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coolgirl2021/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:59 PM
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Discussioncoolgirl2021/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:23 PM
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Question for Mencoolgirl2021/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 01:48 PM
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Discussioncoolgirl2021/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 08:58 PM
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Question for Mencoolgirl2021/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:17 PM
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Question for Mencoolgirl2021/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 06:27 PM
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CMVcoolgirl2021/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 09:33 PM
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Question for Mencoolgirl2021/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:25 PM
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Question for Mencoolgirl2021/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:09 AM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:25 PM
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My language didn’t display animosity and anger the way yours did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:50 PM
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“Be Civil”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:48 PM
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Accusing someone of having autism because they don’t want to date a poor loser is not a good argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 01:58 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8caf6u/comment/dxdd0kj?st=JFZZCWTS&sh=51973200 How is this comment ok though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 10:56 PM
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They were going to have sex and she gave him a meal. The thing is, I have read your posts and comments and you’re kind of crazy. I think she would have been okay with filtering you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 10:17 PM
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Shorter than me? No. I'm like 5'1. Just be over 5'2 Not of my own ethnicity? Yes. I prefer Hispanic guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 04:36 AM
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Your definition of high value is extremely convoluted and dumb, sorry. I just want a supportive, stable guy with a good job and in my denomination.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 04:25 AM
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You literally have nothing to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 11:36 PM
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Idk the average man is not hauling bricks either. Most people are working M-F 8-5. And what about the girl who works night shifts as a nurse? I know nurses who work 7pm to 7am 3-4 nights a week but still cook and clean while their husband has an 8-5 job and is not making much more than his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 11:28 PM
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A combination of hours spent, tasks, and what you like doing. Like my coworker cooks and her husband washes the dishes. She vacuums and he buys groceries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 11:26 PM
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And if she’s working full time, what makes you think she can’t afford all that without you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 11:23 PM
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Bears me ask the people I respond to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 11:22 PM
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Did you deliberately ignore the words “yard work” in my original post title to prove a point? If you’re doing a proportionate amount of yard work to your hours worked and she’s doing a proportionate amount of chores to her hours worked then it’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:23 PM
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But you don’t have to do a chore list. YOU COULD JUST NATURALLY HELP YOUR WIFE OUT OR HIRE HELP IF YOU EXPECT HER TO WORK FULL TIME. How are you improving your wife’s life if she: 1. Works Monday through Friday 8 to 5 2. Cooks all meals for the family 3. Cleans an entire 3 bedroom house 4. Takes care of small children 5. Takes care of elderly people 6. Maintains her weight 7. Maintains her looks 8. Does all the grocery shopping and errand running 9. Takes time off from her job to take care of ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:21 PM
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Comfy but not enough to warrant being called a sugar momma.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:18 PM
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No you didn’t. If she was working full time and doing all the cooking and all the cleaning and doing all the errands and doing all the childcare and doing all the elderly care, you contributed nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:17 PM
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Idk what your point is. All I am responding to is that there are men who believe that if the woman makes less money she should do everything, and will refuse to hire help, have her be a SAHM, split the housework or have her work part time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:16 PM
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You’re the one who is snarky, not her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:03 PM
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$300k+
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:01 PM
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And you don’t financially support her but you still expect her to do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:01 PM
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Entitled whore! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:01 PM
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Yeah but a number of men on here are calling me entitled and saying I am evil for believing housework should be divided on hours worked instead of income.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 09:59 PM
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So if you think she’s dumb why did you marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 07:54 PM
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It’s not a sugar momma or daddy unless you’re rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 07:54 PM
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Because you expect her to work and have a good career so she isn't using you for money. Plus, finances should be combined.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 07:29 PM
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Yeah but they HIRE HELP or she is a SAHM. He isn't dumping everything on her just to prove that he is the dominant one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 07:28 PM
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Yeah but a surgeon isn’t going to be working Monday thru Friday 8-5, and most surgeons I know (lol I know a few) are either married to women who also work and hire help, have SAHM’s, or have wives who work part time and spend more time at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:58 PM
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Obviously if one person is doing manual labor you accommodate. That said, I think all money should be pooled together and both partners get like $150-200 (depending on salary) a month to spend on whatever they want (eg clothes or video games)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:55 PM
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If you’re both working 40 hours a week, you both share the household tasks. If you work 72 hours a week and she works 40, then she obviously will do more. LEARN TO READ.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:51 PM
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“Divide housework based on hours worked” Obviously if you work more hours, you do less housework. Did you not learn to read or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:50 PM
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Again, you want your wife to do all the housework and work full time while you just work full time. It’s not a loving relationship. Unless you’re working more hours, you’re entitled and a shit partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:48 PM
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Because you don’t want a wife. You want a slave. And when she points out that you are a bad partner, you will call her a nag and entitled bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:47 PM
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So you expect your wife to work full time and do all the housework and childcare. That doesn’t sound like a marriage. It sounds like slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:47 PM
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So you expect her to work full time, and do all he housework and childcare. Doesn’t sound like a marriage partnership. It sounds like slavery. I would rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:46 PM
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So would you support a SAHM?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:37 PM
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Yeah because housework and childcare in addition to money are worthless to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:37 PM
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Do you think asian ladies would be happy to work full time and do all the childcare and do all the cooking and cleaning? I know a guy who married a mail order bride and she was so unhappy that she kept threatening divorce. She worked full time night shifts, did all the cooking and cleaning, did all the childcare in the day, and she was extremely depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:36 PM
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No you don’t. You called me an entitled bitch and a bag when I said men should split the housework if both partners are working full time. Groceries are housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:35 PM
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Because in the OP I discussed $50k Women don’t waste most of it. We spend more because we do all the grocery shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:53 PM
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Maybe you should do all the childcare too. You know, since it’s so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:52 PM
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And women are demanding more than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:52 PM
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Yes they do. I got called an entitled bitch for saying housework should be split on hours worked, not income.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:51 PM
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I don’t know? But supposedly you find it all easy so why not just do it if it’s so easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:51 PM
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Ehhhhhhh Masculine doesn’t have to be cruel. Here’s the podcast. https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-smarter-not-harder-relationships-talk-show/id383324407?mt=2
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:50 PM
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Yeah but if a guy makes $500k and he feels that way, why not just either hire help or support a SAHM or one who works part time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:48 PM
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Yeah but my point is that you should split the housework based on hours worked and that triggers so many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:37 PM
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I don’t care if he’s not a Virgin. Just that he had to save sex with me. If I met a man to marry now, I would marry him. We would just keep experimenting with sex until we find our groove If a woman has to do all the approaching, irs a sign that she is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:36 PM
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I’m not poor though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:22 PM
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Lol he doesn’t look like a bad boy. He looks like a male model.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:20 PM
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I am saving sex for marriage and since I exclusively go for Christian men, most at least say they’re doing the same. My friends are even more conservative than I am. I don’t get approached. Most men don’t approach in the days of metoo. I have to approach. If I see a man at church, I have to go talk to him. Which is a huge pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:18 PM
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I don’t understand either but apparently I am an “entitled bitch” 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:15 PM
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Sounds fine if you’re happy, but I would rather just be single than stressed out constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:15 PM
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Why don’t you do all the housework? You’re cleaner and supposedly find it so easy. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:13 PM
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Why don’t you do all the housework if it isn’t real work and it is so easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:13 PM
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It’s funny that you call women who don’t want to do ALL the housework in addition to their full time job an entitled bitch. But then you demand she work full time and do all the housework. Even though she works less hours, you don’t want to split it up. Who’s the entitled one here? The one who expects a maid (your words, not mine), cook, income earner, lover, friend and caregiver or the one who just expects an income earner, lover, and friend? 🤔 What if she made $180k to your $120k? Would you st…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:12 PM
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I’m a Virgin. I bring a pure pussy. You better be grateful for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:10 PM
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I agree. It sounds like a few people here are assholes who are antsy about spending a few hours total each week cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:08 PM
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Amen. In b4 someone gets mad. We aren’t slaves that you domineer over. I don’t think we should have a checklist of who does what, but men should be willing to take on housework if they want/ need their wives to work full tomen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:06 PM
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So I assume you’re okay with her working less hours
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:05 PM
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I’m 24, socially awkward, work mostly with women, and don’t meet men. My only hope is online dating and grad school, and I am starting grad school. So far, almost all women. I tried church and a few moms tried setting me up with their sons but the sons were not interested. I am going to try another church with more young adults but I went and no man talked to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:04 PM
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No. Just black women podcasts. I feel really bad for black women, it sounds like black men are really mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 02:58 PM
