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reminds me of apartment searching and job searching. You can be a scumbag landlord and still act picky about tenants and charge north of 700 a month with a sky high deposit for a shack that'd embarrass anyone taking a mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:54 AM
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It is harmful to women it's just not misogyny it's a kink being misapplied also I'm blue pill because I'm "not red pill" not because I believe in magic and fairies and personality detectors
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:25 PM
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That's fucked I agree but that's not "misogyny" or an effect of porn addiction it's pop culture teaching you bad habits that's not "i watched porn and it convinced me I need to enslave a woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 03:40 AM
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It's a debate thread we're not raising our hands to ask for permission before speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:52 PM
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If an industry (such as porn and sex work) is known for kidnapping and forcing women and girls to preform sexual acts they don't want to even be part in, they do want to be part in it thats why they sign the contract. I work my ass off and they make more than I do. seems like mia khalifa is doing alright, she only started crying after she retired when she could afford herself a nice house. and is known for promoting and normalizing degenerate fetishes such as incest, abuse, and pedophilia it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:05 AM
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i know right it's stupid as hell to say that only "lonely men" watch porn. Married men pay for onlyfans. Women watch porn too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:02 AM
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what why the fuck would you say that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:01 AM
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Apparently hookers have the accountability of toddlers and cant consent. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:00 AM
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Not really no it causes porn addiction, maybe draining body fluids, but thats about it. Nobody looks at a tit and concludes "the person this organ is attached to must be evil." or "i need to rape a woman in real life and it'll be just like my pornhub videos."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:58 AM
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Exactly. The men using it are blamed by their wives. (and nobody asks why i'd want to watch porn in the first place if Tinder didn't treat me as sloppily as indeed.com.) In every case though, the man is never the one who needs help, he's framed as the perpetrator of harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:57 AM
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im ok with porn and id like to legalize prostitution. i dont get pussy anyway id like to at least have some jerk off material if i cant get the real thing. im all for legalizing porn (except child porn or trafficking victim porn) and the purchase of prostitution services in all 50 states and all 201 UN recognized countries and territories. Free the johns!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:54 AM
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Online applications are the only way most people meet up nowadays though. There's no "Tinder but not for hookups". It's like "apply for jobs but not on indeed or linkedin or ziprecruiter".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:48 PM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:47 PM
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Instructions unclear. I'm still stuck at the stage where women process me like HR recruiters on LinkedIn. I see thousands of open positions, I apply to hundreds, but none of them asked me what I want yet because they all ghosted me. Still waiting on that woman who will ask me what I want before swiping left on my Tinder profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:08 AM
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who get divorced are re-married Wow! I'm going to grant you another pass at reading comprehension this time, so drop your sudden interest in my family tree before I file a restraining order, and answer the question properly: employees find it easy to switch careers, and homeowners find it easy to change homes. That's cool and all but how come indeed.com and linkedin recruiters are listing thousands of new jobs if they aren't hiring new entry level graduates aged 18-25? (If you can't figure out w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:45 AM
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No, not both. Grandpa who got married in 1975 and hasn't gotten his last stroke yet is taking up a statistical parking space. You don't get to count him and his wife with dementia as evidence that most men born after 2000 are about to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 09:53 AM
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I'm frightened of USCIS and ICE and the "Good Moral Character" provisions of the Immigration and Nationality Act.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:24 AM
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yet most men still get married these days. Get, or have gotten married?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:21 AM
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The idea is that in dating apps, the only thing you have to go off is looks. That's literally it. and that thing called a bio and that other thing called a chat where you ask them about their personality. which I'm guessing means you just confessed that you use the apps like you're not literate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:20 AM
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I just think you're very silly if you think someone's primary thought process during a conversation irl is "How do they compare to some person I'd hypothetically match on Hinge?" I go to lowe's and compare the prices to amazon I go to a gas station and compare the pizza prices to little caesar's
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:19 AM
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You'd have already broken ice, chicken and egg
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:16 AM
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if indeed.com job listings are fake, how come unemployment isn't 100%? If HR recruiters don't recruit, how come they were recruited?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:15 AM
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There isn't even a requirement of unexceptional intelligence to getting laid. I heard some rural white guy confess that he was a drunk 18 year old who probably struggled with high school that pulled married women at bars in the 80s. It was not hard for me to imagine what would happen to me if I tried to repeat his experiment 40 years later, even if I had gone to the same bars he went. This guy clearly had issues, and still got laid after pulling down enough booze. I'm a teetotaler and a stem mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:11 PM
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Male feminists usually turn out to be freaks and sex offenders. So yes, men who badthink women usually are male feminists and do act like sycophants towards the very type of women they find repulsive or whose agency they deny. I met a Calvinist who was extremely uptight but had to pretend he supported onlyfans girls and all sorts of female degenerate behavior because it enabled him to virtue signal. Put him in a room with an actual woman among you and he'd find a way to control and criticize you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:10 PM
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There isn't even a requirement of unexceptional social skills to getting laid. I heard some rural white guy confess that he was a drunk 18 year old who probably struggled with high school that pulled married women at bars in the 80s. It was not hard for me to imagine what would happen to me if I tried to repeat his experiment 40 years later, even if I had gone to the same bars he went. This guy clearly had issues, and still got laid after pulling down enough booze. I'm a teetotaler and a stem ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:07 PM
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Chicken and egg. It's just like a job search.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:34 PM
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Everyone gets married. Even Bob (if you know, you know). That doesn't mean what you think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 06:46 AM
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So why then are they offended if the women they are dating will not sleep with them fast (will not hook up with them), or tells them that she wouldn't of hooked up with them? let me ask my oofy doofy gen X friends at church once i let them know their (ex-)wives arent attracted to them enough to fuck them and get back to you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:38 AM
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Improvement can't make you tall. Improvement can't make me white.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:55 PM
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I'm more concerned about being falsely accused of rape and deported or held in an ICE detention center so tomato tomato. Dating is Russian roulette for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:44 PM
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Women with character and empathy and love in their hearts tend to be off the market quickly, and stay off the market. but who is taking em off the market ? Lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:15 AM
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That doesn't explain why they aren't with 0/10 tier women or why they're popular. It was not RNG.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:14 AM
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No that would be one of the following: gay incel neckbeard loser faggot manlet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:10 AM
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I ain't surprised. I wish they were honest about it more often. Which isn't the case as often as id like. They come up with moralistic excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:08 AM
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Now that's unusual I gotta admit why did you say this answer
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:12 PM
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I'm born there and I fled like the plague even knowing I'll never have sex anywhere I go. I didn't go to the United States to get a girlfriend. Even at the bottom of the totem pole in the United States as a brown man in the deep south, I am better off than "middle class" in Morocco. Some people are fond of Morocco, most people are patriotic about it, love waving the flag, students like me who leave wanna come back and say they're homesick. I was sick of home. I was never going to get laid in mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:34 PM
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In Morocco? No. You fuck outside of marriage? Article 490 of the penal code hits you with jail time. You "act indecent" by their Muslim conservative standards? Jail time. You're a male who gets sexually assaulted? That's an "unnatural act" and "immoral", jail time for you. Even female s.a. victims get convicted depending on the judge's mood. Children ain't protected from their parents either. None of this stops hookups, drinking boozing whoring and fucking, but yes. If you were Moroccan in Moroc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 11:25 PM
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Relationship skills is a catch-all meaningless term that is used to move the goalposts because it's a form of blooper mysticism. The oofy doofy "happy bloopy" always claims to know something you don't about his "skills" when you point out that you're a well adjusted male who can't find a girlfriend. There is no such thing as "relationship skills" that uniquely come from getting laid. Without looks, money and status, there's hardly anything particularly impressive about the vast majority of sexua…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:33 PM
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If you somehow finished high school and still haven't figured this out, you must be trolling. I don't believe you actually need a source for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:26 PM
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you haven't answered. Evil male oppressors love to play the victim. In feminist framework, all rapists are men or you believe maybe 0.001% of women are rape/SA perpetrators or depending on how radfem you are, you believe it's only troons posing as women who are misrepresented as female rapists in the stats. Universal knowledge: abusers (as in DV) love to project and accuse their victims. QED: Patriarchy men should be projecting onto women accusing them of raping men because all or almost all per…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:20 AM
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Is the patriarchy with us in the room? I thought the evil male oppressors love to play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:05 AM
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The same reason you get a gf by not thinking about it. Which is why I expect to become a billionaire by ignoring my finances and taking payday loans!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:06 PM
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It doesn't. Op is wrong. It's a filter, not a magnet. It doesn't add options. It narrows them down. Taylor Swift isn't going to be impressed that you gaslit yourself a woman's appearance has no effect on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:04 PM
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This may sound strange but yes you kinda can't not have a mindset about how you interact with people like uhhh that's like saying you don't have to use grammar to combine words in a sentence or saying you can work without a method. That is suicidal advice and whoever isn't using a "mindset" is not going to attract anyone let alone a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:01 PM
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Disagreeing. You can't "brainwash" a straight woman into gooning to lesbian porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 05:18 AM
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Well yeah an economy where fewer women participate in labor markets is actually a more stable and prosperous one because it'd mean women are easily landing on hubbies who bankroll them to stay home and they're finding their so called "providers". Barring DV situations that's actually evidence women are thriving not the opposite. In countries like Morocco where I'm from, it's more conservative than any U.S. state but we've never had a stay at home wife trend because middle class families were nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:57 PM
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Ma'am congrats you just reinvented the logic of conservative Christians in the 90s opening gay conversion camps!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:02 AM
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"Really good people don't demand a reward" is what someone says when they want gimmes. It's what I'd say if I wanted to guilt trip someone into giving me free pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:59 AM
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it is satire thank you for noticing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/26 04:24 AM
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ok check my flair
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:37 PM
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or a man respects econ 101 incentives and understands that showing excessive favor to someone who doesn't reciprocate or respect you is suicide. Sex is not the only kind of incentive there is, but it is one. Anyone who struggles with that notion belongs a remedial class or two behind the so-called manchildren.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:19 AM
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Your standard for normal people doesn't exist. Nobody is normal by that standard. And thank God for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:53 PM
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damn bro female therapists are really open minded when it comes to giving men advice! If more women go to therapy than men that means women must be even more open minded about their standards!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:41 AM
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He's not lying dude I went to the us on a student visa. Travel is easier from USA to Morocco than Morocco to USA. He ain't wrong. Looking up the exchange rate takes seconds. Some passports are keys, others are chains. Mine is a chain. Hardest part is maybe learning the language if you care about that and actually integrating with the locals of your destination but that's not a legal or logistical barrier. I'm born in one of the countries westerners go to pick up girls. When you're already born t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:02 AM
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They arent. Only a third of them are vs. two thirds of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:56 PM
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Well yeah because being a single mom and a single dad are very different things. It's easy to be a single mom but hard to be a good one. Being a single dad means you took on a responsibility you could've fles from and so the floor is higher cause it's a self selected category.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:53 PM
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Damn bro who they marrying?? Is there a hidden trend of gay widowers?? Was the obergefell ruling lobbied for by rich white men who wanted to marry one another for inheritance after their wives died??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:50 PM
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because according to another redditor who used to post here, if you don't believe in "gaaaaame" as a solution to get laid and you think pua are a scam and "holding frame" like rich cooper doesnt work then you are blue pill because "everyone who's not TRP is blue pill". so that makes me blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:30 AM
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red pillers invented religions. thank god blue pill invented the scientific method which is how we proved the patriarchy is a social construct because charles darwin or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:07 AM
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Even george floyd?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:06 AM
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They aren't men. They don't have to learn how men date. They don't have to be men. They only see the finished product, not the process. I didn't see the bullying, I was bullied by girls. Women don't tell you this shit because they don't think it's their problem. Unless (1) she trusts you and she deserves your trust or (2) she really, really cares about getting it right for your sake: The feminine communication style isn't about telling you the truth (unless the goal is to hurt you with it), it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:20 AM
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I ain't thinking about novelty I'm thinking about security and about the work I do every day. Even if it ain't important I like to delude myself otherwise. Unfortunately not currently employed but I can tell you there are few dopamine hits I've ever felt that were as good as seeing the dailypay app balance go up!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 12:20 AM
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The first dude she banged is still being compared to dudes she saw and didn't bang. You can't know her true N count like some kind of CSI forensic mastermind. Low n count women will still behave like porn addicts if they want to, expecting you to live up to the porn star physique. And some of em especially the Muslim ones think they drip gold and are entitled to a lottery prize for keeping it like it makes em real important. They believe keeping it in their legs is a cheat code that should spawn…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:49 PM
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You can't. You can know if you're her good enough by whether she respects you. Nobody knows if they're her best ever. The best ever guy doesn't know either. Sometimes you'll get cheated on by a dude who is worse than you in every way. Even the first dude she bangs might get compared to her friend's dude or the dude she saw in a magazine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:39 PM
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I concur as a man I in fact can't get any type of women whatsoever which is why I don't throw stones. Because I live in a glass house. High n women are at least doing other men a public service which is why I bid them best of luck ladies. 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:33 PM
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My n count is still 0 and now I've had more jobs than n counts. 😎 Being employedcel is actually great compared to being a NEETcel!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:21 PM
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Well usually they don't phrase it as directly as males do when males approach women but it happens more than you think it just isn't like a comic strip where woman asks and man says "no". But you're right that it isn't near as common as women rejecting men for structural reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 11:20 PM
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what i meant is: why do you think so many regular women clap and enthusiastically repeat trans slogans that make no sense? how come their male counterparts don't? you're ignoring something here. how come most people with my stance on transgenderism are male? we know the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 10:38 PM
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yep i agree. i'm not pua, i'm more like dark blue (as in blue mixed with black, not "edgelord blue") pilled. i generally agree with blackpill over bluepill but i've read the nuancepill substack and it made me more skeptical of some blackpill claims on how women are much more sexually active than men or have much higher partner counts overall. I've seen religious men, 30s-40s, who (as a blackpiller man) honestly looked goofy confessing here in this usa city where i temporarily live that they had …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:08 PM
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I am actually not old at all i am aged 23 and stumbled upon manosphere at 15 i was introduced to incel spaces at age 16 going on 17 but i felt like AFC was the most accessible term. i would also call those men oofy doofies. however i am not throwing stones as i belong to that category myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:23 PM
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I agree but I was referring to: you could pretty much assume the kids would have it better than you did which was not the case. What I mean is: what you call "generations" is actually the exception not the norm of human history. Most people had kids in squalor because squalor is all there was for most of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 07:33 AM
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for generations hold up how many generations are we talking? three of them? four? because that was not the case in the middle ages nobody in 1725 thought the world would be much different in 2025 than 1725
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:29 AM
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thats because they dont want average frustrated chumps. they're not sad and lonely. they have hookups if they need dick and besties if they need a hug. you are coping hard here by pretending that they are in the same situation as the average guy who copes with manosphere youtube or rumble videos. they aren't "failing". you failed to get what you want but that doesn't mean they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:21 AM
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I stand corrected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 01:43 AM
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Pretty much! Women, considering how much progressive women emphasize that they are under mortal existential threat on a constant basis and that every police department is out to criminally persecute them, paradoxically seem to have very little concern for the Second Amendment or the Fourth Amendment in U.S. culture wars. Most of them don't really care about fiscal issues either, and would call you funny names for bringing them up. Men ignore their own threats, women overplay threats that don't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:00 AM
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She's lesbian. She can't even not be 4b. It's not an ideological choice. It's more like, she finds dicks repulsive by nature. The mistake that some 4B (not specifically OP who seems to be aware of what I'm saying) make is: thinking that straight women will stop being straight if they agree with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:53 PM
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she's a lesbian, she doesn't need to worry about that question. she does have to worry about being the incel though. The way she wrote this post? Sounds like the tone of someone who's already dealing with isolation, being unpopular, and isn't a stranger to rejection. Possibly neurodivergent. This ain't Stacy. Lesbianism isn't wine and roses, based on what I've been told by lesbians before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:50 PM
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Nah, nah, her view is of women: me and my besties always tell the truth, especially when it's against a man! And we'd never perpetrate sexual assault!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:49 PM
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Whoa there! They don't just "lie about their sex", they believe they are the opposite sex and even subject themselves to surgeries to "prove" it. That's not (necessarily) sexism, that's a combination of sexual fetishes and mental illnesses and last but not least, fear of castigation and social ostracization by peers who fanatically regurgitate fallacies. It ain't andrew tate who tells people to transition. I don't struggle to understand how this happens to people; we can see how the process work…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:43 PM
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I will presume you are American, or focusing on the American culture war. If [the gender war] doesn't [involve misogyny], why would [some U.S. states] make it illegal for women to abort with no exceptions? There is no such U.S. jurisdiction to the best of my knowledge. However, your implication is: anti abortion laws is just da menz herding women!! handmaid's tale bro!! Ma'am have you ever met a pro-life woman? Did you know some of them are in this thing called the US senate or even state legisl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:38 PM
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all insults are meant to offend the target so thats not a real excuse. that's like saying you hate guns and think it's wrong to carry a gun but you used one just now just to injure someone. yeah, no shit. If you forbade something, you're promising you won't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 04:44 AM
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Well it definitely doesn't sound like she performed a statistical survey or even arithmetic division to get that 95% figure could just be that she seeks out those people. Young lesbians exist and they don't suddenly disappear to make way for "divorce lesbians" at a certain age cutoff so I suspect it's much lower than she claims cause I know I saw lesbians who were never straight for a day in their lives not at 15 not at 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:16 PM
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bloopers and libs will say they love LGHDTV minorities and invent sexualities that sound like ice cream flavors but then their favorite insults for a man are all about conservative machismo stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:12 PM
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Alright then wish you the best hope you keep going to the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:35 PM
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Because you aren't miserable inside and overcompensating for a failed life. You have to be a hollow and miserable person to be a graying boomer and maybe halfway to dementia if you spend your time mocking zoomers online for having better reading comprehension and pattern recognition than you while you act "successful" because you coasted on tutorial mode at their age with safety nets they don't have, and you still managed to screw your life up even on easy mode. Same mindset as Facebook boomers.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:59 AM
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That's not about physical strength it's about personality we got men who think and talk like women and have the same female conformity instinct or end up male feminist sneaky-fuckers (actual evo psych scientific term) and neurodivergent women who tell you in no uncertain words to fuck off. If you think men are the way they are because we have less to fear and because we're safer from retaliation you still got the read backwards. Women aren't scared at all of men when they say the 'choose the bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:52 AM
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The point is to understand them, let them understand you, set the terms of engagement, see if there's shared ground. Arguments aren't physical fights.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 12:50 AM
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the same psychology as a cheater who didnt circle back: You didn't matter to her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:30 AM
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You kinda skipped the part where bro says I totally think it's within every person's right to deny sexual acts or romantic gesture of any kind regardless of history.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:28 AM
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ma'am the dudes in this sub aren't struggling to keep a woman i would know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:45 AM
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Men used to be the center of the universe? Fucking assholes never gave me the memo. Why did nobody invite me to the good old days when moms couldn't sexually abuse their sons?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:14 AM
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they are about mental health awareness. They want to be aware of your mental issues so that they can avoid or socially curb stomp you for having them. I met a girl at college once who used to talk a lot about mental health and 'trauma responses'. I treated that shit like a phishing campaign hell no I fuckin knew that was a setup some creepy shit going on there. Women's social games take no prisoners that shit is as cut-throat as genghis khan but without bodies dropping. What they never told me w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:04 AM
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of course! The NSDAP's platform was all about getting laid! We all saw read in our textbooks that the holocaust was about killing and hunting down stacies for having sex with chad! Six million blonde and blue eyed stacies were splattered and gassed! In Nuremberg, all the SS commanders used "just needed sex" as their defense! German women played no part in it and didn't like it. It's just some online grifter girls and Republicans from some other republic across an ocean who fell for it, but ask a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:48 PM
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taught it's not an education problem at this point, you aren't gonna fix this by adding a new class to public schools or dragging tiktok gen alpha kids to a church if they don't want to live the church ways. also here's a david hoffman video about the 50s family you probably dream of, less manosphere/gender themed but you might be interested. only 10 minutes. you bought into a cope that only exists between commercial breaks. Being a parent is important but we're talking about sexual attraction h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:31 PM
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these "opinions" are always oddly motivated and always happen to follow the same refrain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:26 PM
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As a straight woman, I genuinely believe the majority of straight women frequently lie to themselves about what they like, and many of them will settle and begrudgingly adopt the identity of ugly man-lovers (even if they don't pretend to love ugly men, they will say they really appreciate 'humor'/'stability'/having anything in common at all), knowing that realistically speaking, they have no chance at a male they would actually be attracted to. Women in general have to make a lot of compromises …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:20 PM
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Thank god women werent involved. Women clearly were only a minor factor if at all in the rise of the NSDAP to power during the german élections and were not at all involved in enforcing its decrees and atrocities! Every German knows the refrain: "my son is a Hitler youth, but my daughter went to rebel and throw molotovs!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:28 PM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:26 PM
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They can and do support wars. That is what I've been saying. If you tell me otherwise, you've never met a woman or you're making shit up in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:24 PM
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I know what housework is. I also know radfems like apresonly on this subreddit have argued that wiping your own ass and making your own food to eat for yourself is housework that others should pay you for. Those are not the same notions and I know radfems guilt trip men for not paying them to shower. Some people think that it's my fault as a man that women have to shower so they won't smell like a swamp covered in boils and pus, and that's what I'm trying to distinguish here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:24 PM
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nah he was an incel, only incels cooperate with nazis because reddit says so, nazism is for incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:35 AM
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wars are started among men they arent. theyre started by heads of state who are usually democratically elected by majority female voters and women who support wars (white feather movement). anyway, women are extremely powerful and extremely strong and confident and revolutionary against power structures so i think they are much stronger than i am on the field and that's why we should send them to fight for israel's right to exist to protect more women in the middle east from le hamas or somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:20 AM
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most of the housework and emotional labour defined how?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:16 AM
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Thermodynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:15 AM
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There hasn’t been a draft in the US since the 1970s. then why is there a selective service system? let's abolish it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:15 AM
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yep, that's exactly how we all remember it happening in france and the netherlands. Those women called the nazis incels and rapists and collectively shamed them out of their countries with the pink hat parade before anything could go wrong. Thank god women would never bend over for real 1940s nazism, not the twitter discourse kind but the history book and concentration camp kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:10 AM
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yep, it's more feminist than western countries. I'd say india is about as feminist as sweden if not more so. i am not joking. you seem to think feminism sends GDP per capita through the stratosphere and that if india were truly "liberal" or "feminist" that it'd be Denmark.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:07 AM
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Truth is men love sluts. They're just lying about it. Sluts are the only ones who give most of us a chance. Sluts get most of the male attention. I would probably not have sex with one, but I know that men like them for a fact. I just happen to be a mstow, a virgin, because in my personal case I've been hit up or "flirted with" (since women obviously don't ask directly for sex unless you're chad) and never found the offer worthwhile. They don't tell you this but some men even compete for who can…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:59 AM
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No, it ain't about being graped or slut shamed. That's partial, and doesn't really address how men face similar pressures (like paternity fraud) or how being labeled the i-word can harm a man far more than a woman being labeled the s-word. It's about the whole different social game they're playing. They don't have "more to lose" (you said that backwards I believe), they can't lose the same way men do, but they have fewer ways to compete for the top because women by nature don't aim to "prove" th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:29 PM
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being used it's a choice they made. there are no victims if it was consensual. the women know what they're doing. the men know what they're doing. usually, the woman understands it better too. This post is proof of it. There's a reason women didn't need to invent their own TRP, manosphere, blackpill to understand males while I needed blackpill at age 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:28 PM
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Been applying it for 23 years. I got 3.5 billion women down for me folks cause I held frame!! They didn't say they rejected me so that means I already got them!! I'm winning!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:12 PM
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Women ain't terrified of men. They don't treat me like I'm the bear, even when they choose the bear. (I can tell the difference.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:51 PM
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Well yeah it ain't close cause what you said was a whole damn tethys ocean off the mark, that's how deep into cuckoo cuckoo you sound tryna convince me that murdering a whole category of people is just "hostages fighting back". Ma'am, you ain't the hostages, you're the fucking captors and their defense attorneys trying to convince the jury that the defendant can't just file for divorce or walk away like a human being, and you drag men into a prison with invisible bars. If the problem ain't obvio…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:40 PM
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an arranged marriage is kind of like being held captive tell me you never saw a real indian arranged marriage without saying it. but yeah you're right about one thing, we don't hold women accountable for their choices if the victim is male.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:01 PM
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I am sadly aware and it was even more common before forensics and still seems like a regular thing in india
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:11 PM
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Man I sure am glad women don't feel entitled to beat up and kill men for dissatisfying them in a relationship or something that would only happen to women under the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:24 PM
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No he just hopes you do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:22 PM
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The joke is "helping my besties kill their husbands for being peasants" because we all deserve to be treated like queens you have no sense of humor honey 💅💅💅💅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 08:20 PM
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Ok if he did claim that he would buy a wife in slavery then it'd be horrible and maybe i missed it in one of his videos, but that's a different topic from "i want a white girlfriend and i am indian but dont want indian gf". I do notice him saying that the "tradcon fantasy" used to be desirable in the past which did remind me of this but again he's referring to boomer america, not "buying wives".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:26 PM
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everything they told me as a kid about men's beauty standards was a crock of shit. grandmas are more popular than I ever was in my so-called prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:06 PM
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How the fuck did he say that where did he say that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:02 PM
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...right, because those are mutually exclusive. And then some women choose enslaving someone else to work for them. That's a choice the women he mentioned made. Ain't that something we "can logical say" [sic], as you so eloquently put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 12:12 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:16 AM
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Biology wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:15 AM
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well they also write "not here for hookups" i think we all know how that standard was really applied
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:45 PM
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they are more likely to own homes, earn less and are responsible for more consumer spending i have no idea what you mean, women outearn men in younger demographics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 03:23 AM
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Honestly he sounds like a feminist too because "men are responsible for how society and law works therefore women are toddlers exempt from responsibility and agency who shouldn't have to lift a finger" is also the sort of shit I've heard from radfems like apresonly and januaryphilosopher except they add a silent "and women are right anyway". This shit is why I ain't a feminist. Dude you replied to really thinks he can and should be responsible for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:04 PM
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men are allowed to have multiples wives in Islam btw. They like the guy. Did you know that some men have multiple girlfriends in the West? Blows my mind, man. Really. I heard they call it "polygamy" and get this: the women even want it! In women's favorite films like Titanic, they say things like, "I'd rather be his whore than your wife." Makes you think. Same things happen to women in muslim countries, even WORSE. Doubt it. Women aren't really seen as nearly "responsible" for their "sins" in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:30 PM
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Since when was male sexuality seen as bad and women good ? Women get shamed for their sexuality since... HUNDREDS OF YEARS? Men can talk about fucking 50 chicks and it's seemed as normal and masculine. No, men talking about fucking 50 chicks gets you flogging and hudud punishments in muslim countries for adultery and zinah and gets you shamed by your family if you live in Indonesia, Saudi Arabia, Malaysia, Pakistan or the Maldives (among others). In a normal Christian church where they actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:17 PM
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I agree, but it's a different kind of essentialism. The classic reductive kind of biological essentialism, you can at least prove it wrong or point out issues with it by bringing up easy examples (as apparently radfem and trans activists are both so good at it). the "socialization" bullshit though, hijacks the whole "all men are created equal" and universalist instincts of modern thinking. If a rightoid says "you are X because of your genetics as a Y", a statistics course could debunk that argum…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/25 09:13 PM
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the blank slate was always a Trojan horse. It was never about delusionally pretending everyone is born identical out of some Teletubbies fantasy of holding hands together. I would even go so far as to say it's more harmful than the reductive form of essentialism because the blank slate is much easier to believe and more insidious and corrosive if you internalize it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/25 06:12 PM
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I like how you had to signal this and had to let everyone know that you don't care about the topic, thank you for this extremely important message.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/25 10:57 PM
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What happens when the harm comes from a woman with leverage over the man or the male problem isn't getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 04:25 AM
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The average woman is a tax deficit. That is not misogynistic it is simply a true statement as far as the taxman is concerned. Women are a financial net negative in western welfare states. The deficit is only worse if you discount the "corporate daycare" jobs so many of them hold because those positions like "assistant head of HR at consulting for consultants inc" have bloated wages for what amounts to not much work. You won't find as many women in investment banking or HVAC maintenance and insta…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/25 08:02 PM
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I gotta go back to my character select screen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:48 PM
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i got more empathy from online autists including mostly males but also one woman who was an immigrant than from women i know in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:46 PM
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No because I don't use lines in the first place and I don't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:43 PM
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i would say im not pure blue pill either i didn't regress into a kindergarten "looks dont matter" or "everything is fine because i saw a couple at walmart" disney mindset, which seems to be the fallacy a lot of blue pillers have. if i were in the matrix (as in the literal movie scenario), i would take the red pill: i've lived long enough to know that denial is always worse in the long run than the truth no matter how bitter or politically offensive it might be. but the online red pill isn't the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:45 PM
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I don't think throwaway was talking about projecting like lying on your CV that you save dolphins and build quantum nuclear reactors but just changing habits and tryna provide something others want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:50 PM
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yes it helped me make peace with my losing position and accept that some people are living it up. I do not expect to ever be one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:56 AM
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theres a video on youtube of an 84 year old grandma who cleaned up on tinder, im 23 in my "prime" years and i get 0 women. If older women like her are "victims" of social punishment, then that makes me a guantanamo detainee who's being denied basic constitutional rights because clearly whatever the fuck problem she must have, i got the terminal metastasized version of it while she's got the rookie version. My obese 60 year old abusive npd double chinned muslim moroccan mom with the IQ of a brick…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:49 AM
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it aint coercive though. You can always abstain from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:59 PM
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Patriarchy you're gonna have to name someone in particular cause nobody taught me that in morocco they just told me that im fuckin responsible for my 43 year old mom spazzing out and hitting me when i was 6 years old i didnt learn that i led anybody To me personally, all the things you said are useless. yeah ok you proved my point thanks for confirming it though. I should read umineko jesus christ
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:25 PM
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It ain't that i love hierarchies and want to "feel" above women so much as that i just pull none in the first place. "Better" also obscures a lot of differences like the fact that I don't value being 6'2 tall yet women obviously want me to have a height that starts with the number 6 so for me. their idea of what's "good" isn't like mine. being tall doesn't make me "better" at the sort of things i wanna do, but women consider it "better" and it would make me more attractive than being 5'9 without…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:46 PM
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No, it's not. have you ever met a single mom with section 8 vouchers, snap ebt and unemployment benefits? That's the dream feminist SAHM. Married to uncle sam in an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 09:41 PM
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gives you confidence through comparing yourself to others who have to take those choices. This confidence in turn drives you to negotiate more sharply and to take initiative. the other party doesn't know your own preferences as well as you do. You can remind the other party they're replaceable and convince them you'll move somewhere else, making them more desperate if they think you can walk away first. If circumstances change, you can still fall back on those for survival like men in prison. ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:15 AM
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I thought most men were kind nice wonderful and good relationship material if I looked at Walmart and that it's only the ugly icky manosphere losers with bad personalities who believe in 80/20? Did the women here lie to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:36 AM
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Options youd never take are still bargaining chips for leverage with options you would take.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 12:35 AM
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i cant speak for everyone the one on the right kinda seems like someone i could hang out with and someone who seems like they welcome me in their space from the photo alone, doesnt look too overwhelming even if (when i look at this photo) i picture myself as a coworker wagie and i could be like "well hello there uh betty from accounting how have you been." the left is just... "yeah ok this is a thirst trap this aint for me"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:58 PM
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My bad, i misread your reply. I thought you believed i accused you of being "blue pill". Yes, you described the "normie blue pill" differently than I did. I was trying to complete your description by adding to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:34 PM
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You're not Blue pill you're pink pill what made you think I'm talking about you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:38 PM
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i like how women keep giving us advice on getting a second date when our problem is getting a first date
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:27 AM
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You are describing 'introjection'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:26 AM
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how can blue pill people define themselves? Same way everyone does: by what they what they believe about the questions that differentiate red/black/blue pill. What if you ask 10 different people and they say 10 different things? I would evaluate what each one of them said separately. If one of them said, "muscles" or "game", I would probably think they're red pill without knowing the online subreddit for TRP. they answered "shared morals, physical attraction, and effort"? Well, that leans blue p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 12:13 AM
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That's why I wouldn't ask them using the word 'blue pill', because they'd think it's a matrix reference. There's this thing called 'pattern recognition' and 'social tact' that helps humans translate concepts across social contexts to communicate ideas to different groups and compare them, it's pretty important in sociology. I'd ask them, 'hey, what do you think are the three most important things women are attracted to in a man?' All you've really said is that nobody describes things they think …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:59 PM
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ok so blue pill is people who have no concept of self and no identity, no beliefs about dating, about how human mating works, neutral on every topic? If I asked the average blue piller what are the top 3 things women prefer in order in a mate, how likely is she to answer "communism, long nails and pizza" as opposed to "kindness, confidence and generosity"? Should i roll the die and expect any 3 nouns in the english language, or do blue pillers actually reject red pill because they affirm somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:53 PM
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🫡 me too, i havent had piv sex since the bush administration. 🤝 solidarity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:50 PM
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There are a lot, and i mean a metric fuck ton, of American women who have sworn off men until abortion is legal again. holy SHIT, those american women are off their meds. Thank god that's a rounding error and most women continued to be sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:47 PM
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shes brain dead how the fuck can she choose to abort why is that considered the "default"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:47 PM
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I don't think I've ever heard this said by any significant number of blue pillers. They say it by contraposition. "Men who aren't successful with women are..." Yeah, once again, this is the kind of shit red pillers claim blue pillers say, but doesn't actually happen in reality. It is possible to acknowledge that women find tall men attractive without believing every man under 6' is doomed. What do blue pillers say about how "amoral things like height and social-skills are core factors of dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:45 PM
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thats pretty much it, the "normie" version of blue pill is: regurgitate what you're told, be as inoffensive as possible to the powers that be, drive out anyone who contradicts you, never engage with the topic critically and do NOT engage in pattern recognition
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:43 PM
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...and they're called that because they have certain things in common. You just disproved it yourself: if black pill is a separate pill and isn't blue pill either, then your definition doesn't hold. Blue pillers do believe something, and do make a claim. You're not silent, and you're not neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:40 PM
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I agree. A lot of the lessons we're taught by storybooks, movies, popular platitudes, etc. are never cruel in how they're directly worded at face value, but in what they imply or if you're willing to apply contraposition to them. I'm only bluepill because I don't believe in "game" and "holding frame" as solutions and if I tried those things, I'd be laughed out of the room with any women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:37 PM
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"Water doesn't exist," said the fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:35 PM
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Well that's a shame that their genes live on in under 6 ft women who aren't under the same selection pressure for height, intelligence, status and resources. Picture your mother, flip her into a man with the same face and height and imagine if she'd still be as successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:33 PM
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but what gets you a first
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:30 PM
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that's how they soften the phrase to avoid sounding completely insane but when they actually give advice or judge someone the mask comes off
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:29 PM
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Jack fucking shit, ma'am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 04:50 AM
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i havent cold approached a woman in approximately three years and my lifetime cold approach count is about 5
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 11:19 PM
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Because none of you give a rats ass about the hookers either. It's a smokescreen. The only 'kindness' you have for them is that you don't want them to be charged with prostitution as a crime, which isn't saying much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:49 PM
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I agree but could you show some cases of this taking place
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:48 PM
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Holy shit your comments are hilarious. You're showing the right attitude more people should have about concern trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:46 PM
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so one argument is that money is slavery and the other is prove that the invisible human trafficking unicorn under my bed doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:44 PM
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No no man it only counts if you would've chosen it in a perfect world where you hate infinite money and food and housing and everyone has perfect families and everyone is equal otherwise it's rape slavery and theft!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:41 PM
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The act is already so cheap that women fuck strangers they never met and they make this decision based on a tinder photo while lgbt women stack poly partners like legos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:16 AM
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There are those women! If there are less of them, the price goes up: welcome to econ 101. Lots of women who do onlyfans or stripping who’d become prostitutes if you simply made it safer for them to freely choose their job. Just stop deciding for them that they don’t want sex! Those dudes will be easier to find, trace and arrest when you can focus more specifically on hunting the right perpetrators against actual victims! You can’t make them disappear, but you’ll redirect all the time and funding…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:01 PM
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Yes! It shrinks the black market! It could increase demand, but it’d increase supply: the job can be regulated, safer, clients and sellers can show id, transactions can be recorded, sellers can unionize! The problem isn’t demand, it’s black market demand! The easier it is to sell sex legally, the better the legal supply and the harder it is for traffickers to compete: they can’t provide a better service and sell better than legal and unionized safe prostitutes and most johns also do not want tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:55 PM
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Would you like to hear about the iron law of drug prohibition and how it applies to the war on drugs? That’s what i’m referring to. You want safer beer for dinkers and safer bars? Don’t criminalize booze. You want less trafficking? Decriminalize prostitution. You want better safer more respectful johns? Don’t treat johns like criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:20 PM
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I don't think the criminalizing sex work crowd really g.a.f. about helping the prostitutes here, just spiting men. They're just screeching and angry that someone is willing to negotiate upfront and doesn't play games around sexuality and that someone didn't ask meee for myyyy opinion before having sex with someone somewhere. Shit, they consider it a threat if any woman that actually can satisfy a man in a relationship can compete with them. They just mastered the game of speaking in the language…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 06:03 PM
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I wish more ppd users understood black market economics (they haven't looked up prohibition era politics) and tried to study the topic in good faith before name dropping supply and demand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:59 PM
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Well, damn. I was hoping the ladies here were the brave and progressive ones challenging social norms and conventions to break gender roles and ready to get into a fist fight and set shit on fire to prove that men don't need to follow outdated roles, "daters of the world unite you have nothing to lose but your chains" type stuff. So much for "abolishing gender roles".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:42 AM
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There is no need as in you will not die if you do not have sex. cool so with need logic we shouldnt expect people to live in anything better than a concrete box with no windows and sleep on the floor because nobody needs a coffee table or a tv to survive! if you help a hungry person, you should only give them canned beans, water and stale bread because they don't need anything else to live! in fact, ban all sweet and junk foods from stores! let's only produce the bare minimum so that no one dies…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:58 PM
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there is no biological need to have sex there is. ask uhhh any biologist ever also yes the woman has leverage. she didnt need to bring a dollar to the negotiation. a blowjob is so easy i could do it without any education or training, i could give somebody one right now if the price is right! but a dollar is harder to get. if im choosing between touching an std-tested clean john with good money and freezing to death? $100 is $100, i'm down! i'll take blowjobs over getting conscripted for ukraine/…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:44 PM
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cool so why cant i reverse this cry of victimhood and say the sex workers and women have immense sexual leverage and power over men due to our biological needs and we're desperate to work and pay with real legal tender to get our needs met? you said it yourself: the supply is so small that according to market logic, the sellers control it all! looks to me like a lot of men are workin our asses off to keep women safe, loved and warm, not firing bullets at them. this whole victimhood thing aside, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 11:39 PM
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yes and if you lack the woman on your arm or you're a virgin adult, conversely it means you failed to get one in their eyes. there are dubious 4ch posts where some guy said he managed to get more women into him by wearing a fake wedding ring
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 11:45 PM
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because having woman (women) on your arms as a male is a status symbol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 06:00 PM
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My bad - you're right, it's not advice for yourself, it's a request for an answer from the male criticisms you get here. "Choose better" is simply that: choose better, when we've already seen the ladies choosing hotter but failing to also choose better. But that's exactly what you implied: you jumped from bad men, to filtering out unattractive men and somehow you frame preselection as the solution. QED: "Unattractive men are among the bad men I'm trying to filter out, and one solution is to alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:13 AM
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Ah yes. The venn diagram of "attractive men" and... "men who are already laying pipe in someone else." Ma'am, I believe you're better than a homewrecker since you asked for advice in this post. Take the beer goggles off, and you'll see that it's not a circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:58 AM
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Only seek out men you're attracted to. No, "feeling the spark" doesn't prove he's good for you, that's Disney bullshit (it just means you're tingly) but you are going to make yourself and others miserable if you seek out a man you can't even want to touch without making a chore out of it: you'll get a seven year itch, and a wasted marriage at most. Unless you're planning a divorce-rape heist, in which it's fair game to fleece an oofy-doofy if you're a sociopath. Have every difficult lifestyle co…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:24 AM
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women are unique in their taste in men who aren't you and me. there are more kinds of men who aren't you and me than there are kinds of men who are you and me. The kinds of men who aren't with any woman, however, well... we're all extremely unique: genetic diseases, autism, neurodivergence, trauma, ptsd, poverty... a wonderful anna karenina effect of human mating!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:05 AM
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chicken and egg
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:59 AM
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Hope those women also learn to take accountability for not vetting guys who won't wipe their asses if it's that important 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:57 AM
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My brother in christ, you've abused the words "above", "below" and "average" to the point of near unreadability. Here's a tighter second draft of your comment: "The complaint I see most often on this subreddit is that mid-bottom men notice how little leverage they wield in the dating market compared to their female counterparts, who find much more attractive partners than they do. Instead of railing at the injustice those men feel, they should stop aiming too high and seek women on their looks l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:46 AM
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I like how manosphere guys think you need "skill" to pull it off because they imagine themselves in the man-hoe's shoes. They really can't believe that for some guys, it just flows like water and that they didn't have to do anything for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:45 AM
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Hope you never transition into a man and get judged for your dick size, ma'am. Best of luck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:30 AM
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If you're calling my last paragraph cope, don't talk shit if you haven't been surrounded by 3 cops and frisked before you even knew what they were looking for, ma'am. I mean 'intimidated' in the same ironic sense as OP, but police profiling is a real male problem I dealt with that isn't about you and your friends' bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:32 AM
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it means i make them swipe left it means they call 911 before i've done shit because i made a suburban white mom feel "unsafe" by walking in winter clothes to a therapy office in summer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:43 AM
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i thought alaska was a sausage fest
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:06 AM
4

