copperhead96 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
54	They don’t trust each other either This is what always confused me lmao. I was exposed to the true nature of men very early as I have 5 older brothers. Not that they were awful to me, but they told me how awful men can be especially when women aren't around. They always taught me to assume the worst in a man at first, never have expectations etc.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/21 09:43 AM
8	There are a lot of different flairs this could've went under, but I settled on this one. This is so sad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 07:48 AM
17	Preach it 👏🏻 I honestly think that you ultimately cannot control how someone treats you. I think women get the blame for everything lmao. Even a man's actions (or inaction). Marriages might last or not. A man can love a woman one minute and then completely leave her the next one. I don't even think that is necessarily time wasted. People are good for what they are. But I am sick and tired of people blaming a woman for a failed marriage/relationship. There isn't any definitive signs to see most of the time. T…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 04:57 AM
17	A great example of how libfem pickmes are dangerous to women. FGM = Female Genital Mutilation. The "girl" that they are discussing is someone like my mother. Who had FGM done to her at 9 years old. It was not a choice. It never is. These girls are held down by multiple people as the procedure is performed. Nobody wants to go through that kind of pain willingly. Dont even get me started on the complications and how painful childbirth was for my mother. I guarantee you if FGM was happening to every girl and not girls in regions such as egypt/sudan/somalia etc, there wouldn't be such gross u…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/21 05:23 AM
58	Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling. At that point why get married? Might as well just be in a common law relationship. He seems legit crazy and fickle.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 07:21 AM
6	He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡 Pretty much just smdh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 08:32 AM
34	He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡 I just don't get why. Like, I think being over 30 has a lot to do with it. She probably doesn't wanna get back into dating. But, that L of marrying a cheater, is way worse than dating over 30. I hate how there is a pressure in women to get married / birth children by mid 30s I feel like it makes women complacent and settle for trash like her fiance yuck.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/21 07:13 AM
41	He cheated and she still got married to him and had his children. Isn't this the same couple, where the guy JUST HAD TO say that he isn't interested in black women and the wife had to educate HIM about how anti black and fucked up it was. He seems to have severe self hate issues. Black men that vocalize their hatred for black women are ALWAYS the most misogynistic, douchiest, shallow, low value men. Ladies, if a man tells you with his actions or words, that he is not interested in his female counterpart: RUN. A man cannot LOVE YOU if he is incapable of loving …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 10:58 AM
1	Help me unpack this post. It rubs me the wrong way but I don't know how to articulate it. Some dude I know posted it, no idea about HVM or LVM in his case. Ah shoot the comment is deleted. Anybody remember what the user stated?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/21 01:26 PM
40	I wish more men would admit this to themselves. This is so true. Women in general are viewed in a racial hierarchy. Whenever those redpill losers talk about SMV etc it is just coded white supremacy language.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 04:16 AM
17	I wish more men would admit this to themselves. This is so true	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 04:07 AM
23	I wish more men would admit this to themselves. Yep, I completely agree with that. Whenever I was around rich folks the microagressions were constant. I am black as well, so not only did they look down on me for not being rich, but they were also extremely racist in their own ways. They treated me like "the help", I mean I was lmao, but to be put into that dehumanizing box was off-putting. But yeah, if someone isn't rich like them, they don't acknowledge their existence as another human, it is something that is difficult to describe but odd a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 04:04 AM
26	I wish more men would admit this to themselves. This is so true. I used to work around lots of rich folks, old money especially. They aren't all happy. Some of them are morally bankrupt. Being poor fucking sucks and it brings a host of other problems. But I think the sweet spot is financial security. The lives of the 1% isn't worth envying at all.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/21 04:00 AM
50	Being in you 20’s should be about self development, your eduction and to lay the foundation for financial independence I think a lot of the sentiment around young adult/ teen hookup culture has to do with hollywood and casting actors in their mid to late 20s to play teenagers. This also leads to sexualization of the youth, and other messed up social ills.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/21 11:15 PM
