keep at it brother!
/r/seduction31/10/13 02:20 PM
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Honestly, just take baby steps from there. Keep pushing when she says thing's like 'we're not going to have sex tonight'...just say something like 'who said anything about sex?' 'Woah hold your horses'. At the same time, you can take baby steps towards your next destination. Tell her to come over anyway for a quick drink and tell her you'll walk her home. Chances being, she'll stay at your place and you can escalate even further. Taking baby steps is much easier then thinking of the end goal as …
/r/seduction21/10/13 08:09 PM
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rsdtyler did a video on this. look it up, he was at Ultra
/r/seduction23/09/13 08:49 PM
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A really attractive girl moved a seat to get close to you and basically touch you? Cmon man, she want's you to say something! Stop overthinking and get out of your head. I think you have a severe case of 'being percieved by society' since you were really paying more attention to your surroundings then the girl herself. Literally all you need to say is 'Hi, I'm _____'. Boom. That's all it takes to get rid of that pent up 'anxiety'. If you have problems being stuck in your head all the time, try t…
/r/seduction12/07/13 03:31 PM
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hahah, brules rules! FOR YOUR HEALTH
/r/seduction12/07/13 03:13 PM
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I agree that OP should approach regardless. I also don't think you have to really 'makeup' anything. What can I do to feel attractive, how can I gain confidence and stop being self conscious around attractive people? OP is really asking about how to feel confident in his own skin. Just by doing simple things he ENJOYS will keep him happy and hopefully make him feel less conscious. I might of taken your 'fake it till you make it' a little too literally, but I don't find approaching to be 'fake'. …
/r/seduction09/07/13 08:29 PM
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I kinda of disagree with this advice. If OP already has really low self-esteem , putting on a fake persona will not help as women wil USUALLY figure this kind of crap out. I would really say work on your inner game stuff (like suggestions above me). Find something you are passionate about, and make that the 'go-to' emotion to pump your inner state and feel good. Don't put yourself down! There's tons of FR's in this subbreddit that have had it 10x worse then you and still managed to break out of …
/r/seduction09/07/13 08:16 PM
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poor guy had no game whatsoever and was literally being a rapist at one point. Totally outcome dependent..If I were you, I would of literally grabbed the guy (put my arm around his neck) and give him a quick and friendly bro-talk. It seems to work for me...but if he still didn't care , I would of just ignored him. I always see one of these guys at a club/bar, pretty funny to watch.
/r/seduction09/07/13 08:12 PM
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When adultery/fornication was apparent in his time (pbuh), the punishment would vary from a set amount of lashes to being stoned to death. And yes, I have.
/r/seduction09/07/13 07:59 PM
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Awesome FR buddy! I love reading FR's about people that are completely inexperienced but have the will power and eagerness to let go of the current dull and boring life they are leading. I am in the same boat as you (aside from the intense psychological battles you have in your brain). This really inspires me to actually go out even more and continue to change my life for the better. Thank you!
/r/seduction09/07/13 07:12 PM
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personally avoid high-tops in public because as baller as some people think they are, they usually look stupid and scream immature or douchey, both of which shouldn't be vibes you're trying to throw out. If you want some high-tops, go with some converse, not Supra or Adidas, you can't go wrong with the classic. I Disagree with this point. Have you seen aldo's hightops? Super classy, come in nice dark colours...wear them all the time (have a couple pairs) and get compliments on them all the time.
/r/seduction09/07/13 06:13 PM
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She plays league and is hot? oh boy i'd have so much banter on just league it self haha. You should try and close with a number in the peak of the interaction if you know she is going to leave, it makes it that much more memorable and she will probably associate that 'excited' emotion when you actually decide to call her out.
/r/seduction09/07/13 03:22 PM
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Well. I'm a practicing muslim (im 22). I used to be much more 'pious' before i got into college, would always be spending time in a mosque etc. Now the only thing that I do thats 'against' my religion is interacting with women (its not permissible to even look at a women with lust). Fornication is a pretty bad sin, it's punishable if it is seen in the public. There are some rules that I still haven't broken, the biggest one being to not drink. I've never had a drink in my life. A muslim can stil…
/r/seduction09/07/13 01:53 PM
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I myself am Muslim and Ramadan starts tomorrow. Just a word on gaming Muslim chicks that are actually practicing during the fasting hours: you won't really have a chance until they break it. Fasting does not only apply to substance that is being injested. It really is a cleanse for the mind then anything. We have to abstain from any type of 'sin'. This includes swearing, back bitting, gossiping, talking with the opposite sex, etc. Your best bet would be to do something when she's not fasting, bu…
/r/seduction08/07/13 07:34 PM
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EDIT: INDEPENDENT! Sorry lol
/r/seduction08/07/13 07:27 PM
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Wow that thread is just hilarious. People actually believe that this stuff is all made up? In the end were really just trying to improve our day-to-day life..
/r/seduction08/07/13 07:26 PM
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haha this story really pushes home the fact that being outcome independent is awesome!
/r/seduction08/07/13 05:42 AM
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My favourite would have to be Owen from rsdnation. He cuts through all the bullshit for me and shows the power of being a man and living in the moment. I'm still learning, but out of all the PUA videos on the web, i think i listen to Owen's advice the most.
/r/seduction06/07/13 09:33 PM
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This is awesome! The way you started your FR and the way you were doing game on these girls, i instantly thought about Owen from rsdtyler. When you used that line I was laughing so hard (i remember that clearly from his infield video). I hope I can game like that soon..still practicing.
/r/seduction06/07/13 09:25 PM
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Look up Sasha Daygame and James marshal. naturaltv seems to be doing alot of UK PUA stuff too. There's tons of em, just search around.