Cant wait to get a gf so i can move into her house :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:04 AM
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im not intimidated by strong independent women unless they use their strength the way my narcissistic abusive cunt mother did and their independence is code for "rejecting your opinion on every decision", "making you do all the effort of maintaining the bond" and "judging everything you do that isn't about them". I do "intimidate" women though by being less than 5'10, not being white and not being wealthy and by being neurodivergent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:59 PM
1

i'm more intimidating than an afghan warlord around women when they find out how low my income is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:57 PM
3

sounds like i should open a divorce law firm across the street from where you work. those guys must have a lotta money to pay up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:56 PM
1

...well, democracy would work a whole lot better if that future ever comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:06 AM
1

(not productive, not a societal need, only recreational) You decide what a need is for the rest of us? If men could also get hookups as easily as you could off of Tinder, that'd instantly solve prostitution for you: we'd all be getting laid for free on demand. You get to "recreation" it up for you cause it's easy to do it for free, but turn into a no-fun hardass when someone else wants to buy what you can order faster than pizza? Do you also happen to be a Catholic saving her virginity for marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:28 AM
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Are you an Ancap, or a communist? Every job consists of buying labor provided by someone else's effort for a limited period of time. This high minded talk about buying and selling people ignores that women are adults who can consent to sex for any reason, no reason or even just for an apple. Free to reject sex for any reason, means responsible for whatever you accepted. You calling it slavery is a goddamn insult to people who are born into slavery and forced to be owned and dragged around for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:02 PM
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They ain't into you is what it means. They ain't into me either. I'm not religious, but I hope you'll get what I mean: most of us men ain't desirable enough to get laid without putting our souls on collateral, not just our bodies. Chad can put up less and get more. You ain't in demand, you don't make the rules. I don't mind having to give something to get something, but most of us aren't gonna get as good as we're expected to give. We're more like bob from Rich Cooper's podcast who got memed by …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:44 PM
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Because women believe that if you had to put in effort to be desirable, then your desirability's fake. You need to sell the "effortless charmer" aura even if it's completely delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:11 AM
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very often. unless you count uhh working on a novel with attractive characters
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:43 PM
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It might work. I'd like a girlfriend, but if i was sure id never get one or that it would come too late in life, i'd probably move in here. If I don't feel like I'm gonna make it on the outside, I'd probably move in. Can't miss out on what was never mine to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:13 AM
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That's a choice every man who ain't a born winner has to make. Natural selection doesn't bet on men like you, though, as often as it bets on popping out men who are ready to engage in all sorts of ridiculous and self-debasing rituals for a crumb of coochie. For what it's worth, the choice I made was similar to yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:09 AM
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That was the whole scam, yes. Masculinity is a performance. Women are not all that interested in a man who expresses himself in a style they don't approve of. Only difference now is they mask it behind, again, "love"/"care"/"safety" language: you're hurting and/or threatening someone vulnerable, you're at-risk, you're "creepy", you're selfish, you're "immature" and a "man-baby" if you don't chase after their ideal. And make no mistake: their "alpha male", the ideal we're discussing here that a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:54 PM
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You're much more well-read on history than I am, I won't lie. but here's my take: It's not sufficient, no. Nor is it an ultimate cause; it's a proximate one at most, and a symptom most of the time, and not something legislation has ever successfully reversed once it started - because it only starts once the commoner man and woman no longer can believe that following those rules will protect them or get them what they want, and like all social changes, this one comes from when whoever's in charge…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:27 PM
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Can you tell me whether the average heterosexual married American in Kansas, Mississippi or Oklahoma is in a marriage where the wife is the higher earner or even an equal earner? In fact, I'm born in Morocco, and trust me that nobody there in the middle class is wealthy enough to afford a stay-at-home wife. If someone puts a gun to my head and asks me to guess correctly for every married Moroccan couple which ones have a wife who earns more than the husband and which ones don't until I make my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:09 PM
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well the media or culture or what-have-you sure as shit hasnt engineered women to like men under 5'6" or men above the age of 70. I cant really think of a country or a tribe in africa where women cringe at tall guys or dominant guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:05 PM
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because you don't lead you need to just look as if you do (read: be the lightning rod when shit goes wrong) while also giving everyone else everything they want (you can't) thats the magic trick
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 11:02 PM
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pretty much. I am not a conservative, but i lean that way, and it definitely strips away the rose tinted glasses compared to progressivism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:28 PM
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Men disinterpret women's hostility as disinterest as hostility, and then conflate the two. I can handle disinterest but not hostility, and I can tell the difference. I never expected to be desired, but some other men, especially in the manosphere, can't tell the difference between a feminist campaigning for sex-segregated public transportation and public housing in the UK or a curfew for men, and not getting enough matches on Tinder as if that's the same thing or two facets of the same problem. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:41 PM
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Commie in the streets, tradcon in the sheets. The progressive girls wanna tax you and demand you play tea time with their progressive social rituals and 'kindness' with glitter and stickers like they're in a teletubbies utopia but then seek macho men like they're in Berserk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:33 AM
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All of this is perpetuating the stereotype that queer people are promiscuous which is extremely homophobic. No, just accurate empirically. What would actually piss off LGBT people is asking them if they value chastity like trad Christians and Muslims. LGBT people are much more promiscuous in general than heterosexuals. Hell, they celebrate it in queer media or journalism or whatever all the time. LGBT people, except for maybe the "T" who want to live in delulu, aren't really into the whole idea …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:26 AM
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They care. Their favorite insults for men are about body count. In the other direction, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:24 AM
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i believe it. i also believe women are not just as capable of racism but just as racist as men honestly and just as prejudiced in every other facet. they're just better at hiding it with word games. In this case, it's just disgust at dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 03:20 AM
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Women are already more sexual than me seeing how far they go to let strangers into their homes and how much they fuck compared to the past 23 years of my life. If they were more sexual than men as a whole, that wouldn't really move my needle very far in either direction. Id just make the best of the new opportunities, because they were already way more sexual than I ever got to be, and let's just say that they haven't been exactly the picture of noblesse oblige with the kind of influence their s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:02 PM
2