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See this is what I like. I don’t understand why I have tons of men saying I am an evil witch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 02:57 PM
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If you think childcare is watching TV, I have news for you. And elderly care is taking care of old family members. Do you just dump them in a nursing home the moment they turn 70?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 02:55 PM
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$50k a year isn’t poor though, and it’s a substantial contribution to the family income.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 02:54 PM
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I don’t think it should be calculated, but a lot of men get antsy and upset about housework even though both him and his wife work full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 02:53 PM
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A lot of men don’t want their wives to work less hours though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 02:52 PM
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No, you’re the entitled one. What your wife offers: a full time income child care housework elderly care errands What you offer: a full time income 🤔 you seem to be the entitled one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:54 AM
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I don’t think you’re keeping score. It’s just will you split on hours worked or on money made? My coworkers don’t keep score, but most split on hours worked (with a couple exceptions). Person A and her husband both work 40 hours a week. She cooks, he does the dishes. They clean the house together and do yard work together. They make similar salaries and seem to have the happiest marriage. He has a flex day so he does the grocery shopping. Person B and her husband both work, but he works a lot mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:43 AM
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Yeah I know you think that way. You’re going to be nickel and diming your wife for life because you make ~$120k
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:37 AM
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Yeah but you’re dodging the question. I didn’t ask about confrontation, I just asked if you’re going to split the housework on money or on hours worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:36 AM
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Ok that’s fair. I am fine w that. I am also fine if she is okay with taking on a heavier burden and it’s a mutually agreed upon dynamic (eg a woman who finds cleaning therapeutic). I am not okay with the man dumping everything on the woman because “I make more money” or “I am the man!”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:19 AM
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So you’ll support a SAHM?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:17 AM
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I had no idea that sub existed and it looks dead
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 01:40 AM
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Yeah but if he doesn’t smile back it’s proof that you’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 11:41 PM
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I’m going to read this soon. I will save it. I don’t approach men but I also don’t even know how to do IOI’s or even how to do them. I don’t even meet good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 11:25 PM
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How many men are willing to marry way outside their race? Such as asian guys with black women? How would their families react?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 10:29 PM
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How is a woman supposed to attract a high value mate? How does a woman approach a high value man? Please provide specific steps, not vague or condescending steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 10:28 PM
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Yeah because I am not going to bullshit around pretending that it’s not true. For men, don’t expect to attract a young and sexy 8/10 qt I Jen you’re 40 and a security guard and barely able to make ends meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:54 PM
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Did you bother to read the rest or you just commented?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:51 PM
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What welcome to the red pill? What did I say wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:50 PM
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No one ever empathizes with the late 30’s woman who is desperate to marry and have kids. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe, just maybe, she spent those 10 years working on herself and making a better woman of herself so men would notice her existence? Maybe.. men just didn't see her back then? Men sure as hell don’t see me and I’m in my 20’s. Imagine it takes me 10 years to finally be worthy of a good man. Would you say the same thing? No. You would accuse me of rising the cock carousel …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 02:17 PM
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I agree I am just saying what men on Reddit say
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 01:57 AM
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It is to me, too, but I know it happens and I once talked to a guy who felt like his girlfriend was using him for sex only.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 12:06 AM
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Yes. But it’s less common then the reverse happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 12:05 AM
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Yes. I don’t see how this is controversial. And as I said, since the economy is shitty and most women have to work too, now, men have to also be willing to divide the housework appropriately. Both work, both do housework. One works, one does housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:49 PM
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Yes, it is acceptable for a woman to leave an unsuccessful man. A man’s job is to provide, and I get that the economy sucks, so at least be able to support yourself. If you’re a dead end loser, how can you expect to run a family? I don’t want to be used for my money, especially as a woman. It is acceptable for a man to leave an ugly woman. The thing is, men have eyes. If you think your girlfriend is unattractive, so unattractive that you’re willing to leave her, why is she your girlfriend in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:28 PM
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Being a SAHM isn’t mooching
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:14 PM
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Idk what’s wrong with that? If it fails, you get a good job. If it succeeds, you get a good husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:02 PM
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Lol we know what we want!
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 06:14 PM
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Yeah. The type of women men despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:00 PM
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Yes, what’s wrong with it? You get a degree to support yourself but are anticipating that a man marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 05:12 PM
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As someone else said, most women are not attractive enough to marry up. Furthermore, most women who ARE attractive enough do they have the social skills and connections to find a rich man to marry. Usually, women marry within their class and they make less because they focus more on their families (such lazy women!). A 6/10 doctor who makes $300k a year is more likely going to marry another 6/10 doctor making $300k a year, or maybe a 7-8/10 nurse or nurse practitioner making $80-150k a year. He’…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:33 PM
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So if you have a couple, both with professional careers with high potential, it is statistically more likely that the woman will cut her hours, take more time off, take on less burdensome job duties, quit altogether for a period of time, etc, when that couple has children. And then she gets called a lazy mooch! I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:27 PM
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Oh God forbid a woman want to focus on her family and not on her career but still have a degree in order to financially support herself and contribute. That makes her a lazy mooch!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:24 PM
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Yeah I got 16, I want a beat provider , no way in hell am I marrying a guy who flirts with other women or demands threesomes.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 01:32 PM
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Yes, I feel the same way. I like guys who are “beta” aka willing to love me and make sacrifices and financially support me if needed (like if I become a SAHM or if I lose my job) and do occasional romantic things. I don’t see these as bad qualities at all they are things I dream about.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 01:28 PM
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According to TRP, me saving sex for marriage makes me a hopeless prude who will die alone. I’m not disagreeing, but the whole virginity thing is inconsistent. If you want a Virgin bride, you have to understand that there won’t be sex for several months until you get married.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 01:27 PM
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I judge them but it’s not like I believe they should be persecuted or don’t deserve to be happy or whatever. I just know right away our views and values on sex are very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 11:37 PM
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Yeah but the candy shop mansion guy has like 4 girlfriends and 100 random girls he sleep with despite being married. He committed to a woman (his wife) but still makes her participate in all these orgies and watch her husband sleep with other women right in front of her face.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 01:07 PM
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Maybe he should have thought about that 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 01:06 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/88t40m/comment/dwn5glv?st=JFHL15WI&sh=53d129ec
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 01:55 AM
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Here’s more Consider it stuck really. She can't unfuck all of those dicks, and I'd never look at her the same way again. There's really nowhere to go. I'm more just doing this to get some breathing time for myself and for her to process everything so moving forward can be done as cleanly as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 01:46 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 07:38 PM
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I don’t understand why one woman isn’t good enough for men. Every guy that loves a woman isn’t loyally thinking about you and you alone.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:20 PM
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Welllll i know a couple who did that and they are happily married with kids now. Both of them were huge party people and club goers and had tons of casual sex, but when they met they spent about a year together and got married, and SAVED SEX FOR MARRIAGE. Neither was super religious but they do identify themselves as Christian. Oh, and the lady is kind of fat. With all these principles, the lady should have died alone according to TRP but she found a good guy and they’re happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 04:29 PM
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And what’s wrong with women around his own age? Too old? I have no sympathy for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 04:24 PM
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I don’t think it’s a YOU problem, moreso that it’s a problem of who you’re choosing to date and interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 04:23 PM
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More: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7p7733/found_out_plate_fucked_someone_else_before_i_went/?st=JFG0Z91G&sh=12c40520
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 11:46 PM
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Also more: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7ypvd9/plate_sends_me_a_pic_of_her_and_a_guy_how_am_i/?st=JFG0XXHK&sh=481905b6
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 11:45 PM
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Look at the top comment! "Feelings aren't out of the question, you know." Dangle bait, get her over there, smash. Repeat several times, then use "You know we're just going to end up in each others' arms again" The next time. Smash some more, then wait for either resignation, or plate breakage. Just because commitment is out of the question doesn't mean don't imply it as bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 11:44 PM
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Look at the top comment! "Feelings aren't out of the question, you know." Dangle bait, get her over there, smash. Repeat several times, then use "You know we're just going to end up in each others' arms again" The next time. Smash some more, then wait for either resignation, or plate breakage. Just because commitment is out of the question doesn't mean don't imply it as bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 09:30 PM
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Ok I posted several. Multiple responses due to multiple posts
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:56 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/877flg/suspect_my_plate_fucked_my_roommate/?st=JFFSRF4I&sh=d82cc752
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:56 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/883d0e/how_do_we_feel_about_our_plate_having_plates_of/?st=JFFSQ0SL&sh=d44f7576
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:55 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7mflf6/girl_i_was_trying_to_plate_sees_me_with_another/?st=JFFRVXBD&sh=81758940
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:31 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6nevc4/ran_into_plate_walking_handinhand_with_some_dude/?st=JFFRV2YT&sh=b063f18e
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:30 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7ysu5z/plate_sends_long_text/?st=JFFRUJLG&sh=450dffb9
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:30 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7y78n6/plate_acting_hostile_after_seeing_pics_of_me_with/?st=JFFRTL2U&sh=786acdb5
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:30 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7usa4z/what_do_you_do_if_you_run_into_a_plate_while_on_a/?st=JFFRSS80&sh=6cc4b03f
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:29 PM
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So it’s ok if I cheat because of pure lust? Why would I tolerate a man hugging and kissing and caressing another woman? How is that not showing love and intimacy to someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 04:13 PM
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Lol there are countless posts about how men spin plates but the moment a plate sleeps with someone else the man gets all butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 04:09 PM
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If you have unprotected sex and then come inside a woman, what do you think will happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 04:02 PM
4