41	Being in you 20’s should be about self development, your eduction and to lay the foundation for financial independence Ah I love this! I am 24, and while I don't completely have my shit together finance/career wise (waiting for covid to end) as I just graduated, I completely agree with gaining a lot of life experiences. I've been beginning to date again, and now that I have a high set of standards, I find it easy to just cut men off when I get the gut feeling that they are not the one. My friends ask me all the time how I can be so ruthless with it. But honestly, I'm not ruthless, I just spent most of my life al…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/01/21 11:13 PM
249	Which of you saved this girl? Ah growth. We love to see it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/12/20 07:19 AM
13	Ladies, let’s all do our best to teach the next generation of women this. While sexual adultification affects young Black women the most, it definitely occurs to young women of all backgrounds. When I was in highschool/ uni and I would get hit on by older men it disgusted me. Now I am 24 and when I get hit on by older men who think I am 15 it still disgusts me. I guess looking really young is a blessing in weeding out the creepy men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/11/20 04:34 AM
3	internal screaming, forever The low standards for men never ceases to amaze me. Ugh, they are so disgusting. Also I just discovered a waterpik. I am gonna order it, I already floss and brush twice a day but I heard the waterpik is amazing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/20 01:28 AM
5	internal screaming, forever Yeah it just feels so gross. Like I can't even eat or breathe for a long period of time, I need to brush my teeth. Crazy, how people can deal with the smell. Yuck.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/20 01:26 AM
20	Everyone’s on their phones everyone can shoot you a five second text It's just patriarchy lol. Men behave in a duplicitous and cunning way because they can.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 06:26 AM
5	To love & to obey? Nah, sis lmaOoo that moment legit had me in tears. She is one of the best on the show 🤣🤣🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 05:42 AM
0	How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason. Yep that is why a man will never be my "everything" Sorry but, my immediate family and my mother are my everything. Because, I have known them my whole life, and I don't know a life before them. The only people in the future that will be my "everything" is my the children that I birth. Other than that ... No. Sounds harsh but 🤷🏿‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/20 03:44 AM
46	I just removed myself from a childfree group because of scrotes and pickmes and I really need to rant. I find that type of misogyny to be so ... Weird. Like?? Especially considering childbirth is dangerous and some women don't survive it. Why bash a woman for that?? And ofcourse the men always get away with zero accountability. That's patriarchy, only the grown men are saved. Annoying.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/20 02:41 AM
35	This woman knows her stuff Yep my grandma outlived 2 husband's. Her second husband died when she was in her 70s. She refused to get remarried she spent most of her retirement taking care of him and her grandchildren. Even when she knew she was gonna die, she went back to africa to have her last breath. She spent her last moments In life alone, campaigning for an election and doing what she always wanted to do. She was born during WW2, married off at 16 and had my mom at 17, so she wasn't allowed to live her own life. It's…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/20 02:23 AM
61	This is just so sad... I don't feel like i want to date men anymore after being exposed to what they really think... and dealing with horrible men. I just can't take it mentally lol Yep, this is me lol. Funny enough, I frequent this sub not for dating advice but just a community of like minded women lol. With that said, I don't mind being alone. But I have found that society likes to project remarks in women who choose solitude.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/20 02:19 AM
4	I am learning to make myself stronger 👑 I love this! I am definitely going through a painful time right now. I just graduated from college and I experiencing some immense "failure to launch" where I am struggling to look for a job and nothing is going well. This pandemic has changed everything and my employment insurance is almost ending and I legit want to scream. So I did that. I screamed and screamed and cried and just let it ALLLL OUT. I feel a lot better now. What's happening is out of my hands. All I can do is TRY.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 06:17 AM
16	NVM Ex-husband meets new me Yep. My dad literally cheated on my mom and had an extra family (2 kids), that are about 11 years old. They have been separated for 8 years and a couple of months ago, on the phone he said verbatim" your mother destroyed this family" I'm like ..... What? I had to tell him uhm noooooooo that was YOU. Jfc men have zero accountability it's insane.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 06:11 AM
16	Where's The Lie Though? It disgusts me when men share their makeup preferences to women unwarranted. Like .... At times, I have to tell them: u didn't ask your opinion.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 10:56 PM