I hate democracy and conscription equally. Hell yeah. Abolish both.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:00 PM
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I thought the gold pill was supposed to make you speak in positive good vibes? This sounds like a femcel radfem pinkpill post. r/trufemcels or r/femaledatingstrategy material.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:57 PM
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I agree. The only moral way to acquire money is also to offer something the other person can refuse without threat in exchange for it, and to respect someone else's wishes if they refuse to give you whats theirs even if you're desperate for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:03 PM
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Since possibly half of the female dating profiles on earth list it as something they're looking for, do you think they're just all not in touch with themselves and it means nothing? Yes! Exactly that, nothing more and nothing less! They're bullshitting you, and they're not in touch with themselves, and even if they were, they wouldn't admit what's in themselves to someone like you on their profiles! They want confidence, but only from somebody who doesn't need confidence to attract them in the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:17 AM
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How do you know if it's real confidence? You only call it real confidence if it attracts a woman after the fact?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:21 AM
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Can you read my comment again, I explained that we know why confidence doesn't work and that we struggle with dating because we have experiences that prove confidence doesn't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:56 PM
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don't have a ton of life/dating experience. gee man wonder why the same person explaining that you can't just dance around random girls and act like you're gonna charm them with the moves at the club by acting "confident" is saying they struggle with dating, i guess we'll never know how they got that esoteric knowledge about what doesn't work in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:57 AM
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Holy shit! So that's why they created the "are we dating the same guy" group just for him that I saw on Facebook the other day!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:54 PM
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well that's just the same scam as rich cooper but painted pink where the girl's own flaws and emotional instability are handwaved but the same "GRIND MORE BRO, COMPETE, WIN" vicious cycle is the message they send
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:53 PM
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Instructions unclear, i'm 23 now and i haven't attracted women by "not trying". I'm waiting for the pussy fairy to airdrop me a harem any day now for all my cumulative years of "not trying". Question: will my harem look just like the anime girls I printed on my body pillow in mom's basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:50 PM
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Many are more motivated by seeing those from another demographic’s lives worse than seeing theirs improve. Flaw in the system. you could say so. I agree. Most people, even (or sometimes, especially) women are driven less by wanting to better themselves / their living standards and more by envy and darker emotions like wanting to flex, wanting to prove they are better than the neighbor or the outgroup and demanding to be mirrored. A lot of people don't just want to assert they're better, but to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:34 AM
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Damn. You should let all the other women who did the same thing without even asking for money at bars and on tinder know they're also suffering by having sex with a ton of people. It's so horrible, they're not even getting paid for their suffering!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 04:36 AM
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So, having sex is harmful? Good for the actors, I guess. The context is still fictional, and they portray fictional characters. They chose that as a way to get paid. If you can't tell fiction acted out by actors from reality, I guess every high school in Japan also has a 4:1 female to male gender ratio where every girl wants to fuck the transfer student. Feel free to rescue porn actors and actresses by paying for their livelihoods.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:59 AM
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I don't really believe that women are primed to be more artistic than men, but I do believe they aren't naturally submissive. If they were, I'd be able to issue orders to women like a drill sergeant superpower and clearly I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:43 PM
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biology is a slur on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:05 AM
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"Walk the fifties, talk the sixties."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:25 AM
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No it's not because women are libertarians who read rand and Rothbard whereas men are authoritarians or because women are "open minded" about sexuality. (ask the average woman how she feels about pornhub or legalizing prostitution.) it's just that the lesbians don't feel the paternity fear men have because they're not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:10 AM
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the same reason why we have such loving kind open minded compassionate female users on here who blame the victim of paternity fraud for leaving a kid that wasnt his. They say that it's wrong for him to leave his unfaithful wife if he already believed the fraud for a sufficiently long time in the kid's life for the same reason your lesbians say yes: because they're wonderfully open minded and want to hug everyone and love you all equally regardless of lifestyle!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:37 AM
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they arent flipped around, nobody is setting height filters on women and men arent softly controlling women's overton window.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 05:28 AM
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i dont hate to say it; i love to say it because it spares other people the gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:36 PM
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Yes, people in love can see their life situation with rose colored glasses. Can you blame them? yes because those rose colored glasses can inflict real harm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:35 PM
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ok so you mean someone who's coombrained and chasing an abuser or someone who just wants to use them as a warm body with rose tinted glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:05 AM
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by manipulated, do you mean someone who's being gaslit and falling for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:02 AM
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i only trust people who can speak clinically about things no matter how bleak they seem, who can slow down, shut up and admit when they're wrong. i wasn't always like that and i paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:52 AM
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well sometimes it don't take a "conversation" and "collaboration" to take action and solve a problem that belongs to you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:13 AM
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Who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:57 AM
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well you can always make up the difference with your wallet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:38 PM
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None of the men here are dominating or enslaving anyone Good, we agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:30 PM
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have fun ladies you're winning. When I need my cut for welfare from your taxes, you will have my gratitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:16 AM
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Every man decides what his own solution is. If you have a magic, gene-altering pill to offer, tell us where to find it. If you have a repressed desire to enslave others and dominate them, projecting it onto men isn't the solution we need.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:16 AM
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that's not up to you to decide, the post outlines differences in the experiences. if you were a man who wants your own harem of female slaves to whip and you refuse the pill, that'd make it a you problem. some men want kids, and some others think women are covered in magic unicorn sprinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:45 AM
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if i become single again then probably yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:24 AM
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no its just cause they think women are a better dating experience and theyre still desperate which is the opposite of misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:24 AM
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You must have some issues with reading comprehension bud. Wasn't talking about myself. Maybe you feel like that on days you're sad and moody but I've lived a long time without pussy and I ain't about to start debasing myself now. Some of us didn't need to get laid to have a concept of dignity. If the bargain sucks - I keep going my own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:14 PM
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My bad, you're right. I misread that part, was a little bit too opaque to register for me that you were talking about the desert water not the swamp.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:17 AM
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I have been saying this shit for a while. Men (as a whole) fucking love women so much that many of us would cheer for one that rips our faces off while she's doing it. Somehow, I'm not taken seriously enough. Then they go back to repeating that there's going to be an "incel rebellion" while their peers spend their life savings on onlyfans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:47 AM
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It's a good analogy because the man knows full well even if there's water in the swamp he likely doesn't have the equipment necessary to purify it thus not finding clean water rather trying to do an impossible task that if done wrong even barely right, they are sure to die regardless. Then you drink the oasis water and turns out it's full of sulfur and heavy metals. What then? You really fucking think oases are full of triple filtered ass Nestlé bottle water?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 04:46 AM
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Men sent their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:28 AM
1

It's mstow. Not a typo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:37 AM
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Nah, women understood women forever since they spend whole lives talking, writing and thinking about one another. Intellectual inquiry ain't new. A woman wrote the first novel (though it had satirical and fantastical elements) in japan, and it had female characters, where you think she got the knowledge for it from? It's the isolated dudes who had no clue. I ain't even saying i'm a genius or that I had it all figured out at first: I also used to be a kid who thought boobs were magical once. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:26 AM
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The fundamental problem is that women aren't reasonable about their grievances. Being concerned that there is a non-zero amount of rapists/molesters is fair. Lying about how you would choose the bear over a man is multiple layers of hateful. There are women on PPD who argued they would unironically seriously choose a bear over a random man. Yet they live in society. So, what is compelling women to tell such a blatant lie, and then they seemingly believe their own lie? Trying to answer that quest…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:04 AM
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No, they become the next afghanistan when a high status warlord takes over, and burns through a shitton of the male populace to exterminate his competition. You will pay in male blood for your afghanistan, just like the actual afghans did - and you will be twice as poor and miserable as when you started, and now the warlord has harems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:02 AM
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I was told by "compassionate" progressives who like to smear me and other men that the far right is so mean, ugly and disgusting that no woman would ever want to come within a mile of it. I should ask those women to explain to me what the progressives who came 80 years later meant by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:00 AM
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I think the vast majority of women struggle to understand and empathize with the perspective of loner men. This is probably a (justified) aversion to the incel/8chan culture, which has been discussed in the media extensively (probably due to its right-wing, MAGA affiliations). What needs to change is the generalization, as though every man in this situation behaved like that, which is far from true. It ain't about the media. It's about the fact that those guys just don't play tea time with statu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:50 AM
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I went to a tim tebow event once where he gave a speech in the past as i am not a fan of his but i was curious what he had to say even if i wasn't expecting anything revolutionary. and suddenly it looked like my college's gender ratio turned upside down overnight. I know that won't be happening for my future cs grad thesis. I am not angry about it, and I don't need a tim tebow audience anyways. but we all know why there will be a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:56 PM
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thoughts about my rejected by automod answer i tried to give op: sometimes the ladies just rather hit up another woman, either platonically or otherwise. they can get their fix elsewhere. when they come over to the man store, they got a menu waitin' for em and most of us are not at the top of it when we're all scrambling to get on it. That is not their 'fault'. You weren't given it, but that's nature's roll of the die, not women. We have to pick better parents next time. The reason women aint as…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:23 AM
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it's usually like "i think being insufferable makes me more intelligent and people dont like it therefore they must be irrationally afraid there's nothing wrong with me"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:17 AM
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I have never met a man who was intimidated by a successful woman or scared except for a few fringe cases. Those women usually just never showed up. Not bothered by high iq women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:01 AM
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It's amazing how so many users here pretend the gaslighting didn't happen for kids with no support system to ground them and yet those are the same people who will go back to continue lying in the next thread. Boomers were a blight on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:14 PM
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the friend zone is real but when a woman doesn't scream in bold 48 pt helvetica that she is into you... believe her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:51 AM
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not havin cramps urinals i dont worry about factoring in pregnancy when taking meds thats about it though the part about the meds is a fairly good advantage considering i do need meds
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:33 AM
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Not yet i plan to but i have low expectations as ive already seen what these academics put out and so far i havent been impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:07 AM
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i hope for the best but your son might have trouble expressing what he feels if he has asd try to be there for him instead of just "convincing" him of what you already feel you know about him like some parents do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:20 PM
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i have a much better solution: meet an incel and speak to him instead of some tax leeching clown in a suit getting paid thousands to do what you can do in one afternoon on a phone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:15 PM
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you seem to think socialism means that the poor have influence
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:13 PM
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Jamie, the 13yo murderer is NOT ugly at all. But he IS depressed, anxious, and vulnerable. And redpill content convinced him he was ugly, insufficient, and unwanted. it's fiction just like that lonely hot girl in a romantic comedy who needed an oofy doofy to show her the meaning of love i dont know if you get this but tv shows sponsored by the government are generally arranged in a way thats paint by numbers to ignore certain things and overplay others
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:07 PM
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it aint fear its just derision they see themselves as refined and civilized and us as animals if it was fear i never met someone who feared a mafia boss and shit talked him to his face that didnt expect to get their balls stapled. the girls here talk like theyre packing more biceps than dwayne johnson but really its that they know we dont even come close to the dominance and leverage an actual oppressor has over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:01 PM
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yea well feminists taught me i cant just make overly general statements and get away with it without being judged so this sounds like a skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:58 PM
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they want to introduce it themselves, you just build to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:53 PM
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he was upfront at least
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:51 PM
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Thats what im hoping they figure out honestly id rather they become femcels and spinsters or lesbians than keep going after dark triad psychos (including lesbian psychos which i doubt are less common than str8 male psychos.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:16 PM
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maybe the girls want a six foot tall guy who also has high moral character if they can find one im all for it just dont go for kanye west or chris brown (or will smith)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:12 PM
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i agree ladies jack up your standards and don't go for a guy with a felony, a tattoo and a baby mama who tries to control you and makes his exes cry about being emotionally unavailable or leaves a trail of single welfare recipients or trauma victims. im all for it. 6'9" tall or 5'0" tall knock yourselves out just dont go for tatted up guys who increase the taxpayer burden on the rest of us if you ever find brad pitt lookalikes who are decent members of society go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:06 PM
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I'll say I'll never forget the girl who slapped me in the face when i was in high school because I was Asian. wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:38 PM
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they aren't. they're aware of it and just dont want others (you) to know about it or to be able to say it without someone else screaming at you. i only call myself blue pill because i dont believe that theres some magical "game" cheat code you can learn that makes women fawn over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:37 PM
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you arent gonna get any useful advice on picking up girls out of women who arent invested in gettin it exactly right and studying the factors or at least not straight women as an ugly man theyll either say what they think they should be attracted by, or theyll perform mate suppression judo on you and give you intentionally shit advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:29 PM
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i mean yeah its much easier to get rejected when youre male for the same behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:53 PM
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op is like, "I applied this concept with no context or nuance. How come it doesn't work? Checkmate!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:44 AM
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I don't think men are willing to trade in their ability to be understood, taken seriously, and respected for more than their appearance and genitals in exchange for access to sex with an army of dubiously safe thirsty partners that will treat you more like a sex doll than a human being. i gotta call god's customer support he gave neither of those things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:08 AM
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she consented. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:07 AM
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its more like having a sense of self preservation and not surrounding yourself with a group that is designed to kick you while you're down
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:02 AM
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cope i could turn every woman on within 60 miles by acting horny around her if this was true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:58 AM
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Sexual victimization in childhood or adulthood is known to be associated with a broad range of negative short and long term consequences, such as psychopathology and revictimization (Dworkin et al., 2017). However, the majority of the extant literature focuses on, and implicitly assumes in its conceptualization and design, victimization dyads in which a female victim is sexually abused or assaulted by a male perpetrator (Denov, 2003). There is clear evidence that, although male perpetrators are …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 12:52 AM
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The same problem repeats with insert foreign fiat currency here and insert foreign fiscal monopoly here. I would prefer something like the "free association zones of america" where the people can simply tell the federal reserve (for example or really any central bank), "your currency sucks because you inflate it and now we have no respect for it so we won't use it. We don't respect the privileges you accord to corporations over individuals." While governments compete to an extent, it doesn't rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:06 PM
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the usd is used because you go to prison if you refuse to accept it in your business or pay taxes denominated in it. You are not free to decide what currency you use. It also loses value because some corporation (the government) has monopoly on printing endless amounts of it with no effort which devalues your purchasing power. The reason you have greater purchasing power than a congolese is because more capital,factories,tools,resources are available to you and the people around you than to thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:56 PM
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the other people who care are other people who care and put their effort into it instead of waiting for the government to extort them of their hard earned money. if you don't abdicate your responsibility, you don't need government because you can govern yourself. there is a reason why presidents are friends with billionaires (hint: no, it's not only republicans.) and it's not because one wants to protect you from the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:56 PM
1

because it protects their egos to pretend you are just being "autistic" or "lack common sense".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:55 PM
-1

Why the fuck are you waiting for the government instead of participating with other people who care, how is that less valid than just throwing it at some dmv fat cat and waiting for him to do the work for you? Do you believe that government is a supernatural club that gives you laser vision and magic powers to do things others cant?? The collective will of what people do you think it should represent? The collective will of you?? I want government to not get in the way of people wanting to help …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:50 PM
1

this is your brain on blank slate equalism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:53 AM
1

im sorry man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:52 AM
1

you wouldn't even make it as far as the bedroom lol good luck getting past the door of the house
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:50 AM
1

the dickpillers are right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:50 AM
9

we have to accept reality cause we pay the price for rejecting it and they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:49 AM
1

i want a woman whos not traditional but uh has a less "modern" body count thats about it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:45 AM
1

women are capable enough of gettin what they need when they need it without some "chivalry" from the government and safety nets don't require government when we want to help them anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:44 AM
1

well yeah the dems also want a "masculine" man have you heard all the feminists saying keanu reeves or peter dinklage or kpop guys are "positive masculinity"? There's a pattern here and it's not about lifting weights at the gym or just "confidence". all of those groups (dems, soviets, feminists) want "traditionally masculine" men as in workhorses who get shit done and don't complain and buy gifts for a nagging wife. There's a reason why you never hear of them celebrating a guy who isn't a millio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:39 AM
-1

yes liberals are about getting the government to force other people to take care of you and people you like and conservatives are about doing that too but for israel
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:37 AM
1

it's like how male feminists turn out to have funny business with children and the women they claim to defend; they're not peaceful, just waiting for a chance to pounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:36 AM
4

that falls between 2 and 3 but hes quoting a sitcom here its not trying to be a philosophical treatise
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:32 AM
2

you're her guy friend because she aint attracted to you lmao if she was into you, you'd both be calling it friends with benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:31 AM
1

not much you can do just live with it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:59 AM
2

no op it never changes we just get better at learning to hide it and couch it in moralistic language and saying it with our actions instead of our words. anyone who said otherwise is eager to dismiss a problem theyre not experiencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 07:00 AM
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Men are valued and praised for being promiscuous, and derided for not being so. they arent they get thrown in prison for sexual harassment or get called fuckboys and shamed et cetera
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:59 AM
3

Are you sure that's men here and not the men who get featured on r/niceguys or men who are male feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:45 AM
3

well yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:24 AM
1

Nah for the right price plenty of women willing to do this shit and honestly like i said, what are you even holdin em accountable for? Voluntary associations and consensual sex? You got a rose tinted view of women ma'am, have you ever seen hugh heffner photos or read about the history of any royal court?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:33 AM
1

No not really the american regime pretty much turned into a cousin of communist regimes and i believe nixon's debasing the dollar and reagan's debt bloating, etc have made it worse. What im trying to say is: socialism didnt really eliminate this stuff. people still had affairs, dated like assholes, backstabbed others to get promoted and all that even in the soviet union. socialists weren't wholesome village people so i have no idea why this is attributed to capitalism as opposed to just being hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:15 PM
1

Am i findable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:09 PM
2

To be fair socialism didn't really make people kinder and more compassionate, this is just true everywhere ask any romanian or czech who remembers the socialist regimes if the communist party treated them well in the short term or even the long term
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:07 PM
1

staying in one place bores the shit out of the average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:32 PM
1

distilled to its generalization: Desire is not negotiable. If you negotiated it, you ain't desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:28 PM
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dude they dont regret it lmao and dont see it as bad. the ones that do regret it (or regret not having access to that life anymore and want to have kids) are the born again virgin type that trap a man. they used what they had and made the best of it on their own terms, not yours or mine. you're projecting a value judgment onto the situation that they don't share at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:22 PM
1

Damn. got any reading material on this?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/24 06:30 PM
3

that was the goal of progressivism. it's "kind" and "loving" and "warm" for "everyone"... exceptions and restrictions apply. they are loving and kind - for the ideal representative of their favorite group, not for you. progressivism was always meant to rob peter to pay paulina. it's just that in 1900 AD (the progressive party for example), peter was a black man or whatever and paulina had to be white.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:47 PM
5

I know she is a pornstar but still at the end pf the day, she is still a human. As much as i want to hold her for accountability yet i truly feel bad for her. It's okay those 2 million bucks she made on OF last year will buy her enough tissues to wipe her tears
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:44 PM
3

Thats easy, those women find it gross but they gotta find some way to virtue signal about it and use it to attack men to gain social status. raise yourself up by dragging the other person down. blaming the woman is like "friendly fire" in a multiplayer video game for them. I personally find it gross but for what its worth, the men lived it up and she turned a profit. Everybody won, as long as i dont end up married to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:41 PM
6

Dude lmao ask a conservative how he feels about male abusers and he'd say i will punch him to death bro i will run him over with muh truck bro i will shoot him with my .50 BMG i will show him who's the MAN bro, its like all the machismo fantasies come out
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/24 01:59 AM
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Im gonna keep it real with you: i feel am completely socially powerless compared to the average woman my own age. i can throw a harder punch? wow what a useful ability to have i bet itll help me against gang members with knives. women bitch about being targeted for SA while im at the same risk of it, i dont have a billion dollar org and a shelter to help me out if it happens to me, and they swipe right on literal fucking strangers from hundreds of miles away to have sex with them or get shitface…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/24 03:38 PM
1

Well that's great it seems like they should not expect much adversity in their search for those things
/r/BlackPillScience10/10/24 03:51 PM
1

You know "data" is funny, there's data labs in china you can pay to generate data for your research paper to reach any conclusion and correlation you want if the price is right. but i wouldnt really say feminism is inquiry driven, i might agree with it on some things but thats more of a broken clock moment
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/24 09:42 AM
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i agree. mixed messages make things worse. build up a friendship first, don't be friends first make your intentions clear. the messages men get are designed to trip them up so they play the game and lose. but hoping for something more doesn't mean they ain't friends and don't care for her as a person. welcome to cognitive distortions. i know what the feminists said and i don't agree because i also know the thought process and it doesn't jive with me. ive been friends with women i was sexually at…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:30 PM
1