I really like this answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 04:02 PM
2

Various people on Reddit and 4chan. I don’t have links. “I wouldn’t want anything to do with a woman who doesn’t even want to try butt stuff”. “MY wife said I can do whatever I want with her body. I would be so disappointed if she didn’t let me do whatever I want” “you sound so boring” “good luck finding a man with that point of view” etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:22 PM
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For example, if he puts his arm around you, say “you’re making me uncomfortable”. And don’t text him late at night. If you’re texting for work purposes late at night, don’t talk about anything besides work when you text. And you have to decide. Either you be a “friend” who he is attracted to and flirting with despite having a girlfriend or you have a colleague who you’re working with. There is no “maybe we can be platonic friends”. That door closed and is highly unlikely to reopen.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 05:14 PM
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Only contact him for research purposes and research purposes alone. If he flirts with you, if it is a subtle remark, just ignore it. If it’s blatant, tell him “you’re making me uncomfortable” and be firm.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 05:10 PM
5

Uhh I admit to visiting those pages. Anytime I got sad about being single, I would just read the Craigslist ads and suddenly feel happy that I don’t have these men in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:07 PM
2

You can make a woman submit to you without being degrading and weird. The fact that I am EXPECTED to do these things is shameful and depressing. No way am I letting my husband walk me like a dog or put it in my poop hole or sleep with other women (in front of my face to top it off). But when I say this I get called entitled and horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:01 PM
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Anal sex because it’s disgusting and painful Wearing a collar and being made to eat like a dog because it’s degrading Threesomes because they involve another person Most BDSM acts because they are humiliating and degrading Why can’t men just expect regular sex that doesn’t involve putting the woman down, pain, or polygyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 04:55 PM
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I agree that OP is responsible. The moment she found out he had a girlfriend she should have just cut (or dramatically reduced) contact with him. It’s not like he is her boss or professor or something. It’s a guy she is in school with. And it will happen again, and she just will need to get away from him again (unless it’s a work/ school situation, and in that case it requires tactic).
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 03:03 PM
3

Once again, you’re choosing to completely miss the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 02:53 PM
2

I don’t support polyamory but if you’re going to sleep with multiple women at least be courteous enough to let your wife sleep with multiple men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 02:01 PM
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Did I say you HAVE to or that it’s just an act of love?? No one is asking you to be a homemaker in addition to working (which 99% of men expert their wives to do and 99% of women do it without complaint) and do all the chores. All I said was HELP OUT FROM TIME TO TIME TO SHOW LOVE. the work i listed only takes like an hour per week, max.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 01:59 PM
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Idk why this got downvoted. This is the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 06:05 AM
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And the sky is blue.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 06:04 AM
3

Yeah but you should help out with the home. Why? Because it’s a loving thing to do. Washing the dishes after dinner (or helping to wash the dishes), folding the laundry, scrubbing the toilet down after you poop...none of those things require that much effort and are an act of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 06:02 AM
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Yeah but I have been called a screeching feminist by men for saying polygyny and hitting women is wrong and that men and women have different gender roles which are equal in value.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 12:40 AM
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As a woman, I consider polygyny degrading and humiliating. Also I want a man to marry and find it degrading that men blame white Women for everything (and most rappers are black tho)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 10:57 PM
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Well whatever I would protect people I don’t know within reason and would rather die than let someone else die and have that on my conscious for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 10:55 PM
1

Interesting why don’t doctors make over $18k though?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 10:54 PM
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Because they rap about using women as prostitutes and strippers and polygyny. You never see them rapping about love and marriage and monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 10:07 PM
1

Where do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:27 PM
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Yeah but if you spend time on the manosphere you find that men who claim to want traditional gender roles and submissive women loathe the protector role and hate protecting us.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:26 PM
1

But why??
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:19 PM
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No they aren’t. They all do drugs and treat women like shit. You can simultaneously be a good leader and not s piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 09:06 PM
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I don’t think being submissive to a man is a bad thing. That said, a lot of men on TRP take it to the opposite extreme and think that submitting means being an absolute slave. I think if a man wants his wife to submit to him, he damn well give her a good reason to submit by being loving, gentle, intelligent, a good protector, a good provider, and a non crazy, good leader. Also he shouldn’t expect bizarre and degrading sexual favors. I do agree that women have privileges like more child custody. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:43 PM
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No i see this MANY times. Men are extremely hypergamous and hypercritical if women’s looks v
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:24 PM
1

Finally a man admits the truth about how men think!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 06:23 PM
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Work and school.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 05:53 AM
1

And if she wants him to be loyal after the second or third date he calls her an entitled whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:22 AM
1

