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He’s average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:05 PM
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Where do you live? Even the most liberal women I encounter expect the bill to be paid and I live in Toronto
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:58 PM
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There’s no way out of this. As much as I agree, I still pay on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:57 PM
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Of course they can lol. He just has to be extremely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:09 PM
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Let’s be real this is Reddit - no one posting on here has won the genetic lottery lmao. If you aren’t making millions off your looks or have millions of followers on IG, you didn’t win the genetic lottery lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:27 PM
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or Adriana Lima and marko Jaric 🤡. Angelina Jolie also dated Billie Bob who isn’t ugly by any means but isn’t the world most handsome man. I can name hundreds of stunning women celebrities that dated ogres. Celebrities are the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:53 PM
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Women prioritize stability and resources over raw sexual attraction hence why the most beautiful women date the highest status men and why most women usually date men of the same or higher socioeconomic bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 04:46 PM
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This is the minority. Most women with money look to settle with someone who makes the same or more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:39 PM
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“I've seen a fitness influencer come in for a couple of months and sleep with over ten different regulars, some of whom were not single.” Where are these classes located bro? I want to join 🫠 This seems like a stretch. Most super attractive women don’t bang anything hot guy. They are very selective and sleep with guys who have a lot of status or looks or some combination of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:49 PM
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His post refutes your claims. That’s the point here: men will go to much great lengths to bust a but than women. The fact that men are willing to lower their standards much more than women shows the large contrast in sexual desires
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:56 PM
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I think you missed my point. My point is that money does not matter off the bat unless you have so much money that people can see you’re rich. 500k a year is not the same as 10 million a year. One is very comfortable but the other is rich to where you can afford a lifestyle that girls will ignore all your other short comings. And yes I agree if a women looking for long term partners do not care about that as much and instead want a man on their level or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:38 PM
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I work in medical sales. My friend is a partner in a recruiting company.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:16 AM
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My friend makes 500k and drives a g wagon. It has no effect on his dating life. I make 250k+ and it has very little effect on my dating in the short term. I mean I can dress nice and take girls to a nice venue but unless you have enough to where you can buy venues out, it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:49 AM
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You’re obviously right. Anyone in the top 1% of any field will excel significantly more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:33 PM
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Everyone on Reddit is a chad nowadays apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:46 PM
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You can just say it’s not attractive to you - red flag implies that something is inherently morally wrong with the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:31 PM
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Why is watching MMA a red flag lmao. It’s a sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:08 PM
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An 8+ is not just not above normal. They’re way way above the normal. Again, they have 100s of thousands of followers on IG and monetize their looks in some way. Or can model or something along that line. Obese women are in the 1-3 range so they are not “normal”. Globally, most women in the world are not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:18 AM
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Yeah...I do not mean to be rude but I highly doubt that. An 8+ is literally dating attractive male actors or has over 100s of thousands of followers on IG. You posted yourself and your pictures suggest a normal looking women and nothing is wrong with that since we are all normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:42 AM
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Objectively as in an 8+ in which 95% of people would find you attractive and you are proposed money for your looks? I honestly believe that most people here are no where near that because if they were they’d have zero issues getting a partner. Not trying put down any opinions here but the reality is most people here are below average to slightly above at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 07:04 PM
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Lots. Average girls won’t take you seriously because you give player vibes. Even highly attractive women. Obviously plenty will but there will a lot of stereotyping
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:25 PM
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Handsome men don’t have it as easy as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:10 PM
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Average men have a lot of options with below average women. Very few women are married to multi millionaires. This shit is blown way out of proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:09 PM
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You can say the same thing about any human lol. Everyone in theory wants someone highly attractive but settle for what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:00 PM
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How is that almost everyone around you is dating their looks matched? Almost everyone I know is dating someone similar to them - from work to social events to going outside. This shit is a bit overblown man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:01 PM
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Only girls that are into that “lifestyle” will be attracted to this. This usually means very to extremely attractive girls since that are more like it to overly social and party goers but normal decent cute-ish girls won’t be into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:51 PM
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lol why all my friends, co workers and causal friends dating looks matched people? This shit a bit over blown lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:40 PM