So you mean those friends who eventually reveal they've had sexual and romantic feelings from the start of the friendship even though they pretended to just see them as friends?? Those?? How crazy and unreasonable to feel cheated and think that this guy’s entire motive was to get in her pants ? Lol so it's not feminism. it's mind-readerism. it is unreasonable to think that was his entire motive. it is sane to feel disappointed that it didnt turn out the way you want. anyway yes he wanted to fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:21 PM
1

not really thats how feminists even talk about fictional female characters or how they talk about the concept of hitting on a woman, you hit on me therefore all you see in me is my genitals, ass and tits (not very related) but on a more related note thats how they denigrate male friends who might be attracted to em, you never truly cared for me you just wanted to fuck me, etc. women suffer from cognitive distortions and sling shit at others to assert dominance as often as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 11:48 AM
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do disabled people, geezers, children and guys who weigh 100 lbs get drafted?? only two ways to survive a war are to not get drafted into it and live away from the fighting (helps if the authorities think you're not useful enough for war effort), or to go there, fight and come back alive. theres a reason why most war deaths are men of a certain age range: physical fitness.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 11:17 PM
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thats not true lmao wars wipe out fit and capable men and only leave you with the children, the elderly and the feeble and the rich kids whose daddies kept them off the field edit: it only applies to men who went to the fight and came back alive that they were "selected".
/r/MensRights24/07/24 02:41 PM
2

Women are incredibly strong brave resilient and benefit tremendously from the government's services. they can fight for it.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 02:39 PM
0

fascists
/r/MensRights24/07/24 12:15 PM
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they dont mean "women" they mean "feminists" and since they are the true real feminists and they leave the work of fixing their imagined problems to the government, and "properly" is defined as "making me happy" what it exactly means is: "I need the government to socially engineer boys to do exactly what will make me feel happy and comfortable all the time and act like the fictional guys in my cartoons."
/r/MensRights23/07/24 01:02 PM
1

the comment i replied to implies that "men have rights in the middle east or something" because he believed the (false) stereotype that the middle east treats women as chattel slaves (more like overgrown children, theres also footage of women representing themselves pro se in taliban court in afghanistan and getting rulings in their favor in divorce and family proceedings) implies in turn that men must getting a good deal there that is not true
/r/MensRights21/07/24 11:01 AM
1

there is no social worker for fatherlessness
/r/MensRights18/07/24 12:02 PM
2

men have rights in the middle east yes women and men have rights in all 201 countries if you want to be pedantic about how laws work but you understand that cultures like Pakistan (not middle east but culturally close) and afghanistan (which is more restrictive than most middle east countries) are MORE repressive towards males right
/r/MensRights18/07/24 10:31 AM
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Women are simply incapable these categorical statements help no one my good sir
/r/MensRights18/07/24 10:28 AM
2

i agree though psychopathy is less like entitlement as in "im good enough to have this" and "iM gonna do this because i want and morals dont matter" like a psychopath might not even care for their reputation or their self esteem and might admit straight up that they are not a good person at all, it just wouldn't bother them.
/r/MensRights17/07/24 09:42 PM
2

narcissism is not sociopathy, a female sociopath need not display narcissistic behavior
/r/MensRights17/07/24 04:52 PM
1

"the pendulum WILL SWING AND PEOPLE WILL GO BACK TO SPINNING JENNIES AND HORSE DRAWN CARTS!!!" Said the luddite in 1850. history doesnt loop around like that and its not a guarantee itll happen. or if it does itll be some guy's pet project on github that wont compete with google.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 09:39 PM
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say X doesnt exist and nobody does it immediately proceeds to commit X
/r/MensRights27/06/24 10:35 AM
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older ones are more outspoken about it the younger ones i saw were more of the kind to tell you that having sex with a 24 year old should be statutory rape
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/24 10:28 AM
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i feel like you might have missed the waves of female teachers raping kids but this is just usual stuff for older radfems, "raping kids isnt such a big deal bro, it's not happening, we're not doing it but we are and it's a good thing!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 03:20 PM
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it's a shittily formatted website regurgitating crime statistics blaming men for all SA in various countries to justify sex segregation by radfems with cluster b personality disorders. anyway lmao i dont expect a debate or nothin it sounds like based on her name she only likes fictional men and will gladly tell you how school teachers aint rapin little boys.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 03:25 PM
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it's not idiocy he's not dumb he simply learned the ways of the career shark and shows token empathy to those who can reward him with pussy for saying the right words.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 01:34 PM
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feminists want to believe they're hurt and victimized even when they're pedestalized. men want to convince themselves they're respected even when they're violated. one is how you cope with being disliked. the other is how you cope with how you can't make yourself happy even when everything is handed to you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/24 01:30 PM
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most progressives dislike the "TE" part and like the "RF" part i dislike TERFs because of the "RF" part and i dont give a shit if they become TIRFs
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/24 11:28 AM
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no the terf mindset didnt miss that it's meant to favor female predators over male victims that was the GOAL
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/24 04:11 PM
4

and you code "right" as "fascism" (LOL) and thats how they get you to basically believe on some level that fascism is awesome (and therefore you're defective for attributing something positive to it) and fascism is when men aren't done dirty like dogs. in other words, how fuckin dare you not be a doormat. the 19th century slave mentality. if i believed what breadtube says at face value i would probably think fascism ROCKS because they keep trying to peddle me the bullshit that fascism is the opp…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/24 12:29 PM
6

The channel Innuendo Studios has a great playlist called the "Alt-Right Playbook" that highlights tactics for radicalization and offers counter logic. most of it is just Insert something he accuses skinheads or 4ch users (not strongly defined characters but coded as "right") of doing followed by "i wish i did it first we should do it more, there are no bad tactics only bad targets"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/24 12:25 PM
0

its over buddy boyo you're gonna be brainwashed you're gonna stop thinking for yourself dont watch hoe_math videos and content from rightoids or you'll start to be corrupted by the devil! you're gonna start wanting to put women in cages! you can't form your own beliefs! in fact you need to ban right wing content from your life and from others lives to protect them from satan and make sure they only listen to YOU first!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/24 12:20 PM
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yikes sweaty he stoped being a heckin decent personarinoe when he droped out of feminism it really creeps you out doesnt it almost like he wants to be a nice guy® and have his turn to be an abuser. he should know that feminism is just about basic human decency and respecting a womans right to have a monopoly on victimhood.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/24 11:36 AM
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i like to think of them as fellow travelers. i dont view them as male but for the sake of agreeableness i prefer to focus on whats in common. they get to tell us what its like to have been on both sides of the fence. but once they start to pass and aren't acting like cute uwu trans and instead trying to genuinely present themselves as men, what they experience is what we experience.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 05:29 PM
1

when it comes, you will answer the question "have you ever stopped beating your wife".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 04:55 PM
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let me guess you also got told "look what you made me do" or had women flip their shit out at you and then act like it must have been your fault edit: you're russian this is even better westerners always talk about russia like it's some sort of totalitarian state where female slavery is written into the law but afaik russian women are probably the ones who are the proudest of beating the snot out of their men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/24 12:11 PM
5

because you are in the "not people" space as a man
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/24 11:33 AM
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well you never will because feminism is a giant government program to redistribute everything from men to women and to shift blame from women to men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/24 07:59 PM
10

aint nobody beating an ethnic woman at a racism competition
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/24 07:57 PM
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the reason most males do not express themselves like women is not because they are socially retarded or mentally deficient at saying what they feel. it's because: men simply do not have the same hormonal makeup as women and are not going to cry as often, speak the same way, etc or simply speak ad nauseam about what bothers them as opposed to seeking concrete solutions. a lotta women and their obsession with "therapy go to THERAPY incel" seem to think that just flapping your tongue for enough tim…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/24 03:21 PM
4

Women are better than you in every way incel and have a higher status than you because they deserve it by working hard Also at the same time women have a lower status than you incel because you oppressed them and now they will never be able to succeed if you don't give away your time and money to them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/24 03:04 PM
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lock the competition out and hoard all the women by pushing them up the hierarchy with DEI programs, scholarships, subsidies, makework office jobs that drive up product prices, favor em in hiring and now you've driven out the competition and you got more ways to get your dick sucked than ever thats the male feminist game
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/24 02:58 PM
3

Projection / reformed bad boy. That's two very similar archetypes. Oftentimes growing up in the high upper class. Both of them are callous and exploitative towards women by instinct, and by extension/projection believe that all men are like them. The "reformed" ones. Those who in their later years settle down and recognize the error of their ways but still regularly "relapse". They will promote propaganda efforts that demonize men and brainwashes them. The non-reformed ones will be scared of the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/24 02:56 PM
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right well writing off the gender axis doesnt really work unless you buy into the radfem idea that male and female brains are identical. socialism for feminists means having a free money faucet in women's bathrooms with "women only" scribbled on top of it piped from men's bank accounts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/24 02:50 PM
2

because feminists are a trade union where they defend even their most toxic members as if they're all sleeping with each other and they're all related by blood as long as they can gang up on a male.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/24 10:33 AM
1

marxism and feminism should probably not fit together in terms of their subject matter because they have conflicts but that never stopped marxists from packaging feminism with their views
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/24 10:31 AM
2

they dont have to mean anything when put together, the talking points are all just meant to hound you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/24 10:30 AM
2

oh i agree they are less likely to get in trouble i meant that i believed there would be fewer undetected female pedos than male pedos because of how men are usually more likely to be abnormal
/r/MensRights31/05/24 08:54 PM
1

Wtf i thought they would be less common than the men
/r/MensRights31/05/24 02:20 PM
5

yes that's just barely disguised aggression
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/24 10:33 AM
7

Bro 51% isnt much different from 53% from 55% from 57% from 59% from 61% from 63% from 65% from 67% from 69% from 71% from 73% from 75% from 77% from 79% from 81% from 83% from 85% from 87% from 89% from 91% from 93% from 95% from 97% from 99% which might as well be 100% what is the big deal here
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/24 12:18 PM
4

he wants her to see this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/24 11:01 AM
20

Ah yes people who log in to reddit don't exist in real life
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/24 10:47 AM
6

so why be a male feminist
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/24 05:48 PM
1

no they just hate you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/24 04:37 PM
1

if women were afraid men were going to kill them, twoXchromosomes members would be scared shitless of dissing me. but they know men aint got shit on them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/24 04:33 PM
8

end of democracy the end of democracy is when people use democracy to vote for a candidate and there's disagreements??? people who are fighting for LGBT issues are not your enemy. when they package it with feminism?? Women who are fighting for reproductive rights are not your enemy. neither are vampires or the tooth fairy? women who are fighting for reproductive rights really don't exist for the most part, they're a mirage when it comes to paper abortions for men. good for them if they want free…
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:15 PM
2

grandpa it's time for your antipsychotics all 2.1 million of them
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:02 PM
3

maybe this is the evolution of the dogpill, dont ask me who will be makin them but onlyfans might offer bear videos soon
/r/MensRights04/05/24 09:57 PM
7

you're the expert
/r/MensRights03/05/24 10:05 PM
12

ok have fun hiking, may the bears watch over you
/r/MensRights02/05/24 10:16 PM
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I like how none of them ever consider the idea that they can in fact cooperate with the man for survival but not the bear
/r/MensRights02/05/24 02:40 PM
8

they know its bullshit they just want to call you a subhuman.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 02:38 PM
4

Damn. we got some fans of the canadian novel "Bear" (1975) out here.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 02:36 PM
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You know you're dividing the number of (category A) perpetrators by the number of (category B) victims??? you should divide (A) percentage of male human killers by (B) percentage of perpetrator bears who kill humans or (A) percentage of encounters with a man that end in homicide vs (B) percentage of encounters with a bear that end in death
/r/MensRights02/05/24 02:33 PM
3

if a were optimal there would have been no need to have fathers for most of human history
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:12 PM
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why would their attraction be different offline
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:51 PM
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they sure as hell didnt want a sub5 male's commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:27 PM
4

my n count is shaped like a donut mmm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 09:02 PM
1

what you think of my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:56 PM
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as the good pill goes: there is No career for your face No government structure that can compensate for your bone structure No GDP growth that can fix your recessed chin No constitutional amendment can amend your nitrogenous bases
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:47 PM
6

this is what they prefer over all alternatives
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:46 PM
2

i am asking you to explain why you want to live with that partner according to someone who disagrees with op
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:45 PM
0

why
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:43 PM
1

it's over
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:41 PM
1

no? women get along great with each other, probably better than guys. provided they aren't cluster b.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:23 PM
2

I would like to ask what do you think of your own mother? Was she also unable to emphasize with you? not the guy you replied to but YES SHE WAS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:11 PM
3

just hire a cryptozoology team to search for the unconfirmed autistic woman who's both straight and single (they're all asexual or not single)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:09 PM
1

depends i mean some people just have awesome ideas like having unrptoected sex without thinking about the consequences and i dont jive with that but generally sure i can understand that for them 70, 80, 90% of men or even 99.98% of the men according to their tinder swipe stats are just not desirable to them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:07 PM
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yes it 100% would it just wouldnt be useful for anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:23 PM
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i grew up muslim (i quit) or maybe its somethin that happened late in life for me but getting 203949020 women in my inbox asking to suck me wouldnt help if they werent people i could see again and bond with either that and im not playing STD slot machines
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:25 PM
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age i didnt strictly mean age, i meant having had a past experience to refer back to. its like a normie reminiscing about his ex with the huuuge knockers who sucked him off like nothing else while talking to a goofy male feminist redditor who's just asking him how to make women text him back and thinks wearing a biden harris 2024 sticker will help him pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:08 PM
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coming out of a marriage to live the """single""" life as opposed to being a wizard who has as much experience with the opposite sex as a 6 year old helps godspeed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:59 PM
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I would want sex and male company on occasion and you would get it. those guys on that virgin sub aren't getting free sex with a few swipes of the finger. they seethe and cope, that is all. you aren't single, you're """single""". lots of single women are getting more dick appointments tonight. their male counterparts are waking up to 0 notifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:53 PM
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women dont remain single in the same way that men do i think that explains it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:39 PM
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then i guess our pill doesnt exist because none of the 3 want to claim us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:35 AM
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no i think im pretty damn decent with women (error 404 no sex appeal found aside) with the exception of some nutcases like my mom and a redditor who accused me of sexual harassment over some skateboard video game footage, one who told me to "get laid" when i was 14 and one who started accusing me of watching brony porn. the conclusion is "The more feminist/blue pill a man is, the less likely he is to have self respect and accept women as they are". i met a tankie male feminist who still believes…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 09:51 PM
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Then i guess im blue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:54 PM
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Womanlessness sir
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:44 PM
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And only 2 percent of people are married to their HS sweetheart so like normal all of the "facts" are just made up BS. i agree this guy constructed a character who is way more financially and socially privileged than most people but most bluepillers who call themselves bluepillers skew that way heres how i see most blue pill men: they just suck up to some projected ideal image of women as pure maidens that only exists in their heads and many of them would turn rabid if they had to face a woman a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:37 PM
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they dont they just suck up to some projected ideal image of women as pure maidens that only exists in their heads and many of them would turn rabid if they had to face a woman as she is in real life here's an example. this guy "respected women", put them on a pedestal but he'd absolutely start going apeshit if he had to face the reality of what women like to do in real life. "Nooooooooooooooo! I imagined you as magical unicorns who would never actually do any of the mean and bad things the mano…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:22 PM
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No people who say this usually want to make blue pill sound more important and more universal than it really is when it's really just the opinions of late 20th century to present day liberal westerners going by OP, people who think all ways of life are equal, the feminist is always right, all ages are equally attractive, LMS doesn't matter and never did, etc. (my flair is meant to lampoon this, i'm not red pill myself but i find blue pill utopia ridiculous) the same people say that the "red pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 04:13 PM
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yep. everybody calls the wasp a fly until it stings them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:52 PM
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I can't even fathom how it's possible for guys to get past like middle or high school without understanding the importance of height, looks, etc. we got grown ass adults of both sexes here who havent even accepted what boomers say about male wealth and female attraction denial runs strong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:51 PM
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ok so two things: -they have heard the message and it doesnt matter, they want the denial, they want the copium. it's doublethink basically. they want to deny that it happens to them. they want to deny that they're the ones who will get lung cancer from smoking, basically. -on another level they also know whats playing out but this is like their version of the lottery or they can't stomach the guys on their own tier so it's a moot point. like how everyone who enters a casino thinks they'll be th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:44 PM
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they want the denial
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:42 PM
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i think this just how humans are wired
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 02:51 PM
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yep with the difference that she'd want the gay males hanged and lesbians less so
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:52 PM
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she might assume she misheard the woman but after that she'd find some creative way to call her a venereal disease in arabic, say satan's with her and maybe assault her physically and definitely spread rumors about her so yes she'd be showing her power level there and then if someone told her they were a gay male yeah she'd just want them to get hanged but would probably be afraid of taking action and if coping_man had straight sex with a woman she'd take it personal like coping_man raped her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 12:42 PM
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MY mom says gay people and gay men especially so are a punishment from allah for their parents and communities so i am familiar with this and i can tell you that she is pretty damn hostile to male sexuality in all its forms when my straight ass got called a r@p1$7 without having had sex i never heard her say this shit about lesbians subhanallah! edit: you seem to get real quiet every time i reply
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:50 AM
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they know what a slut is you shouldnt call women sluts because its a bad thing to say also at the same time according to them women are sluts if and only if its a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:45 AM
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Very good question januaryphilosopher there is an answer that will satisfy you: it Won't lmao and this app isn't worth the mobile data required to download it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:51 PM
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what's the demographics and how come it's 100% men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:49 PM
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i have neither options nor an interest in hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:24 PM
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(cont) being a John is irresponsible and gross and should be illegal. so is banging strangers at a bar or hooking up with partners one met on a dating app or all sorts of other things women do without exchanging money, so whats the point outlawing it when these are adults? cant be more catholic than the pope if you get me, all you can do is be glad it aint your kids. they didnt ask me for my opinion or yours, and it's not because it slipped their minds and they forgot i dont like the state of af…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:41 PM
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well here we go we got the mystics again with three eyes that can see my life behind the screen and know my identity from comments on the internet when you told me about your own background i believed it but when you tell me about mine on a different continent now i don't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:19 PM
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yes voicing your sexual frustration on reddit is the same thing as banging strangers without a condom in bars and public restrooms and im sure that all male band that dropped that song will turn out to be manosphere netizens i actually agree if this is about apocalypse copers and the guys who think that an islamic dictatorship will net them a free girlfriend but most men probably do care how they get laid but yeah hooray for untrafficked prostitutes, too bad i live in a MENA shithole where i'd g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 04:15 PM
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How is it more extreme to point out the dangers of such ideas than it is to say that your sexual impulses should never be criticized? it isnt im referring to the use of the term "dogs" for sexually frustrated men != sexually irresponsible men who go "doesnt matter [that i have baby mamas and STDs], had sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:28 PM
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i wouldnt call it lucky to go out with ariana grande or kim kardashian more like a mario kart pickup that rolls for random STDs so the premise is moot for me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:06 PM
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GNC women one of these is not like the others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:31 PM
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yes its easy to find anecdotes about any countries it just means south korea has a functioning press that reports crimes to internet users (hooray for the free press) women are more likely to be murdered than men despite taking part in far less aggressive and risky behaviors than their male counterparts. not in 2020 i cant find any hard info on this trend that isnt just as likely to be an outlier of some kind either way it may have to do with how SK's homicide rate is extremely low anyways so ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 07:37 PM
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ok then what would make it a feminist country? SK is safe for women compared even to some european countries inc. finland, UK and others like israel, USA and australia. it is one of the safest countries in the world. women can run for office and vote. they have abortions legally. all positive things in my opinion, it seems egalitarian to me. except some genders are more equal than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 06:07 PM
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well thats where making tangents to sloweffective8146's comments gets you instead of addressing them head on there are some things people do to self sabotage like intentionally avoiding responsible actions and counting fewer choices than they really have because they prefer the victim halo over accepting and admitting to themselves and others that they carry the responsibility of agency. ive done it (not with my dick), so do feminists except the results are more catastrophic when you do it with …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:19 PM
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abstaining until marriage (but men should likewise abstain until marriage. I don't believe in unfair double standards i get this and all but tbh that double standards stems from (and could be easily broken by) women's preferences if they shifted towards inexperienced men and they just cut fuckboys off (your comment didnt go against what im saying here) i dont think many women like low BC men so they think theres some sort of unjust oppressive standard being applied to them when its really that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:11 PM
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wahman most affected
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:01 PM
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no that would be schizo but there is some responsibility on your end to protect yourself and do your due diligence when you're capable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:59 PM
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they do and they arent victims they might be foolin themselves if there isnt actual fraud involved but they just wanna buy a delusion that is different
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:56 PM
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i ok now try again but replace this word with "someone who aint i"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:54 PM
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Some guys buy a lifetime subscription to an OF creator where the girl promises them they'll be the only customer and they in return give her a golden parachute clause whenever she wants to end it. it's called "marriage". what do you think of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:09 PM
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and what do you intend to do? separate them at gunpoint?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:08 PM
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No shit he's not going to be upset at it because he's not an adult and doesn't get the problem either that's why adults need to step in and protect him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:05 PM
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yes situationships are supposed to be poorly defined and even contradictory because they are made of duct tape, jizz, denial and copium when somebody wants to pretend that their ONS is more than it really is but can't lie to themselves well enough to call it a real relationship the same thing happens with the friendzone except that the other half of it tends to drop mixed messages promising sex in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 12:59 PM
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that doesnt seem so bad it sounds like he probably played a lot of counter strike
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:47 PM
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does everyone who is born blind have blind parents
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 05:46 PM
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you asking for a friend? i cant write free essays for you ask chatgpt to avoid big words for your teacher
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 09:19 PM
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a topic i discussed at a 6th grade writing level id answer but ive heard this question before from people and they act like smug glue sniffers after i do their homework for them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 09:07 PM
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they havent gone their own way they were just sent (to youtube comment sections)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 09:51 AM
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you are free to withhold it from them im only speaking for myself here when i say that showing tate to frustrated 12 year old or 11 year old blokes still developing critical thinking skills for the first time would fool a good half of them at least
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 09:49 AM
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or too young to know any better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:57 PM
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MGTOW in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:18 PM
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that they're combating the boogeyman and the patriarchal state only exists in their imagination SK is a feminist country where id get drafted and they wouldnt but good on them i have the exact same chance of getting laid no matter what movement they want to follow
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:32 PM
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sometimes the issue ain't that the guys take it as "looks dont matter at all" but simply that what they saw and what you're telling them doesn't match. even if you're only saying looks are half the game, these guys are exposed to situations where looks are 90% of the game if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:52 AM
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"most people like to say the opposite of what they mean" isnt nuance it's just socially acceptable BS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:45 AM
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anyone who makes over 200-300k represents less than 1% of the global pop
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 09:39 AM
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in that nd men have it worse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 06:28 PM
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if you met one you'd know a lot of em end up friendless or just not in a "cute" headspace at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:07 PM
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Wooooooooooooooooosh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:06 PM
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just collect a wage for every hour you're married and then retire with a golden parachute prenup that sets favorable divorce terms anyway you're barkin up the wrong tree here your friend is about to make an R-slurred decision for a radfem: marrying a human male. im just tryin to help her put words into praxis.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:23 PM
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yes as a heterosexual man i dont think of a gay lover as my source of self esteem either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:21 PM
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What's the point of being with an attractive woman if you can't show her off to your bros? to enjoy her personally? what if your bros have nothing to offer but jeers and heckling when they find out you like a partner they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:21 PM
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not entirely but yes: guys want girlfriends. girlfriends are not easy to find. if you have "internal" self esteem, it was external at first and then you learned to internalize some positive attitudes from abundant and stable positive reinforcement. the reason you don't base your self esteem and emotional state on male attention is because you're drowning in more of it than that for which you could possibly have a use. trade places with the average male user here and you would think like one - vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:17 PM
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i feel like im debating destiny Women do more unpaid work even when they're breadwinners so no, that's not pay. more by what measure and says who? im willing to think you measured this in hours or something to be fair even if i dont have your source, but it's not a "skimming off the top" scheme where men bring women in, order them to vacuum my room and then withhold a fair wage from them: regardless of what it is, it benefits everyone. if it seems like a labor theft scheme to you, you should've …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:47 PM
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oh you know, indirect payment by financing the household instead of directly handing them a paycheck and going "HEy this is your wage you will get promoted next month and get a 10c/hr raise", from the money the dude brings home? because they pool resources, time and labor for the benefit of the group? he's not mooching on her like an ATM because that implies she never needed to be with him in the first place in order to survive. so if that were the case, just negotiating an hourly wage clause in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:44 PM
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Why women put in hours on end to provide unpaid labour at home to support a man they don't care for because the labour is paid just not with a paycheck or fiat currency transaction and it's part of an agreement otherwise my house would be full of women coming in to do my chores for me just because women like to work for free. "hey women uh you live in a patriarchy so that means you guys do unpaid labor for men, can you vacuum my room for nothing in return because im a man" "Hell yeah coping_man …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:15 PM
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its crazy talk and yet thats how feminists think as well with the idea that you cant see anything in a woman other than pussy if you find her hot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:06 PM
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never does for any of us i wonder if they experience this too in reverse but honestly i dont think so because they never had that wholesome image of us or the desire to maintain it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:42 PM
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we want to believe that women are a lot more wonderful than they are and blame the messenger when we're told something that goes against this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:36 PM
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not on inceltears, children are the sexiest thing ever over there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:21 PM
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That's strange my uni doesn't have frats, greek life, co-ed dorms. maybe it's because i live in MENA and im not an upper middle class westerner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:17 PM
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i dont want to alarm you but maybe she's only done with marital sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:37 PM
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so help less and get more sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:34 PM
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Damn i havent seen anybody here who said "yes" it's a shame i can't wash dishes until i slip and fall into a cornhub movie
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:15 PM
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i dont know what simone de beauvoir shit some posters here might be tripping on but a woman's "feminity" is mostly just a matter of her literally existing and breathing air
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:09 AM
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i agree female game is "just show up"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:13 PM
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gay men love female validation as much as straight men do women see them as pets or fetishize their homosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:09 PM
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ill have my "man" with some valuable skills and a darn good face to cash in on my brand new lgbt victim points while this sameerah and her followers can enjoy their LARPer tradwife who expects them to do every chore in the house
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:04 PM
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yep. and we got a whole lot of women who confuse the finger pointing at the moon for the moon and think that straightening your hair and wearing a dress with a flower motif makes you a tradwife after you've already become a single mom who can't hold down a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:02 PM
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sketchy stats aside this argument is basically the "fat people in walmart" cliché people like to throw around here how many "fat people in walmart" relationships are actually desirable though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:57 PM
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the irony is that our evolutionary psychology selects against belief in the science evolutionary psychology and in darwinism it's like ol charlie D put his ideas behind a copyright enforced by the suicide circuit in your brain. best not use or reproduce his work without his permission. this is one area where being correct and breeding are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:55 PM
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it's silly it's like "nobody asked me if im a serial killer so nobody would care if they knew i was one" or "nobody asks me if i wash my hands after i take a shit so that means i dont need to do it"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:02 PM
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generally i do not like slut shaming as it is an impotent rage cope by sexually frustrated men and sluts technically increase the sexual opportunities for men even if i do not desire them at all myself for non-platonic relationships. (it only takes a few women to provide for tens of men's sexual needs through prostitution and the like). my misgivings aside about STDs and paternity fraud, i know some women i would consider sluts as in "has sex with lots of partners" online and i don't feel the ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:57 PM
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nah they all think they're seers when they want to tell you what your inner personal life is from behind a reddit.com screen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 05:55 PM
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Hello heres this week's forecast: men complain about sluts but fuck them women bitch and moan about being judged for their choices and actions by men while judging men without choices who have less experience and slam dunking on them because women idolize fuckboys and want to become them. women say they believe that men do not have a preference. my n count will still be zero by the end of the week godspeed and click away from this thread. next week we'll ask men if they'll act on their beliefs (…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:50 PM
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for young women, shaming a fuckboy wont do much to him if come friday night you will magically slip and fall into the same bed as him at a motel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:47 PM
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no not really
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 04:35 PM
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hes good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:44 AM
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she has if you look at her previous comments on this subreddit and she is very satisfied with it the guy is a christian six footer who could have been fuckboius prime if he wanted though so not like the average male ppd user
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 09:43 AM
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Who said i was getting pussy? my username wouldn't be coping_man if i were here to LARP. i need to shower as much as you do so that i can meet some of the people you win arguments with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:00 PM
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it's because you're not extroverted plus hawt enough, if you were then you'd be gettin signals all the time from all kinds of people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:26 AM
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ok well it shouldnt seem that far out there that it's common for women on their travels to perform the basic human function of having sex if you didnt then others have its not as rare as being born with six fingers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:35 AM
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you think that women's travel plans are rated TV-Y7??
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 09:59 PM
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feminism is all over the globe im sorry man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:20 PM
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"This is why men don't want western women" Said the sub5 after putting down the eviction notice and the phone with 0 tinder matches on his desk to post on twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:54 AM
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i know right these guys are seething about girls who get more attention in 1 day than they have since 1975 and i just wonder what will this accomplish? i dont believe that having these views turns you into a permavirgin incel, mentally ill guys get laid all the time but being angry like this will not help them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:52 AM
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i agree with your judgment of their motive but what they say about this is... accurate for most women who like to travel with [female] friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:51 AM
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i guess those guys hate to see women living it up because it reminds them of their own shitty situation i personally couldnt give a shit, if im single i wanna see if i could dance with one of em and see if the event wont kick me out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:50 AM
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No not really i tend not to join ideologies that people use to guilt trip me and blame me for their behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 10:38 PM
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because if you say things others don't like they can remove you ...and your job... ...and your livelihood... ...and your reputation and your ties to your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:33 PM
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im african
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:32 PM
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he's misunderstanding it on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:54 AM
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nobody you don't but others do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:53 AM
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the only reason im flaired blue pill is because im not into trp
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:18 AM
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I fuckin agree i wish they showed us more mid looking women going with mid guys even in anime i wouldnt mind if misaki (in nhk ni youkoso) had some more pimples or something to make her look like average japanese high schooler
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:17 AM
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im closer to middle eastern
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:15 AM
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who put this idea in his head in your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:20 PM
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pick mes are probably cluster b anyways and have skeletons in the closet, most women that are throwing other women under the bus for attention (i dont mean women who simply hate other women out of conviction but those who do it to get men's approval) will probably end up cheating on you for le validation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:18 PM
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male feminists when they realize being a doormat to women and pandering to their political views to convince them other men are "misogynistic pigs" isn't a cheat code for sex:
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:14 PM
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unless you're the "pretty soy boy" u/MartMillz is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:12 PM
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is this even a mystery? if you can call up 20 niggas for nighttime dick appointments (average woman on tinder), have a simp from work and have female besties you can share your problems with, you wont even feel single.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:06 PM
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it doesnt have to be fair, i agree nature is not fair but i also don't have to accept other people's offers if they suck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:03 PM
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They only have an equal opportunity to try and win. People are born with different chances. they dont, we dont even all live in the same legal system, tell someone in cuba to just start a business bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:54 PM
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pretty that explains it they think that if he complains about his gf(s) they can replace her and have him for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:53 PM
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right so if your experience aint pleasant check it at the door and bury it thats actually good advice people hate to hear about reality when it's negative
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:51 PM
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Honestly i dont have much more to say it looks like you're doing well for yourself and i wouldnt wanna change that. its just that op implied "straight" between the words "should" and "men" in the title
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:53 AM
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and thats why even if straight guys believe what you say online it's as irrelevant as telling them you succeeded in dating little green people on mars
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:48 AM
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no not really bluepillers love to deny it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:46 AM
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logic Sorry man the lizard brain can't talk, i'm the neocortex and i'm here to answer any questions you have about my own functions though!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:03 PM
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Well lets see, if you're asking about my own circle and face to face, #2 fits almost every woman i know who agrees with feminism including my mom and sister, #1 was the case in my high school class (im sure theres more but i can only speak for what i know when some woman in an open discussion in class says "Men have done absolutely nothing to improve society and women could easily fix all that"), #4 is just... my muslim-feminist mom, most muslim women in general and feminists who think that i'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:48 PM
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im talking about the US of A, the UK, australia, china, japan and other similar countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 05:45 PM
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i agree i just dont call it feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:11 PM
1