Why would you share nudes of your spouse though?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:18 AM
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Because you get in a defensive rage when she demands monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:12 AM
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A shit ton of men on here that a woman expecting monogamy as the default is entitled and demanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:11 AM
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Yeah but if you’re going to sleep with 10 women at once the least you could do is tell them that you aren’t exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:08 AM
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And you guys openly advocate sleeping with a ton of women at once and lying when she asks you if you’re sleeping with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 01:07 AM
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The problem is that homemakers are labeled as gold diggers by men all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 12:37 AM
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Even red pill men call SAHM’s gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 12:01 AM
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Nah he won’t need to go because I wouldn’t cheat or leave blindly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:48 PM
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You wouldn't strip down for a man who says "OK, since it's marriage you're after, I want to know what i'll be getting". Not fair. Because I have personal autonomy over my body. If he’s saving sex for marriage too he won’t feel this way. I don't want to marry you either, not if I don't get to evaluate the goods first. Don’t let the door hit you on your way out . Upthread on date 2 you said "I don't want you seeing other women". That's a demand. You don't get to make demands of a guy not to see ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:44 PM
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It's not fair that you want to evaluate me using your standards but you won't let me evaluate you using mine. That's not acceptable. Where did I say I won’t let you? You do what you want. Yes, it is, but that's never stopped most women, including most religious women. So if you're serious about marriage, then we need to see the goods before we pay the money. Too bad. Not from me. I don’t want to marry you. Go find someone else. It doesn't matter what you personally do; what matters is that most …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:37 PM
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I don’t wear much makeup and I don’t use push-up bras Sex before marriage is a sin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:21 PM
1

Misleading is LYING.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:13 PM
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I would either lie, or agree and amplify. So you’re a liar Or ask why she wants to know that. “Because i want a serious LTR which will eventually lead to marriage and I don’t want you to be seeing other women while we contemplate marriage. I am not seeing anyone.” Including nonanswers and misleading answers. So you’re a liar And if a woman asked me that on the second date, I'd at least ask very pointed questions why she wanted to know that, “Because i want a serious LTR which will eventually lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:02 PM
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I am not asking about n count. I am asking if you are currently sleeping with other women. I will answer more soon
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 04:41 PM
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at what point? Usually first to third date. I wouldn’t go on 2 dates unless I was serious, so I guess I will say date 2. what gives you the right to know? Yes, he has the right to say nothing. I am not going to force him to tell me his personal information. No, I don’t have the “right” to know anything he does not CHOOSE to disclose. BUT if I ASK him, and he doesn’t give me a straight answer, I will know our values are on such different planets that we wouldn’t be compatible. Now, if you've had …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 04:26 PM
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If I asked a man “are you seeing other women?” or “are you sleeping with other women?” and his answer was anything besides “no”, I would immediately end the date. Even if he is handsome or rich. I only date one person at a time, and anyone who does otherwise is not for me. I would be disgusted if he didn’t tell me or was lying, I would feel repulsed, ashamed, and angry that he was sleeping with other women at the same time as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 04:18 PM
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ITS NOT A PUNISHMENT ITS A FILTER. and you didn’t answer. How the fuck are we supposed to know you’re a good man without knowing you first? Having a gut feeling?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 12:56 AM
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Men boast about having women pay for dates and still sleeping with them https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/87bhzq/to_pay_or_not_to_pay/?st=JFADJXS7&sh=466058dc Do you want more evidence that we need to protect ourselves? Or would you rather we be easy whores so you can keep playing us and pushing us around?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 12:52 AM
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Guy is bitter that his girlfriend doesn’t want to go with him to a party where both he and the woman he cheated on her with will be together. Hmm I wonder why. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/87bxdj/ltr_an_ultimatum/?st=JFADHL8G&sh=20dbe649
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 12:50 AM
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He basically has a sex slave but she still isn’t good enough for him. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/87gm4m/struggling_with_moral_compass/?st=JFADDI0L&sh=aa84d1cc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 12:46 AM
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Men in open relationships don’t bother saying they are in open relationships: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/87gnvo/im_in_an_open_relationship_should_i_be_straight/?st=JFADCP8W&sh=22f2087f
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 12:46 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/87ktto/fucked_a_girl_i_want_to_plate_now_shes_acting/?st=JFADB7W3&sh=e16914f5 Lady wants a relationship and had sex twice. He doesn’t want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 12:44 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/87n7hy/what_to_do_when_she_tells_you_i_would_never_have/?st=JFAD8TFA&sh=e4e346d6
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 12:42 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/87j1fn/not_getting_sex_on_demand_what_to_do/?st=JFAD6T2B&sh=c4fe1935 Guy is bitter that his bulimic girlfriend only had sex with him 2 days a week instead of 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 12:41 AM
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How the fuck are we supposed to know they are good men? Lemme link you to some “good” men. I’m on mobile so you’ll get multiple links
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 12:40 AM
2

So you expect her to initiate on the first date and not be a slut in order to get an LTR. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 11:45 PM
2

By protect yourself I meant for her to protect herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 11:44 PM
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No it’s not. It’s to protect yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 10:42 PM
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Exactly. And if you want commitment and refuse to have sex until you get commitment, you say “I won’t have sex with you until a serious relationship is clearly established and we have been together at least 3 months”. It’s not a game. It’s a clear way to protect yourself and others. If all women did this less men would be shit. But I can’t control all women. I can only control myself. And I can control who is not in my life. And if you are going to use me for sex without love, you’re out of my l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 09:37 PM
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http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2018/03/being-high-maintenance.html
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 09:09 PM
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http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2018/03/being-high-maintenance.html
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 09:00 PM
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http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2017/05/things_your_father_should_have-taught.html
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 08:58 PM
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Because they don’t just sleep with younger women. They boast about how awful women their age are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 08:54 PM
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Ooh boo boo I’m a 24 year old woman and I am still a Kissless Virgin. Get the fuck over it. 19 is NOT an old age to lose your virginity. Even 30 is not old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 08:48 PM
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Why would I want someone who is divorced? The main appeal with older men is that: they are more ready and eager to settle down they have more money they are more appreciative of a younger woman An divorced older guy dramatically reduces his value. He isn’t as ready to settle down, has random kids, has less money, and is more bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 06:17 PM
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So what though. Why would I want a guy who is going to bring my life down and cause drama? http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2018/03/being-high-maintenance.html
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:59 PM
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And you would lie about it which is the worst thing. Hence why even older women should wait to have sex. To filter out men who just want to use her, like you. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/86w67k/discussion_men_shouldnt_get_resentful_when_a/?st=JF9PU9VH&sh=8fcc953e
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 02:26 PM
2