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Why are all my friends dating their looks matched then? Most couples I see are looks matched. I don’t know any girls that are dating objectively good looking guys - those guys are just dating attractive girls themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:37 AM
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The majority will if you are conventionally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:46 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:46 PM
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There’s not tons of ugly guys with decent girl friends lol. Remove make up and they are about looks matched. They likely meet through social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:44 PM
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What in the fuck…were you guys rocky at that point? I’m read some of this shit and it’s unbelievable up to the point I think it’s fake lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:43 AM
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Most chads don’t sleep with whales. I have chad friends and they’re very picky. You underestimate their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:20 AM
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Come on lol. Most women are average and date average men. This is black pill porn. Most women haven’t slept with a chad. Most chads date hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:35 PM
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If she made out with him she clearly likes him. She just wanted to join her friends after. It’s more complex than she left which means she didn’t like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:27 PM
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lol “look like art” is that because of make up? All these IG models use tons of filters and make up - I’ve seen plenty in real life and they look nothing like their pictures. Remove make up and men and women have an equal amount of beautiful people
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:10 AM
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Can confirm. Toronto is a hypergamous liberal hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 06:43 PM
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Nope. I live in Toronto, Canada. It’s an extremely competitive dating environment. I’m on hinge mostly and you only get 8 likes a day but I’ve been on for a year or more and have only gotten about 50 likes or so over the last year. Mostly women that are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:37 PM
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Yes my height and weight are imaginable traits…saying you have a decent face is nothing controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:17 PM
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I went on a date with an attractive women last year and she showed me her hinge -500+ matches with a lot of chads. She said “I’m weighing my options”. This is basically the online profile of every attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:07 PM
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Yup. Even at 6 foot 3, 220 lb at 10% body fat I only get predominantly overweight girls that like my profile. I have a lean and decent face. It’s just not a Brad Pitt superchad face so I don’t do well online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:05 PM
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Lol Nonono. Unless you are in the top 0.01% of money (millions of dollars which means renting yachts every weekend in Miami) then money is no where near important as looks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:09 AM
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I’ve been in the party scene before. Most average girls do not do cocaine regularly. Massive selection bias here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:45 PM
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Yeah for party girls. Most girls don’t do cocaine regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:47 PM
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Hardcore party girls love cocaine. Regular girls don’t do cocaine. I had a phase in that scene and it’s literally party girls that do to regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 11:47 PM
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I’m 33 lol same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:29 PM
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There’s no chance she’s in the top 5% of women. She’s an average women in terms of physical attractiveness. Average American women are below average in looks. Go to some countries in Europe and you will rarely see a fat women. Eastern Europe has very few fat women. This girl is average at best slightly above just like the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:17 PM
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Agreed. She’s dead average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:41 PM
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That women in the video is not very beautiful she is very man. Very beautiful is a Victoria secret model. They are both looks matched lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:40 PM
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Objectively handsome men have no issues getting laid or getting LTRs. These are men who get 100+ matches a day on tinder or hinge. So in reality they are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:44 PM
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Go to Eastern Europe. You will literally see below average men with hot girls everywhere and I am not exaggerating one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:29 AM
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It’s a sliding spectrum. You’re using extreme to prove illustrate a point. A 80k hot guy will have more opportunities than a 400k average or below average looking man. Sexual attraction and visceral desire leads to emotions being developed faster than having resources and a high income.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 11:08 AM
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Strongly disagree. Your face is the most important factor to SMV unless you have top-tier status then that will trump all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 10:25 PM
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What a women finds arousing: physical appearance (looks, height, build), emotional connection, dominance What a women finds attractive: money, status, social calibration, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:14 PM
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Yes. My mom and family are stunned. I have a mild sexual dysfunction from an injury but with medication I am fine; I am very socially calibrated, kind, tall, muscular and lean and handsome but dating has been nothing but bad luck. The majority of girls are flakey regardless of their attractiveness. I’ve have plenty of girls tell me I’m too playboy or handsome for them and then others say I’m not their type. I’m 32.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:19 PM
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I personally do not. I am 6 foot 3, 210 lb at like 12% body fat and take care of my body. I would like the women I date to be at least moderately fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 12:30 AM
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