he's a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:59 PM
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Actually pretty good question you need to know why the different outcomes happen or why men kill themselves more often
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:53 PM
1

High iq
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:49 PM
1

You're right though Women are thriving today compared to men holds
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:44 PM
2

Gotta hand it to em they stepped up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:43 PM
3

Tbh if you start seeing "wokeness" everywhere it just ruins your enjoyment of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:42 PM
1

To be fair the worst feminists are male feminists but these are traits ive seen from various feminist arguments in news columns and organizations and from some ppd users i can't name here to avoid witch hunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:14 PM
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which men? the ones who make the decision to lock other men out of a career to hoard hot secretaries for themselves and promote women to HR positions and management to avoid a lawsuit where they'd lay off a man? the politicians who use these programs to buy female voters and female support with other people's potential jobs and their money? are the men who get passed up by those programs also coming from privilege? if men as a whole had this privilege, why did they give it up? how come they didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:59 PM
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how and where? do affirmative action programs favor males?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:46 PM
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those are natural and necessary inequalities not ones that come from coercion is what he meant. they have to exist because you're a homo sapiens not an android, and ultimately they're meant to be beneficial to the "inferior" party (the child). slavery / oppression is something different. hard for me to have a positive relationship with somebody if my ideology is that they're a lazy oppressive piece of shit skimming off the top, curtailing my rights and stealing from me while i support the both o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:18 PM
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someone (may be male, may be female) who resents men believes men as a whole oppress women as a whole and are actively lowering women's status / standard of living and not raising it and that men are skimming off the top of women's labor (i.e. they think "Hirewomen4free.com" is a real website and that we are getting fat off of women's labor) believes that society can only improve if we keep redistributing more assets, wealth and status from men to women at each turn views male sexuality as somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:14 PM
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Wait i thought rad fems were supposed to be pro revolutionary like marxist-leninists or maoists because they think society is fundamentally unjust thats what second wave radfems say
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:59 PM
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Honestly i expected you to say "conservatism is when you're a white male who wants to be like the taliban and oppress women" but as a rightoid i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:42 PM
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Im afraid not man, men are desperate enough even if this user to which you replied is acting off her rocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:19 PM
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70 year old grandmas have more smv than fit 20 year old guys grannypill men are on tap
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:16 PM
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horrible in what manner? empirical accuracy? rational decision making metrics? tell us instead why it's inaccurate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:10 PM
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ivy league goers do not represent the average american are you kidding me, they represent the UMC that still thinks marriage is important while other classes dont second of all you may just have had autism or been a socially withdrawn/inept student who didnt notice all the other ivy kids doing cocaine at parties
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:09 PM
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bateman's principle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:43 PM
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Listen this is the pot calling the kettle black but if you only come here out of boredom then ebooks would be a much better use of your time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:59 PM
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how do you end up here????
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:28 AM
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i dont feel like nature owes me a mate or like im magical and wonderful and im born on top of an ivory tower that most women can never hope to reach, i just think most women wouldnt get me and would find me boring. e.g. someone with too much difference in life/sexual experience from me is probably going to take it less seriously than i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:27 AM
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sometimes it aint the same guys but... the delusion game runs strong with men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:21 AM
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You know stuff like schizophrenia, being groomed by feds, narcissism, whatever chris chan had, attention seeking, traits commonly found in mass shooters and the feminist who shot andy warhol or the feminists who throw molotovs around in mexico
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:43 PM
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how many of em and which ones have conditions that can be traced to 4chan and those other forums
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:40 PM
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delusional thinking from guys who cant accept their place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:23 PM
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you met thousands of partnered people in your life they all had to start somehow with one of them approaching the other i was exagerrating but the point stands: it's tinder out there. if you are attractive enough, women will hit you up first, but only the minority. though some women deviate from the norm and prefer to approach first as a matter of principle, most of them will only do it if they feel desperate enough. saying it's rare just means you dont know enough hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:38 AM
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ok i get that now (though it would get expensive)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:35 AM
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to be clear here i'm not saying op's sister's only good quality is XX, she might be a talented and high iq person. what i do point out is that she is delusional about how desirable her genes are when they end with a Y chromosome. if you're borrowing ego at such a high interest rate against mediocre genes, the bank of nature will tear you a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:18 AM
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conceive of men treating women as their equals as opposed to fuckslaves, children, maids or animals. i feel no need to control women or to round them up with a lasso and make them wear a burka. i actually like them very much i just say things here that i can't talk about at the dinner table. i talk to them the same way i talk to men here. i tell men and women here things that might offend them because salesmen and red pill / tradcon / feminist gurus will only peddle them what they like to hear e…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:09 AM
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people say bluepill is just "Not red pill" (hence my flair) but this is true, most bluepillers end up reverting to the same caricatured and already debunked talking points. and for some reason always seem to package it with liberal/leftist views, progressivism, and feminism. how strange. wonder why we don't see more bluepillers with other backgrounds than well-off white collar western upper middle class people... couldn't be that they're overrepresented with their luxury beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:09 AM
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i can those men are not male feminists because they view women as adults and not children to be protected from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:03 AM
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they dont need to and if a woman understood how bad your situation was she would be repelled by you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:55 AM
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u/intellect7000 help him out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:55 AM
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it is really the same thing, it would fuck her up to admit that she is a genetic failure and a subhuman in her own judgment and that her only redeeming quality is XX. word to the mothers out there: if your son's genes stink, it's not his fault: you're half the problem. you're not wonderful specimens, you just had the right chromosome at the end of your karyotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:45 AM
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more than that: lots of gay men are feminists and desperate for female approval. they don't want to touch you or fuck you. it's something beyond sexuality. men crave women's approval like heroin. it's why men are lining up to call themselves proud male feminists and throw each other under the bus and shame each other with words like "incel".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:41 AM
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she can't say "You don't get women because your genes are shit" because it would imply "My genes are shit"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:39 AM
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because you lack the desire to do so. which is different from what op is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:38 AM
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the "progressive women's empathy" you hear about from people whose hobby is left wing politics is reserved for themselves they deeply love themselves, other women, their kids, maybe troons if you count left wing women (though they're really enabling that group's mental illnesses), cats, dogs, material things, (all in that order) and you come dead last.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:10 AM
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I struggle to think of any male role models that are masculine and non problematic (Idk maybe Travis Kelce/Jason Momoa) do they have anything to say that isn't just "pick better parents"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:33 AM
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it sucks to be downgraded to an average man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:30 AM
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I have some bad news for you: it already is like tinder in real life, and if you havent been hit up then you're one of the undesirables. im not trying to insult you; look at clips of how hot guys get treated out in public. Women turn to them and ask them for their number.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:57 PM
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the peacock tail is a genetic trait so are the things women seek in men we beautify ourselves by punching each other and buying "makeup" in the form of huge ass SUVs, mcmansions and mercedes cars, gold chains and job titles as well as going to the gym and looksmaxxing. if there was a "grow to 6'2 kit" available on amazon.com i'd buy it so as a man if you are born with the wrong skin tone or the wrong genetic height or the wrong hairline... whoops pick better parents. you get up and quit bitchin …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:00 AM
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yeah i dont get it its like they seem to find it gross that you act... like a civilized person with a triple digit iq and you aren't spraying walls everywhere you go with bullets from a MAC-10 i know some black men who feel the same way because when you peel back the layers behind that fixation you realize it's all based on stereotypes same goes for far left ethnic girls who chase white
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:35 PM
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they want to start families later than they used to is how i read your comment, not earlier. my mistake english is ambiguous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:32 AM
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seems like it explains why baddies get treated better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:30 AM
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i have some bad news for you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:13 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:12 PM
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no not really
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:08 PM
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yes it does it makes people feel good when they see it and they reward you for that as if you gave them a gift
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:05 PM
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yuo are a bad person bro you cant just observe that you're being judged on a relentless cost benefit analysis, that's dehumanizing bro, yuo should only say things that make the others feel good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:03 PM
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it Never began
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 10:05 PM
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commitment to who and exclusivity from who is what these guys are asking. "commitment and exclusivity" from a fat redditor probably dont sound exciting to you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:58 PM
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Pack your bags feminists the genie granted all your wishes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:24 PM
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tall Damn i failed this one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:37 PM
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no, apparently less than women my age
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:34 PM
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men arent in demand women are
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 12:30 PM
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it will look like how it did before 1600 AD with little retinues of people fighting for the scraps of civilization and broken down buildings and people will have to be very conservative to survive as electric power generation will be impossible and science will have regressed tremendously. there will be no internet. there will be no electronics. the human population will fall by over 90%. women will be in polygamous arrangements with tribe leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:17 PM
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im all for it but it'd help if pro choice feminists didnt constantly alienate men and accuse them of supporting slavery and on a different note, your consenting to fatherhood or not is really an independent matter. one is about being able to reject having your name written on a document by someone else binding you to a kid, the other is about deciding that kid's life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/24 01:01 PM
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little to no experience N count of like 7 sorry when i read "little to no experience" i understand N=0
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:06 PM
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this has strayed a bit but here are my thoughts: i would say that a lot of feminists do worship the woman identity kinda like jesus (attributing both victimhood and a godlike omnipotent holy status to it) but that they view other women as lesser or dumber implicitly. such as when they say for example that being married means you're brainwashed by the "patriarchy" (and not just someone else who made a different choice) or that you need to be favored over men in various opportunities because of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:51 PM
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reclaim?? it's always been that way. "true feminism" is just what feminists do and say. you're describing false feminism, the kind you make up in your head to feel good about yourself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/24 02:19 PM
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for some reason leftists need to bundle up every pet cause of theirs as a package deal and can never stay in one lane
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/24 02:17 PM
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i just want financial abortions so that men can consent to fatherhood
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/24 02:15 PM
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usually laymen can understand you better than most licensed therapists anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:24 PM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:47 PM
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tl;dr: Women (and their husbands, inlaws and parents) (who were getting "generous" investments in abortion machines from the lyndon b johnson administration for reasons they didn't quite catch) aborted their daughters because they bought into broken norms that convinced them they could now have only sons and that this was a cheat code for family wealth and status and their sons would live like kings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 08:41 PM
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i m aware i just wanted to do away with the idea that it's just the men who enforced this, theres a book about this called "unnatural selection" going into some cases where the woman was the one who made the decision and jesus fucking christ dumping their kid in a ditch You don't get it and some of what you said is wild. 6 foot caucasian supermodel son huh?? yeah it sounds wild because im describing delusional thinking and using hyperbole to make a point, read the full context, they thought they…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:59 PM
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A lot of women like to compliment each other as a way to lift each other up which I don’t find a bad thing tbh in the world of negativity. Commenting on another girls hairstyle, nails, etc. can and most likely is genuine and not trying to “increase a low women’s value”. the flip side of the medal is that if you lift each other up with bullshit, you're now all standing on a pile of dung. thats why if my homies ask me whether they are unattractive, i will tell them in the most straightforward mann…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:56 PM
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the individual parents (mostly mothers who went out of their way to abort girls) all thought "Hey i wanna have a son, someone else will deal with the consequences later on but i'll show 'em, my son is gonna be gigachad because he has my genes!!1!". you're basically witnessing a stock market bubble bursting from moms with brainworms who think that a 5'1" punjab or han woman is going to give birth to a 6'6.66" caucasian supermodel son and have a lineup of virginal wives asking for his hand in marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:45 PM
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That's a very large difference largely cancelled out by more baby boys dying naturally it isnt thats why theres >1.03 males per female aged 15 to 40 everywhere in europe elsewhere, japan has always been known as a low-immigration nation. here's their population pyramid (october 2004, japanese nursing association). they have excess males in every age group under 40. especially when you're assumed to be incompetent and get increased difficulty. well with dei and all that you're assumed to be incom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:26 PM
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the issue is that the people who want to migrate are usually men who arent tied down to their home countries but thats just the sponsor system you're describing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:17 PM
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it probably is the case. most migrants are male. even more so for illegal aliens and refugees.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:29 PM
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hope they put something in the water to correct the birth sex ratio to something like 0.9 males per female as for me i personally wanna have a daughter im not putting my kids through what i went through
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:27 PM
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not really, they'll just cope with vidya, ai bots in the future and porn for now. majority of single males aint violent nutcases.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:21 PM
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or biology cause... you know... we shit out more boys than girls. the female excess you find in other nations is all grannies. you ever find a country where more girls are born or it's even 1.00:1.00, let me know. but mass sex selective abortion was a f**king disaster promoted by the johnson administration through the UN on developing countries as neo malthusianism was taught in schools at the time (1960 to 1970s) - though it's a great opportunity to have a daughter and watch her gain status on …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:20 PM
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tattoos tattoos indicate high time preference dilated pupils if you know you know
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 11:31 AM
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i agree and yet theyre ok with pretending women have a constitutional right to... get cut a government check for getting knocked up by deadbeats among other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:44 PM
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ok but your father has higher social IQ than the deadbeats we're usually referring to, we're talking about men who have tattoos, might have very dilated pupils from time to time for "reasons", are always between jobs and owe money to more people than they can remember, etc. in short: guys who are littered with red flags. lots of women are drawn to this shit like moths to a flame like WOW I LOVE TOXIC MEN WHO WEAR IT ON THEIR SLEEVE, THEY'RE PROUD OF THEIR NATURE THAT IS SO MASCULINE.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:51 PM
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Lowlife junkies and petty drunk criminals usually get it from women every bit as repulsive as they are, and it’s hard to call love or affection usually tbh. From what I saw, mostly constant nagging and even when guests are around, borderline readiness to start hitting each other with household items. nah junkies can get it from clean-looking church girls
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:48 PM
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ill give em credit they dont believe that they or their favorite group is the one that needs to be bailed out for its failures when they tell everyone else to pull themselves up by their bootstraps (until they start bitching that women need to lower their standards) most BPers are the ones who believe their favorite gender(women)/race/sexuality/nationality group is oopppprrreeesssseeeeedddd and deserves free handouts from everyone else but at the same time that all their status is earned because…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:47 PM
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Progressive bluepillers when they realize that social inequality is a systemic phenomenon: i'm gonna pretend i didn't see that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:42 PM
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most blue (and red) pillers live in a fantasy where if some guy is high status he must have done "the GRIIIIIIIIND broooo" and if you aren't already doing as well as him then you must have failed somehow. women, of course, don't reward effort. they reward results. marxists who still believe in labor theory of value will never recover from this
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:41 PM
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many women are married to the ring, not the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:26 PM
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the "nice guys" are called entitled as well. here's how people use the word "entitled": You wanted something, you'll throw a whiny shit fit if you don't get it and your demands might be extreme, but you got it anyway = not entitled You want something, you may or may not throw a whiny shit fit if you don't get it, and you didn't get it = entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 08:22 PM
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im aware men and women get raped, what i dont agree with is that women went through "more"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:55 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:55 PM
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I agree lmao people are like "hey man. we spread std's and conceive children we know we can't raise (and which we might not even abort) but it's all goooood bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:37 PM
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their lives are very bland every time i saw somebody act tough on the internet they always turned out to be hiding something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:17 PM
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hot women in their 20s do tend to feel like they are on top of the world without having done much to earn it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:14 PM
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women as a whole have objectively gone through way more shit than men as a whole, ??? holy shit, women fought in ww2??? the current trend of "feminism brainwashed women, and because they're too dumb to know what they want, we need to tell them to give up pursuing a career and make them do nothing but cook, clean, fuck, and give birth" is doing a pretty great job reminding us all their problems are still there. desperate tradcons trying to convince themselves it's not simply a matter of women not…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:11 PM
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Average boring couples that you see everywhere don't seem to exist on here. Only extremes oofer doofers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:09 PM
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sure why not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:08 PM
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it is important for you to lose your virginity to someone else before most women let you touch them anything else not really
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:06 PM
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It wasn't all "common sense" as we talk about it now pre-COVID at least from what I remember on the debates on here. Race is a big one that I think wasn't in the main fray 3-4 years ago but is definitely considered one of the main leading topics -- and we had the OKC study back then, people (including me) just dismissed it. absolutely not. most people denied it, mocked those who brought it up with various monikers or would get enraged at the mere mention of the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:01 PM
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MICROCHIMERISM is scientifically proven since 2023 where can i find the src for this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:59 PM
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it's the user uglypostwall, she's pessimistic because she has low self esteem and a mostly negative experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:57 PM
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bluepill: There is no game. redpill: preselection, hypergamy, social proof, looks money status, nice guys (will often) finish last
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:54 PM
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and they say we're boring sticks in the mud because we dont drink
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:43 PM
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gamblers take note: the house always wins idiots all think theyre big shot players until they arent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:41 PM
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thanks for this post this was a sorely needed slap in the face for me side note i cant prove it but ive seen some strange shit play out in college and sometimes i got strange kinds of signals that sounded like some ladies were making me """"generous offers"""" that i didnt wanna try out (a decision i never regretted), i dont know about the gents but i cant comment on them cause im a straight male and they werent about to tell me whenever they had the idea to cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:37 PM
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you are referring to the "she likes different men during ovulation" hypothesis not the "she goes for different men when shes 22 vs when shes 40 and hitting menopause" reality
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:23 AM
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i agree she implies here that primary motivators are the only motivators
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:21 PM
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enlighten me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:39 PM
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im answerin your op where you quoted him saying just that. he isnt a red piller, he doesnt give a shit about the manosphere, his focus is strictly on economics. while i got some respect for austrian economics, that has nothing to do with supporting TRP. he's just rehashing the old centrist cliché that we can all just "get along" without any lasting issues if we just listen to "the right way of doing things" - a favorite of desperate tradcons. you and your wife / gf get along, thats great, but we…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:23 PM
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like "Hey, you are cute, wanna go out" "My DOG is on FIRE, pee on him to put it out!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:08 PM
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because calling conflict between the sexes "ridiculous and unnatural" ignores that it is very rooted in nature and evolutionary psychology, even if individuals like you and your partner are (hopefully) cooperating. there's conflict between parents and offspring, between siblings and between the sexes as well. what i'm saying is that you want to think your favorite woman (not necessarily wife) would somehow support your X ideology or stop supporting no fault divorce and give up feminism because s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:02 PM
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yeah im gonna be honest if shes into you and supports you then being guy 2 is great in the long run but most men who are in that situation don't get to be desired so they sign up for the next best thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:28 PM
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and yeah it means there is more to it than what you just said, most species experience gradual physiological effects and psychological effects when excluded and mammals who dont have sex don't survive when they go extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:25 PM
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oxytocin receptors decline over age so yes the capacity for those emotions is quite literally never returning and you missed the train but this post wont recover it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:44 PM
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My good sir, with all my sympathies for you and my agreeing (to an extent) with the theme of your op post: You sound like you have ocd or you're on cocaine. Take some shrooms. That situation is not achievable and will never be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:42 PM
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i use that as a shorthand for getting the affections and the sexual attraction of a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:37 PM
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Damn my muslim mom would fucking strangle me in my sleep if i showed her this comment translated to arabic lmao, my trad con parents are delusional and look at me like im a hybrid of a guyanese person and an alien from mars when i explain to them that not every woman wants to save it for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:30 PM
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creepy aaaaaaaaaaaaand that presupposes the answer to the whole question right there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:26 PM
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If their happiness hinges on getting everything they want did i say they need everything they want or that they are much happier and less depressed if they can attain a basic human need that every mammal has
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:23 PM
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nonsense. men get depressed when they dont feel like they have a shot most men need that poonani or need to feel like they realistically can get it in a reasonable timeframe to be happy, and i know it because im a man and every man i ever met who said they didn't feel like they needed a woman in their life was either gay, asexual or lying. it might not be the only thing you think about or even the most pressing concern you got, but all of them would rate it as a positive addition. fuck that nois…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:31 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:29 PM
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copy paste from my other comment here: javier's quote in op is playing to tradcon brainworms of "m-muh trad wife would totally love me i-if she learns conservative talking points bro!!" Guys there is no political ideology for your face and no economic growth will fix your lack of forward growth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:13 PM
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it is so obvious that javier's quote in op is playing to tradcon brainworms of "m-muh trad wife would totally love me i-if she learns conservative talking points bro!!" and these guys think it has anything to do with trp Guys there is no political ideology for your face and no economic growth will fix your lack of forward growth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:13 PM
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i thought we lived in a patriarchy that shamed women for havin more sexual partners but looks like el gobierno stands with feminists here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:50 AM
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after getting food, air and water? yes we gain status to get women, we cope with various political ideologies all aimed at getting even with the other guy which always cast a villain as male (either the male business owner for communism, the male jew for nazism, the male kafir for islam (it's alright to marry his sister, o those who have believed!), the male palestinian for zionism, or men from other countries for nationalism etc), we break our backs at work expecting a woman will somehow admire…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:46 AM
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only 1 is listed as a contact in her phone and 2 gets text replies that are shorter than a tweet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:38 AM
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eh with guy 2 she will perform a surgical asset-ectomy on him in divorce court or at least she doesnt actually feel much for him and sees him as a gateway to things she wants, ill say guy 1. he's the one that really gets her fired up. guy 2 is just like a job for her, and she probably puts more effort into guy 1 than 2 even though she expects more out of her relationship with 2. that guy will never get to experience how she is with 1. and 1 got to be... that guy, the guy who made her completely …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:32 AM
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if nothing else i appreciate the amount of effort you took to give this reply to my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 08:11 PM
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trp aside i think this guy's wife would consider him a ball-less cuck sooner or later if any of the video's contents are real, most women (with rare exceptions like 1%) you will ever meet are massively turned off by this shit and my muslim mom would call it a crime against the balance of nature ordained by allah or even curse the guy the same way she curses gay people. women sniff it out when a guy is breaking gender roles without "compensating" for it in some way and they don't enjoy it. i do n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:46 PM
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hey if it works it works at least he aint scammin people like tate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:53 PM
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in switzerland: there was a vote on it and obviously feminists were... Not excited to become equal to men who weren't don draper. also in other news, socialists apparently think "young people who need an education" excludes men by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:52 PM
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yep im guessing he will start shilling skincare products for gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:46 PM
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this sounds more like humble bragging for clout than the sort of thing you'd make as a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:46 PM
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They sound like fucking 5 year olds in daycare with how sheltered they are, i can imagine them acting like people who make less than 100 000$ a year dont exist and calling people who don't vote democrat to support blm lgbtqiawxyz+ "fascists" and bitching about the environment while driving fat SUVs and buying a whole ass ipad because they forgot the password on their previous one, im sorry im making this shit up they just sound like insufferable little shits who want the world to know how import…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:44 PM
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Why does he film himself doing this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:39 PM
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truest comment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:39 PM
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i agree but you know you just never control that no matter what you do. sometimes she really really just wants to leap away and maybe slip and fall on some brand new dick. you dont control this. no one does. cant decide how other people react to you even if you do everything by the book.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:36 PM
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the flair says breadpill you know what to expect
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:11 PM
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they can shame me all they want ill dodge the draft, i value my life just as much as women value theirs when they vote against gender equal conscription
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:10 PM
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gitn pregnant gitn periods gitn your DMs flooded massive numbers of people trying to brown nose you and insincerely shilling you feeling unfulfilled if your partner isnt 6/6/6 top 5% because the other 95% generate no arousal reaction and the fomo of feeling like you are in infinite demand EDIT: being attracted to violent felons and convicts who could cave your skull in manospherecels not really trying to understand you feminists treating you like a thumb sucking 0 iq retard who lives in a cage e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:06 PM
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i agree but sometimes they just want to go... on an adventure or something like they think they'll get to go on a journey to throw the ring into mt doom if they just leave their committed relationship and family behind and this has nothing to do with cheating or abuse sometimes mrs kramer just wants to "Find herself"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:59 AM
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Or the right to vote or to refuse and report sexual harassment? i can and have been sexually harassed before, shouldnt reporting that be a right for all humans of both sexes and all ages? wait im guessing you think sexual harassment only happens to fair maidens Are you telling me that the right to an abortion isn't part of "women's rights"? not really no lots of women are against it, some want it, others dont, i am pro choice but you are not oppressed just because you cant kill your fetus But sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:45 AM
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no, human rights benefit men. "women's rights" is a hocus pocus phrase, a feelgood vibe for feminists and the men that want their approval that means... nothing really, because a 'right' to those people is whatever they want women to want. if feminists gain advantages at men's expense, the only way you could possibly gain from that is if you have a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:08 PM
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We are desperate to believe that women are wonderful and that if they did anything wrong we just need to give them moooooooooooooooooooooooooooooore gibs, give them moooooooooooooooooore of the stuff they want, we need to help them mooooooooooooore and that this will rescue them and we will become heroes. most women are in on the game. and while feminists might bicker among themselves, when there's a man in the room, they all become a cartel of merciless rent-seekers and they suddenly feel like …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:06 PM
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women outearn men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:04 PM
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im not red pill either i think game is superstition, PUAs are scammers and you can't plug cheat codes into a woman to make her slick and slippery or act like you're a billionaire when you aren't one to instantly gain alpha status, but biology and genetic determinism aren't boogeymen that terrify me and bring me to tears. so i'm a bluepiller as well, but i seem to not line up with the bluepillers here as i'm a genetic determinist and i'd never tell kids "you can be anything you want".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:06 PM
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i didnt say anyone "not redpill" i said "most bluepillers"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:59 PM
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then that doesnt explain how i see very few blue pillers who aren't some combination of left wing progressives, feminists and people who deny that biology fundamentally impacts our personalities - because left wing progressives find biology gross compared to explaining everything through oppression and victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:31 PM
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Nobody ever said men didn't have standards many did but i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:19 PM
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Wow what a loser attitude you have here. No wonder you must be depressed in real life. You are so negative that women avoid you, all you do is complain and act like you can't improve your luck with women. now unlike YOU i have to go get some SOY for WIFEY tonight cause the bull is coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:11 PM
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guy 2 is being chased for something unrelated to his texting style and would be chased no matter what he typed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:05 PM
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most blue pillers do have set beliefs like the blank slate, the idea that the sexual marketplace is "fair and morally just", social constructivism and the idea that looks can't be objective or that personalities are more sexually attractive than looks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:02 PM
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Men's Emotional instability Draws Them to Women Who Have It
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:08 PM
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no bc women don't wanna stay in abusive marriages they choose their health/safety over the social stigma of divorce/being single okay thats not the question i asked bc marriage is an achievement for women but not for men why would women view it as an achievement if women don't think drowning in gasoline or lying down on train tracks is an achievement? what you're saying is that most women, and all married women, are suicidally retarded and that they're begging their boyfriends to watch them jump…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:02 PM
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that's not my belief sir, i'm not apresonly. i would personally dislike the traditional marriage model as a man where i'm busting my chops 40+ hours a week to put an unemployed adult human being in daycare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:34 PM
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so how many women would say yes to "hey do you want a relationship model where you are literally enslaved to a man and to the patriarchy if it's called marriage" if you asked them? and how come januarycel is a radfem whos throwing herself into marriage while im reluctant to ever get married? most mentally functional individuals would not want to become slaves if they can entirely avoid it. you seem to think that married women are stupid suicidal lemmings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:27 PM
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that doesnt explain why women are the ones who dont like delaying the marriage contract and pressure their bfs to marry them, are they just stupid and suicidal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:24 PM
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is it workin out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:23 PM