And you would lie about not commuting to a 37 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 02:24 PM
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You’re the one who is disgusted by 37 year old women, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 02:08 PM
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Exception not the rule. I’m 24 and would be disgusted by a 35 year old divorcee and most of my friends and colleagues would too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 02:05 PM
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And the 25 year old woman isn’t going to want the 35 year old divorcee. Edit unless he is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 02:02 PM
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It’s not risk management. If you’re young and single and successful you can easily get casual sex without lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:57 PM
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Once again, you want to punish all women for the acts of a few. Saving sex for marriage, or at least for commitment, is the best way to avoid liars like like you. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/86w67k/discussion_men_shouldnt_get_resentful_when_a/?st=JF9PU9VH&sh=8fcc953e
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:48 PM
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While some women will lie about their pasts, most women don’t (like me). Don’t punish me for the lies of some women. Why would I want anything to do with a guy who lies to me? If a guy wants to spin plates, and he lies about it, he’s a grade a piece of shit. Just because younger women are as eager to settle down doesn’t mean they want to settle down with an old guy. They want someone within 5-10 years of their age, not a divorced 40 year old (unless he is rich). A divorced 40 year old is more li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:31 PM
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As long as those women who you are spinning are aware that you are sleeping with multiple women and you aren’t lying to them or misleading them, it’s your life. That said, plenty of men get remarried and it works out better the second time. At church I know a divorced older couple. The woman’s ex was abusive and the man’s ex just left him and broke his heart. They’ve been together for over 5 years and are very happy. Edit: Also women around age 30-40 are less likely to tolerate games and bullshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:15 PM
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Low income communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 12:59 PM
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I agree. It sucks. That’s why I say just be able to support yourself. It’s really hard to find a guy who can support a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 12:59 PM
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Taken from the article “If you have so much value then why are you back with a homeless dude?” To be fair if we say we don’t want a homeless dude, there are a ton of men (and some women) online who will leap to call you entitled and a gold digger. Edit: I like this post
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 05:49 AM
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What’s with the condescending “come on now.”? I am not surrounded by religious fundamentalists nor do I claim to be But there are religious people here who I meet and interact with and occasionally we click. If you’re willing to expand outside of denomination and use online dating there are a ton of decent men who are more than willing to wait for marriage. Even in liberal areas of California. Big cities = a lot of people = more diversity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 05:37 AM
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I live in a liberal part of California good grief.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 04:23 AM
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I wouldn’t say “most” women consider marrying outside their race as settling. SOME do but they are the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 03:34 AM
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And like quintuple the men wont even go near someone outside their race.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:57 AM
2

Why is expecting a guy to have a good job not realistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 01:57 AM
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Do you say this as an attempt to lower my ego because you’re resentful that some women don’t like you? Because that’s idiotic. Why would a woman willingly go with a leech? Even if she was desperate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 11:39 PM
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Just because it’s about women doesn’t mean it helps us. You know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 10:38 PM
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How are they relevant? Because your default is to assume all women are low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:15 PM
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Because most men don’t want to marry out of their race.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:14 PM
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I don’t have any kids
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:12 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/875ad1/q4men_how_often_do_you_approach_women_in_the_day/?st=JF8NYQKN&sh=0a879a7b Men generally do not approach women outside the internet or night clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:07 PM
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Ehhhhhhhhhhh most men will not marry out of their race unless they’re white. How many asian guys prefer Hispanic women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:06 PM
3

What a rationalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:05 PM
2

Wtf does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:05 PM
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Because those are things a woman does If she has a brain in her head and wants a high value man. even if she is a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:05 PM
1

What simple question???
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:04 PM
3

And if she sleeps with you it will fuck her over even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:02 PM
1

Thanks for the tip.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 08:01 PM
3

Because you even admit that you would pump and dump her! Why would she even bother with qualifying you in the first place if you openly admit you are going to use her? Are you that resentful that some women who aren’t your wife aren’t eager to have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 05:56 PM
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What’s off is that I don’t actively pursue anyone. That’s it. Stop trying to “bring me down a peg” because you get antsy and resentful that women want good quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 05:53 PM
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Having a good job isn’t a list of demands. It’s a basic expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 05:51 PM
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No, exactly why a single mom should wait for sex. Period. If you happened to be single you would pump and dump her. If she just waits a few months for sex, she can avoid 99.999% of people who will pump and dump her (aka you)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 05:50 PM
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Why do you assume that a single mom is a trashy loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 05:49 PM
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What makes you think I am ugly, fat, antisocial, boring, and boring? And why in the world would I want an incompatible personality? I don’t care about height and as for looks I don’t care as long as you aren’t ugly. I don’t even care about social life as long as you aren’t anti social.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 04:11 PM
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Yeah but when you met you likely were not working a 6-figure job and neither of you were probably thinking “ooh I want a spouse!” Your situation probably just fell into place. for a pump and dump or FWB, sure EXACTLY why she should wait for sex. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:57 PM
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Because my point was waiting for sex is a way to filter out people who don’t take you seriously. You can filter out poor fits while pursuing good fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:54 PM
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Because you pretend that being a single mom is an irrevocable flaw and that single moms deserve to just be alone forever or be used by loser joes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:53 PM
5

Your answer doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:52 PM
2

Yes but it doesn’t expand the quality does it? You could vastly expand your pool by dating single Moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:27 PM
2

Yeah idk what’s wrong with marrying out of your race.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:27 PM
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And the compromise is that I wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:17 PM
2

Persistently pursuing a high value mate is the exact opposite of drunk driving.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:17 PM
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But it’s not by chance that she found him. She could have pursued some random guys and ended up in yet another crappy relationship but she didn’t. She worked hard to show interest and love and value to a man she considered high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:15 PM
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Why are you comparing me to them? Why should a single mom go for some loser joe when she has already ruined her life? Why ruin her life more?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:14 PM
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She didn’t win the lottery though. This lady is hot probably pursued this teacher by baking him food, talking to him, etc. visited his church and talked to him at church showed love and interest and devotion and loyalty It’s not like he jumped into her lap. She worked for him. She could have worked for some loser too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:09 PM
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No one tells men who say that they want a woman with a good job that they are hypergamous or greedy or gold diggers the way they tell women that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:08 PM
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Make your own thread. No one is stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:07 PM
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And so what? Why would I want a large pool of mates? I just want one guy who I am compatible with and isn’t mooching off of me. Not 70 men who want me for my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:07 PM
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Feminism isn’t pro women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:03 PM
1