/r/seduction05/07/13 07:32 PM
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Lol you probably should put that in your post then..ofcourse your going to 'pull it off' if you've already had sexual encounters with this girl. Kinda misleading.
/r/seduction05/07/13 07:27 PM
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First off, never 'ask'. Your giving her the power. At the same time your apologizing..so why even say it in the first place? Why not tell her to become YOUR 'sex slave'? Too much validation in these texts..
/r/seduction05/07/13 07:04 PM
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I don't get it..this is how I'll playfully troll my friends , nothing really seductive since they are a 'friend'
/r/seduction05/07/13 02:03 PM
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How is your kino? Are you escalating from the moment you meet the girl? If there was no gradual escalation to the kiss, I could see why she would reject you. You need to give a little more insight into your approaches so that we can help out where you might be going wrong.
/r/seduction04/07/13 05:52 PM
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My brother has the exact same thing! He's had it for years. He got this product called 'Drysol' and its worked wonders for him. Try it out!
/r/seduction28/06/13 10:00 PM
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I disagree. I think that inner game is where its at. if your inner game is fixed, your outer game should come automatically the more you approach. Inner game means to be YOURSELF, don't give a fuck, don't be stuck in your head and live in the moment. Once you learn those inner game fundamentals, it will increase your confidence that will naturally attract women towards your 'bubble' of energy.
/r/seduction28/06/13 04:05 PM
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Honestly, if you are sincerely genuine with your comments, directness is the best. You can literally walk up to a HB9, tell her she looks 'freaking amazing and you had to talk to her', and as long as she knows how sincere you are with it, she'll be attracted. Being true on your intent with your compliments and being needy are two separate things. Sasha Daygame is a real good example of this :)
/r/seduction27/06/13 01:22 PM
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A good tip i've learnt from Sasha Daygame is that when a girl takes your number, make her give you a missed call infront of you and take her number down. Make some witty comment about giving her a nickname in your phone and make her invest in making up a nickname and show it to her. This invests her a little bit and will make the interaction more memorable. Good luck
/r/seduction27/06/13 01:11 PM
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You literally just have to say 'fuck it, i don't care what my logical brain is thinking and just approach'. Once you actually do it and get used to it a couple of times, it's really no big deal. You can even go super direct and get really good outcome. Just do it for yourself and be happy and in the moment! Everything else will come with practice!
/r/seduction26/06/13 07:15 PM
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haha awesome FR. I really need to learn how to approach like that just to get rid of my dumb 'bitch' butterflies. Inspiring!
/r/seduction25/06/13 02:42 PM
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Awesome FR. I'm in the same boat as you! I've only gotten #-closes and dirty dancing but good progress. I'd suggest keeping the texting to a bare minimum next time. Only use it to try and meet up again so that the attraction from the very first meet-up is still there! (This way, she only remembers the attractive, spontaneous, fun guy you were). Good luck and keep writing FR's.
/r/seduction25/06/13 02:14 AM
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I'm just like is this it? Is there all there is to it? I found out just by cavemanning it they were all over me. I also had the same epiphany a week ago at a club and just chuckled. It's true! Grab your balls and be aggressive! Girls love confidence.
/r/seduction24/06/13 05:46 PM
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Well if i saw a group of 3 girls and I liked one, i'd make eye contact and try to ask her for a dance (i'm still getting used to the whole 'assume attraction, grab her etc'). She would give a response like 'I'm sorry I'm with my friends!' Or 'Not tonight, girls night'. Even though she's still smiling and making eye contact. I tend to give up quite easily and get stuck in my head after that when sub consciously I know that I could really take it much further.
/r/seduction23/06/13 09:03 PM
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Nice! I would at least gotten her number but I know how rushed and exciting it can be the first couple of times a girl opens on you (trust me i used to be oblivious all the time). Keep at it!
/r/seduction21/06/13 08:56 PM
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Well on the dance floor i approached a bunch of girls and I would put my hand on their lower back and ask for a dance etc (so beta, i should just assume attraction and see if she puts out any IOI like you said). I also had some girls that kinda had IOI but would give the excuse of 'sorry not tonight, with my friends!'. Really need to learn how to diffuse those situations and making the girl feel comfortable.
/r/seduction21/06/13 03:13 PM
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I actually tried to be friendly with this guy, put my hand on his shoulder, laughed around. He was kinda receptive but still tried to act like the whole 'macho' guy. Honestly it was only 30 min into the night and I didn't want to deal with the BS since it was my first time approaching at a club. Will definitely keep this in mind though the next time this happens.
/r/seduction21/06/13 03:10 PM
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Start with a strong frame (physical right away). Night game? Try to embrace her right away or when she goes for a handshake, pull her in and embrace. Clear intent, she'll know whats up. RSD infields are amazing for this!
/r/seduction17/06/13 08:03 PM
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One of my favourite things to remember is to assume that every girl loves sex a hundred more times than I do. Until I get an explicit/serious 'no', I will continue to assume this. Don't get hung up on this though, always be independent of the outcome. If she still wants to give you another chance, just cut to the chase next time and literally grab her and fuck her (assuming logistics are there). Good luck!
/r/seduction17/06/13 03:47 PM
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Since you're familiar with RSD, there's really only 1 real answer; fuck her. She's practically asking for you to do it. Find out the logistics, text/call her to meet at such said place, and just cut to it. No bullshit. I just recently started this too (only been on seddit for 2 weeks). Good luck!
/r/seduction17/06/13 03:15 PM
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eh..too much beating around the bush. The amount of time you have to wait is too long. Just get in there, and talk to her.
/r/seduction13/06/13 02:50 PM
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Your thinking too much! Should of either told her you were sick or just kissed her (i don't think she would care at all with all the kino she was giving you back)
/r/seduction12/06/13 08:58 PM
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