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cause the nut get busted way harder with a partner, men also want to feel hawt but thats a male thing because males arent guaranteed options the way females are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:28 PM
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the nut-busting is the goal busting that nut feels great theres no psychoanalysis to it. the women who have the most casual are the ones who orgasm more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:25 PM
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Men and women tend to do it for self esteem mostly No they just want to rub uglies and bust a nut, men might do it to feel above other men but not women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:16 PM
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nah the women here even 40 year old divorced ones brag about how many options they have, if you think it's normal for women to get no attention just remember how tiny r/foreveralonewomen is compared to r/foreveralone and the r/virgin gender survey, or even the posts the female users versus the male users make. "im 19 should i lose my virginity hmm i dont know what decision ill take" vs "im 30 and i have been rejected by 128485906 women / ignored my whole life"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:23 PM
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/u/NotARussianBot1984 has firsthand seen an attractive man who pulled women end up with a charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:19 PM
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im sorry man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:17 PM
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No not really if you're more desirable than other men it is extremely easy to get laid, trivial even. but feminists are running on a train of hatred and spite for male sexuality and went to penalize it even if it limits their own sexual opportunities. even if i were chad and i am certainly not, i would fear for my safety if i hooked up with girls, which i do not want to do. the rest of us either experience a miracle (which can still go wrong) or keep competing for options that get worse every ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 02:16 PM
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it is not, it comes closer to statist socialism where the government and the industry are the same entity (or work as if they are one entity) than it does to rugged free market capitalism but it is not socialism in any sort that marx would approve, hence my words "add nuance and realism"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:40 PM
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insert le redditor joke about serial killer body count here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:23 AM
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i didn't say men are crazy for initiating im calling out januarycel for implying that every nigga who slides into a woman's DMs must be as mentally ill as a nigga who wants to marry a stranger when thats how most couples start
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:17 AM
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tinder says so it's normal as in commonplace not normal as in what i find acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:16 AM
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the marriage proposal was an anecdote to illustrate how much attention women get, not the topic of all his comments. you are getting sidetracked here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:24 PM
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it wouldve blown my mind as a kid but yes i think its normal now, women in general get much more attention than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:49 PM
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you dont have to accept em but hey women are the ones that decided they dont covet monks and incels, i agree the arguments are bs but i'm not the one who's gonna fuck those guys so my opinion doesn't matter. personally, i used to hope i'd find a woman that says "i prefer men who are virgins, i get horny for male virgins"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:41 PM
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not really its just mentally ill men, it is absolutely real but it's probably something you find in religious sects. but if you want to get into it it's like how women say they like you so much they don't want to have sex with you and give it to you as passionately and freely as they do to hookups they "don't like" (and apparently they like you so much that they don't want to fulfill your desire for sex). and that unfortunately is much more common now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:31 PM
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mentally ill ones messaging people Damn i guess most modern couples must start with mentally ill men because they meet online and men initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:21 PM
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proposing the marriage proposal was an anecdote to illustrate how much attention women get, not the topic of all his comments. you are getting sidetracked here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:17 PM
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this question sounds like a double bind
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:13 PM
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actually i can confirm this as a blue pill man i saw this play out with my classmate she had a fucking storm of DMs from many nationalities and one of them was a marriage proposal from a local and this is a woman who had no special presence or achievements in college (i know what shes been up to so dont tell me about how she invented a water purifier for afghan kids while i wasnt looking) i wouldnt have had 1/5 of those DMs on a good day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:11 PM
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2 & 4 or a milder 1 where the ratio is 4:5
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:07 PM
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You seem rather surprised that it's not common for someone who substituted a very rare definition of the term to the common one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:06 PM
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yes in fact i think young men of the future will be poorer than us and have fewer opportunities in every domain
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:15 PM
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i hope if i ever have kids that i only conceive daughters i dont want my kids to go through what i went through
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:47 PM
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Because, from my understand the average men find the average women attractive they do Or, is this implication men are only looking at a minority of women that are young and thin? they prefer em but you wont find men going "life is too short to date a woman with a bmi above 18" the way some women on lipstickalley discuss height
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:27 PM
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and it's used because it can also mean the other thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:24 PM
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"My dad died, I cried and she didn’t want to have sex". Maybe it's because she is giving you space to process what you're going through. And because emotional pain isn't healed with sex in women, she assumes you're like that too. this is speculation and i think occam's razor works here: dude cried, dude became a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:26 PM
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it is a stereotype but in my own experience it sure as hell wasnt my dad who beat the shit out of me or berated me when i cried as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:23 PM
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im not red pill therefore im blue pill thats what some users here say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:03 AM
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im not red pill therefore im blue pill thats what some users here say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:03 AM
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i agree but if this is the case you have to skip entirely that part about the match, what i'd say is: being cooperative gives you access to better social resources in the long run that can be more useful than material wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:02 AM
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yes they want inexperienced men to be shipped away in containers basically thats what this is about you just aint on anybody's wishlist being angry about it wont help us
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:07 PM
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i don't want to "get more women than the other person" i just think you're being disingenuous if you pretend that guys can just ignore biology. they want to get a woman. it drives their decisions tremendously on a basic biological level even beyond what they'd admit. you tell people to "be kind" and that it'll eventually be a good match, but you refuse to back that promise up with collateral. don't make that promise. i don't tell anybody "do x and you'll eventually get a free girlfriend" if i do…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:59 PM
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putting kindness coins into the vending machine doesn't often "buy" you a girlfriend, let alone a good one. morals have very little to do with who gets more women than who: a maniacal lesbian with a chainsaw could get more BPD girls than a guy who didn't luck out in the looks, money, status or ethnicity department gets any women. that doesn't mean i envy her, but she can pull the incel card on your "kind guy" and he'd have no retort. there is no "X" action you can take that reliably gets you a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:52 PM
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i agree, some people know that TRP doesn't work, but let's be real most blue pill people have their own beliefs they regularly put forth that can be knocked down as well without appealing to TRP, like the idea that personality is the most important factor in dating or that looks aren't objective. bluepill isn't just "not TRP", it makes its own assertions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:48 PM
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I think looks DO matter. But it's not a standard across the blanket universal thing. We all like what we like. A 10 to me is a 4 to someone else. A 4 to me can be a 8 to someone. Like it's not a constant thing. So my 10 can be someone's 4 and I will be like heart eyes over him and my friends are like what the actual fuck? As long as you take care of yourself. Groom regularly. Clean up well. Smell nice and lead a somewhat healthy lifestyle you are doing what you can. Braces/oral care are really i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:36 PM
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blue piller coping_man reporting for duty, i disagree with red pillers too because the only "game" that can net me a woman is limb lengthening surgery (though ill admit their game works great for getting me a cellmate boyfriend if i get arrested for harassment.)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:35 PM
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more than i do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:33 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:39 PM
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no they were not if i have alzheimers coming up it hasnt gotten yet to the point where id forget sending dick pics and asking for nudes with a ppd user but sure you can share em i got nothing i shared that i feel the need to hide
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:38 PM
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okay but other people reading this will assume the DMs were sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:21 PM
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This is fascinating, it's like watching sharp_engineering379 take a rorschach test
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 07:14 PM
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i dont mean imply like in mathematics like "if n is an integer then n+1 is an integer" i mean imply as in 'convey through subtext'
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:36 PM
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im aware that he's a feminist, as far as i know however radfeminism blames men based on the immutable trait of being male and your guy cant fix being male (you might not believe that "being male" is immutable depending on how left wing you are but you get what i mean) i probably dont remember the whole comments in question but if something like "the institutions are all set up to the benefit of men" doesnt implictly convey "marriage is an oppressive institution of the patriarchy and i should avo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:31 PM
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Honestly if i could have been there before you got with him i would have told you to cash in the bisexuality chips and find another radfem woman because the math has to add up: sooner or later, what ive seen you say about how it's the man's fault that the wife discovers things need to be fixed in the house, how most of men's interaction with women is to disrespect them or get the upper hand on them how you're oppressed by institutions yet you want in the institution of marriage having to give so…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:12 PM
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it's what you get as a man if you're down bad for a radfem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:34 PM
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they work, mike they work as intended by the people who made them and what you experienced is the intended outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:04 PM
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Congrats your catch is a partner who believes you are oppressive and more privileged by society than her in every way, if you ever have a household disagreement you'll need a damn good plastic surgeon who can stitch your balls back on afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:54 PM
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i keep seeing evidence that scientifically women are more empathetic than men but somehow that feminine empathy has a blind spot for adult human males, like if you gave them a grid picture of the kind used in captcha tests and told them "click on every square with a living being" with a picture of a man in a forest with fungi, birds and women they'd somehow manage to select every square except the ones with the man in them, the literal fucking animals rank higher than the human male in their hie…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:42 PM
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the same reason why there are no libertarians in a bank run, no socialists with a winning lottery ticket
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:24 AM
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I agree and i think we need to make men who turn to the services of sex workers feel safe in exchanging voluntary services because they are disproportionately poor, disadvantaged and marginalized or homeless people who don't have access to regular relationships, im all for legalizing sex work and decriminalizing both prostitutes and johns
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:21 PM
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they didnt even have a literacy rate above 40% where im from in her generation let alone that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:17 PM
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seems like a pretty sweet deal for the woman, you promise nothing, you need to give nothing and you get stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:15 PM
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uh yes it is personal, it is the most personal thing ever, if it's not personal then nothing is but what you shouldnt do is to wallow in bitterness about it, women didnt want us, you just have to accept that you did miss out, im not 30 yet but i already made peace with the fact i missed out on countless opportunities i cant get back
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:03 PM
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my mother has the intelligence of a glue sniffer, the face of an incel and the weight of a dumpster and her personality did not make up for any of these things my father landed her a better lifestyle than anything she could have built by herself she never seemed happy about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:11 PM
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That's why i said "hints" not "symptoms" or "diagnosis"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:32 PM
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if most relationships shifted to cohabitation that would negate your initial claim as well which brings you back to square one: you cant really fix that, lots of women really act like sex is the best thing they have to offer and no matter how "respectable" they make their relationship look and how many state marriage contracts they sign, those particular women want a buck for their banging, and they want it stacked high in $100 bills (ask women in divorce court how independent they are when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:24 PM
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My brother in the kamisato clan your mother does in fact show several hints of cluster b personality disorders
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:17 PM
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because marriage is cratering it doesnt mean women overall have changed attitudes about flipping roles it just means they are quitting its why women talk about being single in a completely alien way to men's experiences, im 21 years in and i still dont see how it's "refreshing" or "liberating" to be single. if this were a product i'd want a refund
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:08 PM
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you cant really fix that, lots of women really act like sex is the best thing they have to offer and no matter how "respectable" they make their relationship look and how many state marriage contracts they sign, those particular women want a buck for their banging, and they want it stacked high in $100 bills (ask women in divorce court how independent they are). the SW is just more upfront and guarantees good service. as much as i understand that wives are supposed to do much more with their hus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:52 PM
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i have and what i meant to say is: for many of us it isnt a negative stereotype that some women charge for sex it isnt one for me and it isnt one for the sex worker i see them as social workers by any other name you see it that way, others see that many more women treat their sexuality as an excel spreadsheet and the sex worker is just more upfront about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:47 PM
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she doesnt think its negative that men pay her for sex she thinks its a good thing and hey i wouldnt do it myself but when the rubber meets the road, most men pay no matter what the arrangement is called
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:43 PM
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apparently if kids arent involved women dont enjoy sex enough to not charge for it with overpriced dates and rings
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:41 PM
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What does it fucking matter that old women used to be young? the fact that they have a frame of reference and can remember a time when they werent in the excluded groups? the development that comes with having a healthy social and sexual life? Compare that situation with young men. So the fuck what if you didn’t sleep with hundreds of women as a young bro? Nobody is guaranteed that. But you DO have the rest of your life to find a young woman to put up with your shit. And then when she gets too o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 10:47 AM
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young men and older women who are lonely older women used to be young young men didnt use to be cads and i dont have memories of a time when i was "young dumb and full of come" and turned women's heads just by being "hawt" without any effort on my part
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:24 AM
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they love the money that comes with it and they loved that sweet ass contract when they signed it i sure as hell didnt ever feel like my butthole could net me a 5 figure USD income this is what they want to do and you are about to learn the lesson most men learn that women do not need or want to follow your idea of how they should be, and that they make choices of their own will that you disagree with even if they later want to claim otherwise. she ain't a victim, she's a businesswoman. if you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:14 AM
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already been on it for years i meant a trick that they invented, something like a revelation like the general relativity of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 12:06 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:44 PM
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does TRP know some trick i can use that will turn me into one of those guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:17 PM
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most couples dont do that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:15 PM
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Yep my buddy science i called him on the phone yesterday and asked him about this and he said men are more narcissistic (joking) in all seriousness, i would be skeptical of these sorts of things if they come from self reports
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:04 PM
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without looks nothing else matters
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 07:04 PM
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who said i want an apartment in manhattan or that a woman with one gives me a hard on??? you picked a random metric and measured everyone here by it, but not everybody cares about it. you think eulenwatcher is creaming herself over manhattan real estate??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:48 PM
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It is true that young girls are outpacing men in several categories; however, if you’re a young man who is literally just somewhat successful just a tiny bit successful you will become attractive to some. The truth is, girls in my social circles can’t find anyone bc well they want an equal or someone on their level and simply can’t find it. They’re outpacing the dating market in what? in that they get more pussy than i do even though they're women, or in that they're diversity hires picked up by…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 03:04 PM
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grandma from 1953 has more tinder likes than you and i ever will
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:23 AM
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most men have sex eventually by age 40 Once they age, they settle for "lesser" men and then cheat constantly with rich and powerful men. they dont cheat but uh they just end up in dead bedrooms and divorce court
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:23 AM
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that wont work, just avoid bringing up the topic or tell her you dont want to reveal your history because it might shock her idk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:21 AM
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i already am concerned about survival and that doesnt help
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 12:19 AM
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I hope you are joking, but this is reddit. i was Many men chose as boys not to participate in any social activities and chose to spend their free time on video games and porn rather than interacting with the opposite sex IRL. Those men have now reached thirty and realize they want a relationship and show up on Reddit to demand reparations for their own poor decisions. Thats uh great j_______42 and i agree that demanding reparations from people who aren't responsible for your problem is a loser's…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:54 PM
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no you've just seen other women live by it implicitly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:43 PM
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flirting with girls in elementary school, maybe holding hands, going on dates and to prom with classmates in high school he meant some way to do it without being a sex offender and for people who aren't attracted to children or don't drive deloreans with a flux capacitor ma'am
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:42 PM
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if women see it that way then our opinion doesnt matter and it is in fact a red flag they see it that way theres no deep mystical intuition behind it it's just that you didnt get your pp touched therefore something's wrong with you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 11:40 PM
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hey careful some people might not like that you're creatin competition for em if you do something more productive than sitting on your ass and making demands
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:46 PM
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well women arent doing a great job of making those guys feel sexy the way they do with the fboys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:03 AM
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you probably shouldnt be like how this sub's men describe women thats a good thing i dont see myself reflected in how red pillers describe the guys here either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:57 AM
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it might be the only answer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:05 AM
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positively: sexually, by treating their stated preferences as sexually attractive. if i want to encourage a certain behavior, i show that i reward it. if i claim i like skinny girls but you never find me hitting one up, you understand that i don't like skinny girls as much as i claim. negatively: by not spreading their legs for men that don't fulfill their stated preferences. this is more important. if i say i like skinny girls and you find me going after fatties instead, you conclude that i'm t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:31 PM
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about your testimony of what women do to you? or about the fact that you don't have a partner? either way it sounds like you're generally agreeing with me here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:28 PM
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Tinder says otherwise sir
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:33 PM
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thats the bit they play to help men lie to themselves that women are more "innocent" it's like a conspiracy where she joins him to help him stay stupid and he's an accomplice in endumbening himself more on this here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:14 PM
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well of course, you'd just use another phrase for it like objectification and reducing women to their bodies, either way it's "my horny good your horny bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:08 PM
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hits bong, speaks in a surfer accent y-yeah bro i'm, like, bong cough, expels vapor VIIIIIBIN' with it, duuuuude!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:28 AM
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Nobody i love when commenters do this "nobody says X" bit and i just know it means they believe X
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:17 AM
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only if you dont feel bad when you scam others
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:13 AM
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do you also forget to take note of whether she makes eye contact and whether she tries to initiate physical contact with you or the price of the items she picks on the menu on a less serious note do you think psychologists are the branch of scientists who wear goggles and fill beakers
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:07 AM
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you are wonderful honey (except for your username)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:00 AM
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Safinated wrote: People are more wary of one compared to the other coping_man wrote earlier: better: because they don't see them as threats. it's about perception, not objective reality. second, being "trusting and open" doesnt describe the entire women are wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:55 AM
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if you dont start as friends, what does that leave you with then swipe apps? clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:53 AM
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it has nothing to do with socialization people just get dopamine kicks from being around women most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:39 AM
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degradation kink or something
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:38 AM
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you cant control what other women do to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:35 AM
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that might be the case but if we dont experienc it then thats probably noteworthy and for practical purposes they dont have much empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:35 AM
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i didnt say breaking gender roles makes you a good person. the opposite of breaking gender roles isnt robbing a bank and slapping your secretary's ass, so i don't think following them is "evil" and breaking them is "good". those are your morals not mine, i'm not a feminist. what i do think is that feminists should demonstrate their commitment to their stated preferences in men. if i say i hate sluts but you catch me sliding into one's inbox, you'd think i should stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 06:33 AM
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social status is "indirect power" in this case while "direct power" is just having bigger muscles id rather have the indirect power of joe biden than the direct power of some roided up bodybuilder
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:09 PM
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exactly: and since every woman gets to be young at least once in her life, there isn't much of a pressure to compete or to take action to be more pleasing to men other than paint some fakeup on your face and straighten your hair. now, i personally believe that being nice doesnt sexually pull women either, only the holy trinity of you-know-what does and maybe once in a blue moon you find a woman that gets attached to you because you remind her of her father or you trigger some aspect of her attac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 08:01 PM
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godspeed my friend, you really do like to cite papers and thats somethin i can respect time to look at the paper p3: Methods. The data included transcripts of conversations between 343 undergraduatenursing students and a virtual patient.Results. Study hypothesis, which was supported, predicted that when presented withopportunities to express empathy female students will use such opportunities more frequentlythan male students. RQ1 assessed the level of empathic responses and showed no difference…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:54 PM
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Actually you're right we do but it is not as strong or as prevalent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:36 PM
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Gender differences in brain networks supporting empathy "Females frequently score higher on standard tests of empathy, social sensitivity, and emotion recognition than do males." what is that standard test? i know they're more socially sensitive, i just explained that this doesn't make them "more nurturing" or kinder and certainly not wonderful. This article reviews evidence from ethology, social psychology, economics, and neuroscience to show that there are fundamental differences in implicit m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:32 PM
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(2) you're almost there, here's a question: how come most women don't feel the need to be nice to men to get sex, nurturing and attention from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:25 PM
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Gender differences in personality are often examined in terms of the Big Five. However, the Big Five do not exhaust all of the important distinctions among personality traits. Traits are hierarchically organized such that more specific traits that vary together are grouped within higher-order factors, like the Big Five. In the study of gender differences, therefore, one can investigate gender differences in personality traits at multiple levels of resolution. Most trait research has focused on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:19 PM
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theyre not agreeable in the sense that theyre kinder and more generous theyre agreeable in the sense that they will tell you what you like to hear even if it's false or misleading and that they won't go against the crowd and that the worst thing you can do in their book is offend someone's feelings as for empathetic im not sure where that comes from but the bulk of female ppd users ive seen here are definitely not that empathetic towards the male users, even the polite sounding ones and leftist …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:06 PM
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yes and unfortunately the male desire for women not having agency is very much there because many of us are simply not going to be valued or relevant to women so we need to imagine that we just have to rescue them or that there is something we can do for them that will make us special women are relevant to men by default we are not relevant to women by default
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:04 PM
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point it out in a way they can’t deny and watch what happens You seem to think there is a way they can't deny, you underestimate the power of the human imagination for COPING
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:47 PM
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so are many men whats your point many men are more high iq than women and make more inventions and products that doesnt explain why we dont have a men are smart bias
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:46 PM
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why not? not like im blamin you for my choices, i just like to point out that feminists dont put their vagene where their mouth is and romantically/sexually support the useful idiot men who take their advice at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:41 PM
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return to my first paragraph: women can damage your social status / accuse you of wrongdoing. this lowers your access to resources and your social standing. it can marginalize you and render you irrelevant. to be irrelevant is to die for men or at least expose you to harm and extremely reduced opportunities in life. title IX and divorce courts are some of the examples. oh and women can and do grape men so it's more that we/you don't want to see them as such rather than women in general really be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:40 PM
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i dont deny it most men arent trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:38 PM
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its more so because its how we rationalize women largely not having much desire for us so we convince ourselves "oh if i just show her my LAMBO / slay the evil dragon in front of her she will totally like me and realize im such a cool white knight bro!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:38 PM
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well yes relevance is a zero sum game unless there are more separate circles, places and times for every one of us to be relevant in i personally welcome the idea of women accepting their agency and not downplaying it, the question is, do men try to delude themselves into thinking women's agency is lower than it really is? and i think they do. "men's greatest weakness is their facade of strength; women's greatest strength is their facade of weakness."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:35 PM
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thats not a choice i made im speaking in generalities but if you're asking me about me: i have standards and im not having sex because of them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:52 PM
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i like some women but yes what ive been trying to say here is that its neither just men individually convincing themselves women are wonderful and "choosing to believe fantasy" nor just men being lied to by external sources
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:46 PM
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they aren’t threats better: because they don't see them as threats. it's about perception, not objective reality. second, being "trusting and open" doesnt describe the entire women are wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:29 PM
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Dude. As a social reject i kinda understand what you are putting down but I feel like you are either oversimplifying things or over -exaggerating them. it's a bit necessary to simplify things as obviously i dont have a lab on me and cant run double blind peer reviewed studies with a sample of 2000 people but i get the point, this might all sound sketchy if you arent one who pays attention to this kind of thing A lot of the situations you mention do happen but there is no malicious intent behind …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:13 PM
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Women aren't looking to be rescued the thread didnt say women are looking to be rescued you are replying to something nobody said not understanding that no one actually gives a shit about white Knighting. ok if nobody cares then everyone will ignore this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:11 PM
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yes you just end up a virgin if you choose to break those standards (which isn't sexy in a man.) there isnt a wave of feminist women sexually supporting men who break gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:45 PM
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so uh whats exactly the message here??? that op is confused about his wife because thats not what women want? that he's the one who wants all this because he's a man?? or that his wife can get by without all this stuff?? he was saying his wife "needed" this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:42 PM
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He doesn't know what's happening in china,south korea,japan,mena (including israel),india,pakistan,bangladesh,kenya,mexico heres a litmus test for you: "if my traditionalism expects me to take on responsibilities women are excused from and to risk my life for them while they wont for me, is my traditionalism a feminism by any other name?"
/r/MensRights12/12/23 10:47 AM
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wheres this country where women are attracted to short guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 10:05 AM
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nah women will be fine there are guys who spend their life savings on onlyfans just to receive AI generated texts from a camgirl's profile and a welfare state that's eager to sacrifice us for them and already lets em off easy for graping male kids, washington/westmintster/tokyo/riyadh/insert your country's seat of legislature treats women like a natural resource that has to be stockpiled at all costs instead of citizens who have to follow laws (though some of those stop them from doing basic thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:57 AM
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those are outliers anyways or ragebaiters its like using lipstick alley radfems or eccentric female ppd users to extrapolate to every woman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:54 AM
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I disagree, completely. Most men, if given the opportunity would be thrilled to bed a new attractive woman on a weekly basis. Eventually, he would settle down with a woman, but not until he’s had fun, and lots of it. Even if women had the opportunity to hook up with a different hot man for weeks on end, without the possibility of a relationship, they wouldn’t. for most men i agree but i seem to be different
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:53 AM
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lyudmila pachenliko or whatever her name was also that other woman i forgot also from ussr who had a tank called "the fighting girlfriend" i for one support able bodied women joining men in the front lines
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 09:51 AM
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wait until you find out that in other cultures you had to fight another man to the death to uphold your "dignity" while women didnt
/r/MensRights12/12/23 09:48 AM
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what culture is that
/r/MensRights11/12/23 10:51 PM
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Again, the blue pill is just defined as disagreeing with the red pill. That's it. Holy shit i'm a bluepiller now because i slam dunk on PUA roaches all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:38 PM
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did i say it was socialism or did i say i "added realism and nuance" to another user's comment saying it is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:45 AM
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would you care to tell us
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:49 AM
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let me try to add nuance and realism to his words government officials dont complain about government spending wastefully on things that benefit them or corpos that give them a revolving door once they retire
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:48 AM
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maybe its true i personally got hit up by taken girls and a nutty married teacher and i didnt really want it though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:47 AM
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there is really not much you can do except try to make it easier for them individually to solve the problem by curbing the excesses of feminism and stop giving artificial preferential treatment to women in education, public transportation (like single sex train cars in some countries) and hiring or in family law for example i dont see artificially boosting women in stem with sex-specific scholarships as an inherently good thing i dont see why it's better than if they otherwise chose a different …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:42 AM
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take this with a grain of salt but i got more empathy and sympathy from both men and wimen with autism than some nt women so im not sure whats wrong with the measurements they use for empathy in psychological studies
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:39 AM
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But I think nobody is asking them to do that some are, some copers certainly are asking them to do that but its mostly trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 09:14 AM
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your reply sounds like chatgpt but ill bite i have to simplify because thats how all generalizations and pattern recognition works, im aware nuance is a thing but if i only focused on outliers id never have an opinion about anything, some women understand individual moral standards and some men will defend anything other men do but those are not the default
/r/MensRights11/12/23 09:10 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:12 PM
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the longer you spend wallowing in magical thinking, the deeper the shit pit you'll fall into women do not secretly think you're wonderful and short term thinking will leave you with very little happiness in the long run and very few people who put up with you the only people who can live in constant short term hedonistic thinking are those who can force someone else to pay for the consequences and i do not want to live as a parasite
/r/MensRights10/12/23 08:35 PM
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a real man would look after a women. a real man has diy skills. your not a man if you act like that. etc... Real Man is pretty much john titor at this point or bigfoot, we've heard so many conflicting stories about him and all the things he'd do that if anybody provides documented footage of Real Man they could probably earn a fucking nobel prize
/r/MensRights10/12/23 07:42 PM
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its a different spelling of "LOL" inspired by world of warcraft where enemy player chat in the game would be garbled and "LOL" was rendered as "KEK"
/r/MensRights10/12/23 03:30 PM
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im in the opposite situation as somebody who's single and looking my inbox is empty KEK
/r/MensRights10/12/23 02:49 PM
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You are coping so fucking hard and what you are saying makes women sound like 20 iq retards who shouldn't be even allowed to leave their bedrooms without parental supervision
/r/MensRights10/12/23 11:51 AM
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Must be hot ah shit i lost here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 11:37 AM
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it never began
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:40 PM