I do too but the economy sucks so most women negotiate on salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:03 PM
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But she didn’t play the lottery. She stayed fit and attractive. She didn’t sleep around with random men. She got a useful college degree and a good job. She stayed firm with her faith. She wasn’t afraid to show interest and talk to the nice young man she met at church. There wasn’t a lottery to it. The only lottery was meeting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 03:02 PM
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And yet I still didn’t downvote you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 02:59 PM
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https://instagram.com/p/BfOAbyGHSuk/ This lady is a single mom and found herself a good guy. Both are Christian and religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 02:28 PM
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Beds se I am a woman and I am writing from the point of view of a woman. Men post their own stuff on TRP too. Why don’t you scold them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 02:27 PM
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https://instagram.com/p/BfOAbyGHSuk/ Another picture
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 02:27 PM
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https://instagram.com/p/Bf--1NCHYh9/ But she is a single mom with a disabled child and she found a nice black guy who’s a teacher and is a Pastor and is Christian. They are both religious and presumably saving sex for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 02:26 PM
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No it’s not sexist. Most men expect their wives to work full time and bring in a decent income too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:12 PM
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Good job can also mean teacher. It can even mean nurse’s aides if you’re in a lower income community. No one is entitled to anything, but why would I want a shitty guy who is using me and treats me poorly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:11 PM
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Again it blows my mind that men can hug and kiss and caress and Squeeze a woman and run his fingers through her hair and tell her she’s beautiful and see her naked but not have an ounce of commitment towards her and be doing the same thing with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:10 PM
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What does that have to do with the subreddit? You think I am an obese single mom? Not really. I make good money as a nurse, and I know many nurses who are used for their money by men who see dollar signs and want to take advantage of our stable income. Either you bring in your own income, or your out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:09 PM
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What specifically makes you think she is hypergamous and entitled for wanting a man with a decent job? I have a good job, and have a stable career. Why should I go for a guy who just wants to mooch off of me?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:06 PM
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Yeah a good job isn’t enough to be a breadwinner and you do need over $100k to support a family. But at bare minimum you should make enough to support yourself which is usually around $40-60k. Personally I would rather be a SAHM but I don’t think it’s financially possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:05 PM
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You don’t need a man for money but you also don’t want to be a sugar momma. Furthermore, I don’t understand the snarky comment about women who don’t need a man. Usually the women who say that aren’t the women men want or they have been hurt several times and they are coping. I also listened to a podcast about how shitty black men treat black women and in the black community women say “I don’t need a man” because they really don’t. Their man makes them work full time, do all the housework, do all…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:03 PM
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I can’t wrap my mind around the fact that men hug us, kiss us, caress us, touch our hair, see us naked, cuddle with us, etc. Which are all acts of intimacy and love and yet not even be committed to us or love us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:59 PM
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And what is that core impetus supposed to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:55 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/201305/how-spot-sociopath It is sociopathic to lie for several months that you want a serious LTR when you don’t. See: Untruthfulness Lack of remorse and shame Pathologic egocentricity and incapacity for love Sex life impersonal, trivial, and poorly integrated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:53 PM
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Once again, it doesn’t always take 3 months to realize someone isn’t for you. It can take 3 days or 3 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:50 PM
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No, but maybe the other eligible women aren’t interested or are taken? This lady and her husband who i knew met at church. She had a daughter from another time in her life (I think she was a teen mom). They got to know each other by volunteering in the kitchen and little by little started dating and fell in love and the kid calls her stepdad “dad” and they have a baby together now. He’s a good looking guy, blue collar job, and a nice and gentle person. He was happy to find a lady who he was comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:49 PM
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I didn’t downvote, do it looks like other people disagree with you and downvoted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:47 PM
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Yeah but it’s not unfair. The vast majority of men expect women to have a good job too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:46 PM
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They aren’t sitting on a shelf, but life is dynamic and fluid. You can’t just not try because your SMV is lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:45 PM
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But what are your motives? To boost their confidence so they don’t make the same mistake again? Sure doesn’t sound like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:45 PM
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That’s assuming he is dating like 4 girls at once who are all competing for his hand in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:14 AM
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Yes but being dumped isn’t shameful or depressing unless there’s s divorce / kids involved. If you were dumped and were childless and unmarried that’s not a big deal in the grand scheme of things. You get hurt but you move on and hopefully learned something. That doesn’t mean You are a schmuck. A divorce and/ or having kids involved makes everything stressful and dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:13 AM
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This is a debate page. Being between jobs or in school but broke is different from not having any goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:10 AM
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Obviously because I am a woman. There’s entire subreddits dedicated to men’s needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:09 AM
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Maybe they find that they are compatible as they get to know one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:08 AM
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Yeah I don’t think you should leave your man if he is having a life trial but I wouldn’t tolerate someone lazy or who’s just hanging around hoping the $1000 of Bitcoin he got last November will become worth $1 million in 2025.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:07 AM
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Or you could pursue the good men you meet in your life instead of holding your breath. Ask them to coffee. Bake them a cake for their birthday. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:06 AM
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Lol you’re trying to bring me down for wanting a guy with a good job so that I can settle for someone poor and you can feel less insecure. I make good money RIGHT NOW and I generally will because I am a nurse. Unless the economy grows to total shit, and in that case everyone will be screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:04 AM
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Dude there are non Amish and Mormon people who save sex for marriage. You’re trying to bring single moms down a notch so that they settle for John the loser who treats them like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:03 AM
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I make more than $40k so it’s not hypergamous for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 05:51 AM
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I don’t hear it IRL but online i constantly see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 05:51 AM
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But it’s still sociopathic and crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 05:50 AM
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Yeah but you’re assuming that at the 3 month mark he’s suddenly going to realize whether or not she’s right. You may realize that someone is the wrong person like a day in, a month in, or 6 weeks in. If after 3 months you’re still uncertain, it’s a sign you should move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 05:49 AM
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Yes. I asked them. They were saving sex for marriage too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:19 AM
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Yeah it depends. I think as long as you have s steady job it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:18 AM
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Yes but he’s working and they have land and stuff. It’s not like he’s sitting there doing nothing. He has a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:17 AM
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I didn’t say men should be the primary breadwinner but that the bare minimum is a good job Men don’t even want to be Breadwinners, but that doesn’t mean he can be a leech If you want traditional gender roles you have to be ok with making more money
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 01:02 AM
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Ii have to be a true sociopath to spend several months lying to just bang someone a few times then leave. And extremely patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:50 AM
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Oh yes it should be. But a lot of men get all annoyed when more women like them after they are gainfully employed. That’s just the way it is, most women who have self respect want you to be gainfully employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 12:01 AM
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$40-60k depending on your area.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:59 PM
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I’ve never really been dumped either
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:59 PM
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That’s fines different strokes for different folks just be honest and upfront
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:59 PM
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Yeah I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:58 PM
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I am assuming this isn’t in middle class white/ Jewish/ Asian/ Middle eastern suburbia
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:57 PM
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I agree as long as it’s mutually agreed upon. For SAHD’s too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:56 PM
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Not necessarily. Just a minimum of like $40-60k depending on your area.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:55 PM
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Yeah but I don’t want a guy who doesn’t want an LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:37 PM
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Wtf is wrong with religious men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:11 PM
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Many of us women without kids already have very little real options. “Humbling ourselves” and settling for someone crappy isn’t a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:10 PM
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These were men they met at church and they all waited until marriage. One guy is quite handsome. None of them were rich, but are also not poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 11:09 PM
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And yet I know single moms who found decent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 09:12 PM
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If a guy wanted to wait 3 months to move further and we weren’t having sex and he wasn’t seeing other women I would be fine though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 09:11 PM
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And what’s the alternative? End up even more used up but still a cat lady? Do you want her to kill herself or throw herself at the first man she sees?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 09:10 PM
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And somehow I know many w men who are in stable relationships with decent men who they made said a few months to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 09:09 PM
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Wtf kind of set up would he get into? “Just kidding! I don’t want to sleep with you!” Then walk away!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 08:48 PM
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3 months is not that much time to get to know a complete stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:44 PM
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So she can avoid that by just waiting a few months to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:43 PM
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Yeah it was supposed to say haven’t not have t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:42 PM
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Oh man I agree. No one is forcing men to date single moms!!! Many still can find good men if they play their cards right. And one easy way is especially to postpone sex. Especially since on TRP SO MANY men boast about how they use a single mom for sex and that they are so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:41 PM
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And they boast online about how a slut slept with him on the first date and how he is playing her and using her for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:27 PM
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Maybe if men a) made more money and b) were willing and able to marry young, more women would marry young.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:26 PM
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So most men wouldn’t want to LTR an ex slut who is looking for an LTR but still expect the ex slut to put out for them. Wouldn’t it be even more beneficial in her situation to wait for sex? She has an even greater need to filter out the men who don’t want an LTR with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:25 PM
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Waiting to have sex doesn’t make you a doormat monkey who jumps through hoops as demanded. Wtf is wrong with you? Omg! Relationships and marriage are something both parties have to seriously think about and premature sex will seriously cloud your judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:23 PM
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You still aren’t explaining how to beneficial for her to suddenly start having sex right away again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:22 PM
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Yeah but I am saving sex for marriage and have t had a problem of just meeting awful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:21 PM
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What I mean is would you LTR a former slut who had sex right a way? Would you even LTR her in the first place? That said, I am saving sex for marriage and I am open about this from the second I talk to a guy so I mostly interact with men who are okay with waiting or who are also waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:20 PM
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FYI CSU Humboldt is very known as a marijuana and liberal school. Everyone i know who went there wore beanies, was super into weed, and was either punk or hippie. You are probably in a more conservative area in Kern county.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 03:52 PM
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we meet in a MGTOW sub Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:42 PM
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Yeah but every time I ask where I am supposed to meet men no one tells me. Work: all women Church: all old people. But I did find a church with more young adults so I will experiment with that one. A couple old ladies tried to set me up with their son/ grandson but they weren’t interested. I don’t think men like to be set up. Daily life: no one who wasn’t crazy approached me at the grocery store
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:30 PM
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Big you didn’t answer my question. Would you seriously LTR an utter slut in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:26 PM
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Waiting to have sex isn’t friendzoning You can 99% avoid being “fuck zoned” by doing exactly what I described. “I am waiting to have sex until a serious and exclusive LTR is established”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:25 PM
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No. If women as a whole raised their standards and stopped tolerating being used, men as a whole would be forced to step it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:24 PM
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Yeah but what do you want her to do by the time she has a baby? Kill herself? Live under a rock and never date again? Wear a bag on her head at all times? Single moms still want love and a relationship too. Since they messed up big time already it’s in their best interest to make sure it never happens again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:23 PM
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Yeah if she has sex with you early on you know she is a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:21 PM
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The majority of men don’t want a serious LTR. I made a dummy POF account and it was all sex ads from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:21 PM
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That’s not a good comparison. Sex isn’t a gift it’s a mutually shared display of love and passion. I don’t expect to be showered with gifts but only affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:20 PM
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What if she was a slut like 5 years ago then stopped?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:18 PM
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committed quickly previously Many men did commit quickly in high school and college then as they get older and more bitter, drag on the relationship talk. For me personally after like the second date he better not be talking to other girls or I am out. hardly bugged his ex for sex Why do you assume women don’t like to be sexually desired? What’s disturbing is when that sexual desire is not accompanied by love and affection. Many women can’t understand why you would want to do loving things like …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:17 PM
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It’s not artificial. “I really like you but I want to find a serious LTR and eventually husband. I want to make sure you want the same thing so we don’t waste each other’s time”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:13 PM
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Yes? I read all the horrible stuff women supposedly do on the MGTOW forum and I do zero of those things. I am not a low catch. Furthermore, I like religious guys and pretty much exclusively go for religious people in my denomination.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:12 PM
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Yeah but if a woman has those numbers she would be in the trash can the moment she opens her mouth to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:10 PM
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Well I personally am waiting until marriage so a few months feels like nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:10 PM
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I haven’t seen anyone talk about it in real life. Just online.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:09 PM
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Yes it is and the vast majority of men think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:09 PM
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But if she has had sex on the first date in the past, or was a slut in the past, would you even LTR her in the first place? If no, then she has successfully saved herself the pain of yet another guy using her for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:08 PM
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Would you have a serious LTR with an utter slut? What if she told you “I am sick of being used. I want to wait to make sure you are 100% serious about an LTR”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:05 PM
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Waiting a few months to have sex is extremely different from leaving more inheritance to one child. What an awful analogy! And yes. I am fine with men filtering women based on their past sexual experiences. That said, the easiest way to filter out sluts is to wait a few months for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:04 PM
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Because I think it’s not true. Men who want just casual sex aren’t going to stick around. Men who want a serious relationship will.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:58 PM
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It’s not projecting though. No one has dumped me for waiting to have sex. It’s only on the Internet where men say you will be dumped for waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:57 PM
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Well I personally don’t do that. But the women who do want to pump and dump chad but be with the nice guy for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:56 PM
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It’s not natural for me to have sex with someone I am not married to or don’t know well though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:55 PM
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What makes you think she wants you specifically instead of the kind of guy she’s looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:55 PM
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Yes they do. No one owes men sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 06:17 AM
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You want a woman who will cook and clean, but you also don’t want to be a breadwinner. That’s the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 06:16 AM
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What?!!?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 06:15 AM
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You have to be really crazy to spend a few months going on dates and having serious conversations about life and marriage just to bang a few times then leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 05:26 AM
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But it does. It is a major difference. You’re getting to go from strangers to partners and it isn’t something to take lightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 05:25 AM
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Game and height doesn’t matter to me. If by SMV you mean don’t be poor then yes that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 05:24 AM
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So you’re obviously not a match but you’re all up in a jimmy that she doesn’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 05:24 AM
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59 women omg
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 05:23 AM
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I am not resentful. I just read over and over how resentful men are the I point out that women have even more reasons to resent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 05:22 AM
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So you expect her to initiate on the first date. Omg...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 05:21 AM
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I agree with that. The oldest I will go for is 35
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 05:20 AM
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And you still had sex with tons of other women on the first date though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:54 AM
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It’s not an investment though you both have to seriously consider the long term potentials of one another based off of your values instead of letting sex shape your judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:54 AM
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Then don’t lament how women don’t want to marry men in their early 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:53 AM
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Well don’t complain when the fun girl leaves you for an ex con lol. You called the nice girl who wouldn’t leave you “boring”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:52 AM
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Yeah but you are going to go after some asian girl. What would give me a good reason to assume that other men aren’t going for asian girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:52 AM
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Somehow I am saving sex for marriage and although I am not married yet, all the men who have liked me have been decent quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:45 AM
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And that’s because you only take a woman seriously if she sleeps with you on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:44 AM
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Happy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:44 AM
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Not really true. I don’t have good men in my friendzone and finding the kind of guy I described takes hard work and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:44 AM
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Why would I marry a 39 year old? So he can die when I am still kicking it at 65?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:43 AM
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Yes I can find a husband with the snap of my fingers. But will that husband be good to me? Love and provide for me? Share the same religion as me? Raise our kids? Be a top quality dad? Live in the safest neighborhoods and work hard at a good job? When you take those into consideration the pool shrinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:15 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/86uht9/hed_rather_look_at_sonic_hentai/?st=JF6AGHQK&sh=937b499c Looks like her husband prefers sonic to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:14 AM
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But what exactly did she do differently with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:13 AM
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Yes but a lot of women end up getting hurt because they didn’t wait to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:12 AM
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No. Where did I say that? You’re just making up stuff. I said it’s not a long time to wait to have sex with a guy who was essentially a stranger 3 months before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:11 AM
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And? You don’t want a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:10 AM
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No it’s not. If he feels like having casual sex is so important to him, he should just have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:09 AM
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I’m not Mormon but I am religious and yes I am saving everything for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:14 AM
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Thanks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:13 AM
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Because he filtered out all the non bimbos
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:01 AM
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And a man shouldn’t be resentful if the bimbo proves herself to be a bimbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:01 AM
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A woman who is eager to sleep with men on the first date tends to have poor impulse control.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:55 AM
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You’re basically resentful about women who you don’t want to date. You say you don’t even want to be with them in the first place but then you make it a point that they can’t find anyone good. Obviously someone good for them isn’t you. What you say is irrelevant. Despite being single moms they have to have self respect and do everything in their power not to end up used and abused by a guy who thinks that them being a single mom is a license to treat them like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:43 AM
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But she is married so she does have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:41 AM
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Well I am saving sex for marriage and while I am not married yet I have met decent men who liked me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:40 AM
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Didn’t one ex wife leave you for a motorcycle man who was an ex convict? Not in a mean way, but if you filtered out women who have sex on the first date, you would have avoided her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:39 AM
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But why would I want a guy who doesn’t have a decent job? That’s a minimum requirement for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:37 AM
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You didn’t explain how she is putting him aside aka on the back burner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:24 AM
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Yeah but then she will filter you out because you clearly don’t take her seriously. Which is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:24 AM
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Well thanks to the economy he has to make more money to support a family than in the past. If he wants me to work full time and raise the kids, too, then why should I marry him and reproduce with him when I am young, have a shittier job I don’t like, and don’t make that much money? You want a young bride, then you have to be able and willing to financially support her. Many men don’t want to financially support her. Then if you don’t want to financially support her, you have to accept that she w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:23 AM
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Lol I would dump a guy who dates other women at the same time as me, never mind have ads with them. It’s not even a bitter threat. We would have such radically different views of loyalty and love that it would be glaringly obvious that he isn’t the one for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:21 AM
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What do you want the 40 year old women to do? Settle down with a loser who hates them...like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:19 AM
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Good Lord 3 months isn’t a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:19 AM
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Putting off sex isn’t treating a man poorly though. Presented clearly it would be “I want to make sure you are serious and don’t just want me for sex. I want to wait a few months to have sex until we are in an established relationship”. In fact, I would just say that explicitly and clearly on the first date. And no, I wouldn’t feel resentful. It’s extremely rude to ask “how many men have you slept with” within the first few dates. The easiest way for a man to stay away from a “loose woman” is to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:18 AM
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You’re not paying though? Wtf are you paying? She’s just filtering out people who want to use her or waste her time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:16 AM
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Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:15 AM
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But they aren’t put on the back burner? What makes you think they are putting him aside if they are married??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:13 AM
2