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yes the difference is now women are selecting against male virginity more harshly than they did before
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:05 PM
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because they arent single as you understand it and just describe themselves that way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:30 PM
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on the "incel problem" stats: i want to understand dating so i want to ignore incels and black pillers is not different than i want to understand business so i will only listen to ted talks by billionaires
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:26 PM
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"Men's rights activists" are constantly espousing an ideology that suggests women should be reproductive chattel - look at the popularity of Andrew Tate in spite of everything he's done men's rights activists who want financial abortions and an end to selective service = regressive traditionalists who want to put women in cages = some internet guru who brags about scamming other men and taking advantage of them??? Jesus christ go read some paul elam or warren farrell you've never seen an MRA bef…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:50 PM
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because the alternatives are either violence or even more men becoming dangerously unwell. men arent going to turn violent en masse against women anytime soon, gangs might crop up though when state failure kicks mounds of men into slum life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:39 PM
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Incels/manospherians prefer physical threats of burning down the world and societal withdrawal/collapse, which are more significant in intent/sentiment than actual means those are trolls or delusional anyways, an encounter with a woman would have them screaming "RETREAT!!!!!!!" like a WW1 general discovering the invention of mortar shells
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 07:01 AM
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you misread my comment: when women stop wanting the sexual revolution (not happening regardless of what louise perry copers say), they will impose new arrangements, that are so restrictive they'll make ISIS blush, on us (males) like chopping our cocks off for jerking it. that's not a revenge fantasy, that's more like a science fiction horror premise (or a revenge fantasy of fundie girls) you got me mixed up with apocalypse copers who think that their ideal past that never really existed is comin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:42 AM
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it isn't a fair assessment, women can be overwhelmed with attention and don't want too much of it even from the hottest dude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 06:28 PM
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-im not american -women's collective will is stronger than men's and leads the sentiments of lawmakers. the 19th amendment would never have been ratified if patriarchy theory were accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:25 PM
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other factors like all time high national debt, hostile attitudes towards men (esp single men) and tax rates generally discourage men from wanting to work more for money they wont get especially if it ends up in the hands of individuals who aren't going to help them back, and you dont need to intellectually know these things to feel their effects
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:05 AM
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unmarried women are married. they're not single. they're married to the ultimate "nice guy doormat" husband who'll let them do anything they want, fuck anybody they want without committing to him and will always provide a paycheck (or even a legally enforced job by quotas) even if it means robbing others to do it: uncle sam. men can't compete with that. and if you're a married man... uncle sam is your wife's boyfriend, and when she calls him to complain about you, he might show up at your door a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:17 AM
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doesnt matter, they wanted this and they still want it. when women stop wanting the sexual revolution, we'll be seeing new arrangements that are so restrictive they'll make ISIS blush and that isn't happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:17 AM
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that's either trolling or delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:15 AM
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it wont be male incel gangs beheading people so much as just men giving up, roping and checking out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:12 AM
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fiction has nothing to say about real life or the mindsets of people in real life whatsoever because it's entertainment come on you know what he meant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:06 PM
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for most women the idea of earning more than their male partner and having to SPEND MORE MONEY ON HIM than they get out of him is like suggesting that they eat everything they see in a dumpster and roll in it so im betting on the former by a ~30:1 margin
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 09:02 PM
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they call you selfish for disliking the welfare state but i think i like to help people and i just dont want to end up broker than welfare recipients and without the generous handouts they get or feel like i'm punished for wanting to work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:30 AM
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Grey's Anatomy perfectly captures how work in the medical field plays out in real life. Grey's Anatomy perfectly captures how women evaluate men. shit i can't tell the difference between these titles
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:22 AM
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Yes and let me blow your mind, did you know that 50 shades of grey isn't literally about working in a corporate office? even better: did you know harry potter isn't real because wizards don't exist? WOW!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:07 AM
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the thread wasn't about medicine, it was about the character psychology in the fiction tv series "grey's anatomy". you might also read animal farm and complain that it's unrealistic because animals can't talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:06 AM
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holy shit i could get on the "grind" as advertised by tate and hamza for the rest of my life and i wouldnt get 1% as many options as these average women LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:57 PM
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you have to get into the woman mindset for a moment: you feel that your vagene makes you superior to 99% of those guys without any action on your part because you are the most special, delicate, vulnerable thing god has ever created if you are anything like some(not all) of the female posters here, so most of them are beneath your kweenly worth. let us suppose you don't. you still aren't that attracted to any of them because of how the autonomic nervous system works: you can't negotiate attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:33 PM
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because she's in demand and she can feel it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:30 PM
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what are you talking about, the OP is regurgitating feminist talking points about how women are the victims of creepy homeless "people" (she's thinking of men) and how men are "supposed" (by whom and why?) to be daddy and protector for women they're not related to at the same time better get to beating down on other men for m'lady, you gotta show her you're "one of the good ones"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:32 PM
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women are very docile and submissive to a billion dollar media conglomerate brainwashing them with slogans like black lives matter or with waving lgbt flags sure but walk into the average two parent household and you'll see who has to bribe whom to stay and who's thinking of "opening up the marriage"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:28 PM
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The problem is rather that women are automatically seen as needing help. i fucking agree i think men have this compulsion to see women as needing help so that they can fantasize about being white knight william von blueball III the noblest squire in the land and rescuing m'lady it is pathetic Of course saying you need to protect someone against their wishes or actual competency is looking down on them. yes i wish fewer men and feminists had this mindset about untrafficked prostitutes and strippe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:22 PM
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they probably pine over guys with similar immutable characteristics though often when i hear this the variation is based on mutable characteristics like clothing style, hair color or musical preferences or jobs while when i mean "varied taste" i mean a broader phenotype: height, ethnicity, facial structure, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:02 AM
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i agree im not willing to have sex on the same day myself anyways but thats because i think it's poor judgment to fuck someone you just met
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:36 PM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:27 PM
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this is just my hypothesis admittedly but i think its mostly men because men are the ones who dont delete their accounts as often
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:41 PM
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sitting for 40$ to 100$ an hour with a stranger who is gonna prescribe me shit pills or tell me advice i can find for free in self help books isnt going to help me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:39 PM
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every woman is out to take while men are poor babies who have no agency in their choices. you mixed me up with feminists, i believe men can be shitty and take advantage of women but a woman who's not attracted to her man is going to make him miserable if he's in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:53 PM
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it upsets you? that's irrelevant, the only thing that matters is: is this accurate or inaccurate, better than a random guess or not? i know a few exceptions might exist, but your average woman is as LocalTruthDealer says: talks bluepill, acts blackpill. if you're not living comfortably in a dream world, you don't get to ignore reality whenever it feels convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:22 PM
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yeah that would be great but thats not how it happens in real life for most of us, i want "us guys" to understand that you either get pussy immediately or she's not attracted to you, it's not negotiable and no amount of white knighting, government policy, home-buying, or ring-giving will make her as wet for you as the hottest guys. i'm oppenheimer, and every time i watch how women react when they're truly attracted, i'm doing the closeup face from the nolan film all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:12 PM
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the difference is any dog with 4 legs can later have 3 or fewer a woman that picks a mate for his personality will send him to r/deadbedrooms and maybe r/alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:56 PM
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it's not and she thought that health had something to do with physical attraction she might've had devoteeism (not sure i can explain it here as it might be against the rules) but anyway what makes someone physically attractive is more about things that im not allowed to say here that you can easily notice in a photo than whether someone has a tumor in their brain and a failing liver
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:54 PM
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the hunt for the magical woman that actually got wet for a personality continues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:49 PM
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he's right, if anything at least the average women can bond with other women by bitching about how much they all hate men, most women are more emotionally intimate with other women than their male partners
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:32 PM
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if its just about sex well you cant be lonelier with choice than without it because then you can just ignore the choices if its about everything else well i got news for you, it's not men who act like being single is an awesome option you can take, because women make being single sound like picking one ice cream flavor out of other classics like "situationship", "ehh i dont know", "the special guy i love so much i dont want to bang", "just a phase", "starter marriage" and more while the male rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:28 PM
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Showing vulnerability is one of the most confident things a man can do. It means he’s not afraid of how the other person is going to react. Think of it this way: if we’re facing off about to have a knife fight, and I toss my knife away, I’ve made myself more vulnerable, correct? Yet the only reason I would do such a thing is because I’m confident enough in my ability to beat you that I don’t even need a weapon. yes and you'll never feel insecure again after you're lying dead in a puddle of your …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:06 AM
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ask tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:03 AM
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yep im sure we will find some women whose type is 5'3" indian janitors and others that are into model train set autists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:50 AM
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i know and i wish self improvement copers would get this into their heads that there is no action "X" you can take that you can control that will make you that guy in women's eyes the guys who do best with women are the ones who "self improve" the least. if you're even trying, you're failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:35 PM
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self improvement copers when they realize they cant compare to the fat broke guy with tall genetics no matter how hard they work:
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 01:31 PM
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ive been saying this for ages now the wall is COPE
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 04:03 PM
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id like women to sexualize me it just doesnt happen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 02:07 PM
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i dont even give a shit about the Ns because i get 0 women low or high N, i just wish for them to respect us
/r/MensRights29/11/23 05:54 PM
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The world wasn’t designed for white men, it was designed for rich white men. even some people we'd consider rich white men get fucked over in divorce court, presumed guilty for sex crimes, etc
/r/MensRights29/11/23 05:51 PM
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same thing happened to me and like you they never explained to me what happened until years later
/r/MensRights29/11/23 10:06 AM
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Someone who believes they are a good and compassionate person, and becoming a feminist is a good way to further those traits. yep "What i say makes woman feel good therefore it means i am the good guy!!1!"
/r/MensRights29/11/23 10:04 AM
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i mean yes thats how women are, a lot of them (i wont say most just to remain on the safe side) are convinced that they are amazing independent miniature john galts when they lived most of their lives leveraging their genitals and family ties to pave a street of gold for them. doesn't stop them from echoing ayn rand when confronted with men's issues. most of us men simply don't have legions of strangers one right swipe away willing to buy us mooooooooooooooooore stuff just to touch our genitals …
/r/MensRights29/11/23 09:44 AM
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a good number of US women treat their relationships as prostitution by another name anyways, they're tallying up your tab precisely to the cent and watching how you dress and what you buy to calculate how much money you owe them
/r/MensRights28/11/23 09:57 PM
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it's hyperbole but thats the vibe i get from some of your comments its like im reading messages from someone in a science fiction alternate reality your parent comment in here is one i agree with however: that men are responsible for how they treat women regardless of how much sexual activity they perform. i just dont think it answers op's post, which is that the vast majority of people take the easy way out and act on impulses. you were referring to individual responsibility, and appeals to ind…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:40 PM
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there were a few exceptions but they get hounded and accused of being larper men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:49 AM
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you are replying to januarycel who lives in a parallel universe where women have to work 10 hours a day to pay bills for their misogynistic neet husbands and most women are heroically risking their lives to satisfy men who view them as objects by banging 5'2" indian janitors
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:43 AM
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this is what some bluepillers kept telling me as part of their rugged individualism. talk therapy is mostly by and for women. feminists in general do this: proposing solutions that are more fit for women to men, pushing to make everything palatable to the lowest common denominator of women and then blaming men for not fitting in. and bluepillers overlap with feminism or balk at the idea of disagreeing with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:29 AM
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blue pill says you go to talk therapy and pay some jackass 100$ an hour to tell you stuff you could figure out yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:45 AM
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it's like a comfort zone, it's like the "not going to the gym" or the "not washing your car" of habits, we all slip back into it over time if we don't exert enough self awareness. many bluepillers were blackpillers for a brief time when they realized how much looks matter but they make themselves forget it and regress to bluepill when they're in dire need of comfort, because they use cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:40 AM
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yes her in context she said it was about how desperate the men sounded and im sure it applies to some of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:39 AM
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yes it would be a deal breaker for women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:27 PM
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the ceo of women will award you a medal shortly (it's shiny so it looks better than the one the ceo of incels promised me)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:17 PM
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eh your views could be skewed sometimes, some woman i think it was houstongrad called the men here "dogs" for wanting to be sexually active... and well you know what that would sound like if a man said it about the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:13 PM
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that is what "agreeability" means in the big five trait model it doesn't mean you're a prosocial and morally upstanding person who supports others, lying to people to appease them in the short term is "agreeable." for example, telling your female friend that she isn't fat or your autistic troon classmate thats doped up on estrogen and turned his cock inside out that he's a woman is "agreeable" because it shows you understand "emotional communication".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:09 PM
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yes yes yes not always because women are adults and should expect to get decked if they act physically aggressive sure but lets not bankroll them on taxpayer dimes just because they got XX instead of XY
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:09 AM
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they mean "where are all the good men That i find hot who are 6 ft tall and look like jason momoa or brad pitt."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:07 AM
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the pickme girl is more successful regardless of her attitude and choices for obvious reasons the simp will not be successful no matter how much he simps man hating radical feminists have a trillion times the options of woman worshipper simps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:04 AM
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...and 40.000$ poorer
/r/MensRights21/11/23 05:54 PM
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yes just like how you'll accidentally find 1000000$ in cash on the pavement if you stop going to work and stop investing money!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:58 AM
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they just dont respect us much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:11 AM
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they cant really debunk it for you they just shame those views and when theyre among themselves they just agree with them in the form of jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:49 AM
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(i am male) highly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:31 AM
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i do and id rather not be a beta bill or an STD collector
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:30 AM
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a minority of people understand nuance and false dichotomies... not enough to swing an election or a subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:12 AM
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chin up you can find lots of comments starting with the words "me", "my", "i" and even "you sound like a"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:11 AM
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Women will be so much safer from the patriarchy once you let violent criminals of their own gender roam freely among them, truly a triumph for gender equality!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/23 08:51 PM
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20
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:46 AM
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one side is net subsidized the other is net taxed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:33 AM
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could be true but how was this data collected? self reports might not be all that useful
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:35 PM
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bro lots of women are pro life it's not men forcing women to stop having abortions on one side and all the women crying on the other, i know it sounds like im describing vampires and unicorns but pro life women do exist in real life and you might just encounter one some day because they are not rare that and rape is something men live by too and im not saying its a trifle when it happens to women but seems to me men are less neurotic about it despite having a similar risk rate for it i think eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:32 PM
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This is the high iq shit i show up for
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:29 PM
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some guys are into sluts no woman is into "losers"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/23 01:55 PM
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yep i never saw a woman that was shamed or made to feel like less of a woman for taking up all the worst behaviors for which men are blamed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/23 12:43 PM
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they are white knights hoiping that a crumb of pussy will fall off the table or they will be rewarded with a girlfriend for defending m'lady.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/23 12:41 PM
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it's what you get when your entire view of society is based on porn videos and you're obsessed with purging them but you think they're documentaries feminists cant tell porn tropes from reality
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/23 12:39 PM
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this is how feminists think if you dont agree with them you are either ignorant, too proud to accept the truth or you want to oppress women (especially if you're pro-life, i'm not pro-life but 50% of women are and feminists ignore that)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/23 10:51 AM
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i feel like this sub should be renamed to Purple Pill Lounge anyways, it's not a debate sub when most of the posters' stances from the mods' point of view are "agrees with me entirely" and "agrees with me but slightly less and with different words."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:43 PM
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yes they still put pressure on the options you would take because of information asymmetry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:16 PM
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a purplepilldebate competing sub where blackpillers were allowed and topics were unrestricted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:09 PM
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i Agree i also refuse to call myself an incel because Technically i had a few opportunities for sex (with a married woman, some other guy's gf and a gay man respectively) but i want to do so because i wish to avoid the image that i have the same ideas as .is users
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:58 PM
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not even just an enemy of women, anyone the speaker dislikes. i guarantee you matt and ben would rather tear their own fingernails out than directly say anything negative about women that runs against the idea that they can do and be anything. being against abortion just means 50% of women agree with them, and they still frame all of their disagreements with feminists from a gynocentric point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:56 PM
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im not sure about that, you should be willing to pitch in (as her equal) even if you don't want to be her second father But frankly if your wife puts "provider" as a condition on her affection for you then my brother in christ that's just a sex worker by any other name
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:53 PM
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it's newspeak for "Man the speaker dislikes"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:48 PM
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the euphemism treadmill would still turn that word into an insult because the point is that people (men and women) think male virgins are losers ultimately the reason incel is used as a slur is because they're virgins. they don't call them "misogynists", no, they have to make it about the men's virginities. they dont want to insult your character, they want to claim that if you're a good enough person women would throw box at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:47 PM
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i agree but sluts are sluts you know, if they hate being described as promiscuous and need constant euphemisms to be made for it then they just gotta accept the word, ive encountered some women that dont mind the word
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:45 PM
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Yes, OP has clearly said that they believe they are highly original and that this post will end their virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:44 PM
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sometimes the word incel is just accurate like sluts, some women simply have a lot of diverse sexual partners = slut, some men want to have sex but cant = incels, i personally think that if a word accurately describes your situation then it's up to you to train yourself to stop getting angry at it. i'd feel a lot more offended if someone directly berated my character than my sexual activities, otherwise i just think they're weaponizing my sexuality to put me down in front of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:39 PM
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The term incel was created by incels. Its not interchangeable with virgin. Incels are defined by their opinions on their celibacy, not their celibacy. the word incel means "i want to get banging and i cant" anything else is tacked on by others to fit their favorite version of the boogeyman. in russia, the boogeyman is baba yaga and lives in a house on chicken legs. in america, the boogeyman is "incel" and lives in a basement and repels women. you can use him to scare children off by telling them…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:32 PM
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beats my childhood kek
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:21 PM
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thats what i meant, you might not be literally sending them over like a drill sergeant into a bar, but you're not just locking them in or throwing them into the fray without any guidance, you help em and you don't vomit bluepill platitudes in their face when they ask you for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:06 PM
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2) someone who doesnt want their kids to end up as social pariahs or sexually frustrated??? i dont get it, you'd teach your son how to ride a bike, you'd teach him how to change the oil in the car, why not help him learn to woo a woman instead of making a fool of himself? i don't mean picking girls up in front of him, i mean coaching him to gain some confidence instead of sending him off with "platitudes". of course, if your son is gay, that's a different ball game.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:00 PM
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i dont want a submissive woman, i want a loyal one women are already extremely submissive to mainstream media
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:37 PM
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for some reason the people who claim to have experience with it seem to understand how the market works and apply general pattern recognition a lot less than those who dont
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:36 PM
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no lol you missed out dont cope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 08:30 PM
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they also intend to ban physical cash as they did in some countries like sweden so that the banks can manipulate your savings and your assets with no restraints
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:01 PM
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i like how the comments are just nitpicking and finding different ways to throw the blame back at the guy in op's example instead of engaging with the underlying topic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:13 PM
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reminder: if someone says "You make me feel unsafe" and you're not threatening them, they're usually trying to make you be unsafe. and if you don't feel threatened yet, you already are and you don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 08:11 PM
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it is quite unusual to see januaryphilosopher using profanity but yes and conversely those "closest to him" can be the problem there are families where parents (yes even mothers) view their sons more negatively for showing negative emotions you could say those kinds of families weaken their sons
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:00 PM
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no you need to have had one to have had one to have had one to have had one to have had one to have had one to have one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:57 AM
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or it means dont spread it for a felon with a swastika tattoo and 3 assault convictions (this is actually a high bar apparently)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:56 AM
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if she has those hobbies then its not boring for me, im ok with an uneventful partner and i dont want a rollercoaster as long as she shows up and delivers on her responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:42 PM
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that's easy, 50-60% of men entering their 40s are r/deadbedrooms material
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:04 PM
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im sure your perspective is way more common than mine at least with people aged 30+ but really yeah i doubt the femcels are "no options, no partners" single, ive heard of a self-labeled "female incel" who wrote an article where she said she had kids and it seemed to me like she was changing the definition of what "cel" means. i know there might be some woman out there that fits the label, but i havent found many women who experience celibacy the way i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:56 PM
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Bluepillers be like: Wow!!! Water done made the freezer cold by turning solid!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:49 PM
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he's right though, if more women did do it with the intent to die they'd commit ronnie mcnutt more often
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:46 PM
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they'd sooner tear your toenails out than redistribute some of women's free gibs from governments and NGOs to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:44 PM
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By your reaction to my post, almost no women would be helpful, as women are less likely to have zero options for just sex if they want just sex. In that case, you really want to be on an exclusively male/cis-male forum, for starters. that might be it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:35 PM
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u/bottleblank thoughts on this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:25 PM
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because they havent internalized it, they say "lol thing is false" but they fail to examine how their entire mental house of cards should collapse from within as a result of acknowledging it, they basically live in constant cognitive dissonance and they are comfortable enough in real life that they can tune the dissonance out. they have enough bread and circuses to turn their brains off with 50 notifications on the 'gram and in texts. kid says 2+2=4, but can't do 2+1+1=4. my working theory and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:10 PM
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i get that and im in the other position where i neither appeal to fuckgirls nor do they appeal to me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:08 PM
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the subtext is "i Had unserious relationships that i preferred when i was single" in the context of "i was in and out of relationships" which distances your perspective from some of the users here and helps them understand the limitations of your advice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:01 PM
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they got free handouts from the government, free scholarships, they get most foreign aid, they get accommodations and artificial jobs (as in, not fueled by supply and demand but by government mandates, ideological takeovers like DEI and red tape) that are ultimately paid out by men and men still want to give them more im gonna be honest i wish i could coordinate that kind of change because women are successful
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:10 PM
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ask betabuxxers how well that works, they got given a pity relationship in exchange for losing their autonomy, house, property, car, and custody of their children and dignity and self respect and all that because they were "hard workers" who can buy gucci bags or emotional tampons for chad's side dish i saw how fast and how eager women are to have sex with a man they truly deem attractive and i'll never be able to unsee that nor will i ever be able to want anything less than that from a woman im…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:06 PM
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not to mock you but do you have a cluster b personality disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:25 PM
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My brother in christ, it is a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:14 PM
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i think those men you mentioned have brainworms but personally i think a female cheater is worse for her own partner because she can paternity fraud while a cheater man can't maternity fraud, he can still paternity fraud the next guy though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:11 PM
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yes and because the patriarchy isn't made to benefit men at women's expense due to this, the theory implodes. but shhhhh don't tell the believers, they need their faith to cope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:06 PM
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Most women will ignore men they find attractive. LOL i was about to reply "she's not playing hard to get, you're just hard to want" before i realized this comment was from the perspective of the woman yeah you're unpredictable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:59 PM
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it's meant to filter you out, autism is considered an undesirable trait This is not a mistake. It was the goal all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:48 AM
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Other than working on yourself in that way, embrace being single. I didn’t feel desperate when I was single, I enjoyed avoiding serious relationships. dont mind me im just repeating this part in quotes so redditors can pay more ATTENTION to the context of your comment and think about the implied subtext
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:45 AM
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you dont it's supposed to filter you out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:42 AM
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$$$
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:32 AM
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If you look at the worst people in history (be it dictators, serial killers, etc), chances are they still had success with women. Were Adolf Hitler and Ted Bundy better people because they had girlfriends? You seem to think that matters for shit to the female sex drive (it does not) I also think that women should be sympathetic to the male experience when it comes to dating. what good does that do lol??? attraction is in the autonomic nervous system, it's not negotiable, you can't argue it into …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:28 AM
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the most important lesson men gotta learn is that your woman will never see you the way you see her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 09:46 PM
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i didn see it therefore it never happens to anyone lol / i did see it therefore it happens everywhere to everyone ever average ppd argument
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:53 PM
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"should" is just a way of saying "i want this i want this i wanna have this" and your wants dont mean much if you cant give something others want in return
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 08:26 AM
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cope even gay men want female approval without seeking sex from them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:14 PM
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most do for a short period of time "...because they dont like what they find there" that remains to be confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:31 AM
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if the users on OLD aren't bots then OLD is real life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:30 AM
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The wife is less well off after marriage therefore (and this is implied but not stated in your comment) getting divorced and having half your assets redistributed to a woman ackshoally makes you magically richer and doesn't impact you negatively!!1!! your net worth goes up by losing assets!!!! ????????????????? can i turn this into a job where i somehow become a millionaire by losing my assets in a series of divorces but magically getting richer every time??????
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:17 AM
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thats uh what a contract is, you either honor it in good faith or you don't take payment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:15 AM
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women decide what a marriage means, not men. they have decided that it's a wealth redistribution scheme where they live in your house for a few years with sex once a year then pass go and collect cash and prizes on their way out. cue slot machine sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:12 AM
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women, media by women, older men, dating advice columns, their sisters and female friends, their schoolteachers, etc... it is not all in men's heads, it is not a paranoid schizophrenic delusion. saying it's only their imaginations is gaslighting but men need to get their egos out of the picture and stop believing they can control women's attraction being a good person isn't insufficient, it's not even necessary to pull a vagene. anybody that says otherwise should be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:06 AM
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hes a sitting duck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:05 AM
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women will identify with a complete stranger woman more strongly than with a male relative you cant force them to accept the male perspective and men see what they want to see so they always try to imagine the best version of a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:01 AM
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well sure because you can just change definitions or make stuff up about redpill (which i do not follow) because bluepillers project anything they dont like from holocaust denial to qanon to repealing age of consent laws onto "red pill", your question will yield answers like a rorschach test and not anything objective as bluepillers like to misdefine everything when it's convenient. i will probably have some bluepillers reading my comment finding a way to accuse me of opposing AoC laws just for …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:51 AM
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they are promiscuous just not for you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:49 AM
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by any chance do you also think that bullies on the school yard must have had bad home lives and that they were bullied before
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:48 AM
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less than 10
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 08:47 AM
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I’m all for burning down the patriarchy until the women I treasure in my life lump me in with all those misogynistic bastards out there who deserve to be taken out (intentionally irony). I can’t imagine ever telling either of them that I don’t car about their feelings because I’d their sex. hard truths speed round: (this will piss you off so skip ahead if you're not ready) -those other guys feel the same way about you and would also throw you under the bus to feel like heroes and get poonani -yo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/23 01:04 PM
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they are vetting if you change the meaning of "vet"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:57 PM
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straight female
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:28 PM
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he was literally himself yes, the floor was in fact made out of floor and water was a room temperature liquid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:40 AM
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i dont get "just be yourself" im always myself, "where 1 = 1" is redundant in SQL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:32 AM
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adjust to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:31 AM
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If they got a man to marry them then they basically “succeeded”. they dont always agree with this and i feel you would not either although yes i agree that is what they claim online
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:06 PM
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a lot of them are dysfunctional in real life and come on here with dubious accounts of their lives to rub salt in men's wounds you can also say that of some redpillers and so-called successful men here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:11 PM
7