It’s not paying for anything though. It’s just filtering out people who aren’t serious from people who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:12 AM
5

Yeah but it’s the easiest way to filter out who’s serious from who isn’t serious. Literally nothing else is as simple and foolproof than waiting a few months for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:11 AM
2

And men don’t do this? If you pay money to a cam girl then complain when I ask you to buy me roses, then it’s clear you don’t love me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 11:06 PM
3

I’m in the USA and I am waiting to have sex for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 11:05 PM
4

And I know married women who claim to be happy and later admit that they are unhappy. What’s your point? That these men are foolish lambs who were led to the slaughter who wouldn’t have been led if they had sex early on? Do you realize how dumb that is? They have brains and knew they were marrying a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 11:05 PM
2

Well yeah. But men shouldn’t get resentful. It’s not a manipulation tactic like you see on TRP. it’s just a filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 11:00 PM
7

Not really. They are happily married and some had other kids. Marriage is work for both parties involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:58 PM
1

But waiting a few months to have sex isn’t poor treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:57 PM
5

No. I’m 24 and most women I know have not been super promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:56 PM
4

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:56 PM
3

So he’s jealous and insecure . I admit that I get jealous which is why I wouldn’t want a guy who sleeps with many women and wouldn’t date a guy who dates casually many women at once. Even if we haven’t established monogamy, I would leave him if he mentioned a date with another woman. But I do admit this and I don’t date men with differing views. Men sleep with slurs then complain about how they aren’t worth commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:55 PM
3

I made a dummy POF account and saw so many dick pics there that I will never use that again. Where else?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:54 PM
3

But why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:53 PM
3

Yeah because it’s the way she avoids making the same mistake over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:52 PM
5

Yeah but she has to have some kind of filter around to get a decent man. Every single mom I know who got married later on were patient and used filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:51 PM
4

And how tf are you supposed to adapt? Have sex with random men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:50 PM
1

Downvote but don’t explain. That’s nice. You view yourself as a helpless baby in terms of desire. I say you’re not. Explain why you are then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:49 PM
7

No it’s not. You are always free to leave or walk away. No one is forcing you or coercing you to do anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:41 PM
1

And? A bunch of Mormons live here. That’s useless advice. You tell Mormons to meet at a Mormon temple. Where do you meet men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:41 PM
3

Most women I know haven’t slept with more than like 3-4 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:40 PM
3

Yeah but if I just save sex for commitment I will avoid a lot of drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:39 PM
1

Where? I don’t meet any and am just as socially awkward as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:38 PM
3

Because it’s not a power struggle. If you want to have sex on the first date, then just find women who share those values. But also don’t complain that they are “western slurs” or are too easy or that you simply cannot find a woman who is worthwhile for a serious relationship. Likewise, a woman who is saving sex for commitment shouldn’t complain that she had filtered out so many men and only has a one or two that like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:38 PM
4

But if you do think she is damaged and that her saving sex for commitment is not worth it, why even date her in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:35 PM
1

Waiting to have sex isn’t using you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:34 PM
3

It’s not a game though. It’s a filter. It’s common sense too. If you don’t want to be used by men who just want sex, then wait to have sex. The ones who just want sex will leave (hence, they are not being manipulated) and the ones who do want a relationship will wait (hence, they are also not manipulated). You aren’t making a guy act against his well or taking advantage of him or trying to manipulate him. You’re just filtering out the ones who aren’t compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:33 PM
4

I don’t see even 31 year old men who are eager to marry. Or even ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:32 PM
4

Although you may not be able to help having sexual thoughts you can help not doing anything. Sexual desire isn’t that strong. You can still refrain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:31 PM
1

Ignoring your gut though is different from not being resentful. Also waiting to have commitment isn’t using someone if you mutually like each other and are committed to each other. It’s not a manipulation tactic but a filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:30 PM
6

I agree. If you’re upset that I am waiting to have sex, there’s the door lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:19 PM
4

I’m a 24 year old woman who is fertile and cute but no one seems interested in marriage. Where is the 24 year old man who makes good money and is eager to marry me and make the sacrifices that are involved in marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:18 PM
-1

No it’s a discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:16 PM
3

Yeah I guess that the men lamenting sluts don’t want a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:16 PM
8

This is purple pill DEBATE where we debate people’s ideas and views. I am debating the view that many men insist that waiting to have sex after being promiscuous in the past means that you are using men. No you’re not. You’re opening your eyes. The easiest way to ensure a guy is serious about you is to wait for commitment before sex. And I agree that if you aren’t compatible, then you aren’t compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:09 PM
1

I meant that there are only 42 women like me....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:07 PM
1

Only 42 people in the USA have my demographics! Wow! I am an elite!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 08:13 PM
67

I don’t see women boasting about how a dildo can replace a man while I constantly see men talking about how sex dolls are superior to women and how they will replace us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 08:02 PM
5

They aren’t. Millennial men make less money than millennial women and get less college degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 08:00 PM
1

Anything sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 03:40 PM
3

Get over yourself. I used to be fat. I don’t get all raging and resentful that a man didn’t like my fat self when I talk to men. Furthermore, when I don’t wear makeup, do my hair, and wear oversized sweats I look like a shitty Middle Aged woman. When I put makeup on, do my hair, and wear nice clothes I become attractive. Do I rage and rove about how men don’t like me when I don’t doll myself up? No. I don’t. Now you know how women feel. That men secretly hate us without our hair and makeup done.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 01:54 AM
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Remember ladies: every time a guy hugs and kisses and squeezes you and caresses you like you’re the only woman he wants, he isn’t thinking about love. He’s thinking about trees. Men don’t love women as much as women love men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 01:51 AM
2

Oh good lord you’re antsy and bitter about a woman from 40 years ago. Men are so entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 01:49 AM
1

And what if we don’t know how to get off? are you willing to experiment or do you consider it a huge burden?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 01:39 AM
1

Her: “KISS ME HARD RIGHT NOW!!!” You: “That was a little entitled and demanding. I refuse” walks away
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 01:36 AM
2

Idk why you got downvotes. what you said is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 08:23 PM
3

I’m 24 and I am single and never really had a relationship before (or had sex). I am average looking, slightly chubby (inb4 I get called obese), and I am very conservative. I don’t pursue men, have no interest in online dating, and only want to date for marriage, not for sex or for fun. Someone like me is a hell of a lot more likely to end up alone. The “slutty” girl has plenty of options to choose from and has tons of men adoring her. EVEN AT 30. Someone like me gets only one guy every year or …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 05:59 PM
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