it's not broken for you, it's broken for (a large subsection of) men. although i advise you to look at r/TwoXChromosomes as well for more expressions of female grievances
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:50 PM
5

No one said life was fair. many people did, many more continue to do so and none of them are right in that assessment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:47 PM
3

you seem to think they don't when there are examples that you ignored some people seem to have this conflicting perspective that women are both superior to most men because they are doing better in dating but also more victimized than men because they are doing worse in it and those two things cannot both be true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:43 PM
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they come here because this is like a zoo for them. it just so happens many of them are married and it's not necessarily because they have wondrous personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:37 PM
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if tinder existed in 90s i wouldnt be here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:08 PM
1

most women have someone who will support them or volunteer for them regardless of age and marital status most men do not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:50 AM
0

no theyre just saying it doesnt concern those who have access to it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:47 AM
1

"No one ever says X," claimed the person who immediately followed this statement up with X.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:42 PM
1

i agree thats the point you have to block it out and pretend it didnt happen most earlier generations would not have had this problem its a post birth control thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:36 PM
2

Who will do the encouraging and why would they want to do it? most women simply find male virginity undesirable unless the male is already highly desirable even without virginity. i do not want it to be this way but my opinion is not important
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:56 PM
6

it's a radfem her beliefs are fixed fight a brick wall and you will lose
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:54 PM
0

he's married theyre like this when theyre married
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:40 PM
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there’s no safety risk when there’s women around nope just gotta worry about being hurt indirectly (without using physical strength or through other men) or accused
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:39 PM
2

im ok with it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:36 PM
0

i disagree with it in principle. not to mention - what about women who sexually harass guys? utilitarian arguments i can come up with are that the loss of efficiency, increased costs and waits (which will apply to all riders directly or otherwise) will be compensated by lower harassment and lower false accusations if such a reduction does happen. i can see that justification working and i frankly cant argue against it if it's true. but think again: do women pickpocket each other? can they also h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:26 PM
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